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Jupiter77
06-15-2017, 08:36 PM
So despite being on page 12 for the past 2 days.
I still made over 350 so far today!
YOU CANT BREAK ME PHRENDLY!

EricaErotica
06-15-2017, 08:41 PM
I just joined Phrendly. My profile was approved on Sunday. I have not received any chat messages from members. I thought this was strange. So my friend just looked through all the profiles for African American/Black girls (17 pages) and could not find my profile. What is going on? When I look at my Dashboard it says my profile is public yet when you go on the site my profile can not be found. Please help. Thanks!

ChubbyCherub
06-15-2017, 09:15 PM
I just joined Phrendly. My profile was approved on Sunday. I have not received any chat messages from members. I thought this was strange. So my friend just looked through all the profiles for African American/Black girls (17 pages) and could not find my profile. What is going on? When I look at my Dashboard it says my profile is public yet when you go on the site my profile can not be found. Please help. Thanks!

Yep. This exact thing happens to me from time to time as well. And then I'll be back the next day. It's bizarre...

JamaicanAliesha
06-15-2017, 09:20 PM
the site has been dead for me the past 2 weeks. ugh.

LadyGodga
06-15-2017, 09:32 PM
the site has been dead for me the past 2 weeks. ugh.

Have you made sure you're on placement? Also, marketing the shit out of yourself works for me. I made way over my goal today and I'm not anyone special on there lol. I did spend all day online. I had like 5-7 people messaging me and only one who stayed very consistent. But I made bank. It only takes one.

Violethollywood
06-16-2017, 06:34 AM
im trying to make 5k this weekend. i doubt it will happen but i need it too .

JamaicanAliesha
06-16-2017, 07:51 AM
me too. i'm going to make sure i market heavy! i'm trying to make 1k this weekend!!

for those who had success on meetme where u vague abut ur advertising? how did u not get shut down on there?

blondhottie
06-16-2017, 09:08 AM
I tried making a MeetMe account and advertising on there, but they shut my account down almost immediately. I met a couple guys off of Craigslist, but didn't have a ton of luck on there either. Most guys thought I was a bot. I'm looking for more places to advertise as well. I'm making around $10-20 a day on Phrendly, but I'd like to make more. I'm online all the time, but guys are starring me but not messaging me. :(

katydiamond123
06-16-2017, 09:08 AM
I reported her for having two accounts a few months ago and shes still on there. The other account got deleted.

I think I saw that she had 2 accounts also when I first signed up I looked through the whole site. She works as a stripper (it says in her posts at the other site) so wears wigs and can change her appearance. She posts on another site (not sure if I'm allowed to say it here since I'm new to this site I won't) and has nothing but roses to say about Phrendly. If they promoted the rest of us I'm sure we'd be happy to make $400+ day also. I see a lot of hypocrisy and favoritism.When the site was new they allowed anything just to get their business going. I think it's owned by Niteflirt. Maybe 26 people from Niteflirt are working on Phrendly. I had my pages go there all the time when I first signed up so I went to look at Niteflirt and saw the daily pay $10, days and amounts are exactly the same. It would explain why they say they are "industry vets" and can afford the site and advertising and why they have an engineering department. Because what new site of 26 staff can afford that?

ep2002
06-16-2017, 09:34 AM
Have you made sure you're on placement? Also, marketing the shit out of yourself works for me. I made way over my goal today and I'm not anyone special on there lol. I did spend all day online. I had like 5-7 people messaging me and only one who stayed very consistent. But I made bank. It only takes one.

How do you market yourself?

Thanks

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 09:36 AM
me too. i'm going to make sure i market heavy! i'm trying to make 1k this weekend!!

for those who had success on meetme where u vague abut ur advertising? how did u not get shut down on there?

