View Full Version : The Official 'What's On Your Mind?' Thread!
addytoi
08-26-2018, 03:50 PM
I was $360 short on rent because SM was just so dead this week. I’ve never kicked myself harder for waiting so late in the month to put rent money aside. BUT I cammed from 9pm Friday night until 7pm Saturday and I am soooooo happy to have made that shit.
Lessons learned: 1. Pay rent the first or second week of the month 2. Never rely on just one cam site again 3. Get a sea sponge for shark week.
I am glad that you were able to make your rent. I learned the hard way to prioritize my bills a certain way when things get tough.
1. Anything that would stop me from making money(electricity, internet and phone)
2. Rent
3. Bills that late payments would really hurt me
4. Remaining smallest to largest so I am feeling accomplished as I am paying off bills
Thankfully, I haven't had to fall back on this in a while (mostly because of working different site) but it is always my game plan when things are really slow for me.
NitaBaby
08-27-2018, 05:46 AM
I am glad that you were able to make your rent. I learned the hard way to prioritize my bills a certain way when things get tough.
1. Anything that would stop me from making money(electricity, internet and phone)
2. Rent
3. Bills that late payments would really hurt me
4. Remaining smallest to largest so I am feeling accomplished as I am paying off bills
Thankfully, I haven't had to fall back on this in a while (mostly because of working different site) but it is always my game plan when things are really slow for me.
Lesson learned!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-27-2018, 07:34 AM
I think its time to get a new work phone because this lg aristo aint cutting it anymore. It freezes all the time and my apps are always crashing. Has anyone ever purchased an unlovked phone online and were able to get it turned on successfully? A long time ago they were people at the flea who could unlock phones but that was kinda shady.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-27-2018, 07:37 AM
Aaaannnd...SW is being weird (What else is new?), and not letting me delete my duplicate post. ^
Yea the site has been weird for a long time now. I submitted an inquiry. To delete you have to erase the contents then add something like --------- or "duplicate post". If someone quotes you and you'd like it erased just let me know.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-02-2018, 09:11 AM
I woke up feeling amazing. Not a single sign of an achey back. Ive been having some issues since I slipped and landed on my butt last winter. But at the beginning of the Summer I made some dietary changes and its working out like a mofo.
Anyone ever try following a pescatarian diet for any period of time? I don't want to keep it up forever (love steak too much) but I would like to get to the point where fish is my main staple.
NitaBaby
09-02-2018, 01:10 PM
Dick clears my mind like nothing else in this freggin world :meditate:. I demand more, sir.
Serena-Shields
09-02-2018, 02:00 PM
Uhhh...what's up with the new call-recording feature on Skype? Will I know if I'm being recorded? Wtf.
TheBrownFox
09-02-2018, 05:54 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLi1ZmCLH2A
Who else cried when Smokey sang this at Aretha's funeral?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-06-2018, 06:29 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLi1ZmCLH2A
Who else cried when Smokey sang this at Aretha's funeral?
I didnt watch the funeral live but I did watch the twitter reactions. They were so entertaining.
NitaBaby
09-06-2018, 06:53 AM
My kindergartener is struggling in school and I have no idea how I’m supposed to help her. She isn’t grasping concepts. You have to basically tell her the answers - and even still you can see that it isn’t registering WHY that’s the answer. I’m a horrible tutor so my methods aren’t working and if I’m too patient then she thinks I’m playing a game with her. The girl doesn’t have a disorder, she’s just disinterested. But the problem is so bad that her teacher mentioned it three times in 2 weeks. She’s largely behind the other students and has to be re-directed to the task at hand often. I thought they just colored and wrote their abc’s all day. If she’s behind now, when school just started, then she’s going to suffer later in the year. Maybe I should get a tutor. But I have to make money first. This is stressful.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-06-2018, 07:06 AM
My kindergartener is struggling in school and I have no idea how I’m supposed to help her. She isn’t grasping concepts. You have to basically tell her the answers - and even still you can see that it isn’t registering WHY that’s the answer. I’m a horrible tutor so my methods aren’t working and if I’m too patient then she thinks I’m playing a game with her. The girl doesn’t have a disorder, she’s just disinterested. But the problem is so bad that her teacher mentioned it three times in 2 weeks. She’s largely behind the other students and has to be re-directed to the task at hand often. I thought they just colored and wrote their abc’s all day. If she’s behind now, when school just started, then she’s going to suffer later in the year. Maybe I should get a tutor. But I have to make money first. This is stressful.
