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Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 08:46 AM
I love how someone can reply to the forums but NOBODY can reply to me directly!

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 08:47 AM
So, you also plan on deleting all the accounts with snapchat or kik usernames in their bio section, right?

Yeah what about the guys who treat us like shit for not giving out our social medias.

OR MAYBE NOT ADVERTISE ON FACEBOOK SO PEOPLE DON'T KNOW THAT IS NOT A REAL DATING SITE

OR MAYBE DON'T HAVE "REAL RELATIONSHIPS" IN YOUR SLOGO SO GUYS KNOW THIS IS NOT REAL

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 08:49 AM
Also, apparently my gift button is gone.

I've had 2 CMD clients try to send me a gift on phrenull and they can't

ChubbyCherub
06-15-2017, 08:51 AM
Please do not promise to meet up with phrends, for your own safety and to keep you within our Terms of Service. Especially don’t promise to meet up with someone just to keep the messages and gifts flowing.

This sort of approach to your phrends will get you kicked off the site. Please do not engage in this sort of deception. We do not want Phrendly to be seen as a scam site, and if you're taking money from someone, while lying blatantly about meeting them somewhere, you're engaged in scammy behavior, plain and simple. Please keep it above board, ladies. This is a new community, and like anything young, it can grow into something great with the right sort of care, or wither away from abuse. None of us want the latter, and obviously we will close accounts to prevent that from happening.


As for denying suggestive gifs, we are trying to clean things up in response to ads being denied on popular vanilla outlets due to some pictures on our site being deemed too risque. We owe you better guidelines, for sure, but we had to take quick action to keep our marketing plans intact. Part of the problem is us not knowing exactly why or which pictures they deemed too suggestive. We hope to provide some clarity in the near future.

I don't want to make anyone angry, however, I am going to assume that you plan on punishing the men who have genitals showing in their gifs as well? And the ones who tell me they are looking for their soul mate on the site? And the ones who keep pushing for personal contact info? And the ones who tell me that they expect me to meet them even though I make it clear we live in different states? I feel like your recent actions are kind of misogynistic....

Spemily
06-15-2017, 09:04 AM
Yeah what about the guys who treat us like shit for not giving out our social medias.

OR MAYBE NOT ADVERTISE ON FACEBOOK SO PEOPLE DON'T KNOW THAT IS NOT A REAL DATING SITE

OR MAYBE DON'T HAVE "REAL RELATIONSHIPS" IN YOUR SLOGO SO GUYS KNOW THIS IS NOT REAL

So much this. If you want to advertise on vanilla outlets, making people think it's a dating site, maybe you shouldn't have promoted it on StripperWeb, to get professional sex workers to sign up to provide services. Either it's a social network site or it's a sex work site. You can't have it both ways.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 09:38 AM
I didn't get paid today.


This site is starting to reallly piss me off

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 10:13 AM
Has anybody seen my gif? My tits take up half the pic! So stupid that your guys gifs got denied.

Also, I have literally begged jamma for someone to respond to me. Nothing. Nice to know how they treat their models.

I saw your gif when checking my placement only to find I had been moved back to page 13 too. Yours is so cute!

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 10:19 AM
I saw your gif when checking my placement only to find I had been moved back to page 13 too. Yours is so cute!

Awh thanks boo!
And UGH like wtf do they expect us to do

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 10:22 AM
Well now I feel like i'm being punished too. My placement went down even more after I was up all night talking to custies. I kept their screens up to make sure that I responded real fast too. I'm getting pretty fucking ticked off.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 10:22 AM
I got a reply! Finally

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 10:25 AM
Does anyone know the placement formula? Cause apparently it's not what I thought it was. Being active, getting customers and responding quickly. Maybe if you kiss phrendly's ass the most. I can't believe I lost out on a full night of sleep when I have a toddler just to be pushed back another page.

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 10:25 AM
I got a reply! Finally

Was it a good reply?

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 10:26 AM
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Play Fair (Phrendly)
Jun 15, 10:06 AM PDT

Hi, JupiterJ,

Thanks for your reply!

