View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
ep2002
07-01-2017, 03:37 PM
Okay, now that I see that the money is in my bank account, I will be pushing phrendly hard.
I've given my link to a few guys who messaged me on the dating sites, and they all ( except for one) joined phrendly to talk to me. Yeah!
I resurrected an old profile on Seeking arrangement, and converted 2 guys from there.
I'm still so new at sexting, and this site in general, but once I get the hang of it,look out.
I had a guy ask me to text that spent 2 1/2 hours of back n forth texting.
But when he suggested I fly to see him, stupid me mentioned we're not supposed to take anything off site.
(I only said that, because I don't know if I could get in trouble for leading him on,).
It was at that moment he said he had to go, and....Radio silence.
After thinking about it, I now know what I'm going to say, should someone ask that.
Ok, don't play hard to get LOL, what are you going to say?
A similar thing happened to me.
How are you getting them to talk to you from Seeking Arrangements?
Glad you got paid :)
ravenskyy
07-01-2017, 04:32 PM
48418
i just can't even lmao. where are these guys coming from??
He contacted me too. Smh. I'm also on page 4 and still barely making payout. Phrendly is very very small side egg right now.
ep2002
07-01-2017, 04:50 PM
I dont wanna jinx myself..but after 3 days of 16+ hours of marketing each day...I am on page 9..so I may be moving up?
How do you see what page you are on? You just go thru every single page?
ep2002
07-01-2017, 05:15 PM
Literally, what the fuck?? Where is Phrendly finding all these "lovely" people?? I still stand by my suggestion that Phrendly start advertising to the findom category on Twitter. You know, guys actually willing to spend money on us and treat us like the queens we are. Phrendly is only hurting themselves by advertising to cheapos.
How do you find the findom category on Twitter?
ep2002
07-01-2017, 05:51 PM
I have never seen any of these champagne bottles, chocolates, roses, etc. that you ladies are talking about. All I've ever heard of is "drinks." Am I missing something? I've done a video call once, and the rest of my paid interactions are regular inbox messages.
How does the video call work? I asked & what they said made no sense. They just call & it rings on my computer & somehow the my cam connects to their site like a normal cam site?
ep2002
07-01-2017, 05:58 PM
^^Yasss! Samesies ugh. I had a caller today that wanted to give me his number as he had one min left in the call & I'm like sorry babe I don't feel comfortable & it's also against site rules. I lose them everytime :( shit sux.
How many guys do you get calling you? So far only texts from my guys.
Burt Macklin, FBI
07-01-2017, 06:20 PM
i dOn'T pAy tO taLk tO gIRLs
48435
ep2002
07-01-2017, 06:23 PM
The real Shark Week is literally a week that the Discovery Channel (or is it Animal Planet?) dedicates purely to sharks. Shark Week is heavily advertised and many people only watch Discovery Channel for that week. I'm not sure why it's so much more popular than other animal programs, but it is.
In order to attract the sharks for filming, they usually dump buckets of blood in the water. A week + buckets of blood = something that sounds familiar to women and makes a decent euphemism, lol.
LOL, that's what I originally thought she meant which is why I was confused.
But I get it now.
I'm used to it being called the Mary Jane.
ep2002
07-01-2017, 06:35 PM
Hi,
So I don't get how it works.
If he messages me & I message him back twice, I only get paid once b/c he only wrote me once?
It has to be the same equal amount of messages or I have to wait for him to message before I should?
Thanks
ep2002
07-01-2017, 06:36 PM
Must just be a bad day. I've usually had at least 3 different people message me by now and I've got absolutely nothing.
This is probably b/c they are all dried up. The guys are realizing no one is going to meet them, so unless they get a fresh new batch of guys, the ones who don't want to pay are gone.
At least that's what I think :(
Jupiter77
07-01-2017, 07:05 PM
i dOn'T pAy tO taLk tO gIRLs
48435
Im fucking dying BURT STOP
blondhottie
07-01-2017, 08:32 PM
Yup, I never made a ton on here, but could count on a consistent $10-20 a day at least. Nice spare money. Now I'm getting nothing. I'm starring every new guy who shows up, regardless of how they look. I'm on there to make money, not find a boyfriend or fuck buddy. lol Guys are starring me back but not messaging me. Some even say things on their profiles like "Out of drinks" or "Message me first ladies". Ummmm, no, I'm there to MAKE money, not SPEND it! lol
Violethollywood
07-02-2017, 07:59 AM
yeah and a lot of them have thier KIK or snapchat on their stuff. In what world do they think women will pay to talk to a dudde. HAHA . NEVER
LivvyT
07-02-2017, 08:05 AM
Anyone notice in the balance tab how it's not showing "drinks covered by bartender " anymore? I wonder if that's why when I tried to respond to a guy this morning I got a weird oops message?
ep2002
07-02-2017, 11:08 AM
Did anyone get paid that $10 they put into our accounts when we first started?
