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Glamourmilf
07-22-2017, 07:05 AM
LOL LOL, don't let these guys fool you!!!! He said the exact thing to me the first few lines. I spent half of July with this guy.When I ended things because he said he was going to leave the site that night if I didn't feel anything more for him, he ended our "Phrendship" with this: How many guys have been between those big tits of yours. And:I should have known you were a porn star with a name like yours. (didn't even get the name right) This is after getting to know me and saying I was one of the only women on this site with no agenda. (because I wasn't trying to get more money out of him ) He is manipulating, abusive and he knows what's going on on the site. When he first messaged me he said he was tired of a bunch of women who only wanted to talk dirty.

He's one of those angry men who hate women and blame them for his problems. But can't live without them. I would get texted at least 2 to 3 times a day: "you there" Even 3 AM. He also said a girl ripped him off for $2000 on another site. He's far from stupid. I was very nice to him. I even phoned him twice at my expense ( to use up a credit i had) to give him a break on his money (he was texting me 3 times a day but spent very little. He spent the phone call money right back on me.If I was at the grocery store and hair salon one day and he got abusive to me because I couldn't talk right away. He apologized the next day. He is so draining.

Oh I guess you are getting rid of me were his words the day I did cut him loose. I told him what I thought of him in a nice way. I'm too caring of a person and told him he was a great guy but needed a tuneup and counselling might help him with his anger issues. He wrote back: What do you think, I'm a jerk. I thought we were getting along just fine. Yes after he was abusive the third day he texted. (He wanted to take things to another level off the site - no mention of my breasts then! lol)

It taught me you can only be so nice, in the end they will move on or be abusive and you get burned out from people like this. I don't think $5-8 a day when you average the total out, is worth someone abusive and this negative. I was wondering who he'd end up with. LONELYDAD is another one I really wonder who got him. He's a nice person but I had to stop talking to him as he got grosser and grosser. After numerous photos that would make you gag every AM when you get up, it progressed to a live video and his email address , I couldn't look at it anymore!! He wrote paragraphs knowing I'd have to read it for 35 cents. It's best to move on and cut the guy loose when it starts to get to you. It's not worth the amount they are paying on here. Stay positive so you can talk to the next one!

Yeah, you're right.
He spent the rest of the day yesterday texting me about things he really wants in a relationship. How maybe I'm the one, blah, blah,blah.
I just kept hitting him back with questions from the ' suggest' button.
This guy, along with a few others on there I'm texting with, are way too needy.
If I hadn't been a cam girl for so long, AND on lots of other dating sites, I might believe these guys.
Luckily, I know the score with men. I'm a hole to be filled, and that's it.
Actually, I learned that when I was a baby stripper back in the 80's.
I sent one guy pics, and he replied," You're now mine, aren't you?"
Haha! As if!!::)

TheBrownFox
07-22-2017, 09:37 AM
Did you have the rate set to the default price?
Just asking because that's what happened to me, before I knew how to lock in my rates.
* Was his name Chauncy by any chance?

No. I've had my rates set at:

Audio call: 3 = $145.80/hour
Video call: 2.5 = $175.80/hour

No, his name isn't Chauncy.

TheBrownFox
07-22-2017, 09:41 AM
That happens to me every time I do a video call. And my rates are set as high as they go.

Yeah, I definitely have my rates set higher than the default price. Their default prices for audio and video calls...I wasn't feelin' that at all. Lol. So I did the math to figure out what I'd like to earn (so it's not much different from camming rates).

LadyGodga
07-22-2017, 10:04 AM
Omg Katy you almost gave us all a heart attack.
48576
Grammar and syntax rules dictate that we are not to ask for gifts under false pretenses.
KEEP UP THAT HUSTLE GIRLS.

Thanks for the clarification!

blondhottie
07-22-2017, 05:14 PM
It took me all week to make the $10 payout. lol

phrendly
07-22-2017, 05:32 PM
LOL sorry about that! But for me they need to make this clearer. Who knows if their grammar rules are the same as ours reading other things they've written. I read this as : asking for gifts is not permitted AND continuing a conversation under false pretenses is not permitted. (for example saying you are going to meet them) Could Phrendly please comment on this sentence. I'm sure you're right I just want to be 100% sure because I have hinted for a gift for a video or certain photo. :-)) And I saw someone put on their profile page send photos for gifts to travelers or something like that and it's gone now. So that suggests we can't ask for gifts to me.

