View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-15-2016, 02:34 PM
Last night I shattered the top right corner on my galaxy s5. And now my phone beeps like 10 times whenever I have to hit the keypad to accept calls on services like verified and niteflirt. Oh well I guess now I have an excuse to get the latest Galaxy s7.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-15-2016, 02:34 PM
Fuck that I'm setting up a fundraiser. I just remembered I'm a camwhore :D:D:D
Glamourmilf
12-16-2016, 03:00 AM
This guy asks me to hang out with him. I feel anxiety :(
How did it go?:crossfing
miss.a.p1600
12-16-2016, 05:47 AM
^^^^thanks so much for asking. It was okay but I didn't have enough time to catch up because he was 45 min behind schedule so we literally only had 20 min to hangout.
I had to schmooze not only him but his friend and his relative so it was a challenge for me but since I've been a hardcore introvert who prefers one on one so I think I may have brought up topics (out of nervousness) that should have been left unsaid.
I am nervous still cause I want him to ask me out again but I don't know if he will.
Oh and he look totally hot. Like so much better than he did back in high school. Like looks wise he's about an 8.75. What I wouldn't give to see him naked.
Oh and I was kind of bummed he didn't walk me to my car. I don't know if this is a cultural thing or guys just not thinking kind of thing/lazy or only something guys do for their girlfriends???
anonymous camgirl
12-16-2016, 07:08 AM
I am confused.. he asks you to "hang out", brings other people, shows up super late and never walked you to your car? .. sounds like a lot of red flags to me.. Not sure what you want out of this guy.. just making an observation, He doesn't sound like relationship material.
^^^^thanks so much for asking. It was okay but I didn't have enough time to catch up because he was 45 min behind schedule so we literally only had 20 min to hangout.
I had to schmooze not only him but his friend and his relative so it was a challenge for me but since I've been a hardcore introvert who prefers one on one so I think I may have brought up topics (out of nervousness) that should have been left unsaid.
I am nervous still cause I want him to ask me out again but I don't know if he will.
Oh and he look totally hot. Like so much better than he did back in high school. Like looks wise he's about an 8.75. What I wouldn't give to see him naked.
Oh and I was kind of bummed he didn't walk me to my car. I don't know if this is a cultural thing or guys just not thinking kind of thing/lazy or only something guys do for their girlfriends???
miss.a.p1600
12-16-2016, 07:41 AM
^^^true. Never realized then until you put it all together. I guess I didn't have overly high expectations since it was just like a friendly thing not a romantic thing. And then maybe cause he's hot im letting him get away with more.
That last dude I was with said I was too nice and I know that can turn men off just as bad as been too mean, cold, and aloof. So I have to work on communicating my standards when dating men - especially the hot ones.
But yeah. Thanks so much for pointing it out.
Marina Starr
12-16-2016, 07:49 AM
Have you read 'Why Men Love Bitches'? If not, I highly recommend it.
For me when I am uppity with men they always go out of their way to please. Men love challenges and jumping hoops.
They really do love bitches.
That last dude I was with said I was too nice and I know that can turn men off just as bad as been too mean, cold, and aloof. So I have to work on communicating my standards when dating men - especially the hot ones.
CreativeName
12-16-2016, 09:36 AM
I don't know...I agree with Marina that it is good to be a bitch towards men, but if it isn't in your nature it might not work that well for you. I know when I go the opposite way of my personality on some things it just comes off very forced or if it is believable to people it is extremely draining. Being uppity/snobby/bitchy to men comes rather naturally to me in real life (and yet it hurts my money on cam some reason).
Maybe you need to have a certain mindset when seeing these guys? My mindset if I go on dates is that the guy is a piece of shit that wants sex for free or close to nothing. If that doesn't help you to be a bitch with a rotten attitude I really don't know what does!
I personally need help with the being nice to fucking idiots and not having it mentally drain me for a long time afterward.
