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~Carmen~
09-22-2022, 10:40 AM
"Under his eye."

Season 5 is SO good!
I'm thinking of having a t-shirt made with "Don't let the bastards get you down" on it. Lol

There are lots of discussion groups on Facebook and Reddit.
I like reading through them, because I've never read the book, so it's good for explaining scenes that I don't quite understand, from people who have read it.
"May The Lord Open"


You shouldn't have said this :) Now you have opened the door to temptation.

Last season was sooooo good.

Praise be to those who resist;D.

izshadow
09-22-2022, 12:31 PM
My food stamps don't hit till Monday and I'm dying. Least all the fur babies have food. Haha, priorities!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-22-2022, 02:33 PM
Remember when we used to refer to covid as The Rona? It's now been around long enough to have trending catchphrases!!

Marina Starr
09-23-2022, 07:39 AM
Made creamy brussel sprout chicken soup. Can't wait to have some in a couple hours when I reach my 24 hour fasting goal.

Esixxx
09-23-2022, 07:45 AM
Praise be to those who resist;D.

I am damned :) I caved last night.

I'll keep my lips sealed until you have binged the season

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-23-2022, 12:21 PM
Made creamy brussel sprout chicken soup. Can't wait to have some in a couple hours when I reach my 24 hour fasting goal.

I have never thought about putting brussel sprouts in a soup before? A few days ago I made a soup with pork loin, a bell pepper, lots of garlic, Vidalia onion, kale and miso broth. When I heat it up I add a tiny bit of spicy Korean garlic chili oil to my bowl. Clears sinuses and all the chakras.

Marina Starr
09-23-2022, 12:37 PM
Try it next time. They're so delicious and very good for you.


I have never thought about putting brussel sprouts in a soup before? A few days ago I made a soup with pork loin, a bell pepper, lots of garlic, Vidalia onion, kale and miso broth. When I heat it up I add a tiny bit of spicy Korean garlic chili oil to my bowl. Clears sinuses and all the chakras.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-23-2022, 01:54 PM
Try it next time. They're so delicious and very good for you.

I love brussel sprouts in many different forms! Braised, roasted and steamed; but for whatever reason putting it in a soup never occurred to me? Once I mentally break it down it's really not that unusual when using other greens.

~Carmen~
09-23-2022, 05:53 PM
I am damned :) I caved last night.

I'll keep my lips sealed until you have binged the season

You'd better keep your lips sealed or I will send Aunt Lydia. ;D

thicclown
09-23-2022, 11:27 PM
my impending divorce lmao

Marina Starr
09-24-2022, 11:52 AM
I love brussel sprouts in many different forms! Braised, roasted and steamed; but for whatever reason putting it in a soup never occurred to me? Once I mentally break it down it's really not that unusual when using other greens.

https://i.ibb.co/N6L0zrJ/11-BCB3-EB-5-A81-43-BD-B24-C-56-F0-CB36482-C.jpg (https://ibb.co/27jzBSC)

TheBrownFox
09-25-2022, 06:46 PM
^You're making my mouth water with that pic!

~Carmen~
09-25-2022, 11:08 PM
^You're making my mouth water with that pic!

^Marina is good at that. She never shares either;D.

Marina Starr
09-26-2022, 06:52 AM
Hurricane "Ian" is coming to Florida this week but I don't know when. Publix has no water left because people panic buy but this morning I was able to buy water at whole foods.

I was hoping we wouldn't get any hurricane so this is fucking bullshit.

~Carmen~
09-27-2022, 06:15 AM
Hurricane "Ian" is coming to Florida this week but I don't know when. Publix has no water left because people panic buy but this morning I was able to buy water at whole foods.

I was hoping we wouldn't get any hurricane so this is fucking bullshit.


Not again. You have been through this countless times since I met you. Praying that it stays far away in the ocean. Stay safe sis!

Marina Starr
09-27-2022, 10:03 AM
Not again. You have been through this countless times since I met you. Praying that it stays far away in the ocean. Stay safe sis!

Thank you, sis!

We actually haven't had a hurricane in a couple years. It's the end of September so I had high hopes we were out of the wood.
Hurricanes can be very emotionally stressful.

What keeps me calm is watching Judge Judy calling people stupid and idiots. She's a treasure!

https://i.ibb.co/KbFjkMq/judge-judy-judging-you.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

Erika_Xstacy
09-28-2022, 10:22 AM
Thank you, sis!

