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Cutie101
03-18-2019, 06:37 PM
I am also in full process of ditching the bread, for this week. In the last 2 weeks I made a habit of adding a salad to every meal except breakfast. Now that it got into my routine and got used to it, I am taking the next step of giving up on bread.
Next step is giving up on sugar (I mean, reducing it).

Miss_ShaSha
03-18-2019, 06:47 PM
I am also in full process of ditching the bread, for this week. In the last 2 weeks I made a habit of adding a salad to every meal except breakfast. Now that it got into my routine and got used to it, I am taking the next step of giving up on bread.
Next step is giving up on sugar (I mean, reducing it).

Yes! Ditch bread. I stopped eating bread 4 weeks ago. Sweet you're adding in that salad! So weird: so much sugar in food without extra added sugar. You know cause you used MyFitnessPal. I've been posting in the "what did you eat" thread. I'll follow your progress if you post there & support. It takes a village haha :)

Miss_ShaSha
03-18-2019, 06:53 PM
Sorry, one meal a day. Another variation is the Warrior Diet. :)

THAT is hard core. One of my Fitbit pals water fasts frequently. He does OMAD 5 days a week. He kept trying to encourage me to do it. It's soooooo hard!!!

I mean, I'm still hungry during the day eating 1500 calories & drinking 120 ounces water too. Wild.

Cutie101
03-18-2019, 07:10 PM
Yes! Ditch bread. I stopped eating bread 4 weeks ago. Sweet you're adding in that salad! So weird: so much sugar in food without extra added sugar. You know cause you used MyFitnessPal. I've been posting in the "what did you eat" thread. I'll follow your progress if you post there & support. It takes a village haha :)

I forgot about that thread lol :)) I'll come back to it too :))

seicento
03-18-2019, 11:56 PM
THAT is hard core. One of my Fitbit pals water fasts frequently. He does OMAD 5 days a week. He kept trying to encourage me to do it. It's soooooo hard!!!

I mean, I'm still hungry during the day eating 1500 calories & drinking 120 ounces water too. Wild.

I think OMAD is too harsh. I love IF because 16:8 is something doable long term. Personally, I can't cope much with food restriction, with hunger. I do 16:8, when I sleep more it turns into an 18:6 but in my eating window I eat whatever I want, high carb usually, 2 meals and a snack. I only try to keep the calorie intake around 1600. And it's working great.

I am 10 lbs away from my goal. At my goal I will still be overweight but I have to stop there as I already lost half my boobs. Not being obese anymore is a great accomplishment for me. I'm feeling my bones again, LOL!

seicento
03-19-2019, 12:19 AM
Ummm, not really, I sometimes feel hungry, but I did IF and it was pretty helpful. I work the nights so, I stop eating after 3 am and have my first meal at 4PM.
I guess I'll stick to 1500 and see what happens :)))

Try doing 16:8. We naturally fast 8-12 hours as we sleep. And please don't go below 1200 cal. I did that in the past and I've got ill. I know everyone is different but if you work out you might be able to lose with 1500-1600 cal.

Miss_ShaSha
03-19-2019, 09:45 AM
I think OMAD is too harsh. I love IF because 16:8 is something doable long term. Personally, I can't cope much with food restriction, with hunger. I do 16:8, when I sleep more it turns into an 18:6 but in my eating window I eat whatever I want, high carb usually, 2 meals and a snack. I only try to keep the calorie intake around 1600. And it's working great.

I am 10 lbs away from my goal. At my goal I will still be overweight but I have to stop there as I already lost half my boobs. Not being obese anymore is a great accomplishment for me. I'm feeling my bones again, LOL!

I agree wholeheartedly that 16:8 is ideal. I've been IF this way for about a year in addition to the indoor cycling I engaged in regularly as a Spinning instructor (calories were 3,000 a day). I just started the calorie restriction about 4 weeks ago to lose weight as I gained due to a lack of regular training on the bike.

Bottom line: IF 16:8 is healthy & sustainable for me.

Congrats on your loss! That takes discipline. I hear you on body composition (I have no ass & boobs at my weight LOL.)

seicento
03-19-2019, 10:00 AM
I agree wholeheartedly that 16:8 is ideal. I've been IF this way for about a year in addition to the indoor cycling I engaged in regularly as a Spinning instructor (calories were 3,000 a day). I just started the calorie restriction about 4 weeks ago to lose weight as I gained due to a lack of regular training on the bike.

Bottom line: IF 16:8 is healthy & sustainable for me.

Congrats on your loss! That takes discipline. I hear you on body composition (I have no ass & boobs at my weight LOL.)

