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Teddy_Bear
05-20-2017, 03:23 PM
How time consuming camming can be at times. Yes I am hitting my goals lately and then some but I feel like what's the point of having all this money if I have no life?

I need to cut my hours down and accept £1000 or even $1000 a week is still a very decent wage. It's just I have so much debt I want to get rid of it as soon as physically possible!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-20-2017, 03:31 PM
It's a snickers cake with white chocolate sauce y'all! They serve this at the diner near my house.
http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/chocolate_cake.jpg

imelly21
05-20-2017, 03:40 PM
That is a real piece of cake!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-20-2017, 03:46 PM
That is a real piece of cake!

Yes girl! And it was only $6. This place is known for bomb ass food and reasonable prices. I ordered a meatloaf one night and it fed three people.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-20-2017, 03:47 PM
How time consuming camming can be at times. Yes I am hitting my goals lately and then some but I feel like what's the point of having all this money if I have no life?

I need to cut my hours down and accept £1000 or even $1000 a week is still a very decent wage. It's just I have so much debt I want to get rid of it as soon as physically possible!

Just think about how amazing life will be when you get that debt off your back. Just set a time frame to get it paid and then chill for a bit.

anonymous camgirl
05-20-2017, 03:53 PM
Well I don't know how old you are , but I am 44!.. and I would work my ass off while I was young and save and invest and keep debts low and then by your 40's you can relax and enjoy life... I did work hard my entire life but I kept entertaining the idea of loser men marrying me as they bring to my knees not for a blow job but BROKE! So I ditched men at 38 BROKE and a broken shoulder and worth almost 150k now in 6 yrs.. yes that includes home equity 100k home equity and 50k in cash and investments.. I had barely any 6 yrs ago.. Probably negative equity... and 3 mouths to feed.. so I just made that simple change.. ditched men and set up a budget... and now I am looking to start my real estate investing career, men always got in the way of that all these years.. not even considering men. #celibate

Also, now when I cam.. I can really afford to be #strict and not give a fuck.. I do worry all the time because I am not interested in spending down my hard earned money to pay bills!!.. TBH camming has sucked so much for me since November, not one month since then have I made enough to pay my bills!.. so that worries me.. waiting for those 3 good months to carry the rest of the year.. not to mention I haven't been well all year and frankly taking long breaks in the middle of the day and starting cam late..LOL.. so partly my fault.. My point is I can afford to not be desperate.. that's where cam girls need to be... You can sit back and relax and be happy no matter what when you log off


How time consuming camming can be at times. Yes I am hitting my goals lately and then some but I feel like what's the point of having all this money if I have no life?

I need to cut my hours down and accept £1000 or even $1000 a week is still a very decent wage. It's just I have so much debt I want to get rid of it as soon as physically possible!

Teddy_Bear
05-20-2017, 04:03 PM
Just think about how amazing life will be when you get that debt off your back. Just set a time frame to get it paid and then chill for a bit.

I know I know and I so desperately want it off my back too. My boyfriend tells me the same thing yet in the same breath it's "baby we don't have enough sex anymore" or "are you logging on again?!" He's normally really supportive and he still is but he's feeling neglected I think. I need some balance.

My life does consist of camming I'm not going to lie and any distraction (including him) just aggravates me.

Teddy_Bear
05-20-2017, 04:08 PM
Well I don't know how old you are , but I am 44!.. and I would work my ass off while I was young and save and invest and keep debts low and then by your 40's you can relax and enjoy life... I did work hard my entire life but I kept entertaining the idea of loser men marrying me as they bring to my knees not for a blow job but BROKE! So I ditched men at 38 BROKE and a broken shoulder and worth almost 150k now in 6 yrs.. yes that includes home equity 100k home equity and 50k in cash and investments.. I had barely any 6 yrs ago.. Probably negative equity... and 3 mouths to feed.. so I just made that simple change.. ditched men and set up a budget... and now I am looking to start my real estate investing career, men always got in the way of that all these years.. not even considering men. #celibate

Also, now when I cam.. I can really afford to be #strict and not give a fuck.. I do worry all the time because I am not interested in spending down my hard earned money to pay bills!!.. TBH camming has sucked so much for me since November, not one month since then have I made enough to pay my bills!.. so that worries me.. waiting for those 3 good months to carry the rest of the year.. not to mention I haven't been well all year and frankly taking long breaks in the middle of the day and starting cam late..LOL.. so partly my fault.. My point is I can afford to not be desperate.. that's where cam girls need to be... You can sit back and relax and be happy no matter what when you log off

I've followed your story while lurking (not to sound creepy) for a number of years on the forum and I'm so glad to see that you are finally getting where you want to be bb :D

My goal is to be retired and living off passive income by the time I turn 40 and I am 28 now so plenty of time left yet.

anonymous camgirl
05-20-2017, 04:10 PM
Good, good.. Well glad you are following my story to serve as some inspiration and that's the only reason why I get down and dirty and so personal.. Well didn't know you were in a relationship.. maybe perhaps he needs to pick up the pace more?..lol... And you are only 28! but it goes by in a blink of an eye! especially on CAM.. this is my 15th year on cam.