I wasn't sure why they did that & if you get that money b/c that amount doesn't get included in the "available balance."
Jupiter77
07-02-2017, 11:29 AM
Did anyone get paid that $10 they put into our accounts when we first started?
I wasn't sure why they did that & if you get that money b/c that amount doesn't get included in the "available balance."
No that is promotional credit that cannot get paid out
ep2002
07-02-2017, 11:44 AM
No that is promotional credit that cannot get paid out
k, thanks. I figured as much.
I can't find the denominational value of the gifts anywhere in their Knowledge Base.
Do you have this info?
Thanks
Jupiter77
07-02-2017, 12:02 PM
k, thanks. I figured as much.
I can't find the denominational value of the gifts anywhere in their Knowledge Base.
Do you have this info?
Thanks
$5- single rose (We get $4.50)
$10-Balloons (We get $9)
$25-Chocolates (we get $22.50)
$50-Dozen Roses (We get $45)
$100-Champagne (We get $90)
LivvyT
07-02-2017, 12:17 PM
You see this a lot on the sugar baby sites too. "I'm not a paid member, find me at
[email protected] yee haw dot cum"
Dude, you're on a sugar site... hold up lemme check the rules for being a sugar daddy... hmmmm, must be stingy isn't listed...
LivvyT
07-02-2017, 12:19 PM
That was in response to dudes having their KIK and snapchat in profiles
ChubbyCherub
07-02-2017, 12:30 PM
You see this a lot on the sugar baby sites too. "I'm not a paid member, find me at
[email protected] yee haw dot cum"
Dude, you're on a sugar site... hold up lemme check the rules for being a sugar daddy... hmmmm, must be stingy isn't listed...
OMG, Yes!!! I had a local "daddy" want to meet up for a date. He messaged me at 12:30 at night and told me he was at Wendy's waiting for me. Like really????
LivvyT
07-02-2017, 12:37 PM
Hahaha Wendys.... bless his heart...
xxxGothBarbie
07-02-2017, 08:15 PM
Too bad we can't get paid for messaging them first so we could at least have a headstart on their asses as well as a warning when they try to add cryptic numeric numbers to any messages they try to send.
LivvyT
07-03-2017, 08:52 AM
Was the block option removed from the app? I had to go into the website to block a douchebag this morning, couldn't block from the app...
jamma
07-03-2017, 08:54 AM
Hi,
So I don't get how it works.
If he messages me & I message him back twice, I only get paid once b/c he only wrote me once?
It has to be the same equal amount of messages or I have to wait for him to message before I should?
Thanks
You're paid for your first response to his last message. This is a "volley", essentially an exchange where both people participated at least once.
jamma
07-03-2017, 08:57 AM
Was the block option removed from the app? I had to go into the website to block a douchebag this morning, couldn't block from the app...
Blocking is there. Swipe left on a contact in your phrends list, you'll see the yellow block icon come up.
jamma
07-03-2017, 08:59 AM
48417
Killing me softly. With his song. Killing me softly. With his words.
iOS app has gifting; Android app should have it starting July 24th. Yes, it can't come quickly enough for us, either...
jamma
07-03-2017, 09:01 AM
yeah and a lot of them have thier KIK or snapchat on their stuff. In what world do they think women will pay to talk to a dudde. HAHA . NEVER
We recently made it so that you can't put such words in your profile. Guys will still find a way, of course, but at least they'll know it's not allowed.
jamma
07-03-2017, 09:05 AM
Couple of new support articles that might be useful:
https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/115009405148-GIF-and-Profile-Policy
https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/115009820808-Code-of-Conduct
ep2002
07-03-2017, 09:12 AM
$5- single rose (We get $4.50)
$10-Balloons (We get $9)
$25-Chocolates (we get $22.50)
$50-Dozen Roses (We get $45)
$100-Champagne (We get $90)
Thanks a ton
ep2002
07-03-2017, 09:14 AM
You're paid for your first response to his last message. This is a "volley", essentially an exchange where both people participated at least once.
