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ScarletKitten
02-13-2017, 12:47 AM
Dear D.,
I hated that you acted so entitled the last few weeks we were dating. I hated going out of town for my birthday with you. You are seriously the most boring man I have ever been with. I thought it was really low of you to make me pay for half the trip & cheap motel room when it was my BIRTHDAY. But you know what, whatever dude. Oh by the way, I'm disgusted by you too. I should have never let you drive my car. The fact that you don't even own a car and had to rely on me and my car should have been a red flag. Also, you're not as intelligent as you think you are. My intelligence far surpasses yours, buddy. And you didn't have to act so mean & shitty at your brother's bar. I wasn't trying to "cause any trouble" you dipshit. And your cheapness made my pussy dry up like the Sahara Desert. So....good luck trying to find a chick as hot and cool as me that will fuck your cheap, boring, entitled ass! Peace!
KariSwitch
02-13-2017, 01:13 PM
Dear Ex Girlfriend,
I know how much you loved Valentine's Day, that you just texted me this weekend seeing if I had any plans, and wanted to know if I wanted to grab a friendly cup of coffee for V-day. Can you - go suck a big fat one??? Maybe you didn't get the hint when I didn't text you back. Maybe I should have texted you back a pic of me naked in another girl's arms. I hope you burn in hell or that you sit on a bed of rose thorns... You broke up with me, and now I realize how controlling and manipulative you were, and how I'm in such a better place without you. I never thought I'd say this, but this girl is so fricking happier without you.
SamanthaSugar
02-14-2017, 12:51 AM
Love your letter. Can't stand cheap and frugal guys. Huge turn off! Its like dude where's your pride, Didn't anyone teach you on how to be man????
WendiStarr
03-02-2017, 02:15 PM
Dear ex fuck buddy,
You moved out of state. Why do you keep coming back and calling me to hook up? Can you really not find any pussy out there that you have to drive 8 hours to try to get some from me? What the hell!? This has got to stop.
seashell
03-02-2017, 04:09 PM
Dear Czech Guy,
I wish you were less of an asshole. You were a good friend until we started getting intimate, and then your true colors came out. Learn some manners, sheesh.
Dear Croatian Guy,
I wish you weren't the exact picture of what I was once looking for in a guy. You're an engineer, you're in great shape, your body is chiseled and hard as a rock, you're good in bed, you're romantic, and you're hilarious. You also have a really cute accent, even if there is a slight communication barrier. I may one day move to Croatia, not because of you but because I love the country, and I hope by then you're in a serious relationship, because I need a clear-cut reason not to contact you.
Dear Ex-Friend with Benefits,
I kind of hate you for admitting your feelings for me, and then taking them back. You're not a bad person. But you're slowly breaking my heart, and that's exactly why were were only fuck buddies in the first place. I kept my feelings to myself until you made everything weird -- this was 100% not my fault. I can't wait to leave the country again, just so I can stop thinking about what could have been.
Violethollywood
03-13-2017, 06:31 AM
so i feel like this is appropiate to put it here. : Dear ex husband, I know after 3 years you can't get over the fact that i left you even though you're remarried with a new child, but seriously, get over it. WE are no more and never will be again. I like wearing heels, your dick is small and you're abusive. Please get over whatever it is you have against me, do it for your new wife , yourself and more importantly your new kid. Stop with the dumb shit. You're just making your life more stressful as well as mine. Thanks!
with hate,
Your first wife.
LoveyDovey
03-16-2017, 04:57 PM
Dear assholes,
I win.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
JoBee
03-25-2017, 08:07 AM
Dear Ex,
Choke on a chicken bone and die.
Sincerely me
starburst
03-25-2017, 08:33 AM
Dear Almost Lover,
I am sorry I lead you on. You were everything I could have ever asked for, but instead, I was young and too concerned with keeping what I already knew. I still remember the tingly feeling when you approached me and asked me out. I remember feeling so appreciated by you. One day, you are going to make someone so, so happy, and I regret not taking charge when I had the chance. If I could rewind the years...
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-25-2017, 03:52 PM
Dear evil ex-
it took several years but today I finally processed the horror of you raping me. I don't know how your parents raised such a monster. I guess money & breeding can't fix a complete bucket of garbage (you.) I rest easy in the fact that at your current age the only women who will have you will have an idea of what has kept you single for so long. Drop dead miserable motherfucker.
Ginnyyy
03-27-2017, 01:20 PM
Dear Ex,
I am not mad at you for telling everyone I am a cam girl after I broke up with you because all the important people in my life already knew that and for the rest, I literally don t care.
