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CreativeName
09-02-2016, 04:33 PM
This at home teeth whitening shit hurts my mouth omg help

TheBrownFox
09-02-2016, 07:55 PM
Nia Long is gorgeous.
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Marina Starr
09-02-2016, 08:05 PM
You kinda look like her. I wish her titties weren't so much on display. Unless you're a hoe and get paid to do so, I can't help but wonder 'WHY?!' whenever I see women dress like that anywhere.

Nia Long is gorgeous.
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Teddy_Bear
09-02-2016, 08:36 PM
Why do I do this to myself... A forced few days off turns to a week off. I spent plenty of time updating my listings, changing pictures anything but camming. I am sat tonight wondering how to sound proof my room but have I turned anything on even PSO no. Have I got my arse on cam in 8 days no! I piss myself off really badly!! I go in stages of it all going really well then I get interrupted and motivation goes. I have done my texting gig this week so not earned nothing but not what I should have I'm so annoyed at myself always a bloody excuse!

Get back on girl I always worry when I slack that I'm going to end up homeless because the customers will have forgotten about me, not true they all clamour to spend on me before I disappear again, sometimes not being on cam can help in the long run.

CreativeName
09-02-2016, 09:14 PM
I wish her titties weren't so much on display. Unless you're a hoe and get paid to do so, I can't help but wonder 'WHY?!' whenever I see women dress like that anywhere.

Thank you!! You are the first person I heard that feels the same way I do about women dressing way too revealing and getting nothing for it! It also depresses me how many childish looking 14 year olds dress that way too ugh.

hyori
09-02-2016, 09:46 PM
Am I reading stuff correctly? Is this 2016? If a woman decides to show cleavage she is doing it because she thinks it looks good, not because she is giving anything away for free, WTF? So are we supposed to dress in Burkas because men are not paying to see our faces? What planet am I on right now?????

EllieGold
09-02-2016, 10:23 PM
Eff everything. Put on a gold show, then I fail. I'm a fucking princess. I just gave you guys an opportunity to be awesome and pitch in for a cheap show. Apparently, I'm not your liking tonight or you're just too damn cheap. I wish I could rid of Streamate finally, this is a fucking headache. Also, about to start my period. Shit! :O

CreativeName
09-02-2016, 11:54 PM
Look, I'd hang out with women that show cleavage or wear thong bikinis but that shit isn't my style. I dont like it because it pleases loser men. Also some of us are not born into the American culture just throwing it out there. I was born in America but never knew a lick of English till I went to preschool at like 4-5. I realize my views are different but I stand by what I said and I don't give a flying fuck who I offend by having opinions.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 03:25 AM
You read it correctly but how you interpreted my post is incorrect. I am not attacking or putting down any women for showing cleavage or however much skin they want. If I did it would be more along the lines of 'those titties look gross on display, she needs to cover them up'. My original post was more of asking why must so much cleavage be on display, why do you need to show so much skin? There is an intention behind everything we do. That always comes to my head when I see a celebrity or a woman in real life dressing like that. It's more than just "she thinks it looks good' because I personally believe that when a woman show too much skin, it comes across to me as she's insecure, she doesn't feel like who she is is enough. Ain't nothing wrong with that either if all you got to offer is your body and how you look. Does she have the right to show whatever she wants? Abso-fucking-lutely! And I have the right to feel however I want.

Yes it's 2016 and with all the social medias and what's on TV are teaching women to show more skin, be provocative, flaunt your body and etc. How about let's flaunt more brains and less bodies.

I stand by my view, unless you are getting paid to show your body, I don't see the point of putting so much on display. Oh and men do pay me for my beautiful face. My face is one of my strong selling points.


Am I reading stuff correctly? Is this 2016? If a woman decides to show cleavage she is doing it because she thinks it looks good, not because she is giving anything away for free, WTF? So are we supposed to dress in Burkas because men are not paying to see our faces? What planet am I on right now?????

PixiieGirl
09-03-2016, 04:11 AM
I dress revealing a lot of the time, tis just my style really, guys are gonna perv anyway regardless so -shrugs-

I have so much to do today and yet here I am doing none of it lol

hyori
09-03-2016, 05:18 AM
There is no message from the media. Just because the media has some celebrities wearing revealing clothes doesn't mean we need to follow like sheep and do the same. There are plenty of very successful people who don't wear revealing outfits. However, I disagree that showing cleavage is a form of insecurity. That's like saying decorating a cake makes it slutty. It's judgement, plain and simple. Yes, you are free to judge, it's a free country somewhat. However, judging others doesn't come from good intention, ever. It comes from a place that reflects how you feel about yourself.