We actually haven't had a hurricane in a couple years. It's the end of September so I had high hopes we were out of the wood.
Hurricanes can be very emotionally stressful.

What keeps me calm is watching Judge Judy calling people stupid and idiots. She's a treasure!

https://i.ibb.co/KbFjkMq/judge-judy-judging-you.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

stay safe sexy.
thinking about you during this storm

Marina Starr
09-28-2022, 11:42 AM
stay safe sexy.
thinking about you during this storm


Thank you, girl! I slept through it, lol. I don't think it even affected us. Now I'm craving Publix fried chicken!

VioletH
09-28-2022, 01:16 PM
In TPA and winds just started picking up here. Lost power for a second but came right back on... I want to cam but am afraid of getting cut off �� Been avoiding Publix the last week over the panic and totally with y'all. All I can think about are chicken tender pub subs!

TheBrownFox
09-28-2022, 02:51 PM
Happy National Son Day!

https://media2.giphy.com/media/3ov9jMhMQ0MlqhxsqY/giphy.gif

~Carmen~
09-30-2022, 05:01 AM
Thank you, sis!

We actually haven't had a hurricane in a couple years. It's the end of September so I had high hopes we were out of the wood.
Hurricanes can be very emotionally stressful.

What keeps me calm is watching Judge Judy calling people stupid and idiots. She's a treasure!

https://i.ibb.co/KbFjkMq/judge-judy-judging-you.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

I'm glad you are okay. It figures that you slept through it with your earplugs. lol

Marina Starr
09-30-2022, 08:41 AM
I just wanted to say I am so grateful my city/town/neighborhood was spared from hurricane Ian because it was a cat 5
and the damage that was done to some parts of Florida that was directly impacted is devastating.

https://i.ibb.co/BLjbhB9/1664481913631.webp (https://ibb.co/0qZT0rx)
https://i.ibb.co/tx9wcg0/a163e57b-307e-43de-b4a8-ea763c466a04-092922-Ian-Aftermath-02.webp (https://ibb.co/CMfpvgj)

NitaBaby
09-30-2022, 10:54 AM
I switched my two youngest daughters to being "car riders" today. They've been having issues with this uglass little boy harassing them on the bus and after two weeks of me complaining to the bus driver, bus driver assistant, principal, and transportation department - I'm over it.

His mother is starting to show signs of taking issue with me as if I'M the one making that fatherless child of hers a menace. But I don't do back-and-forths with bitches. I'll just drive my girls to and from school from now on.

Thankfully, it's not an inconvenience to me in any way. I prefer to drive them. They wanted to ride the bus so bad that I finally let them (and look what happened). So, yeah, that's over.

~Carmen~
09-30-2022, 03:39 PM
I just wanted to say I am so grateful my city/town/neighborhood was spared from hurricane Ian because it was a cat 5
and the damage that was done to some parts of Florida that was directly impacted is devastating.

https://i.ibb.co/BLjbhB9/1664481913631.webp (https://ibb.co/0qZT0rx)
https://i.ibb.co/tx9wcg0/a163e57b-307e-43de-b4a8-ea763c466a04-092922-Ian-Aftermath-02.webp (https://ibb.co/CMfpvgj)

God bless the people this happened to.

Erika_Xstacy
10-03-2022, 03:39 PM
has anyone heard from phatgirldynomite?
shes down the way Ian came in but not sure she was in its path.
its not like her to not post this long on the forum....

Grace108
10-03-2022, 04:47 PM
I am ok in U.K., but considering to dance in US from time to time, to fast up the savings. To have a chance. Time is passing and my year are going up! I started late in fact! Thanks to my DNA I can still make a living and fuel bank account.. but I should start to be more realistic on my planing and I don’t want to be an old looking stripper!

Marina Starr
10-03-2022, 05:04 PM
I hope she's okay. She does seem quiet.


has anyone heard from phatgirldynomite?
shes down the way Ian came in but not sure she was in its path.
its not like her to not post this long on the forum....

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-05-2022, 04:32 AM
has anyone heard from phatgirldynomite?
shes down the way Ian came in but not sure she was in its path.
its not like her to not post this long on the forum....


I hope she's okay. She does seem quiet.

