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TheBrownFox
05-07-2017, 06:29 PM
"The Most Ridiculous Hollywood Prenups You'll Ever Read"

http://guff.com/the-most-ridiculous-hollywood-prenups-youll-ever-read/5834cd7e0fb1f

TheBrownFox
05-08-2017, 06:15 AM
I just fucked up and accidentally emailed my son's school from my adult industry/camming-related email instead of the primary one. Luckily, I changed the settings a while back to where my Twitter URL isn't in the signature area anymore. So thank goodness about that. But I'm still freaking out, cuz I feel like now they might try to save that e-mail to their contacts or something. Ugh...

Marina Starr
05-08-2017, 06:51 AM
Who is she? https://twitter.com/najahtaa/status/861320374834909185/video/1
http://i67.tinypic.com/5d7b0i.jpg

heavymetalgirl
05-08-2017, 12:26 PM
On my mind today: I've made a decision to leave my abusive family. I'm increasing hours at camming and my vanilla job to save up and move. I cannot possibly take the abuse from my dad anymore, even if he is sick. I was treated like this with my ex, and I'll be damned if I put up with it again. I don't know how I'm going to find a place to live with bad credit (thanks to my ex). Rent in Florida is not exactly cheap, nor is anywhere else in the country really. Sorry for the vent ladies, it's just been heavily on my mind today.

Marina Starr
05-08-2017, 12:32 PM
I'm sorry your family is abusive. I have not spoken to mine in a very long time and I'm happy.

There landlords that will rent to you if you have no evictions or criminal records. They may ask for a bigger deposit but they are out there.
Where there's a will, there's a way. I hope you will get your own place soon.
It's good to let things out, don't be sorry.


On my mind today: I've made a decision to leave my abusive family. I'm increasing hours at camming and my vanilla job to save up and move. I cannot possibly take the abuse from my dad anymore, even if he is sick. I was treated like this with my ex, and I'll be damned if I put up with it again. I don't know how I'm going to find a place to live with bad credit (thanks to my ex). Rent in Florida is not exactly cheap, nor is anywhere else in the country really. Sorry for the vent ladies, it's just been heavily on my mind today.

heavymetalgirl
05-08-2017, 12:55 PM
^Thanks, Marina. I'm definitely going to start looking into an apartment for myself. I don't have any evictions or a criminal record, not much of a rental history though. I don't mind paying more up front and showing a stable work history. It's a lot to go through, but I know it's for the best....better than walking on eggshells every moment of the day.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2017, 12:59 PM
On my mind today: I've made a decision to leave my abusive family. I'm increasing hours at camming and my vanilla job to save up and move. I cannot possibly take the abuse from my dad anymore, even if he is sick. I was treated like this with my ex, and I'll be damned if I put up with it again. I don't know how I'm going to find a place to live with bad credit (thanks to my ex). Rent in Florida is not exactly cheap, nor is anywhere else in the country really. Sorry for the vent ladies, it's just been heavily on my mind today.

Mother in law suits are cheap,converted garages, look for rooms to rent, efficiencies. Those are options if you need to get out quick because those sort of places don't require huge deposits and most of the time utilities are included. This information applies to both South Florida and Central.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2017, 01:02 PM
^Thanks, Marina. I'm definitely going to start looking into an apartment for myself. I don't have any evictions or a criminal record, not much of a rental history though. I don't mind paying more up front and showing a stable work history. It's a lot to go through, but I know it's for the best....better than walking on eggshells every moment of the day.

This sounds horrible. I've been there, I would suggest that you NOT tell them you're moving until you got the money saved up or the day before you go. I don't know how bad the situation is but you don't them to try to control the situation and kick you out with nothing. Just so they can stop your progress. Abusive people do stuff like this I've had it done to me.

Marina Starr
05-08-2017, 01:04 PM
Look on Craigs. I've found all my rentals on there.

^Thanks, Marina. I'm definitely going to start looking into an apartment for myself. I don't have any evictions or a criminal record, not much of a rental history though. I don't mind paying more up front and showing a stable work history. It's a lot to go through, but I know it's for the best....better than walking on eggshells every moment of the day.

~Carmen~
05-08-2017, 01:05 PM
On my mind today: I've made a decision to leave my abusive family. I'm increasing hours at camming and my vanilla job to save up and move. I cannot possibly take the abuse from my dad anymore, even if he is sick. I was treated like this with my ex, and I'll be damned if I put up with it again. I don't know how I'm going to find a place to live with bad credit (thanks to my ex). Rent in Florida is not exactly cheap, nor is anywhere else in the country really. Sorry for the vent ladies, it's just been heavily on my mind today.

