View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
LivvyT
07-12-2017, 04:03 PM
Is anyone else having problems with the android app telling you that you are offline?
Spemily
07-12-2017, 04:29 PM
Is anyone else having problems with the android app telling you that you are offline?
Yes, it happens to me pretty often, sometimes multiple times in a row. There doesn't seem to be any way to fix it other than to kill the app and re-open it.
Lintilla
07-12-2017, 09:12 PM
Is anyone else having problems with the android app telling you that you are offline?
I haven't noticed it before today. The app and the website are both slowwwww for me today. It's probably timing on their end, not ours.
seashell
07-12-2017, 09:19 PM
I haven't noticed it before today. The app and the website are both slowwwww for me today. It's probably timing on their end, not ours.
Yes! I was just gonna post about this. The app and website have been super slow for me. Glad I'm not the only one... wonder if the site is just having growing pains?
Although cam never seems to be affected, which is nice.
melanielive
07-13-2017, 01:59 AM
I agree, the site was crazy slow but I thought it was my stupid computer...
i haven t talked or done video calls there yet, i m nervous for some reason but I m sure that s where the money is...
I ve been doing texting/ sexting only so far..
WendiStarr
07-13-2017, 09:51 AM
Ugh, still having problems with messages not going to my phone. This is annoying.
phrendly
07-13-2017, 12:05 PM
Hi all, when you have problems with the app or the site, please drop us a note at
[email protected] and let us know the problem you are having. This will help us identify the issues and get them fixed!
LadyGodga
07-13-2017, 03:40 PM
I agree, the site was crazy slow but I thought it was my stupid computer...
i haven t talked or done video calls there yet, i m nervous for some reason but I m sure that s where the money is...
I ve been doing texting/ sexting only so far..
It's been slow all week. I was pulling at least 100 a day and now I haven't made payout since Tuesday. Something is wrong with Phrendly. I DID message support and got a generic response that it's basically my fault. I'm sorry but earnings don't just drop that dramatically.
JayzGirl
07-13-2017, 06:00 PM
I got a new message but it didn't appear until 10 minutes after it was sent and the jackass had already blocked me. Now my rank is gonna suffer because phrendly is glitching out and some asshole is so precious that he can't be bothered with people who aren't lightning fast. Which. I am. When I can see that I have new messages.
I'm not really actually worried about it just like wow get over yourself and I just needed to vent. I feel better now.
My messages are doing this as well.
LivvyT
07-13-2017, 06:46 PM
Yep, I noticed that tonight too. I just got notified of a message sent over 20 mins ago. Sigh
LadyGodga
07-13-2017, 07:10 PM
I got a new message but it didn't appear until 10 minutes after it was sent and the jackass had already blocked me. Now my rank is gonna suffer because phrendly is glitching out and some asshole is so precious that he can't be bothered with people who aren't lightning fast. Which. I am. When I can see that I have new messages.
I'm not really actually worried about it just like wow get over yourself and I just needed to vent. I feel better now.
Honestly, he probably blocked you because he started talking to another girl and didn't want you to respond and use up one of his free sips so he could talk to her and try to pry her snapchat out of her. Either way, he's a loser lol.
seashell
07-13-2017, 07:42 PM
How do you know if you've been blocked? Does the site actually tell you? Sometimes I get messages like "Message not sent. Carrier pigeons must be on strike." or "This user is no longer available."
Erika_Xstacy
07-13-2017, 07:47 PM
this thread is hilarious. my messages are late as well.
loling on the snapchat deal. one found me on snapchat, joined my "premium", figured out I still ignore messages on sc then came back to phrendly. HE is the stalker type. Reminds me of guys I have dated that wouldnt let go.
Still get the long ass messages from the older men. These guys send a Cinderella dream and they are about to kick the bucket.
its Like dealing w elderly drivers, just let them do their thing and be nice lol
seashell
07-13-2017, 07:51 PM
this thread is hilarious. my messages are late as well.
loling on the snapchat deal. one found me on snapchat, joined my "premium", figured out I still ignore messages on sc then came back to phrendly. HE is the stalker type. Reminds me of guys I have dated that wouldnt let go.
Still get the long ass messages from the older men. These guys send a Cinderella dream and they are about to kick the bucket.
its Like dealing w elderly drivers, just let them do their thing and be nice lol
LOL... omg those descriptions are SO accurate. We might have the same stalker weirdo. I had a guy I was doing a Kik session with who found me on Phrendly, then Snapchat... ugh. The internet brings out the creepiest of creeps.
