View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
Mal707
06-10-2017, 02:26 PM
Y'all, I just had this guy message me asking if I knew anybody that would give him free nudes. Like??
I do free nudes cuz that's what I use to get guys from Craigslist to sign up. My username is GoofyKitty4U if he asks you again
TheBrownFox
06-10-2017, 04:21 PM
Yes, you won't get an email, just the deposit. If you click "transaction details" next to your current balance, you can see that it cashed out and how much as well.
Thank you. It says June 9, 4:33 AM: Express Pay: $27.05 under the Debits section.
JamaicanAliesha
06-10-2017, 09:20 PM
These guys are a trip but you can thank the companies for false advertisement. "Local girls want to meet you" "Text, flirt and meet local hotties online, now!" and all that fucking jazz. I made $300 off of a guy on chatfunn who kept pushing to meet and I kept telling him the whole entire time that we're not allowed to break site rules with offline contact.
It got to the point (he had an obvious mental retardation) where he kept bringing it up every single time and called once talking about "Am I actually going to be able to meet you?" and how he can't get 'in person sex' and as politely as I could I suggested he meet up with a professional and he hung up, lmao. Like is he not well aware that generally the only people who sleep with the mentally retarded are escorts who offer that service? A grown man giddy about his dad taking him out to pizza at the mall is probably not going to get any play. I felt sorry for him.
Get it while it's good, ladies! The butt hurts and the feels with control a man. And they say we're the emotional ones.
...I think I have been talking to this guy too lol. And men are SO controlled by feelings, smh.
xxxGothBarbie
06-10-2017, 09:26 PM
HA! I had a dude say how well he liked this site over POF bc all he got from there were scammers he said LOL. I'm thinking.... well sir the grass ain't much greener on this side either buddy LOL :) I've noticed the attitudes of some of these guys are getting nastier & more entitled with having to "pay" to talk to a pretty girl which grosses me out & makes me wanna rip their asses off even more ugh *eye roll*
Violethollywood
06-11-2017, 07:04 AM
HA! I had a dude say how well he liked this site over POF bc all he got from there were scammers he said LOL. I'm thinking.... well sir the grass ain't much greener on this side either buddy LOL :) I've noticed the attitudes of some of these guys are getting nastier & more entitled with having to "pay" to talk to a pretty girl which grosses me out & makes me wanna rip their asses off even more ugh *eye roll*
i've noticed that too. this one guy im talking to now. freddy01 does not pay for nudes hes such a cheap tight wad . 48 years old and cheap as fuck
like mother fucker send me some fucking chocolates you entitled piece of shit.
SOOO many guys ive talked to bitch about paying to talk to a woman. It's no different than buying a girl a drink at a bar . SMH. I always say if you have such a problem or cant afford to pay to talk to me then you damn sure couldnt afford to take me out on a date
melanielive
06-11-2017, 07:20 AM
Hey ladies!
I just took my photo booth pics so I suppose once it gets approved my profile will be visible.
One question, do u tell the guys the truth about being single, married or having/ not having kids there?
In other words, are u honest or you play a character there?
In my case I m married and have a 3 months old baby, should I tell them I m single and w no kids instead? will they get turned off if i tell them the truth?
I know it says that site is supposed to just talk online and not really finding a real gf but I wanna make sure I don't screw up and kill those guys fantasy...lol
I d like to know how do u do it there, hope someone reads my message soon :)
ChubbyCherub
06-11-2017, 08:52 AM
Hey ladies!
I just took my photo booth pics so I suppose once it gets approved my profile will be visible.
One question, do u tell the guys the truth about being single, married or having/ not having kids there?
In other words, are u honest or you play a character there?
In my case I m married and have a 3 months old baby, should I tell them I m single and w no kids instead? will they get turned off if i tell them the truth?
I know it says that site is supposed to just talk online and not really finding a real gf but I wanna make sure I don't screw up and kill those guys fantasy...lol
I d like to know how do u do it there, hope someone reads my message soon :)
I play a character. I'm Ruby. I'm 35, single, a writer (which explains why I can chat all day), no kids, from Canada.
Reality: I'm 35, married, with kids, photographer and cam girl, from the US. Bahahaha!
Jupiter77
06-11-2017, 09:00 AM
I play a character. I'm Ruby. I'm 35, single, a writer (which explains why I can chat all day), no kids, from Canada.
Reality: I'm 35, married, with kids, photographer and cam girl, from the US. Bahahaha!