It is hard to get out of an abusive situation but I promise that after you do, you will be so happy. You are a strong woman. You can do this!

heavymetalgirl
05-08-2017, 01:06 PM
Thanks, PGD. The situation has been brewing for a while, but today there was an "I've-had-it" moment. If he hates me that much and is always expecting more out of me than I'm able to give, he can hire his own damn caretaker because I'm not doing it anymore.

heavymetalgirl
05-08-2017, 01:08 PM
Thanks ladies! I'll check Craigs and see what I can find. Thanks Carmen for your encouragement!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2017, 01:09 PM
Who is she? https://twitter.com/najahtaa/status/861320374834909185/video/1
http://i67.tinypic.com/5d7b0i.jpg

This is a different little girl from a couple of years ago talking to bankers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwvrGHsjD7g

TheBrownFox
05-09-2017, 06:12 AM
47 degrees this morning. I've had on my winter coat. Dude, it's May 9th.....

JGB2009
05-09-2017, 06:49 AM
Its only Tuesday and I have had enough of this week already. Stress sux!!!!!!!!!!!!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 07:04 AM
Thought I was going to get to sleep in this morning but nope. Didn't happen. "Awww you deserve some down time. Sleep in tomorrow I'll take care of everything." Apparently doing everything doesn't include cleaning up after yourself in the kitchen, nor taking the dog out or feeding him after you DID NOT take him out to use the bathroom.

AuroraJade
05-09-2017, 07:38 AM
From now on I am going to work different. I have limited energy so I am going to use it well. I am going to focus on camming alone. Not so much Twitter, no other eggs except ManyVids and SM. I came to the realization that my energy is limited and all that social media bullshit is making me depressed and deprives me so much while it does not make me that much money.

It feels good to say to yourself: fuck the freeloaders. Fuck the Twitter guys. With their gifs and emojis and hearts. Give me a real man and an exclusive block and I am happy. Way happier then trying to hustle every day to upsell these losers and listening to their whining and bullshit on Twitter and Snap, just log on, and stay online, as many hours per week as possible.

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 07:51 AM
It's wonderful when you become more aware of what's really worth your energy. Twitter, snaps, instagram and these social medials are absolute shit.
The guys on their are NOT worthy!


From now on I am going to work different. I have limited energy so I am going to use it well. I am going to focus on camming alone. Not so much Twitter, no other eggs except ManyVids and SM. I came to the realization that my energy is limited and all that social media bullshit is making me depressed and deprives me so much while it does not make me that much money.

It feels good to say to yourself: fuck the freeloaders. Fuck the Twitter guys. With their gifs and emojis and hearts. Give me a real man and an exclusive block and I am happy. Way happier then trying to hustle every day to upsell these losers and listening to their whining and bullshit on Twitter and Snap, just log on, and stay online, as many hours per week as possible.

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 08:01 AM
I strongly believe you should have no problem finding a landlord that will rent to you with stable work history and clean records.

My previous landlord didn't even do background, credit or job verification. He just liked me and the place was mine.

My current one did background and income verification. A private owned landlord is more willing to work with you. I believe you did have a picture of you as your avatar and you are pretty so that helps. It's proven that people who are attractive do have an advantage so use your charm :)


^Thanks, Marina. I'm definitely going to start looking into an apartment for myself. I don't have any evictions or a criminal record, not much of a rental history though. I don't mind paying more up front and showing a stable work history. It's a lot to go through, but I know it's for the best....better than walking on eggshells every moment of the day.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 08:02 AM
It's wonderful when you become more aware of what's really worth your energy. Twitter, snaps, instagram and these social medials are absolute shit.
The guys on their are NOT worthy!

With all do respect Marina but for me Twitter and Instagram brings in thousands of dollars each month. I think it's great when people can decide what works for them and makes them happy. That's awesome because that's the whole point of being self employed. Doing what works for you on your own terms. However, I woke up this morning with money earned while I was sleeping do to flirting on social media before I went to bed. To me that's not bullshit.

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 08:10 AM
Girl I believe you and major props to you and anyone that can make money from social medias.

I'm just one of those that didn't benefit from it.

With all do respect Marina but for me Twitter and Instagram brings in thousands of dollars each month. I think it's great when people can decide what works for them and makes them happy. That's awesome because that's the whole point of being self employed. Doing what works for you on your own terms. However, I woke up this morning with money earned while I was sleeping do to flirting on social media before I went to bed. To me that's not bullshit.

AuroraJade
05-09-2017, 08:11 AM
It's wonderful when you become more aware of what's really worth your energy. Twitter, snaps, instagram and these social medials are absolute shit.
The guys on their are NOT worthy!

