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nelli
06-19-2017, 06:27 PM
I'm confused, so if i message a guy first i get charged?

Jupiter77
06-19-2017, 06:44 PM
I'm at $37 today. Things are only going down.

I advise everybody who is KILLING it on Phrendly to please have a back-up plan. I didnt and now I am trying to find a job working 9-5 again. Which is something I thought I would never have to do again. I figured if I stayed working hard I would always making money but I am a prime example that even if you work hard, one day. It may be tomorrow, it may be next week, it may be 6 months from now you will be in my boat. Scared shitless because I just took a 10,000 car loan out 3 weeks ago, and now im going to struggle to make my bills because now that my regs are done with me, and my marketing is not working, I probably will never see another $100 day again.

Which is sad, because I worked so fucking hard for it. I worked so fucking hard on Phrendly and like I said I feel like they slapped me in the face and said "sorry not sorry but thanks for coming out"

Lintilla
06-19-2017, 09:09 PM
Update: now back on page 14? Something is just wacky with this algorithm, I'm not amused :\

seashell
06-19-2017, 09:28 PM
I was on page 15 this morning and now I'm on page 6. I texted a TON and thankfully got some gifts for pics.

I also deeefinitely hit my hard limits of leading guys on. Ugh. Yikes. This really hot guy called me, said he thought I was super sweet, lives in the same state I lied about (I wouldn't tell him what fake city I live in for "safety" lmao) and he kept talking about how all the other girls on the site are scammers except for me. But he's goddamn hot and seems like my type (nice, rich, liberal nerd). Gahhhh whyyyyy. He was also like "wow you're good at phone sex" lol yeah, ya think?

seashell
06-19-2017, 10:03 PM
Sidenote, how do you ladies keep this stuff from getting too "real" for the guys? Should I 'fess up to being a camgirl? Anyone else in awkward dating site territory?

LadyGodga
06-19-2017, 10:21 PM
Sidenote, how do you ladies keep this stuff from getting too "real" for the guys? Should I 'fess up to being a camgirl? Anyone else in awkward dating site territory?

One of my regs said he loved me and damn was that awkward as hell. Especially since he spends the most on me. I wouldn't confess to being a camgirl, I'd just say i'm strictly looking for no strings attached online dating. Nothing serious. But promise to make it worth their while and insist life is too short to not have a little reckless fun.

Spemily
06-19-2017, 10:49 PM
I'm confused, so if i message a guy first i get charged?

The first time you and a guy ever message sets the message payment direction forever. So, if you've never spoken to the guy, don't message him first. You will be charged and will always have to pay to message him going forward. However, he messaged you a while ago and you're thinking of messaging to start up a new conversation with him, go ahead. The payment direction on messages will always be set to him paying and you getting paid.

Phone and cam calls are different, however. However initiates each call pays. So you should never call a guy, always let them call you.

Spemily
06-19-2017, 10:51 PM
I'm at $37 today. Things are only going down.

I advise everybody who is KILLING it on Phrendly to please have a back-up plan. I didnt and now I am trying to find a job working 9-5 again. Which is something I thought I would never have to do again. I figured if I stayed working hard I would always making money but I am a prime example that even if you work hard, one day. It may be tomorrow, it may be next week, it may be 6 months from now you will be in my boat. Scared shitless because I just took a 10,000 car loan out 3 weeks ago, and now im going to struggle to make my bills because now that my regs are done with me, and my marketing is not working, I probably will never see another $100 day again.

Which is sad, because I worked so fucking hard for it. I worked so fucking hard on Phrendly and like I said I feel like they slapped me in the face and said "sorry not sorry but thanks for coming out"

Do you do phone? If so, are you on Niteflirt? I think you could do well there, uploading all your videos and selling them as goodies. And since you obviously have hot writing skills, you could probably do well with paid email as well.

xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2017, 01:36 AM
This is hilar! One of my regs gf apparently has hacked into his account & is messaging me pretending he knows about it LMAO She's going back & forth with bitchiness & compliments, lol dam this is fun!

LivvyT
06-20-2017, 05:58 AM
Just an FYI... if your Instagram gets shut down you can't associate another Instagram with Phrendly. GRRRR

Appealing with Instagram to open back up but not holding my breath. Not opening a FB just to load pics on Phrendly either.

LivvyT
06-20-2017, 07:50 AM
Just message support and they'll unlink it.

Ooo thanks!!!

WendiStarr
06-20-2017, 07:53 AM
I wish these men would actually read the part about "online only". I have been receiving texts from so many guys on there who want to meet up. I don't mind texting, phone calls, or video chatting as often as I can all day long if they want to. I've talked with them about their fantasy of what we would do if we met up in person(make up some shit that they'd want to hear) but meeting in person for real..no. I feel like this website needs to add filters that blocks out the words kik, snapchat, whatsapp, facebook, and whatever else they can use because most of them do try to get our real screen names on different apps. I just tell them that I don't have any of those, which isn't exactly a lie because I don't have any of them except Facebook and I only add family and friends.