I fine y'all! We didn't get hit at all. Lots of rain that turned parts of the backyard into a swamp. The turtles and the tortoises loved it! Thanks for checking on me. ❤️

Erika_Xstacy
10-05-2022, 11:17 AM
I fine y'all! We didn't get hit at all. Lots of rain that turned parts of the backyard into a swamp. The turtles and the tortoises loved it! Thanks for checking on me. ❤️

you are playing with turtles while im panicking bc you didn't post lol
the news got to me, the death tolls rising, seeing places leveled out etc
I had a feeling you were ok but randomly imagine you sitting in a shelter or in a destroyed home w nowhere to go only bc of the news... i can let my imagination go places it shouldn't go

I have a love hate for hurricanes. love the high i get when the storms are coming...
I hate the destruction it causes but I love how it brings everyone together.
The coming together to help neighbors jerks a tear bc ppl can be such assholes until a natural disaster

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-05-2022, 11:40 AM
I just wanted to say I am so grateful my city/town/neighborhood was spared from hurricane Ian because it was a cat 5
and the damage that was done to some parts of Florida that was directly impacted is devastating.

https://i.ibb.co/BLjbhB9/1664481913631.webp (https://ibb.co/0qZT0rx)
https://i.ibb.co/tx9wcg0/a163e57b-307e-43de-b4a8-ea763c466a04-092922-Ian-Aftermath-02.webp (https://ibb.co/CMfpvgj)

This from Hurricane Andrew in 1992. My house is in this picture. I've been fortunate to not have experienced anything close to that since.

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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-05-2022, 11:45 AM
you are playing with turtles while im panicking bc you didn't post lol
the news got to me, the death tolls rising, seeing places leveled out etc
I had a feeling you were ok but randomly imagine you sitting in a shelter or in a destroyed home w nowhere to go only bc of the news... i can let my imagination go places it shouldn't go

I have a love hate for hurricanes. love the high i get when the storms are coming...
I hate the destruction it causes but I love how it brings everyone together.
The coming together to help neighbors jerks a tear bc ppl can be such assholes until a natural disaster

LMAO Yea it was just another tropical storm for us. I'm on the eastern part of the state. I went through Andrew and that was no joke. We rode it out right there in our home and as a grownup I swore that anything higher than a cat 3, my butt is evacuating. Don't worry about me. ❤️

izshadow
10-05-2022, 09:50 PM
I survived the hurricane. Feels amazing to have water, power, and internet again. My friends further south of me, I feel for them. Luckily they have their lives and even though their homes got a beat down, they can fix them and rebuild. My horse is okay, the barn next door lost its roof but all horses have made it through just fine. My mobile home somehow survived but homes around me, I cried as I walked my mobile home community. It was like what I have only ever seen on tv and it blew me away. I have lived here in Florida for 20 years and never experienced anything like this. I have been lucky where as I have been around hurricanes but never in its path, even Irma went by my home on the west side of the eye (yes I was without power for a week from that hurricane and I did have to evacuate my horses and I was without work for two weeks).... but then I moved more inland 1.5 months ago to a mobile home and I never lived in one before. The home shook to the point I was expecting the straps underneath to break and flip us over, the wind was so loud, so loud and angry, I hid under my blankets holding my dog and just cried while my cats and rabbit took shelter under my bed. I didnt evacuate cause it originally wasn't suppose to come through this county, just come by us. Then it changed. Lesson learned for sure.

Marina Starr
10-07-2022, 06:56 AM
They said Ian is worse than Andrew. I am grateful for cooler weather. Been rocking my boots and feeling whoregeous!


This from Hurricane Andrew in 1992. My house is in this picture. I've been fortunate to not have experienced anything close to that since.

Esixxx
10-07-2022, 07:29 AM
Made this for my lunch meal prep
https://www.delish.com/cooking/menus/recipes/a50768/buddha-bowls-recipe/

It's so good. I can't wait to have it for lunch today

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-08-2022, 12:08 PM
Made this for my lunch meal prep
https://www.delish.com/cooking/menus/recipes/a50768/buddha-bowls-recipe/

It's so good. I can't wait to have it for lunch today

I thinking about doing this for our meal prep next week? But instead make it a Mexican inspired bowl. Pico, black beans, homemade cilantro vinaigrette dressing and roasted chicken.

Esixxx
10-09-2022, 03:34 AM
I thinking about doing this for our meal prep next week? But instead make it a Mexican inspired bowl. Pico, black beans, homemade cilantro vinaigrette dressing and roasted chicken.