I've followed your story while lurking (not to sound creepy) for a number of years on the forum and I'm so glad to see that you are finally getting where you want to be bb :D

My goal is to be retired and living off passive income by the time I turn 40 and I am 28 now so plenty of time left yet.

bbwbrianna
05-20-2017, 07:16 PM
Today is asshole day. I got called a fat fucking cunt and was told I was broke and should go kill myself because I didn't want to show my tits for free. What is wrong with these guys? I can't count the number of times I've been insulted today. This guy couldn't afford 5g and I'm the broke one. LMFAO

~Carmen~
05-21-2017, 03:38 AM
UPS said "Out for delivery" yesterday and still no microphone! I'm going to have to call Best Buy today.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-21-2017, 04:39 AM
Good Morning. Day 2 of no fuks given is effect
http://phoozer.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/morning-meme-funny.jpg

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-21-2017, 04:41 AM
UPS said "Out for delivery" yesterday and still no microphone! I'm going to have to call Best Buy today.

They deliver on Sundays? Ive never ordered anything from Best Buy I don't believe? I stick to Amazon prime.

~Carmen~
05-21-2017, 05:53 AM
They deliver on Sundays? Ive never ordered anything from Best Buy I don't believe? I stick to Amazon prime.

No, this was Saturday. I did not realize that they deliver on Saturdays but apparently they do because I had also ordered a monitor, which defaulted to my husband's address for some reason and it arrived yesterday.

This order of 2 items has been a pain. Originally, their website said that they had the microphone in stock so I drove to pick it up. It was not in stock. Then I found out that (on this same order), my monitor was shipping to my old house (my husband's house).

I thought I was going to get my microphone on Saturday but apparently my apartment number was not on the shipping label. It's a mess! I think I will stick with Prime from now on too!

Glamourmilf
05-21-2017, 07:54 AM
Glam.....I like the last one :)


I like that last one too, Glam.


I kinda thought the last one sounded a little slut shame-y. Not that I think that's your intention, but it could be misinterpreted as telling other ladies to keep their legs closed to avoid heartbreak. I'd like it better if it said something like "Hearts rarely get broken when dicks stay in pants." Or better yet, "My heart rarely gets broken with celibacy... just yours!"

I like the "Keep Calm" and the "Barbie" ones.


I thought these were funny, some more to consider maybe @glam?

https://imgur.com/RYonCyI.jpg

https://imgur.com/yHBRAFc.jpg

https://imgur.com/FGDaffO.jpg

Thank You so much ladies!
I now see where the 3rd one could come off as slut shaming, so even though I like it too, I'm going to pass.
I live in an ultra bougie, and conservative community, so I'm just not sure.
It's either the Barbie quote, or the one Hyori suggested with that cute brunette and the funny saying.
* I wish I had the guts to wear this one...
48088

~Carmen~
05-21-2017, 10:00 AM
Well I'll be darned! I just talked to Best Buy and they told me my package will be here today. On Sunday! They are sending me a $15 gift card for the inconvenience too.

maddiebabe
05-21-2017, 10:57 AM
Do you all ever struggle with shows after you have done like a lot earlier? Also when guys don't give me much feedback I also struggle. Any tips for those?

I just feel so awkward when they don't say anything or very little during the show.

Marina Starr
05-21-2017, 10:59 AM
I hope your mic arrives today. It totally sucks when things don't arrive as they supposed to.


Well I'll be darned! I just talked to Best Buy and they told me my package will be here today. On Sunday! They are sending me a $15 gift card for the inconvenience too.

TheBrownFox
05-21-2017, 06:17 PM
I thought I was going to get my microphone on Saturday but apparently my apartment number was not on the shipping label. It's a mess! I think I will stick with Prime from now on too!