I think it was being vague mixed with luck. I ended up closing my account on there, though. It was kinda annoying how when i would get a customer from there, they'd spend like 50 bucks on me and then go back to meetme and start messaging me there. They'd like spam me to reply. I also had one guy ask if I could come have sex with him instead for 200 DOLLARS. Are you fucking kidding me? I would never have sex with a customer and secondly, i'm worth WAY more than that buddy. They are all mostly cheap. Wouldn't recommend it. There are other ways to advertise.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 09:39 AM
I tried making a MeetMe account and advertising on there, but they shut my account down almost immediately. I met a couple guys off of Craigslist, but didn't have a ton of luck on there either. Most guys thought I was a bot. I'm looking for more places to advertise as well. I'm making around $10-20 a day on Phrendly, but I'd like to make more. I'm online all the time, but guys are starring me but not messaging me. :(

I HATE when guys do that on there. Like they want you to message them first. Sorry but no. I'm not messaging you first so you can make money off me AND get to jerk it. You don't get to have your cake and eat it too.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 09:43 AM
How do you market yourself?

Thanks

You advertise on other sites like craigslist, POF, sugar daddy websites, anything you can get your hands on without getting kicked off of it lol. I think twitter is probably a good one too. Lemme know how that works for you!

ChubbyCherub
06-16-2017, 10:04 AM
I think I saw that she had 2 accounts also when I first signed up I looked through the whole site. She works as a stripper (it says in her posts at the other site) so wears wigs and can change her appearance. She posts on another site (not sure if I'm allowed to say it here since I'm new to this site I won't) and has nothing but roses to say about Phrendly. If they promoted the rest of us I'm sure we'd be happy to make $400+ day also. I see a lot of hypocrisy and favoritism.When the site was new they allowed anything just to get their business going. I think it's owned by Niteflirt. Maybe 26 people from Niteflirt are working on Phrendly. I had my pages go there all the time when I first signed up so I went to look at Niteflirt and saw the daily pay $10, days and amounts are exactly the same. It would explain why they say they are "industry vets" and can afford the site and advertising and why they have an engineering department. Because what new site of 26 staff can afford that?

I feel like I missed something. Lol

ep2002
06-16-2017, 10:13 AM
So I signed up a few months ago, but never finished my profile. Then 2 days ago I finished it off & all of a sudden my images were rejected. I e-mailed & asked why, as there's nothing wrong with them & I even discussed it with someone there months ago b/c of their stupid complex way of getting photos uploaded. There is no way, you have to use that weird piece of software they insist on.

And to upload more, I am NOT using my FB account nor do I have an IG acct.

I go to log in today & they removed my account.

I tried to get the p/w & the site is so terribly coded it just pops up with a white window that says close or resend e-mail which of course makes NO logical sense, but I clicked the 2 words anyway & of course nothing happened.

WTH???

Why are all of these sites run with such assholes? Almost every single one of them treats me like they are gawd almighty & should bow down to them when they are complete idiots. If you say one thing the person doesn't like they ban you before even getting started.

I'm in a mood today with all the assholes & morons & that includes all of the sites in the industry who treat girls like garbage. That's why I say that ALL of these companies are run by pimps b/c only pimps treat girls like this. If they were real biz people they would treat us with respect, at least until/unless we did something really wrong.

End of rant. <sigh>

P.S. Actually I take that back, there is one site (but it's not a cam site) that has been very nice to me for the most part. No sense of ego from the staff there.

Jupiter77
06-16-2017, 10:24 AM
So I signed up a few months ago, but never finished my profile. Then 2 days ago I finished it off & all of a sudden my images were rejected. I e-mailed & asked why, as there's nothing wrong with them & I even discussed it with someone there months ago b/c of their stupid complex way of getting photos uploaded. There is no way, you have to use that weird piece of software they insist on.

And to upload more, I am NOT using my FB account nor do I have an IG acct.

I go to log in today & they removed my account.

I tried to get the p/w & the site is so terribly coded it just pops up with a white window that says close or resend e-mail which of course makes NO logical sense, but I clicked the 2 words anyway & of course nothing happened.

WTH???

Why are all of these sites run with such assholes? Almost every single one of them treats me like they are gawd almighty & should bow down to them when they are complete idiots. If you say one thing the person doesn't like they ban you before even getting started.

I'm in a mood today with all the assholes & morons & that includes all of the sites in the industry who treat girls like garbage. That's why I say that ALL of these companies are run by pimps b/c only pimps treat girls like this. If they were real biz people they would treat us with respect, at least until/unless we did something really wrong.

End of rant. <sigh>

P.S. Actually I take that back, there is one site (but it's not a cam site) that has been very nice to me for the most part. No sense of ego from the staff there.

