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JayzGirl
08-03-2017, 03:26 PM
I'm staying on the second and third page. I'm still doing good but not great! Every day can't be a great day but I will take a good one..

And I agree. Sometimes it doesn't matter if you're on the first 5 pages or so. It merely comes down to your hustle and if that particular person falls prey to it and sends gifts or calls/video chat with your high fees. Some people are gifted or some are not. And some days it really don't matter because the men don't want to put out. lol

WendiStarr
08-03-2017, 06:03 PM
Things fluctuate all the time here. You can be rockin' it one day and then total silence the next day. It's not easy to predict.

avaa
08-04-2017, 02:15 AM
Haven’t been on here in awhile. But just thought I’d rant. I took a break from phrendly for awhile, but decided to come back and THE FIRST FUCKING GUY I GET was rude af
Second, he asked me for a full body pic and I said no, and he kept saying “but you’re so beautiful.” “Any guy will tell you you’re beautiful if you’re naked” like okay? Cool? I’m still not sending you one.
And then he asked for a topless so I was like “aight send me a gift” and his exact response was “lol no thanks. I don’t send gifts. You’re already getting paid for the chat, and besides, I can get any other girl to send me nudes for free” so I just said “a lot of girls on here don’t” and he said “I must be one of the lucky ones” and I was just like “guess so.” And he said “I have tons” like, yeah sure you do bud, but I doubt they’re from here.
Then he was like “what else you got” so I started my whole sexting thing, and after like 5 minutes of that HE BLOCKED ME.

Phrendly, I’ve missed you so

katydiamond123
08-04-2017, 03:36 AM
Haven’t been on here in awhile. But just thought I’d rant. I took a break from phrendly for awhile, but decided to come back and THE FIRST FUCKING GUY I GET was rude af
Second, he asked me for a full body pic and I said no, and he kept saying “but you’re so beautiful.” “Any guy will tell you you’re beautiful if you’re naked” like okay? Cool? I’m still not sending you one.
And then he asked for a topless so I was like “aight send me a gift” and his exact response was “lol no thanks. I don’t send gifts. You’re already getting paid for the chat, and besides, I can get any other girl to send me nudes for free” so I just said “a lot of girls on here don’t” and he said “I must be one of the lucky ones” and I was just like “guess so.” And he said “I have tons” like, yeah sure you do bud, but I doubt they’re from here.
Then he was like “what else you got” so I started my whole sexting thing, and after like 5 minutes of that HE BLOCKED ME.

Phrendly, I’ve missed you so


Welcome back!!!!
I noticed that on Chatfunn they charge $3.50 a pic and the site does it so the girl doesn't have to beg for gifts. I know I'd make more & so would Phrendly if that were the case as I get asked for pics and rarely do they want to gift me. That guy sounded like the sort of guy I'd get!! LOL Be glad he blocked you, he sounded rude af and arrogant.

seashell
08-04-2017, 07:24 AM
Welcome back!!!!
I noticed that on Chatfunn they charge $3.50 a pic and the site does it so the girl doesn't have to beg for gifts. I know I'd make more & so would Phrendly if that were the case as I get asked for pics and rarely do they want to gift me. That guy sounded like the sort of guy I'd get!! LOL Be glad he blocked you, he sounded rude af and arrogant.

I think that would be nice in theory, but honestly, I kinda like Phrendly's open-ended setup. They gave us heauxs a platform with ways to receive payments, and left us in almost total control to decide how & what we sell. The only thing I wish was different is their marketing... it's annoying having no real way to reach out to the guys, except on social media. All we can currently do is impress them with a gif and a "bio" lol

katydiamond123
08-04-2017, 08:07 AM
I think that would be nice in theory, but honestly, I kinda like Phrendly's open-ended setup. They gave us heauxs a platform with ways to receive payments, and left us in almost total control to decide how & what we sell. The only thing I wish was different is their marketing... it's annoying having no real way to reach out to the guys, except on social media. All we can currently do is impress them with a gif and a "bio" lol

I guess you're right! it might be worse to have to charge a price the site sets. I like the sending videos feature too.

I think that's why they keep it similar to a dating site too. That way a lot of guys who wouldn't normally be on a site like that have no guilt signing up because if someone sees him they think he's just dating!
Not buying x rated videos etc. :-))

Lady Xplicit18
08-04-2017, 12:21 PM
I keep getting stars but no messages! Grr...