Thank you! :-*

I have a big ass, doesn't want to leave me. But my boobs...they didn't love me enough to stay. ::)

Marina Starr
03-21-2019, 06:49 AM
I'm having a strong craving for CHICKEN NUGGETS!!!!!! So that's what I'm gonna be having today. I got tons of sauces from Chic Fil A so it's gonna be good.

If you're reading this, I hope something amazing happens to you today.

Arwen25
03-21-2019, 09:25 AM
Oh lord, I know what I'm having tonight, Marina! :D

Re fasting: I think there is a sweet spot for everyone. OMAD is too extreme for most people, especially if you are physical in your job or do a lot of exercise.
I find a 5 hour eating window is perfect for me, with a longer one at weekends. But this is because I'm an an evening eater, and also a hobbit. If I have breakfast, the floodgates open and I just can't stop (I want elevenses and second breakfast too. ;) ). So I prefer to leave eating until the late afternoon. But everyone's different, and some of us do great on a big breakfast. :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-21-2019, 10:00 AM
I'm having a strong craving for CHICKEN NUGGETS!!!!!! So that's what I'm gonna be having today. I got tons of sauces from Chic Fil A so it's gonna be good.

If you're reading this, I hope something amazing happens to you today.

Are you making your own chicken nuggets? Your mention of Chic File A reminded me of a dish I've been wanting to put back on my truck. French Fry Sundaes. This time I'm gonna use waffle fries. It's the bomb dot com. People gave me the side eye when I started making them, but It's a regular request.

Side note: I hate when restaurants fail to mention that their fries are seasoned fries. Those aren't the same. I don't like those.

Marina Starr
03-21-2019, 10:49 AM
The nuggets are not Hoemade but Hoe baked. Chic Fil A gave me a lot of their package sauces that I never use them all so they add up. I just counted 25 package of sauces in different flavors ;D


Are you making your own chicken nuggets? Your mention of Chic File A reminded me of a dish I've been wanting to put back on my truck. French Fry Sundaes. This time I'm gonna use waffle fries. It's the bomb dot com. People gave me the side eye when I started making them, but It's a regular request.

Side note: I hate when restaurants fail to mention that their fries are seasoned fries. Those aren't the same. I don't like those.

caramelcraze
03-22-2019, 11:48 PM
Today I turned an old friend of mine from being a long time cam show lurker into an actual paying member and it made me super proud. He immediately found someone who does exactly what he likes & had an awesome time as well!

PixiieGirl
03-23-2019, 06:06 AM
1500 is LOW. You might be able to do 1200 if you drink half your body weight in ounces of water a day too. The ladies here are intermittent fasting too, like myself, & that could really help. I eat last meal at 6-7pm then do not eat until 10-11am.

It's gonna be soooooo hard to stay below 1200. What helps me is a lot of veggies & avocado.

Have you been successful staying below 1200 before?
My goal is 1200 as I’m only
Five foot one and I don’t excerise, tbh with fasting it’s pretty easy, I tend to snack on
2-4 rice cakes then eat a big meal for dinner - I drink a lot of green tea to help the hunger to

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-23-2019, 07:08 AM
Today I turned an old friend of mine from being a long time cam show lurker into an actual paying member and it made me super proud. He immediately found someone who does exactly what he likes & had an awesome time as well!

Awesome! Keep doing God's work you sweet angel. ::)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-23-2019, 07:10 AM
I need to step my YouTube game up. I've been slacking. I just watched a guy make $300 in five minutes. He was talking about TURTLES!!! I'm about to get me some turtles.

Miss_ShaSha
03-23-2019, 07:23 AM
^^hahahaaaa

Marina Starr
03-28-2019, 08:09 AM
No response is a response!
http://i65.tinypic.com/6ds3n5.gif

***********

What a week I've had but still feeling blessed. I have money for rent, bills so I'm counting my blessings.
It's so beautiful today so I'm gonna drive with the top down and treat myself to whatever I want.

PixiieGirl
03-28-2019, 09:31 AM
Lost 1 lb on my diet already and I’m not even off my meds yet (it should come off much easier once I am)

Banging mood :)

Marina Starr
03-29-2019, 05:58 AM
I LOVE make up... got some new blushes and ended up using a bit much but I love it. These Sonia brushes only available at Target are so good. Highly recommend them.

I'm on edge this week so I'm not holding anything back.

I want to address men that never grabbed, groped or assaulted women: it doesn't make you great or good. Just makes you normal. That's how normal people behave. You don't get a gold medal for doing the bare minimum.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-29-2019, 08:54 AM
I want to address men that never grabbed, groped or assaulted women: it doesn't make you great or good. Just makes you normal. That's how normal people behave. You don't get a gold medal for doing the bare minimum.