And yeah, the old guys. Good god, I hope they don't actually think this is a dating site. I had one guy start attempting to plan a date "six months from now, if you think we'll still be talking." Um, I just met you via text an hour ago?
seashell
07-13-2017, 08:04 PM
The first one blocked you, the latter deleted his account.
Aww, that sucks. lol. Thanks for clearing it up!
xxxGothBarbie
07-13-2017, 08:19 PM
Ya there's def a lag of some sort going on here bc the last 2 nights I've had to email support about crediting my account for missing video chat credits. Keep a close watch on your video chat minutes ladies! Make sure you get credited for your time, if i hadn't paid attention I'd already lost over $50 but thankfully they fixed it for me.
LivvyT
07-13-2017, 08:25 PM
I don't video on there, kids are here pretty much every day with school being out. But this fall it's game on!!! Lol
Good to know about keeping an eye on the minutes though.
xxxGothBarbie
07-13-2017, 08:27 PM
^^ Same with phone calls or even texts really. I've refreshed the page twice & it didn't change the amount so def keep a check on your earnings.
ravenskyy
07-13-2017, 08:31 PM
Yea, something is wrong with the site. It's slow lmao sorry but it's been slow all around. I haven't noticed any glitches, but the guys on here are cheap and catching on to the bs. It is very possible for your earnings to randomly drop. It's been slow aaaaallllll week.
katydiamond123
07-13-2017, 10:13 PM
DON'T I REPEAT DON'T have anything to do with a man named Gail E. First he is very sweet to you . Overly sweet! He tries to say he didn't get the video you made for him and then doesn't pay the rest of the amount agreed upon. He was worried about getting it and getting scammed. So I said send one box of chocolates now and then when you get it the second one.(*I agreed to this because it was the second day i was talking to him) He ignored my texting for way over an hour, said he didn't get it 2 times when I got it and a friend i sent it to got it. And I talked to him the night before he had no trouble getting it then either. He is just gross too.( the things he talks about and wants) He removes his photo and the next day put a really blurry one. That tells you everything. I bet he is on other blacklists too like Skypelosers.com Gave his email address too. And his real name is Gail he's a guy though.
xxxGothBarbie
07-13-2017, 10:43 PM
DON'T I REPEAT DON'T have anything to do with a man named Gail E. First he is very sweet to you . Overly sweet! He tries to say he didn't get the video you made for him and then doesn't pay the rest of the amount agreed upon. He was worried about getting it and getting scammed. So I said send one box of chocolates now and then when you get it the second one.(*I agreed to this because it was the second day i was talking to him) He ignored my texting for way over an hour, said he didn't get it 2 times when I got it and a friend i sent it to got it. And I talked to him the night before he had no trouble getting it then either. He is just gross too.( the things he talks about and wants) He removes his photo and the next day put a really blurry one. That tells you everything. I bet he is on other blacklists too like Skypelosers.com Gave his email address too. And his real name is Gail he's a guy though.
Don't send them shit until they pay up fully. Simple.
seashell
07-13-2017, 10:49 PM
^Yeah, I have to agree with that advice. In all camming/stripping/sex work. Get that money first. :P
seashell
07-13-2017, 10:54 PM
Anyone else get the email asking if you'd like your profile to be featured in Phrendly ads? I'm not sure if this is a good or bad idea... the extra income would be great, but they specified advertising on Facebook, which freaks me out a bit... lol
katydiamond123
07-13-2017, 11:38 PM
Yea, something is wrong with the site. It's slow lmao sorry but it's been slow all around. I haven't noticed any glitches, but the guys on here are cheap and catching on to the bs. It is very possible for your earnings to randomly drop. It's been slow aaaaallllll week.
I wrote support about my chat stopping and freezing and yellow triangles beside the lines. It kept saying please wait the site is updating. i lost money as my client had to leave and it was over a 4 hour chat. Then it showed the lines 8 times in a row. Not sure who was getting paid at this point. I sent screenshots to support. I also have been getting that green swirly thing beside lines showing how slow the messages are going through. i am losing some money because of that, you can't text as fast and how do you know which texts you are getting paid for when they are there 8 times.
katydiamond123
07-13-2017, 11:43 PM
Don't send them shit until they pay up fully. Simple.