LadyGodga
08-04-2017, 03:57 PM
48668

I did the whole, "What is *****?" "OH, yeah, I have a Phrendly." Like, why do I need two apps that do the same thing? I like this one better :*

I'm dying at the fact that his snap is cheapbitch27. Speaks a thousand words lmfao.

WendiStarr
08-04-2017, 04:51 PM
It's slow on here tonight and my cam sites are pretty dead, too. Friday night, where are the lonely/horny dudes at? Lol

seashell
08-04-2017, 10:05 PM
This has probably been said before, but I HIGHLY recommend switching up your gif! I changed mine today and had about 50 guys star me in the past few hours. I'm assuming they're not all new guys, they just thought I was a different chick lol.

LadyGodga
08-05-2017, 12:23 AM
Oh, for his privacy (not that I really care but... you know), I edited that out and typed in cheapbitch27 over it. I tried to make the font thinner as to not be an exact match haha. (Y'all ever want documents forged tho I AM UR GIRL I mean... send champagne, I mean... waht). And I WISH my TAF link was "goddess" but it's not. ;)

I noticed the TAF link but I totally thought some loser had his snap as cheapbitch. The fact that I believed someone would do that in itself says what I go through on this website and the insane shit I see.

katydiamond123
08-05-2017, 02:17 AM
This has probably been said before, but I HIGHLY recommend switching up your gif! I changed mine today and had about 50 guys star me in the past few hours. I'm assuming they're not all new guys, they just thought I was a different chick lol.

I've had lots of guys starring but it's still quiet. Have you had a lot of texts after the starring? It's a long weekend in Canada, and they are quiet. People in the US are probably on holidays with their kids too before they go back to school in August. There are also a ton of new girls on the site.

Personally i like the break.Spend time with your sweetie. And there's always camming but that's quiet too, or make videos for when it gets busier......go out for dinner!

katydiamond123
08-05-2017, 02:29 AM
I keep getting stars but no messages! Grr...

Me too! So frustrating!!! All I got since Wednesday was 2 guys who wanted to go offsite so i sent my cheap and KFC photos out again! LOL I thought Phrendly blocked me for doing that!

seashell
08-05-2017, 03:19 AM
I've had lots of guys starring but it's still quiet. Have you had a lot of texts after the starring? It's a long weekend in Canada, and they are quiet. People in the US are probably on holidays with their kids too before they go back to school in August. There are also a ton of new girls on the site.

Personally i like the break.Spend time with your sweetie. And there's always camming but that's quiet too, or make videos for when it gets busier......go out for dinner!

Yeah, I did end up getting new texters and had some good business. But I've been online basically all day every day making Phrendly my life lol.

katydiamond123
08-05-2017, 04:29 AM
Yeah, I did end up getting new texters and had some good business. But I've been online basically all day every day making Phrendly my life lol.


That's great! If you make a new GIF can you go back to the old one if you want to? I spend 24/7 on here too and advertise other places too but those people leave after their free drink usually. Did people you've already talked to message you or all new people? I'm wondering how far a new GIF fools them?

Jessamina
08-05-2017, 06:43 AM
So I joined yesterday and made about $15 my first night :D My biggest complaint right now is that you physically have to go into the "chat" option to be able to block someone :/

seashell
08-05-2017, 09:07 AM
That's great! If you make a new GIF can you go back to the old one if you want to? I spend 24/7 on here too and advertise other places too but those people leave after their free drink usually. Did people you've already talked to message you or all new people? I'm wondering how far a new GIF fools them?

Most of them seemed new-ish, but they'd chatted with other girls and knew the deal.

Yeah, you can go back to your old gif. I think it saves only two at a time. Plus Phrendly lets guys vote on which gif they like better, which gives you some advertising! Most guys chose the gif I didn't like as much, haha, which I thought was interesting.

ep2002
08-05-2017, 09:39 AM
I keep getting stars but no messages! Grr...

Ditto here.


Yeah, I did end up getting new texters and had some good business. But I've been online basically all day every day making Phrendly my life lol.

I don't understand what this means. How do you work Phrendly? You can't do anything unless a guy starts talking. Unless you are talking about marketing the site for them. Please explain. Thanks :)


That's great! If you make a new GIF can you go back to the old one if you want to? I spend 24/7 on here too and advertise other places too but those people leave after their free drink usually. Did people you've already talked to message you or all new people? I'm wondering how far a new GIF fools them?