I play a character to most guys, Jupiter. 21 single living in the mountain with 3 dogs.
but sometimes people call me out on my bs because they see my wedding rings, and I do have a few that know and they like requesting custom videos.
melanielive
06-11-2017, 10:22 AM
I think I m gonna play a character too then...lol
Might not even use Melanie as my display name which is my camming name and what I use on every site... I m gonna think about something...lol
I m 33 , I could say I m divorced, no kids and just having fun online with guys..lol
LadyGodga
06-11-2017, 10:52 AM
Hey ladies!
I just took my photo booth pics so I suppose once it gets approved my profile will be visible.
One question, do u tell the guys the truth about being single, married or having/ not having kids there?
In other words, are u honest or you play a character there?
In my case I m married and have a 3 months old baby, should I tell them I m single and w no kids instead? will they get turned off if i tell them the truth?
I know it says that site is supposed to just talk online and not really finding a real gf but I wanna make sure I don't screw up and kill those guys fantasy...lol
I d like to know how do u do it there, hope someone reads my message soon :)
I play a character since in reality, I'm a mother and in a relationship. And also a camgirl. Which they kinda want to buy into the illusion that you are really there wanting to talk to them. They don't want to consider that this is a method of income for you. It takes away from the excitement and they'll just find someone else who is more willing to portray their fantasy for them. I wear a wig and glasses in my profile photo as well so I look a little different since I am on cam and could be recognized. I do also use a different name. Also, I would never tell my clients I have kids and not just because it could kill their fantasy. For all I know, they could be perverts and I've had my fair share of men asking me if I have kids to be gross. I don't want anyone even thinking about my kids that way.
JamaicanAliesha
06-11-2017, 12:37 PM
HA! I had a dude say how well he liked this site over POF bc all he got from there were scammers he said LOL. I'm thinking.... well sir the grass ain't much greener on this side either buddy LOL :) I've noticed the attitudes of some of these guys are getting nastier & more entitled with having to "pay" to talk to a pretty girl which grosses me out & makes me wanna rip their asses off even more ugh *eye roll*
Yeah I think phrendly kinda pulled an SM and started advertising to sleazier demographic sites cause these guys are entitled and cheap.
i am a mean bitch and i don't play that. my final word is my final word. if you want a pretty jamaican girl who you can never get in a million years to talk to you, then you need to pay up.
JamaicanAliesha
06-11-2017, 12:39 PM
Hey ladies!
I just took my photo booth pics so I suppose once it gets approved my profile will be visible.
One question, do u tell the guys the truth about being single, married or having/ not having kids there?
In other words, are u honest or you play a character there?
In my case I m married and have a 3 months old baby, should I tell them I m single and w no kids instead? will they get turned off if i tell them the truth?
I know it says that site is supposed to just talk online and not really finding a real gf but I wanna make sure I don't screw up and kill those guys fantasy...lol
I d like to know how do u do it there, hope someone reads my message soon :)
i play a character on any site i sign up too. i will tell them whatever they want to hear lmao. these guys don't need to know anything personal about me.
i just take real facts about me and spin them to be more desirable to who i'm talking to.
ravenskyy
06-11-2017, 04:12 PM
Phrendly needs to start paying us for messages and pics that we receive lol. I basically get bombarded with messages and dick pics from guys that want to send 3 or 4 messages before I can even respond to the first one, or they get butt hurt if I don't reply within 2 minutes and start asking "u busy? still there baby?" Omg! I have a life and I'm not your girlfriend, chill! And the dick pics these guys send, omfg! Eww! Give me a way to block them from automatically showing up when I'm using the site on my web browser puhleeeeeze!????!! I can't even work on my laptop around my kids or my husband without worrying about a random dick pic showing up on my screen! I'm starting to question whether the 35cents is even worth it...
melanielive
06-11-2017, 05:07 PM
Something I've noticed is that 80 % of the guys that show up as "matches" look like they uploaded a mugshot or like they r some kind of perv or something...lol ( Well, ok I know a lot of guys that get cam shows look creepy af too but some of the guys on this site look even scarier.. ha ha
My other question ( and last) is, do you start every single one of them ( for a greater chance to get messages, etc) or u star the ones that look a bit more "decent" and like it makes sense a pretty girl is interested in them?
So far I got stared by maybe 6 guys or so, no messages, nothing... :( ( I started being visible today, I gotta be more patient!)
Jambalam
06-11-2017, 05:18 PM
Something I've noticed is that 80 % of the guys that show up as "matches" look like they uploaded a mugshot or like they r some kind of perv or something...lol ( Well, ok I know a lot of guys that get cam shows look creepy af too but some of the guys on this site look even scarier.. ha ha
My other question ( and last) is, do you start every single one of them ( for a greater chance to get messages, etc) or u star the ones that look a bit more "decent" and like it makes sense a pretty girl is interested in them?
