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katydiamond123
07-04-2017, 06:42 PM
yeah and a lot of them have thier KIK or snapchat on their stuff. In what world do they think women will pay to talk to a dudde. HAHA . NEVER 

or think we want to talk to them at all without some sort of pay or even with pay! Some of them it's their attitude too..........SEND! (commanding me to send a photo for free) And TOO FAR, when I answer the never ending question, WHERE DO YOU LIVE? What makes you think I'd meet you anyway? (even if you lived across the street!) Especially when your hobbies are hunting, fishing, cleaning fish and ATVs!! LOL

katydiamond123
07-04-2017, 06:44 PM
I agree. Also, anyone else getting ripped off with the app? I will send a reply and it will post then the guy replies and the app will switch the responses, making it look like he sent 2 messages back to back. Then I only get credit for 1 message. This happens on a daily basis and has been happening since the app came out for Android. Once or twice is no big deal but it happens very often and that money adds up. Phrendly owes me and any other girls that have lost money because of this constant glitch, but I know we won't get paid for it. Just like I didn't get credit for my customers signing up under my link.

I have this happen quite a bit. He'll answer and then I'll answer. I show a bubble. Then I type again and suddenly there is no bubble and the time says the exact time he now has. How can that be when originally the bubble was there so it couldn't be the same time!!

LadyGodga
07-05-2017, 10:47 AM
This is the most hilarious thing to happen to me all week. And it was an easy 5 bucks.

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LadyGodga
07-05-2017, 10:57 AM
I'm trolling everyone today. I guess I'm just genuinely not in the mood for bullshit.

LivvyT
07-05-2017, 02:27 PM
Girl I feel you.

Can I get your number?
No

Can I get your kik?
No

Can I come see you?
No

Just no to everything. You can talk to me on the app or not at all.

I have exactly one person that I talk to off app, we play wwf. But we talk all day on Phrendly too, he's respectful of the situation. But he's an exception, no one else gets that from me, I shut them down with just... no.

Mal707
07-05-2017, 02:36 PM
This is the most hilarious thing to happen to me all week. And it was an easy 5 bucks.

484644846248463

Omg I gotta start using that trick with guys who are really engaged in the convo and firing off their responses at top speed. Thanks!

xxxGothBarbie
07-05-2017, 04:33 PM
^ bahahahahahahahaha I'm sooooo stealing that one for the next set of clowns that try to come messing around lolz

LadyGodga
07-05-2017, 04:44 PM
Today is gruesomely slow. Where are all the paying men???? Where are the rich men Jamma was talking about??????? I want to know

blondhottie
07-05-2017, 07:39 PM
I just play dumb. If they give me their real phone number, I pretend that it's censored or starred out and I can't see it. I say I don't have a KIK or a Snapchat, and I say I have text messaging disabled on my phone and I don't have a camera on my phone either.

blondhottie
07-06-2017, 06:27 AM
Oh Lord, this guy on there just called me mommy! I HATE that, but at least he's spending! lol I knew I shouldn't have put my real age! Plus I'm 10 years older than him, so not old enough to be his mom. lol

ChubbyCherub
07-06-2017, 07:34 AM
48469

So tired of the freeloaders and time wasters, and it's still early.

Violethollywood
07-06-2017, 08:42 AM
Lmao wow what a cheap loser

JamaicanAliesha
07-06-2017, 10:03 AM
SOOO why does the user "Phenom9ins" get to have a gif of his UNCOVERED COCK on his profile?? but we cant show cleavage?!

i am SO PISSED rn, its fucking disgusting and invasive. if you are going to punish us, punish them too.

its one thing to get a picture in my texts but its another thing if this random guy can have his cock out like that on your site.

its not even a far away picture, like this guy has his dick UP CLOSE and covering most of the view in the camera.

Jupiter77
07-06-2017, 11:07 AM
I feel like phrendly favors the guys. Thats why us girls get treated like shit.
The "Play Fair" stuff is bullshit, because Phrendly doesnt play fair itself. Hmm. A lot of shady things going around, and im just glad I went back to camming because honestly at least cam customers know whats up. Convincing a guy to spend money on the site is too much work for .35/message.
but hey at least I can have my life back now. I dont have to be a prisoner to Phrendly anymore.