Sorry for the confusion!
You are certainly allowed to ask for gifts. Just don't ask for gifts under false pretenses, such as "send me a gift and I'll send you my phone number" when you have no intention of actually giving him your number (and remember, we don't allow you to give out your personal contact information). If you are still unclear about a specific situation, just drop our support team a note at [email protected] and they can help you out!

katydiamond123
07-22-2017, 07:57 PM
Did you have the rate set to the default price?
Just asking because that's what happened to me, before I knew how to lock in my rates.
* Was his name Chauncy by any chance?


This supports my theory that 80% are the same guys going from girl to girl. Young African American guy right? I talked to him a few times - he wants iphone camming for free. Sends his phone # too.

katydiamond123
07-22-2017, 08:17 PM
Yeah, you're right.
He spent the rest of the day yesterday texting me about things he really wants in a relationship. How maybe I'm the one, blah, blah,blah.
I just kept hitting him back with questions from the ' suggest' button.
This guy, along with a few others on there I'm texting with, are way too needy.
If I hadn't been a cam girl for so long, AND on lots of other dating sites, I might believe these guys.
Luckily, I know the score with men. I'm a hole to be filled, and that's it.
Actually, I learned that when I was a baby stripper back in the 80's.
I sent one guy pics, and he replied," You're now mine, aren't you?"
Haha! As if!!::)


Do guys think this site is like poker? they keep trying a different hand of cards and maybe they'll hit black jack! ( someone who will meet them)

That's funny that you are using the suggest button on him!!!!

HE SAYS: My wife took me for everything I lived in a $700,000 house and now i live in a small apartment.

YOU: using the suggest button: If your life was a movie genre, what do you think it would be?? ANSWER: A horror film!!! LMAO!!!

katydiamond123
07-23-2017, 02:15 AM
It took me all week to make the $10 payout. lol

It was my slowest week all month so far. :-(((

katydiamond123
07-23-2017, 02:30 AM
I really wish they would get that system where you can buy placement on the top few pages. But make it fair where you are allowed to do it only so often not take the top place over. Or allow people with a certain number of stars or earnings or time online to buy placement. I was right about them comparing photos too. Like 2 similiar girls side by side. Today I saw a girl with blue hair beside the photo of Billyfae with blue hair. The other girl was older with short hair. So they are logging all types of statistics on what guys choose. I'm curious what the results are.

xxtinamariexx
07-23-2017, 06:56 AM
I had a guy ask me yesterday to send a picture, when i asked what kind he said nude and I asked him to send a gift, he said why not for free, I straight out told him, you going to treat me like a porn star pay me like one.. tired of it. this was his first message to me.. asking for a picture

Also maybe because of my age, all I get are the old guys that want a life partner after their spouse died or a divorce. these guys all think this is a dating site. maybe the "fine print" needs to be large print

Glamourmilf
07-23-2017, 07:47 AM
This supports my theory that 80% are the same guys going from girl to girl. Young African American guy right? I talked to him a few times - he wants iphone camming for free. Sends his phone # too.

Yes. That's him.
We did a video chat once.
Since then he's been texting me in the middle of the night to do it again.
Of course, I'm sleeping, and text to arrange for another time, which he agrees to.
But when he texted me a couple of days ago to do it, and I said yes, he ghosted me.
Since I replied within minutes, I just figured he found a better deal.

LadyGodga
07-23-2017, 11:03 AM
I really wish they would get that system where you can buy placement on the top few pages. But make it fair where you are allowed to do it only so often not take the top place over. Or allow people with a certain number of stars or earnings or time online to buy placement. I was right about them comparing photos too. Like 2 similiar girls side by side. Today I saw a girl with blue hair beside the photo of Billyfae with blue hair. The other girl was older with short hair. So they are logging all types of statistics on what guys choose. I'm curious what the results are.

Aye yo! Billiefae is me hah. I no longer have blue hair, actually. I should probably update my photo. It's been awhile.

ChocoChanel
07-23-2017, 12:27 PM
Hey everyone! so what is up with this Phrendly business? I've been creeping the thread for a few days and am just even more confused! Its hard to tell if like you guys like the site very much. I tried niteflirt but I just cannot fux with the interface! Any thoughts?

