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thatgingercamgirl
12-18-2017, 05:42 PM
My house smells like Christmas. I ordered candels from amazon for a really low price. Its hard to explain but it smells like Barnes & Nobel bookstore in here. That use to be my go to spot especially during the holidays. Does anyone even hang out at book stores anymore?
I'm really late to this thread, but can I ask for a link to these candles? I need my house to smell like B & N!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-18-2017, 06:22 PM
I'm really late to this thread, but can I ask for a link to these candles? I need my house to smell like B & N!
Its the Enchanted Library Candel by formandflux. That one is my favorite. But now its no longer on Amazon and etsy is the only spot.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/213512715/enchanted-library-jam-jar-candle?source=aw&utm_source=affiliate_window&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=us_location_buyer&awc=6220_1513645459_74e49b315f123373123b928c8d96df 66&utm_content=78888
It smells like coffee and leather or maybe wood? Its a really nice smell and I want to order more as a gift but Ive never ordered anything on etsy. So I'm debating. I like the guarantee that you get with amazon.
I got this one too. It smells like a spiced tea mixed with wood.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0040QUSL6/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1513646383&sr=8-3&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=tea+scented+candel&dpPl=1&dpID=415B%2Bqs8oCL&ref=plSrch
whirlerz
12-18-2017, 06:29 PM
Luv candles! I like clean, fresh scents. :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-18-2017, 07:59 PM
Luv candles! I like clean, fresh scents. :)
Target has a nicer candel selection these days. Check them out. They even have a :"man'candels", they aren't too fluffy and come in darker colors. And quite a few of them smell almost like books. However the expensive Target candels tend to smell super heady. If that makes sense.
DancesWithSloths
12-19-2017, 07:29 AM
I knew it. 5 days till my official winter holiday starts, and I'm down with another stonking cold.
Why could my immune system not wait until January, dammit?
TheBrownFox
12-19-2017, 09:21 AM
This guy just sent me a picture of a Gucci bag and asked if I wanted it. I dont even like purses but whatever, if you want to give me something fuck yeah. So then he said that he wanted me to send him a video first, I explained I needed payment before the video and I dont take gifts as payment, it went on forever, a massive waste of time.
What REALLY pisses me off though is he thinks he can just wave a shiny new bag in front of a girls face and she'll send him whatever he wants? I'm not a fucking horse, you cant wave a carrot in front of my face and expect me to do whatever you want. I hate this attitude of "oh she gets naked online, she must be an idiot" or "girls like expensive bags, they'll be willing to do anything to maybe get one". They think we're so gullible, it's frustrating. Usually I block time wasters and move on but this one just made so mad I just had to vent about it >:(
What a jackass. Lol. This is our job. Ain’t no damn purse gonna pay the rent. Haha.
Also, I hate when men talk about buying you a gift, but the gift is always something you’re not interested in. I don’t give a damn about jewelry and purses. I want money/gift cards. Like Biggie said...GIMMIE DA LOOT! GIMMIE DA LOOT!
seashell
12-19-2017, 01:32 PM
I've been wearing knee socks all week so I don't have to shave my legs :P
hyori
12-19-2017, 01:46 PM
I've been wearing knee socks all week so I don't have to shave my legs :P
I wear thigh highs so I don't have to worry about toenails and dry skin, LOL.
anonymous camgirl
12-20-2017, 01:59 PM
I betcha cuz we had no internet.. only a select few!.. i was oblivious to what was going on in the world til I could afford the internet and a computer.