This reminds me of how very recently France decided to ban women from wearing burkinis. Seriously? Women can't be too revealing, they can't wear too much, they can't wear outfits that are too masculine, they can't wear off the rack to the Oscars. There are shows dedicated to judging what people wear in the name of fashion...fashion is supposed to be art yet it remains to this day one of the most conformist, judgemental, and superficial loads of bullshit century after century that continues to shit on women.

I'm not flaming anyone for their view. I'm just trying to point out the big picture.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 06:10 AM
Oh yes there's plenty of messages from the media telling women how they supposed to look! In America there is.

Let me say this one last time, if you are showing lot of skin, be it your tits, ass and everything in between, ask yourself what is the intention behind doing so because there is an intention behind everything we do consciously and subconsciously. I feel if you have to show a lot of skin, that comes from a place of insecurity. No one is saying you should or shouldn't because it's your body, do what you want. Same goes for men!
If what I said is judgmental then so be it. Tweet me #judgmentalMarina #criticalMarina

Mare
09-03-2016, 06:57 AM
What's on my mind today? I need about 125 or so to make my goal. I don't want to have to sit here all day to make it. Wishing I'd hit the damn lotto because I'd be like peace out. Stay at home pet mom.

Semyonovna
09-03-2016, 08:39 AM
Had some time to chill from camming and do fun stuff. I love my endless summer nights so much... Driving through the city with my bf, smoking weed, relaxing and making love... Heaven <3 i'm so thankful for this "vacation", otherwise i'd be hysterical bitch right now :D you gotta hit the break from time to time and remind yourself that right now is all we really have...
I liked Doors before, Jim Morrison and his sick lyrics, theres a song Soft Parade "everything must be this way" he says, i like it so much... Today I randomly played it while doing yoga and it made me do some weird stretching choreography. Things like that I need to do them again :D

Glamourmilf
09-03-2016, 09:52 AM
Am I reading stuff correctly? Is this 2016? If a woman decides to show cleavage she is doing it because she thinks it looks good, not because she is giving anything away for free, WTF? So are we supposed to dress in Burkas because men are not paying to see our faces? What planet am I on right now?????
I just bought this dress. Isn't it cute? Hyori, would you like to come with me while I run some errands? The bank, the grocery store, and maybe after Starbucks, we could have a little lunch?
Oh, and Hyori. Have I told you lately that I love you?
And Hyori, will you marry me?:-*
45855

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 09:58 AM
Nice dress, is this you Glam?!

I just bought this dress. Isn't it cute? Hyori, would you like to come with me while I run some errands? The bank, the grocery store, and maybe after Starbucks, we could have a little lunch?
Oh, and Hyori. Have I told you lately that I love you?
And Hyori, will you marry me?:-*
45855

absolutelyadorable
09-03-2016, 10:04 AM
Stay at home pet mom.

^^ My life goal lmaoo

TheBrownFox
09-03-2016, 12:24 PM
You kinda look like her.

Thanks! You have no idea how often I hear this from people...and I LIKE IT! Lol. I've heard it from my aunt, her friend who used to do my hair, a couple guys on MFC, etc. :)

SimoneGray
09-03-2016, 12:58 PM
Furnishing my house is on my mind...I've decided on the colour scheme, now I just gotta make the aesthetic work.

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 01:57 PM
Am I reading stuff correctly? Is this 2016? If a woman decides to show cleavage she is doing it because she thinks it looks good, not because she is giving anything away for free, WTF? So are we supposed to dress in Burkas because men are not paying to see our faces? What planet am I on right now?????

PREACH. Always a shame to see anti-women sexism from women on a website for strippers of all places. Call me crazy for expecting the women here to be a bit more progressive.


I just bought this dress. Isn't it cute? Hyori, would you like to come with me while I run some errands? The bank, the grocery store, and maybe after Starbucks, we could have a little lunch?

Can I come along? I'll wear this:

45858

I recently bought it and I bought it to be specifically for day-wear. :cutie:

Glamourmilf
09-03-2016, 02:07 PM
PREACH. Always a shame to see anti-women sexism from women on a website for strippers of all places. Call me crazy for expecting the women here to be a bit more progressive.



Can I come along? I'll wear this:

45858

I recently bought it and I bought it to be specifically for day-wear. :cutie:

Yezz! Yezz! Yezz! You're invited.:thumbsup:
That dress is so gorg on you!!