Wishing you to become mature before life hits you and learn it on the hard way :)
DonaDiabla
04-12-2017, 05:56 PM
Dear ex-sugar daddies,
Everything could have been so much fun for both of us. However,you guys started to suck because you thought that this was a real relationship. Frankly, it was very strange to hear guys who were just 38 and 45 talk like 90 years olds. Also, what was up with this declaration of "love"? Listen, I am not buying this for a second. You got obsessed with the way I made you feel and how much money you were giving me. Just because a girl taps into that teenage boy within you....that does not mean that is love. Next time, just get a regular girlfriend to spoiled and leave the sugar babies alone. Seriously, a nice tinder date is what you need. Or maybe meet some girl at the Burger King's bathroom? :)
Dear Tattooist:
Look, our marriage was a sham but I thought we could always be friends. You promised me this at least. That was awful not to return my phone calls that I made during my homeless period. You could have offer me a spare bedroom in the house that you owed. Well, those punks helped me out and helped me get back on my feet. Thanks for the tattoos, dark philosophic debates about pain and sex, helping me learn about the tattoo business and weird sex. How does your new wife and many children feel about our wedding pictures still hanging in the house? Maybe you should replace our photos on your facebook profile? But I guess not!
Dear Red Stripe Beer:
You were a boring disappointment by Caribbean standards. You were a bad fiancee with snob parents.
Bananabunny
04-12-2017, 07:53 PM
To my Ex Chinese Crush:
It was also a bit of my fault why we never dated. I realized that running after you made me look creepy. But you know what? You made me hopes. Hopes that true love still exists while being perverted. But no. Just no. Sending nudes won't get you to love me. You men are greedy. The more you get the more you want. But you men won't get anything from me anymore.
To my Ex Korean "Sugar Daddy":
You also made me hopes. I should have never got manipulated by these fake compliments of you, but I get them daily on cam by freeloaders who tell me "ass plz" right after they complimented me, that reminds me of you, just that you sadly got what you wanted. After awhile you got "too busy" for work and ignored me while screwing thousands of other women from the same website when before you told me that you are searching for one personality girl only and you don't feel like juggling multiple girls. L I A R You NEVER paid any of them and manipulated them and forced them to have sex with you just like you did to ME!! I told you twice clearly NO but you still put ur ridiculously small dick inside me.
You also made me realize I should get celibate since last year November cuz I realized no woman should have sex with a guy who she wants a serious relationship with him BEFORE agreeing of being a couple. That's a fuckboy shit that you and many do on young women and it sadly works. But this is the last time this shitty mind fuck trick worked on me. I am done with you and all men on this planet for now. I am also done with pointless un-romantic sex. The only thing I have to do with men is my cam business where I bank like shit right now, shrugging off their feelings and not catching any back while making these delusional foolish guys fall in love with me with my fake cam-cutie-next-door-girl-behavior which I copied from top models just so I can pay my bills because I am too lazy to get a normal job in real life and I deserve to be the fucking queen.
A Queen doesn't needs a King, when she's having her slaves.
Ps: The following isn't a diss it's the truth, but I couldn't feel your dick inside me at all. I pity all those women who you fucked and couldn't feel ya dick as well I did you coward.
Ps ps: You should know I could have gone to the police for the rape you made on me. But you know why I never did that? Because I pity you. You probably won't get that many women to fuck you with that XXS dick of yours.
I hope you land in jail sometime and that you may NEVER marry nor reprocude.
ScarletKitten
04-12-2017, 08:37 PM
I realized no woman should have sex with a guy who she wants a serious relationship with him BEFORE agreeing of being a couple. That's a fuckboy shit that you and many do on young women and it sadly works. But this is the last time this shitty mind fuck trick worked on me. I am done with you and all men on this planet for now. I am also done with pointless un-romantic sex.
This is pure truth right here. I am subscribing to the same rule.
WendiStarr
05-03-2017, 06:57 AM
"Just know that I feel the same way and one day I promise we will be together. I'm not joking. I love you.
C"
^ What the fuck was with texting me that? Your actions have done nothing to prove that you thought of me as anything more than just a fuck buddy, yet you repeatedly have randomly sent me "I love you" messages, mostly late at night. Enough of the mind fuckery! If you truly loved me you wouldn't have only called me up when you were horny and wanted to get your dick wet. Fuck you and kiss my ass!
miss.a.p1600
12-05-2017, 02:24 PM
You know what cocksucker, you are a complete douchnozzle! If I had a 12 inch BBC strap on I would deep throat you until you gag and tears come out your eyes. Then slap you in the mouth with said BBC strap on dildo.
When I tell your bitch ass 2 days in advance that I have free time, your role as a man is to take the fucking hints and ask me out the next day. When I don't hear from you then don't come back later like a whiny bitch complaining we never hang out.
And I know I have said this numerous times and you act fucking senile then complain later.
