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anonymous camgirl
07-08-2018, 09:46 AM
Have you tried some calcium /mag... I was taking some diet pills in the fall .. and then my back started hurting for months ( I couldn't figure it out)
.. and then my friend asked me if I was keeping up with my calcium.. and I said oopsie NO.. just been taking more magnesium.. so I started back on calcium.. boom back ache gone in a day or 2.. never to return.. and that was a few weeks ago!.. so give it a try.. the ratio between cal/mag is really 2:1
Thanks for all the well wishes BB's. I'm feeling much better today but still being very cautious. I had been under a great deal of pressure and had forgotten to take care of myself. It came to a head on the 4th. I had started taking aspirin, something I hadn't done in almost 20 years and because I'm asthmatic it induced an asthma attack. It was terrifying but now that I know what the trigger was I can avoid that in the future. Now I just have to figure out how to work and run a food truck in this summer heat. If I work too long my back starts hurting and I need medicine. If I take medicine it can induce an asthma attack. I'm looking into getting an appointment with a holistic doctor to see what I can do. Today I'm taking it easy and getting some online shit done. But its soooo pretty outside.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-08-2018, 02:25 PM
The last two days Ive made a drink with tumeric and honey to help with inflammation. I have an elderly dog that has some issues as well and the golden honey remedy seems to have helped him quite a bit. It wasnt until I found out how much that hospital visit was going to cost me that the light bulb upstairs went off. I needed to be taking that ish for myself. I will look into the calcium and magnesium too. Thank you.
breadandbutter
07-09-2018, 10:22 AM
I love the feeling of getting my eyebrows waxed.. is it more painful than that or comparable? .. I dunno why but I like the pain sensation..lol
Hmmm way more painful. It felt like she ripped my skin off lol. But it was brief and felt better by the next day. I have tattoos and it reminded me of the sunburn-ish feeling of getting a tattoo, if that makes any sense?
BadBitch
07-10-2018, 08:27 PM
My RANT today is about promoters.
I am in the process of removing my face from the web to get rid of this fucking job and PROMOTERS who use your pictures are the biggest pain in the ass. I tried reporting their pages and I got a few porn twitters blocked from Twitter but it is so hard to remove your whole web presence.
I wish promoters would stop using content without permission. Shady motherfuckers.
I had one "Promoter" dm me for photos. I was like, "Brah, there's over 5,000 photos on my Twitter."
BadBitch
07-10-2018, 08:27 PM
I'm kind of freaking because of the slowness.
Lovely_charlie
07-11-2018, 01:10 AM
I'm kind of freaking because of the slowness.
me to, but it will return right, its the middle of the month, and july so everybody is on vacation
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-11-2018, 02:36 PM
Hurricane Chris sounds like a DJ name.
naomi_doll
07-13-2018, 03:39 PM
LEEP got pushed up to this Monday. Excited to get it done, but my plan to cam my ass off for the next month has now become film/text/snap/panties my ass off. lol
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2018, 09:11 AM
AnonymousCamgirl & Marina! I thought about y'all this morning. I went to a new Publix thats kinda far out to get charcoal and other supplies. To my surprise there was not a single person waiting in line at the deli. Not a one! I ordered 3 subs. I didnt even want a sandwich but I'll be damned if I was gonna walk away from that opportunity. And the boarshead was a dollar off. Man I missed Publix.
If you dont know about this phenomenon here are a few articles
https://www.thrillist.com/eat/nation/florida-publix-deli-subs
https://orlandoweekly.com/Blogs/archives/2016/04/01/publix-says-they-will-discontinue-pubsubs-will-replace-with-subway
Marina Starr
07-14-2018, 10:41 AM
Girrrrrl, you must live in the deep south that you don't have Publix???? I was at Publix today. Actually, I'm at Publix pretty much everyday, LOL! It's five seconds walk from Starbucks!
Subway smells terrible!
AnonymousCamgirl & Marina! I thought about y'all this morning. I went to a new Publix thats kinda far out to get charcoal and other supplies. To my surprise there was not a single person waiting in line at the deli. Not a one! I ordered 3 subs. I didnt even want a sandwich but I'll be damned if I was gonna walk away from that opportunity. And the boarshead was a dollar off. Man I missed Publix.
