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xxtinamariexx
05-09-2017, 05:55 PM
I know that this may sound like a stupid question, but do the guys have the same ability as us to have messages go to their phones when NOT on the site on their computer? I usually do 80% of my messages on my phone, NOT using an apple phone, just through sms messaging.. so you never see the guys photos, and if you go on a browser on your phone, it seems like it takes forever to swap back over once you log out.. and I seem to miss messages. They always seem dumbfounded when I say I am on my phone and can't see their pictures... I would assume they have that same capability that we do

naomi_doll
05-09-2017, 06:24 PM
They have the same capability but I don't think they all understand that. I've had guys freak out when I messaged them after a long time because it went to their phone and they didn't know who I was. I've also had guys text the number that displays at the top (the custom number they give to each person you talk to, not your real number) thinking it was my phone number.

Bridgetxo
05-09-2017, 07:16 PM
They have the same capability but I don't think they all understand that. I've had guys freak out when I messaged them after a long time because it went to their phone and they didn't know who I was. I've also had guys text the number that displays at the top (the custom number they give to each person you talk to, not your real number) thinking it was my phone number.

Yep this! I've had numerous guys ask who is this when I've done the long lost phrends thing.

Jupiter77
05-10-2017, 08:52 AM
Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(

xxtinamariexx
05-10-2017, 12:19 PM
Okay to the girls that are older over 40 (like me haha) why does it seem like when I am staring the guys that are 18-23 I feel like a fucking perv :O... but I have no problem camming with them??? Maybe because camming THEY are seeking me out?

Violethollywood
05-10-2017, 12:24 PM
Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(

i didnt get paid either

Jupiter77
05-10-2017, 02:21 PM
48024

"Message me so I know it's real" Yeah right! Like i'm going to pay him hahahaha Some of these headlines are so funny
Omg so he tries to be slick but I got some chocolates out that fool :p

Mal707
05-10-2017, 02:27 PM
Omg so he tries to be slick but I got some chocolates out that fool :p

Haha nice! :D

LadyLuck143
05-10-2017, 03:15 PM
Me and another girl didnt get paid today :(

I didn't get paid yesterday and I got 2 payments today.

Magical_Hoohah
05-11-2017, 11:09 AM
But perhaps better to err on the side of caution if it seems odd to you. How does the site verify the men's age?


I think it'd be the same way with the women... government issued photo ID?

I asked about this awhile back and didn't get an answer, either, but I'd really like to know. My profile is complete but not live yet (partially because I'm nervous about this aspect). I haven't been age verified in any way. Have any of you?

Do they age verify us via SSN? Do they age verify guys via credit card?

Also, if we suspect a guy is underage, how are we supposed to handle that? Do we have to wait until he *says* something indicative of being underage, or should we report them if they simply *look* too young to be on the site? If someone gets reported just for looking underage, how does the site handle that report?

Sexting with a minor can be prosecuted even if the minor was on an 18+ site, clicked "I'm at least 18 years old," and claimed to be older, so it's rather important. Normally, I think they'd go after pedo men and let it slide for a woman who was approached by a younger male and was deceived about his age. But we're sex workers - we don't get the benefit of the doubt like some "nice woman who did it by accident and most likely will never do it again." Since they haven't gone after MFC or other token sites, I don't think this would be a priority, but it's good to know what we're dealing with. Don't want the wrath of some mom who thinks I turned her angelic baby boy into a pervert.

Violethollywood
05-11-2017, 12:10 PM
the few times its happened that you can just tell theyre underage not by looks persay but the way they text/talk i tell them theyre getting blockedand reported

strawberrysweetie
05-11-2017, 12:26 PM
I asked about this awhile back and didn't get an answer, either, but I'd really like to know. My profile is complete but not live yet (partially because I'm nervous about this aspect). I haven't been age verified in any way. Have any of you?

Do they age verify us via SSN? Do they age verify guys via credit card?

Also, if we suspect a guy is underage, how are we supposed to handle that? Do we have to wait until he *says* something indicative of being underage, or should we report them if they simply *look* too young to be on the site? If someone gets reported just for looking underage, how does the site handle that report?

Sexting with a minor can be prosecuted even if the minor was on an 18+ site, clicked "I'm at least 18 years old," and claimed to be older, so it's rather important. Normally, I think they'd go after pedo men and let it slide for a woman who was approached by a younger male and was deceived about his age. But we're sex workers - we don't get the benefit of the doubt like some "nice woman who did it by accident and most likely will never do it again." Since they haven't gone after MFC or other token sites, I don't think this would be a priority, but it's good to know what we're dealing with. Don't want the wrath of some mom who thinks I turned her angelic baby boy into a pervert.