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 04:41 PM
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anonymous camgirl
09-03-2016, 05:04 PM
I used to dress a lot more revealing, and then one day in my old age I realized that's not the attention I want.. I have been wanting men's attention from the inside out and all I was getting was attention to my body.. so I changed to a more conservative preppy ann taylor kind of look..lol... but that's my preference.. I was getting unwanted attention to much from men who I didn't want to get attention from.. I could get unwanted attention in a turtleneck and cardigan.. why make it hard on myself.. and the longer I have been on cam.. the less I want to show off IRL. I spend all day shaking my ass and tits and showing my hooha.. I don't want that attention IRL!..I want someonr to be in love with my heart mind and soul and get excited about my body later.. I know I am dreaming and fantasing.. maybe that's what I will tell these guys when they ask me what my fantasy is!...lmao..

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 05:12 PM
Hey I don't mind if other women dress revealing- most women that do, look fucking sexy while doing it so good for you if that is your goal. Personally I don't like being sexualized although I find I can profit from it, I know I am weird. I do find it odd that women that make money from their sexuality and have to deal with that sort all the time also dress very revealing in public- don't you ever get tired of perverted scumbags? my 2 cents. For the record you all are right you will be sexualized no matter how revealing or unrevealing you dress. I just find I get less of that because I don't show everything on display. That being said it is hard to hide your form. I have always been small up top with a rather large ass. It is hard to hide but I do a good job. If I ever wore shit like yoga pants outside I'd have a long line of stalkers. I don't need that kind of attention lmfao. I think men being able to see my pretty face is just enough.

I guess having opinions makes me a "judgemental asshole" so be it, I never got far in life being nice. So nice never worked for me, hah!

I agree with Marina that women that show everything have more reasons than simply "it looks good". I will leave it at that.

I like to be seen as intelligent or an evil, manipulative bitch that gets what she wants out of life and will work hard to get it. I have more to offer than my looks.

heyho
09-03-2016, 05:23 PM
(edit: removed first line, ninja CreativeName posted right before I could lol)

I don't really care what people think of my "look"s so I used to dress either very boringly (t-shirt and jeans) or very quirkily depending on my mood. I have no problem going out in my pj's. I wouldn't even mind going out butt naked if I wouldn't be arrested for it. Im comfortable in my skin, bite me, you know?

But these days, now that my late bloomer body has developed very nicely indeed, I LOVE dressing sexy every now and then. It intimidates the hell out of men, and it gives me a buzz watching other women checking me out. So I do it because it's fun and novel.

Maybe some dress revealingly out of insecurity, but that's not the only reason women do it. And for what it's worth that is some damn fine cleavage on Nia and the SW boob brigade up there. If I had a curves that killer I'd love showing it off like a new Chanel bag too.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 05:33 PM
And my guess is you probably feel so much better about yourself now not so revealingly dressed BUT you are getting way more attention, BETTER attention because you don't put off that 'LOOK AT ME, I WANT YOUR ATTENTION' vibe!

Men of QUALITY are attracted to less NOT more. When everything is on display in public, what's there to show in private? I do hair for a living so I hear a lot of stories and it's almost always women who are provocatively dressed are attracting men that treat them badly...

#sexisthoe #criticalhoe #judgmentalhoe = count me in!

anonymous camgirl,
I just want to tell you that you are beautiful and I admire your strong work ethnic!

I used to dress a lot more revealing, and then one day in my old age I realized that's not the attention I want.. I have been wanting men's attention from the inside out and all I was getting was attention to my body.. so I changed to a more conservative preppy ann taylor kind of look..lol... but that's my preference.. I was getting unwanted attention to much from men who I didn't want to get attention from.. I could get unwanted attention in a turtleneck and cardigan.. why make it hard on myself.. and the longer I have been on cam.. the less I want to show off IRL. I spend all day shaking my ass and tits and showing my hooha.. I don't want that attention IRL!..I want someonr to be in love with my heart mind and soul and get excited about my body later.. I know I am dreaming and fantasing.. maybe that's what I will tell these guys when they ask me what my fantasy is!...lmao..

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 05:51 PM
Yeah I try not to attract the wrong sort of attention. I mean of course no matter what, as a woman, you will attract the wrong attention. I just find I can do or not do certain things to avoid this "negative attention". I think perhaps I may also have different views than some of you because even though I have barely been camming I am making a lot of moves to gtfo this industry right now. I agree with Marina- "what's there to show in private?" Some women dress so provocatively the only thing left to see in private is literally their vagina haha. I really only understand women that dress quite provocatively if that is how they make their money otherwise it seems silly to me? A lot of men and women already think I am hot even though I dress conservatively almost always. I really don't feel like I need *more* attention. Not to sound bad but total strangers tell me I am "cute" or "beautiful" rather often so I don't need to work hard for people to think I'm positively adorable.