...may we know this site?

ep2002
06-16-2017, 10:53 AM
...may we know this site?

https://www.talktome.com

They have sight issues, trust me, but that's on the camming side, & if you have Sky Private hooked up, then you can't use their SK feature, but I've only had one guy want me for camming (I lost him & an hour of my time due to their site issues), so I'd prefer SK private - https://accounts.skyprivate.com/users/register/?aff=18mk

I don't make money there at all, but at least I make more than on TTM :)

HTH

Lintilla
06-16-2017, 11:48 AM
HA.
Got an email from Phrendly

Pretty much i'm in trouble for giving out phone numbers (Even tho they are fake ones and I block them)
Offering to meet up in person- Well maybe if you didnt have phrendly looking like a dating site then guys wouldnt think its one and WANT to meet us. (Like i'd EVER meet one of these scum bags)
and sharing links..the links ARE MY MOTHER FUCKING VIDEOS THAT I SELL.

So All in all.
Im PISSED.


I'd really like to see some better explanation for all of this, and about how placement works in general, and about what sort of monitoring they're doing of our messages. How do they know you're offering to meet in person, etc? And how much of placement is potentially manual? I was thinking I got bumped from page 1 to page 17 or wherever the hell I am now because I took some time off, missed some messages and such (even though that bump still seems EXTREME). Now I'm thinking... is it because I'm sending links? Most of which are probably to amusing GIFs or pictures of my own that just happen to be on Imgur instead of sending through the site? Something else I did that I'm not supposed to? There's obviously a big difference in how much traffic you'll get being bumped that far back, and with no idea how the hell to work myself back up... I'm very discouraged here.

ChubbyCherub
06-16-2017, 11:53 AM
I'd really like to see some better explanation for all of this, and about how placement works in general, and about what sort of monitoring they're doing of our messages. How do they know you're offering to meet in person, etc? And how much of placement is potentially manual? I was thinking I got bumped from page 1 to page 17 or wherever the hell I am now because I took some time off, missed some messages and such (even though that bump still seems EXTREME). Now I'm thinking... is it because I'm sending links? Most of which are probably to amusing GIFs or pictures of my own that just happen to be on Imgur instead of sending through the site? Something else I did that I'm not supposed to? There's obviously a big difference in how much traffic you'll get being bumped that far back, and with no idea how the hell to work myself back up... I'm very discouraged here.

Same. When I was on page 4, I made a lot more than I do now. I know they're luriking in here. I wish they would talk to us. I'll probably be punished for writing this too.

Jupiter77
06-16-2017, 12:00 PM
https://www.talktome.com

They have sight issues, trust me, but that's on the camming side, & if you have Sky Private hooked up, then you can't use their SK feature, but I've only had one guy want me for camming (I lost him & an hour of my time due to their site issues), so I'd prefer SK private - https://accounts.skyprivate.com/users/register/?aff=18mk

I don't make money there at all, but at least I make more than on TTM :)

HTH

Im on there, Its a nice side egg :)

Jupiter77
06-16-2017, 12:02 PM
Whats bothering me the most. Is that I have dedicated all of my time to phrendly.
and when I mean all my time, I mean its the first thing I do after I take my dogs out in the morning is open my laptop and start working, and I dont stop till I shut my eyes. If im cooking, the laptop is with me, if im cleaning the laptop is with me, if im not home? Its on my browser.
I have worked so hard on this site, and to be treated like this just goes to show that Phrendly doesnt care about their girls, and that they have no problem showing that either.

ep2002
06-16-2017, 12:08 PM
Whats bothering me the most. Is that I have dedicated all of my time to phrendly.
and when I mean all my time, I mean its the first thing I do after I take my dogs out in the morning is open my laptop and start working, and I dont stop till I shut my eyes. If im cooking, the laptop is with me, if im cleaning the laptop is with me, if im not home? Its on my browser.
I have worked so hard on this site, and to be treated like this just goes to show that Phrendly doesnt care about their girls, and that they have no problem showing that either.