Adding in that I am extra douchy to hawt guys because they act like they don't even have to do shit to impress me. I am not entitled in real life usually, but around guys I act phenomenally entitled LOL
Marina Starr
12-16-2016, 09:58 AM
I think you are describing fuckboys, LOL! #nofuckboysallowed #antifuckboys
Adding in that I am extra douchy to hawt guys because they act like they don't even have to do shit to impress me. I am not entitled in real life usually, but around guys I act phenomenally entitled LOL
anonymous camgirl
12-16-2016, 10:19 AM
I swear this is the saddest fricken xmas ever for me.. I was so excited to open my homechef box to see a $40 gift card.. woohoo.. probably the only Christmas present I will get this year.. and it says I cannot use it and must give it away.. what a fucking bummer.. I am not making money and not celebrating xmas other than going to get food to eat.. that's it..
miss.a.p1600
12-16-2016, 11:48 AM
Have you read 'Why Men Love Bitches'? If not, I highly recommend it.
For me when I am uppity with men they always go out of their way to please. Men love challenges and jumping hoops.
They really do love bitches.
Just downloaded it.
~Carmen~
12-16-2016, 12:08 PM
Just downloaded it.
Best book ever!
Marina Starr
12-16-2016, 12:28 PM
CONGRATULATIONS! Money well spent. I can't read downloaded books. I have to hold it in my hands and flip through the pages.
The book will not only teach you how to deal with men but also people in general on how to not be a fucking doormat.
Just downloaded it.
anonymous camgirl
12-16-2016, 01:24 PM
I have ALOT of experience with losers...lmao... read that book why men love bitches.. it's great!.. and will save you YEARS of unhappiness from not being able to get a relationship... I started reading it a lil to late.. now I don't want to date anymore..
^^^true. Never realized then until you put it all together. I guess I didn't have overly high expectations since it was just like a friendly thing not a romantic thing. And then maybe cause he's hot im letting him get away with more.
That last dude I was with said I was too nice and I know that can turn men off just as bad as been too mean, cold, and aloof. So I have to work on communicating my standards when dating men - especially the hot ones.
But yeah. Thanks so much for pointing it out.
DonaDiabla
12-16-2016, 02:36 PM
Girl, being uppity is the way to go and you want guys to jump through a ring of fire for you. LOL!:D :)
Have you read 'Why Men Love Bitches'? If not, I highly recommend it.
For me when I am uppity with men they always go out of their way to please. Men love challenges and jumping hoops.
They really do love bitches.
Marina Starr
12-17-2016, 09:55 AM
It is December 17, 2016:
I just want to thank God and the Universe for having my back. I feel so blessed and my heart is filled with gratitude. Gratitude always put me in a happy mood instead of looking for reasons why the world has wronged me.
I lost another 2lbs. I feel better and my waist is smaller.
Having lemon pepper rotisserie chicken, green beans and mashed potatoes for lunch/dinner ;D
victoriavein
12-17-2016, 01:15 PM
I love my family. I'm blessed to have them in my life, but I would really love a week to myself. Just to read, write, take a bath and breathe without anyone talking to me. Gawd
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-17-2016, 02:04 PM
Okay so I got this new phone fundraiser going on and its going pretty good. But maybe I should get an Iphone instead because the new samsungs are exploding in peoples faces. WARNING GRAPHIC VIDEO not blood and guts but still disturbing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTcVzlo8KqY
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-17-2016, 02:05 PM
It is December 17, 2016:
I just want to thank God and the Universe for having my back. I feel so blessed and my heart is filled with gratitude. Gratitude always put me in a happy mood instead of looking for reasons why the world has wronged me.
I lost another 2lbs. I feel better and my waist is smaller.
Having lemon pepper rotisserie chicken, green beans and mashed potatoes for lunch/dinner ;D
mmmm did someone say rotisserie?