UPDATE: okay so being the curious cat that I am, I decided to just try this thing out for myself! I just made an account, gonna shower and get cam ready so I can take my GIF pics and get moving! The guys in the stock photos were cute! Now lets see once I really start lol

TheBrownFox
07-23-2017, 02:32 PM
Just to be clear...we aren't allowed to mention our Twitter screen names to a guy in a conversation, right? I was just thinking what if a guy wanted to send $50 or $100 to us directly through Phrendly for some custom photos or a custom video? We are forbidden to do this, and would have to just stick to doing paid messages, audio calls, video calls, and messaging back cell phone pics for virtual gifts. Is that correct? Sorry if it's a dumb question. I'm just brainstorming how I can get some of these guys to send larger amounts of money (Yeah, I know it's not really a "gift" if we're making custom content for it...lol).

katydiamond123
07-23-2017, 05:53 PM
Aye yo! Billiefae is me hah. I no longer have blue hair, actually. I should probably update my photo. It's been awhile.

If Billyfae is you don't change your photo. It's keeping you on page one or two and it's a gorgeous photo , I would leave it if it's working for you. (or try a second one but definitely keep this photo.)I think you will get more hits than the person they put next to you. :-))

ravenskyy
07-23-2017, 08:33 PM
Fuck. This. Site. I changed my gif to something cute as hell and went from page 3 to not even being able to find my ass. I was on page 3 for weeks! Now when I change my gif, they completely screw me over. And I don't care if this sounds mean, but there are some scary looking girls on there. I know my gif is better than a lot of those girls. Fuck You Phrendly! This site can suck a dick!

LadyGodga
07-23-2017, 10:14 PM
Fuck. This. Site. I changed my gif to something cute as hell and went from page 3 to not even being able to find my ass. I was on page 3 for weeks! Now when I change my gif, they completely screw me over. And I don't care if this sounds mean, but there are some scary looking girls on there. I know my gif is better than a lot of those girls. Fuck You Phrendly! This site can suck a dick!

I've been on page two for like a month and all of a sudden, dropped to page 7. So like... not cool. Their algorithm DOES NOT EXIST. This is so fucky for them to do that to you as well. I agree some of the women look a lil... concerning. Gotta say, placement never did much for me anyway.

ChocoChanel
07-23-2017, 11:07 PM
Fuck. This. Site. I changed my gif to something cute as hell and went from page 3 to not even being able to find my ass. I was on page 3 for weeks! Now when I change my gif, they completely screw me over. And I don't care if this sounds mean, but there are some scary looking girls on there. I know my gif is better than a lot of those girls. Fuck You Phrendly! This site can suck a dick!

UHhhh,^^ that's crazy and ya you are gorgie! Wtf though. buut lol I just signed up with them today. Waiting for my gif to be approved. Its totally cute too! I hope this site works, if not, on to something else. I just hate having unsused accounts on all these things.

xxxGothBarbie
07-23-2017, 11:52 PM
What's the other blue haired girls name?? I love this site, fucked around all day at the fair then ate an expensive dinner all the while getting gifted for my bday :)

kortneykay
07-24-2017, 12:40 AM
This supports my theory that 80% are the same guys going from girl to girl. Young African American guy right? I talked to him a few times - he wants iphone camming for free. Sends his phone # too.

Funny. Chauncy always asks when I'm camming as we keep missing each other, but he's always tipped me generously for photos. Never asked me for free cam or given me his number. Ugh, I hate it when men play games.


Unsure how you ladies are seeing your placement. It only lets me view men.

katydiamond123
07-24-2017, 04:09 AM
Fuck. This. Site. I changed my gif to something cute as hell and went from page 3 to not even being able to find my ass. I was on page 3 for weeks! Now when I change my gif, they completely screw me over. And I don't care if this sounds mean, but there are some scary looking girls on there. I know my gif is better than a lot of those girls. Fuck You Phrendly! This site can suck a dick!

Your gif was already cute as hell!!!!

katydiamond123
07-24-2017, 04:24 AM
Funny. Chauncy always asks when I'm camming as we keep missing each other, but he's always tipped me generously for photos. Never asked me for free cam or given me his number. Ugh, I hate it when men play games.


Unsure how you ladies are seeing your placement. It only lets me view men.

Chauncy was cheap after I sexted with him, at least that was my experience with him. He wants live iphone camming right NOW so he can show you his dick in real (it's not impressive and how does a guy that young have photos with grey pubes, lol - made me wonder if it was really him in the photos as no face) and I don't do vchat on here.

If you are using google then use another web browser, I use Firefox and go to the website and choose MEN viewing WOMEN. You don't have to join to view the GIFs. Or use your computer and phone. Just use a different place than you generally do. Hope this helps!

katydiamond123
07-24-2017, 04:48 AM
What's the other blue haired girls name?? I love this site, fucked around all day at the fair then ate an expensive dinner all the while getting gifted for my bday :)


HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY Birthday to YOU!!!! Glad it was a good one!!