I have learned my lesson. But I don't appreciate him saying I am scamming him by him not getting the video. I know he got it. And I can prove it. He got it the night before. It wasn't just that with him, he is all around abusive and gross. If you can handle that then go for it. I don't want to be depressed because people are calling me names. I prefer to stay positive. :-)
I'm looking at the bright side now: the video I made him was a specialty one so I am going to sell it on a clip site. I've never done that before. Wish me luck, I think someone will buy it but some extra luck won't hurt! Maybe a good thing will come out of it then!
xxxGothBarbie
07-14-2017, 01:32 AM
I have learned my lesson. But I don't appreciate him saying I am scamming him by him not getting the video. I know he got it. And I can prove it. He got it the night before. It wasn't just that with him, he is all around abusive and gross. If you can handle that then go for it. I don't want to be depressed because people are calling me names. I prefer to stay positive. :-)
I'm looking at the bright side now: the video I made him was a specialty one so I am going to sell it on a clip site. I've never done that before. Wish me luck, I think someone will buy it but some extra luck won't hurt! Maybe a good thing will come out of it then!
Then there ya go, upload it elsewhere & make double off it :) Feck that abusive asshole, forget him, just do you & take their money.
Violethollywood
07-14-2017, 05:55 AM
Yeah that Gail dude is weird as fuck. The Aaron guy is even grosser. He's into some weird ass shit. He thinks he's a dom and I'm a sub. Haha. Thats cute bc if this was real life, I'd make him my little bitch. I'm pretty sure this dude has never been laid and is kind of rapey. He looks super sweet in his profile pic though lmao. Yeah some of these guys on here... man it makes me wonder if they've ever had any kind of intimate encounter with a woman before.
JamaicanAliesha
07-14-2017, 10:32 AM
Yeah that Gail dude is weird as fuck. The Aaron guy is even grosser. He's into some weird ass shit. He thinks he's a dom and I'm a sub. Haha. Thats cute bc if this was real life, I'd make him my little bitch. I'm pretty sure this dude has never been laid and is kind of rapey. He looks super sweet in his profile pic though lmao. Yeah some of these guys on here... man it makes me wonder if they've ever had any kind of intimate encounter with a woman before.
i assume most of them dont. 97% of the guys on phrendly are super weird and creepy.
catch
07-14-2017, 11:59 AM
Anyone know if Phrendly will be avaliable in Europe anytime soon? Saw something about might be open for Europeans this year, but I haven't looked through the whole thread so I apologize if it has been excessively discussed and my searching abilities are just shite :D
edit: I guess there is no set time.. At least not from what I've found at this point. Will be waiting and looking forward to it though! :)
Jupiter77
07-14-2017, 01:47 PM
I have no other choice but to make phrendly work at this point. i'm went under so fast it wasnt even funny. I am not even able to pay my rent, and i'm looking into any options I can do. I had to even borrow $100 off of my homie who also works phrendly to feed my brother. (you are awesome again love you boo boo)
I have spent hours upon hours camming and making content. I've been out of the game so long I lost all my following.
I have no choice but to make phrendly work. I already feel like I let my family down, and I never want to live in a car again especially with 4 dogs now.
Im going on a marketing binge. Wish my luck.
JaneBurgess
07-14-2017, 02:21 PM
Im figuring out the site and now I know guys on there want naked cam shows. So Im going to raise the rates to match what I get paid on a cam site and the same for the phone option.
Spoon_Bender
07-15-2017, 11:00 AM
Phrendly, your male clientele has no idea that this is an "online only" deal where the women will never give out their contact info outside of the site. Yes, these moronic men are not even reading your "About" section. This means I have a choice to either lead them on to make money or be an ethical business woman by informing them of reality and lose money because your website isn't obvious enough. Can you please ban or penalize members who push to go against T.O.S. by trying to get contact info? It does not seem fair since models get punished by so called scamming by pretending to meet one day.48528
Violethollywood
07-15-2017, 11:54 AM
I talked to ginraboy last week and he does know it's online only bc I fucking told him, he's just hoping that one of us says yes. He's really weird
ChubbyCherub
07-15-2017, 07:44 PM
Uhhhhh...... yeah...... douhebomber extraordinaire...
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Bridgetxo
07-15-2017, 09:19 PM
Has anyone talked to MasterRyder? He messaged me asking if I'm a real slave and there are too many "fake" ones on this site. Then he proceeded to ask me for my real number and real name. He looks like a creep in his GIF.
seashell
07-15-2017, 09:24 PM
Has anyone talked to MasterRyder? He messaged me asking if I'm a real slave and there are too many "fake" ones on this site. Then he proceeded to ask me for my real number and real name. He looks like a creep in his GIF.