So if he texts 3 times & I respond twice, do I get paid twice or only once b/c he didn't respond after my first message?
ep2002
07-03-2017, 09:18 AM
OMG, Yes!!! I had a local "daddy" want to meet up for a date. He messaged me at 12:30 at night and told me he was at Wendy's waiting for me. Like really????
LMAO
btw, your sig has code in it. I think you forgot to close a bracket.
Hahaha Wendys.... bless his heart...
At least it's not MCDONALDS he's thinking which should IMPRESS her!!! LOL
Tooooo much!
jamma
07-03-2017, 09:31 AM
So if he texts 3 times & I respond twice, do I get paid twice or only once b/c he didn't respond after my first message?
If he didn't send a message between your responses, then you'd be credited once in this example. This format makes the interactions more natural. Guys don't have to gang up a paragraph of questions for you to answer (which he would if he had to pay per message), nor does he have to fear someone "pecking him to death" with the return key (a possible issue if providers were paid per message). Also, you won't feel guilty sending a typo correction message, since he won't be charged for it. Just carry on a normal conversation, the sips will add up.
LadyGodga
07-03-2017, 10:38 AM
I'm up to page 2 and I'm making livable money daily even on my "day off". I gotta say, I do really love Phrendly. If only every guy asking for nudes would pay, I'd be banking. Sucks that the android app is having issues with the gifting feature cause I guess every guy to ever exist must use that kind of phone.
Jupiter77
07-03-2017, 11:28 AM
I thought things were looking up. Then I went from 8 to 14.
ChubbyCherub
07-03-2017, 12:25 PM
LMAO
btw, your sig has code in it. I think you forgot to close a bracket.
At least it's not MCDONALDS he's thinking which should IMPRESS her!!! LOL
Tooooo much!
Thanks!! I didn't notice that!!! Xoxo
LadyGodga
07-03-2017, 12:37 PM
I thought things were looking up. Then I went from 8 to 14.
I'm honestly not sure how their algorithm works at this point cause I found when I started to take it easier, that's when my placement shot up.
Lintilla
07-03-2017, 01:04 PM
I'm honestly not sure how their algorithm works at this point cause I found when I started to take it easier, that's when my placement shot up.
Let's go with... it doesn't work. I made payout yesterday even with barely any traffic from being on page 26, but got moved back to page 52 by this morning (what the actual fuck). Somehow I don't think everyone on pages 1-51 did the same, or has even logged in in the past few months :\ Didn't have any negative interactions, so I can't imagine anyone I talked to blocked me, and besides that, I'm still not doing anything differently from when I was always on page 1-4.
LadyGodga
07-03-2017, 01:43 PM
Let's go with... it doesn't work. I made payout yesterday even with barely any traffic from being on page 26, but got moved back to page 52 by this morning (what the actual fuck). Somehow I don't think everyone on pages 1-51 did the same, or has even logged in in the past few months :\ Didn't have any negative interactions, so I can't imagine anyone I talked to blocked me, and besides that, I'm still not doing anything differently from when I was always on page 1-4.
Yeah, I don't think it works. I'm sure I've been blocked numerous times for cussing out men and telling them they have a tiny penis when they send me dick pics I did not ask for without saying so much as hi or paying me. Usually I block them first so idk if they are able to block me. I just know I've been more easy going with the site and I shot up quite a few pages.
Mal707
07-03-2017, 02:30 PM
We recently made it so that you can't put such words in your profile. Guys will still find a way, of course, but at least they'll know it's not allowed.
Woo! ;D
LadyGodga
07-04-2017, 11:32 AM
I feel like I'm slowly dying on the inside from the amount of guys on here that don't know this site is strictly for online purposes.. What's even more annoying is when they try to convince you it doesn't have to be just online. Please either pay me or go away.
Violethollywood
07-04-2017, 11:38 AM
I feel like I'm slowly dying on the inside from the amount of guys on here that don't know this site is strictly for online purposes.. What's even more annoying is when they try to convince you it doesn't have to be just online. Please either pay me or go away.