I came of age in the 90's and but we had all the cassette tapes and vhs movies from that time and it really did look like everything was pure fun. I know there was a downside of course but it didn't seem like people were too fazed. The 90s is when people got so conscious and politically aware of everything. Not a bad thing but definitely different. I think that's why I've been watching so many 80's films lately. I needed a break from all of the heavy stuff.
anonymous camgirl
12-20-2017, 02:00 PM
I stopped wearing my glasses so i cant see to my legs...lol .. just kidding
I've been wearing knee socks all week so I don't have to shave my legs :P
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-21-2017, 01:27 AM
I just won two tickets on the radio station for the Michael Blackson concert tonight. He's a comedian fyi. Im so excited. All I had to do is be the 9th caller. I was the 3rd and the 9th caller. I use to win tickets all the time when I was a little girl. The odds are better in the middle of the night when everyone else is asleep. Back in the day I'd wake my parents up and say "Congrats! I just won yall some Earth Wind & Fire tickets!! Can I skip school today?" The answer was always, hell naw!
IvyRose
12-21-2017, 04:23 AM
In the middle of rebranding and figured out a way to incorparate my former modellingwork with my camwork without having to worry about mixing it.
So excited and ready for 2018 to smash goals and build up something big
Iam going all in
AuroraJade
12-21-2017, 04:49 AM
Thats so cool :) What are you gonna do? :)
Omg guys I want to get online for this bonus but I am so tired. I think I am going to make dinner for tonight first so that I can use the evening to cam instead of cook :)
Also making plans for the new year. Going to work more, raise my rates and stop video/picture sales all together.
First money goal is the newest Xbox for my bf's bday <3
IvyRose
12-21-2017, 11:41 AM
Thats so cool :) What are you gonna do? :)
Omg guys I want to get online for this bonus but I am so tired. I think I am going to make dinner for tonight first so that I can use the evening to cam instead of cook :)
Also making plans for the new year. Going to work more, raise my rates and stop video/picture sales all together.
First money goal is the newest Xbox for my bf's bday <3
Gonna promote myself more on twitter but only with FinDom and Femdom related tweets
I barely use photos right now (stayed low radar and wanted privacy) but will change that with prof photoshoots (have been a fetish model for 6 years and have bene publised in mags and calenders and stuff when I was pursuing my fetish model dream .. untill I found out that I could not live off of it; money wise)... I have 2 fav photographers which I will do tfp with for my website and twitter maybe even strting up instagram. my partner is willing to learn ligtning and photoshop so he will be taking pics for me too (he is very talented with angles allready)
I hope my partner will be shaping up his lightningskills (maybe I can do it myself dont know yet), otherwise I will be working with mutliple photographers internationally to promote myself and get awereness; want Cam/Findom name to spread (but would love to do it as Bianca Beauchamp did, excusivly with her partner.. so I will have 100% controll)
Will be implementing a new livecammodel website soon that will have massive changes... it will be so pretty. So I will be boosting skypeshows (livecammodelshow) through my twitteraccount.
I will deleted the streamate link from my twitter, not gonna promote streamate at all there. Esp since I have my country blocked on sm, and when I provide my link on twitter people from my country will be able to see me (when using the direcvt link), and I dont want that
^deleting the streamate link also solves a big portion of my staying kinda undercover story.. bec I dont give a rats ass if smeone will find me, bec my livecammodelwebsite will be fetish and Findom based. There are no nudes, there is nothing mentioned about sex or porn.
I also adjusted my streamate account and am only promoting the things I really love, will be transitioning more are more to only fetish and Findom
Will be opening up a Iwantclip.com store (high priced Findom and Femdom clips. non nude) and will be selling clips and posters, pictre sets etc through a livecammodelstore. my clips will all be non nude highly fetish. Think modern fetish. Cant wait to buy latex from fraulein Ehrhardt aka www.highglossdolls.com she has the most thin and comfortable and sexy figur hugging latex ever (have been modeling for her multiple times)
will be shooting clips with my partner and getting photocontent. He is a director by profession so he knows a lot about filming and editing etc.... will be awesome
so much to look forward
I made my first move today and got myself a big fat bag full of new clothes too get myself in the Fimdom vibe even more. Have been wearing the same old for 2 years now.. no more
LOA was on my side ;) bec it was 60% off in the whole store. So I will be looking fancy and luxe for a freaking cheapo price (dresses 9 euro... waht?!)