If you dont know about this phenomenon here are a few articles
https://www.thrillist.com/eat/nation/florida-publix-deli-subs
https://orlandoweekly.com/Blogs/archives/2016/04/01/publix-says-they-will-discontinue-pubsubs-will-replace-with-subway
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2018, 10:52 AM
Girrrrrl, you must live in the deep south that you don't have Publix???? I was at Publix today. Actually, I'm at Publix pretty much everyday, LOL! It's five seconds walk from Starbucks!
Subway smells terrible!
No Im back in Fl now. Publix everywhere! :) I was away for awhile in the land of Kroger's. I don't wanna ever go back there ever ever again.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2018, 10:54 AM
Maaan that paraglider flying over that Trump golf course is a mood! :)
anonymous camgirl
07-14-2018, 11:17 AM
Get yourself some Publix Orange Peel Sweet Tea.. sooooo good!.. Blackberry Sage is also good but Orange is my FAV!
No Im back in Fl now. Publix everywhere! :) I was away for awhile in the land of Kroger's. I don't wanna ever go back there ever ever again.
AuroraJade
07-14-2018, 01:07 PM
Deleted Skype and CMD so I don't have to deal with them anymore. I have two job interviews lined up for next week so I am curious to see what thats going to become
The moment I land a job SM is also out the door
I cant wait. I have barely cammed for the past few weeks and my mental health is improving already.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2018, 01:39 PM
Get yourself some Publix Orange Peel Sweet Tea.. sooooo good!.. Blackberry Sage is also good but Orange is my FAV!
I did not know they had their own specialty teas? All this talk and I might make a second trip today.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-14-2018, 01:42 PM
LEEP got pushed up to this Monday. Excited to get it done, but my plan to cam my ass off for the next month has now become film/text/snap/panties my ass off. lol
Im kinda in the same boat right now. I'm having to re-direct my efforts to accommodate my current situation. Ive been pushing customs like crazy.
anonymous camgirl
07-14-2018, 02:21 PM
Yes!.. with the usual bottled iced tea in the deli!.. I think they just came out with them for the summer.. they have Mint Lemongrass also
I did not know they had their own specialty teas? All this talk and I might make a second trip today.
Marina Starr
07-15-2018, 01:23 PM
This HEAT is brutal, it's too HOT! I hate hoeing when it's HOT.
TheBrownFox
07-15-2018, 06:01 PM
^The peach mango tea at this Jamaican food restaurant (across the street from my job) is good af, along with their veggie stir fry with white rice.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-16-2018, 08:37 AM
Ms. Chris "Leave Brittany Alone" Crocker is a camboy with an onlyfans page. He cracks me up! https://twitter.com/ChrisCrocker/status/1018723557289930752?s=19
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-16-2018, 08:48 AM
Yes!.. with the usual bottled iced tea in the deli!.. I think they just came out with them for the summer.. they have Mint Lemongrass also
^The peach mango tea at this Jamaican food restaurant (across the street from my job) is good af, along with their veggie stir fry with white rice.
My all time favorite ice teas are GoldPeak Green Ice Tea. And the other one is made at a Chinese restaurant called Lam's Garden at E. Colonial & North Bumby in Orlando. They brewed jasmine tea but wouldnt give me the brand name so I would have to keep coming back to order it there. I'd drop in just to get the tea sometimes.
BadBitch
07-16-2018, 08:56 PM
My gf's mother died and now, my friend is all about death.
She freaked me out tonight asking if I had a Will and a retirement fund. I don't have a Will. I have some money saved (but not enough to get me through retirement).
She also asked which out of our circle of friends, who I thought was going to die first.
Oy fucking vey.
My head is spinning.
anouk.oui
07-18-2018, 04:40 AM
i swear to god one more 'whats your skype bb/ view my cam for free' and i'll set an entry fee for my room in my topic
anonymous camgirl
07-18-2018, 10:28 AM
I could use a Publix Sub right about now..lol.. eating grapes and cherries...
AnonymousCamgirl & Marina! I thought about y'all this morning. I went to a new Publix thats kinda far out to get charcoal and other supplies. To my surprise there was not a single person waiting in line at the deli. Not a one! I ordered 3 subs. I didnt even want a sandwich but I'll be damned if I was gonna walk away from that opportunity. And the boarshead was a dollar off. Man I missed Publix.
If you dont know about this phenomenon here are a few articles
https://www.thrillist.com/eat/nation/florida-publix-deli-subs
https://orlandoweekly.com/Blogs/archives/2016/04/01/publix-says-they-will-discontinue-pubsubs-will-replace-with-subway
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-18-2018, 12:38 PM
I could use a Publix Sub right about now..lol.. eating grapes and cherries...
