View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
~Carmen~
02-04-2017, 10:21 AM
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I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
I have a friend who acts like that. She would get upset if I or anyone else did not "like" or respond to her facebook posts. She whined and complained constantly and kept me on the phone for hours. She drained my energy so bad that it interfered with my work. She wanted me to go out with her on my busiest work day because it was her day off. I keep her at a distance now.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-04-2017, 10:29 AM
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I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. If you can't honor that, I will block you on all venues. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
FINE!!! I'll just keep my obsession for red trucker hats and ice cream to myself from now on ;)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-04-2017, 10:30 AM
Who's gonna watch the Puppy Bowl tomorrow?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQmKhzPM-bY
Marina Starr
02-04-2017, 10:56 AM
Speaking of red trucker hat, I saw a silver daddy this morning at Publix, I asked him has anyone ever told him he looks so much like Mike Pence, LOL!
FINE!!! I'll just keep my obsession for red trucker hats and ice cream to myself from now on ;)
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2017, 12:19 PM
When it gets to that point people should pay a therapist. (Or petty annoyance thread for free lol) It's one thing to have occasional vent to a trusted friend but going overboard and constantly bringing in heavy baggage can ruin a friendship.
I found this out the hard way when I was younger. I ruined a few relationships when people ask me how's it going - that's not the time to unload. But I told them the truth about my hardships. Low and behold they gossiped behind my back and quit answering my calls.
Never again. Now I know if things get super rough I'd only go to a licensed Therapist first.
http://i66.tinypic.com/14aas5v.jpg
I'm gonna get this off my chest. This is my PSA-Public Slut Announcement:
I wish that people who like to whine would ask me if I'm in the right state of mind for them to whine and complain.
I'm not here to be anyone's therapist. I'm usually a very happy and upbeat person but I have gloomy days because I am human.
I don't need your sad stories to weigh me down.
If you're not happy with things but keep talking about them without doing anything about it then you're just looking for attention. I don't want anyone to message me on here, skype or any social media without first checking if it's okay to do so from now on if you need to vent or share sad stories. I will extend that same desire. If you can't honor that, I will block you on all venues. I am holding people responsible for the energy they bring into my life.
Marina Starr
02-04-2017, 01:42 PM
I get it girl, sometimes when we're going through hardship it's hard to think straight, it's hard to empathize. I am also guilty of that. My point was, if you know people online or in real life who are always happy and upbeat, don't assume that they're not going through something, or they may have a rough day but choosing not to broadcast it. It's important to be mindful.
Now, I will never gossip about your hardships behind your back but I will let you know when it's too much for me or distance myself. I can't deal with the constant 'whoa it's me' or it's always a sad story.
When it gets to that point people should pay a therapist. (Or petty annoyance thread for free lol) It's one thing to have occasional vent to a trusted friend but going overboard and constantly bringing in heavy baggage can ruin a friendship.
I found this out the hard way when I was younger. I ruined a few relationships when people ask me how's it going - that's not the time to unload. But I told them the truth about my hardships. Low and behold they gossiped behind my back and quit answering my calls.
Never again. Now I know if things get super rough I'd only go to a licensed Therapist first.
Magical_Hoohah
02-04-2017, 01:58 PM
Who's gonna watch the Puppy Bowl tomorrow?
I didn't know that was a real thing! It might be fun to run a gold show or something where guys can watch me watching the puppy bowl. Supposedly my delight with cute dogs is highly visible and sometimes entertaining. I squeal and stuff.
I'd probably get a ton of "K9 bb?" requests afterward though. >:(
victoriavein
02-04-2017, 02:14 PM
I think it's time to learn to sew and make my own clothes. I can't stand anything I find in stores and that goes double for kids clothes.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-04-2017, 02:45 PM
I think it's time to learn to sew and make my own clothes. I can't stand anything I find in stores and that goes double for kids clothes.
Ha! I was just about to post something similar. I have a lady near me has an African fabric store and she sews dresses for me and my daughter. I get one every week and she really doesn't charge that much. I just picked one up and had my dog with me. She's gonna make a dashiki for him lmao she fitted him and everything :hyper: :hyper:
Marina Starr
02-04-2017, 02:55 PM
Any man, really but ugly men are often the most vocal. How ironic, lol!
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victoriavein
02-04-2017, 02:56 PM
Ha! I was just about to post something similar. I have a lady near me has an African fabric store and she sews dresses for me and my daughter. I get one every week and she really doesn't charge that much. I just picked one up and had my dog with me. She's gonna make a dashiki for him lmao she fitted him and everything :hyper: :hyper:
That's awesome! I wish I knew a good tailor. Lucky!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-04-2017, 03:01 PM
That's awesome! I wish I knew a good tailor. Lucky!!!