Another top earner who has made even more than me got bumped back like 14 pages. You want us to play fair? How about you play fair yourself!

katydiamond123
07-06-2017, 11:14 AM
I am so tired of being hung up on the minute they ask the thousand dollar question: Where are you from? Where are you from? That is all they want to know. If I explain it's not a dating site it's like they are deaf!!!!! And I have thought about just not answering them but supposedly my placement suffers if I miss answering a message so it's a no win situation. We should have the option if we want to answer a message or not WITHOUT it affecting our placement!!

LadyGodga
07-06-2017, 11:25 AM
I am so tired of being hung up on the minute they ask the thousand dollar question: Where are you from? Where are you from? That is all they want to know. If I explain it's not a dating site it's like they are deaf!!!!! And I have thought about just not answering them but supposedly my placement suffers if I miss answering a message so it's a no win situation. We should have the option if we want to answer a message or not WITHOUT it affecting our placement!!

Please consider marketing yourself differently, Phrendly. If that message doesn't say something, I don't know what will. I get guy after guy thinking I want to meet them or fuck in person or be their girlfriend. It's very tiring at this point. I'm starting camming back up on Friday. As much as I love the money, I feel exhausted. I will continue using it, but I just can't deal with these men. I suggested to start marketing to the findom guys and it went ignored despite being a logical plan. Can't help you if you won't help yourselves.

Jupiter77
07-06-2017, 11:38 AM
I dont trust Phrendly anymore. I really dont. They dont give a shit, as long as they are getting their cut each month.

LadyGodga
07-06-2017, 11:49 AM
I dont trust Phrendly anymore. I really dont. They dont give a shit, as long as they are getting their cut each month.

If they would bother to give a shit, they would make more. They are losing out on a lot of money by promoting to broke losers and by delaying putting the gifting option on android when most of their broke "clientele" only use android.

LadyGodga
07-06-2017, 12:30 PM
Don't talk to Kadota. He claims to be gorgeous and have a lot of money. He sent me a selfie and his "bank info" showing he has like idk 200,000 dollars? He talks about not needing to pay for this site because he's gorgeous and rich and proceeds to ask for your snap. Talking to him actually physically drained me because of his gift from god mentality. He's not rich and said we are all gold diggers. Don't waste any time on this poor poor man other than to troll him out of some money. Waste of fucking space. I don't ever call people out on here like this, but this was probably the rudest, foulest interaction I've had on here and I don't want anyone else to have to deal with that bullshittery.

jamma
07-06-2017, 01:47 PM
SOOO why does the user "Phenom9ins" get to have a gif of his UNCOVERED COCK on his profile?? but we cant show cleavage?!

i am SO PISSED rn, its fucking disgusting and invasive. if you are going to punish us, punish them too.

its one thing to get a picture in my texts but its another thing if this random guy can have his cock out like that on your site.

its not even a far away picture, like this guy has his dick UP CLOSE and covering most of the view in the camera.

A guy with a picture like that has not asked for his profile to be public, and so it hasn’t been reviewed internally. We only review photos (male or female) when the owner desires his or her profile to be public, i.e. searchable and browsable by anyone on the site. We did this to balance some phrends' desire for privacy with the desire of the other person to see with whom they are talking. We are getting close to launching a feature that will blur out non-reviewed photos and show them only if you explicitly click on them.

LadyGodga
07-06-2017, 02:33 PM
A guy with a picture like that has not asked for his profile to be public, and so it hasn’t been reviewed internally. We only review photos (male or female) when the owner desires his or her profile to be public, i.e. searchable and browsable by anyone on the site. We did this to balance some phrends' desire for privacy with the desire of the other person to see with whom they are talking. We are getting close to launching a feature that will blur out non-reviewed photos and show them only if you explicitly click on them.

This was previously answered already. Are you able to tell us if Phrendly will start utilizing their twitter? It's a great marketing strategy and is still pretty vanilla. Not as vanilla as facebook, but there is findom category on twitter that this site would be perfect for.

qurl
07-06-2017, 03:19 PM
Okay, so I'm getting really vanilla guys but the problem is they obviously want to take things off site (ie more of a "dating" type thing). Frustrating as hell. One wouldn't stop calling me, I finally answered.. he gives me his phone number.. I said ok, I won't call you off this app though... I had to block him and report.

I have made over $50 so far, having only sent ONE "adult" photo to ONE guy.. the rest is all small talk.. which is fine but I'm having a hard time becoming "phrends" without them assuming it's okay to try to get me to contact them off the app. I feel like when it's more "sex" oriented they understand more that they have to pay..