AuroraJade
12-21-2017, 12:38 PM
Sounds freaking awesome :D Good luck! <3 Fetish shows are great and my faves too. I am planning on learning more about fetish/Femdom too because for me it comes kind of natural so I think I should capitalize on that more <3
Got online today and this bonus is so freaking awesome. Almost at my high goal of 1000 this week and aiming for 1500 now :D
This will be the biggest paycheck I will receive so far from camming (or like, ever) and its gonna be a great start of the new year!
IvyRose
12-21-2017, 01:37 PM
Sounds freaking awesome :D Good luck! <3 Fetish shows are great and my faves too. I am planning on learning more about fetish/Femdom too because for me it comes kind of natural so I think I should capitalize on that more <3
Got online today and this bonus is so freaking awesome. Almost at my high goal of 1000 this week and aiming for 1500 now :D
This will be the biggest paycheck I will receive so far from camming (or like, ever) and its gonna be a great start of the new year!
You will be amazing at it, you are a natural Domme!
me too but I wanted to cater to all groups, so i tried keeping neutral in freechat
it is getting really tiring though to surpress my natural state, so I figured why not go ahead and focus on the thing I love
burn out is a bitch and I rather make maybe less in the start, but being able to go on cam avery day than doing things i dislike
also vanilla fuckboys are dumb as fuck mostly, most of them dont read profiles and assume you will be doig whatever they are into
the subs however do read profiles.. vanilla dudes in most cases dont "really" listen to what I am saying, even if I am topping them they dont realise it, bec I mindfuck them to hard with my tits I guess
win win for me
tgrying out how it goes tonight
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-21-2017, 02:53 PM
I did realize I'd have to drive an hour to get my free tickets. But thats okay it gave me an excuse to go to the good Sephora. And I didnt even spend that much money. A sales girl gave me free full size products from the Estee Lauder Bronze Goddess line. I got shimmering body oil spray. Its like coconuts amber scented with flecks of gold. And a gold high lighter! Im going out tonight looking like an oscar award.
Business has been great all month long. All across the board. I'm gonna keep busting my ass because I know mid January it can get real quiet. Congrats to everyone and their new "awakenings" (dont know what else to call it? ) Whatever it is keep soaking up those good vibes, its how you catch your blessings.
AuroraJade
12-22-2017, 07:12 AM
You will be amazing at it, you are a natural Domme!
me too but I wanted to cater to all groups, so i tried keeping neutral in freechat
it is getting really tiring though to surpress my natural state, so I figured why not go ahead and focus on the thing I love
burn out is a bitch and I rather make maybe less in the start, but being able to go on cam avery day than doing things i dislike
also vanilla fuckboys are dumb as fuck mostly, most of them dont read profiles and assume you will be doig whatever they are into
the subs however do read profiles.. vanilla dudes in most cases dont "really" listen to what I am saying, even if I am topping them they dont realise it, bec I mindfuck them to hard with my tits I guess
win win for me
tgrying out how it goes tonight
Thankyou <3
yeah I agree vanilla dudes are dumb as fuck. Their level of entitlement is so high. They already assume you are gonna do whatever they want, even if its a ' special ' act like squirting or anal. The amount of chill vanilla guys is too low !
sexysusie
12-22-2017, 07:25 AM
'Finsubs' are so needy and submissive it's draining, and 'sugar daddies' on the other hand all want YOU to be submissive. Wtf is up with these men shy can't they just like a nice, normal, even tempered girl who is both sweet yet filthy/kinky beyond belief at the same time?? I mean really, WHERE are they and why aren't they paying me lol.
DancesWithSloths
12-22-2017, 07:42 AM
I got shimmering body oil spray. Its like coconuts amber scented with flecks of gold. And a gold high lighter! Im going out tonight looking like an oscar award.
Girl. GIRL. You're so glam it's catching!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-22-2017, 12:12 PM
When I was a younger I thought women who used Estee Lauder products were the definition of glamorous. Or Elizabeth Arden. Then I went through a faze where everything had to be all about mac or urban decay. They're good products but the packaging just doesn't have that luxurious feel to it? I really am turning into an old lady. My sister got me an old lady starter pavk around Thanks Giving.