I bet you've got them right around the corner from you. Google your area for fabric stores. All those people who work at them know how to sew. And they have sewing classes too. I don't have the patience to learn.
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2017, 06:09 PM
Any man, really but ugly men are often the most vocal. How ironic, lol!
http://i65.tinypic.com/awlsg.jpg
You can say this again!!! I had one "man" try and body shame me talking about some oh you could stand to lose a little weight. In my head I'm like b*tch do you want a skeleton or do you want a woman? I have 15% body fat and I look 1000 times better than you heaux. I didn't feel like arguing with a loser because I KNOW my body looking good. I don't fall for that body negging shit. That's what insecure weak "men" do to keep a confident woman feeling down about herself.
That trick was sadly disappointed when my pussy denied him access. Hahaha. These dumba$$es better think twice before they open their mouth to body shame.
He was ugly on the inside and out. I believe he was the human personification of the devil.
Marina Starr
02-04-2017, 06:24 PM
I'm sure you look great so you don't even have to justify. As Jane Fonda said 'We're not meant to be perfect, we're meant to be whole'.
I feel it's important to love and embrace your body and not let men tell you what your body should look like. If you're a small girl, FABULOUS. If you're a big girl, FABULOUS. If you're a skinny girl with a hidden thickness, that's FABULOUS too.
No pussy, no cookie for assholes-EVER!
You can say this again!!! I had one "man" try and body shame me talking about some oh you could stand to lose a little weight. In my head I'm like b*tch do you want a skeleton or do you want a woman? I have 15% body fat and I look 1000 times better than you heaux. I didn't feel like arguing with a loser because I KNOW my body looking good. I don't fall for that body negging shit. That's what insecure weak "men" do to keep a confident woman feeling down about herself.
That trick was sadly disappointed when my pussy denied him access. Hahaha. These dumba$$es better think twice before they open their mouth to body shame.
He was ugly on the inside and out. I believe he was the human personification of the devil.
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2017, 06:55 PM
^^^so true.
I'm flabbergasted...gene Simmons FINALLY married Shannon??? They put the pressure on his a$$.
Happy for them though.
CreativeName
02-04-2017, 10:32 PM
Yeah I once had a guy make a particularly horrible comment to me as a creative way of telling me I'm fat yet keeps trying to get laid by me? How fucking stupid do you think I am?? Mind u this is a really fat guy himself-compared to him most people are toothpicks.
Marina Starr
02-05-2017, 07:28 AM
I want to frame this and put it on my front yard.
http://i65.tinypic.com/29e20jm.png
Today I'm thankful for:
Free Starbucks coffee
My health
A roof over my head
Food
My beauty
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-06-2017, 02:16 PM
What a pretty day it is. I hope you guys are out there taking advantage of the sunshine. Its 57degrees here. I'll take it! I'm off to Panera to do some people watching.
Lilly_G34
02-06-2017, 02:49 PM
Today is -21, feels like -28C... I guess thats -18F
I am going home from work and hibernating.
Chellyinparadise
02-06-2017, 02:53 PM
What a pretty day it is. I hope you guys are out there taking advantage of the sunshine. Its 57degrees here. I'll take it! I'm off to Panera to do some people watching.
Its beautiful here today too, i just got back in from going out for awhile what a refreshing break. Hope you had a great time.
anonymous camgirl
02-07-2017, 03:56 PM
I am sad that I cannot even hardly have fun with my sister since she has been visiting for the last 7 days... I have tried to be very accomdating to her as I love her so much like a mother.. she is 11 yrs older than me.. and I treat her like a queen.. the way she deserves to be treated.. she has been terribly abused her whole life and her kids treat her like shit and always in trouble.. ( adult children).. One of them even in prison.. (gasp)... she keeps flying off the handle getting triggered.. as she did the last time she visited.. I fedel so heart broken and at a loss of what to say or do.. I already expressed very clearly she is not expected to do anything around the house or even pay for anything I have planned to do .. so not to worry.. she is on limited disability income and frets about that as well.. I am so depressed.. this is my sister whom I plan on getting a 4 bedroom house to come live with me but I am not even sure if I can deal with that.. .. naturally things would be different.. .it's so upsetting.. I feel so alone as she is the only person I talk to IRL .. when she's not here.. I understand all she has been with it.. but I am shocked at the amount of lil things that are triggering her.
