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xxxGothBarbie
03-25-2017, 11:11 PM
Do any of you ever get those giys that will talk on the phone for like hrs but you just don't feel comfortable talking to them for whatever reason? I've landed a whale but something about him is just off, he sounds like he does some illegal shit for work & I'm scared to talk to him about regular things bc I don't want to end up in trouble for something. I'm being paranoid right? lol or should i just ignore the feeling & get that money? He will call & talk on the phone with me for over an hr & dam i need that money right now but..... help :)

xxxGothBarbie
03-25-2017, 11:13 PM
Haha I registered on OK cupid and put my link on there. I swear to god my profile was up for LESS THAN 5 MINUTES and I was insta banned! Like whole ip banned. I cant register another account. I dont know where or how on CL to advertise or what to say. I dont get shit here now... I guess I'm doing it wrong.

Edit: Tried craigslist. Deleted almost immediately. Cant catch a break!

Hmmm maybe don't put your link bc it detects that? That's what I did. I would wait for them to message me & reply to each & every one with that link or just my name on there. Try that, otherwise I dunno girl. I don't advertise like ever anymore & I'm just using my regs as income for now.

xxxGothBarbie
03-25-2017, 11:14 PM
Also, do any of you ever use a vpn when you video chat? or does this site seem to block it better than Skype would? I've been paranoid lately LoL

Jupiter77
03-26-2017, 01:23 AM
Do any of you ever get those giys that will talk on the phone for like hrs but you just don't feel comfortable talking to them for whatever reason? I've landed a whale but something about him is just off, he sounds like he does some illegal shit for work & I'm scared to talk to him about regular things bc I don't want to end up in trouble for something. I'm being paranoid right? lol or should i just ignore the feeling & get that money? He will call & talk on the phone with me for over an hr & dam i need that money right now but..... help :)

Unless you help him with illegal activity you wont get in trouble
Whales are hard to find on this site, but there are some and I keep them when I have them.

xxxGothBarbie
03-26-2017, 01:26 AM
True. He just sounds so dam sketch but dam he spends on phone calls lol. I will hit him up tm then & come up with random shit to talk about lol. He doesn't wanna tell me what he does but he said he would. I am thinking he's either a cop or a drug dealer. That shit scares me hahaha.

JenniferNorth
03-26-2017, 05:53 AM
Advertise on backpage maybe? I'm about to register there today. It's fairly simple to get accepted, correct?

jamma
03-26-2017, 10:06 AM
It's on the To-Do list! I'll provide an update / estimate once I am able.

Forgot this one: Last week, we added a way to sort by newest first to the sort dropdown, which you can find in the upper right corner of the browse page. If you sort by newest first, you'll be able to star phrends that are more fresh to the site, and likely more responsive.

Jupiter77
03-26-2017, 12:17 PM
Forgot this one: Last week, we added a way to sort by newest first to the sort dropdown, which you can find in the upper right corner of the browse page. If you sort by newest first, you'll be able to star phrends that are more fresh to the site, and likely more responsive.

Oh yeah that is awesome.
Thanks Jamma for all the new features, it's been really helpful since all my marketing ideas are shot to shit.

Mal707
03-26-2017, 01:26 PM
Sort by newest finally here!! So excited to log onto Phrendly today and see it finally :) Thanks!!

MistressX
03-26-2017, 02:58 PM
I am getting a lot of guys just disappearing and others saying they no longer want to pay. Ugh.. New gif and some new pics I guess are in order. I have tried the advertising route and i get kicked off everywhere lol... ended up staying on POF for an actual date. Go me LOL

lotus_latte
03-26-2017, 11:11 PM
i was wondering if maybe in the future it would be possible to make it that people can look for both men and women? what if someone is bisexual for example. i think that could increase the amount of messages we get

Violethollywood
03-27-2017, 12:47 PM
so you cant send vids from the site , you can from your phone. BUT with that said, i wish there was a way to upload them and send them on the site or perhaps share a link to them like on pornhub or dropbox in exchange for a gift??? i mean would that be ok ? or nah?

Luvlyone
03-27-2017, 01:00 PM
It would be nice if we could charge for photo's that we send and the guy has to pay to open and see them. I would rather have that option instead of having to ask for a gift. If I send the pictures and he has no way to see them unless he pays there is no way around it. I basically sent the pictures, now it is up to you the customer to pay to view them.