I look kind of young so my original gif didn't get approved because of the age thing, so I had to send Phrendly age verification.

laurielegs
05-11-2017, 03:04 PM
I look kind of young so my original gif didn't get approved because of the age thing, so I had to send Phrendly age verification.

I really don't like that policy.

Every single person using the service should have to submit age verification, period.

I do not want to have to worry about getting in trouble because some older looking underage kid is sexting with me.

JamaicanAliesha
05-11-2017, 03:27 PM
Do u guys have "exchange messages before calling/videoing" checked or unchecked? does it make a difference? does it matter?

Jupiter77
05-11-2017, 03:36 PM
Do u guys have "exchange messages before calling/videoing" checked or unchecked? does it make a difference? does it matter?

I have it unchecked because sometimes guys dont know whats up and call you and use their free credits

strawberrysweetie
05-11-2017, 05:29 PM
Suggestion: the word snapchat should be banned/censored

Jupiter77
05-11-2017, 06:35 PM
So I had a whale that fell off the face of the earth 2 weeks ago. Like I would message him and it would say the carrier pigeons shit lol

well today he messaged me and was like I just needed a break and i was like
YUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

This kid seriously will vid chat with me while he plays video games its a blessing

naomi_doll
05-11-2017, 07:23 PM
Suggestion: the word snapchat should be banned/censored

lol I usually tell them I don't have it because I don't know how to use it. It usually at least gets me a few more messages as I "try to download it" and ask questions on how to get it set up.

JamaicanAliesha
05-11-2017, 07:41 PM
this site is really coming thru for me this week. i'm impressed, thanks jamma & company!

Jupiter77
05-11-2017, 10:05 PM
this site is really coming thru for me this week. i'm impressed, thanks jamma & company!

Right? I'm almost to $600 today im blessed! Thanks too!

Wonder_Bra
05-12-2017, 12:22 AM
I just got done with my first video chat on Phrendly and I am pretty stoked! The guy I just did the video chat with spent $42 on me including the texts leading up to it. I pulled a "oh man the video chat isn't working try again, is it working now? Ok try again" i did that a bunch of times to get my 35 cents worth lol. When I finally decided to accept his call, I changed my pricing to $2.00/ min and accepted only to find out it really wasn't working. I guess the video chat isn't compatible with Safari so I opened Chrome instead and it worked fine. I played the shy girl card and teased him and chatted him up. It was actually fun! I have now made a little over $100 in a week without putting too much effort into it. I read how some girls on here were advertising on CL and BP but I only got one guy to sign up for it from CL before I was flagged..I found it to be pretty difficult to advertise that way. Guys that did email me wanted to talk on Kik or email. Maybe my wording wasn't the best, I am not advertising goddesses like you all :)
Phrendly rocks and this thread is insanely helpful! Also, I posted on my Tumblr since I have a large amount of followers and that seemed to help bring in some new members. Cant wait to see how much more money there is to be made on there!

ChubbyCherub
05-12-2017, 06:26 AM
I just got done with my first video chat on Phrendly and I am pretty stoked! The guy I just did the video chat with spent $42 on me including the texts leading up to it. I pulled a "oh man the video chat isn't working try again, is it working now? Ok try again" i did that a bunch of times to get my 35 cents worth lol. When I finally decided to accept his call, I changed my pricing to $2.00/ min and accepted only to find out it really wasn't working. I guess the video chat isn't compatible with Safari so I opened Chrome instead and it worked fine. I played the shy girl card and teased him and chatted him up. It was actually fun! I have now made a little over $100 in a week without putting too much effort into it. I read how some girls on here were advertising on CL and BP but I only got one guy to sign up for it from CL before I was flagged..I found it to be pretty difficult to advertise that way. Guys that did email me wanted to talk on Kik or email. Maybe my wording wasn't the best, I am not advertising goddesses like you all :)
Phrendly rocks and this thread is insanely helpful! Also, I posted on my Tumblr since I have a large amount of followers and that seemed to help bring in some new members. Cant wait to see how much more money there is to be made on there!
I can't even figure out how to put the site on CL. My ads never even get published because they contain a link.

Jupiter77
05-12-2017, 10:24 AM
I can't even figure out how to put the site on CL. My ads never even get published because they contain a link.

I havent had to use CL anymore and you cant put links.
I always used to do
blah blah blah hit me up on phrendly my names jupiter

kortneykay
05-12-2017, 12:28 PM
I'm still waiting for them to approve my gif...