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2017, 04:19 PM
Britney spear 8 year old niece needs prayers. I found myself tearing up when I read this today and I don't evem know these broads personally. But yeah she had an ATV accident and was trapped under water and is in hospital now. I've seen many instances where losing oxygen like that permanently damages the brain so hopefully she'll make it through.
anonymous camgirl
02-07-2017, 04:25 PM
yea that's terrible, I know someone personally who was drowning in a pool when they were like 3 and now as a young adult in their 20's permanently brain damaged.
Britney spear 8 year old niece needs prayers. I found myself tearing up when I read this today and I don't evem know these broads personally. But yeah she had an ATV accident and was trapped under water and is in hospital now. I've seen many instances where losing oxygen like that permanently damages the brain so hopefully she'll make it through.
starburst
02-07-2017, 05:23 PM
as much as i don't want to work, i am going to push myself to put at least 3 hours in. i need to somehow climb out of this burnout stage and get back at it.
ScarletKitten
02-08-2017, 02:07 AM
*googles queer undercut* brb
Okay I've had that before. :) Just never heard it put that way?
Is it something like this? Because it's kinda sexy with long hair.
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Teddy_Bear
02-08-2017, 03:10 AM
My mum's beef stew. It is my reward at the end of this very long 12 hour camathon today I have to sit out as my internet completely died yesterday and did not revive until I was too tired to bother getting online last night.
I don't see my folks nearly as much as I wish I did as my schedule just doesn't allow personal time at the moment so I can't wait to see her and eat her incredible food. Only another 5 hours to grind out...
Mmmm beef stew and banoffee pie for desert, only anotherrrrrr... 5... hourrrrrs to go.
Marina Starr
02-08-2017, 07:38 AM
It's beautiful this week, nice and sunny. Slowly crawling out of seasonal depression.
What I'm grateful for:
Sun
Starbucks coffee
Weight loss total of 25lbs
My beautiful long hair
And most importantly no one has hit me up on Skype to whine or complain. Thank fucking God! #imnotatherapist
persianprincess
02-08-2017, 07:40 AM
No idea what work to do if any while my boobs heal from the operation .. right now one implant is still sitting higher than the other because it hasn't dropped down into the pocket and it's annoying the hell out of me. Though surgeon says it will drop in.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-08-2017, 09:03 AM
In case you needed a reason to smile today....
https://twitter.com/jimmyyryann/status/829148581210624001
Marina Starr
02-08-2017, 11:44 AM
I love it. I love people that are "extra"!
In case you needed a reason to smile today....
https://twitter.com/jimmyyryann/status/829148581210624001
Marina Starr
02-08-2017, 11:56 AM
More reasons to love Madonna
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Glamourmilf
02-08-2017, 12:51 PM
No idea what work to do if any while my boobs heal from the operation .. right now one implant is still sitting higher than the other because it hasn't dropped down into the pocket and it's annoying the hell out of me. Though surgeon says it will drop in.
Just curious. are You going to post pictures? Before, and after?
MadamDragon
02-08-2017, 01:06 PM
I've been camming part-time for just under two years now. I have not gotten ridiculously wealthy but the work's served me well.
I got back from a South Pacific Island vacation last week (two weeks of doing nothing, just sitting on my beachfront shack looking at one of the most gorgeous beaches I'd ever seen, sunny, hot, drinking beer and eating lovely fruits).
To all the new models who are thinking that things will never pick up, I'll say hang in there, be creative and work your thing. I had many weeks at the start where I didn't feel like I was getting anywhere.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-08-2017, 02:27 PM
Today started out so nicely. But now Im ready to cut a bish...
Real talk I was in the middle of typing a rant and rave about how disgusted I am with people sometimes and then I got an email alert letting me know that someone just bought a 30 minute skype show and three videos. People who say that money cant buy happiness are filthy liars. Because I'm now grinning from ear to ear baby.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-08-2017, 02:28 PM
I've been camming part-time for just under two years now. I have not gotten ridiculously wealthy but the work's served me well.
I got back from a South Pacific Island vacation last week (two weeks of doing nothing, just sitting on my beachfront shack looking at one of the most gorgeous beaches I'd ever seen, sunny, hot, drinking beer and eating lovely fruits).
To all the new models who are thinking that things will never pick up, I'll say hang in there, be creative and work your thing. I had many weeks at the start where I didn't feel like I was getting anywhere.