Thanks for not responding to my text when I finally acquiesce to your non-stop whining because now I see your true colors.
Like most men = coward!
What the hell is so hard to just say hey lets date other people or hey lets take a break or what not.
*sigh*
Whatever! You don't deserve to be in the presence of a queen any damn ways.
---Turns out his ass was sick.
----But I still mean everything I said. I should get a bbc strapon for xmas.
WendiStarr
12-06-2017, 07:36 AM
Dear ____,
Nope, I don't buy the excuse again that you fell asleep, not this time. Everything could've been fine if you had told me that you were tired and needed to take a nap first, not made it sound as if you had left work and were already driving on the road, on the way over. It's not that hard to send a text like,"Sorry, something came up. Can't make it" or, "Sorry, forgot I already had plans. Raincheck?". No, you left me to sit there, waiting and wondering for several hours and trying to contact you to no avail. You could've changed plans to a different day and I wouldn't have been upset but to leave me waiting like that? You didn't respond until 3am the next morning with,"I fell asleep". Do you not realize how absurd that sounds after you said that you were on the road, driving here? What, you fell asleep in your car while driving? I can't deal with someone who's going to make plans with me and not show up or let me know what's going on. I do not need anyone in my life who will be disrespectful of my time and feelings like that. I don't care if they are a friend, lover, relative, client, or anyone. You stand me up, you lose my trust until you follow through on your word. You could've easily made up for it and redeemed yourself by rescheduling and actually showing up that time, not blowing me off and pulling a Houdini for a 2nd time, jerk!
Cutie101
12-06-2017, 06:30 PM
I wouldn't even bother to spit, thinking at him.
He's an ex, I don't look back at that motherfucker, I only move forward and look for something better, that deserves my attention and time.
Letter to him? Fuck that, it would be an honor for him, to get that for me.
miss.a.p1600
12-14-2017, 07:55 PM
Dear narcissist douchebag,
If your smog ass taunts me one more time, I will report you to the laws for the harasser you are. And I hope they rough you up and mistake you for an escaped criminal.
No I never wanted to marry you, You are not a prize. Matter of fact you're worthless - you have community dick - anyone can get a ride (nothing special if anyone can get it), you don't practice safe sex (not trying to risk my pussy health for you), and you are a sorry excuse for a man.
If I saw you naked Id tell you to put your clothes back on and keep the change you filthy animal!
LoveyDovey
12-17-2017, 08:24 PM
Dear ex C,
You were my boyfriend of 9 years. When I heard your business and home were recently threatened to be burned from by a wildfire, I checked in with you to make sure you were okay. It's the decent thing to do. It doesn't mean I'm thinking of hooking up with you. So please don't send me 5:30 am emails, telling me how you are on your boat in the marina near my house, thinking about your life, and you'd love to hear from me. Just because I checked in on you doesn't mean I want to fuck you. I am very happy in the relationship I'm in now and even if I weren't in a relationship, I still wouldn't go back to you ever.
You lost me because you didn't know how to respect me or my feelings. And emailing me at 5:30 am for a booty call tells me you have not changed a bit.
WendiStarr
12-18-2017, 04:45 PM
Dear asshat,
What was the meaning of sending me a Christmas card in the mail? How in the hell did you even get my current address in the first place? I never gave it to you, let alone seen or heard from you in 6 years. Go screw yourself. Thanks.
Aurora_Sunset
12-21-2017, 09:10 AM
Dear ex who I thought I was friends with these days....
Thanks for totally rescheduling that catch up session we were supposed to have back in September that you canceled last minute. /sarcasm
I know you've been super busy with work and finishing off a master's degree - I didn't hold it against you for canceling. But you seriously couldn't find a spare moment any time in the last 3 months to so much as send me a quick message apologizing for not rescheduling and promising to do so when you were done with school? Not a single fucking message since you blew me off that night and I said "No problem, let me know if you have any time in the next few weeks?"
We now haven't seen each other in over a year, and the only times we've spoken at all are when I reached out. Why did I bother? Why did I believe that you were serious about being cool and adult friends with one another? Now that your fiance finally officially moved to America, guess you don't need to keep me placated on the off-chance that you'd want to try to hook up when you're lonely. I see where I stand. K then
Fuck you and everything you've done for the past 10 fucking years.
Aurora_Sunset
12-21-2017, 09:42 AM
Dear guy I lost my virginity to,
I honestly wish I could say "fuck you" with genuine venom, because the truth is, it really sucks that you became what you did. To this day, you are the only person I've ever known, only friend I ever had, who I could talk to about anything and everything. We talked EVERY day, for hours and hours, about literally everything. You were the smartest person I think I ever knew, and yet you not only never made me feel dumb for my thoughts or opinions or lesser knowledge of a topic than you, but you'd actually ask for my thoughts or help on a lot of things that I was good at. Most men, especially very smart men who know they're very smart, would never do that. Time flew by when we talked. It never felt like a burden. The ease with which we talked and connected and never judged is something that I had never experienced and don't know if I ever will again.