LizzyMe
09-03-2016, 05:55 PM
OMG! My neighbor loves to use his outside picnic table to workout on. He does pushups on it and grunts and moans on it SO LOUDLY while he does this!!! I was on the phone with my cable provider and he even heard him. The cable provider asked me if everything was OK. I said, I was fine, why do you ask? The cable man said he heard an unusual noise. I said, oh yeah that's just my neighbor....

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 06:27 PM
don't you ever get tired of perverted scumbags?

Well this may be what a lot of it comes down to. While I do receive attention from random men in public no matter how I'm dressed--like I think most women do--I can honestly say that I never come across any dudes who I have felt the need to categorize as "perverted scumbags." Maybe it is a regional thing and guys are just nicer here but I really don't come across dudes who make me feel offended or disgusted or threatened or anything. So I really can't relate to that.


Yezz! Yezz! Yezz! You're invited.:thumbsup:
That dress is so gorg on you!!

Thanks! It's actually a bodysuit though, I would be needing to slap some pants on

To the people who are saying that anyone who likes to dress sexy must have issues, that's stereotyping at its finest and reminds me of the kinds of people who say that all strippers have daddy issues. Again it's really odd to me to see such sexist stereotyping from women on a stripper site where you'd think the women would be more open-minded but whatevs. Like it was being said in another thread, a lot of misogyny does come from women.

hyori
09-03-2016, 06:36 PM
Glam, Genoveve y'all look gorgeous and so do the rest of you no matter what you wear. That's the point. We can wear whatever the fuck we want without fear. Fuck people who tell us we're skanks just because of what we are wearing. And showing cleavage doesn't attract the wrong attention because if it did, a woman can get him charged. That's a good thing. Claim your first world power. I don't need to live in fear of men just because of what I wear. Nor do I need to give a SHIT about what they think of what I am wearing.

Myself, I dress sexy sometimes and other days I dress like a teenage boy. The days I dress like a boy I get harassed more cause I look approachable and friendly. When I dress sexy, they stare but no one dares to say anything to my face or tries to touch me. It's like Moses parting the Red Sea when I walk through a crowd. Own it.

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 06:36 PM
"what's there to show in private?" Some women dress so provocatively the only thing left to see in private is literally their vagina haha.

I don't understand this argument; that if you show a lot of skin guys won't be very likely to appreciate you and want you because they can see too much of your body in public? My face is shown in public all day every day and yet my bfs all still loved it and appreciated it and dated me because of it. ??

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 06:39 PM
Myself, I dress sexy sometimes and other days I dress like a teenage boy. The days I dress like a boy I get harassed more cause I look approachable and friendly. When I dress sexy, they stare but no one dares to say anything to my face or tries to touch me. It's like Moses parting the Red Sea when I walk through a crowd. Own it.

This. My gfs and I have always noticed that the 'hotter' we look in public the less we get approached, because, we assume, we seem a lot less obtainable to a lot of guys. The plainer you look the more approachable and attainable you look to more men. More men think they have a chance.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 06:39 PM
That sounds really hot to me! He could be doing it to get your attention. I hope he's decent looking!

OMG! My neighbor loves to use his outside picnic table to workout on. He does pushups on it and grunts and moans on it SO LOUDLY while he does this!!! I was on the phone with my cable provider and he even heard him. The cable provider asked me if everything was OK. I said, I was fine, why do you ask? The cable man said he heard an unusual noise. I said, oh yeah that's just my neighbor....

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 06:42 PM
You claim me as not being open-minded yet you can't open your mind to the fact other people have different views. Anybody who thinks different than you is closeminded? I see you as closeminded too honey. I just think it is not necessary to dress that way, but I do hang out with people that do. I don't call women skanks for dressing a certain way either @ Hyori. I think you all are getting real riled up over how you interpret my words and not what I'm saying but ok. @ Hyori if dressing hawt works better for you so be it good for you.

My argument is some women leave nothing to the imagination except what their pussy is like. lmfao.