Congrats on your success.
persianprincess
02-08-2017, 02:35 PM
Just curious. are You going to post pictures? Before, and after?
Yeh I will for sure, I went to Dr Revis ... I'll post them as soon as they settle down a bit.
anonymous camgirl
02-08-2017, 04:03 PM
Congrats!.. I am having mine removed pretty soon here.. don't know when, might be a year or 2.. going to back NO implants with a lift and fat transfers more than likely.. I don't like implants anymore. Never really did.
No idea what work to do if any while my boobs heal from the operation .. right now one implant is still sitting higher than the other because it hasn't dropped down into the pocket and it's annoying the hell out of me. Though surgeon says it will drop in.
persianprincess
02-08-2017, 04:11 PM
Yeh I like how mine look but don't like the healing process. Think the lift just added recovery time.
Cutie101
02-08-2017, 04:46 PM
Back to night schedlue... Oh well, at least I tried.
I can't make money at all during day. My earnings dropped at 30% from my average.
But I observed I feel more rested and I can take night shifts easier, so I guess, at ever 5-6 months, I will work 1 month on daytime, so I can sleep the nights and refresh.
Marina Starr
02-08-2017, 07:27 PM
♪♫ At first I was afraid, I was petrified ♪♫𝄞
Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side
But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along
And so you're back... Go on now go ♪♫𝄞
MadamDragon
02-08-2017, 09:40 PM
Congrats on your success.
Cheers! And I would like to thank you and all the other great minds for taking your time in this forum and providing the constant flow ideas and inspiration. Hats off to all you ladies. Keep up the good work and get rich!!! :-*
miss.a.p1600
02-09-2017, 06:42 AM
Sex!!! ........ or the lack thereof
Marina Starr
02-09-2017, 07:19 AM
Girrrlll I have the opposite problem, I want none LOL! I love being celibate so much, stepping into my 4th year!
Is it possible to be a Hoe and not have sex? SURE can.
Sex!!! ........ or the lack thereof
Glamourmilf
02-09-2017, 07:48 AM
So excited that tomorrow night is a full moon, which means I get to leave my crystals outside for a ' moon ' bath!
I always make at least double the $$$$$ when I remember to do it.;D
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-09-2017, 09:34 AM
Welp it looks like that pretty weather I bragged about has come to an end. Flipflops and snow boots all in the same week. Whats it all mean?
Marina Starr
02-09-2017, 09:40 AM
It means cook some comfort food girl! It was sunny here too but today and the next two days will be chilly again.
Welp it looks like that pretty weather I bragged about has come to an end. Flipflops and snow boots all in the same week. Whats it all mean?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-09-2017, 09:49 AM
It means cook some comfort food girl! It was sunny here too but today and the next two days will be chilly again.
HA! You already know! I'm about to lace up my boots and then hit the market. I'm thinking I may cook up some baked mac'n cheese and pot of red chilli pepper stew. I have a bin of this stuff Gochujang, its a paste and I like to throw an entire chicken in a pot with potatoes, celery, onions mushrooms whatever I got really. Something we can heat up for a few days. My favorite part of a snowy day is running around in it for a bit and then coming home to get cuddly.
seashell
02-09-2017, 10:30 AM
I just checked into an airbnb, and right before the owner left, he mentioned that the wifi was down, should be fixed "soon," but with no guarantee of when. I tried to keep a smile on my face, but internally I was freaking the fuck out.
Spent the last several hours trying to figure out how to use a sim card, testing it with Skype, calculating how many Skype shows I could do with it...
Then the internet spontaneously kicked back on. Hallelujah!! :)
Marina Starr
02-09-2017, 07:41 PM
https://s29.postimg.org/kv72qurmf/472280_3660669729181_453848563_o.jpg (https://postimg.org/image/yovffwk7n/)
Glamourmilf
02-10-2017, 01:13 AM
I just checked into an airbnb, and right before the owner left, he mentioned that the wifi was down, should be fixed "soon," but with no guarantee of when. I tried to keep a smile on my face, but internally I was freaking the fuck out.
Spent the last several hours trying to figure out how to use a sim card, testing it with Skype, calculating how many Skype shows I could do with it...
Then the internet spontaneously kicked back on. Hallelujah!! :)
How do You like the airbnb?
You're lucky the internet went back up so quickly.
The one I stayed at didn't have internet for 3 days the first time I stayed there, then for 2 days the second time I stayed there.
I had to tether my phone, and luckily that was a temporary fix.
It was frustrating not to have control of the modem.
That, and having to be concerned that the owner, and other guests might hear me Camming .