Glamourmilf
06-20-2017, 08:11 AM
^^I agree they should filter those words out.
I wouldn't worry about guys expecting to meet.
As I mentioned in my previous post, these guys couldn't date themselves out of a paper bag.
If you don't believe me, get on a few dating sites. They SAY they want to meet. But never go through with it.
I've had guys who live a mile away, run away like a scared rabbit and ghost me as soon as it gets too real.
This, my dear, is the age of the digital world.
Most people never even leave their houses anymore.
All communications are done online.
It sucks if you REALLY want real life connections, but, sadly it's never gonna happen.
*Sidenote: I seem to get not only the lonely hearts, but guys who are crybabies and negative, starting with their first message.
Like," I'm lonely, or, I would be better, but it's raining outside.". Huh? I'd kill for rain! It's 120 degrees out and fires are raging all around me! Or the constant trying to video chat when I specifically say I'm busy!
Geez!
So needy.

Girly_Girl
06-20-2017, 08:28 AM
anyone know how to contact support so I can give them my new drivers license info?

xxtinamariexx
06-20-2017, 08:40 AM
So Phrendly randomly pulls my profile and asks me to change my gif. The gif they approved 2 months ago, that was in pending for a month. So I'm guessing cleavage is 'inappropriate' and suggestive? But they have a ton of shirtless guys on their site. Hmmm.

one guy i am chatting to is completely nude with his hand covering his cock... but I guess that is okay.. and he JUST 2 days ago put the picture up because he hadn't had a picture at first and I asked him for one... I was like wtf ... why do guys think that is all girls want to see???

Spoon_Bender
06-20-2017, 09:30 AM
I am on Express Pay and have deposits from the 16th until now that have yet to hit my account. Anyone else have delayed payments? They used to hit like clockwork.

Jupiter77
06-20-2017, 09:41 AM
Do you do phone? If so, are you on Niteflirt? I think you could do well there, uploading all your videos and selling them as goodies. And since you obviously have hot writing skills, you could probably do well with paid email as well.

I get nothing but beggars on niteflirt but I'm gonna revamp my profiles today and maybe feature a listing for a while.

Magical_Hoohah
06-20-2017, 01:10 PM
Does Phrendly do chargebacks? It seems like the men couldn't hold a very strong case.


They probably weren't successful. It's too clear about the whole payment thing. Although if I was phrendly, I'd put it in the rules or about section that there are no chargebacks. These men input their card info. Why do you suppose they ask for your card? For science? Also, one of my regs manually puts credits into his account so they have to know they're spending money.
Just to clarify, sites can't avoid chargebacks or make rules against them. A cb is when the guy calls his credit card company and claims that he didn't make the charges or that his card was stolen. The site can present evidence that the guy is lying, but they can't just refuse to give the money back to the credit card company. When we say that a site "doesn't do chargebacks," it's just saying that the site will eat the cost when it happens and doesn't take the money back from the models.

I would think that Phrendly could make a pretty strong case against a cb simply because some of these guys are refilling their balance over the course of several months. If they wanted to claim that their card was stolen, they'd have to convince the credit card company that they didn't notice the charges for months at a time, and that any other charges they made were also fraudulent.

katydiamond123
06-20-2017, 01:46 PM
I'm down for meeting all kinds of people too. Just not in person. Did anyone say that they were "Totally looking to hook up IRL" "Kind of DTF" "A little lives in Cincinatti" "Mostly wants to see you in person." Cuz if not, then, meeting isn't a term that is exclusive to in person exchanges. I met 10 new guys this morning. Online only. ;)

also isn't getting calls/vid requests a good way to make money just saying. Wish I could haha.



That me be what you think, and it may mean different things, but what do you think all of these guys who want meet us in real life think? They want to PHYSICALLY meet us that's why they want to know where we live and one guy wanted to send me a ticket , another wanted to drive 15 hours to where I was so they definitely are not looking at the word "meeting" as talking online, that is clear. So, why complicate things by putting it onto your profile description because they just expect that from the rest of us too then! :-)) There are just too many ambiguous things on the site. Hopefully they will work out some definite rules for the women and the men!

Mal707
06-20-2017, 03:38 PM
Sidenote, how do you ladies keep this stuff from getting too "real" for the guys? Should I 'fess up to being a camgirl? Anyone else in awkward dating site territory?