That's like a he ones who are like I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS!!! So many will say that like it's a selling point. Well you made those kids and that makes them yours. Taking care of them is what you're supposed to do.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-29-2019, 08:56 AM
Even the coldest of hearts shall be melted.

https://youtu.be/LHuhKtMbnrs
http://www.camhustlers.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/this-is-the-cutest-shit-ive-ever-seen-me-every-4112486-01.jpeg

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 09:56 AM
^^I concur, cutest shit I've ever seen. I've been doing yoga off and on since college and even took it at University. I have an online subscription which I utilize when meditation isn't enough. That video made me smile and now my chest is super warm. THANKS!!!

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 10:00 AM
I feel at peace. I made goal on SM already and I'm on til 6pm. And I'm only $33 from weekly goal. This week on SM has been pretty rough. The technical issues created some anxiety, but I was already stressed as I took a week vacation and needed to make goal.

What's on my mind right now is gratitude. I'm so very thankful to all the men I've engaged in shows with who not only have been respectful, but have made making goals possible. Thank you Universe. Good looking out.

Marina Starr
03-29-2019, 02:20 PM
Gratitude turns what we have into enough. #gratitude #grateful


I feel at peace. I made goal on SM already and I'm on til 6pm. And I'm only $33 from weekly goal. This week on SM has been pretty rough. The technical issues created some anxiety, but I was already stressed as I took a week vacation and needed to make goal.

What's on my mind right now is gratitude. I'm so very thankful to all the men I've engaged in shows with who not only have been respectful, but have made making goals possible. Thank you Universe. Good looking out.

Miss_ShaSha
03-29-2019, 04:57 PM
Gratitude turns what we have into enough. #gratitude #grateful

Well said :)

QueenMary
03-31-2019, 03:19 PM
The adult twitter should be titter, obvs

anonamiss
03-31-2019, 04:12 PM
The adult twitter should be titter, obvs

or clitter :P

Miss_ShaSha
04-01-2019, 11:28 AM
I have a male friend who is partially paralyzed. He relies on a wheelchair about 90% of his waking hours. He's honorable discharge Navy special ops. This man is incredible. He participates year round in athletic competitions for special athletes.

My worst day is his good day. Talking to him helps me put bad days in perspective.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-02-2019, 12:50 PM
I've been researching ponds and I think I want to build one? YouTube makes it look so easy LMAO. A rec pond that I can swim in would be nice, but those are like $20,000 to start if you pay an expert. Here's the turtle guy that makes a couple hundred bucks every time he goes live. His ponds are gorgeous. Kamp Kenan


https://youtu.be/jfeVBS6co1M

PixiieGirl
04-02-2019, 01:04 PM
I saw a new doctor today, he was great, prescribed me what I wanted and okayed me coming off the anti-psychotic I was on. On top of that Ive lost another 2 lb. Im so pleased that Im making progress and it's nerve wracking coming off my meds but I feel in a place to get better :D

Miss_ShaSha
04-02-2019, 01:16 PM
I have a very good friend who was on Zyprexa (an antipsychotic) which put so much weight on her, but the med worked wonders. Anyhow, it's hard to lose weight on most of those. I'm happy to hear you're doing well enough to get off the med AND losing weight!!!

Miss_ShaSha
04-02-2019, 01:20 PM
The sun is shining and it's warm. I'm going to take a walk after my shift and take advantage of the weather. I've really relaxed on training and haven't been in a Spin class in a few weeks plus I've been slacking on walking. It's the perfect day to go for a mile walk.

PixiieGirl
04-02-2019, 01:33 PM
I have a very good friend who was on Zyprexa (an antipsychotic) which put so much weight on her, but the med worked wonders. Anyhow, it's hard to lose weight on most of those. I'm happy to hear you're doing well enough to get off the med AND losing weight!!!

god yeah I put on over a stone on it - Im petite as is so its really noticable lol

Miss_ShaSha
04-02-2019, 01:37 PM
^^I just looked up the conversion: that is significant. 10 pounds will really show on a petite person so 14 pounds certainly would. Glad to hear you're losing weight. I'd be so relieved!

PixiieGirl
04-02-2019, 01:46 PM
on the plus some of it went to my tits so at least they look awesome lol

gotta look on the bright side right xD

Miss_ShaSha
04-02-2019, 01:49 PM
^^Ha! Mos def :)

seicento
04-02-2019, 03:24 PM
^Well done Pixiie <3


I must have hit a plateau, the scale isn't moving. I'm taking a break from exercising as I have terrible spine pains since three days now and it sucks. I miss exercising, keeps me in a better mood.

Smoak
04-02-2019, 06:46 PM
I'm starting to get to a point where I've lost almost all of my passion for my vanilla career. I've done hair for 6 years and my current salon is a great opportunity to grow. Especially after only being in this town for 2 years. But I'm having a lot of trouble with the color line, to the point where the senior stylist is essentially gonna babysit my color services for an undetermined amount of time.