TheBrownFox
12-24-2017, 11:20 AM
My neighbor gave me a check for $100, and said “We appreciate your kindness when you see us (referring to him, his wife, and two kids). We hope it helps with whatever you all may need or want to do. Merry Christmas.”
OMG, that is so sweet!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-24-2017, 06:32 PM
My house smells so good. I'm roasting an candied ham right now. I made the glaze with red pepper jelly and bourbon. Fiyaaaa! I'm gonna go to a midnight mass tonight. Haven't done that in years. I think it's time. In the morning we're gonna have a big breakfast feast with the ham, eggs, hashbrowns and frenchtoast. And then do absolutely nothing. Maybe? I'd like to see a movie but everything looks wack to me. We're not Star Wars fans but may check out The Last Jedi. I really want to see CoCo, so maybe that one. Merry Christmas y'all.
AuroraJade
12-25-2017, 10:24 AM
Merry Christmas to everybody. I dont really celebrate it, I ordered lots of sushi and it was good <3
I am planning on raising my rates in the new year but I am afraid to do so. I am at 7.99/9.99 now and I want to raise to at least 8.99/10.99 . But I am afraid that I won't get any customers any more!
EllieGold
12-25-2017, 10:41 PM
Merry Christmas everyone!
What's on my mind? I can't wait to get back into camming for money to get out of debt, work on building credit to hopefully own a home in 2018... I've dramatically taken a whole year off camming and clips to practically find myself. I feel that this vacation was awesome (and stressful money wise). Now that hubby brings the bacon home, I feel that I can finally relax and cam stress free.
TheBrownFox
12-26-2017, 04:23 PM
My son’s got straight A’s!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-26-2017, 05:38 PM
My neighbor gave me a check for $100, and said “We appreciate your kindness when you see us (referring to him, his wife, and two kids). We hope it helps with whatever you all may need or want to do. Merry Christmas.”
OMG, that is so sweet!!!
My son’s got straight A’s!!!
Girl you give and receive
those blessings all the way through 2018. Amen
https://media1.tenor.com/images/fd62bb5e0cad94e615aa034b17befce7/tenor.gif?itemid=4878664
YandereDoll
12-26-2017, 08:18 PM
how i much rather be working than suffering on my period... but i made $$$ on christmas eve and my roommate slipped me money under my door, so there's that. <3
AuroraJade
12-27-2017, 08:57 AM
Fuckkkk, I have a power outage and now I cant cam because my modem is out :(
hyori
12-27-2017, 12:49 PM
I didn't get to cam as much as I wanted during the SM holiday bonus period because of my period but I still did OK so I'm happy. I'm feeling optimistic for 2018.
anonymous camgirl
12-27-2017, 02:53 PM
Yes it's period time .. I am on Day 4.. luckily I worked a lil over an hour on xmas eve.. none on Christmas day and I couldn't get out of bed yesterday.. felt awful, hurting and sick to my stomach.. couldn't hardly even eat all day.. Still not feeling my best but I was able to resume camming again.. .. I really wish I knew I have to live the rest of my life like an old ass lady like this.. I used to cam everyday without fail and still celebrate the holidays without skipping a beat.
I didn't get to cam as much as I wanted during the SM holiday bonus period because of my period but I still did OK so I'm happy. I'm feeling optimistic for 2018.
anonymous camgirl
12-27-2017, 08:35 PM
Anyone going to be watching the movie Webcam Girls on the Lifetime channel? it airs on Saturday..
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-27-2017, 09:05 PM
Anyone going to be watching the movie Webcam Girls on the Lifetime channel? it airs on Saturday..
No I won't be watching it. I had hoped that crap wouldn't get completed to be honest.