Marina Starr
12-17-2016, 02:16 PM
Sure is ;D
http://i68.tinypic.com/3464wno.jpg
mmmm did someone say rotisserie?
anonymous camgirl
12-17-2016, 02:37 PM
SCARY... glad I never buy the latest and greatest stuff..lol.. by the time I can buy it's old and the kinks are worked out haha
Okay so I got this new phone fundraiser going on and its going pretty good. But maybe I should get an Iphone instead because the new samsungs are exploding in peoples faces. WARNING GRAPHIC VIDEO not blood and guts but still disturbing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTcVzlo8KqY
Kaya_x
12-17-2016, 02:41 PM
Wooahhh, thats too much, scary how something like that could even happen!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-17-2016, 02:49 PM
Yea once I get enough I think Im just gonna go for the Galaxy 6, I really dont need the newest one. I was just fine with my Galaxy 5 until I broke it.
persianprincess
12-17-2016, 03:56 PM
Feeling really good about cutting a guy off today that essentially has been nothing but a drain on me emotionally and otherwise - I love when people speak so highly about all that those around them are doing, yet it's a female with no family in this country in a new city who is enabling you to be ok ... not them putting you onto anything new. I don't like seeing people struggle but .... damn.
miss.a.p1600
12-17-2016, 05:06 PM
Can't help but think that's Karma. I believe he was involved in some freaky sex scandal and settled and it was quickly swept under the rug.
Okay so I got this new phone fundraiser going on and its going pretty good. But maybe I should get an Iphone instead because the new samsungs are exploding in peoples faces. WARNING GRAPHIC VIDEO not blood and guts but still disturbing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTcVzlo8KqY
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-17-2016, 05:59 PM
Can't help but think that's Karma. I believe he was involved in some freaky sex scandal and settled and it was quickly swept under the rug.
I had never heard about that until today. A really good friend of mine went on tour in his band. And they said he was the sweetest person. I'm not trying to say he's incapable of doing bad things though.
Susperia
12-17-2016, 07:44 PM
When is this horrible anxiety I have gonna go away. God, I cannot fucking stand this....
Marina Starr
12-18-2016, 07:19 AM
Girl, you are so right. I've always been uppity but I didn't know the word for it until you mentioned it ;D
I hear men say all the time "she's got an attitude" but they always go out of their way to please so they must like it.
I am also uppity toward women who are phony. That means they talked shit about me but NEVER to my face. The shit talking doesn't bother me much because it's nothing I haven't heard before. It's their phoniness that bothers me a whole lot. I have more "respect" for bitches that dislike me to my face because they're keeping it real. #nophonybitchesallowed
Girl, being uppity is the way to go and you want guys to jump through a ring of fire for you. LOL!:D :)
LoraDoll
12-18-2016, 02:04 PM
I opened Streammate, like maybe 3rd time in my life, and seen on the first page, 2 girls, who did things to each other, naked, u know... that trashy shit show style. In the same time, i entered to a lady's room, beautyfull and classy modell in her 30's. No one talked in her room (seen only 1 beggar there) while other trashy-look room was busy. And what s on my mind: I aint knew free chat nudity is allowed on Sm. Maybe its not? However if this business ll go to that direction, I think I do better to set up a "B" plan.
LoraDoll
12-18-2016, 03:58 PM
And another thing:
Guy who pays like 2 times in a year, comes in. I hate him, he s an idiot. (tell me ur number bb, I want u to fall in love with me bb and so on)
so i start the "show" . He says, he dont want me to do anything i dont want, 1 min later he damands like an idiot, that faaaaster haaaaaarder bb, and shit like that.
And I m asking: "I tought my stuff here is be sexy and kinda things, and yours to go faster and harder if u fell like"
WHY AND WHYYY ARE PEOPLE SO FUCKING DUMB IDIOTS.