Im sorry to hear this. Did the teacher make any suggestions on what steps you should take? She may need a new teacher at school and a complete change of environment. She might become more interested if she has a teacher that she connects with. Its frustrating, I know Ive been through it.
We had a similar issue where the class was off balance leaving some kids behind and not able to complete task. When I say off balance I mean there were more children who constantly acted out than those who were well behaved. The teacher spent most of her time giving them so much one on one attention that the other kids were just left sitting there. We switched class rooms and then the next year the school all together. Dont feel bad about not being able to tutor her yourself.
Marina Starr
09-06-2018, 11:27 AM
“Have kindness in another’s troubles and courage in your own."
~Grandma
DeepThoughts
09-06-2018, 03:14 PM
My kindergartener is struggling in school and I have no idea how I’m supposed to help her. She isn’t grasping concepts. You have to basically tell her the answers - and even still you can see that it isn’t registering WHY that’s the answer. I’m a horrible tutor so my methods aren’t working and if I’m too patient then she thinks I’m playing a game with her. The girl doesn’t have a disorder, she’s just disinterested. But the problem is so bad that her teacher mentioned it three times in 2 weeks. She’s largely behind the other students and has to be re-directed to the task at hand often. I thought they just colored and wrote their abc’s all day. If she’s behind now, when school just started, then she’s going to suffer later in the year. Maybe I should get a tutor. But I have to make money first. This is stressful.
In kindergarten children should be playing so that they can develop their motor skills. That will help them later when they need to write (grade 1) They should be doing things like singing their ABC's and counting number. She shouldnt be writing anything in Kindergarten she should be learning colours, singing songs, learning to tidy up and following a schedule. Children at this age do not need tutors they need a routine that they can count on both at home and at school and learning should be mostly playing right now so I wouldnt stress it.
Have you considered her age? What is her age and which month was she born in? I ask because if she was say born at the end of September and they thought put her in kindergarten now because she will be 4 at the end of the month then actually she is behind because she is way to young. Give her some time to adjust and stop stressing it until you have had a few months in the school at least. Please dont let her know you are stressed about it just laugh it off! Once kids start to develop these skills it happens really fast like from one month to the next she will switch on. If you still she issues 6 months in you will need to see someone about it but not a tutor. Could be mild autism or a learning disorder. These things are easy to deal with once you know how.
NitaBaby
09-07-2018, 06:18 AM
In kindergarten children should be playing so that they can develop their motor skills. That will help them later when they need to write (grade 1) They should be doing things like singing their ABC's and counting number. She shouldnt be writing anything in Kindergarten she should be learning colours, singing songs, learning to tidy up and following a schedule. Children at this age do not need tutors they need a routine that they can count on both at home and at school and learning should be mostly playing right now so I wouldnt stress it.
Have you considered her age? What is her age and which month was she born in? I ask because if she was say born at the end of September and they thought put her in kindergarten now because she will be 4 at the end of the month then actually she is behind because she is way to young. Give her some time to adjust and stop stressing it until you have had a few months in the school at least. Please dont let her know you are stressed about it just laugh it off! Once kids start to develop these skills it happens really fast like from one month to the next she will switch on. If you still she issues 6 months in you will need to see someone about it but not a tutor. Could be mild autism or a learning disorder. These things are easy to deal with once you know how.
She’s 5 as of last June and I’ve already had her checked for disorders so I made sure to mention that she doesn’t have any. But I knew I wasn’t going crazy, I thought Kindergarten was when they learned how to behave in a structured environment, became familiar with broad learning concepts, and napped. We’re doing her homework right now and she is doing spelling and some math.
Now that I mention her homework I feel kind of crazy for stressing out about her being “behind” but according to her school she is. We’re just going to go over the stuff she does in school everyday - weekends included. I feel weird pulling out the flash cards and spelling worksheets at this age.
NitaBaby
09-07-2018, 06:23 AM
Im sorry to hear this. Did the teacher make any suggestions on what steps you should take? She may need a new teacher at school and a complete change of environment. She might become more interested if she has a teacher that she connects with. Its frustrating, I know Ive been through it.