We appreciate you agreeing to follow our policies. Yes, you're still welcome to send out the Google drive link to your videos. We just don't want Phrends offering Members links to services that circumvent our payment system.

As for your questions regarding your placement and gift button, I'm forwarding these questions to our Customer Service team so they can assist you properly.

Please let us know if you have any further questions.

Best,
Lizzy

Phrendly Policy and Abuse

ChubbyCherub
06-15-2017, 10:58 AM
Does anyone know the placement formula? Cause apparently it's not what I thought it was. Being active, getting customers and responding quickly. Maybe if you kiss phrendly's ass the most. I can't believe I lost out on a full night of sleep when I have a toddler just to be pushed back another page.

That's a good question. Janna said it was based on earnings, but I'm starting to doubt that.

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 11:24 AM
That's a good question. Janna said it was based on earnings, but I'm starting to doubt that.

I wonder if they really are trying to get girls to quit to bring in new ones. I don't see why though. People that have been around on the site longer have clients. But idk how else to explain this.

Violethollywood
06-15-2017, 11:56 AM
I told a newbie today that I was on this site because I wanted an online only relationship. I was very honest with him that I would not be meeting him blah blah blah. I have said this in about 5 different ways throughout our convo. He said he understood, at first.. However, he keeps saying every few messages, "well if you wanna meet up...." "I can bring you something from here..." "Well I'll be driving through there next month you have 2 weeks to decide haha."

At least he isn't treating me like dog doo and demanding that I go off-site or meet him.


Yeah I get those a lot the "yout have thus long to decide if we're gonna meet and if not then I'm not gonna use this app anymore blah blah " all the guys are like that. They all think we're going to meet them. Except maybe like 2 or 3 of them

naomi_doll
06-15-2017, 12:05 PM
I've posted one before, but this is one from a creepy guy I reported forever ago (when we had to email to report) and he still has a profile with all his contact info in the tagline. :D


482814828248283


I blocked and reported every singly guy who has ever tried to give me off site contact info or meet me today. I'm sure nothing will happen, but we'll see.

Violethollywood
06-15-2017, 12:20 PM
I think ive talked to that same guy before. I bet he's the same guy that Google searches our pictures like a fucking psycho path

naomi_doll
06-15-2017, 12:25 PM
I'm sure it is. I'm just amazed that I tell this guy I had a stalker and his reply is "oh well I could do that too! right now!" Oh yeah man, I definitely want to talk to you off-site now! lol

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 12:30 PM
I've posted one before, but this is one from a creepy guy I reported forever ago (when we had to email to report) and he still has a profile with all his contact info in the tagline. :D


482814828248283


I blocked and reported every singly guy who has ever tried to give me off site contact info or meet me today. I'm sure nothing will happen, but we'll see.

There's a lot of cheap dudes on here that just want freebies. I get particularly annoyed when someone stars me back and doesn't say anything or when they immediately give me their number. Like thanks but no thanks.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 01:02 PM
I took a new GIF and i literally covered my tits with a blanket. lol

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 01:41 PM
yes Violet you are right.

Remember this post the first one Phrendly ever posted on Stripperweb! Why don't they just admit their concept doesn't work. These guys definitely want to meet. They are not willing to pay for it. And where are the rich men they were talking about?LOL

Phrendly was born out of the observation that a lot of people like ONLY the texting back-and-forth part of dating apps; they aren’t interested in meeting up—for a variety of reasons. It’s hard for guys to find women willing to do this today. Dating apps are for meeting up with a partner and adult sites are, well, for getting off. Phrendly fills the void between these two and allows guys to have a secret “pocket girlfriend” that gives them the thrill of feeling wanted without the weight of an IRL relationship.


And they’re willing to pay for it. To keep things more natural and “girlfriendy”, they pay by sharing “drinks” with you, much as they would at a wine bar or club.