That's a damn good idea and sounds really good. And now it has me thinking of different types of cuisine themes I can make it.
I have been struggling with lunch meal ideas recently.

Erika_Xstacy
10-12-2022, 12:36 AM
:) I felt like it was a long time since I paid my moms bills and i was right
a cpl had cut off dates :O
i check her mail monthly and usually good about going through it, paying her bills etc. i know that I got off track when i moved.

its 3am and i hope the gas or water wasnt cut off before i paid them ..... just now. :)

I hate being responsible for other adults

NitaBaby
10-13-2022, 09:50 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend last Saturday. Haven’t been on cam since.

It needed to happen and was long overdue. But we live together and I told him that I’d be okay with him staying until the lease is done - which is the last day of next month, October. I don’t hate the man and he’s never disrespected me (he’s just broke and never fixed it) so I see no point in kicking him out on the street in an unreasonable fashion. I don’t wish homelessness on him. But he most definitely has to go.

I know he has it in his head that he’s going to win me back and that’s annoying. I just want to meld into my new reality of being free and single and that’s going to be hard to do with him still in my face.

But I’m most definitely done. I need to get on cam and start focusing on myself again. I just hate how I’m genuinely….sad? Or down. Kinda mopey.

Like I said, it’s hard to feel relief and like there’s a new beginning ahead of me when you’re around someone who clearly wants to fix the past.


I backslid and took the man back not too long after making this post. Emotions were high AS FUCK and dick was needed. I listened to my feelings instead of my head. Anyway. I corrected that this morning. The lease is up on the 31st and I told him that I still want him to find other arrangements by that date.

I realize now that having a sad, teary-eyed man in my face all day (that I care about) pulls at my heart strings. It's embarrassing because I thought I was a better bitch than that. So as far as he knows, we're together but just going to be living separately. In truth, we're done :). He's not the man for me.

As long as he gets out of the house, I don't care what he thinks. I'll just clarify where we actually stand after he moves out.

bigbum
10-15-2022, 01:35 PM
i tried to do something good and i think i mislead someone and i feel like SHIT ABOUT IT.
long story short the little girl that cleans my house lives alone with her mom and sister . she lives in a dirt hut on the outskirts of town , she is so poor she works 3 jobs and earnings $100 TOTAL a week to support 3 people. she travels 2 hours to come clean my house leaves at 5 am and works another job until 10 at night 6 days a week.
I finally caved and told her what i did for a leaving with camming and how amazing it was.
and told her it could change her life.

i told her it was easy to register and i helped her.
i told her she could use my cam room to get started and id help her change her life before i left town with the money she made in a few weeks with me she could invest in her future.
i would help her.

OMG. turns out she has no bank account, no way to receive mail to her mud hut home, no phone bill ect.

and SM now requires bank account statement even if you dont want to receive pay out to your account.
i have been talking to liz all weekend and the "support" but since liz's mail box has been taken over it has been a disaster.

i had to break the bad news to her that because she has no proof of address she cant cam or even cam from my own sm account with my help. and because i am leaving soon
i wont be able to help her past the next few weeks. and i dont really have much experience on other sites to help her or start over on there.
SM on the weekends support never answers. and without liz accessing her own email account things have changed so much with sm email.
i told her last night about the issues
she started SOBBING. SOBBING . omgg
i feel so stupid.
in turn that made me start crying and i feel so low. like lower than shit.
i wish sm was simple like it was before all the changes, just upload the id card and be on your way to earning money.
i might work harder on the contest this week just to give the girl my whole bonus.
i feel that guilty.

maybe i have a way of taking on other peoples problems but i feel her suffering so deeply.
she is just so kind. uggg. this SUCKS.
ill see if hear from sm by monday.
i shoudl never have opend my big fucking mouth.

camgirl91
10-16-2022, 05:45 AM
I’d be super careful influencing someone to cam and especially offering her your room to do it from - If her mum finds out she might be really mad? You may get into trouble (someone might even think your like coercing her or something even though you only meant well of course). When you say little; how old do you mean?

bigbum
10-16-2022, 11:08 AM
I’d be super careful influencing someone to cam and especially offering her your room to do it from - If her mum finds out she might be really mad? You may get into trouble (someone might even think your like coercing her or something even though you only meant well of course). When you say little; how old do you mean?
she is in her 20s so she isnt that young .
maybe it’s for the best it didn’t work out. i think i am going to pay for her education at beauty school. and buy her a computer for college.
i already bought her clothes new shoes ect .
o think when i dropped her off and saw how she lived i just felt really guilty and opened my mouth when i shouldn’t have . lesson learned .
i can still help her for her future in another way than camming