What did they do to you???? :(

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 12:34 PM
Whats bothering me the most. Is that I have dedicated all of my time to phrendly.
and when I mean all my time, I mean its the first thing I do after I take my dogs out in the morning is open my laptop and start working, and I dont stop till I shut my eyes. If im cooking, the laptop is with me, if im cleaning the laptop is with me, if im not home? Its on my browser.
I have worked so hard on this site, and to be treated like this just goes to show that Phrendly doesnt care about their girls, and that they have no problem showing that either.

I have just started doing this as well. I'm literally on from 8 am to when I go to bed at 12 am. I do it while I'm cleaning, while I eat, while i'm gone i keep it on my phone and check repeatedly, while I'm taking care of my toddler all day, I never sign off. I even keep my phone by my ear while i'm sleeping in case i get someone at 3 am. And my earnings increased exponentially, but my placement hasn't gone anywhere. And I know if my placement was higher, I'd get even more income. Why aren't they giving us a REAL answer about the placement here? Like mentioned already, we know they are lurking here. My suggestion to the site is start valuing the girls that invest all their time into this site or else they'll start losing their business as incomes begin to fail. I'm in the same exact placement as I was a week ago when I had not signed on for weeks even though I have now earned hundreds. It makes no sense.

jamma
06-16-2017, 01:42 PM
The algorithm that determines where you show up is constantly being tweaked to ensure its effectiveness for both public phrends and those who reach out to them.

Things that will affect you positively:
- Quick responses to messages; the quicker the better
- Not taking more than 24 hours to respond
- Length of interactions with your phrends
- A good GIF. Objective measurements like how many chats are initiated vs your profile views and left vs right swipes are considered in determining “good”
- Accepting call and videos and the rate with which you connect when an attempt is made

Things that will affect you negatively:
- Slow and/or non-responses to messages
- Short interactions with phrends
- A lower-than-average call or video success rate
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that block you
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that chargeback after interacting with you

In addition, there is a small and temporary boost to new profiles, as analysis has shown some “new blood” mixed with familiar favorites is important to keep repeat customers. New people fade quickly if they aren’t successful in the above categories.

Hope this helps!

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 01:55 PM
The algorithm that determines where you show up is constantly being tweaked to ensure its effectiveness for both public phrends and those who reach out to them.

Things that affect you positively:
- Quick responses to messages; the quicker the better
- Not taking more than 24 hours to respond
- Length of interactions with your phrends
- A good GIF. Objective measurements like how many chats are initiated vs your profile views and left vs right swipes are considered in determining “good”
- Accepting call and videos and the rate with which you connect when an attempt is made

Things that affect you negatively:
- Slow and/or non-responses to messages
- Short interactions with phrends
- A lower-than-average call or video success rate
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that block you
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that chargeback after interacting with you

In addition, there is a small and temporary boost to new profiles, as analysis has shown some “new blood” mixed with familiar favorites is important to keep repeat customers. New people fade quickly if they aren’t successful in the above categories.

Hope this helps!

Us girls can't help short interactions with phrends. I check back in with one response guys all the time to no avail. It's really not our faults they are being cheap and giving us their phone numbers expecting we sext them for free and then they leave. Or when their 5 dollars from joining runs out. And I don't use the calls or video, but I know it's also not a girl's fault again if the customer is cheap and only calls for a few minutes when they are already close to climaxing. Guys do chargebacks to be cheap all the fucking time in this industry. Again, not our fault. I don't understand why the girls are being penalized for that and their placement suffers. That's a heavily unfair algorithm for us because it's things that are out of our control. You said in your first post phrendly attracts wealthy men. Where are they???? I have only had one man spend well on me of a good amount of people. The rest of them give me their number or only interact with me until their 5 bucks is up AND THEN give me their number. You guys need to help us as much as we help you. Maybe get better traffic. Help us find ways to market ourselves without having to go to other sites where we eventually get removed for advertising. We HAVE to advertise because it's honestly where all my good traffic has come from thus far.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 01:58 PM
The algorithm that determines where you show up is constantly being tweaked to ensure its effectiveness for both public phrends and those who reach out to them.