Tsani
05-13-2017, 10:52 AM
Regarding the age verification questions, I think I saw earlier in the thread (I know, it's a massive thread and hard to look through it all lol) where Jamma said that since they're only providing a communication platform for a "non-adult site" and they don't monitor or police what goes on in our chats, they don't require age verification for anyone. At least I think that's what he said. I'll see if I can find it.

Edit: Found it! It was on page 4 in case anyone's interested. He answered a bunch of questions in that post.

Question: Is *everyone* on the site confirmed to be 18+?
- No, just like they aren’t confirmed 18+ on Snapchat, Instagram, etc. There is no nudity on the site and we just facilitate communications. Having said that, we do ask that users confirm they are 18+ when they register and we do review all profiles and will ask for age verification for borderline pics. A few people have reported users claiming they are underage, and we immediately shut them down. After all, we have kids too, and are very sensitive to this issue. Fortunately, this hasn’t been a big issue and we intend to keep it that way. BTW, if you start to make money camming, we’ll ask for appropriate 2257 info.

Mal707
05-13-2017, 02:38 PM
Has anyone had a birthday since joining Phrendly and got some "gifts" outta the guys? I'm about to hit the big 3-0 (ugh) on May 21 and was thinking of sending a long lost phrends message like "cum spoil me on my bday" or something haha

JamaicanAliesha
05-13-2017, 03:53 PM
LMAO! These idiots!



Him: add me on kik
6:50pm
lets have fun
6:51pm
then ill send you some venmo later
6:51pm



I must really have a babyface cause these men think I am stupid. *eyeroll*

Magical_Hoohah
05-13-2017, 04:31 PM
Thank you Tsani! I went through the US legal code and my state legal code as best I could, and I feel reassured. I'm still going to play it a little safer with the younger guys than I would on a site that age verifies the guys when they enter their credit card.

ravenskyy
05-14-2017, 11:06 AM
Ok, this site sucks so far. All I'm getting is up to 3 guys messaging me a day and it's only one corny ass message. Wtf!?!? How are you ladies making money off this bs site??? Help a sista out! Lol

Jambalam
05-14-2017, 11:11 AM
Ok, this site sucks so far. All I'm getting is up to 3 guys messaging me a day and it's only one corny ass message. Wtf!?!? How are you ladies making money off this bs site??? Help a sista out! Lol

Hey hey ravenskyy! Have you starred as many guys as you can? Like, go to the newest members and just start starring!! It works :) That's what I've been doing anyways. I hope this helps some!

ravenskyy
05-14-2017, 11:44 AM
Hey hey ravenskyy! Have you starred as many guys as you can? Like, go to the newest members and just start starring!! It works :) That's what I've been doing anyways. I hope this helps some!

I have. I did that my first day and nothing really came from it. I'll try again.

Jambalam
05-14-2017, 12:12 PM
I have. I did that my first day and nothing really came from it. I'll try again.

Oh yeah, make sure you check at least daily because new people get approved pretty regularly! Also, try adjusting the age you're looking at as well. I hope this helps a little :) Goodluck

BattleAngel
05-14-2017, 04:00 PM
Hi all, I'm new here, but have been a cam model for years. Just read this entire thread and decided to sign up with Phrendly thanks to all your great comments and info you all shared. Thank you!

Jamma, three things.
1. Thanks for your responsiveness to concerns brought up here. Definitely helped with my decision to join!
2. I'm waiting for approval of my gif, but wanted to ask you about privacy issues. My first gif was not approved, probably because I only showed half my face. The current gif has my whole face but with sunglasses. It's my personal policy to not show my whole face on cam or on any new site where I'm werking ;). It's what I need to feel safe and comfortable enough to flirt and perform freely. I've had issues with cyber and real life stalking and don't think these precautions are unreasonable considering the risks we face. Could you please see what you can do to about allowing / approving my gif as is? I'm already showing more than I'd like with the sunglasses...maybe Phrendly could meet me halfway?
3. Also, could you please change my display age to 29? I entered my actual age because I thought you might need it for your records, but assumed I'd be able to change it on my public profile. This is part marketing and part privacy for me. I know you urged us to keep our actual age because there are many older affluent men who'd feel strange flirting with women their daughters' ages, but I'm here to make money and the younger you present, the more interest you get. I appreciate any help here.

Excited to get started!

KittieVenom
05-14-2017, 05:15 PM
I just signed up for this and got an email saying I need to input my gender, and I can't for the life of me figure out where to put my gender. I've emailed support but haven't received anything yet, and I'm assuming the gender thing is what's holding me back. I really want to get started on here so maybe somebody can help me out here?

strawberrysweetie
05-14-2017, 06:22 PM
Ok, this site sucks so far. All I'm getting is up to 3 guys messaging me a day and it's only one corny ass message. Wtf!?!? How are you ladies making money off this bs site??? Help a sista out! Lol

Tbh I just have this one guy and the rest are just occasional messages that I reply to and hope they reply... Like, I star a lot of people but I don't get as many people messaging me... I think Phrendly needs to have a thing where they don't remind the guys when they're about to message that they're gonna be the ones paying to initiate. I know that I get that message when I accidently even mouse over the message box and I'm assuming guys get that too... which is probably a real turn-off to the guys on the site.