To this day, I guess I'll never know why you were so adamant to disappear twice without so much as a word. I don't know why you kept popping up from time to time after that, and even apologized one night, if you were never going to follow through on actually keeping a connection going. I don't know... I was less than friendly when you tried... I felt like I had nothing else to say to you. You had severed that comfort and trust and I couldn't talk to you anymore. Maybe it's my fault we never truly rekindled back then. But then why not just let it go? Why suddenly crawl out of the woodwork after 6 years of not speaking, just to make the conversation like pulling teeth? I'M not the one that sent the initial message - why the fuck did you reach out if you weren't going to talk unless I pried something vague out of you?
You have your PhD. Your beautiful wife is working on her PhD. You obviously met your intellectual match and have a great life going for you. I think I'll always wonder what sort of response I would have gotten (if any) if I had come back and straight-up asked why you had felt the need to contact me that day. But after a year and a half of dwelling on it, with no further messages from you, I decided that whatever the fuck was going on with you was not as important as my own peace of mind. I didn't confront you, I didn't demand an explanation, and I was done being the girl that hangs around on your facebook, waiting to see if you'll "cave" some lonely night and contact me again for... whatever your reasons. I just deleted you.
Have you noticed yet? How did it make you feel? Guess it's none of my business.
Our story isn't even that dramatic, but it might be the saddest one I have. I wonder what kind of a "story" in your life I am to you...
Oh well... good riddance
LoveyDovey
12-23-2017, 05:48 PM
Dear ex C,
So do you feel lime a total dumbass yet since I haven't responded to your email?! Oh well....
seashell
12-24-2017, 09:53 AM
Dear Ex-Fuck Buddy who became my Ex-Boyfriend,
All signs pointed to "run far away," and I did. I attempted to move back to Europe without you, but you attached yourself to my hip and decided to come with me. Now it's Christmas Eve, and we're broken up, living in the same apartment but avoiding each other for the holidays. What the actual fuck. I can't believe you brought your broke, lazy self all the way to another continent, only to completely fail at making a living and break up with me because you're miserable here. I saw this coming a mile away, but for some stupid reason, I couldn't say no to you.
I'm tired of being dragged along in your wishy washy, indecisive life choices.
I'm tired of you changing your mind about whether you want to be with me.
I'm tired of footing the bill.
I'm going to spend every waking moment working or away from this stupid apartment. I'm trying so hard to forget about those little glimmers of hope that you gave me. I knew this wouldn't work out from day one, and unlike you, I don't think it has still been an "awesome" time. It's been a heart wrenching mindfuck.
Have fun sleeping on the couch,
Seashell
xxxGothBarbie
01-16-2018, 03:08 AM
Dear Asshat of 3 years,
I put up with ALL of your mental, verbal, and physical abuse for 3 fucking years only to have you leave me for some raggedy ugly ass toothless worn out whore that nobody wanted. It's been 5 months since our split with minimal hoovering attempts on your part but only when you were fighting with princess toothless. You broke my heart & fucked up my self esteem but ya know something??? I'm moving past it all , I've moved on to someone else who values my time, body, and heart. Someone you used to call a friend LOL , thanks for being such a shithead. You lead me to someone much better than you, much better at EVERYTHING than you were. I actually get to orgasm now several times in a row, instead of dealing with a two pump chump that was talking shit behind my back. THANK YOU!!!! I actually have someone who made me fresh squeezed orange juice when I was sick & was thirsty, THANK YOU! I actually have someone that loves my body & tells me constantly how beautiful I am, THANK YOU!
Enjoy your toothless hag while she uses you then ditches you when she finds someone better on Tinder. Enjoy your forthcoming lonely nights when she laughs in your face after leaving you.
Enjoy not having any friends ever again bc you were so selfish for what you did to me & your friends all for a hag with zero value.
Enjoy your empty narcissistic alcoholic life draining Mommy Dearest for pennies.
Goodbye Snuggle~
xxxGothBarbie
P.s It's so nice not to have to listen to you calling me a fat bitch anymore when you lose your temper or you are acting like a child. It's so nice not to have to worry if you're cheating on me everytime you go out. And lastly it's so fuckin nice not to have to be around your scummy low life loser friends that enabled your shitty behavior.