Things that affect you positively:
- Quick responses to messages; the quicker the better
- Not taking more than 24 hours to respond
- Length of interactions with your phrends
- A good GIF. Objective measurements like how many chats are initiated vs your profile views and left vs right swipes are considered in determining “good”
- Accepting call and videos and the rate with which you connect when an attempt is made

Things that affect you negatively:
- Slow and/or non-responses to messages
- Short interactions with phrends
- A lower-than-average call or video success rate
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that block you
- A higher-than-average percentage of people that chargeback after interacting with you

In addition, there is a small and temporary boost to new profiles, as analysis has shown some “new blood” mixed with familiar favorites is important to keep repeat customers. New people fade quickly if they aren’t successful in the above categories.

Hope this helps!

I totally think you guys should set up a twitter where both customers and girls can interact with you. Promote girls on there. Cause your twitter only has like 58 followers since I checked yesterday.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 01:59 PM
This is all way more in-depth than I thought, thanks for sharing! No wonder I struggle some times since I can't do calls/videos haha.

I can't do calls or video either cause I have a baby. Plus I'm always in my pjs, most likely unshaved, and stuffing my piehole with taquitos.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 02:10 PM
I kinda wanna start a phrendly blog that details how to succeed on the site and really bring in good income from it. Girls can give their advice on what works for them and resources. Just a plethora of info on the site strictly appealing to girls and helping them to make more. Girls can ask questions about it and what not to appeal to helping them earn more. Would anyone be interested in a concept like that? I would love to see all the girls on here do the best they can and I really want to keep improving because of the earning potential on here. I feel like i'm always looking for more resources and shit. Especially for advertising.

Spemily
06-16-2017, 02:20 PM
Yup, I totally deserve to be penalized for the 100 conversations I've had that go like this:

"Hi, how are you?"
"I'm great. You?"
"Pretty good. So where do you live?"
"I live in Canada."
"Oh. Do you have Snapchat/Kik/Facebook/a telephone number?"
"I'm sorry, no."
<crickets>

The guys don't know what the site is, they don't understand the premise and you are punishing us for sending us guys who are only interested in breaking the rules. I'm not sure how much charm and feminine wiles you expect me to be able to put on display in 3-5 messages to get them to sign up to a site which will not give them what the want: a date or a hookup.

Spemily
06-16-2017, 02:32 PM
I haven't given up yet. Maybe I should start just trying crazy things. Respond to my next 10 first messages with just a picture of my bare tits. When they ask me how I'm doing, say "Terrible! I'm so horny and have no one to play with!". Send them only Sphinx-like cryptic riddles in the hopes that sheer curiosity makes them add money to their account. Talk using only quotes from Adam Sandler movies. Just copy the sentence "Call me, I'm about to cum!" over and over again.

Because, clearly, what I have been doing isn't working.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 02:33 PM
Yup, I totally deserve to be penalized for the 100 conversations I've had that go like this:

"Hi, how are you?"
"I'm great. You?"
"Pretty good. So where do you live?"
"I live in Canada."
"Oh. Do you have Snapchat/Kik/Facebook/a telephone number?"
"I'm sorry, no."
<crickets>

The guys don't know what the site is, they don't understand the premise and you are punishing us for sending us guys who are only interested in breaking the rules. I'm not sure how much charm and feminine wiles you expect me to be able to put on display in 3-5 messages to get them to sign up to a site which will not give them what the want: a date or a hookup.

I strongly believe we shouldn't be penalized. Cam sites I've worked on don't have penalties other than inactivity and not earning money or just poor connection. The penalizing system is unjust. I think they should go by ACTIVITY, earnings and response speed. Everything else is too extra. Reward the girls that invest their whole life into this site. They are the ones with MOST earning potential. Could you imagine how much those girls would be making if Phrendly boosted them? Activity is a big fucking deal.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 02:36 PM
I don't think it hurts us THAT much. It's weighted, perhaps, because I have so many convos just like that, and my rank currently is very good. I know that I've had guys block me recently (Get this - one guy got butt hurt because I didn't respond to his selfie quickly enough. I was one minute too late, literally.) I would not be surprised to hear about chargebacks, and, as noted previously, I absolutely cannot do calls/video chatting at this time, so that counts against me. Just keep swimming, as they say.