When Alex Hiles' hot mess cousin Carolyn vanishes, Alex suspects the worst...Carolyn has been "camming" lately, and Alex suspects she broke the rules and met one of her clients...No one believes her and it's now up to Alex to track and face the predator that kidnaps Cam Girls.
It sounds lame and definitely not a film created with someone like me in mind.
Cutie101
12-27-2017, 09:38 PM
Anyone going to be watching the movie Webcam Girls on the Lifetime channel? it airs on Saturday..
To be honest, the idea of watching a movie like that, feel cringy to me.
In my oppinion, tho :)))).
Cutie101
12-27-2017, 09:38 PM
I made the mistake to work on Xmas, only freeloaders and idiots so, I took 2 days off. I feel better, I am refreshed. Pity I am on period, tho...
But, camming is good when I take days off when I want :).
Hxchayley
12-28-2017, 02:03 AM
Well this may be lengthy so kudos to any who make it through.
Well this year I've began the process of a divorce, found out my son has Autism but the brighter side is I did find the love of my life as cheesy af as that sounds.
My boy starts school this year, and I'm so excited for him. With all the different services he will need it's gonna be difficult to keep a straight head through it all, but we gotta do it.
I took about a year off camming as well and just in the past few months started getting back into it. I plan to take this and make it my career. I love the life style and freedom of the entire job field. I'm so motivated to make sure i get my life all back together, keep it together and stay moving up. I let my ex husband keep the car we still had a loan on, and it was totaled shortly after...leaving my name on half an unpaid loan. So I have been needing to get on saving for a car since July, that's now kicked into over drive. And I'm hoping to somehow pay off the rest of the loan within 2 years. I want to get a savings started to move and just to have a savings in general because this PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK IS NOT CUTTING IT ANYMORE. it is insanely stressful to be broke before your laid every single check and got to hope NOTHING small or.otherwise pops up because with .34 cents in the bank you can't afford anything.
So pretty much what's on my mind is my new years goals
- Focus on my son and his needs first and foremost
- Stay motivated and work hard, stay up on and maintain everything business related.
- get financially stable
Hopefully 2018 can make up for 2017. Finger crossed.
Cutie101
12-28-2017, 02:29 AM
Well this may be lengthy so kudos to any who make it through.
Well this year I've began the process of a divorce, found out my son has Autism but the brighter side is I did find the love of my life as cheesy af as that sounds.
My boy starts school this year, and I'm so excited for him. With all the different services he will need it's gonna be difficult to keep a straight head through it all, but we gotta do it.
I took about a year off camming as well and just in the past few months started getting back into it. I plan to take this and make it my career. I love the life style and freedom of the entire job field. I'm so motivated to make sure i get my life all back together, keep it together and stay moving up. I let my ex husband keep the car we still had a loan on, and it was totaled shortly after...leaving my name on half an unpaid loan. So I have been needing to get on saving for a car since July, that's now kicked into over drive. And I'm hoping to somehow pay off the rest of the loan within 2 years. I want to get a savings started to move and just to have a savings in general because this PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK IS NOT CUTTING IT ANYMORE. it is insanely stressful to be broke before your laid every single check and got to hope NOTHING small or.otherwise pops up because with .34 cents in the bank you can't afford anything.
So pretty much what's on my mind is my new years goals
- Focus on my son and his needs first and foremost
- Stay motivated and work hard, stay up on and maintain everything business related.
- get financially stable
Hopefully 2018 can make up for 2017. Finger crossed.
I keep you the fingers crossed and I wish the best to your son! You are already a fighter and only because you are making a plan, to get above your current situation, it puts you already on a correct way!
My suggestion would be to start with small goals. Achieve them and then move to higher goals. Otherwise, you get demotivated.
For example, trying to achieve $1000 per week on a constat basis, is easier than trying to reach $3000.
Also, when you know that amount is doable, it makes you increase your effort to work, because you know you are soooo close to it!
Them work your way up to $1100 and so on...
Have faith and you will get there!!