We didnt eat ours until two days later. I swear they get better when you let them marinate in the fridge for a few days.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-18-2018, 01:25 PM
I so love creative internet handles. Just now on twitter I came across this one "Trump Is Putin's Fleshlight" :) :) :)
addytoi
07-19-2018, 02:12 AM
Self reflection sucks. My earnings for the first part of the year sucked and I have only myself to blame. I have discovered that tracking my earnings daily can desensitize me to how I are doing over all. I decided to do semiannual reviews this year of my earnings across all of my sites. I just finished and it was like a punch in the face. I slacked off severely at the beginning of the year because of vanilla work and illness. I can only justify one month out of the five months due to recovering from a serious surgery related to the illness. Thankfully after my recovery from surgery, I have been seriously working so June was good for me and July is turning out great. Maybe I should do quarterly reviews from now on because it has motivated me to really step up my game and keep it up.
anouk.oui
07-21-2018, 05:01 AM
Broke depressed and feeling too unattractive and tired to cam with all my bartending shifts
ravenskyy
07-21-2018, 05:50 AM
Broke depressed and feeling too unattractive and tired to cam with all my bartending shifts
Same, but substitute bartending shifts with taking care of a 4 month old baby, that has no concept of sleep or a freaking schedule. Suprisingly, I have been getting on cam and doing good but I've been super hard on myself lately and I would feel like trash if I missed a work shift.
NitaBaby
07-21-2018, 09:45 AM
My dude has to be one of the 10 guys on Earth who would probably marry a stripper or something. I got on cam for the first (serious) time two days ago and he came to my chat room and played my hype man. If someone took me to private I’d get a text from him on my iPad saying stuff like “kill em in there”. it was really encouraging.
FreakyFranky
07-21-2018, 08:31 PM
Dang. My man's feelings are very hurt by cam, so I try to be really inclusive with him and make sure he sees I'm not hiding anything and I try to include him in the talk about camming like it's a normal job.
My mind is on money... And how there's just never enough and I don't know what I'm gonna do if SM doesn't pick up in the next couple days!
NitaBaby
07-22-2018, 01:22 AM
Dang. My man's feelings are very hurt by cam, so I try to be really inclusive with him and make sure he sees I'm not hiding anything and I try to include him in the talk about camming like it's a normal job.
My mind is on money... And how there's just never enough and I don't know what I'm gonna do if SM doesn't pick up in the next couple days!
It’s good that you have your focus. My kids father considered it cheating when I first tried camming like 7 years ago and he found out about it. I mean, he really had the whole angry/bewildered reaction and played out the betrayal process like he caught me in bed with his brother or something. and he saw no logic behind it other than me just wanting to be a slut. If I had kept that focus of yours back then (and was confident in my worth) I think I would have kept at it.
You can at least have the conversation with him. That’s damn good.
FreakyFranky
07-22-2018, 04:22 PM
It’s good that you have your focus. My kids father considered it cheating when I first tried camming like 7 years ago and he found out about it. I mean, he really had the whole angry/bewildered reaction and played out the betrayal process like he caught me in bed with his brother or something. and he saw no logic behind it other than me just wanting to be a slut. If I had kept that focus of yours back then (and was confident in my worth) I think I would have kept at it.
You can at least have the conversation with him. That’s damn good.
Nita, my man reacted that way at first -- We had a terrible day-long fight where he was NOT nice... But once I actually logged in and showed him all the time, work, etc that goes into it, and once I brought him into making clips with me, he seemed to take it a little better. He still hates it and is hurt by it, but he understands now that it's all about the money for me, for us both, and he appreciates what I do. :/ Last bf just degraded me for it. Men -- they love to use the service but just don't want THEIR woman doing it.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-22-2018, 05:07 PM
I am obsessed with this Youtube Chanel. Travel Thirsty (https://www.youtube.com/user/TravelThirstyBlog/videos) I swear it's like a stoner's paradise! Exotic seafood straight from the ocean and then prepared into several dishes. But it's not really the end result that's so appealing it's preparation that blows my mind.
Bananabunny
07-23-2018, 05:58 PM
I have gained a bit of weight and I'm making lesser on cam. My depression is increasing again like almost each summer so idk how I can get through this summer.