So far I got stared by maybe 6 guys or so, no messages, nothing... :( ( I started being visible today, I gotta be more patient!)
You are so right about them looking like they are in a mug shot. The ones who don't move the camera when they're taking the gif but like, maybe a few centimeters one way or the other and just kind of stare all dead like into the camera. Creeps me out. About starring, I personally star them all. I went through and starred every one of them and I continue to do it when new guys are added. Just be patient, you got this :)
TheBrownFox
06-11-2017, 08:30 PM
My other question ( and last) is, do you start every single one of them ( for a greater chance to get messages, etc) or u star the ones that look a bit more "decent" and like it makes sense a pretty girl is interested in them?
I've been wondering how y'all go about doing this too.
I've been starring the guys that look good or look somewhat decent to me. The ones that look like fucking Gargamel from The Smurfs, I click on the X and keep it moving. LOL.
Jupiter77
06-11-2017, 10:10 PM
I star everybody because I like money and I liked making 10k last month.
Redcandy
06-11-2017, 10:24 PM
Got approve today and made my first 25$ in less then 24hrs. I star everyone.. Don't care if their pic is a mug shot..scary looking or not. Money spend the same. Aint here to date them so don't care how they look as long as they got money to spend.
Jupiter77
06-11-2017, 10:25 PM
Got approve today and made my first 25$ in less then 24hrs. I star everyone.. Don't care if their pic is a mug shot..scary looking or not. Money spend the same. Aint here to date them so don't care how they look as long as they got money to spend.
We dont see cam custies faces unless we are cam2cam or they send pics. Would you turn down a cam custie because hes fug? Not me!
Redcandy
06-11-2017, 10:32 PM
Girl not me either..i sign up for the money!
Jupiter77
06-11-2017, 11:07 PM
A lady has her reasons. :)
Anyway, I am hoping things on an upswing because I made more tonight than I did any day last week, save Monday (pretty sad when your highest earning day of the week is Monday).
Right? I miss the 500+ days.
Redcandy
06-12-2017, 12:22 AM
Just had a 30 min video play session. I hope this site keep on giving the money . first full day and I'm at $108
h0ttie
06-12-2017, 01:54 AM
i feel jealous hahah..my gif is not very good. but its like im over here just staring people and getting stared back?? i had one guy do a little text earlier and that was it. its been 12 hrs tho and i think i just made like $10 off him ...
melanielive
06-12-2017, 03:43 AM
500 x day? can u make 500 x day there if you have a good day? wow that s insane...
I m gonna start staring everyone then..lol
I got a text from a guy last night so made 35 cents! LOL and he asked me to download snap chat... bad start... ha ha
TheBrownFox
06-12-2017, 08:05 AM
Very cool site! :) Just waiting to see when I get my first express pay in the bank from June 7th and 8th's earnings.
WendiStarr
06-12-2017, 09:18 AM
Anyone else get a text from a dude offering $30k to be his caregiver? That was weird.
Jambalam
06-12-2017, 09:22 AM
Anyone else get a text from a dude offering $30k to be his caregiver? That was weird.
Yes Wendi, I got that guy the other day and it was awkward. I just told him no a couple times and he stopped messaging me.
Magical_Hoohah
06-12-2017, 09:32 AM
My other question ( and last) is, do you start every single one of them ( for a greater chance to get messages, etc) or u star the ones that look a bit more "decent" and like it makes sense a pretty girl is interested in them?
I've been struggling with that a bit, too. I know I should star everyone, but I keep thinking "If I star this guy, he'll know for sure that I'm a professional, because no woman who looks like me would ever star a man that looks like him." And I don't say that to be arrogant - I'm not exceptionally hot, and in real life I'm not all that concerned about a dude's looks, but a lot of these guys would be lucky to get the time of day from any woman ever!
I was wondering, if I upload a few pics from Instagram, but then delete those pics off IG, would they disappear from my profile, too?
DancesWithSloths
06-12-2017, 09:41 AM
I'm having a hell of a time figuring out whether this platform will work with UK models, now they've been around a while and have a browser app.
Any intel, bbs?
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 09:52 AM
You definitely can! Things are a little slow right now but they'll pick up soon. June 1st and 2nd, I made 600 and 700 respectively.
OK, I'm curious. What are you ladies doing to earn that much on this site? It seems like 90% of these guys are cheap assholes. So what exactly are you doing that is keeping them spending? I don't want to call bs, but what kind of sorcery or witchcraft is this??? lmao and sign me up!
