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carmen_b
01-08-2019, 09:19 PM
J ( Aug. 2011 - Aug. 2018 ) :

Where do I even start ? You were a dream come true ( living on a tropical island with someone I loved was incredible ).
I'm sorry around year 5.5 we started taking each other for granted. I swear we could have come out of it ( I know the last year was rough ) but you took the cowardly route. You betrayed me. You chose to paint a picture of us that wasn't accurate and you killed us with negativity in the last 12 months.

Reaching out to you is like being starving and have a restaurant lock the door on me every time I walk up the steps.
I'm done reaching out. I'm sorry for my part in the decline .
I know I was hustling my guts out and sometimes ignoring you by default in the process.
For what it is worth, had you not betrayed me and if we could have kept our Sept. re-connection Hawaii trip on the calendar instead of just completely wasting that air fare money we could have had a shot.

Truly ..... what you did was wrong no way you spin it. Just because I'm not fighting like hell ( anymore ) doesn't make it less wrong. I'm just CHOOSING to walk away / look away and GRAB other opportunities.

I endured so much emotional abuse (criticism / whining / complaining) in the last year .
When a new person gives me a compliment .... I savor it.

C

p.s. - You owe me around $8,000 . That's just the general estimate of the work hours / hustle that I lost over the emotional trauma in the last 4 months. I'll take payments.

Violethollywood
01-09-2019, 09:18 AM
DEAR EX

One day, you will have to answer for all the shit you've done and continue to do in and effort to make my life miserable and stressful. What you are doing is not right . Just remember you reap what you sow.

WendiStarr
01-18-2019, 04:50 PM
Dear E.,

Please stop stalking me on Linkedin. I took my picture down and you still keep viewing my profile. Also, thanks to a dumb website that I never signed up for, I can see that _______ (you) searched for me. Go fuck your wife or your hand or maybe you can invest in one of those $3k sex dolls. Stop cyber stalking me.

miss.a.p1600
01-23-2019, 07:20 AM
Dear my formerly favorite male coworker

Not going to lie I miss talking and hanging with you and you lead me to feel romantically attracted to you even though you’re not my type. I probably would have let you eat this pussy and pleasure me sexually. But I realized you like to play mind games and you’re probably have some ugly Bertha looking bitch at home even though you claim to be single.

Well guess what mf.

I’m exiting the chat and you can sit back, watch as you notice my value and other men attracted to me, then Seethe in jealousy as you regret missing out on the best thing you never had

miss.a.p1600
02-23-2019, 05:53 PM
Okay former coworker whom I had a crush on who likes the string alone game

You win

I am giving up. For real this time.

Thank you for “being there” when I was stressed at the toxic workplace and taking my side. Thank you for making me laugh with inside jokes about annoying coworkers. Thank you for complimenting me and making me feel positive.

I get it. You are emotionally unavailable for whatever reason. And I won’t pry anymore.

miss.a.p1600
03-21-2019, 08:16 AM
Dear young dude,

Thanks for the time getting to know you.

I’m sure you have some good qualities however I have discovered that you wasted important parts of my time that I can never get back and I should send your ass an invoice in the mail

I’m moving on to greener pastures!

miss.a.p1600
03-23-2019, 07:35 AM
Dear collective (dudes that I’ve let go)

Most of You all should be ashamed to call yourselves men. Your indecisive qualities, your inability to love anyone but yourselves, your mediocre sex skills, your inherent cheap ass nature and selfish traits.

I’m glad to have moved on. If this is what men are I might as well pass.

Jalena
03-23-2019, 05:19 PM
(Same ex as my previous contribution to this thread, and this is one I am thinking seriously about sending)


Ex --

[Mutual friend] sent me the screenshot of your real feelings for [coke whore ex whom I ranted about the other day]. She was abusive, your words not mine, she treated you like shit and pulls you back to the addiction hole every time you start to straighten out ... but she is the one you will always love. I did everything I could to build you up, to help you, I gave you everything I had to give, I ended up in fucking hospital for you ... I have nothing but broken promises, stealing, cheating, the fear of STDs, and nightmares. Oh, and that cute little bone-deep scar on my arm that's just one more thing I have to lie about for the rest of my life.

Everything was for nothing because you live for cocaine, drinking, and that piece of shit. I just want to know WHY. Just. Fucking. Why. Why wasn't I enough, why does she deserve hearts and love songs posted on FB and your undying affection and the eternal love of your wandering dick, and all I get is hurt and silent treatment.

I really, truly hope that someday you get to learn what it's like to hurt like this, to ask yourself what you did wrong and have no answers. I truly hope that she loses her son and you lose your nephew. They both deserve people who put their well-being ahead of drugs and partying.

AChildOfBoredom
03-23-2019, 05:22 PM
(Same ex as my previous contribution to this thread, and this is one I am thinking seriously about sending)


Ex --

[Mutual friend] sent me the screenshot of your real feelings for [coke whore ex whom I ranted about the other day]. She was abusive, your words not mine, she treated you like shit and pulls you back to the addiction hole every time you start to straighten out ... but she is the one you will always love. I did everything I could to build you up, to help you, I gave you everything I had to give, I ended up in fucking hospital for you ... I have nothing but broken promises, stealing, cheating, the fear of STDs, and nightmares. Oh, and that cute little bone-deep scar on my arm that's just one more thing I have to lie about for the rest of my life.

Everything was for nothing because you live for cocaine, drinking, and that piece of shit. I just want to know WHY. Just. Fucking. Why. Why wasn't I enough, why does she deserve hearts and love songs posted on FB and your undying affection and the eternal love of your wandering dick, and all I get is hurt and silent treatment.

I really, truly hope that someday you get to learn what it's like to hurt like this, to ask yourself what you did wrong and have no answers. I truly hope that she loses her son and you lose your nephew. They both deserve people who put their well-being ahead of drugs and partying.

You're one of my favorite posters on here, and whenever I read your posts in this topic, it makes me want to castrate the guy myself.

Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2019, 02:56 PM
Dear Ex,

I've been missing you this week. Finally. I haven't actually missed you since we broke up over a year ago, but this week, I've finally hit that point.

I went to a free gaming convention and it made me think of you. It made me think of how things were during the good moments when we were together. Really, it made me think more about how good things were between us when we just friends. I still don't miss the boyfriend version of you, but I really miss being your friend. While I think our tumultuous relationship held a lot of valuable lessons for both of us, I really wish we had never tried to date. I would so much rather have kept you as a friend forever than to have gone through what we did and be where we are now. I remember the year that you didn't talk to me because you had a jealous girlfriend. I remember crying about how much I missed you. I had never cried before about a friend who was no longer in my life. I was so happy to get you back, and when we started dating, we both stated how we would hate to lose that friendship a second time... It is a hard loss.

Sometimes, I sit and fall down a rabbit-hole of "what ifs" about our relationship, and if it would have worked out or at least differently if I had done something different. But ultimately, it's pointless, because I always circle back around to this fantasy version of reality that basically asks "would we have worked out if I was a completely different person?" And that's just not something worth thinking about because I'm me. And you're you. And we were never gonna be compatible romantically because of that. I wish that was something I could have seen without going through the hellish trial of a relationship that we attempted.

I probably still won't reach out any time soon. But I do miss you.

carmen_b
03-28-2019, 04:40 PM
J : ( Aug. 2011 - Aug. 2018 )

Get the hell out of here and leave the dog like you promised.
Thank you. Sick of sharing custody . ;(
You were such a coward to " set up " a new relationship before ours ended.

p.s. - How the hell can you call what you are doing a "relationship" when neither one of you has made the effort to move near the other for 7 months ?

p.s.s. - I've had three amazing lovers in the past 3 months. I got full breakfast supplies ready ( toast / eggs / bacon , coffee , oj ) just in case B slept here. He got me off so many times last night and this morning that I lost track. I made his bacon extra crispy the way you used to like it.

C

AChildOfBoredom
03-28-2019, 06:45 PM
I made his bacon extra crispy the way you used to like it.

I want to tell you just how much I love that sentence as a finishing touch, but I feel like any words I could come up with would only fall short.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-02-2019, 07:23 AM
Dear Ex-

You failed at farming MJ, and that is hilarious.

miss.a.p1600
04-09-2019, 09:31 AM
Dear ex favorite former coworker

Yes I feel like a fool constantly being drawn back in to your web of sweet nothings.

You keep telling me one thing then taking cotdamn forever to take action.

I'm over it so stop thinking about me so I can stop thinking about you.

Maybe just being associates is for the best anyways

That's hard to say because I wanted to see where things could go.

You'll regret letting a woman of my caliber walk away.

I'm confident I'll meet a guy with the same positive qualities that I liked in you (minus the fears or whatever that you had)

carmen_b
05-02-2019, 09:12 PM
J : I noticed today that our names were still posted together inside the mail box.

I took the paper out, took off the top half with your last name on it and took it upstairs to burn it . I added some sage for good measure.

miss.a.p1600
05-07-2019, 01:01 PM
Dear former favorite ex coworker

I should have moved on in January but you kept playing good mind games and trying to reel me back in each time. Now that I have come to my senses, I’ll be out mingling with men who can appreciate and are excited to spend time with a lady of my stature.

Tried to show you a taste of the good life but you’re too oblivious and now I have to throw you back out to sea.

Goodbye dude......

carmen_b
05-18-2019, 11:54 PM
OMG , B !
I am not the bad person here. I TOLD you I don't do well without physical intimacy and long distance doesn't work.
You are an idiot too. I have epic travel plans.
I will find another LOVER to join me. I did everything I could think of .

WendiStarr
05-22-2019, 07:08 AM
Dear D,

I just want to let you know that I am on to your whole, "I miss talking to you and want to be friends" ploy. I understand that you're lonely and desperate after your fourth failed marriage and 50+lb weight gain; however my entertainment center is permanently closed to you.

Elektra Luxx
05-22-2019, 02:02 PM
Dear ReallyGoodLookingGuy,

I'm not sure how you found out about me being sick but really I don't care. I'm not in the least taken in by your false sympathy. I know YOU! You really don't care. You only want to get close to me again for your own needs. Yes, you told me you didn't want us to be exclusive, but you didn't act like you wanted to be exclusive and fell for you hook, line and sinker more than once, like a dog going back to lick up its own vomit. I probably should be thanking you because I thought I was smarter than that and I thought I was stronger than that and now I know better. I trusted you, I loved you, you made me feel special and for piece of ass, you tossed me aside like yesterday's trash. How old was she eighteen, maybe nineteen? I'm not even angry at her anymore. You're a manipulator. You know exactly what to say to get someone to trust you. Well I'm not falling for it. Save your false sympathies and go fuck yourself.

carmen_b
05-23-2019, 02:13 PM
^ OMG , this was not most recent bf was it ?

carmen_b
05-23-2019, 02:16 PM
B: You should said you were really bored in your home town. Why don't you ask your friends there if they think you should go tour on the road with your American stripper gf ( I said not to tell anyone but I would LOVE to hear their opinions of you missing out on these trips ). Show them the pics of my adventures. They will think you are as nuts as I do.

BUT hey enjoy that Melbourne suburb that you " can't stand anymore " and I'll send you a few more pics .

Elektra Luxx
05-23-2019, 03:01 PM
^ OMG , this was not most recent bf was it ?

No, the one before my current bf. At first I was just like it didn't bother me and then it hit me all at once. I was so angry and hurt and I went on a self-destructive binge I'm not proud of.

miss.a.p1600
05-23-2019, 06:32 PM
Alrighty then!

So you call me this morning I don’t answer cause I’m prepping for work.

I must have temporarily lost my mind so I call you back (twice) n you don’t answer.

So then you call me back and I wait till the third ring....then you hang up on the second.

I call you back n you don’t answer

The game you play! N I guess we just won’t talk then cause if you can’t handle a lady with my level of maturity then oh well


Dear former favorite ex coworker

I should have moved on in January but you kept playing good mind games and trying to reel me back in each time. Now that I have come to my senses, I’ll be out mingling with men who can appreciate and are excited to spend time with a lady of my stature.

Tried to show you a taste of the good life but you’re too oblivious and now I have to throw you back out to sea.

Goodbye dude......

carmen_b
05-26-2019, 04:54 PM
B , stop it with the 20 questions about dancing.

( somewhat my fault I know as I sent a pic of a money pile )

You are not HERE . You did not rent an apartment or room for me to go THERE .
You did not arrange to meet me in the MIDDLE in June despite the exact middle being a place I have connections.

You could have come on the road with me and visited all the clubs yourself as my traveling companion along with seeing the great scenery and wilderness places I visit in my off time.
No more free stories for you .

carmen_b
05-26-2019, 09:22 PM
B : Can I just also say there are things that keep a long distance thing alive . Flowers. Care packages . Phone Calls.
VIDEO Calls. I wouldn't know because I was attempting an experiment here and didn't get ANY of those things. Thanks for the scraps ( audio messages and texts ) that took almost no effort.

I made a special exception to try this for you. I am so disappointed.

StellaRose
05-31-2019, 07:44 AM
Not really a vent. Just flabbergasted.

An ex boyfriend from two years ago I recently found out got married. I got curious and looked him up online. He and this girl became a couple sometime in March. I’m surprised he’s dating her since she is less conventionally attractive and cutesy than most girls he has dated (and flirted with when we were still together). So in two month they decide to get hitched?

I wish them the best, but really I’ll be looking them up again in six months with popcorn in hand.

So...

Dear ex,
Good luck :o

carmen_b
06-02-2019, 10:24 AM
^ It can be interesting to see who people end up with. I dated a really good looking military guy in Hawaii who ended up with a lady " a couple rungs down " the looks ladder. It is interesting to see sometimes ......

carmen_b
06-02-2019, 10:28 AM
( the following drunk texts came in from B )
Lets address them .....

#1 : " I did not leave you ! It was the other way around ! "
^ Um ..... YES you did . I told you I could be to ANY location in the world with about 10-14 days notice. You are now in Sydney " exploring " and you did not include an invite for me to share that with you.

#2 : " You seem bitter because you didn't get what you wanted . "
^ Shame on me I guess that I would want to be geographically TOGETHER with my lover ( and have the resources to make it happen ) . What was the PLAN then ? I just wait here ( it's been a month ) miserable and celibate ?

At least he talked some things out with me. He's " lost " .
Doesn't know what to do next for income. He worked 4.5 years and had to quit that job to do his three month USA trip ( he met me at the start of it ). How about this ? Start working NOW . Don't kick around Australia anymore ( ahem , 4 weeks ) not earning. Bartend. Wait tables. Work every day until it's not an issue and then think of " whats next ".

xxxGothBarbie
06-04-2019, 11:48 PM
^ It can be interesting to see who people end up with. I dated a really good looking military guy in Hawaii who ended up with a lady " a couple rungs down " the looks ladder. It is interesting to see sometimes ......

haha, girl you got that shit right! :) My ex ended up with this toothless hag that thinks she's hot shit around town bc she's literally a ho (fucks anyone gf or not) LOL . Then again this bitch is just as narcissistic & a drunk as he is so it's a match

Ifyouseekamy
06-05-2019, 04:30 AM
What you put out in the universe must return

carmen_b
06-12-2019, 10:50 PM
B .....
How did you " get me " roped back in to this bull shit another week ?
I think the horniness from not getting dicked regularly has made me temporarily lose brain cells.
When I said I could meet you in Brisbane in TWO weeks I was not fucking around.
Thanks for not even acknowledging that idea / info !
I might go ANYWAY and find another hot Aussie to fuck and send you pictures of my adventures.
I have the cash for a plane ticket and a place in July . Why not match my effort?

miss.a.p1600
06-16-2019, 11:01 PM
Dear young dude

I don’t have time to train you like you are some puppy.

Better watch yourself or you’ll end up being topic of this thread

carmen_b
06-20-2019, 03:07 PM
Good lord B ..... relax ...... your texts came in when I working in the middle of the damn desert.
I am not sure what to think but I will not be canceling any dates with people who are HERE .

carmen_b
06-21-2019, 11:12 PM
I don't get it ! Back with MORE texts ?
I just don't understand here. Why keep in touch at all if we do not have a plan to see each other ? It’s about $600-$800 USA to Australia . That’s not an impossible number.

I will probably have to send reports of my " new boyfriend " ( doesn't really exist ) .
You need a lesson B on what kind of results not taking action yields.

Also ..... we talked about this. The weather in Melbourne sucks balls right now. WHY would you even go back ?
I will follow the summer around for the next 9 months minimum. Why would you go south when the north in the best right now ( even without me as a factor )? What is wrong with you ? You seems to not plan life very well. I am amazed you made it over to the U.S. and survived three months with your ( lack of ) planning skills.

Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2019, 08:12 AM
Dear Ex-Guy-Friend,

We were never a couple, even though you desperately wanted to be. I did enjoy a lot of your friendship though - would have enjoyed it more without the constant undercurrent of you obviously wanting to impress me into dating you. But a lot of "Facebook memories" have been appearing lately, and it makes me think of you, and even kinda miss you. Why did you have to make things even weirder? Wasn't 3 years of me obviously not being interested romantically enough for you to move on, especially after I got a real boyfriend? I didn't want to cut you out entirely. Now that boyfriend is gone, we could have easily returned to being friends... IF you had understood why I was upset with you in the first place.

I didn't ask you for space and to back off for awhile because I didn't care about you or our friendship, or just to placate my then-boyfriend. It's because you obviously weren't disconnecting and accepting your permanent role as just friend, and not listening to the boundaries I asked you to respect so as to not encroach on that new relationship. Not only did you not "get" that, but even after explaining it to you, you posted crap to Facebook all the time about how angry you were about certain people (aka: me) not "appreciating" you anymore, and how you were seeing people's "true colors." *eye roll*

I caught that friend request you re-sent a few months ago. You took it back within an hour or two, and I hadn't accepted it yet, but I totally saw it before you decided against it. We had a lot of fun. I do wish we could be friends again, but maybe we never really were in the first place if me getting a boyfriend caused you to go so off the rails.

Hmmm... why'd you have to be so damn weird?

miss.a.p1600
07-02-2019, 03:08 PM
Dear young dude,

I guess you have placed yourself here.

It's most likely for the best.

I really could only see your purpose as a sexual fling and I'm just not that motivated by sex only unless it's some other benefits for me. I need compatibility, someone who I can bring around this upper class network, someone who can follow my lead/doesnt mind women leading, someone who is useful and likes to build/fix shit,

I appreciate you being honest about your income, your values when it comes to paying for women/splitting bills, etc which really let me know I could not envision a long-term with you, although you tried to convince me it would be (though I am certain you were just talking shit to get to sex faster cause you think that's what all women want to hear)

I'm sure you will be texting me out of the blue in a couple of weeks, months, whatever....I can't guarantee I won't hit you with that 'who dis?' or make you eat a whole lot of pussy to redeem yourself

If I change my mind and down for a friends with benefits, and I think you can handle that, I'll let you know.

SnuffleUffleGrass
07-03-2019, 08:07 AM
Dear ex, sorry your life turned out so bad.

It is all your fault. Not that you care. If you cared things wouldn't have turned out that way.

I'm glad both your grandfathers didn't live to see how your adult years turned out. Thank Heaven for small mercies.....

Aurora_Sunset
07-04-2019, 01:24 PM
Dear Ex,

I miss you again today.

Not in some sense where I want to get back with you, but in the sense that I wish I had been able to enjoy the good moments more with you when we were together. We did have some legitimately good moments, but they always seemed overshadowed by the bad fights and overall sense of not being compatible. But there were some things we deeply had in common, and I wish I had enjoyed those times more instead of constantly worrying about when our next fight would be.

I am happy with my partner now, and I know we were not compatible, but you were the closest I ever got before this to thinking that I could be with someone more seriously.

You think I didn't "try" but I really did. I wanted things to work out with you. I miss the not-crazy part of your personality like heck.

miss.a.p1600
07-25-2019, 09:29 PM
Hey assholes!

In t. Minus 3 months you might discover how you lost out on a top notch woman such as myself because you are too dumb n. Clueless

Good luck with your lonely miserable lives constantly chasing ass to validate your low ego.

I must have had temporary “beer goggles” now I see clearly though

Good riddance bitch ass losers!

carmen_b
08-18-2019, 09:25 PM
J ( aka Mr. Disappointment ):
Thanks for that nice camera you were stupid enough to leave at my house.
I have had fun in the forest shooting moose pictures with it.
I mean ...... I'm not actually *stealing* it ............ but get ready for the lecture of a lifetime when / if you come back for it. ;)

carmen_b
08-23-2019, 11:46 AM
^ It's been about 14 days or since I've seen you. I will assume so you do not want the camera / lecture combo . So thank you for the camera. ;)

lurkingtitties
08-23-2019, 11:53 AM
Listen I’ve been thinking a lot about things

It’s pretty obvious that you still like me even though you try to act like you don’t.

I don’t know if you’re aware but you called me Babe 4 separate times in July.

But

It often feels like you don’t respect what I bring to the table. All you do when we talk or hang out is put me down. Tell me how problematic I am. Find ways to twist around my positive traits and turn them against me.

I know I have flaws and I’m working on myself. But nobody is perfect and that includes you too

I know you’re very insecure underneath all that hair and the cool guy front you put up

And I guess a badass woman like me is too intimidating so you have to put me down to make yourself feel better.

But

I know what I’m worth and I deserve more than these mind games you play

I could have really helped you live a healthier and more financially stable life. Not to mention had beautiful children who would be provided with many opportunities. But you want someone who is content to be your backup dancer.

So

Even though I care about you and it hurts I gotta walk away

Hope you find some average ass do-nothing bitch on Tinder and live happily ever after. It’s a better fit for you than someone like me.

AChildOfBoredom
08-23-2019, 05:57 PM
Dear soon to be ex-husband,

Our marriage could only have ever been a sham. Sorry to say. Not that I think poorly of you… in fact, I’d even say quite the opposite. But you have some growing up to do, and I hope you catch up on that sooner rather than later. Especially the part where you really need to put your frat days behind you.
Your father asked me to do my best to keep you in line. I won’t walk back on a promise I made to him. But you can’t be my burden forever. If I have to use this cattle prod to force your head out of your ass, don’t think that I won’t do it.

miss.a.p1600
08-25-2019, 09:35 AM
Dear old dude,

You know you are starting to show your Tinder culture tendencies. I guess all those dates were for the unspoken expectation of sex and not to have my company and enjoy a good meal together then let things build organically???

Stop claiming that you kept telling me about that. Because instead You gave lectures, nagged, complained, offered no dialogue, gave ultimatums and that is supposed to make me sexually attracted???

You tried to get me to shack up with you. Why? So I could have the same fate as your last partner? The one who was your live in caretaker n blow up doll that you kicked out because you “couldn’t understand her” - she didn’t even speak English wtf?!?

Then you claim I “never think about you” and when I ask you to call me to clarify, you text me this long ass ultimatum. Bruh! I said CALL! Stop trying to have these types of convos by text! Stop giving me ultimatums!

Grow the fuck up!!!

And guess what - I’ll give you what you want in your ultimatum - the end. Goodbye mf!

MissTay
08-25-2019, 01:50 PM
Dear X.
I had so many miserable controlling years with you. I'm finally free and loving life. I can raise our daughter how I want. Since leaving you I've made new friends and finally feel like I'm happy. You know how you always had a fantasy about strippers. Well I'm going to be stripping and you can't do anything about it! Oh and you know how you always hated when black men would stare at my ass? Well they aren't just staring they are hitting it from behind now. I'm sure that pisses your racist ass off & hope it does because it's not changing!! My best advice is stay single out of trouble. Don't wrap up some poor girl into your controlling ways. Be good and pay child support on time or I'll make your life a living hell.

Tay

Randi Starr
08-27-2019, 03:02 PM
Dear X.
I had so many miserable controlling years with you. I'm finally free and loving life. I can raise our daughter how I want. Since leaving you I've made new friends and finally feel like I'm happy. You know how you always had a fantasy about strippers. Well I'm going to be stripping and you can't do anything about it! Oh and you know how you always hated when black men would stare at my ass? Well they aren't just staring they are hitting it from behind now. I'm sure that pisses your racist ass off & hope it does because it's not changing!! My best advice is stay single out of trouble. Don't wrap up some poor girl into your controlling ways. Be good and pay child support on time or I'll make your life a living hell.

Tay


Girl that is hilarious! Does he know you've been dating black guys yet? I have a friend that sounds just like you. She was married for awhile had kids and all. Got divorced and next thing you know she had another baby and it was mixed. Her X flipped! lol

MissTay
08-27-2019, 05:42 PM
Girl that is hilarious! Does he know you've been dating black guys yet? I have a friend that sounds just like you. She was married for awhile had kids and all. Got divorced and next thing you know she had another baby and it was mixed. Her X flipped! lol

Yes he knows LOL. He saw my POF dating profile that said "not interested in white men" & got super pissed. It's like a double benefit to piss him off but it's just what I've preferred. Didn't plan it like that just happened. I told myself I'd be opened minded when I became single and dated all types of men. Just he really left a bad view image of guys like him for me. I went out with white guys after him but they just reminded me of him some how. When I went out with this black guy it was just different and really felt a connection I'd never felt before. Really felt good vibes. Since then just felt like I'm happier that way. You should see my bumble list LOL. It's funny too cause a co worker of mine has 2 mixed children my daughters age and she's all like "mommy she's so pretty you should give me a sister like her" haha

carmen_b
08-29-2019, 09:51 AM
J ( 2011 - 2018 ) ..... what WONDERFUL ( not ! ) memories of last Aug.

Damn ....... 4.5 awesome years in Hawaii and we couldn't pull our shit together after leaving the island for longer than a year.
I'd say we started the decline ......... mid 2017 or so.
Sad. ;(

I do miss you sometimes though and we did have amazing celebrations for years before the disaster of last year.
I remember our first one ( my birthday four months after we met ). Awesome Italian restaurant and that pressed ginger lei. It was a dream date.

JGB2009
08-29-2019, 05:14 PM
Dear Ex

I really hate you. Sex with you sucked so much toward the end and u became someone I no longer knew.You became so selfish but you know what....one day your gonna regret giving me up. I hate how I wasted all my time on you. May your sorry ass rot in fuckin hell.

carmen_b
08-30-2019, 01:18 PM
^ Ah. ;(