And I'm just frustrated with all of it. The color, politics, clients, low pay. My anxiety has never been this high when doing something I used to really love.

I'm making so little right now I could probably go full time camming if I really set out to do it. But the vanilla job does pay the bills, and I'm scared to lose the security in that. My SO is in a precarious position of his own, so 2 job meltdowns really isn't what we need right now.

caramelcraze
04-02-2019, 08:18 PM
I'm starting to get to a point where I've lost almost all of my passion for my vanilla career. I've done hair for 6 years and my current salon is a great opportunity to grow. Especially after only being in this town for 2 years. But I'm having a lot of trouble with the color line, to the point where the senior stylist is essentially gonna babysit my color services for an undetermined amount of time.

And I'm just frustrated with all of it. The color, politics, clients, low pay. My anxiety has never been this high when doing something I used to really love.

I'm making so little right now I could probably go full time camming if I really set out to do it. But the vanilla job does pay the bills, and I'm scared to lose the security in that. My SO is in a precarious position of his own, so 2 job meltdowns really isn't what we need right now.

One of my friends was in a similar situation. She switched salons (even though the commute is longer) and she's much happier. Maybe look into that and start camming more in your free time just in case. that way you build up your clientele and still have a chance to continue your vanilla line of work. If it doesn't work out, you have a bigger customer list on cam and have a better chance of actually making it work full time.

Miss_ShaSha
04-03-2019, 06:08 PM
Patrice O'Neal: An Elephant in the Room is hilarious! I mean, he has me laughing so hard I'm having trouble breathing hahahaaa.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-03-2019, 08:42 PM
Patrice O'Neal: An Elephant in the Room is hilarious! I mean, he has me laughing so hard I'm having trouble breathing hahahaaa.

Patrice was really funny. Kevin Hart has a new special on Netflix. I'm gonna check it out in a bit.

caramelcraze
04-03-2019, 11:49 PM
Sorry if someone has already mentioned this, but I found a company called knotty vibes that sells menstrual cups just for the cost of shipping! they were featured in teen vogue (https://www.teenvogue.com/story/free-menstrual-cup-sex-toy) and are made from medical grade silicone! I ordered two this week. You can get them in 4 colors and 2 different sizes. :) Link is here (https://www.knottyvibes.com/products/free-menstrual-cup) if you want to check out the product itself.

PixiieGirl
04-04-2019, 02:16 AM
I finally signed up to NF last night. Big step for me as I have really bad anxiety around phones. Planning on just doing phone with cam for a while but Im proud of myself

Miss_ShaSha
04-04-2019, 04:01 AM
Patrice was really funny. Kevin Hart has a new special on Netflix. I'm gonna check it out in a bit.

My daughter has Netflix. I'm going to ask her for access as I love Kevin Hart!

QueenMary
04-04-2019, 11:37 AM
I finally signed up to NF last night. Big step for me as I have really bad anxiety around phones.

I hear ya. I signed up to TTM a year ago and every day I tell myself I'll start tomorrow. Camming comes fairly easy to me but not phone calls :/

Miss_ShaSha
04-05-2019, 05:02 AM
I was browsing the top girls on SM and noticed the same women are on as often, if not more, as myself (I cam 5 to 6 days a week). And there is a juicy BBW who is always in the first row. I was curious what she was about and now I know why she's always up there at the top:

She's sexy as fuck! I mean she can move her body with such control and the way she looks at the camera--I'm straight and I feel like I'm about to blush. That chick is a BOSS. I am so impressed.

Miss_ShaSha
04-05-2019, 12:56 PM
Patrice was really funny. Kevin Hart has a new special on Netflix. I'm gonna check it out in a bit.

Thanks for this. Irresponsible is very funny. That bit about the mirror on the ceiling and he said his ass all broke out: full batch of meisels on my ass and didn't know it hahahaaaa I laughed so hard!!!

caramelcraze
04-06-2019, 02:51 PM
Sorry if someone has already mentioned this, but I found a company called knotty vibes that sells menstrual cups just for the cost of shipping! they were featured in teen vogue (https://www.teenvogue.com/story/free-menstrual-cup-sex-toy) and are made from medical grade silicone! I ordered two this week. You can get them in 4 colors and 2 different sizes. :) Link is here (https://www.knottyvibes.com/products/free-menstrual-cup) if you want to check out the product itself.

Follow up! got my cups yesterday and tried one out. fit beautifully and was super comfortable (way more so than soft cups which always leak for me for some reason). 10.99 for two cups was sooooo worth it!

Marina Starr
04-11-2019, 10:49 AM
One of the highlights of my day is rocking 'Make America Gay Again' shirt and getting judged from homophobes.