Cutie101
10-16-2022, 12:21 PM
she is in her 20s so she isnt that young .
maybe it’s for the best it didn’t work out. i think i am going to pay for her education at beauty school. and buy her a computer for college.
i already bought her clothes new shoes ect .
o think when i dropped her off and saw how she lived i just felt really guilty and opened my mouth when i shouldn’t have . lesson learned .
i can still help her for her future in another way than camming

Yes, you should have checked what it needs first and see if she has them. You are exactly like me, damn it. I rush to help before checking if the person can actually be helped, lol. I think it's great to compensate by helping her with the beauty school and a computer, I would have done the same and it's gonna be a great start for her!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-17-2022, 08:25 AM
I'm tired. So very very tired. I don't like when people ask me for help/advice/hustle and life tips only to argue with me. I've been at this for almost 15 years. If you think you know better than me then please go be great and leave me alone. Why are you bothering me? I need to do a better job about protecting my peace and energy.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-17-2022, 08:31 AM
On another note, I'm gonna buy a faux fur for the winter. I found a Cruella DeVille inspired coat that's so obnoxious and over the top that I need to have it asap.

Marina Starr
10-17-2022, 10:36 AM
I'm here for all of it. Buy that damn coat!


On another note, I'm gonna buy a faux fur for the winter. I found a Cruella DeVille inspired coat that's so obnoxious and over the top that I need to have it asap.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-17-2022, 11:47 AM
I'm here for all of it. Buy that damn coat!

I just ordered it! I was gonna wait until black Friday but I'll be up north by that time. Here it is

https://modcloth.com/products/anita-darling-faux-fur-coat-wht

Marina Starr
10-17-2022, 11:59 AM
I just ordered it! I was gonna wait until black Friday but I'll be up north by that time. Here it is

https://modcloth.com/products/anita-darling-faux-fur-coat-wht

I love it! I just got these over the knee boots in black and taupe. They're so comfortable!

https://i.ibb.co/X4LKh46/Screenshot-2022-10-17-2-56-03-PM.png (https://ibb.co/W35Mb37)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-17-2022, 12:04 PM
I love it! I just got these over the knee boots in black and taupe. They're so comfortable!

https://i.ibb.co/X4LKh46/Screenshot-2022-10-17-2-56-03-PM.png (https://ibb.co/W35Mb37)

Yassssss! I love it. I have a pair of black and suede over the knee boots that I can't wait to wear. I got them two summers ago for only $20!!! But unfortunately my thigh chunk was too thick and the zipper wouldn't go all the way up. But now they fit perfectly. I'm now down to 235 lbs!! I just wanna be under 200 and stay there. Almost there.

Marina Starr
10-17-2022, 12:12 PM
I love suede boots. There's no perfect time to wear boots in Florida so rock them when you want, lol.

I lost 10lbs being on keto diet and I love it!


Yassssss! I love it. I have a pair of black and suede over the knee boots that I can't wait to wear. I got them two summers ago for only $20!!! But unfortunately my thigh chunk was too thick and the zipper wouldn't go all the way up. But now they fit perfectly. I'm now down to 235 lbs!! I just wanna be under 200 and stay there. Almost there.

Erika_Xstacy
10-17-2022, 05:41 PM
I bought a macbook pro, 14in :) kinda spoiled myself.
M1pro 14 core 512 gb storage (there was a 500.00 price hike for the 16core/1Tstorage)
I have never owned a mac.. steal my kids to watch netflix

This was my first desktop its old .... 2017. I cant run multiple programs.. its a all in one
its done a good job with its i7 4 core capabilities 5 years strong and prob more to go. Its been very reliable (probably bc i cant move it and rip cords) vs replacing laptops every 1-1.5 years.

The macbook sounds powerful, portable and possibly simple?
I cam on sm and if I split I prefer two different computers, its just easier for me. I upload to A TON of clip sites. I do well uploading to 1-2 sites at a time right now but when I try to do all of that my computer just can't handle it

i started shopping for this in 2020 bc I just couldn't believe my desktop never needed replacing so surely it was bound to die soon..shes still kicking
I really wanted a macbook pro for the past 13 years
it's just so hard to let go of 2k but it will bring more money