Marina Starr
07-23-2018, 08:14 PM
http://i65.tinypic.com/16itmhu.png
NitaBaby
07-24-2018, 06:49 AM
Nita, my man reacted that way at first -- We had a terrible day-long fight where he was NOT nice... But once I actually logged in and showed him all the time, work, etc that goes into it, and once I brought him into making clips with me, he seemed to take it a little better. He still hates it and is hurt by it, but he understands now that it's all about the money for me, for us both, and he appreciates what I do. :/ Last bf just degraded me for it. Men -- they love to use the service but just don't want THEIR woman doing it.
Oh, so you’ve already witnessed the ugliness firsthand. Again, I’m glad you haven’t quit. And I hope he continues to see the hustle that this job really is and even develops respect for you for it. Honestly, men could take a note from the way women grind. *Hugs*
NitaBaby
07-24-2018, 07:07 AM
These guys keep trying to get me to give them my Snap, IG, Email, phone number, Facebook, Twitter info and have asked multiple times to connect on FaceTime since my iPad was within view of the camera last night. I know that my phone and email are a HELL NAHH but I feel like I’m deflecting some other viable money makers.
Yesterday a guy mentioned flying me out to NY and I played the polite, “oh I could never accept that. That’s incredibly sweet” role so he took me private and went on about how serious he was and said that if I agreed then he’d get the tickets now. It was at least a 5 min convo so that was an easy 20 bucks. From the offers to fly me out to NY or Miami to the requests for my Snap name I have no idea what requests are okay to entertain. (I have three kids and no desire to travel out and see a guy. So that’s never happening. Plus I’m boo’d up and wanna keep it that way)
I read somewhere in these threads that some of you add regs to Snap through some premium version? I know nothing about Snap chat but I’d hate to be passing up on passive income so early in the game just to kick myself later. How does that work? How the hell would I monetize IG? I have no idea what to do outside of hustling for pvts.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-24-2018, 08:12 AM
I sure do miss the sun. I may have to get my dog some Xanax to handle these thunderstorms. Poor thing, I walked into the room and he was sitting in the corner with his face to the wall. Like Blair Witch style! It freaked me out.
Glamourmilf
07-24-2018, 08:52 AM
I sure do miss the sun. I may have to get my dog some Xanax to handle these thunderstorms. Poor thing, I walked into the room and he was sitting in the corner with his face to the wall. Like Blair Witch style! It freaked me out.
Come on over. I'll switch homes with you.
The sun never seems to set here.
It's probably why all the dogs are so calm, now that you mentioned it.
*But come only if you don't mind temps over 120.:hot::sun:
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-24-2018, 09:01 AM
Come on over. I'll switch homes with you.
The sun never seems to set here.
It's probably why all the dogs are so calm, now that you mentioned it.
*But come only if you don't mind temps over 120.:hot::sun:
Over 120? Naww Im good. :)
BadBitch
07-24-2018, 09:25 PM
I sure do miss the sun. I may have to get my dog some Xanax to handle these thunderstorms. Poor thing, I walked into the room and he was sitting in the corner with his face to the wall. Like Blair Witch style! It freaked me out.
I ALWAYS say that my dog is "Blair Witch"ing it when he stares at a wall. Your poor dog. That makes me sad.
I've been obsessing about my dog lately. He's older and slowing down. It's got me so anxious. Yesterday, a friend's dog passed away then I saw on FB that another friend's dog passed tonight. It's so upsetting.
Glamourmilf
07-25-2018, 08:26 AM
Over 120? Naww Im good. :)
Ikr? It sucks so bad here, that I actually miss living in LA.
* Cut to me packing and moving back to LA.
6 straight months of this is way too toxic.
Low rent just not worth it anymore.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-25-2018, 02:56 PM
I ALWAYS say that my dog is "Blair Witch"ing it when he stares at a wall. Your poor dog. That makes me sad.
I've been obsessing about my dog lately. He's older and slowing down. It's got me so anxious. Yesterday, a friend's dog passed away then I saw on FB that another friend's dog passed tonight. It's so upsetting.
I can relate to these feelings. My dog is 11 yrs old and around May he started having all sorts of issues. Its like his age caught up with him overnight. I honestly think that my stress levels due to this may have had something to do with me getting sick a few weeks ago. This dog is like a child to me, so I understand.