I'm Done Now Thanks~
WendiStarr
01-16-2018, 01:43 PM
Dear M.,
What is the most meaning of contacting me just to compliment me on my artwork? Why do you continue to stalk my work-related social media page? No, I'm not quitti g unless you can prove you want more than a booty call, which I can get anywhere, any day, anytime. Follow through on your original plan and maybe, just maybe you'd have another chance. Otherwise fuck off.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-18-2018, 04:40 PM
Dear Ex....I'm grateful your wife sticks with you out of pity. I hope you be honorable and pay off her student loan bill.
miss.a.p1600
01-18-2018, 07:33 PM
Dear fuckface,
No I am not interested in you. You are a loser with a smedium dick, a beer gut, failing career, and a balding head. And you know what? It turns out I can perform a much needed penis enlargement, tummy tuck, and hair transplant - all in one setting. And for transparency (something you are too ignorant to know about/understand) I am unlicensed and no I do not use anesthesia. But you know what they say - no pain no gain!
Enjoy your miserable life.
You are not worthy of my time. You really should be paying me to put up with your shenanigans and to pay attention to you.
sarahlove
02-10-2018, 03:55 AM
L and K- You never knew I was the best thing that ever happened to your marriage. I never threatened your marriage and I was honest with both of you. Then you fucked up between yourselves and your marriage would have ended so you threw me under the motherfucking bus. I will be a millionaire soon. Remember when you laughed at me about investing. Remember when you said phone sex was just cigarette money? Well I quit smoking. I invested the money. I invested the money from phone sex. I invested the money from camming. I invested the money from the books and videos and training materials. I invested in PEOPLE. I helped other humans be in a better place. I have helped women keep their homes and their cars and go on to have amazing lives.
SO K your oil business is shit no one wants rose petal oil for $49 a bottle. Remember when you were doing porn.. go back to that... it is REAL money.
L- The dick was good. I will give you that.. but you are the worst kind of user. You are the kind of user who finds women who were hurt and uses them. You were building me up but you were building me up so I would depend on you. Well I go over getting over you and I realized that the biggest FUCK YOU will be when you find out how well I am doing and you see me buying the things I am saving cash for and you will HATE yourself because I will no longer be available. P S buy a fucking watch
Aurora_Sunset
03-21-2018, 07:52 PM
Dear Ex...
No matter how terrible you've been sometimes, and especially lately, or how justified and relieved I feel in ending things, I really do feel bad for the fact that you are hurting over the breakup. I really do believe that you genuinely believed that we would get married and be together forever some day. I really do believe that you just didn't internalize and fully realize how much you were wearing me down and pushing things to the end - doesn't make your ignorance ok, and, again, I feel justified in being angry about it - but I can see how, from your perspective, things fell apart with little warning. And I do understand how discombobulating it must be for the ultimate catalyst to be your behavior when you were so drunk that you have no memory of doing it. Again - doesn't make the actions ok, intoxicated or not - but I get how little closure there truly is to having your last memory being drinking and being happy, and then next thing you know, you're being told that you were an abusive asshole and I'm done with you.... it would throw anyone for a loop emotionally.
I don't blame you for being extremely thrown off, hurt, and depressed. Nothing you've done to manipulate me since then has been ok... I'm certainly not about to go running back to you or forgiving you for the shit you've pulled. But I feel bad about the level of hurt you must be feeling. Moments keep flashing through my brain. The moment when we got back to my apartment after breaking up out of town, and you were leaving my place, and just sorta paused and turned around in the doorway and looked at me with the saddest, most "is this really the end, how can this be" look in your eyes, before turning around and walking away. The tone of voice you'd have when you'd call during pockets of us being on good terms, and you were tentatively but optimistically reaching out to regain some sort of connection and normalcy, and you just sounded so innocent and hopeful... which always resulted in you getting hurt and crushed all over again when I didn't respond in the way that I used to.
I think the thing that gets me is that I really do know that I was a shitty girlfriend to you a lot. Especially the last few months we were together. I've always held the belief to take what people say about their "crazy exes" with a grain of salt, because few people are truly THAT crazy without any sort of provocation, and a lot of the time that you look deeply at how the person claiming that their ex is "crazy" treated said "crazy" ex, you will find that they treated them like shit until they acted crazy as a result. So a part of me wonders if I really did contribute a lot to your bad behaviors by not being fully invested in, and often lying to, you. Yeah, your claims about me lying to you all the time pretty much were true, even when a lot of it was petty shit that shouldn't have been lied about... but also the big ones.
A part of me thinks I should apologize someday. ... but not any time soon...
I really do hope that you figure out a way to move on and be really happy in the future. You're not a bad guy. Just a little immature with shitty coping mechanisms and self control. Work on that, and really, any woman would be honored to have you. I am thankful for the look into myself as well, and I hope that I have the courage to apply it in the future and be better from now on as well. They say the best relationships are the ones that tear you apart and make you take a good, hard look at yourself. I feel like we both did that for each other - we're not meant to be soulmates, but all the shit we went through together could be exactly what both of us needed...