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 06:47 PM
I think perhaps some guys do think I look more approachable for dressing a certain way. That being said i think approachability is more body language, tone of voice, and choice of words though. I intimidate the shit out of most men and women in real life. I act like a bitch in person, and I sure take pride in it. Guys that try to talk to me I stay short with them or act very sarcastic/bitchy. Oh and women that try and give me shit in real life- now that is 1 thing I really don't put up with LOL.

hyori
09-03-2016, 06:48 PM
What? I wasn't specifically pointing out anybody. Just those women in general who get all catty and judgmental on women who dress sexy. If you are a part of that group than so be it. I don't have to like you. I don't need to shut up about how I feel about women who bring other women down either. Sheesh. Go back to watching the bachelorette.

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 06:50 PM
I have more to offer than my looks.

This reminds me of something else I see a lot, people will just assume that if a female likes to show off that she must automatically have nothing else to offer. Like there's this constant battle between beauty vs. brains, but why can't someone have both? Why do people make it out like it has to be one or the other? People are multi-dimensional and when someone decides to completely write someone off based on their physical appearance THAT is what I find to be truly shallow.

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 06:52 PM
These latest posts remind me why I don't get along with women and why almost all my friends in real life are guys. Yall have no logic whatsoever my god.

Genoveve
09-03-2016, 06:53 PM
I see you as closeminded too honey.

High praise indeed! LOL :rotfl:


I just think it is not necessary to dress that way

Neither do I, I don't think it's necessary to get my nails done either but I still like to do it.


These latest posts remind me why I don't get along with women and why almost all my friends in real life are guys.

I can see why too tbh.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 06:57 PM
I know you weren't because I didn't see my name being dropped. I just asked a simple question of 'Why?' some women are provocatively dressed. Whatever that reason is, if it makes you happy then that's cool. No one is telling anyone how they should or shouldn't dress.

I'm confused as to why this is still being dragged out.

What? I wasn't specifically pointing out anybody. Just those women in general who get all catty and judgmental on women who dress sexy. If you are a part of that group than so be it. I don't have to like you. I don't need to shut up about how I feel about women who bring other women down either. Sheesh. Go back to watching the bachelorette.

hyori
09-03-2016, 07:06 PM
There really is no point in keeping this discussion going. That's absolutely true. I am just astonished that this would happen on this forum and not some Christian/Non-Pagan fundamentalist one. Wow.

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 07:08 PM
And on that note, let's move on!

What's on my mind tonight is I need to shave my pussy for cam tomorrow!

There really is no point in keeping this discussion going. That's absolutely true. I am just astonished that this would happen on this forum and not some Christian/Non-Pagan fundamentalist one. Wow.

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 07:12 PM
What's on my mind is planning my 2 week road trip towards the end of the month :) And how I am going to transition into a high commission sales job in a totally different industry

LizzyMe
09-03-2016, 07:15 PM
That sounds really hot to me! He could be doing it to get your attention. I hope he's decent looking!
Nah, I don't think he is that good looking. It is quite entertaining to hear him thou!

CreativeName
09-03-2016, 07:17 PM
Nah, I don't think he is that good looking. It is quite entertaining to hear him thou!

He sounds like he has a bit of exhibitionism in him maybe he should be a camboy!!

Marina Starr
09-03-2016, 07:17 PM
I wonder why he can't bring his ass to the gym? Moaning loudly can come across as harassment to some neighbors!

Nah, I don't think he is that good looking. It is quite entertaining to hear him thou!

LizzyMe
09-03-2016, 07:20 PM
He sounds like he has a bit of exhibitionism in him maybe he should be a camboy!!

You know what! I actually thought he would make an excellent camboy! He is definitely not shy and talks openly about anything in public. I know, because all of us neighbors can hear him!

LizzyMe
09-03-2016, 07:31 PM
I wonder why he can't bring his ass to the gym? Moaning loudly can come across as harassment to some neighbors!
I live in a fairly conservative neighborhood, but its fun to have someone shake up the stuffy boring housewives around here! They seem to be amused and strangely turned on by his behavior.

MsJess
09-03-2016, 09:00 PM
My best friend just told me that what i did for a job was gross and she hated it giving me no more explanations, im a bit down, dont want this to affect me though, i don't feel gross, but we are close friends 15 years a go and just randomly tell me this! I guess i will stop talking to her? Why (most of the) people can't understand this fucking bussiness ��

LoraDoll
09-03-2016, 10:02 PM
doing my shift actually, and it s so boring, these jerks are boring as fuck. I hate to sit in my room all alone with idiots all day long...
all i can think about, i wanna go out, or practice how to draw, clean my room, or whatever. This is crazy... as they keep coming, just to tell all of their stupid shit, and i m wondering, wtf is that shit? :D lol.

sometimes i feel so helpless if it s slow and only jerks are around. ugh. crazy.: *