I usually admit to being an "online sex worker" if they pay after the free credits. If I'm going to keep talking to them, I need to know they have it in their head that i'm never really going to fuck them in person. This is just for online fun and flirting.

TheBrownFox
06-20-2017, 04:13 PM
I am on Express Pay and have deposits from the 16th until now that have yet to hit my account. Anyone else have delayed payments? They used to hit like clockwork.

I still never got a PM response from jamma, (who I had messaged on June 13), even though they just posted a response to two other posters in this thread.

I was all excited about this Express Pay thing, but then I realized it's actually taking 5-7 days for that money to reach my account. Damn.

jamma
06-20-2017, 05:14 PM
I still never got a PM response from jamma, (who I had messaged on June 13), even though they just posted a response to two other posters in this thread.

I was all excited about this Express Pay thing, but then I realized it's actually taking 5-7 days for that money to reach my account. Damn.

Sorry, BrownFox, for not responding to your private message. Allow me to do so in public so that others might benefit. In terms of when you can expect pay, you might find this help article helpful:
https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/218323127-Money-money-money-Getting-paid

Express Pay is done every business day (as long as the minimum payout balance is met), but there is a lag due to our internal review and the US banking system. Once you get through that first ~10 business day lag, you'll see deposits arrive (mostly) daily (excluding holidays). I say "mostly" because we don't review payments on the weekends and most banks don't deposit on weekends (especially not Sundays), so sometimes these cause a day to be skipped, but it's usually followed by a day with multiple deposits.

Overall, it's kinda like those old "push-a-point" mechanical pencils where you push a nib in the back to push out a new one in the front. The day you earn is the nib you push in the back (money comes out of your account), and it takes several business days to finally emerge out the front (into your bank).

Hmm, maybe I should stay out of the metaphor business...

Jupiter77
06-20-2017, 05:16 PM
Sorry, BrownFox, for not responding to your private message. Allow me to do so in public so that others might benefit. In terms of when you can expect pay, you might find this help article helpful:
https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/218323127-Money-money-money-Getting-paid

Express Pay is done every business day (as long as the minimum payout balance is met), but there is a lag due to our internal review and the US banking system. Once you get through that first ~10 business day lag, you'll see deposits arrive (mostly) daily (excluding holidays). I say "mostly" because we don't review payments on the weekends and most banks don't deposit on weekends (especially not Sundays), so sometimes these cause a day to be skipped, but it's usually followed by a day with multiple deposits.

Overall, it's kinda like those old "push-a-point" mechanical pencils where you push a nib in the back to push out a new one in the front. The day you earn is the nib you push in the back (money comes out of your account), and it takes several business days to finally emerge out the front (into your bank).

Hmm, maybe I should stay out of the metaphor business...

For example the money I make today (6/20) will get paid to me on Tuesday as one of my triple deposits. :) I always write them down in order so I always know whats next

LivvyT
06-20-2017, 06:53 PM
For example the money I make today (6/20) will get paid to me on Tuesday as one of my triple deposits. :) I always write them down in order so I always know whats next

I look back through my transaction details every day, it helps me to know when to expect what amount next. Tuesdays are usually my multiple deposit days. I love Tuesdays, lol.

ChubbyCherub
06-20-2017, 07:58 PM
I am on Express Pay and have deposits from the 16th until now that have yet to hit my account. Anyone else have delayed payments? They used to hit like clockwork.

Mine take about 10 days, longer if there's a holiday.

Jupiter77
06-20-2017, 08:03 PM
I look back through my transaction details every day, it helps me to know when to expect what amount next. Tuesdays are usually my multiple deposit days. I love Tuesdays, lol.

Oh yeah. Tuesdays be ballinnn.

LadyGodga
06-20-2017, 10:51 PM
Damn, I love it when I reach my daily goal right before bed.

Spoon_Bender
06-21-2017, 05:13 AM
I had to block a regular since he started catching feelings le sigh These guys NEED to read the About section. Sucks because I was making bank off of him but we had only been speaking for 5 days. 5 days and you have feelings? Jeez. I almost get mad because what kind of person doesn't research slightly the website they sign up for and add a credit card to?

sexysusie
06-21-2017, 06:23 AM
Can uk join yet?

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2017, 07:43 AM
I didn't get any triple deposits on Tues ;( & I've made over the payout amount.

Burt Macklin, FBI
06-21-2017, 09:05 AM
I didn't get any triple deposits on Tues ;( & I've made over the payout amount.

Are Tuesdays typically your big day?

My bank seems to pay out a day sooner than everyone else's. I got last week's Mon-Wed earnings on Monday, and no payments have been skipped this week thus far. (I always warn Jupiter when a payment of mine doesn't go through on the day it typically does). I just checked now and I have a pending payment today from last Thursday. :)

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2017, 09:08 AM
Are Tuesdays typically your big day?