PS: I really did love you... and still do... I just was never able to fall in love with you - I really get the meaning of that now. And it sucks.
WendiStarr
03-23-2018, 11:05 AM
______,
It would make my life 1000 times easier if you'd stop contacting me just to say,"Hi" or "Hey" and when I say 'Hi' or 'Hey' back or say,"Hi, how are you doing?", you disappear like a ghost again. What's the point of contacting me in the first place? I'd rather you not contact me at all if your only intention is to breadcrumb.
miss.a.p1600
03-23-2018, 11:17 AM
Listen up C*cksucker,
Stop stalking me!
What part of I DO NOT want you do you not get?
I have excellent willpower and no amount of trying to entice me is going to change my mind. There is nothing you could ever do, as a matter of fact now you are looking real pitiful AND wasting my time which is only pissing me off. I wish I could ignore you so you can leave me alone.......
kk446
03-23-2018, 04:58 PM
Dear ex GF from NYC,
FUCK YOU
FUCK YOU
FUCK YOU
AND FUCK YOU AND YA LIL TRIFLIN ASS FRIENDS FOR ONE!
TWO, YOU MAY HEXED MY ASS MAYBE ONCE
BUT IMMA THRIVE AND LIVE MY FUCKIN LIFE TO THE BEST AND FULLEST
GET OUT OF YA LAZY ASS AND START LOOKING FOR EMPLOYMENT
STOP FINESSING FACEBOOK WITH YOUR NON EXISTENT CLOUT
FUCK OUTTA HERE
idunno what else to say. I'm really trying to move on from this triflin ass relationship,yall.
SINCERLY, K
DeepThoughts
03-30-2018, 01:34 PM
Dear Abusive Jeff,
I know Im amazing. You can stop talking about me now. Its been 15 years since I left your ass so seriously you can stop talking about me now. :D
WendiStarr
04-01-2018, 02:47 PM
Fuck you, M. You are the biggest fucking jerk face ever. Fuck off and go fuck yourself.
Elektra Luxx
04-06-2018, 03:27 AM
Dear Good looking,
If I ever see you again it'll be to soon. I loved you and your daughter and I never commit to anyone so easily. There are times I still love you. And when I opened your door and found you with that other bitch, I was devastated. You really fucked me over. You changed whole outlook on life and it still affects me today. Good bye and good riddance ASSHOLE!!!
Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2018, 09:03 AM
Dear Psycho Ex,
You've officially ruined it all. Congratulations.
You know, I really wasn't saying all the "we're still friends" crap when we broke up out of habit or "being nice." We really were best friends for years before we started dating and I was sad to lose that. I tried. I really did. But even friendship requires some goddam space to readjust after a breakup, and you just couldn't give it to me.
Even after everything, I was finally sad about you a week ago. I finally really missed you. I even considered reaching out and telling you that I appreciated the space, and that I had even appreciated the attempts (however mangled) at friendship that you had made in the past few months.
But then the phone call out of the blue at 11pm because you suddenly want to re-argue about an old text message? Wtf is that? Were you not the one yelling at me 3 weeks ago about how I could "never just let anything go?" That I need to just "drop shit and move on" and leave you alone so you could do the same? Why are you suddenly calling me late at night looking to start shit about an old text message as though we're still in any sort of "arguing stage" of our breakup? It's been 3 FUCKING MONTHS. Were you drunk???
And then signing into my PSN account when you thought I wasn't online.... How many times have you done that now? Because you've obviously done it before. You signed into your own account and then immediately switched over to mine when you checked and saw that I was "wasn't online." Yeah, well, joke's on you - I had just made myself appear as "not online." Busted, asshole. The fact that you did it so fast and so obviously went to check my online status before doing that makes me know you've done this plenty of times before. You didn't log in to play your own video game, and then hem and haw over it as it was working its way through your mind or something and then you finally "gave in." It was an immediate sequence of events. You have done it before. What the flying fuck? What are you GETTING out of this?
You got so fucking offended when I told you that I had had people remove you from facebook so that you couldn't spy on me through mutual friends. Oh, you would never spy on me? I FUCKING KNOW YOU SPY ON ME. NOW I HAVE EVEN MORE PROOF.