Alot of them say they don't want to pay to talk and I'm like it's the same concept as when u buy a girl a drink --they argue that it's too expensive --yet they want to take me out on a night on the town---ummm okay? If you can't afford to chat with me here then you def can't take me out for a night on the town
LadyGodga
07-04-2017, 12:43 PM
Alot of them say they don't want to pay to talk and I'm like it's the same concept as when u buy a girl a drink --they argue that it's too expensive --yet they want to take me out on a night on the town---ummm okay? If you can't afford to chat with me here then you def can't take me out for a night on the town
It's because they think they have a better chance of getting lucky in person. That's hysterical.
Violethollywood
07-04-2017, 12:53 PM
Yeah ikr. I had 1 guy say that to me. You're almost guaranteed to get laid At a bar. So what? You think if you buy me a drink and talk sweet to me I'm gonna go fuck u??? What? Lhh
LadyGodga
07-04-2017, 12:59 PM
My thing is how can these guys have no fucking clue we are only talking to them because we are getting paid to talk? Like why do you think the site asks for your credit card info? For science? Obviously, if the money wasn't there, they'd be spending their entire WEEK trying to get just one catch on a normal dating site
ravenskyy
07-04-2017, 02:16 PM
I've been starring guys daily and not getting any results. These texting sites were good for like a month, wtf!?!? I was really hoping I could do well texting, but I'm either getting broke losers or nothing at all. Not sure what I dislike more, this industry or men. Only money I've made in the last few days has been off one guy and he's only texting. Literally have spent all day for the past 3 days texting this dude for like $30 a day. *Vomits* Where are the "generous men" that Phrendly advertised to us? I literally have the same dude bugging me for weeks to cam with him and I don't see it because this dumb ass texts me at 6am when my ass is asleep. Then when I finally respond, he's not there. Fuck men! Yea I'm ranting, it's been a shitty few months.
Mal707
07-04-2017, 02:33 PM
Yeah ikr. I had 1 guy say that to me. You're almost guaranteed to get laid At a bar. So what? You think if you buy me a drink and talk sweet to me I'm gonna go fuck u??? What? Lhh
That shit makes me so mad. Guys and their expectations. That's why I prefer to buy my own food/drink if I ever hang out with a guy in person (not off Phrendly of course! haha). I won't have them thinking that I owe them anything.
LadyGodga
07-04-2017, 04:02 PM
I've been starring guys daily and not getting any results. These texting sites were good for like a month, wtf!?!? I was really hoping I could do well texting, but I'm either getting broke losers or nothing at all. Not sure what I dislike more, this industry or men. Only money I've made in the last few days has been off one guy and he's only texting. Literally have spent all day for the past 3 days texting this dude for like $30 a day. *Vomits* Where are the "generous men" that Phrendly advertised to us? I literally have the same dude bugging me for weeks to cam with him and I don't see it because this dumb ass texts me at 6am when my ass is asleep. Then when I finally respond, he's not there. Fuck men! Yea I'm ranting, it's been a shitty few months.
Both the industry and the men are to blame. The industry for their shitty marketing and the men for being actual idiots and not reading what the site is about. Being broke ass losers.
ravenskyy
07-04-2017, 06:34 PM
Both the industry and the men are to blame. The industry for their shitty marketing and the men for being actual idiots and not reading what the site is about. Being broke ass losers.
I agree. Also, anyone else getting ripped off with the app? I will send a reply and it will post then the guy replies and the app will switch the responses, making it look like he sent 2 messages back to back. Then I only get credit for 1 message. This happens on a daily basis and has been happening since the app came out for Android. Once or twice is no big deal but it happens very often and that money adds up. Phrendly owes me and any other girls that have lost money because of this constant glitch, but I know we won't get paid for it. Just like I didn't get credit for my customers signing up under my link.
ChubbyCherub
07-04-2017, 06:41 PM
I agree. Also, anyone else getting ripped off with the app? I will send a reply and it will post then the guy replies and the app will switch the responses, making it look like he sent 2 messages back to back. Then I only get credit for 1 message. This happens on a daily basis and has been happening since the app came out for Android. Once or twice is no big deal but it happens very often and that money adds up. Phrendly owes me and any other girls that have lost money because of this constant glitch, but I know we won't get paid for it. Just like I didn't get credit for my customers signing up under my link.
I've noticed that too, raven.