My bank seems to pay out a day sooner than everyone else's. I got last week's Mon-Wed earnings on Monday, and no payments have been skipped this week thus far. (I always warn Jupiter when a payment of mine doesn't go through on the day it typically does). I just checked now and I have a pending payment today from last Thursday. :)

They used to be when I was banking on here but since I'm not so much anymore, they seem to come one at a time. I looked today & I got one this morning but no triples. I'm being paid the money i'm owed just not all at once like before. *shrugs* dunno

Jupiter77
06-21-2017, 09:11 AM
Are Tuesdays typically your big day?

My bank seems to pay out a day sooner than everyone else's. I got last week's Mon-Wed earnings on Monday, and no payments have been skipped this week thus far. (I always warn Jupiter when a payment of mine doesn't go through on the day it typically does). I just checked now and I have a pending payment today from last Thursday. :)

I LOVE YOU FOR THAT. Its always nice being warned "Aye bitch youre not getting paid tomorrow so dont spend all your shit today" :)

Burt Macklin, FBI
06-21-2017, 09:17 AM
I LOVE YOU FOR THAT. Its always nice being warned "Aye bitch youre not getting paid tomorrow so dont spend all your shit today" :)

I have learned not to count my chickens before they hatch. I mean, I know I'll be getting my money, just I do not make plans for it at all until I see that pending deposit. lol.

Burt Macklin, FBI
06-21-2017, 09:24 AM
... did phrendly just go offline for anyone else?
It's a 503 error which usually just means overload or maintenance but dammit I was about to squeeze some gifts out of a guy.

naomi_doll
06-21-2017, 09:25 AM
Yeah, its offline for me too.

Jambalam
06-21-2017, 09:25 AM
It did for me, Burt!!!

katydiamond123
06-21-2017, 09:27 AM
Update: now back on page 14? Something is just wacky with this algorithm, I'm not amused :\

Well you are lucky you went back up. I was on the same page forever and since this is part time income for me it was fine. Now coincidentally? after talking in here I got moved down 6 more pages and this was after I made $200 in 18 hours even staying up all night.Now i'n not getting one new message which is very very unusual for me!

LivvyT
06-21-2017, 09:32 AM
... did phrendly just go offline for anyone else?
It's a 503 error which usually just means overload or maintenance but dammit I was about to squeeze some gifts out of a guy.

Same! Grrrr!

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2017, 09:33 AM
yep it's down for me too ugh great ;( Error message when I tried reloading.

katydiamond123
06-21-2017, 09:33 AM
Can uk join yet?

As far as I know it's only for USA, Canada and Mexico at this time. They don't have the phones international yet but I read that maybe next year............ Katy :-))

katydiamond123
06-21-2017, 09:36 AM
... did phrendly just go offline for anyone else?
It's a 503 error which usually just means overload or maintenance but dammit I was about to squeeze some gifts out of a guy.

Yes maybe that's why I'm not getting stars or messages because I see a red dot now but it's offline with an error when I click. Katy:-))

Girly_Girl
06-21-2017, 09:38 AM
how do you check your placement on the site?

katydiamond123
06-21-2017, 09:41 AM
how do you check your placement on the site?

Use a different web browser than you generally have your Phrendly account on, go to the website and choose MEN looking for WOMEN and set it to ages 18 -99 and search for your name or look through the pages until you see yourself. Katy :-)

jamma
06-21-2017, 09:50 AM
... did phrendly just go offline for anyone else?
It's a 503 error which usually just means overload or maintenance but dammit I was about to squeeze some gifts out of a guy.

Yeah, sorry about that. The morning deploy did not go so smoothly today, but all is good now.

Girly_Girl
06-21-2017, 09:54 AM
Is there a way to change our age?

Burt Macklin, FBI
06-21-2017, 09:56 AM
Is there a way to change our age?

You can email support with proof of your age and they'll change it for you.

jamma
06-21-2017, 10:02 AM
Some good news for Android users: The Phrendly app is now available for download in the Google Play store:
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.phrendly

Still very much a first release (users can't see your additional photos, nor can they send gifts), but it may be a more convenient way for you to manage your conversations when on the go.

Android app should be at parity with the iOS app--the latest version of which *does* support gifts and the viewing of second photos--in about a month.

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2017, 10:25 AM
Jamma, is there a reason why it won't let me use my alternate webcam to take a Gif instead of my crappy built in cam?

jamma
06-21-2017, 12:35 PM
Jamma, is there a reason why it won't let me use my alternate webcam to take a Gif instead of my crappy built in cam?

Hi Barbie: Please contact [email protected] and include your Phrendly email, your OS with version number, browser with version number and your camera info and they'll do their best to help you out!