Do you even have any idea how much it's fucked me up that you came into my apartment without permission? That you even came TO my apartment without permission? The only reason I didn't file a police report was because I'm slightly mentally removed from it due to not being home at the time. But now, every single fucking night, I sit in my apartment and I fear you coming to my door. I live in constant anxiety when I'm home alone that you will suddenly appear and pound on my door demanding to talk to me. And I don't even have the luxury any more of thinking I could just ignore you until you get tired and go away, because you obviously have no qualms about just fucking abusing a key you kept to come in anyway! And I never got that key back.... you swear you sent it, but I don't fucking believe you, because my mail doesn't get lost that often. My fucking god, you just HAVE to maintain some level of control over me, don't you? You know, the main reason we broke up - the overarching theme of every put down and argument and insult - was the fucking anxiety. My constant day-to-day life was just a ball of anxiety because I never knew when you would blow up next, over what, and what you would do about it. I thought I got away from that, but you have continued to make that my daily existence with your psycho-shit behavior. I like my apartment. I LOVE my apartment. I was trying to figure out every which-way I could keep this apartment even though it's a bit expensive right now. But now I feel like I can't stay here. I have to move just so you won't know where to find me anymore.
Leave. me. the. ever-loving. FUCK. alone.
WendiStarr
04-09-2018, 03:55 AM
Erik,
Stop creating new Kik names and burner numbers to contact me with. I know it's you. I blocked your ass for a reason. No, I don't want to talk to you, as if that wasn't evident by how I block you after finding out it's you. No, I don't want to hang out. I don't want you ever again. It's been 6 years. We were never anything more than a 2 night stand which I deeply regretted. Leave me alone already!
miss.a.p1600
04-10-2018, 09:13 AM
Dude,
You not even an ex but you acting like a lil bitch rn. Just because I gave you my number, after you kept throwing your thirsty ass out there, does not mean I owe you anything ffs.
Quit coming outside at the same time I'm out there. I do not want to see your clay body, your flat ass, your beady eyes, your looks of thirst/defeat/sorrow.
I do not want to deal with your subconscious petty fuck boy behavior.
Instead of getting butt-hurt like a weak loser, just go find some ladies, or men, that are more your league.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-11-2018, 05:09 AM
Dear abusive ex, you'd probably cry with regret if you saw how great I am doing now. & I would want it that way.
seashell
07-02-2018, 09:38 PM
Dear Loserface,
You've sent the worst mixed signals of any guy I've ever met. I met your family, I met your boss and coworkers, and you invited my mom to come stay with us on vacation. I kept trying to figure out why you acted like you were interested in something serious, but said and did things that were quite fucked up. I realized after living with you for two weeks, that you are toxic in the way that you talk about and treat women. I saw a dark side of you that is honestly scary. I am glad that I had the balls to argue back with you when you treated me badly, and that I didn't take any of your shit.
When I finally told you I bought my plane ticket home, you stayed home from work to make sure I didn't "steal anything before leaving." Go fuck yourself. You are the perfect example of men accusing women of being crazy simply because they are standing their ground. Kindly stop messaging me goodnight and calling me "baby." I unfriended you on facebook, I never want to see your pathetic face again, and I hope that having a girl finally stand up to you opens your eyes to what a giant dick you are. But I doubt it.
-Not your baby
Aurora_Sunset
07-07-2018, 11:40 AM
I don't want to be friends. I honestly don't know if I ever will again, but certainly not now. Stop texting me stupid "conversational starters" like we're still cool. We're not.
I know it's been over 6 months since we broke up, but with how long you continued to harass me, argue with me, and refuse to leave my life, it doesn't feel like it. I've literally only gone maybe one full month since we broke up without having to hear from you. And that was after months of you continuing to make my life a nightmare with your bullshit. It's not enough time yet. At this point, I don't know if there ever will be "enough" time to get over how demanding, entitled, and manipulative you proved yourself to be.
Stop fucking contacting me. Your stupid bullshit texts about a TV show are just one more way to control me. An "innocent" conversation that, if I don't answer it, makes me the bad guy all over again because "you didn't even do anything"/"why can't I just be civil?" Fuck off.
Fuck off and stop using my Hulu.
WendiStarr
07-09-2018, 10:46 AM
M.,
Why do you contact me just to say,"What's up" and then have the nerve to ask if I have any nude pictures or videos that I can send you because the countless pics and videos that you already have of me was "forever ago"? Fucking really!? You know about my health issue and don't even think to ask me how I'm doing? Nothing of concern from you other than to ask for free nude content?! No, I'm not going to go out and fuck or suck some random guy just so I can give you something to jack off to. What part of "I have cervical cancer" didn't you understand? Guys like you are a dime, five dozen and the reason I choose to be celibate. I'm much more than some personal pornstar/fuck doll, you know! Idiot.
kendallkushxo
07-10-2018, 08:46 PM
Hi,
You really need to go to a psychologist or psychiatrist. You have antisocial personality disorder.
P.s. pls stop breaking into people’s houses and acting like a brat when they don’t give you what u want
seashell
07-10-2018, 10:10 PM
Dear Ex from Last Year,
Um, I know I said I hated your guts, but... please be my booty call.