Yeah where are these wealthy men... I wanna know Phrendly

katydiamond123
06-15-2017, 01:48 PM
Yeah I get those a lot the "yout have thus long to decide if we're gonna meet and if not then I'm not gonna use this app anymore blah blah " all the guys are like that. They all think we're going to meet them. Except maybe like 2 or 3 of them

Yeah I get those a lot the "yout have thus long to decide if we're gonna meet and if not then I'm not gonna use this app anymore blah blah " all the guys are like that. They all think we're going to meet them. Except maybe like 2 or 3 of them


Yes Violet you are right.

Remember this post the first one Phrendly ever posted on Stripperweb! Why don't they just admit their concept doesn't work. These guys definitely want to meet. They are not willing to pay for it. And where are the rich men they were talking about?

***Phrendly was born out of the observation that a lot of people like ONLY the texting back-and-forth part of dating apps; they aren’t interested in meeting up—for a variety of reasons. It’s hard for guys to find women willing to do this today. Dating apps are for meeting up with a partner and adult sites are, well, for getting off. Phrendly fills the void between these two and allows guys to have a secret “pocket girlfriend” that gives them the thrill of feeling wanted without the weight of an IRL relationship.


And they’re willing to pay for it. To keep things more natural and “girlfriendy”, they pay by sharing “drinks” with you, much as they would at a wine bar or club.*****

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 01:52 PM
Yeah where are these wealthy men... I wanna know Phrendly

Yeah I have yet to see any of these "wealthy men"

katydiamond123
06-15-2017, 01:54 PM
****Yes! Plenty. You DO NOT have to have a public profile to talk to someone on Phrendly, so there are plenty of guys lurking in private mode. Of course you *do* have to have a public profile for someone to reach out to you, and that's the only way to earn. It looks and feels like a dating site to enhance the girlfriend aspect, which is why guys are allowed to create profiles unlike on adult sites. In fact, women can contact guys with public profiles (and pay for it!), but we know that won't be too common.******


I HAVE TO LAUGH WHERE THEY SAID DATING SITES ARE FOR MEETING UP AND ADULT SITES ARE FOR GETTING OFF AND PHRENDLY IS BETWEEN THE TWO!

PLAY FAIR PLEASE PHRENDLY!!!

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 02:06 PM
48285

Fucking kill me.

So pretty much

"Hey we dont care that you worked your ass off and made over 20k since you been here so here you go fuck off"

LadyLuck143
06-15-2017, 02:19 PM
I didnt get paid yesterday but got two payments today.

katydiamond123
06-15-2017, 02:20 PM
Please do not promise to meet up with phrends, for your own safety and to keep you within our Terms of Service. Especially don’t promise to meet up with someone just to keep the messages and gifts flowing.

This sort of approach to your phrends will get you kicked off the site. Please do not engage in this sort of deception. We do not want Phrendly to be seen as a scam site, and if you're taking money from someone, while lying blatantly about meeting them somewhere, you're engaged in scammy behavior, plain and simple. Please keep it above board, ladies. This is a new community, and like anything young, it can grow into something great with the right sort of care, or wither away from abuse. None of us want the latter, and obviously we will close accounts to prevent that from happening.


As for denying suggestive gifs, we are trying to clean things up in response to ads being denied on popular vanilla outlets due to some pictures on our site being deemed too risque. We owe you better guidelines, for sure, but we had to take quick action to keep our marketing plans intact. Part of the problem is us not knowing exactly why or which pictures they deemed too suggestive. We hope to provide some clarity in the near future.


Ok now I have a question and comment. What about the girl on Page 1 or 2 with the cleaveage down to her waist with the white top and blond hair?
The one that said on some site that Phrendly promoted her photo on Facebook and gave her a heads up a day before it went live to enable her to make $400 that day and who knows how much the other days.

It says in her profile: Totally Open to meeting all kinds of people

OMG!!!!So is she engaging in scammy behaviour?? LOL

Yet girls like Spemily who play by the rules earn $1 a day. Play Fair Phrendly!

(Peace girls, it's my sense of humor and intelligence!)