Violethollywood
03-27-2017, 01:55 PM
It would be nice if we could charge for photo's that we send and the guy has to pay to open and see them. I would rather have that option instead of having to ask for a gift. If I send the pictures and he has no way to see them unless he pays there is no way around it. I basically sent the pictures, now it is up to you the customer to pay to view them.

that's why you make them send you the gift first before you send them pics....

Jupiter77
03-27-2017, 02:39 PM
Okay so I took a pretty suggestive GIF. In my bra, and as soon as I made it my main GIF I went from page 1 to 7..
anything to do with each other Jamma?

Tsani
03-27-2017, 03:06 PM
Just gotta say, I dislike the GIF maker. I know I should make a new GIF but I dread trying to use that thing again. It's laggy as hell and if I try to use it on my phone, it's way too dark.

On a good note, I finally got a text! Though it was as I was about to go to sleep and I have a cold so I didn't have much patience for a long convo so I had to cut it a bit short... Now I just gotta get some more texts so that I can hit minimum payout.

Luvlyone
03-27-2017, 05:39 PM
that's why you make them send you the gift first before you send them pics....

Your comment is asinine.

Jupiter77
03-27-2017, 06:20 PM
Your comment is asinine.

How?
She is just stating what most of us do.
Sorry not sure who you are but we are friendly here at Phrendly.

Jupiter77
03-27-2017, 06:35 PM
Okay so I took a pretty suggestive GIF. In my bra, and as soon as I made it my main GIF I went from page 1 to 7..
anything to do with each other Jamma?

Pm'd you Jamma

Jupiter77
03-28-2017, 10:37 AM
Has anybody elses placement change drastically?
Im on page 8 now, woke up with noo new messages besides my own marketing which is not working really
Looks like its time to dust off the dildos and start camming again ugh

Tsani
03-28-2017, 11:46 AM
Figures, I get nothing for almost 2 weeks, then people suddenly want to text me while I'm sick as a dog lol. I had to turn off my availability so I can focus on resting, but I made about $25 total. When I logged in this morning, it said my balance was 0 though. Does that mean it's in process of being paid out? I'm on express pay so I know it'll take 10 days but it would be nice to see where that money went, like in a "balance pending payout" or "balance paid out" section because I kind of panic when I see no money on my account after I earned some.

JamaicanAliesha
03-28-2017, 12:12 PM
Can we ban the words kik, snapchat, facebook? :P

Please! lol

MistressX
03-28-2017, 01:19 PM
Ive always been on page like 8.. not sure why i cant get more exposure. I can only make like 50 bucks a week on this thing. Kinda sucks.. kinda pointless. Gonna have to go back to camming again too. I keep saying that and then keep not doing it lol

Jupiter77
03-28-2017, 01:22 PM
Ive always been on page like 8.. not sure why i cant get more exposure. I can only make like 50 bucks a week on this thing. Kinda sucks.. kinda pointless. Gonna have to go back to camming again too. I keep saying that and then keep not doing it lol

omg I can't handle that.
Literally my laptop is open, with phrendly open, from the time I wake up till the time I go to bed.
I spend all day hustling my link
and then this happens
and of course it happens right before rents due lol
omg fuck

Jupiter77
03-28-2017, 01:28 PM
Incognito window not logged in look at the ladies

Mal707
03-28-2017, 01:39 PM
Can we ban the words kik, snapchat, facebook? :P

God yes please! LOL I'm so sick of seeing KIK

CL finally banned my IP address, but I tried Betternet and Hotspot Shield VPN. So far, Hotspot Shield seems to work better. I'm still able to harass guys across the U.S. with my alluring GoofyKitty4U posts, but sometimes they get flagged like IMMEDIATELY. Also, sometimes they get "ghosted", so I have to actually check to make sure they show up on the board. Also, I read online that sometimes it helps to switch up devices when posting CL ad's, like not always use the same comp, phone, tablet.

Jupiter77
03-28-2017, 01:44 PM
God yes please! LOL I'm so sick of seeing KIK

CL finally banned my IP address, but I tried Betternet and Hotspot Shield VPN. So far, Hotspot Shield seems to work better. I'm still able to harass guys across the U.S. with my alluring GoofyKitty4U posts, but sometimes they get flagged like IMMEDIATELY. Also, sometimes they get "ghosted", so I have to actually check to make sure they show up on the board. Also, I read online that sometimes it helps to switch up devices when posting CL ad's, like not always use the same comp, phone, tablet.

AHH I DIDDNT KNOW THAT WAS YOU
I saw you on Twitter advertising Phrendly so I hope you didnt mind me tagging you in those tweets with us!