ALSO, What do you all have as your bios/one line little opening profile thing? I want to change it to something risque.. can I mention sexting? Or is that against the rules? The "no cleavage" rule is killin me lol..... tried very hard to make my gif "flirty"

PS: Thank you lovely ladies for sharing your knowledge about this site/app! I'm enjoying it so far, as frustrating as it is.

LadyGodga
07-06-2017, 03:49 PM
Okay, so I'm getting really vanilla guys but the problem is they obviously want to take things off site (ie more of a "dating" type thing). Frustrating as hell. One wouldn't stop calling me, I finally answered.. he gives me his phone number.. I said ok, I won't call you off this app though... I had to block him and report.

I have made over $50 so far, having only sent ONE "adult" photo to ONE guy.. the rest is all small talk.. which is fine but I'm having a hard time becoming "phrends" without them assuming it's okay to try to get me to contact them off the app. I feel like when it's more "sex" oriented they understand more that they have to pay..

ALSO, What do you all have as your bios/one line little opening profile thing? I want to change it to something risque.. can I mention sexting? Or is that against the rules? The "no cleavage" rule is killin me lol..... tried very hard to make my gif "flirty"

PS: Thank you lovely ladies for sharing your knowledge about this site/app! I'm enjoying it so far, as frustrating as it is.

Haha, welcome to Phrendly. The cesspool of all internet freeloaders. You have to hustle and "con" these guys to get much out of them since they wanna play dirty. If they ask for nudes, I hella delay the convo before getting down to what they can do if they want pics so I milk as much money out of them as possible before potentially scaring them off. If they ask for snapchat, I ask them for their username, and when they give it to me, I ask them if they got my request and when they say no, I just keep insisting I sent it and to check again. This milks it out of them. If they ask to text, I tell them texting doesn't work on my phone and ask if they have snapchat instead and go back to doing the previous step lmao. I usually end the convo by saying shame on you for trying to get freebies before I block and report them for trying to take it off the site since that is against policy.

This is how you get the most out of the short convos. String them the fuck along. I make at least 50 a day just using this method. Bait them. Do whatever you can to keep them talking for as long as possible if they don't want to pay. And remind them when they call you out that this is your job and you wouldn't ask a waitress for free appetizers every time you walk into a restaurant and also not tip her.

ChubbyCherub
07-06-2017, 06:10 PM
Going on a retreat where I won't have access to a phone for three days. Told my regs to "wait for me" until I return. This is going to kill my ranking. :(

xxxGothBarbie
07-06-2017, 07:18 PM
I have been playing stupid & trolling the fuck out of them when they ask me my personal outside info LOL. Like today, had an autistic guy calling me telling me he loved me blah blah & I kept it going as long as i could with the fantasy until he started to say oh bb my mins are running out it's gonna hang up on us soon, quick do you want my real number? And I kept coughing then saying hello hello? are you there? LOL I prob got another 7 mins out of that call by playing shit down. I don't give pics unless they gift me something worth my time.

Had another loser last night ask for nudes & I said sure if you gift me chocolates to which he said show me first & I'll decide if it's worth it. I was sickened by his nerve to say that shit! So I trolled the fuck out of him & got him to keep texting me by saying things like wow i bet you like to get in it in your ass huh bb? LOL whatever these fucktards can try me but in the end I'm laughing all the way to the bank.

h0ttie
07-07-2017, 10:22 AM
is it just me or do these guys seem to have no conversation skills lol....like they are paying to talk but literally seem so uninterested. if this was "Real life" and they weren't paying i would assume they didnt like me and just replied to be nice. but they will keep paying and messaging me first.
wonder where they get their traffic

Lintilla
07-07-2017, 11:19 AM
is it just me or do these guys seem to have no conversation skills lol....like they are paying to talk but literally seem so uninterested. if this was "Real life" and they weren't paying i would assume they didnt like me and just replied to be nice. but they will keep paying and messaging me first.
wonder where they get their traffic

omfg THOSE are the ones I just wish I could end before they start. It should be easy, but figuring out wtf to say next when every single one of their responses is "lol" "ok" "yeah" ":P" "lol" "lol" fucking "lol" just kills me inside. I'd rather get dick pics.

ChubbyCherub
07-07-2017, 11:27 AM
omfg THOSE are the ones I just wish I could end before they start. It should be easy, but figuring out wtf to say next when every single one of their responses is "lol" "ok" "yeah" ":P" "lol" "lol" fucking "lol" just kills me inside. I'd rather get dick pics.