BattleAngel
05-14-2017, 10:09 PM
I just signed up for this and got an email saying I need to input my gender, and I can't for the life of me figure out where to put my gender. I've emailed support but haven't received anything yet, and I'm assuming the gender thing is what's holding me back. I really want to get started on here so maybe somebody can help me out here?

Hey Kittie, I got that email, too, after I signed up, but I seem to remember specifying gender in the very beginning when I first signed up, on the same page I entered my username and age and all that. Is it possible you already selected your gender and getting that email is making you wonder if you did it?

Jupiter77
05-14-2017, 10:49 PM
Okay so i've made $15,301 since I started and I have NOTHING saved for taxes. Has anybody dealt with a 1099k before like this site issues?

Jupiter77
05-14-2017, 10:52 PM
48042

KittieVenom
05-14-2017, 11:04 PM
I got an email saying that I got approved. I wonder why I even got that email then because I definitely did specify my gender in the very beginning. Oh well. Now I'm just waiting for guys to message me!

LadyLuck143
05-15-2017, 12:07 AM
Okay so i've made $15,301 since I started and I have NOTHING saved for taxes. Has anybody dealt with a 1099k before like this site issues?

I'm wondering about filing taxes too since this is my first time doing something like this.

Jupiter77
05-15-2017, 12:21 AM
I'm wondering about filing taxes too since this is my first time doing something like this.

This will be my first year filing a 1099 because I worked a vanilla job last year so im just kinda freaking now

JamaicanAliesha
05-15-2017, 02:23 AM
48042

lmaaaao! yeah pretty much me all day.

Bridgetxo
05-15-2017, 07:23 AM
Okay so i've made $15,301 since I started and I have NOTHING saved for taxes. Has anybody dealt with a 1099k before like this site issues?

I also sell on eBay part time so I always get a 1099-K from Paypal. It's very similar to the 1099-misc the cam sites give you. I just set aside 30% of my income every paycheck. Self-employment tax is I believe 15.3%. You also will need to pay state income tax if you live in a state that has it (most states do).

Violethollywood
05-15-2017, 07:34 AM
This will be my first year filing a 1099 because I worked a vanilla job last year so im just kinda freaking now

don't freak out. its super easy . just use turbo tax when you do file. I've always used it and always use audit defense just in case i do get audited.

I think one year i cammed and didn't make more than 12k and they made me pay like 3k but i was also married then and my husband at the time was making good money so that's why they audited me bc to them it was a second income .
As long as you keep your receipts you should be fine also you can use your home as a home office and deduct
stuff for taxes since you work from home

Violethollywood
05-15-2017, 07:35 AM
Ok, this site sucks so far. All I'm getting is up to 3 guys messaging me a day and it's only one corny ass message. Wtf!?!? How are you ladies making money off this bs site??? Help a sista out! Lol

ok this is off topic but did you use to work on OHC way back when b/c if so..... HEY GIRL HEYYYYYY

Spicecake
05-15-2017, 11:56 AM
I'm working my way through the thread but I've signed up and just got my gif approved. How do you ladies find your referral link to post on other sites ? And how do you track your earnings so far ?

jamma
05-15-2017, 01:25 PM
I'm working my way through the thread but I've signed up and just got my gif approved. How do you ladies find your referral link to post on other sites ? And how do you track your earnings so far ?

Try the gear icon in the navigation and hit "Balance". There you can see earnings (and their details via the transaction details link). While there, on the right side you'll see your Tell-A-Friend link. Hope this helps, and welcome to Phrendly!

ChubbyCherub
05-15-2017, 01:51 PM
Try the gear icon in the navigation and hit "Balance". There you can see earnings (and their details via the transaction details link). While there, on the right side you'll see your Tell-A-Friend link. Hope this helps, and welcome to Phrendly!

As long as it's on a computer or tablet, that is. I've never see it on the mobile browser or the app.

Spicecake
05-15-2017, 03:58 PM
Do the guys set drink prices? :( I got 35 cents before but my recent chat this guy just gave me 10 cents then 21 cents

Violethollywood
05-15-2017, 04:56 PM
Do the guys set drink prices? :( I got 35 cents before but my recent chat this guy just gave me 10 cents then 21 cents


wtf ????????