He has a condition that Id never heard of before called a collapsing trachea. If I had known that this even existed I would have had him on a harness over a collar years ago. He's doing much better and has gotten his energy back. But I hover over him and jump up everytime he sounds like he may start coughing. Giving him a tiny portion of honey every day has helped that. It works for inflammation and coughing. If you ever have an questions or need suggestions for homeopathic pet care I can hook it up.
Missbeth
07-26-2018, 10:39 AM
So I started dating a guy a few months ago, the first time we hooked up he told me he likes feet and I thought "great". I've always hated foot fetish guys on cam, at least in my experience they just want freebies and I can hardly ever get them to spend. I really like this guy so I figured why not indulge him, turns out I really like it irl. He's easy to please because of it and the endless foot rubs are awesome. The downside is I've been camming for 8 years and always knew fetishes can be the equivalent vanilla sex to people with them but now I feel like I actually have a total grasp of that and while the constant foot questions always used to annoy me now the are on the same level of guys asking for "normal" freebies like "show ass" "show tits".
NitaBaby
07-26-2018, 05:21 PM
I knew I was gonna have a problem when I had sex twice and then got on cam. I can’t get wet for a dildo like I can for a man so now I have to take the damn day off and pray that this monistat cream fixes what I broke.
Juliette25
07-26-2018, 09:50 PM
When we pass 30 do more customers automatically think we want to play their fucking mothers? I'm not into the mommy thing at all and I get it constantly. I'm 33. It's retarded to be acting like a 27 year olds "mommy".
I'm sick of pedos too. Guys wanting to talk about "small virgins" and shit.
Fucking betas all of them. I'm getting way better at keeping my boundaries firm these days.
Aside from the venting what I'm really wondering is over the past 8 years have customers preferences gotten more depraved overall or am I just being inundated with this crap and it's skewing my view?
KiaraK
07-26-2018, 11:57 PM
When we pass 30 do more customers automatically think we want to play their fucking mothers? I'm not into the mommy thing at all and I get it constantly. I'm 33. It's retarded to be acting like a 27 year olds "mommy".
I'm sick of pedos too. Guys wanting to talk about "small virgins" and shit.
Fucking betas all of them. I'm getting way better at keeping my boundaries firm these days.
Aside from the venting what I'm really wondering is over the past 8 years have customers preferences gotten more depraved overall or am I just being inundated with this crap and it's skewing my view?
I’m voting more depraved....or all the freaks came out this summer. Had a guy that wanted me to play along with his pedo/rape/bestiality fantasy. I’m not comfortable with any of those things let alone rolled into one. Unlike some of the other callers I get he didn’t become upset or hang up, he actually thanked me for being honest. Then went on to tell me what a fucked up individual he was. Not that I would disagree but....
JackAlexander
07-27-2018, 02:29 AM
Self reflection sucks. My earnings for the first part of the year sucked and I have only myself to blame. I have discovered that tracking my earnings daily can desensitize me to how I are doing over all. I decided to do semiannual reviews this year of my earnings across all of my sites. I just finished and it was like a punch in the face. I slacked off severely at the beginning of the year because of vanilla work and illness. I can only justify one month out of the five months due to recovering from a serious surgery related to the illness. Thankfully after my recovery from surgery, I have been seriously working so June was good for me and July is turning out great. Maybe I should do quarterly reviews from now on because it has motivated me to really step up my game and keep it up.
I do quarterly reviews. Daily was messing with my head; good and bad, but I need balanced!
QuickBooks self-employed is cheap and advises you on how much/when - taxes to pay quarterly and you see all of your profit and loss with a click of a button. The self employed version is really stripped down so you do not need to know anything about accounting; walks you through everything.
Connect your bank account attached to your cam income, once a week or every few weeks, go in and tell QB if it is business or personal, it will even ask you if you want to create a rule for repetitive transactions so you don't even have to look at them.
Then go to reports and there is your breakdown ya'll :D
You could print these reports out for your tax adviser or connect to TurboTax to import your data.
Juliette25
07-27-2018, 07:44 AM
I’m voting more depraved....or all the freaks came out this summer. Had a guy that wanted me to play along with his pedo/rape/bestiality fantasy. I’m not comfortable with any of those things let alone rolled into one. Unlike some of the other callers I get he didn’t become upset or hang up, he actually thanked me for being honest. Then went on to tell me what a fucked up individual he was. Not that I would disagree but....
CMD? I probably know who you’re talking about if so lol.