I have one that doesn't want to sext, is interested in nothing. When I ask what he's up to he says he's either working or cleaning house. He has no hobbies, he hates his job. I just try to make him smile when I can, but it's the most strained conversation ever! It's been going on for mooooooonths.

Jupiter77
07-07-2017, 11:42 AM
As soon as i'm paid out all my money. I'm deleting my Phrendly account.
Here are my reasons.

1. I've worked my ass off for 6 months. Almost 7. I have had no life besides Phrendly.
2. I got moved to back 14 pages, and I havent been able to make any money in a while. I havent made payout in like 4 days. I've still been working my ass off promoting, and why? So they can get a cut of my money? No. As far as see it, Phrendly doesnt deserve 1 red cent.
3. They favor the guys, I've never worked for a company that will put that much favor over the guys. The girls definitely get treated like shit.
4. I sent a million emails asking why I was moved. I kept getting IDK, and shit. Another girl got moved back 14 pages, and she asked and BOOM she was back on the first page.
5. Their support and admins are horrible. They talk about being experienced in this business but obviously they dont have a fucking clue because their girls have to market so much.
6. They called us scammers, when they are the fucking scammers. They created a site that looks like a dating site and then expect us to break the news to these jokers? Whatever.

I used to fucking love Phrendly. I praised and praised it in this forum. but im pissed. I'm pissed because they act like they care.

They even "shared" a photo of my new car around the office, when I was excited to get it. then they fuck me over a week later? Now i'm struggling to make the payments!

So thanks got the ride Phrendly. I'll go back to camming. At least Mark at CMD knows how to run an adult website..

jamma
07-07-2017, 11:52 AM
Going on a retreat where I won't have access to a phone for three days. Told my regs to "wait for me" until I return. This is going to kill my ranking. :(

Just slide your profile to "Private" for the duration and have a great vacation!

ep2002
07-07-2017, 12:06 PM
Had another loser last night ask for nudes & I said sure if you gift me chocolates to which he said show me first & I'll decide if it's worth it. I was sickened by his nerve to say that shit! So I trolled the fuck out of him & got him to keep texting me by saying things like wow i bet you like to get in it in your ass huh bb? LOL whatever these fucktards can try me but in the end I'm laughing all the way to the bank.

You must not cam then b/c I get this BS ALL the time. At least you are getting money for talking to the asshole LOL, we don't when we cam, b/c they are ALL FLs


or think we want to talk to them at all without some sort of pay or even with pay! Some of them it's their attitude too..........SEND! (commanding me to send a photo for free) And TOO FAR, when I answer the never ending question, WHERE DO YOU LIVE? What makes you think I'd meet you anyway? (even if you lived across the street!) Especially when your hobbies are hunting, fishing, cleaning fish and ATVs!! LOL

We have to think of a different response to the BS question of where we live. I get that question right away, they don't even wait to see if they like me (assuming they were serious about meeting.)


Girl I feel you.

Can I get your number?
No

Can I get your kik?
No

Can I come see you?
No

Just no to everything. You can talk to me on the app or not at all.

I have exactly one person that I talk to off app, we play wwf. But we talk all day on Phrendly too, he's respectful of the situation. But he's an exception, no one else gets that from me, I shut them down with just... no.

What's WWF? I assume it's a game LOL

LadyGodga
07-07-2017, 12:20 PM
As soon as i'm paid out all my money. I'm deleting my Phrendly account.
Here are my reasons.

1. I've worked my ass off for 6 months. Almost 7. I have had no life besides Phrendly.
2. I got moved to back 14 pages, and I havent been able to make any money in a while. I havent made payout in like 4 days. I've still been working my ass off promoting, and why? So they can get a cut of my money? No. As far as see it, Phrendly doesnt deserve 1 red cent.
3. They favor the guys, I've never worked for a company that will put that much favor over the guys. The girls definitely get treated like shit.
4. I sent a million emails asking why I was moved. I kept getting IDK, and shit. Another girl got moved back 14 pages, and she asked and BOOM she was back on the first page.
5. Their support and admins are horrible. They talk about being experienced in this business but obviously they dont have a fucking clue because their girls have to market so much.
6. They called us scammers, when they are the fucking scammers. They created a site that looks like a dating site and then expect us to break the news to these jokers? Whatever.

I used to fucking love Phrendly. I praised and praised it in this forum. but im pissed. I'm pissed because they act like they care.

They even "shared" a photo of my new car around the office, when I was excited to get it. then they fuck me over a week later? Now i'm struggling to make the payments!