We had a similar issue where the class was off balance leaving some kids behind and not able to complete task. When I say off balance I mean there were more children who constantly acted out than those who were well behaved. The teacher spent most of her time giving them so much one on one attention that the other kids were just left sitting there. We switched class rooms and then the next year the school all together. Dont feel bad about not being able to tutor her yourself.
The teacher seemed really helpful and made a point of telling me “before the issue gets worse” but she was lost for ideas and what we could do. I don’t have any answers but now that I’m not fresh out of a parent/teacher conference I feel like I can turn this situation around and find a solution that works for my daughter.
P
SoloDesire
09-07-2018, 07:30 AM
She’s 5 as of last June and I’ve already had her checked for disorders so I made sure to mention that she doesn’t have any. But I knew I wasn’t going crazy, I thought Kindergarten was when they learned how to behave in a structured environment, became familiar with broad learning concepts, and napped. We’re doing her homework right now and she is doing spelling and some math.
Now that I mention her homework I feel kind of crazy for stressing out about her being “behind” but according to her school she is. We’re just going to go over the stuff she does in school everyday - weekends included. I feel weird pulling out the flash cards and spelling worksheets at this age.
Yeah, they are pushing children earlier now. Preschool is now what Kindergarten was when most of us were kids. They try to get them started earlier now. I was a Pre-K teacher for 11 years. I don't think it's fair that they are labeling your child so early though. She needs time to adjust. I'm glad that you are working with the teacher, just don't be too worried yet. Every kid learns and adapts at different speeds. You seem like a good mom who's willing to work with her child. I don't think you have anything to worry about <3
Marina Starr
09-07-2018, 09:28 AM
Oh wow, I just found out Burt Reynolds passed away at 82. I have a thing for older men and thought he was so sexy back in the day. They sure don't don't make them like they used to. All we got left are fuckboys. Rip Burt.
http://i65.tinypic.com/2wqddl5.jpg
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-08-2018, 07:45 AM
And now Mac Miller is gone too. I shouldn't be surprised at all after listening to his music these past few years. He was really talented and so underrated.
NitaBaby
09-08-2018, 02:30 PM
Yeah, they are pushing children earlier now. Preschool is now what Kindergarten was when most of us were kids. They try to get them started earlier now. I was a Pre-K teacher for 11 years. I don't think it's fair that they are labeling your child so early though. She needs time to adjust. I'm glad that you are working with the teacher, just don't be too worried yet. Every kid learns and adapts at different speeds. You seem like a good mom who's willing to work with her child. I don't think you have anything to worry about <3
:thanx: I appreciate the encouragement.
Marina Starr
09-10-2018, 12:44 PM
I LOVE this. This also goes for camming because girls do get shamed for low rates, doing cheap gs, and etc.
I was a shampoo girl working at the salon sweeping hair. If I had to do it again, I sure will.
And I love Trader Hoes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoBt1Ojw_UM
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-10-2018, 01:04 PM
I LOVE this. This also goes for camming because girls do get shamed for low rates, doing cheap gs, and etc.
I was a shampoo girl working at the salon sweeping hair. If I had to do it again, I sure will.
And I love Trader Hoes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoBt1Ojw_UM
I was thinking that Trader Joes should start running commercials. And then hire him as their ambassador. That would be a feel good story and a come up for all parties. He's going to get more work now regardless.
SuperPookie
09-10-2018, 01:42 PM
I was thinking that Trader Joes should start running commercials. And then hire him as their ambassador. That would be a feel good story and a come up for all parties. He's going to get more work now regardless.
I was thinking something similar. Like making him a spokesman.
The whole thing is complete crap though as here's a guy staying out of trouble and supporting himself and then getting flack for it. Evidently people would prefer he was in the tabloids for od'ing or getting arrested. >:(
Marina Starr
09-10-2018, 01:58 PM
THIS! I rather him working any job he wants then overdose, becoming a druggy or criminal.
I was thinking something similar. Like making him a spokesman.