That is all.
-Seashell
Aurora_Sunset
07-11-2018, 03:54 AM
I was never in love with you.
I don't know why.
I literally feel like I accidentally entered an alternative timeline of my life, but am semi-aware of the fact that this is not where I'm supposed to be.. I don't understand why I am the way I am or do the things I do.
I don't understand why I never truly loved you
Aurora_Sunset
01-07-2019, 02:28 PM
Dear Ex,
I’ve been contemplating reaching out to you in the last few weeks. You still have me set to not be able to see anything you post on facebook, but a mutual friend told me about your dog passing away shortly before Christmas. I want to say I heard and I’m sorry. But I honestly don’t know if I want to open up any communication with you.
A part of me feels like it’s time for me to take responsibility for the crappy things I did in our relationship, which is something you always wanted me to do for your own closure – but I fear that my version of taking responsibility isn’t exactly what you’re looking for. You want me to take responsibility in a way that absolves you of taking responsibility for everything YOU did wrong. You want it to be that I did shitty things SO you were an asshole. I didn’t prioritize you SO you would lash out. I lied to you SO you didn’t trust me.
But from my perspective, it was the opposite. Nothing I did was ever good enough for you, SO I stopped prioritizing doing anything for you. You were an asshole SO I started doing shitty things. You never trusted me from the get-go and never believed me when I told the truth about something truly benign anyway SO I lied all the time to avoid telling you something small and stupid that I knew you’d just get pissed and start an argument about.
I should have still not done those things. I should have stood my ground and told you to shove it if you didn’t like the things I would tell you instead of lie about them to avoid the fight. I should have just broken up with you when it became clear how unhappy we both made each other. I had other options for just getting out and away instead of resorting to being a shitty girlfriend. THAT, I take responsibility for. But please know that the crummy girlfriend I was with you is not at all how I am in my current relationship. It wasn’t me just being me…. It was a reaction to YOU. I spent the better part of a year wondering if I really was just as much of a garbage person as you tried to make me out to be. But it only took a few months of seeing what a selfless, loyal, nonargumentative girlfriend I am with my new partner who doesn’t treat me the way you did to realize the worst parts of me were just showcasing themselves in response to you.
And to be fair, I think it was the worst parts of you showcasing themselves in our relationship as well. I don’t think that’s who you are all the time. I have seen much much better sides of you when we were just friends. But when it comes to relationships, you are very insecure and emotionally demanding without really even knowing what you want or need. It is exhausting trying to cater to someone who constantly contradicts what he wants and is never happy. I think you idolized me from the day you met me. But had you ever really sat down and figured out what you truly want, you’d never pick a girlfriend like me. You didn’t really want ME. You basically want someone to just KNOW exactly what would make you happy without you doing the work of figuring out what that is yourself.
Anyway… just some thoughts on my mind lately.
Sorry about your dog.
Happy 1 year anniversary of our horrible breakup.
miss.a.p1600
01-07-2019, 03:14 PM
Dear former favorite male coworker
Goodbye! I’m on to greener pastures.
Jalena
01-07-2019, 04:49 PM
Dear Ex,
I stand by what I said about your shit family. It's no accident you're unable to function like a grown man at the ripe old age of 40, still living on gran's sofa. That's only mostly on your years of drugs and drinking -- God forbid you examine anything that happened before and look seriously at getting away from that unhealthy fuckspot so you can have a chance at an actual decent life for yourself. Your parents failed you in so many ways, and I have no respect for them. Your sister .... you know better than most, no innocent child deserves to be saddled with her as a mother. Although I know you don't want to leave your nephew, and I sympathise, I wish for your own sake you would cut them all off and run far, far away from them forever.
Yes, I stand by what I said about them -- but even if it could be objectively said that those things, and everything else I said, were understandable since I was now at the end of my rope with your fuckery -- I still shouldn't have said it. I lashed out after being on the receiving end of your shit too many times, but that didn't give me the right to be cruel. It felt good for about a minute, 90seconds at the most, and it has haunted me since then. Even though I apologised a few hours later by text, thinking that was better than nothing at least until you sobered up, I wanted so badly to apologise to you in person, even at the time.
I have given you up three times now. I kept trying, you kept choosing the addiction and your fellow addicts over me. You burn everyone who cares about you and then feel bad that the only people left around you are all junkies. All the same, I would drive to you tomorrow and take you to rehab if you called. I have had to give up on my dreams of -us- and those 70years you promised me ... guess I should have known when you said 'I promise' that you were still full of shit ... but I have never given up on your ability to dig yourself out of this addiction hole, stay sober, and build the kind of good life that everyone who has truly loved you would want you to have.