CreativeName
12-18-2016, 05:22 PM
Honestly it sounds like maybe you need to switch websites or start splitcamming for a few weeks or months and figure out where you like it better. Streamate makes me feel the exact same way and it took me a while to notice where most of my bad mood toward camming was coming from. If you start a new camsite I recommend you give it a few weeks. At first you might hate it but just stick to it long enough to see how it might go- you need to give it time to see how it is in the big picture.
LoraDoll
12-18-2016, 07:10 PM
I dont think they re more clever or gentle, on any other site... wherever u go, to skype , or any site, u have to deal with freeloaders , beggars, idiots, and so on.
Just posted the last thing, coz i really dont understand, where s the logic in that. He s not touching me, not fucking me, it aint matter for him, if i do it slow, or fast, it s just stupid, and fucking urself like a truck, looks like shit anyway, or at least, i think it looks like shit. It s far from being sexy, or whatever.
Not sure, if the last post was for me, anyway. :P :D
CreativeName
12-18-2016, 09:49 PM
That's why I am sick of private based sites I swear I don't feel anything anymore on cam and then they want you to go harder and faster. F that, I agree with you completely. And yeah they turn me off with their requests and such lol!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2016, 10:06 AM
I told a girl on twitter last night that she looked like someone from my middle school. She was like Bitch you don't know me and BLOCKED me so fast. :hyper: I don't know wth I was thinking when I tweeted that? Now I can kinda understand when dudes do it in chatrooms. They're not thinking, or some of them anyways.
miss.a.p1600
12-19-2016, 10:42 AM
Just saw the video. Dang that is slightly disturbing. Makes me never want to hold a mobile device near my face. I could deal with losing a hand or fingers but to lose hearing sight taste have burn scars on my face would mess me up.
All the stress of worrying about a dude and what comes along with a relationship made me think maybe I'm not ready for a commitment right now. Even with this hot guy landing right in front of my face I don't know if I can text him. His last response was one word and maybe I am looking for any easy way out so neither of us has to feel rejected but could possibly restart later if both still single. I don't know. I can't help but think at this current time I should find a temporary mutually beneficial relationship. I can't deal with these men who dont care about women's time yet they expect a woman to look like a top model, do stuff for them, plus give them free sex often.
My time dating that last dude making me slightly neurotic and hoping i don't see that pattern dating men in the future.
*sigh* I was hoping to end my latest celibacy period which has been about 4 months. :( My vagina is pissed at me right now.
Marina Starr
12-19-2016, 11:33 AM
Oh girl, the struggle doesn't have to be real. Hand it over to Jesus and let Him take the wheel. My body belongs to Jesus, no sex. I think I'm asexual.
Just saw the video. Dang that is slightly disturbing. Makes me never want to hold a mobile device near my face. I could deal with losing a hand or fingers but to lose hearing sight taste have burn scars on my face would mess me up.
All the stress of worrying about a dude and what comes along with a relationship made me think maybe I'm not ready for a commitment right now. Even with this hot guy landing right in front of my face I don't know if I can text him. His last response was one word and maybe I am looking for any easy way out so neither of us has to feel rejected but could possibly restart later if both still single. I don't know. I can't help but think at this current time I should find a temporary mutually beneficial relationship. I can't deal with these men who dont care about women's time yet they expect a woman to look like a top model, do stuff for them, plus give them free sex often.
My time dating that last dude making me slightly neurotic and hoping i don't see that pattern dating men in the future.
*sigh* I was hoping to end my latest celibacy period which has been about 4 months. :( My vagina is pissed at me right now.
Magical_Hoohah
12-19-2016, 11:53 AM
My vagina is pissed at me right now.