LadyGodga
06-12-2017, 10:10 AM
Well I never. :P
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I don't cam. I don't take calls. I just talk and demand gifts. Keep the goddess on your side. She demands a sacrifice. And all that.
Getting them to message you first seems to be the hard part I think. Keeping them engaged is at least a little bit easier. But I just started giving this attention not too long ago and i'm on page 70 of starring people. I've got almost 10 bucks to show for it but that's no 600 or 700. Is there a certain way you're going about getting them to message you?
Jupiter77
06-12-2017, 10:16 AM
It's no bs. Burt and I make the same pretty much everyday. We share a lot of regulars. We know how to hustle them good. When it's slow. We market. When it's busy. We rock it. We spend hours on our gifs to make them perfect. We also work from the moment we wake up up till we close our eyes. Honestly I'm not sure what to say because we don't do anything special. It's not witchcraft. It's hustlin.
LadyGodga
06-12-2017, 10:38 AM
There is not really much you can do to get someone to message you other than starring them. If there were more means to do so (like nudging or other pre-emptive measures) I feel like it would "cheapen" the experience for the guys. For guys, Phrendly is this magical site where the girls really are totally 100% interested in talking to you and getting to know you and sure, there's the money aspect however, it would feel like it's more about the money if there were all of these attention grabbing aspects of it. Does that makes sense? You truly do have to let the guys come to you. I am just thankful we can give them a little tap on the shoulder through starring.
I get you! Yeah there really is no way to actually get that first message other than to star them. It's super cool you guys make so much on here just from talking alone. I've been thinking about spending more time on it, especially when I'm not camming. I think i'm gonna start putting more effort into it since it sounds like a good egg to have in your basket.
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 11:00 AM
It's no bs. Burt and I make the same pretty much everyday. We share a lot of regulars. We know how to hustle them good. When it's slow. We market. When it's busy. We rock it. We spend hours on our gifs to make them perfect. We also work from the moment we wake up up till we close our eyes. Honestly I'm not sure what to say because we don't do anything special. It's not witchcraft. It's hustlin.
"Hustlin" is very vague. All of us hustle. Most of us work all day everyday, I know I do. I was asking what specifically you do. What are you offering to make 600 too 700 a day? Burt, you don't do cam or take calls, so what are you offering? No offense, but nudes are not worth very much unless you're a celebrity lol You don't have to share the information, I was really just curious if I was missing something on here.
Whatever you're doing, that's cool that you guys are banking on it, but you can't be surprised that your earnings raise a few eyebrows since you two are the only ones claiming to make so much.
Jupiter77
06-12-2017, 11:12 AM
Girl we are friends on facebook. I've told you multiple times that I sell pics and videos.
But I also have regulars who I can be like "send me roses for a bag of weed" and they do. Lol
Spemily
06-12-2017, 11:13 AM
This site is a bit of a mystery to me, too. I don't doubt that Burt and Jupiter and the other high-ranking girls are doing great, but I've been on Phrendly almost since the beginning and it's never been good for me. At my peak, I was getting about 1 or 2 messages a day and most conversations never went beyond two or three volleys. I just received my first gift ever two days ago. However, in recent weeks, it's dropped to something more like 1 or 2 messages a week.
Last week, I spent a ton of time taking a gif I thought was a huge improvement on the one I had up. I'd been stuck on page 12 forever and figured a vastly better gif would help attract more attention. Nope. I've dropped to page 18 or worse. I'm not giving up right away, but I do feel a little discouraged. Some girls say things like "I'm not sure this site works for me, I'm only making $10 a day." I've made less than $100 total, the entire time I've been there. I am definitely doing something wrong.
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 11:34 AM
I value myself and my nudes are worth what I ask for them. I am not a celebrity, no, but I don't dole out private pictures of myself for a rose. Maybe that's why I'm making what I claim to make. Also I don't believe Jupiter and I are the only people on the site who make what we claim to make. They just don't come and showboat on this site like I do ;)
Lol I'm sure everyone on here values themselves hun. You're starting to sound like you think you're better than everyone. Maybe the other girls don't showboat like you do because they know that it's rude. When I do well, I share it to celebrate and give hope to other girls, not to gloat and show off. I came on this site for research, good conversation and helpful advice (giving and receiving), not to get into petty arguments with people.
This industry can be a pain in the ass, so it's nice when girls can talk, share tips and uplift each other. No one was hating on your earnings, which is why I was joking around in my first message. I will say no more after this. Happy hustlin!