So thanks got the ride Phrendly. I'll go back to camming. At least Mark at CMD knows how to run an adult website..

Shit, how did you find out they shared a photo of your car you got from working off the site around their office? That's highly unprofessional...

Jupiter77
07-07-2017, 12:24 PM
Shit, how did you find out they shared a photo of your car you got from working off the site around their office? That's highly unprofessional...

No no no. I posted a pic of my car on the forum and was like Thanks Phrendly and guys! and they were like oh woo hoo yay. then they fuck me in the ass.

LadyGodga
07-07-2017, 12:33 PM
No no no. I posted a pic of my car on the forum and was like Thanks Phrendly and guys! and they were like oh woo hoo yay. then they fuck me in the ass.

Gotcha

Mal707
07-07-2017, 02:17 PM
Just slide your profile to "Private" for the duration and have a great vacation!

Thanks. I'm about to be inactive for like four days too cuz I'm going to see my in-person fwb (who thinks my sex work stuff is gross lol).

xxxGothBarbie
07-07-2017, 06:47 PM
Hell I'd wished I'd known that a couple months ago when I took 2 weeks off from there, then my ranking wouldn't have sucked.

katydiamond123
07-07-2017, 07:06 PM
Did you see the woman named KatS. age 48 (search women 39-50) with the big big boobs in a white bathing suit top or bra ( nto sure which). Funny since other girls can't have cleavage and she has these big boobs hanging............in her PROFILE PHOTO!

katydiamond123
07-07-2017, 07:17 PM
I dont trust Phrendly anymore. I really dont. They dont give a shit, as long as they are getting their cut each month.

Don't you think that a business like Phrendly uses girls to make money? They obviously want to take a girl, make money off her promoting and making money for herself, then when she has outlived her usefulness or something happens they don't like, they put new people in their place. Because guys always always want something new!! Like WTF are brand new people doing in the first 10 % of pages when others stay up all night, advertise and never miss a call. I have seen them put two people who look almost the same beside each other. I bet they are trying to figure out which one they will pick in that case. Of course they use the girls. They want to make money.There are 200 pages of girls waiting to get your spot.

I think this is wrong because girls can get regulars just like in camming so why replace her?

LadyGodga
07-07-2017, 08:04 PM
Don't you think that a business like Phrendly uses girls to make money? They obviously want to take a girl, make money off her promoting and making money for herself, then when she has outlived her usefulness or something happens they don't like, they put new people in their place. Because guys always always want something new!! Like WTF are brand new people doing in the first 10 % of pages when others stay up all night, advertise and never miss a call. I have seen them put two people who look almost the same beside each other. I bet they are trying to figure out which one they will pick in that case. Of course they use the girls. They want to make money.There are 200 pages of girls waiting to get your spot.

I think this is wrong because girls can get regulars just like in camming so why replace her?

I've wondered about the brand spanking new girls on the front pages as well. It doesn't seem right. I clawed my way up to the top and I'm honestly wondering how I did it. But I've been putting in 15 hour days every single day, non stop, no days off. It seems like others are doing the same without the payoff so I just don't know.

LadyGodga
07-07-2017, 08:15 PM
The new girls typically do not stay up there for long though. They deserve a shot too, and they get it, and then they usually fall off the first few pages when they, uh, can't keep up, I guess.

My thing is that if I worked up to page 2 from page 15, they can too should they actually be serious about the site, ya know? The hard working and dedicated ones should always get priority. I know Phrendly is probably trying to trick these girls into thinking wow, I'm already on the first page and I'm making amazing money I should stick around but they will dip as soon as they fall behind and stop getting messages. The hard workers are persistent and continue to work because this is basically their job. Then I feel like they lose out on more money by not prioritizing the better earners/harder workers because those ones will eventually leave due to getting fucked over.

seashell
07-07-2017, 09:30 PM
My life has officially been taken over by Phrendly. I've been texting nonstop today... arrrgh... also, they seem to have a TON of new guys today. Woo. Fingers crossed that these guys are spenders.

LivvyT
07-07-2017, 10:14 PM
You must not cam then b/c I get this BS ALL the time. At least you are getting money for talking to the asshole LOL, we don't when we cam, b/c they are ALL FLs



We have to think of a different response to the BS question of where we live. I get that question right away, they don't even wait to see if they like me (assuming they were serious about meeting.)