THIS. IS. EXACTLY. WHAT . I. MEAN.
Don't get me wrong, a lot of models make a lot of money using social media channels and more power to them, but that takes a special kind of work ethic and personality. You have to spend hours per day talking to guys in the hope somebody tips/becomes a member/spends $$$. That is NOT for me. Then you are getting into that situation where people are going to spend on you because its you... While I appreciate every dime that guys spend on me and I know it is an unpopular opinion (even in the sex industry, how weird is that) I want those guys to objectify me and spend money because they want to take me pvt/excl/see a show/think I am good looking/like my cam persona. My (real) personality is for my loved ones, that is how I view it. When you use so much social media I get stressed because it feels like they are getting too close to me. I want to keep a distance without them knowing there is a distance. I don't have time for this ' I love you sooooo much' ' you are such an amaaaaaaazing womaaaaan' ' you are soo smart ' ' soo awesome' and I think I can go on and on and we all know what I mean! The quitting social media is helping me keep this distance.

Camming is also not a career for me. for the girls who view it as a career using social media is a smart move. I want to get another job/start another company eventually so then getting out will be as easy as possible too.

The only decent guys on Twitter are often the ones who sign up there because they find you on cam and wanna message you for a Skype show/buy content. At least, for me.

Ive started phasing out Snapchat and Twitter the last month and I am making more and feeling better mentally and to me that is worth a lot.

AuroraJade
05-09-2017, 08:12 AM
With all do respect Marina but for me Twitter and Instagram brings in thousands of dollars each month. I think it's great when people can decide what works for them and makes them happy. That's awesome because that's the whole point of being self employed. Doing what works for you on your own terms. However, I woke up this morning with money earned while I was sleeping do to flirting on social media before I went to bed. To me that's not bullshit.

If it works for you; more power to you and I wish you good luck with it. It is just not my cup of tea :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 08:26 AM
Girl I believe you and major props to you and anyone that can make money from social medias.

I'm just one of those that didn't benefit from it.

It's not for everyone for sure. For starters you have to actually enjoy it somewhat I think in order for it to become a benefit. If you dot, hen I think this is when you start to see all the different ways to use the different platforms in a way that suits you. I use it as though it were a free chat room but I don't have to be on at all times. Also I actually enjoy the interaction with some of these guys. Over the years I've found some great quality out there. I'm not going to argue the point of it because I respect you and your perspective too much for that. I just wanted to point out that for a large number of people in adult and mainstream social is paying the bills.

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 08:34 AM
I did NOT enjoy it, LOL.

We are all individuals with uniquely legit experiences :)

What's for lunch girl? I made chicken cutlets, broccoli, tofu and whole wheat couscous (substitute for rice and healthier for you).


It's not for everyone for sure. For starters you have to actually enjoy it somewhat I think in order for it to become a benefit. If you dot, hen I think this is when you start to see all the different ways to use the different platforms in a way that suits you. I use it as though it were a free chat room but I don't have to be on at all times. Also I actually enjoy the interaction with some of these guys. Over the years I've found some great quality out there. I'm not going to argue the point of it because I respect you and your perspective too much for that. I just wanted to point out that for a large number of people in adult and mainstream social is paying the bills.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 08:46 AM
LMAO you already know what time it is. Nicoise Salad made from every ingredient out of the refrigerator. Except for the BBQ ribs leftover from Sunday. I was almost tempted to throw them on top of the salad. But I decided not to go there :)
http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/nicoise_salad.jpg

whirlerz
05-09-2017, 04:41 PM
Marinaaaahhh!
I went 2 WF today :)
.also, got hair done

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 05:31 PM
You cheated on Trader Hoe's?

Marinaaaahhh!
I went 2 WF today :)
.also, got hair done

whirlerz
05-09-2017, 05:51 PM
Lol.^
I went there yesterday

Marina Starr
05-09-2017, 06:30 PM
If Obama had fired Comey in the middle of the Clinton's investigation...
http://i66.tinypic.com/2bvcrp.jpg

Teddy_Bear
05-09-2017, 07:36 PM
I'm now a redhead and predictably it hasn't altered my earnings one jot. Plus I am sooooo close to paying off all this back rent in one go after this killer week and life is goooooood right now!