Yeah but it might really hurt girls who are really struggling on the site. A lot of us started in like February when it was brand new so I do believe we had an advantage. It's going to be a little bit harder for those that may be newer to the site to bring themselves up. However, jamma did mention new girls get a little boost... maybe starting an account over would be beneficial to some. I'm not sure if it's allowed though.

JamaicanAliesha
06-16-2017, 02:48 PM
Us girls can't help short interactions with phrends. I check back in with one response guys all the time to no avail. It's really not our faults they are being cheap and giving us their phone numbers expecting we sext them for free and then they leave. Or when their 5 dollars from joining runs out. And I don't use the calls or video, but I know it's also not a girl's fault again if the customer is cheap and only calls for a few minutes when they are already close to climaxing. Guys do chargebacks to be cheap all the fucking time in this industry. Again, not our fault. I don't understand why the girls are being penalized for that and their placement suffers. That's a heavily unfair algorithm for us because it's things that are out of our control. You said in your first post phrendly attracts wealthy men. Where are they???? I have only had one man spend well on me of a good amount of people. The rest of them give me their number or only interact with me until their 5 bucks is up AND THEN give me their number. You guys need to help us as much as we help you. Maybe get better traffic. Help us find ways to market ourselves without having to go to other sites where we eventually get removed for advertising. We HAVE to advertise because it's honestly where all my good traffic has come from thus far.

exactly.

if i dont advertise i dont make money because the custies are cheap af.

i HAVE TO lead these guys on to make money because phrendly advertises on frackin FB...vanilla af.

also its not our fault if guys are cheap or dont follow rules.

some girls cant take calls or videos but they are penalized for it? why????

i dont mind bringing my own custies to the site, but just like SM, advertising needs to be better if u want us to try and adhere to rules. also, consider that some of ur rules might not work...even on cam i pretend with some custies that we will "meet" but they know its not possible...they just want me to play along so they can cum harder.

Jupiter77
06-16-2017, 02:53 PM
This is my last post on this forum.

Phrendly has let me down in a big way, which is sad to say because I have talked nothing but good things about them since I started in January. I was JUST starting to get my ducks in a row, develop a savings, live comfortable, but now being pushed back into the further distance im giving up hope. Jamma doesnt respond to my pm's, and support gives me generic bitchy responses. Things are flawed and I feel like they dont care about the girls on this site.

I made $400 on page 12 yesterday, why should phrendly deserve a cut of that when they pretty much shoved a dry dildo in my ass?
Anywhos, Ill work till I no longer make money. Then RIP Phrendly and I hope nobody else gets fucked over like I did.

Spemily
06-16-2017, 03:27 PM
I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to upset you.
I do have to say, on a lighter note... some of those ideas sound fun. The cryptic riddle thing could probably work. Sometimes being off the wall like that connects really well with some of these guys.


I'm sorry if I came off like I was upset. Just kind of frustrated. I feel like I'm pretty good at what I do, but I don't have the chance to do much in only 3-5 messages and since I'm on page 13-18 I don't get very many new messages and there doesn't seem to be much of a way to change that. So far, I haven't been able to convert even one guy into more than a $12 conversation and I've only ever received on gift. Clearly, my hustle isn't doing it for this site and Phrendly doesn't seem inclined to help me succeed. I'm on the site all day every day, responding as instantaneously as I can. Short of changing my gif over and over, I'm not sure what I can really do besides start trying crazy conversational openers.

ChubbyCherub
06-16-2017, 03:31 PM
Yup, I totally deserve to be penalized for the 100 conversations I've had that go like this:

"Hi, how are you?"
"I'm great. You?"
"Pretty good. So where do you live?"
"I live in Canada."
"Oh. Do you have Snapchat/Kik/Facebook/a telephone number?"
"I'm sorry, no."
<crickets>

The guys don't know what the site is, they don't understand the premise and you are punishing us for sending us guys who are only interested in breaking the rules. I'm not sure how much charm and feminine wiles you expect me to be able to put on display in 3-5 messages to get them to sign up to a site which will not give them what the want: a date or a hookup.

So much this!!!!

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 03:41 PM
I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to upset you.
I do have to say, on a lighter note... some of those ideas sound fun. The cryptic riddle thing could probably work. Sometimes being off the wall like that connects really well with some of these guys.