Yup, that's my guess, that they all leave once their free $10 is gone.

seashell
08-05-2017, 10:07 AM
^I'm not constantly working without a break, but I have pretty long conversations on Phrendly. I have regulars who chat with me every day (although my best one just left... kept wanting to meet in person, kinda relieved he gave up lol), and I strike up conversation again if I don't hear from a guy after a day. I also check in with my Long Lost Phrends. So there's always that kind of "internal" marketing that you can do in Phrendly. Once you've been there a while, you'll have your list of contacts. Strangely, some guys don't respond back for a week or two, but then they want to buy something. So reigniting the convo can't hurt... unless they block you, but that's a risk I'm willing to take lol.

I kinda gave up on advertising outside of Phrendly, aside from using my camgirl social media. Too many dudes bitching about me "scamming" them lol.

JayzGirl
08-05-2017, 02:08 PM
Some guy just asked why my GIF doesn't have me showing any cleavage. I can't make this stuff up!!! lol I told him because I have a pretty face and don't need to. I'm not giving them free cleavage gifs unless their paying for still pics or video once we start messaging. I do what works for me and that includes not trying to give them everything at once. I've read that people on here say Phrendly turned down their gifs for showing a little cleavage but there are like a million girls with those pics on the site now.

Regardless, even if they did allow it, I'm just not interested and that doesn't seem to affect my money on there.

WendiStarr
08-05-2017, 03:47 PM
I'm giving you guys heads up on a dude named Donnie on there. He clearly thinks that Phrendly is like Tinder, messaged me saying that he hopes I'm in Kansas because he wanted to meet up for sex this evening and got pissed off that I'm not. That was his first message to me. Lol

JayzGirl
08-05-2017, 04:09 PM
I'm giving you guys heads up on a dude named Donnie on there. He clearly thinks that Phrendly is like Tinder, messaged me saying that he hopes I'm in Kansas because he wanted to meet up for sex this evening and got pissed off that I'm not. That was his first message to me. Lol

The men are clearly trying it today. lol!!!!

ep2002
08-05-2017, 04:47 PM
Most of them seemed new-ish, but they'd chatted with other girls and knew the deal.

Yeah, you can go back to your old gif. I think it saves only two at a time. Plus Phrendly lets guys vote on which gif they like better, which gives you some advertising! Most guys chose the gif I didn't like as much, haha, which I thought was interesting.

So just to be clear, they told me they have to approve the voting. I never got anyone to vote on mine when I created a new one :(


^I'm not constantly working without a break, but I have pretty long conversations on Phrendly. I have regulars who chat with me every day (although my best one just left... kept wanting to meet in person, kinda relieved he gave up lol), and I strike up conversation again if I don't hear from a guy after a day. I also check in with my Long Lost Phrends. So there's always that kind of "internal" marketing that you can do in Phrendly. Once you've been there a while, you'll have your list of contacts. Strangely, some guys don't respond back for a week or two, but then they want to buy something. So reigniting the convo can't hurt... unless they block you, but that's a risk I'm willing to take lol.

I kinda gave up on advertising outside of Phrendly, aside from using my camgirl social media. Too many dudes bitching about me "scamming" them lol.

Ok thanks. I would love for a conversation to go anywhere, but mine don't & I'm a great conversationalist when I'm looking for REAL guys & meet them from dating sites. I can keep a guy talking for hours on the phone. With this I can't do shit :(

Take care

Lintilla
08-05-2017, 09:57 PM
I'm giving you guys heads up on a dude named Donnie on there. He clearly thinks that Phrendly is like Tinder, messaged me saying that he hopes I'm in Kansas because he wanted to meet up for sex this evening and got pissed off that I'm not. That was his first message to me. Lol

I talked to what I assume was him the other day while I was in a shitty mood because literally everyone was just asking me where I lived immediately. His first message to me was asking if I lived in Kansas. I replied that no, I did not, and he didn't respond, just like everyone else that day. So I sent him another message saying that there's a reason profiles don't have locations on them--it's not a dating site or for meeting people, and that going around asking random people if they happen to live near him seems pretty damn inefficient, and besides, no one wants to meet him anyway, good luck lol. Then I blocked him. I see he didn't take any of that information on board, but did figure out at some point to get his message out there right away because replies cost money :P Wonder how that's working out for him.