Stress has just lifted from my shoulders and unsurprisingly I'm back into my groove of working every day - cash is a huge motivator for me and I want more of it ;)

bbwbrianna
05-09-2017, 08:51 PM
Figuring out how to butter up my landlord so she can let me have a dog. Having a dog would motivate me to get up in the morning since I'm so depressed and have a hard time getting out of bed. Because men and they fucked me over again so I should have known better than to get involved with them beyond cam. A bigger issue is getting a dog to get along with my FAT CAT.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 09:05 PM
Big Black is gone y'all! I remember cracking up watching these fools on MTV. Honestly that's around the time I stopped watching that channel. But this pic kills me every time :)


https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/ff/7e/29/ff7e29cb65ec4fc54380d660f720fba4.jpg

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 09:10 PM
Anyone remember that episode when Meaty ate a chicken bone? Forgive me I'm stoned :O
https://baggybulldogs.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/rob-dyrdek-meaty-3.jpg

Jupiter77
05-09-2017, 09:21 PM
Anyone remember that episode when Meaty ate a chicken bone? Forgive me I'm stoned :O
https://baggybulldogs.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/rob-dyrdek-meaty-3.jpg

I remember that omg :(

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-09-2017, 09:26 PM
HAHA look at the Bobby Light dummy in the background. ^^ I just noticed it. Man I wish that show was on Netflix.

Glamourmilf
05-10-2017, 03:25 AM
Figuring out how to butter up my landlord so she can let me have a dog. Having a dog would motivate me to get up in the morning since I'm so depressed and have a hard time getting out of bed. Because men and they fucked me over again so I should have known better than to get involved with them beyond cam. A bigger issue is getting a dog to get along with my FAT CAT.

You can have a dog anywhere you live IF it's a 'service' dog.
I've done it, so I know it's possible.
Just Google the procedure on how to apply.
I know exactly how you are feeling. I don't have pets now, and have been missing having a dog. It just isn't feasible to have one with my current lifestyle.
A guy I broke my 6 year celbacy with, just broke my ��.
NEVER again!!!

kortneykay
05-10-2017, 11:51 AM
How badly I actually want to do a camathon. They used to be so fun, and you were generally promised a decent amount. Now days, I'm not so sure but I'm going to find out.

I've just been itching to become a workaholic, lately. I think it's just another form I self-abuse. Kind of like when I force myself to stay up until 6am several nights and then crash.

It's like I want to force myself to stay on as long as possible just to test my limits, even if the cashflow is dreadful.

Glamourmilf
05-10-2017, 02:20 PM
48023
So sleepy yesterday and today. Not really sure why, because I slept enough.
Also, a friend of mine called​ to let me know that she and her boyfriend just saw tanks, and heavy artillery being brought into the city via train.
Thanks. That's very comforting to know. As if I'm not stressed enough by what's going on around here.:-\

Marina Starr
05-10-2017, 03:07 PM
Dear USPS,
WHERE is my fucking package?

*******
Tracking shows it was delivered today in mailbox at 2:53pm. I got home at 5:45pm, checked the mail and no package was found. Now I'm thinking maybe they delivered to the wrong address or mailman/woman forgot to ACTUALLY put the package in the mailbox or it will be deliver tomorrow???!!!

~Carmen~
05-11-2017, 03:58 AM
Dear USPS,
WHERE is my fucking package?

*******
Tracking shows it was delivered today in mailbox at 2:53pm. I got home at 5:45pm, checked the mail and no package was found. Now I'm thinking maybe they delivered to the wrong address or mailman/woman forgot to ACTUALLY put the package in the mailbox or it will be deliver tomorrow???!!!

I have had that happen several times. The post office scans them as "delivered" prematurely and it was delivered the next day. I hope it arrives today!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-11-2017, 05:35 AM
Mood

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0SyUgw98tE

Marina Starr
05-13-2017, 12:42 PM
What's on my mind today is Egglant Balls. I may try to make it over the weekend. If it's too much work I'll just use chicken. I don't eat red meat.

Today has been absolutely wonderful...
Just eating and relaxing. No hoeing today. #blessed

Jupiter77
05-13-2017, 12:46 PM
Slept till noon today which is something I never do and I just want to go back to bed.
Or eat a bunch of chicken nuggets I dunno

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-15-2017, 08:20 PM
Will & Grace is coming back to tv. See people dreams do come true.

JaceyLynn
05-15-2017, 08:34 PM
Will & Grace is coming back to tv. See people dreams do come true.

Right :D First prison break, now this lol.

~Carmen~
05-16-2017, 04:21 AM
"I took yesterday off and I'm taking today off. Well deserved!!!"

To explain further...I spent Mother's Day at the ER with my husband. Hence, why I said "well deserved". He's okay now, he just had a really bad UTI.

Marina Starr
05-16-2017, 07:15 AM
THIS!
http://lookpic.com/O/i2/452/qtsy47Bc.gif

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-16-2017, 10:02 AM
Peep the Christian Mingle reference it just made my day

https://twitter.com/joanneprada/status/864320108302348288

Marina Starr
05-16-2017, 10:39 AM
Made Chicken Parmesan. Waiting for it to cool down... My body is ready ;D

http://lookpic.com/O/i2/1950/cP7TnkTr.jpeg