I won't say who but... let's just say there is someone who did have two accounts and it's a big no no.

Oh god no, not two accounts. I mean like starting over completely and deleting your old one. Which I'm still not sure if even that is allowed.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 04:02 PM
I'm sorry if I came off like I was upset. Just kind of frustrated. I feel like I'm pretty good at what I do, but I don't have the chance to do much in only 3-5 messages and since I'm on page 13-18 I don't get very many new messages and there doesn't seem to be much of a way to change that. So far, I haven't been able to convert even one guy into more than a $12 conversation and I've only ever received on gift. Clearly, my hustle isn't doing it for this site and Phrendly doesn't seem inclined to help me succeed. I'm on the site all day every day, responding as instantaneously as I can. Short of changing my gif over and over, I'm not sure what I can really do besides start trying crazy conversational openers.

My greatest advice is string them along. If they ask for your snap, tell them you have so much more to offer on here that will totally benefit them. Someone said play a game with them like telling them that you added them and being like "are you sure you didn't get it? I just sent it again". It may seem wrong, but it's more wrong they are violating policy and trying to get freebies with you while you're doing your JOB.

I mean do these guys really think we willingly sit on our laptops all day just to talk to a peter griffin look a like for free???

ChubbyCherub
06-16-2017, 04:43 PM
I haven't given up yet. Maybe I should start just trying crazy things. Respond to my next 10 first messages with just a picture of my bare tits. When they ask me how I'm doing, say "Terrible! I'm so horny and have no one to play with!". Send them only Sphinx-like cryptic riddles in the hopes that sheer curiosity makes them add money to their account. Talk using only quotes from Adam Sandler movies. Just copy the sentence "Call me, I'm about to cum!" over and over again.

Because, clearly, what I have been doing isn't working.

Dead!!!! ROFL!!! Spemily, I think we might be soul mates.

Jupiter77
06-16-2017, 05:10 PM
Dead!!!! ROFL!!! Spemily, I think we might be soul mates.

I second that hahaha

TheBrownFox
06-16-2017, 05:57 PM
This is my last post on this forum.

Phrendly has let me down in a big way, which is sad to say because I have talked nothing but good things about them since I started in January. I was JUST starting to get my ducks in a row, develop a savings, live comfortable, but now being pushed back into the further distance im giving up hope. Jamma doesnt respond to my pm's, and support gives me generic bitchy responses. Things are flawed and I feel like they dont care about the girls on this site.

I made $400 on page 12 yesterday, why should phrendly deserve a cut of that when they pretty much shoved a dry dildo in my ass?
Anywhos, Ill work till I no longer make money. Then RIP Phrendly and I hope nobody else gets fucked over like I did.

Yeah, jamma never responded to my PM on here either, which is disappointing. That's so awesome that you're making a few hundred dollars in one day on this site! I hope you don't stop posting on this forum though. :( *Hug*

avaa
06-16-2017, 05:58 PM
HA.
Got an email from Phrendly

Pretty much i'm in trouble for giving out phone numbers (Even tho they are fake ones and I block them)
Offering to meet up in person- Well maybe if you didnt have phrendly looking like a dating site then guys wouldnt think its one and WANT to meet us. (Like i'd EVER meet one of these scum bags)
and sharing links..the links ARE MY MOTHER FUCKING VIDEOS THAT I SELL.

So All in all.
Im PISSED.

I got in trouble too for "scamming a guy." But it's hard when the guys only want to meet you in person or want to talk off the app. I go to a lot of trouble to keep them on the app, but they won't let up. They don't understand that this isn't a dating app and that's it's online only. It's so frustrating. I'm sorry girl:/

JamaicanAliesha
06-16-2017, 06:30 PM
cant believe it is possible to get in trouble for "scamming a guy," IS THE GUY GETTING PUNISHED FOR TRYING TO MEET THO?! For trying to purposefully LEAD us off the site????