But more generally, wtf are these guys thinking who just go around and ask every girl if they happen to live nearby? There are 50 states. How often can the answer be yes before they use up their free drink? Even without realizing sips cost money, because none of these guys have any idea what the site is about, how would that ever be a good use of their time? After getting a couple of "no" answers, they should at least realize matching isn't by location, but they're still out there asking days later. Total idiots.

LadyGodga
08-05-2017, 10:28 PM
Heads up about Talentino. He's fucking weird as hell and this is the first message I've gotten on here that actually creeped me out. I just asked what he was up to and he messaged me back that he was trying to come see me. It's just really fucking weird and didn't help he's in my timezone. It's probably nothing but I'd just avoid creepy convos like this in general.

katydiamond123
08-06-2017, 12:12 PM
I'm giving you guys heads up on a dude named Donnie on there. He clearly thinks that Phrendly is like Tinder, messaged me saying that he hopes I'm in Kansas because he wanted to meet up for sex this evening and got pissed off that I'm not. That was his first message to me. Lol


If it's Donnie B then he knows all about the site not being a dating site. I talked to him on Jul 18 and Jul 20 and he said he had never sexted before that. That's what he chose to do after learning he couldn't meet anyone. He even said hi a couple days later.
He is a truck driver who got divorced because of course his wife cheated on him. LOL (and he's a truck driver!) He drives cows from Nebraska to Iowa, and Kansas is in there too so it's him. Said he'd never done this before but seemed to know what he was doing with the texting. Had a few photos of his dick too! barf His profile has a photo with a grey/white beard and moustache and lying down in frame 2 and 3, it says he is 45 and funny as hell. Is that him?

Don't you hate these guys playing us?

katydiamond123
08-07-2017, 03:03 AM
I talked to what I assume was him the other day while I was in a shitty mood because literally everyone was just asking me where I lived immediately. His first message to me was asking if I lived in Kansas. I replied that no, I did not, and he didn't respond, just like everyone else that day. So I sent him another message saying that there's a reason profiles don't have locations on them--it's not a dating site or for meeting people, and that going around asking random people if they happen to live near him seems pretty damn inefficient, and besides, no one wants to meet him anyway, good luck lol. Then I blocked him. I see he didn't take any of that information on board, but did figure out at some point to get his message out there right away because replies cost money :P Wonder how that's working out for him.

But more generally, wtf are these guys thinking who just go around and ask every girl if they happen to live nearby? There are 50 states. How often can the answer be yes before they use up their free drink? Even without realizing sips cost money, because none of these guys have any idea what the site is about, how would that ever be a good use of their time? After getting a couple of "no" answers, they should at least realize matching isn't by location, but they're still out there asking days later. Total idiots.

guys tell me they are looking at the time zone you have listed. (And it's in GMT now) So they try to narrow it down from there.

ChubbyCherub
08-07-2017, 06:06 AM
guys tell me they are looking at the time zone you have listed. (And it's in GMT now) So they try to narrow it down from there.

We can change our time zone??!

Spemily
08-07-2017, 09:48 AM
So, one of my regulars told me that he was leaving the site (and gave me his telephone number... sigh) because Phrendly wouldn't approve his gif and told him that he had to have one.

I messaged him back to get some more details and took a look at his gif. In it, he's wearing a hat that's pulled down rather low over his face and he has his hand up covering his chin and mouth. So, I guess Phrendly didn't approve the gif because it doesn't show enough of his face. However, what does he mean about them "forcing" him to have a gif? He clearly still had money on his account, as we swapped a few messages back and forth, he clearly wasn't banned from using the site.

Anyway, here are my questions:

1- Does Phrendly have a policy that the guys must have gifs and that they must be approvable gifs?
2- If so, how do they enforce this policy? Like, was this guy prevented from loading more money onto his account or was he given a deadline to upload a new gif or his account would be deactivated?
3- If they have a policy like this, why??? Many of the guys I've had extensive messaging and call sessions with either have no gif or an unapproved one and now I'm wondering if they are all going to get pushed off the site just because they want privacy.

Of course, it's also entirely possible that this is the Phrendly version of "brb someone's at the door" and he just wanted to move on and not receive any further messages from me.

jamma
08-07-2017, 10:17 AM
So, one of my regulars told me that he was leaving the site (and gave me his telephone number... sigh) because Phrendly wouldn't approve his gif and told him that he had to have one.