The whole thing is complete crap though as here's a guy staying out of trouble and supporting himself and then getting flack for it. Evidently people would prefer he was in the tabloids for od'ing or getting arrested. >:(
NitaBaby
09-10-2018, 11:53 PM
I feel bomb asf when I flat iron my hair. My man is going to lose his shit when he sees it since he likes it this way the best. I cant lie, curly is cute but right now I feel like Jessica Rabbit.
caramelcraze
09-11-2018, 04:54 AM
I've done my annual 4th quarter upping of the rates across the board and it seems to be going not too poorly thus far.
Marina Starr
09-11-2018, 07:46 AM
I love Amazon. I just dropped of a return this morning at UPS. Less than two hours later they issued my refund.
Damn, that was FAST ;D
Marina Starr
09-11-2018, 02:04 PM
‘You owe me an apology.’
~Serena Williams
Why would you want an apology from anyone if you need to ask or tell them?!
Ingenuine apology is good for the ego not the soul.
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2018, 08:47 AM
me2.. I just returned a coffee grinder.. this time they came to my house to pick up... I think it depends on the item cuz sometimes I have to go to the UPS store to drop off also.
I love Amazon. I just dropped of a return this morning at UPS. Less than two hours later they issued my refund.
Damn, that was FAST ;D
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-12-2018, 09:57 AM
me2.. I just returned a coffee grinder.. this time they came to my house to pick up... I think it depends on the item cuz sometimes I have to go to the UPS store to drop off also.
Yup! They've come right to my house. I didnt even have to print out the return label. The driver had it ready.
Marina Starr
09-12-2018, 10:02 AM
I was in the middle of something as I was reading your post and thought you're on grindr, LOOOL.
Amazon actually let me choose whether I want to drop it off or UPS can come to my house and pick it up. I chose to drop it off because I don't want UPS to show up at my door while I'm hoeing. I do miss checking out UPS guys bulges ;D . #slut
me2.. I just returned a coffee grinder.. this time they came to my house to pick up... I think it depends on the item cuz sometimes I have to go to the UPS store to drop off also.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-12-2018, 11:14 AM
No matter where you go, there you are. -Life
NitaBaby
09-12-2018, 12:45 PM
Today's gonna be a doozy. I didn't make goal last night because i was just so damn tired. I tried to make up for it by commiting to a morning shift on top of my usual night shift tonight but this morning didn't produce what I wanted. It looks like I'll be getting right back on after I pick my girls up from school. Dinner, homework, and cam by 6pm. It has to be done. Hopefully I'll make the $100 that I'm "missing" in a reasonable enough time before my normal shift starts.
Marina Starr
09-13-2018, 09:54 AM
They sure don't make music like they used to. No skimpy outfits, no silly acts, just pure talent!
MOOD:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yURRmWtbTbo
breadandbutter
09-13-2018, 11:07 AM
After 100+ quick shows over the years with a good regular who uses c2c, I am fully convinced that he has a fake penis that he strokes. Now to wonder why~~~
NitaBaby
09-13-2018, 11:06 PM
I’ve been watching the HELL out of Jeffree Star’s YouTube channel ever since my sister brought him up over some negative shit he apparently said about black people. I’d never heard of the guy before. So why did my black ass become a whole new subscriber? I like him.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-14-2018, 11:30 AM
I would really like to know the details behind Amazon's banking setup. I realized that no one in my house watches Starz after being charged for a subscription yesterday. So I decided to cancel and two hours later the amount was credited back to my bank account. I wish cammodel banking was this fast. They're not playing around.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-14-2018, 02:58 PM
I love 90s music. Tamia Stranger In My House Video (www.youtube.com/watch?v=diNyoOyTI5g)
Tamia has recently put out some new 90's style jams. Check this one out... Leave It Smokin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QsXQOaf0LQo
I'm getting those CC Music Factory/ Brand New Heavies vibe from this one.
Marina Starr
09-14-2018, 03:27 PM
Same as I how I felt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qi0qceDp6MA
NitaBaby
09-15-2018, 06:34 AM
Warning: this post is full of negative energy, so feel free to skip my rant.
My check is coming late because of that hurricane, I’m assuming. I needed it on time for gas money, clean clothes, and to put food in the house. My kids and I are down to beans and ramen noodles. My internet bill is due today so I’m trying to set up an arrangement before my shit gets cut off. and since I don’t have any gas money I’ll have to miss the laser hair removal appointment that I scheduled 6 weeks ago. My girls missed school on Friday because I don’t have any gas and it looks like they’ll miss it Monday, too, because that is when the tracking info says my money will arrive.