This is exactly why I'm afraid to order things from Amazon, etc. now...I'm in an apartment building now. I've already gotten someone's package dropped in front of my door, and I had to walk over to the next apartment building, and walk up all those steps to the top floor to put this person's package in front of their door. I know postal workers are trying to move fast to get shit done, but I really wish they'd double-check...triple-check address numbers before dropping stuff off in front of people's doors.

TheBrownFox
05-21-2017, 08:58 PM
I just saw a SM model place a "condom" (balloon) over her squirting dildo, and when she went on a quick bathroom break, guys were tipping to made the dildo squirt (milk, I guess). With each tip, the dildo would squirt milk, AND the balloon would inflate more, and you'd hear this creepy laughter sound effects. HAHA. I thought that shit was hilarious and very interesting!

SimoneGray
05-22-2017, 06:28 AM
Never take good mental health for granted, ever. Its one of the most precious things in the world.

Marina Starr
05-22-2017, 06:49 AM
THIS!
http://i63.tinypic.com/289y4nb.jpg

Never take good mental health for granted, ever. Its one of the most precious things in the world.

~Carmen~
05-22-2017, 01:26 PM
I am so happy!! My apartment manager called and told me I had a package delivered. I got my Yeti :) :) I love it!

Teddy_Bear
05-22-2017, 03:21 PM
Cutting my long 12 hour shift (7PM-7AM GMT with one 30 min break) down to just 9 hours meant I made the same amount as I have been lately in less time than it's been taking me. More focussed hustling across a shorter period seems to be the answer to the camming/life balance I'm looking for, let's see how the rest of the week turns out.

I got to sleep longer and didn't have to rush around to get on for my second shift earlier, the result... I'm refreshed, fed and watered and ready to kill it again in a couple of hours after I've showered and beautified myself. Even the freeloaders can't bring me down today :D

maddiebabe
05-22-2017, 09:05 PM
Cutting my long 12 hour shift (7PM-7AM GMT with one 30 min break) down to just 9 hours meant I made the same amount as I have been lately in less time than it's been taking me. More focussed hustling across a shorter period seems to be the answer to the camming/life balance I'm looking for, let's see how the rest of the week turns out.

I got to sleep longer and didn't have to rush around to get on for my second shift earlier, the result... I'm refreshed, fed and watered and ready to kill it again in a couple of hours after I've showered and beautified myself. Even the freeloaders can't bring me down today :D

I admire your work ethic. I did 12s no problem at my last job but with camming if I did 12s or even 9s I'd go around killing random men in real life LOL

TheBrownFox
05-22-2017, 09:22 PM
http://www.koit.com/blogs/marrying-yourself-latest-trend-weddings

Bishhh, I'm gonna marry MYSELF this summer! :P A summertime wedding outdoors, and spend my honeymoon at a place like Six Flags riding on rollercoasters all day long...then later stuff my face with foods/desserts, and chill in my jacuzzi suite.

It'd certainly be a great excuse to take off work for a week. "I'm getting married, and then going on my honeymoon!" LMAO.

Teddy_Bear
05-23-2017, 12:24 AM
HOW do you 9 hour shifts?? I would love to do 8 hours every day but 5 seems to be my absolute max. I feel like I can't win too because if it's busy I get exhausted quickly and if it's slow I get annoyed quickly. And unfortunately it's rarely a steady stream, it usually ends up being really busy or dead.


I admire your work ethic. I did 12s no problem at my last job but with camming if I did 12s or even 9s I'd go around killing random men in real life LOL

I ignore my room, basically. I read all the forums I'm either a member or a lurker on for something to do or play online games. But I keep my chatroom(s) in view and respond to anyone normal that initiates contact or sends a 'buying signal' my way i.e. 'excl?' or 'how much for tits?' etc. It saves my sanity and I can sit there for up to 12 straight hours without losing my mind. I earn more if I ignore them all than when I try to be 'bubbly' if they want the GFE then they can pay for it, regulars too I wait for them to say Hi first. This tactic doesn't work for everyone and it certainly isn't what I would suggest for a token site (I don't work these) but it keeps my earnings where I want them every day consistently and that is my biggest motivator - I log off once I've made my goal, if that is at hour 2 then so be it and if it's hour 12 that's fine too. Depending on if I'm feeling 'greedy' a certain day I sit out the whole shift and try and double my earnings as well.

I also don't have any chronic or otherwise illnesses (touch wood) like I know a lot of other ladies on here do, or other commitments, so I can just sit there and sit there until the money comes, which is why I charge as high as possible, I am happy to wait as long as it takes (re: above 2hrs or 12hrs) for that 'hero' to save my shift and he ALWAYS turns up eventually. I am very lucky in a lot of ways and the only time I don't reach my goals if when I slack off. Period, end of story.