Mal707
03-28-2017, 05:20 PM
AHH I DIDDNT KNOW THAT WAS YOU
I saw you on Twitter advertising Phrendly so I hope you didnt mind me tagging you in those tweets with us!

Didn't mind at all. I appreciated it lol

Nikki_Fox
03-29-2017, 07:59 AM
Welcome to my world ladies - when you open the Phrendly search the default age bracket that shows up is well below my age - pretty discriminating in my opinion - but luckily if they do get into my age demographics there are not many of us old ho's to chose from :)

Jupiter77
03-29-2017, 09:19 AM
Welcome to my world ladies - when you open the Phrendly search the default age bracket that shows up is well below my age - pretty discriminating in my opinion - but luckily if they do get into my age demographics there are not many of us old ho's to chose from :)

Ive seen that. and the 18 and 19 year olds are not shown either.
Im sorry love hopefully they can fix it

jamma
03-29-2017, 10:03 AM
Welcome to my world ladies - when you open the Phrendly search the default age bracket that shows up is well below my age - pretty discriminating in my opinion - but luckily if they do get into my age demographics there are not many of us old ho's to chose from :)

That's just the default for un-authenticated users. Once logged in, we use the guy's actual age to set a more accurate age range default.

Violethollywood
03-29-2017, 10:08 AM
always ask the younger looking guys that say theyre 18 how old they are. ive run into like 3 that are really 17 lying about their age....

Calliegirl
03-29-2017, 11:32 AM
I had a few guys texting me during my vaycay. What helped was adding pics and having a sexy Gif pic for the profile. I think starring random dudes helped too. I tried advertising on CL and Backpage, but that didn't work on me. I am a total noob when it comes to advertising. Maybe retweeting to Phrendly tweets would help get more dudes.

Jupiter77
03-29-2017, 11:47 AM
I had a few guys texting me during my vaycay. What helped was adding pics and having a sexy Gif pic for the profile. I think starring random dudes helped too. I tried advertising on CL and Backpage, but that didn't work on me. I am a total noob when it comes to advertising. Maybe retweeting to Phrendly tweets would help get more dudes.

Star every guy if you get a chance. Its tedious but it does help
CL advertising is shot. Pretty sure we ran that couse. Backpage brings me about 1 custie a day but blah
Chat rooms help sometimes

Tsani
03-29-2017, 01:32 PM
Is there a way to see money you've earned in the past that has already gone to payout? I keep track of my earnings on various sites on a spreadsheet so that I can see what's the most profitable use of my time, and keep track of what's owed to me as far as payouts go. Since I'm on express pay my balance just vanished soon after I hit payout minimum so I can't see how much I earned and when. Am I missing something?

If there isn't a way to see my payment history, can I suggest adding it? It also makes me nervous when the money is in "limbo" not in my account and not in my bank yet. If I'd have known it does that I would have screenshotted my balance before it went to payout. It would also be nice to see how much each guy has spent on you, other than a little heart meter graphic thing.

MistressX
03-29-2017, 01:40 PM
Yeah I would really like a payment history too.. It's frustrating not being able to keep track.

Something has been happening by the way where I put it on pause payout and in the middle of the night at some point it switches itself back to express pay and pays out whatever is in my account. Can we fix this bug? It's really annoying. When I want to pause the payout I want to pause the payout, not have it changed for me in the middle of the night..

naomi_doll
03-29-2017, 01:55 PM
Is there a way to see money you've earned in the past that has already gone to payout? I keep track of my earnings on various sites on a spreadsheet so that I can see what's the most profitable use of my time, and keep track of what's owed to me as far as payouts go. Since I'm on express pay my balance just vanished soon after I hit payout minimum so I can't see how much I earned and when. Am I missing something?

If there isn't a way to see my payment history, can I suggest adding it? It also makes me nervous when the money is in "limbo" not in my account and not in my bank yet. If I'd have known it does that I would have screenshotted my balance before it went to payout. It would also be nice to see how much each guy has spent on you, other than a little heart meter graphic thing.

If you click on transaction details next to your current balance, it will show transaction details below with all of the payouts as well. I hope that helps!

Tsani
03-29-2017, 02:00 PM
If you click on transaction details next to your current balance, it will show transaction details below with all of the payouts as well. I hope that helps!

OMG thank you so much! Not sure why I didn't see that before.