What horrible, irritating timing! This week has been a good earnings week but last week (and the one before that) I could barely buy $100 worth of groceries so I don’t have anything set aside for an emergency. But you know what. :meditate: A check is still on it’s way. A bigger check is coming next Friday. And I’m going to work 7 days this week to ensure a gorgeous check the week after that. It could truly be a lot worse.
WHEW. I needed to get that off my chest. I’m tired of mumbling around the house, kicking imaginary rocks. Sigh. Fuck it. Time to move on.
jigglypuff
09-18-2018, 07:19 AM
I love being pregnant cause I don't have to worry about shark week with this job... but then sometimes I hate it cause if I don't work a day or a couple of days I feel like the laziest sack of shit. Almost looking forward to that month of straight bleeding and healing stitches so I have an excuse to take a break LOL.
NitaBaby
09-18-2018, 07:36 AM
Almost looking forward to that month of straight bleeding and healing stitches so I have an excuse to take a break LOL.
Ahh, sitting with you legs closed 24/7 and sitting on a medical cushion to use the toilet. Good times. I miss literally doing nothing for that whole month.
jigglypuff
09-18-2018, 07:45 AM
Ahh, sitting with you legs closed 24/7 and sitting on a medical cushion to use the toilet. Good times. I miss literally doing nothing for that whole month.
With the burning when you have to pee, adult diapers and mesh underwear, and cooling spray. Can't move too fast or too much cause you don't want to ruin your stitches. It sounds like actual heaven compared to dealing with the men in free chat. lmao. I truly cannot wait.
NitaBaby
09-18-2018, 07:55 AM
With the burning when you have to pee, adult diapers and mesh underwear, and cooling spray. Can't move too fast or too much cause you don't want to ruin your stitches. It sounds like actual heaven compared to dealing with the men in free chat. lmao. I truly cannot wait.
This is truly nostalgic lol. I slept downstairs for 20 days because I couldn’t lift my leg high enough to go upstairs for bed. You lucky bastard, I need these problems.
jigglypuff
09-18-2018, 09:36 AM
This is truly nostalgic lol. I slept downstairs for 20 days because I couldn’t lift my leg high enough to go upstairs for bed. You lucky bastard, I need these problems.
I am so thankful I have my bedroom on the first floor for this reason. I will be thinking of you all when I am on my "leave". Hoping for nothing but good days with lots of money for you all. These two and a half months cannot come fast enough! Will be spending the days binging on netflix and working on my business so I don't have to do full time camming anymore. I am already bitchy enough with enough sleep! These men havent seen bitchy no sleep me yet lol. I am ruthless
PixiieGirl
09-19-2018, 09:50 AM
I'm excited to hand my notice in at my vanilla job, moving cities is gonna be great :D
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-19-2018, 10:11 AM
I'm excited to hand my notice in at my vanilla job, moving cities is gonna be great :D
Congrats! I love new beginnings.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-19-2018, 10:14 AM
Breaking News: Kylie Jenner tries cereal with milk for the very first time!
Dear lord, please save us.
PixiieGirl
09-19-2018, 10:28 AM
Congrats! I love new beginnings.
thanks lovely! I'm moving to the place I've wanted to live since I was a teen and all my friends and family are there, its really exciting and my mum cant wait lol
addytoi
09-19-2018, 11:21 AM
My money goal for this week no longer seems obtainable. Currently battling an allergic reaction. Hives are not sexy. And when I sat in Free Chat bored, I started scratching which did not help. Currently waiting for Benedryl to kick in and will probably go back to bed. I hate being an adult sometimes. I know scratching is not good for me so I don't do it but I know it would feel sooo good while I am scratching. lol
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-20-2018, 12:57 PM
My money goal for this week no longer seems obtainable. Currently battling an allergic reaction. Hives are not sexy. And when I sat in Free Chat bored, I started scratching which did not help. Currently waiting for Benedryl to kick in and will probably go back to bed. I hate being an adult sometimes. I know scratching is not good for me so I don't do it but I know it would feel sooo good while I am scratching. lol
Do you know what you're allergic to? I have to keep benadryl on standby because of my allergies.