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 02:28 PM
Ok now I have a question and comment. What about the girl on Page 1 or 2 with the cleaveage down to her waist with the white top and blond hair?
The one that said on some site that Phrendly promoted her photo on Facebook and gave her a heads up a day before it went live to enable her to make $400 that day and who knows how much the other days.

It says in her profile: Totally Open to meeting all kinds of people

OMG!!!!So is she engaging in scammy behaviour?? LOL

Yet girls like Spemily who play by the rules earn $1 a day. Play Fair Phrendly!

(Peace girls, it's my sense of humor and intelligence!)


I reported her for having two accounts a few months ago and shes still on there. The other account got deleted.

Mal707
06-15-2017, 02:31 PM
In my experience of using the site, NONE of the guys realize that meeting is off the table. In fact, a large majority of them seem to be signing up with the idea that the site is for quick hookups or for long term dating. I haven't lied to any of the guys about meeting or about where I'm located or about what the purpose of the site is. And the upshot of that is that I make an average of less than $1 a day. Conversation stops dead, three or four messages in, as soon as the guys ask about meeting or about what I'm looking for in a long term partner or even just where I'm located. They come in with the assumption that they've been shown my profile as a potential match because I am located near them.

If you want the site to work, you have to make it far more explicitly clear that it is NOT a dating site. As it is, you are the ones misleading the guys and putting the burden on us of revealing the unpleasant truth that they did not sign up for a hookup/dating app.

Yes! Phrendly needs to do something to make it way more explicitly clear that meeting is off the table in order to attract the right type of guys for this site. It looks like a dating site with potential for hookups, and guys are always gonna think it's that unless something changes. No guy i've talked to has come to me with the understanding that this was only for online excitement because they never read the site's information. It's extremely frustrating to try to dance around the questions of "why can't we talk offsite" and "when can I meet you" and "where do you live." It is a new site though, so I'm hoping to see it grow and transform in a way that'll attract guys from the niche audience that it was meant to serve.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 03:01 PM
Yes! Phrendly needs to do something to make it way more explicitly clear that meeting is off the table in order to attract the right type of guys for this site. It looks like a dating site with potential for hookups, and guys are always gonna think it's that unless something changes. No guy i've talked to has come to me with the understanding that this was only for online excitement because they never read the site's information. It's extremely frustrating to try to dance around the questions of "why can't we talk offsite" and "when can I meet you" and "where do you live." It is a new site though, so I'm hoping to see it grow and transform in a way that'll attract guys from the niche audience that it was meant to serve.

Exactly. and you wouldnt see any other adult service advertised on Facebook for gods sake. A lot of people think its Tinder.

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 04:18 PM
48285

Fucking kill me.

So pretty much

"Hey we dont care that you worked your ass off and made over 20k since you been here so here you go fuck off"

Umm, this is bullshit??? Pretty sure you're like one of their top earners. Especially if you've made that much. That's a whole year of income for some people. You should definitely be on the first page AT LEAST.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 04:24 PM
Umm, this is bullshit??? Pretty sure you're like one of their top earners. Especially if you've made that much. That's a whole year of income for some people. You should definitely be on the first page AT LEAST.

Its kinda like a slap in the face really.

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2017, 04:36 PM
They don't report any of the income unless you've earned 20,000 right?

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 04:38 PM
They don't report any of the income unless you've earned 20,000 right?

Correct

Bridgetxo
06-15-2017, 04:45 PM
I've posted one before, but this is one from a creepy guy I reported forever ago (when we had to email to report) and he still has a profile with all his contact info in the tagline. :D


482814828248283


I blocked and reported every singly guy who has ever tried to give me off site contact info or meet me today. I'm sure nothing will happen, but we'll see.