Edit: I also reccomend you this book: https://www.amazon.com/GOAL-Diggers-Guide-without-giving-ebook/dp/B004YXVVWU/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1514453443&sr=8-10&keywords=goal+digger
I am currently reading it and it's very motivating and useful! I hope you will find it the same!
TheBrownFox
12-28-2017, 06:01 AM
Yikes! It’s 12 degrees out.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-28-2017, 03:08 PM
Call me being extra but I think business inquiries should begin with a greeting and a salutation. Even if its not about money can I get a Good Evening first? I'll even take a Hey Girl Hey! But por favor please don't start with a demand or an attitude. I'm glad I got that off my chest.
Now I have to run errands in the cold. I need a new microwave. The shopping crowds shoud have thinned out by now.
seashell
12-30-2017, 05:11 PM
I've been so much happier camming now that I stopped using Snapchat and social media. :)
TheBrownFox
01-03-2018, 04:59 AM
Ugh. The MFC payday falling on a bank holiday this month fucked shit up for me. I was all excited to be able to withdraw that money for a money order I needed to get, but thanks to Comcast Xfinity getting to my money, I could only withdraw $40. *eye roll*
DancesWithSloths
01-03-2018, 06:22 AM
I've been so much happier camming now that I stopped using Snapchat and social media. :)
I'm so conflicted about Snapchat, omg. I've made some great connections with other BBW models on Snap, that I would probably haven't connected with otherwise. I find myself glued to the bloody thing for hours, checking up on the other babes and messaging with them.
It doesn't take that long to maintain my own snap for work, as I only use it to post when I'm online, plus a promo ass pic here and there, but the procrastination/"networking" aspect can be worse than reading SW some days. ^_^
caramelcraze
01-03-2018, 10:14 AM
I was getting really down on myself for having a slow morning, then realized that in the time it took me to hit my low goal today it would've taken me nearly double that to do so 3 years ago. Really put things in perspective & made me insanely thankful. hope everyone else is having an awesome morning!
Ginnyyy
01-04-2018, 07:17 AM
I don t know where to post this.
There is a design flaw who might start getting exploated in Intel micro processors that allows sensitive data such as passwords, cryptokeys to be stolen from pc's memory. Updates are coming today on Windows, on 23 on Chrome, for now only Firefox is safe, Apple is still working at it. Read the article below for more infos. There are way many articles on every website so far.
http://www.bbc.com/news/technology-42562303
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-04-2018, 04:23 PM
This sums up my day
http://i.imgur.com/fiwcxu5.gif
The cold weather makes me wanna curl up and do nothing.
TheBrownFox
01-05-2018, 10:07 AM
Period cramps hurt like a biiiiiiitch. I wanna eat this chocolate frosted with sprinkles donut (from Dunkin Donuts) so badly. I decided I'm gonna make a C4S clip of me eating it...and Herr's potato chips, because why not? I'm always eating/snacking on something. Might as well try to make a few bucks for doing it. Lmao. It probably wouldn't sell on ManyVids, but on Clips4Sale? Oh, it will. I love the fact that you can make a few bucks doing shit like crying...eating...jumping rope...bicep bouncing. Haha.
TheBrownFox
01-05-2018, 10:49 AM
I saw this on Facebook. LOL!
https://i.imgur.com/u3fT5ph.jpg
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-06-2018, 03:56 PM
This song is giving me life. It's a all girl rap mashup with a 90s vibe.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLjI4nPFU3c
YandereDoll
01-06-2018, 05:45 PM
i'm thinking about how ecstatic i am about receiving a gift from my wishlist!! it's the logitech 930e webcam i've been eyeing!! beyond cosmic about not having to use my built-in camera anymore! giving it a go tonight!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-06-2018, 05:52 PM
i'm thinking about how ecstatic i am about receiving a gift from my wishlist!! it's the logitech 930e webcam i've been eyeing!! beyond cosmic about not having to use my built-in camera anymore! giving it a go tonight!
Good for you girly!!! Now you can start working on your angles without having to move the entire laptop. That will definitely increase your money.