Her name is Raylen,33 and she's on page 18 now if you search ages 18-99. (told you she wouldn't last) If you search ages 31- 41 she's on page 2. I am LMAO her hair looks more grey blonde now, maybe it looked bluer next to Billy Fae?

ChubbyCherub
07-24-2017, 07:59 AM
Maybe I should dye my hair blue.... lol. JK. I hate the way they play with placement.

JayzGirl
07-24-2017, 09:10 AM
Payout from last week still not received. Been almost a week. I've been doing pretty good but I'm about to let this go as well...

h0ttie
07-24-2017, 09:24 AM
Payout from last week still not received. Been almost a week. I've been doing pretty good but I'm about to let this go as well...

it takes 10 days to get payments

WendiStarr
07-24-2017, 09:46 AM
I'm on page 6 but I'm not model gorgeous. I'm more the cute, nerdy girl next door. I don't think that matters here though. I've seen gorgeous girls on page 11+

kortneykay
07-24-2017, 09:58 AM
Chauncy was cheap after I sexted with him, at least that was my experience with him. He wants live iphone camming right NOW so he can show you his dick in real (it's not impressive and how does a guy that young have photos with grey pubes, lol - made me wonder if it was really him in the photos as no face) and I don't do vchat on here.

If you are using google then use another web browser, I use Firefox and go to the website and choose MEN viewing WOMEN. You don't have to join to view the GIFs. Or use your computer and phone. Just use a different place than you generally do. Hope this helps!

Thank you, I'll try that. And LMAOOOO @ possibly stealing dick pics with grey pubes, lol.

h0ttie
07-24-2017, 10:13 AM
where do u change prices for video and phone??? i cant find it

edit: nevermind...its under payout info

succubussing
07-24-2017, 02:07 PM
Funny that the days people here complain about it being slow are the only days I make any real money (and by that, I mean approach or pass $100. Seriously, I can't believe how much some of you make on days I don't get a single message or response to long lost friend prompts!). Dudes must only talk to me when they want a break from the real attractions! Lol.

I just wanted to come on and share the news that I got blocked for the first time today! Dude was an asshole and was all about getting off the app ("I'll answer your questions when you give me your phone number") shit. What is up with these guys who say that girls send them their info all the time? This one tried that claim, and another this past weekend insisted that girls on here send him their snapchats all the time, but he doesn't talk to them because he's loyal to me. Yeah, sure.

ravenskyy
07-24-2017, 03:20 PM
Thank you ladies! I honestly am confused by the sudden change to my site placement and I'm wondering if they're screwing me over like they did Jupiter. I don't break any rules and I wasn't making much lately but I was still on the same page for weeks. Then I change my gif to something more "cute" and less "sexy", and now I get booted. I couldn't find myself at all and I checked over 50 pages! Nah, I call bs! That makes no sense, I'm definitely being punished for something. Funny thing, I also got my Phrendly shirt in the mail today lmao. I'll be damned if I'm wearing that thing now!

ravenskyy
07-24-2017, 03:32 PM
Funny. Chauncy always asks when I'm camming as we keep missing each other, but he's always tipped me generously for photos. Never asked me for free cam or given me his number. Ugh, I hate it when men play games.


Unsure how you ladies are seeing your placement. It only lets me view men.

You have to log out and go to homepage. It will say "Men interested in Women" and see your matches. If you click that then you will see all the girls on the site. Then you will be able to scroll through the pages of hot babes!

succubussing
07-24-2017, 03:37 PM
I also got my Phrendly shirt in the mail today lmao. I'll be damned if I'm wearing that thing now!

Shirts? I didn't know there were Phrendly shirts?

seashell
07-24-2017, 03:40 PM
Shirts? I didn't know there were Phrendly shirts?

Yeah, they sent out an email offering them to us for free lol. I think that was about a month ago.

LivvyT
07-24-2017, 03:44 PM
Thank you ladies! I honestly am confused by the sudden change to my site placement and I'm wondering if they're screwing me over like they did Jupiter. I don't break any rules and I wasn't making much lately but I was still on the same page for weeks. Then I change my gif to something more "cute" and less "sexy", and now I get booted. I couldn't find myself at all and I checked over 50 pages! Nah, I call bs! That makes no sense, I'm definitely being punished for something. Funny thing, I also got my Phrendly shirt in the mail today lmao. I'll be damned if I'm wearing that thing now!