Jupiter77
03-29-2017, 03:22 PM
If you click on transaction details next to your current balance, it will show transaction details below with all of the payouts as well. I hope that helps!

yeah that lol
I write my stuff down every night so I know what deposits im getting on which days

Girly_Girl
03-29-2017, 08:44 PM
I think I missed a call from phrendly today but I am not sure....it went straight to my voice mail and said something about missing a call from a phrend or something. Didn't even show up in my missed calls.....do we get a notification in the browser before they call? Or does the call just come thru? Also what # will show up in caller id when u get a call?

xxxGothBarbie
03-29-2017, 10:58 PM
So this site doesn't report our income until we make 20,000 right? Are any of you that are doing really well on here gonna just file quarterly so that it's easier at next yrs tax time? If so how would I do that since I'm on express pay? I'm trying to figure out what I should do bc I don't wanna end up owing a huge lump sum if I don't file quarterly.

friendzone
03-29-2017, 11:56 PM
I've been getting some spikes in minors contacting me, all of them pretty obviously underage with both how they talk to me, and even sometimes in their usernames or they flat-out admit it to me. Support is VERY fast on replying to me when I send them screen shots about the kids on there, and that makes me feel really good about this site, still. I think the more I've used the site, the better experiences with support I've been having. I still haven't been advertising since I just haven't had time or patience, but still my daily with this site starts at $10 and goes up to 50 or 60 depending on how lucky I am with responses and guys wanting to call or video. I've had numerous guys make attempts at calling or video chatting me, but they don't give any prep time.. Some of them I think are just testing out the features, and the guys who are using the bartenders tab to contact me to ask for nudes I'm thinking are minors. I think if I were to advertise video chat sessions or phone sessions on here in my profile, it could be even more profitable... I'm really glad to have this site as a side gig. I feel lucky to have been talking to a couple really cool guys who if I weren't in a relationship and was interested in dating men, would consider meeting IRL (if I used this site as a real dating site)
I got my first non-north american guy today, and I think the advertising on instagram and facebook brought a lot of traffic, facebook being the one with the more paying traffic for me personally.

Snowy0Star
03-30-2017, 12:01 AM
i dont like taking pictures on my phone and wanted to upload some pictures to IG for phrendly and i found this - gramblr.com - its windows/Mac to IG uploader program

Nikki_Fox
03-30-2017, 12:44 AM
That's just the default for un-authenticated users. Once logged in, we use the guy's actual age to set a more accurate age range default.

well, half of the guys who I talk with regularly are in their 20's -and one of my favorites is 19 }:D--- and your slider thing only goes to 60 and there are a handful of guys over 60 - how would anyone ever find them?

Jupiter77
03-30-2017, 10:56 AM
So this site doesn't report our income until we make 20,000 right? Are any of you that are doing really well on here gonna just file quarterly so that it's easier at next yrs tax time? If so how would I do that since I'm on express pay? I'm trying to figure out what I should do bc I don't wanna end up owing a huge lump sum if I don't file quarterly.

We can do that? Because I at the rate im going im gonna be hitting 20 grand here soon and I dont wanna have to pay out the ass im trying to work on my credit an shit to buy a house lol

jamma
03-30-2017, 11:31 AM
well, half of the guys who I talk with regularly are in their 20's -and one of my favorites is 19 }:D--- and your slider thing only goes to 60 and there are a handful of guys over 60 - how would anyone ever find them?

I don't see why we can't have a higher upper end. I'll put in the request.

Jupiter77
03-30-2017, 11:55 AM
I don't see why we can't have a higher upper end. I'll put in the request.

For the meantime if you wanna change it, you can just change the max age in your address bar to 99

xxxGothBarbie
03-30-2017, 12:16 PM
We can do that? Because I at the rate im going im gonna be hitting 20 grand here soon and I dont wanna have to pay out the ass im trying to work on my credit an shit to buy a house lol

^ yes me too omg lol I already owe my camming taxes for last year & I'm still saving up to pay that shit out by the 15th of next month ugh. I don't know for sure if we can do that but I know it's possible with camming money since we get checks there. I hope someone chimes in with more info on this soon so I will stop worrying lol.

xxxGothBarbie
03-30-2017, 12:18 PM
Also have any of you ran into any cops or guys working in law enforcement on here yet? I have been running into the creepiest guys lately then blocking them lol

Snowy0Star
03-30-2017, 12:27 PM
can you change ur age after u make ur account? normally when i make new accounts i normally put my real age just to make my account faster (im 30) and change it to 22 because i know a lot of guys are looking for younger girls and my personailty and looks is more of someone in their early 20s