Marina Starr
05-23-2017, 05:20 AM
Teddy_Bear,
I could do 12 hours but not in one shift. I have to break them up to re-energize.
Now whenever I want to log off, I'll think of you and stay on ;D

hyori
05-23-2017, 05:37 AM
Cutting my long 12 hour shift (7PM-7AM GMT with one 30 min break) down to just 9 hours meant I made the same amount as I have been lately in less time than it's been taking me. More focussed hustling across a shorter period seems to be the answer to the camming/life balance I'm looking for, let's see how the rest of the week turns out.

I got to sleep longer and didn't have to rush around to get on for my second shift earlier, the result... I'm refreshed, fed and watered and ready to kill it again in a couple of hours after I've showered and beautified myself. Even the freeloaders can't bring me down today :D

A couple of years ago doing this would have been murder to earnings, plus a lot of us would have encouraged more interaction with the customers but, these days it is almost imperative to save your energy for longer shifts. Token sites are no different. You'll see countless rooms with girls who are patiently waiting even top models. Don't feel guilty for ignoring the customers it is now the norm. Fuckers need to pay for us to even make eye contact with the camera lens because they get so much for free.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-23-2017, 06:18 AM
If you're on instagram please report this account www.instagram.com/lovelittlegirl1 Its a pedo account

Glamourmilf
05-23-2017, 06:36 AM
http://www.koit.com/blogs/marrying-yourself-latest-trend-weddings

Bishhh, I'm gonna marry MYSELF this summer! :P A summertime wedding outdoors, and spend my honeymoon at a place like Six Flags riding on rollercoasters all day long...then later stuff my face with foods/desserts, and chill in my jacuzzi suite.

It'd certainly be a great excuse to take off work for a week. "I'm getting married, and then going on my honeymoon!" LMAO.

Just let me know where you're registered, so I can send you the proper gift.:D

I'm loving this idea so hard right now! Especially since I have just taken my vow of celibacy.
My dream honeymoon would be to stay at a 5 star hotel for a week, and order room service. Go to the hotel spa, and laying poolside.
No camming during that week.
Aaah!

Marina Starr
05-23-2017, 10:39 AM
I need this!
http://i67.tinypic.com/2cscj87.jpg

caramelcraze
05-23-2017, 11:54 AM
I hate cramps. I'll go months at a time without so much as needing aspirin, and then get thrown a period that makes me want to dig my uterus out with a rusty spoon. >:(

Teddy_Bear
05-23-2017, 01:18 PM
@Genoveve I did say it doesn't work for everyone and some people just hit 'the wall' where they physically can't continue. I'm lucky enough that my 'wall' is a lot further into my shift than others that's all.

@Marina Thank you bb and I hope I've encouraged you to keep pushing even when you think the day is a write off.

@Hyori I've always ignored them and not shown my face for this very reason if they want my attention they know what they have to do in my room. I have no shame or regrets ;D

Perfect example yesterday I was three hours into my shift with less than $30 and I wanted to scream, I nearly rage quit. I stuck it out for those 9 hours and doubled my goal. That's why I stay the fuck on. Do I wish I could earn the same amount in less time? Hell yeah! But as long as my weekly goal is met consistently I don't care how many hours it takes me to get there 8)

TheBrownFox
05-23-2017, 08:11 PM
I hate cramps. I'll go months at a time without so much as needing aspirin, and then get thrown a period that makes me want to dig my uterus out with a rusty spoon. >:(

I've been on my period since Saturday, I think. I always hate it when a guy decides to say "Spread ass cheeks, bb" during THIS time, because I'm always afraid it'll get messy. Lmao.

whirlerz
05-23-2017, 08:26 PM
New Egg, for some reason, they had some numbers that didn't belong on my account, & my premier membership didn't go through..
They were supposed to email me, now more$ taken out, they're closed now.
Ugh a give a bitch some notice, eh?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-24-2017, 05:44 AM
Good Morning


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xy7P_5xSs7Q

Marina Starr
05-24-2017, 06:24 AM
I'm gonna rock my FAVORITE shirt today. I would so wear it everyday. #dontbotherme

http://i63.tinypic.com/2lx9zzq.jpg

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-24-2017, 06:35 AM
I'm gonna rock my FAVORITE shirt today. I would so wear it everyday. #dontbotherme

http://i63.tinypic.com/2lx9zzq.jpg

I should get one of those for the dogpark. Every time I go I try to read a book in my favorite spot, and someone always bothers me!!! Reading a book and having earbuds in are like the universal symbols for leave me alone. My dog snarls at people when they approach us at the park. We have a little spot that we post up at so I think by now he considers it his domain. It's hilarious.

anonymous camgirl
05-24-2017, 07:42 AM
I am trying this sitting in silence thing.. and so far made $41 my first hour.. not talking.. not talking to myself.. barely interaction.. it's either a fluke or it's working.... lmao../.. I was on cam almost 10 hours yesterday interacting with these fools and only made $88!... plus I am tired from not getting enough sleep spending way to long on cam .