I'm sorry, that really sucks. If it's any consolation, I can't find my placement either. I still make pretty good money though. Hugs!!!

LivvyT
07-24-2017, 03:51 PM
I got my shirt too. I had to fix the neckline though, hope Phrendly doesn't mind the neck hole alteration too much.
https://twitter.com/OliviaT7777/status/889610756005744640

seashell
07-24-2017, 05:28 PM
Omg... a guy just cammed with me from his CAR... while DRIVING. What the actual fuck. I told him to be safe and he was like, "I'm fiiine"

ChubbyCherub
07-24-2017, 05:31 PM
Raven, I've noticed when I use my "cute" GIF, I get moved back and when I use my overtly sexy one I get moved back up a little. Algorithm, my @$$!

ChocoChanel
07-24-2017, 05:52 PM
so I got accepted and everything is up and running! do I just start starring guys so I get messages? I raised my rates pretty high. Also did you guys individually star every guy!?? I have my age range sent for 25 to 75 and there are 300 pages! Do I just make my way through? ALso did y'all see "Terrel Owens" the football player is on there? yea right

succubussing
07-24-2017, 06:05 PM
Strange. I just checked through all my emails from Phrendly and not a one mentioned shirt. Dang because I could really use a new sleepshirt. Lol. Maybe you have to have earned some baseline amount.

Also, do you all ever get emails to vote on GIFs? I've had it turned on to weekly since I signed up, but have yet to get a single voting option.

takiaya
07-24-2017, 06:34 PM
so I got accepted and everything is up and running! do I just start starring guys so I get messages? I raised my rates pretty high. Also did you guys individually star every guy!?? I have my age range sent for 25 to 75 and there are 300 pages! Do I just make my way through? ALso did y'all see "Terrel Owens" the football player is on there? yea right

Yeah basically. I starred around 200 ppl before I finally got a message xD. I set it for everyone on up to 99 LOL. I just go threw everyday and star more and more whenever I log in, and star all the guys back that starred me.

JaneBurgess
07-24-2017, 06:51 PM
Sorry for the confusion!
You are certainly allowed to ask for gifts. Just don't ask for gifts under false pretenses, such as "send me a gift and I'll send you my phone number" when you have no intention of actually giving him your number (and remember, we don't allow you to give out your personal contact information). If you are still unclear about a specific situation, just drop our support team a note at [email protected] and they can help you out!

I dont understand why we arent paid for credit card deposits or promotional credit. You are getting the funds via CC and you can send those funds to us in the payout.

seashell
07-24-2017, 07:27 PM
Javier?

Yes!!!

He's a great customer, but yikes. And also, that profile pic. I have to try so hard not to make eye contact with it lol

ChocoChanel
07-24-2017, 07:30 PM
Yeah basically. I starred around 200 ppl before I finally got a message xD. I set it for everyone on up to 99 LOL. I just go threw everyday and star more and more whenever I log in, and star all the guys back that starred me.

Thanks ! oh man, better get to clicking haha! If I don't make any money it seems ill have some interesting stories. WTF the guy in his car while driving!!!

xxxGothBarbie
07-24-2017, 08:37 PM
I have no idea why I'm on page 26 :( I do well on here, I should be on page 5 at least hell :(

katydiamond123
07-25-2017, 01:33 AM
Some rude guy named TayV V,33 says he's rich in his profile then his GIF is blurred but when you look at it he is burping. or he's pretending to do oral sex since he's in bed. We're not allowed to be in bed for our GIF so shouldn't that be changed? It's gross!

kortneykay
07-25-2017, 01:34 AM
You have to log out and go to homepage. It will say "Men interested in Women" and see your matches. If you click that then you will see all the girls on the site. Then you will be able to scroll through the pages of hot babes!

Thanks bb, I figured it out. And I saw you- so you're still showing! I haven't been able to find myself but still made good money so whatevs.

kortneykay
07-25-2017, 01:37 AM
Some rude guy named TayV V,33 says he's rich in his profile then his GIF is blurred but when you look at it he is burping. or he's pretending to do oral sex since he's in bed. We're not allowed to be in bed for our GIF so shouldn't that be changed? It's gross!

I don't think the same rules apply to the men as they're paying. Since this is playfair we're talking about, the men can get away with everything. Oh God I hope phrndly doesn't come out with a rating system. ><


Oh, and I saw their tagline on google "Real relationships. Only Online." Hmmmm then why are these guys confuzzled?

TheBrownFox
07-25-2017, 05:40 AM
Never got an answer to my post on here from the other day, so I will go ahead and try that out. :)