These are the exact type of guys I get all the time! It gets really tiring having to tell them no over and over. I tell them I don't have those apps and they are like well download them, they are free! No I don't wanna talk for free lol.

naomi_doll
06-15-2017, 04:50 PM
I used to tell them I don't have them because I can't figure out how they work or I had a stalker (true, so I actually don't even have personal social media) but I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to say that anymore. Most of the time if they are determined, I don't think anything I say will help. Men act very entitled, but that's not a discussion for here. :)

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2017, 04:52 PM
Legally, they have to report every dime to Uncle Sam. They only meet the conditions of being able to send out a neat, tidy 1099K if you make over 20,000 in a year.

I'm confused lol So are they reporting every dime that each girl on there makes even if it's under 20k?

naomi_doll
06-15-2017, 04:53 PM
Legally, they have to report every dime to Uncle Sam. They only meet the conditions of being able to send out a neat, tidy 1099K if you make over 20,000 in a year.

But yet they are worried about looking like scammers because of our actions.... hmm....

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2017, 05:03 PM
I used to tell them I don't have them because I can't figure out how they work or I had a stalker (true, so I actually don't even have personal social media) but I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to say that anymore. Most of the time if they are determined, I don't think anything I say will help. Men act very entitled, but that's not a discussion for here. :)

^ I sooo agree! Most of my money I made off here were gifts & video chat with some calls. All in all I've lost just about every songle big spender due to a myriad of reasons from them but I am starting ti believe it's bc they know what's up & since they act so entitled they get pissed off & dissapear once I make it clear that it's online only for me anyway.

Ha! I lost a great regular about 2 months ago bc he asked me during a call if I'd be his gf & I said well ya but I'd like to get to know you more first. Guy reeked psycho behavior ugh. Bottom line here is just get what you can from this site & have other eggs going bc this site is prob go start going downhill fast due to the fact that guys are gonna be talking shit about how it's a scam. Apps like Tinder & other sites have trained these asshats to think they don't have to pay for anything & they move on once they realize we're not putting up with their shitty childish cheapskate behavior.

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2017, 05:04 PM
I will say that I'm not an expert and only came to that conclusion after googling some things. I could be totally wrong. I should email support about it actually. I guess they would know haha.

please do bc I'm confused LOL I haven't saved a dime for taxes yet.

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 05:05 PM
All negativity aside to hopefully bring in good vibes for everyone, I made way over my goal on here today. Looks like I will be able to spoil my guy for father's day and I'm really happy about that.

LadyLuck143
06-15-2017, 05:15 PM
All negativity aside to hopefully bring in good vibes for everyone, I made way over my goal on here today. Looks like I will be able to spoil my guy for father's day and I'm really happy about that.

I've made over my goal today as well. Its been slow the last few days but today has been pretty good.

ChubbyCherub
06-15-2017, 05:18 PM
I will say that I'm not an expert and only came to that conclusion after googling some things. I could be totally wrong. I should email support about it actually. I guess they would know haha.

I'm pretty sure, that if you make $600 in a single calendar year, you are required to pay taxes on that money.

Bridgetxo
06-15-2017, 05:53 PM
Please save for taxes! Every time I get paid, I take 30% out and send it straight to my savings account. This is coming from someone who owed back-taxes. It was really not fun paying them back. You can get a payment plan from the IRS if you can't pay at tax time, but it really sucks having to make that payment every month and then have to save for the current year's taxes on top of that.

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2017, 06:19 PM
My only question was do they report it at all regardless if you hit the 20k mark?

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 07:23 PM
Question. Where do you guys advertise other than craigslist and meetme? Sites that work really well for you. I've seemed to have more success getting customers from meetme.

Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 07:44 PM
Question. Where do you guys advertise other than craigslist and meetme? Sites that work really well for you. I've seemed to have more success getting customers from meetme.

meetme never worked for me they always shut me down :(

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 08:14 PM
meetme never worked for me they always shut me down :(

Ugh, that sucks. It's been working for me so far. One guy from there spent like 50 dollars on me. Do you have any suggestions for other sites?

ChubbyCherub
06-15-2017, 08:18 PM
Question. Where do you guys advertise other than craigslist and meetme? Sites that work really well for you. I've seemed to have more success getting customers from meetme.

I have a twitter and a Facebook for my camming persona, and I advertise on those