What's WWF? I assume it's a game LOL

Yup, Words With Friends. I am addicted, lol

LadyGodga
07-08-2017, 12:13 AM
I feel like I have this love/hate relationship with Phrendly, but I believe I mostly love it. Thanks to this site, I've been able to stay home with my son and make sure he has everything he needs. I can afford for him to have his own room and nice things and that's what makes me happy in life. Phrendly has given me the ability to give him everything he deserves and provide the life I've wanted for him that I didn't have at his age. I think as parents, we always want better for our kids than what we had. And I'm able to give him that because I make enough. On top of it all, I'm able to be with him every step of the way and not have to work far away from him at a conventional desk job.

seashell
07-08-2017, 12:54 AM
I feel like I have this love/hate relationship with Phrendly, but I believe I mostly love it. Thanks to this site, I've been able to stay home with my son and make sure he has everything he needs. I can afford for him to have his own room and nice things and that's what makes me happy in life. Phrendly has given me the ability to give him everything he deserves and provide the life I've wanted for him that I didn't have at his age. I think as parents, we always want better for our kids than what we had. And I'm able to give him that because I make enough. On top of it all, I'm able to be with him every step of the way and not have to work far away from him at a conventional desk job.

Agreed. This site has been a life saver for me. It's an amazing egg that turned out to be way more lucrative than I expected. I've almost completely switched from stripping to camming, and I love not always having to be on cam... I can text anytime, from anywhere. I hope Phrendly sticks around and stays busy for a long time to come.

ep2002
07-08-2017, 02:53 AM
So I don't get it, why do guys star me, then when I star them back they NEVER text? Is it b/c they expect ME to text them? LOL

What do you tell them when they ask you where you live?

ep2002
07-08-2017, 02:58 AM
I've wondered about the brand spanking new girls on the front pages as well. It doesn't seem right. I clawed my way up to the top and I'm honestly wondering how I did it. But I've been putting in 15 hour days every single day, non stop, no days off. It seems like others are doing the same without the payoff so I just don't know.

I doubt I was EVER on page one. I never had tons of guys contacting me & I've only been on the site for like 2 weeks or so.


is it just me or do these guys seem to have no conversation skills lol....like they are paying to talk but literally seem so uninterested. if this was "Real life" and they weren't paying i would assume they didnt like me and just replied to be nice. but they will keep paying and messaging me first.
wonder where they get their traffic

Yes, I was wondering about that. I thought these guys were looking for relationships. I don't know HOW to converse with them if the conversation goes nowhere.

Am I supposed to be sexting with them? Is that the issue?


I have one that doesn't want to sext, is interested in nothing. When I ask what he's up to he says he's either working or cleaning house. He has no hobbies, he hates his job. I just try to make him smile when I can, but it's the most strained conversation ever! It's been going on for mooooooonths.

So that's my question now b/c I get the odd guy contacting me & then bamm, after 2-3 texts he just stops.

Am I supposed to be sexting them?

I didn't think I was allowed b/c it's a vanilla site.

I'm confused. :(

seashell
07-08-2017, 07:05 AM
I doubt I was EVER on page one. I never had tons of guys contacting me & I've only been on the site for like 2 weeks or so.



Yes, I was wondering about that. I thought these guys were looking for relationships. I don't know HOW to converse with them if the conversation goes nowhere.

Am I supposed to be sexting with them? Is that the issue?



So that's my question now b/c I get the odd guy contacting me & then bamm, after 2-3 texts he just stops.

Am I supposed to be sexting them?

I didn't think I was allowed b/c it's a vanilla site.

I'm confused. :(
Some guys want vanilla talk, but most want to sext. You're allowed to be totally sexual, send sexy pics, etc., so sext away! That's where the money's at.

I try to feel the guy out and see what he wants to talk about. But I only have a couple big spenders who have not made things explicitly sexual... these guys just want flirty talk and funny banter. I don't want to ruin it with them by making it obvious I'm trying to sell sex. Most guys will eventually start sexting, and it's easy to ramp up from there by doing phone/cam/selling nudes.

LadyGodga
07-08-2017, 12:59 PM
48492

Guess I get to deal with this kind of shit today. So excited.

Violethollywood
07-08-2017, 01:07 PM
48492

Guess I get to deal with this kind of shit today. So excited.

Jesus. I can see why his loser ass is single now #eye roll what a douchebag

Violethollywood
07-08-2017, 03:22 PM
Idk aboUT days as far as days of the week but the 1st and with 15th and 30th are usually good days