Cutting my long 12 hour shift (7PM-7AM GMT with one 30 min break) down to just 9 hours meant I made the same amount as I have been lately in less time than it's been taking me. More focussed hustling across a shorter period seems to be the answer to the camming/life balance I'm looking for, let's see how the rest of the week turns out.

I got to sleep longer and didn't have to rush around to get on for my second shift earlier, the result... I'm refreshed, fed and watered and ready to kill it again in a couple of hours after I've showered and beautified myself. Even the freeloaders can't bring me down today :D

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-24-2017, 08:00 AM
Speaking of dogs...I just did a show that was interrupted by FedEx. I told the guy give me one sec I have to sign for this. When I come back my dog is on the bed in my spot licking his butt. I felt so bad I finished the show but he's getting a big discount on the next one.

Magical_Hoohah
05-24-2017, 04:06 PM
Speaking of dogs...I just did a show that was interrupted by FedEx. I told the guy give me one sec I have to sign for this. When I come back my dog is on the bed in my spot licking his butt. I felt so bad I finished the show but he's getting a big discount on the next one.
LMAO!!

Every now and then I'll be in the middle of dildoing myself, then suddenly pause and go "No! No! Go away! You can't come here! Go back to your own bed!" Some dudes are like "WTF?! Are you talking to me? I can't cum... where?" But you can tell which guys love dogs, because they're like "Aww, your pup wants to cuddle!" Also, pet owners don't usually lose wood when the dog wanders over during sexy time. They're used to shooing animals away while fucking. #multitasking

Marina Starr
05-24-2017, 04:48 PM
"Bigotry is rarely as simple as we’d like to believe."

GREAT read:
http://www.newnownext.com/why-straight-men-kill-the-trans-women-they-love/05/2017/?utm=share_twitter

anonymous camgirl
05-24-2017, 05:29 PM
Yea it was nice and peaceful, no bullshit.. not even a troll hardly... just a few.. and I actually made a livable wage.. I think i'll do it again tomorrow...lol


Welcome to the ' Secret of my Success.' lol!
I've mentioned this somewhere on here, but interacting with these fools, halts my money.
So does music.
Not sure why. Only know it has allowed me the luxury of only having to be on cam a couple of hours, a few days a week.
Best of luck. Glad it's working for you.:crossfing
48111
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Glamourmilf
05-24-2017, 08:30 PM
Yea it was nice and peaceful, no bullshit.. not even a troll hardly... just a few.. and I actually made a livable wage.. I think i'll do it again tomorrow...lol
Bravo!!
You go!!:headbange:meditate:

maddiebabe
05-25-2017, 09:55 AM
Should I be ashamed of how hermitly I have become lately and the fact I am really enjoying it :) ?

Love your pic glam I just found a link to that on twitter a lil while before.

Glamourmilf
05-25-2017, 10:00 AM
Should I be ashamed of how hermitly I have become lately and the fact I am really enjoying it :) ?

Love your pic glam I just found a link to that on twitter a lil while before.

Thank You. He's an amazing Japenese artist that I just discovered a couple of days ago.
It dawned on me, that that's probably how most men ( Asian or even Caucasians) see me. They always give me the side look, but never direct.
#TooMuchWomanForThem. Lol!

maddiebabe
05-25-2017, 10:06 AM
You know what? That makes total sense. I get a lot of that too from white boys/asian boys as well.

Marina Starr
05-25-2017, 11:30 AM
Is this shit FOR REAL?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BUhnILRAK9M/?taken-by=lovebscott&hl=en

http://i64.tinypic.com/2duwepk.jpg

~Carmen~
05-25-2017, 11:38 AM
Is this shit FOR REAL?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BUhnILRAK9M/?taken-by=lovebscott&hl=en

http://i64.tinypic.com/2duwepk.jpg

Haha yesss the truth comes out:rotfl: