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miss.a.p1600
12-08-2019, 06:55 PM
Dear new guy.

Stop thinking about me so I can stop thinking about you.

I’m losing interest and I’m walking away.

I guess I’ll miss you.

miss.a.p1600
12-13-2019, 11:52 AM
Dear new guy

I’m going to end this because you have to know my value and that I will never wait around for any man.

I’m too valuable to be placed in any category that I don’t believe I belong in. First you had the gall to put me in ONS category then you tried to put me in bootycall category then you are now trying to put me in friend zone category or friends with benefits.

The daily calls, good morning texts are no longer serving any purpose for me except to show that I think you are trying to string me along as a backup option and I’m not going to allow that.

I’m walking away in t minus 4 days.

I wish I could ghost or fizzle out but I guess i have to be mature and tell you I’m over it/lost interest

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2019, 03:23 AM
Dear new guy

You have shown your true colors

And no I will not miss you

The game you tried to play was cruel and not fair at all. I hope your testicles fall off and you overdose on your “sleep aid”. And besides what are you a damn little kid you too damn old for that shit.

Anyway good luck with your wolf looking ex. You’ll need it. When your relationship breaks down again after she gets tired of dating your game playing ass to eternity.

I should have ended it 3 weeks ago.

Thanks for helping me wisen up

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2019, 07:08 PM
Dear new guy

It’s okay to let go.

I’m too high quality to be on your “rotation” or whatever.

You already know what it is.

Mindless texts n time wasting calls are no longer necessary

Ifyouseekamy
12-30-2019, 03:40 AM
I know it’s cliche but it so true-rejection is Gods protection. I DO NOT NEED a man in my life to waste my time and energy. I’m so glad I had the wisdom to say, “oh hell no I’m not dealing with this shit.” Tell you one thing the older you ladies get the less you tolerate a man’s bullshit before deciding you’d much rather be alone than be with a man that doesn’t know your worth. I have 99 problems, but a fuckboy ain’t one.

Aurora_Sunset
12-30-2019, 09:38 AM
Dear Exes, ex-FWBs, ex-fuckboys, ex-clients, whatevers:

Thanks for the last decade. Sincerely.

It's been a wild ride. I can't believe that I am truly at the end of a decade where I can look back and see all the things that I went through with all the men since I was 21. Holy cow. It's crazy to look back at all the sex, tears, dates, arguments, cuddles, trips, pictures, $money, conversations, nights where I didn't sleep from elation, and other sleepless nights from stress and heartbreak. All the times I thought I was unlovable. All the times that I couldn't look past the current relationship/crush to see any sort of decent future. All the giddy feelings and rushes of hope and long talks with my girlfriends about you.

I'll remember every single one of you. And all of our interactions, however long, brief, sexual, romantic, platonic-with-unrequited-feelings. And I'll remember everything I felt, experienced, and learned from my time with you. The good and the bad.

Thanks for the memories.

Moving on to 2020.

xoxo

carmen_b
12-30-2019, 03:33 PM
B :

How my Christmas ?

My Christmas was " go fuck off you Aussie play boy " .

Fuck I loved him so much. Lol.

( not texting him anything back )

carmen_b
12-30-2019, 05:02 PM
former lame M from Fall :

Do you ever see a picture on social media and think " wow, I can't believe I let you put your dick in me ? "

I did that today. I will delete you soon from FB.

Elektra Luxx
01-12-2020, 10:25 PM
^^^

Yes I have done this.

Elektra Luxx
01-15-2020, 03:04 PM
Soon to be ex-friend...

You're sweet, considerate and kind when we are alone, but I'm really getting tired of being the butt of your vulgar jokes when you get an audience.

You're married and have kids. I don't think you'd like it if someone humped the air behind your wife!

WendiStarr
01-15-2020, 03:27 PM
G,

Stop fucking texting me about every time you go out to the bar with your friends or about your upcoming ski trip. I don't give a fuck. You made the choice to leave me, remember?

carmen_b
01-20-2020, 11:23 PM
M .....
Only someone of your " caliber " ( insert snorting laugh ) could get laid 5 times a week MINIMUM and still manage to find time to bitch and complain.
You have earned this golden shiny whiner trophy. I had time to polish it for you since I'm not polishing your c$^k anymore. Enjoy it.

Ifyouseekamy
01-23-2020, 04:14 PM
I don’t why, but it seems the karma truck hits the guys I dated as soon as I leave. That’s just life you can’t go around creating bad karma. Eventually it all comes back to you.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2020, 07:12 PM
Dear former coworker

I can’t believe you are back and I’m here posting again.

I don’t trust you (ever since you lied about being single and tried to string me along) and I don’t think I’ll have the same attraction since we don’t work together anymore. I honestly don’t think meeting you for lunch is a good idea.

I can’t help but think your only reaching out because you’re on a break from that Harambe looking woman you denied having. I’d deny it too if I were pulling 2’s

I’m going to have to tell you the truth.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 07:20 PM
^ Dishonestly isn't a good place to start. He should have just fessed up to having a relationship .

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 07:22 PM
M :

Dude ..... there were some times where hygiene was an issue. I know you worked on the house all day ( sometimes not even showering in the morning ) and then didn't shower and climbed into bed with me . I am the person who has the touch of OCD complete with whore bath / fresh deo / lotion every day before getting into bed. I mean the first time we were at your place " together " you wandered in and saw me washing my pussy and we laughed about it . Why not show a lady some of the same attn to detail ?

Anyway ...... on the next event you have a lady ( NOT ME ) can I suggest wandering into one of the 6 bathrooms in your place , finding a shower ( it's the thing with the big faucet and a glass square around it ) and turning the damn thing on ? ! ?

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2020, 01:33 AM
^ Dishonestly isn't a good place to start. He should have just fessed up to having a relationship .

youre right

Guys are doing this cause they know that it will fuck up their chances of getting pussy. Just like that guy I thought was amazing who I think lied about his relationship status ( most likely on a break from his Sasquatch looking gf but claiming he broke up 2 months ago). They lie to get pussy.

I don’t have evidence just intuition so I’m not 100% bit idk. It’s like now i don’t trust that 75% of dating men don’t have some “ex” lurking around and that they’re not really single like they claim to be

KariSwitch
01-27-2020, 02:47 PM
N,

Thank you for the email. I'm thrilled to hear you're 6 months sober. I wish you made that choice 3-4 years ago. Maybe, things would be different, but I doubt it. I won't even allow myself to think about what could have been. No matter the words you use, I do not want to be a part of your life. Nothing can ever erase how you treated me, the multiple relapses, the lies and especially the last picture of you from my head. Nothing was harder than seeing you so out of it and having to call an ambulance because I was sure you wouldn't survive the night. You'll never know that I held you until the paramedics came. You'll never know I kissed you goodbye that night. You'll never understand how hard it was to call your parents that night. Maybe now you understand how hard it was for me not to get into the ambulance with you. But you clearly chose your drugs over me. You literally said you chose drugs over me. And in that moment I chose me.

I can't begin to tell you how you devastated me when you chose your drugs over me. You broke me, but not permanently. It took a while for my heart to mend. It took longer for me to trust. But I found true love. She's everything you couldn't and wouldn't be for me. She's the type of girl I wanted you to be, but even better and more than I could hope for. She's better than I dreamed of. And she chooses me every time. More importantly I chose her. I chose a happily ever after with her.

This is the letter I want to write to you N. This is the letter you deserve. But I won't because I won't try to break you the way you did me.

Aurora_Sunset
01-29-2020, 09:33 AM
Dear Ex,

Had a creepy dream about you last night. I dreamed that you wouldn't leave me alone, so I got a bunch of friends together and we plotted to kill you. It worked with one of them shooting you in the head, but for some reason, you didn't die instantly, and I woke up as you were slowly dying in the hospital and suffering far more than we thought you would.

Now... I'm definitely not about to murder you IRL or anything, but to be completely honest, this dream did not make me sad. The only thing dream-me regretted was that death wasn't instant. I felt a little bad for your suffering, but moreso was just worried you wouldn't actually die and would pull through and we had missed our chance lol

Normally, I would wake up sad after dreaming about someone's death. But not you... hmmm

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2020, 09:38 PM
Dear guy I went out on 2 dates with and then you fucked it up,

Yes! YOU blocked your blessings.

Why are you texting me now? Only because it’s a pandemic and either you are thirsty or you think I’m thirsty. Either way I lost interest in November when you started playing mind games.

As much as I thought about how things could have been, I realized that if they were supposed to be then you would have never left off without as much as an explanation. I don’t have time for ghosters and when they come back I don’t trust they ain’t going to be ghosting again after I give a second chance.

I’ll give you the respect you gave me and the chance you gave me......NONE!

I’m not so thirsty and desperate that I’m going to just pick up where we left off. Goodbye dude.

moneybags
03-25-2020, 02:37 AM
^^^I know right. I bet those fuckboys are singing a different tune...LOL. I’d rather die alone with my self-respect thanks

carmen_b
04-08-2020, 08:54 PM
D :
( my Feb. - mid March love interest )
Take your Boring award and move on. There was something to you . I felt it. I just couldn't handled being dismissed ( and not property held down and banged ). My needs are simple and you failed.
Bye
C

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-11-2020, 09:42 AM
Act right during your father in law's funeral. It might be your last chance to save your marriage.

carmen_b
04-14-2020, 08:03 PM
Mr. NY

Aw the adventures we *could have* had. I wanted to share all my on the road resources with you and get thanked with your dick.

Too bag you got too drunk to preform a few weeks ago and got yourself removed from my considerations list.

miss.a.p1600
04-14-2020, 09:03 PM
Billiards guy

You failed the mission .... again

Good luck with your hideous Bertha looking bitches (although I highly doubt you have any options right now anyways so good luck with your bottle of lotion). When you see me with my hot rich future husband and pretty babies- You’ll deeply regret not making any moves.

Ps. I’m out of your league anyways so perhaps this was a sign not to downgrade with you

Oh and lose some weight, drop that sociopathic black stain of a friend, transform your personality and you’ll be closer to husband material one day.

Toodles!

carmen_b
04-16-2020, 09:51 PM
Mr. NY :
Sorry but I *had* to send that note today. I mean we do need to talk about the whisky dick from 3.5 weeks ago .
Lol.
I was kind referencing he had " a little too much to drink and also that I was tired.
I am just saying though ....... like ......... you were invited here for carnal company.
Apologize for how you handled yourself.

If you do, I will give you this house for free for a night and you can upsell it to your guiding customers . :)
Part of the trip was that I wanted to show you this house !

C

miss.a.p1600
04-16-2020, 09:54 PM
Thirsty guy.

Look here ass muncher! You will be lucky if I give you the time of day.

Don’t rush me into meeting you. I have hella responsibilities (something you know obviously nothing about) haven’t helped offer anything substantial not even any good ideas. So yes mf! I’m taking my time.

If you keep acting like a whiny bitch you will get nothing!

moneybags
04-16-2020, 10:27 PM
Damn. I’m grateful im not quarantined with any of my ex’s. I feel so sorry for the DV victims that are quarantined with their abusers.

carmen_b
04-16-2020, 10:41 PM
YES !!!!!

I literally escaped mine ( with the cops help ) mid Jan.
What IF it was mid-March ? I really fear for these women !!

carmen_b
04-17-2020, 10:54 AM
Mr. NY :
It was nice chatting with you but you still owe me an apology for not properly dicking me down !!!!

carmen_b
04-26-2020, 10:35 PM
^ Nevermind, who cares ? Haha. I have let it go !

WendiStarr
04-29-2020, 03:41 PM
Dominic,

No idea why the hell you decided to email me 13 years after we broke up to tell me that you've been thinking about me a lot lately. We've already dated twice in the past, both times ending with you suddenly ghosting me and immediately dating someone else. I know you're probably lonely because of the Coronavirus crap, but I really have no interest in you. I'm not interested in you or your pathetic pencil dick. Fuck off.

carmen_b
05-01-2020, 09:04 AM
Aussie B ,

I'm not sure what to say or how we got here with you still texting.
But .... I'm not going north . Your offer to come South has expired after I've gotten to know J better in the last 3-4 weeks. In that time lets be honest about what has happened. He is *regularly* dicking me down and making me very happy. So you offering a little attention here and there is very unappealing with his strong offer to keep feeding me and keeping the frequent snuggles + sex coming .

As usual you are slow with everything and lost out.
I'm not really even offering a friends meeting or a coffee.
:/

If for some reason I catch your friends somewhere I might get drunk and let it slip about your " minute man " sex thing also. Oops. You are great with your hands though and made up for it but I might leave that out of the story.

carmen_b
05-01-2020, 10:00 AM
Him 10 min. ago :
" Should I hop on a bus to see you ? "

Me :
" I have a bf here, that wouldn't be appropriate " .

Elektra Luxx
05-07-2020, 02:58 PM
Him 10 min. ago :
" Should I hop on a bus to see you ? "

Me :
" I have a bf here, that wouldn't be appropriate " .


Unless Bf is into that.

carmen_b
05-07-2020, 06:38 PM
^ Hmmmmm. I suppose it could be worth checking . :)
I did already ask " ok what are your fantasy things ? " in a convo and he didn't mention watching or group stuff but that was 2-3 weeks ago.

carmen_b
05-10-2020, 02:47 PM
B, what the actual fuck ? ! ?

No, I'm not meeting you in a town in the middle of us ( three hours for each ).
I guess you ARE capable of doing " meet in the middle " type of research.
Where was this research last June / July as I was desperately trying to give us a chance by closing the geographical gap between us?

I'd still like to think you would be a good partner but I am just too smart for this.
I KNOW there is a 99% chance that all you would do is try your best to fuck things up with my start with J .

How about this ? If I AM that important and you DO regret what you did ....... you come here with a ring ?
Along with that, come with a PLAN for where we will live. Haha.
I mean .... you said last week " I could be secretly in love with you and your little dog " .

miss.a.p1600
05-15-2020, 06:18 PM
Hey

Guy I thought was awesome and guy at my former job I oddly became attracted to

I tried not to be petty and never blocked either of you. Both of you came back looking for me to pay attention to you. Nope. Coronavirus epidemic times means going with my intuition and giving you both the same respect you gave me when you knew I liked you ..... none

You will be left on read.

moneybags
05-15-2020, 09:03 PM
Hey

Guy I thought was awesome and guy at my former job I oddly became attracted to

I tried not to be petty and never blocked either of you. Both of you came back looking for me to pay attention to you. Nope. Coronavirus epidemic times means going with my intuition and giving you both the same respect you gave me when you knew I liked you ..... none

You will be left on read.

I don’t think blocking is petty. It’s just a way of moving on for good and regaining power after a guy acts like a fuckboy. You’d think this pandemic would cause men to have an awakening and think, “I don’t want to die alone, so I better treat women right.” Nope. They never learn. Which is why they will be the best club regulars for the next generation of strippers. *Not all men, but yes most men

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2020, 06:53 AM
True

I suppose my rationale is that men be knowing when you block them and I think some of them orgasm out of knowing they even stirred up enough emotion in you to block in first place.

And not blocking them can be petty n passive aggressive - I did like a slight basketball pump fake make em think I was going to roll with their continual bs then do a swift (unexpected to them) exit And technically I knew they’d slither back around and I wanted to feel better ghosting them.

Either way.....a lady of this caliber ain’t playing around with nor entertaining no youth snatching fuckbois. The jokers I mentioned above are dudes my age and one slightly younger - they can waste their youth all they want.


Post corona gone look a lot better in men category

And the exes gone be feeling real salty n jealous

Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2021, 07:24 PM
Dear N,

Felt a weird urge to facebook stalk you tonight, even though we're not friends on there anymore. I really thought that me deleting you a few years ago would bring me some sort of closure, but it's actually felt like just the opposite.

Honestly, I felt better seeing your current profile picture and realizing that you haven't aged very attractively. Your wife is super weird-looking too.

caramelcraze
03-29-2021, 11:52 PM
Dear S,
Please stop sending me long winded birthday and christmas cards. It's been going on 4 years since we split. Move on! I know I have.

LoveyDovey
03-30-2021, 12:40 PM
Dear Looney,

Glad I dumped your ass.

Love,
Me

Elektra Luxx
03-30-2021, 01:54 PM
I love this thread! The last three before had me really laughing out loud.

miss.a.p1600
04-06-2021, 01:51 AM
Well since I’m in this thread now....

I wonder what the ex old dude is up too.

Old dude, it’s too bad you didn’t want to marry nor have a kid / didn’t properly caress because you had rough burly man hands / etc

I would have stayed with you otherwise because you were generous and didn’t expect me to pay for anything.

moneybags
04-06-2021, 06:34 PM
This is more to the guys that didn’t want to date me before the pandemic. Especially this nurse...bet it would have been nice to have a bad bitch to quarantine with. Have fun with you and your hand tonight. Being rejected doesn’t make my angry. It’s how guys react. He said no in a really superior way, and then asked me for pics! I just laughed. There’s an abundance of mediocre white men who think they are better than me because of my job. I’m twice the man they are! That’s the problem. I became the man I wanted to marry. I get people have different priorities and what they want. I don’t care about that. Please tell me if I’m not your type! But the condescending attitude pisses me off. If I hadn’t taken down my dating profile I bet he would have tried to hit me up later.

It’s annoying when people tell you to date again. I’ve tried. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over again and expecting different results. I do think there’s good guys and I’m happy for happy couples. But being single is a valid choice and I’m tired of people judging single women.

moneybags
04-27-2021, 05:59 PM
^^^LOL.. girl your post crack me up.


I’m so proud of myself for not getting involved with my crush.

The lesson I learned is to never love a man more than I love myself. In the past, love has made a dummy out of me. Not this time. Not this time.

This man don’t love me. He just wants a bad bitch to fix his feelings. Fuck that! I’m not playing therapist to grown ass man-especially one that’s not paying any of my bills and not buying me gifts.

im sorry, but you’re a white educated man. Life is easier for you. I know all beings suffer, but you don’t struggle with basic safety and meeting basic needs. My life is hard enough as it is as a woman and I don’t need a man to make my life harder. If I have a man in my life he needs to make my life easier not harder.

Good luck with your life. Please leave me alone. Please don’t come to my cam room. I told you that because you were my doctor, and it’s messed up that you would stalk me on the internet to find me. Oh and you didn’t tip me either! Please go away!

LoveyDovey
04-27-2021, 09:44 PM
Dear Exes,

I miss none of you.

See you never!

Love,
Me

indiegirl
04-27-2021, 09:53 PM
Dear Sir Ricky the III,

I can't even over the fact you call yourself Sir Ricky the III. Dear Sir, what era/century are you from? I look at your photos and laugh knowing all the BS you did behind the scenes and seeing your professional photos posted now instead.

xxxGothBarbie
04-28-2021, 04:13 PM
Dear idiot,
I'm so glad you are getting exactly what you deserve! So glad you are still chasing toothless tina and her skanky ass in hopes of rekindling what you thought you had lol
I love that you feel the need to call me in hopes I'm still desperate for your mind fuckery. I love that I'm anything but that and you can see it. I love that I've had chances to see you but always nack out LoL
P.s How's it feel???

Not Love,
Prettiest girl you no longer have at your narcissistic disposal ;)