This made me think of the "Broken Pussy" song from Insecure, and now it's stuck in my head. LOLOL! It should totally be the camgirl/escort end-of-the-night anthem.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2016, 01:38 PM
Ohhhh snap I love Insecure!!! Has anyone gotten turned on o ATLANTA yet? Its the only show I can watch multiple tines and find new stuff. That shit is so accurate and cosmically delightful. They had an invisible car omg
Genoveve
12-19-2016, 05:14 PM
Just saw the video. Dang that is slightly disturbing. Makes me never want to hold a mobile device near my face. I could deal with losing a hand or fingers but to lose hearing sight taste have burn scars on my face would mess me up.
He admitted on social media that the video was fake and part of a project he's working on.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2016, 05:16 PM
He admitted on social media that the video was fake and part of a project he's working on.
Uhm excuse me what did you just say?
http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/joaquin-phoenix-shock-signs.gif
Genoveve
12-19-2016, 05:18 PM
Uhm excuse me what did you just say?
http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/joaquin-phoenix-shock-signs.gif
GURL
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FoEelkgVqgk
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2016, 05:27 PM
Im dyin right now. She made sure to pick the worst pic of CeeLo she could find.HAHAHAAA and then all the clips to tell a story? The internet is amazing.
seicento
12-19-2016, 08:46 PM
I just ordered two tree houses for my cats and I hope they will be here for xmas. Santa has to arrive! LOL #crazycatlady
anonymous camgirl
12-19-2016, 08:53 PM
https://youtu.be/IGYwf7e_cr8
“Many men wanted to lay me down, but few wanted to pick me up.”
~ Eartha Kitt
Chellyinparadise
12-19-2016, 09:45 PM
Feeling extremely blessed right now, and its an amazing feeling. All the struggles ive been through as hard as it was i am finally seeing a light at the end of that long hard dark road.. thankful for how things are turning out..#appreciatelife :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-19-2016, 10:41 PM
Yes, this is a classic. I posted earlier but deleted. So to summarize what a trusted friend said to me years ago about selecting a partner. She said "You decide" thats it. Maybe it was the timing when she said it but I swear it made all the sense in the world. When you are comfortable with who you are and able to entertain yourself in solitude, then they no longer have a say. You Decide. After that you send out the signal when you decide, then let them chase you.
https://youtu.be/IGYwf7e_cr8
“Many men wanted to lay me down, but few wanted to pick me up.”
~ Eartha Kitt
nattyfetish
12-20-2016, 04:08 AM
I am moving. So i barely feel the holydays. I don't have a Christmas tree yet cause i need to pack/unpack LOL. I will have holyday vacation tough because of the actual holydays but also because i need to move everything out. Still, i am excited about my little vacation ? I mean i know i will have tons of stuff to do trough it but still - i can't stop thinking about it while i cam (you know - like when we were in school and in the last week before vacation our minds couldn't think at anything else rather than vacay ? hahaha).
miss.a.p1600
12-20-2016, 04:54 AM
“Many men wanted to lay me down, but few wanted to pick me up.”
~ Eartha Kitt[/QUOTE]
That video must have been before her Boomerang days where she played the role of Lady Eloise days ..... "maaaaarcus I don't have any panties on..."
https://youtu.be/Bfvk4XTQFKY
Marina Starr
12-20-2016, 05:53 AM
I love Eartha Kitt! Any man that only wants to lay me down but won't pick me up then he's a client. If I'm being used, I'm getting paid for it!
Glamourmilf
12-20-2016, 06:45 AM
Now that I'm back on my feet again, every bitch I know is crawling to me, begging for what I have.
New 2 bedroom -- "give me a room to rent."
New job- "give me some of your clients."
New , well, life- "gimme, gimme,gimme."
Back off bitches!!
NONE of them even gave me a floor to sleep on or a crumb to eat when I was homeless.
It's very satisfying to press the block and delete button on my phone.
Everywhere I go, people can smell it. Success. They're throwing phone numbers at me quicker than I can rip them up.
Never could see it before, probably because my nature is one of giving.
Not anymore.
The lessons come hard, but once I learn them, I NEVER forget.
In the words of Scarlet O 'Hara
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