Ick... >_< I would block him... sometimes it's just not worth it.
Speaking of which, anyone know if the algorithm is affected by US blocking a guy?
Bridgetxo
07-15-2017, 09:56 PM
Ick... >_< I would block him... sometimes it's just not worth it.
Speaking of which, anyone know if the algorithm is affected by US blocking a guy?
Yeah that's what I ended up doing. I really hope it's not. I've blocked a LOT of people.
ravenskyy
07-16-2017, 12:47 AM
Uhhhhh...... yeah...... douhebomber extraordinaire...
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Literally dying laughing! You changed your mind??? Too late bitch, gimme that 35 cents!!!
Violethollywood
07-16-2017, 07:32 AM
I think the express pay thing is off, like glitch in bc it disn't express payout last night like it usually does ,my earning from yesterday are still showing and I made payout so
ChubbyCherub
07-16-2017, 08:19 AM
I think the express pay thing is off, like glitch in bc it disn't express payout last night like it usually does ,my earning from yesterday are still showing and I made payout so
Huh... my earnings were taken out. I'd email support and hope for an answer, I guess.
xxxGothBarbie
07-16-2017, 08:22 AM
What cracks me up is that you guys actually remember these idiot's screen names LOL . If I don't get a nice gift, call or video chat within the first few messages I'm out lol. I can't remember half of the names I've even come across unless they are good paying regs, other than that moving on to the next.
seashell
07-16-2017, 08:28 AM
Huh... my earnings were taken out. I'd email support and hope for an answer, I guess.
My earnings were taken out, as well.
Juliette25
07-16-2017, 10:32 AM
Anyone adjust their profiles from GFE to camming/sexting depending on the time of day ans what you're doing? I've only been doing friendly convos or sexting since I joined but my profile is very dating site like. I want to start camming which I would raise my rates for and then I'd lower them back down when not camming.
Just curious if anyone else does that.
Violethollywood
07-16-2017, 10:51 AM
Anyone adjust their profiles from GFE to camming/sexting depending on the time of day ans what you're doing? I've only been doing friendly convos or sexting since I joined but my profile is very dating site like. I want to start camming which I would raise my rates for and then I'd lower them back down when not camming.
Just curious if anyone else does that.
I leave mine on the highest setting. Never sell yourself short
Violethollywood
07-16-2017, 10:52 AM
Idk I emailed support. Might be a glitch
Glamourmilf
07-16-2017, 11:07 AM
quick question.
I have this guy who has been texting me non stop for 2 days.
He wants a pussy pic, and i told him to buy me a bottle of champagne. He said that 100 was too much .
i said that i have bills to pay.
he asked how buying a 100 dollar bottle would help me financially.
Woops.
So, i guess he thinks we dont get paid?
im so confused.
Edit to add: hes already started texting me already today. he wants to take care of me finacially, have me move in with him, buy me a dog, etc. yet...nothing more than texting. he wont cam or call.
thanks in advance
can i tell him i get money from him?
Jambalam
07-16-2017, 11:56 AM
quick question.
I have this guy who has been texting me non stop for 2 days.
He wants a pussy pic, and i told him to buy me a bottle of champagne. He said that 100 was too much .
i said that i have bills to pay.
he asked how buying a 100 dollar bottle would help me financially.
Woops.
So, i guess he thinks we dont get paid?
im so confused.
Edit to add: hes already started texting me already today. he wants to take care of me finacially, have me move in with him, buy me a dog, etc. yet...nothing more than texting. he wont cam or call.
thanks in advance
can i tell him i get money from him?
I don't see why you can't tell him. I mean, if he read the about section, it does tell you that you're paying the ladies to talk to you. That's how you keep the conversation going. At least, that's what it looks like from my end and it seems like a few paragraphs explaining it are spelled out towards the person paying.
seashell
07-16-2017, 12:01 PM
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LOL... I won't share my Skype, so his next move is to invite me to a threesome. Wow...
Juliette25
07-16-2017, 12:03 PM
I leave mine on the highest setting. Never sell yourself short
Yeah you're right. No point in changing the rates really.
Glamourmilf
07-16-2017, 12:27 PM
I don't see why you can't tell him. I mean, if he read the about section, it does tell you that you're paying the ladies to talk to you. That's how you keep the conversation going. At least, that's what it looks like from my end and it seems like a few paragraphs explaining it are spelled out towards the person paying.
I hope i wont get into trouble for telling him that.