Spemily
06-12-2017, 11:50 AM
Aw, I like knowing that other girls are doing well on any given site. It means it's worth it for me to keep trying new approaches. Maybe Phrendly isn't for me and I'll eventually pack up my $100 and call it a day, but if I knew no one was able to make it work, I'd already be gone.
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 11:54 AM
I said I was done, I lied.
"I don't want to call bs, but what kind of sorcery or witchcraft is this??? lmao and sign me up!" You can totally see that I was joking here Lmfao. I'm sorry that you feel like I'm hating on you, but girl it is not that serious. I don't feel any sort of way towards you, I don't know you. No need to get butt hurt Burt lol (Ok I'm done joking around). But seriously, I was not hating on you, I was just curious. Chill, you haven't made any enemies over here.
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 12:03 PM
Can we please start over? I feel gross and I'm embarrassed of how I have acted today. I think maybe I took things the wrong way and went off the deep end. I'm a little bit uh.. I'm a bit extreme at times and then I'm like "Burt, what the hell. You dumb bitch." I'm sorry :(
Girl it's fine! I can be the same way, I am not a saint lol Sorry luv *big hugs*
Redcandy
06-12-2017, 12:45 PM
Anyone else get a text from a dude offering $30k to be his caregiver? That was weird.
Yes. I got him last night. I even made him call me to explain to me what he really wanted in a caregivier.
ChubbyCherub
06-12-2017, 01:58 PM
I have been on since the very beginning. The most I've made in a day was $67. I'm also on page 13, last I checked. I'm even behind the girl with the unibrow (no offense if you're one of us). I work every day. I spend time starring every new guy multiple times per day, I have spent hours on my GIFs. I've reworded my profile to make it "enticing". The biggest gift I've gotten was two bunches of balloons. I advertise on my Camgirl Twitter acct, my sock Facebook. I get it, raven. I don't make the kind of money the other girls do, either. And I've been out in my place by them, too. Just do you, girl. Xoxo
TheBrownFox
06-12-2017, 04:19 PM
I'm gonna start starring the fuck outta every dude that pops up, to see what happens.
Okay, so you've probably seen me on here bitching about not making much money on the app, it's been frustrating. But I took Burt's advice about valuing myself and my nudes, and I made $200 today. I always thought "If they send a rose, I'll send them something" But today I was like naw, they have to send me a lot to get anything, and I got this guy to gift me $150. Just don't settle for less than you deserve.
ravenskyy
06-12-2017, 05:15 PM
I have been on since the very beginning. The most I've made in a day was $67. I'm also on page 13, last I checked. I'm even behind the girl with the unibrow (no offense if you're one of us). I work every day. I spend time starring every new guy multiple times per day, I have spent hours on my GIFs. I've reworded my profile to make it "enticing". The biggest gift I've gotten was two bunches of balloons. I advertise on my Camgirl Twitter acct, my sock Facebook. I get it, raven. I don't make the kind of money the other girls do, either. And I've been out in my place by them, too. Just do you, girl. Xoxo
I used to be on page 1, now I'm on page 3. I know I'm going to sound like a bitch and I don't care, but I know my gif and pics are better than some of those girls on there.
I've been getting messages, but the guys have been cheap. I'm literally talking to a guy now that asked for my kik. Like omg already!!!!! Lmao. For me, it's not about getting guys interested, It's about getting guys that will spend and not bitch about me asking for a gift. I can't complain too much because I don't advertise (that's changing today). But I was on page 1 for about a week and I was still not doing that well. It's definitely quality over quantity for customers. I've had 15 guys message me in a morning and only 1 or 2 kept spending. Men suck! lol Time to post those ads!!!!
Jupiter77
06-12-2017, 06:28 PM
I have the opposite problem now. Newbies never message me anymore. I can't hook 'em but I can keep the few people I have talking to me, to stick around.
Ugh right? No more newbies so im holding on to dear life to our regs..
Bridgetxo
06-12-2017, 06:32 PM
I never get newbies either. I had two new people message me today. So many of my regs have disappeared so I'm just trying to keep the ones I have left.
Redcandy
06-12-2017, 07:20 PM
ive been hitting guys up from yesterday asking them how there day was going. 3 of them replied back with several messages and I got that one guy to come do another video chat show with me. I told him my pussy was still wet from last night. It worked! I'm at $225
TheBrownFox
06-13-2017, 04:38 AM
Hi, jamma. I just sent you a PM.
blondhottie
06-13-2017, 11:50 AM
What is the minimum payout? How do video calls work? Do you get paid by the minute for video calls, or do you get paid one flat fee and that's it? I just joined this site recently but I'm finding it kind of confusing. lol