....sorry for the caps but wtf. ugh.

i have no intentions of meeting these dudes!! i'm no newbie lol

ravenskyy
06-16-2017, 08:09 PM
So far, I've been able to keep talking to two guys who thought they were gonna meet me, who I had to tell look sorry I'm not comfortable blah blah, and they were fine with it. I have this feeling one of them still thinks one day I'll give in, but whatever. I can repeat myself until I am blue in the face. If I had .35 for every time I told a guy no... OH WAIT. ;)

A few guys have stopped talking to me, but let's face it, they would have anyway. I just hope and pray no one reports me for being a scammer when I am coming clean and trying to do the right thing. It's like this whole new game I have to figure out now, haha. A little fun in a way. I always did worry I was gonna lead the wrong guy on and invoke some righteous anger... ha.

Edit: Okay nevermind one of the guys pretty much told me to go die in a fire and that I won't find anyone who is going to treat me like the queen that I think I am. :)

Meanwhile in the House of I Don't Give a Shit, a queen pops open a non-digital bottle of champagne and laughs as she lounges on her fancy new tempurpedic mattress that Guys Like Him bought.

Girl!!! You might have just saved my night with this! Lmfao! That's such a me thing to say!

ravenskyy
06-16-2017, 08:31 PM
If anyone gets an older white guy with the username Hope, block him. This dude messaged me and wanted to video chat. We literally chatted for a minute and then it disconnected. I messaged him back and forth for 2 days and the conversation was 100% depressing. I was being very nice and supportive and tried to talk to the guy and he kept speaking in riddles and being completely negative. Every time I talked to him, he brought my entire mood down. He seems extremely depressed but he is in complete denial about it. Idk what his issue is. I was sympathizing and offering to lend an ear if he needed someone to talk too and he gave me attitude because I used a damn emoji in one of my messages. He said I was being rude and he blocked me. I have never been blocked on here and that pissed me off so I reported and blocked him. No matter what I did or said, he was 100% negative towards it.

Idk what's wrong with him, but if he messages you, he's a waste of time. His attitude is awful! I'd honestly rather deal with dick pic sending creeps than someone like this guy again.

ChubbyCherub
06-16-2017, 08:48 PM
If anyone gets an older white guy with the username Hope, block him. This dude messaged me and wanted to video chat. We literally chatted for a minute and then it disconnected. I messaged him back and forth for 2 days and the conversation was 100% depressing. I was being very nice and supportive and tried to talk to the guy and he kept speaking in riddles and being completely negative. Every time I talked to him, he brought my entire mood down. He seems extremely depressed but he is in complete denial about it. Idk what his issue is. I was sympathizing and offering to lend an ear if he needed someone to talk too and he gave me attitude because I used a damn emoji in one of my messages. He said I was being rude and he blocked me. I have never been blocked on here and that pissed me off so I reported and blocked him. No matter what I did or said, he was 100% negative towards it.

Idk what's wrong with him, be if he messages you, he's a waste of time. His attitude is awful! I'd honestly rather deal with dick pic sending creeps than someone like this guy again.

I got him once, too. There's something not right about that one. He gave me the heebies.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 10:36 PM
I got him once, too. There's something not right about that one. He gave me the heebies.

Damn, I heard from him too. Glad I saw this. Ain't nobody got time for that.

kortneykay
06-16-2017, 10:49 PM
So Phrendly randomly pulls my profile and asks me to change my gif. The gif they approved 2 months ago, that was in pending for a month. So I'm guessing cleavage is 'inappropriate' and suggestive? But they have a ton of shirtless guys on their site. Hmmm.

LadyGodga
06-16-2017, 11:26 PM
So Phrendly randomly pulls my profile and asks me to change my gif. The gif they approved 2 months ago, that was in pending for a month. So I'm guessing cleavage is 'inappropriate' and suggestive? But they have a ton of shirtless guys on their site. Hmmm.

Yup, they're "cracking down". I tried changing my gif. I had cleavage showing but mostly it was my face and me smiling and they denied it. It's turning into some real PG shit on phrendly but i guess it's totally fine for guys to be shirtless in their gif.

Bridgetxo
06-16-2017, 11:28 PM
So Phrendly randomly pulls my profile and asks me to change my gif. The gif they approved 2 months ago, that was in pending for a month. So I'm guessing cleavage is 'inappropriate' and suggestive? But they have a ton of shirtless guys on their site. Hmmm.

I had the same GIF for the past 6 months and they unapproved it on Thursday. No cleavage allowed anymore I guess?