I messaged him back to get some more details and took a look at his gif. In it, he's wearing a hat that's pulled down rather low over his face and he has his hand up covering his chin and mouth. So, I guess Phrendly didn't approve the gif because it doesn't show enough of his face. However, what does he mean about them "forcing" him to have a gif? He clearly still had money on his account, as we swapped a few messages back and forth, he clearly wasn't banned from using the site.

Anyway, here are my questions:

1- Does Phrendly have a policy that the guys must have gifs and that they must be approvable gifs?
2- If so, how do they enforce this policy? Like, was this guy prevented from loading more money onto his account or was he given a deadline to upload a new gif or his account would be deactivated?
3- If they have a policy like this, why??? Many of the guys I've had extensive messaging and call sessions with either have no gif or an unapproved one and now I'm wondering if they are all going to get pushed off the site just because they want privacy.

Of course, it's also entirely possible that this is the Phrendly version of "brb someone's at the door" and he just wanted to move on and not receive any further messages from me.

Of course we don't require any one to go public on the site. Most guys choose to browse & interact privately. If you want your profile public, we do maintain certain requirements for GIFs, of which most of you are familiar (show face, no nudity, must be live, high technical quality, etc)

Spemily
08-07-2017, 10:25 AM
Of course we don't require any one to go public on the site. Most guys choose to browse & interact privately. If you want your profile public, we do maintain certain requirements for GIFs, of which most of you are familiar (show face, no nudity, must be live, high technical quality, etc)

Well, then I guess that means that he had his heart set on a public profile for some reason or he was bullshitting me in order to avoid future messages. Thanks for the clarification, Jamma.

katydiamond123
08-07-2017, 10:33 AM
Ditto here.



I don't understand what this means. How do you work Phrendly? You can't do anything unless a guy starts talking. Unless you are talking about marketing the site for them. Please explain. Thanks :)



Yup, that's my guess, that they all leave once their free $10 is gone.



Hahaaha!! I wish it were $10!!! It's more like $3.50!

katydiamond123
08-07-2017, 05:52 PM
We can change our time zone??!

Yes it's on your profile page. You just click on the right to change it. :-)

blondhottie
08-07-2017, 07:41 PM
How can you tell if a guy blocks you on Phrendly?

WendiStarr
08-07-2017, 08:47 PM
I had an unusual guy today. We were chatting off and on all day and then he told me that he was going to leave Phrendly because it was costing him too much. He gave me his real number. Of course I didn't contact him on his real number so he came back to Phrendly to chat with me more, lol. Usually the guys get ticked off that I'm not going to message them at their real number and quit chatting. This dude came back lol

seashell
08-07-2017, 11:35 PM
I blocked two guys today... one who described violently how he wanted to choke me, and another who talked about never wearing condoms and having an impregnation fetish. Um no thanks

LadyLuck143
08-08-2017, 07:22 PM
I blocked two guys today... one who described violently how he wanted to choke me, and another who talked about never wearing condoms and having an impregnation fetish. Um no thanks

Wonder if the impregnation guy is the same one i had lol.

WendiStarr
08-08-2017, 08:12 PM
Lol! I haven't got him yet or else he'd be blowing up my phone. I deal with a lot of impregnation dudes on one of my pso lines for a pregnant character I play. As for the choking guy, ugh..I would block him too. I don't care for violent fetish dudes.

amerie
08-08-2017, 11:48 PM
I just signed up for Phrendly now after watching this thread for a couple months. I have been sexting (and making an average of 300-400 a week on different platforms) for about 10 years now and I totally get why you guys are venting about all your experiences on this site and shit you have to go through (all the power to you) but when it comes down to it, I kind of wonder why some of you act like bitches to these guys? I guess my style is a bit different.

I typically kill guys with kindness and act totally understanding, I try to make them feel special even if the thought of them makes me vomit. On a GFE type site I would expect to do the same. Unless they are really being a complete ass hole, in that case I will be a bitch to them as I would my "real" bf. I can't really say much about my experiences here yet of course but will update once I do.

seashell
08-09-2017, 12:14 AM
I just signed up for Phrendly now after watching this thread for a couple months. I have been sexting (and making an average of 300-400 a week on different platforms) for about 10 years now and I totally get why you guys are venting about all your experiences on this site and shit you have to go through (all the power to you) but when it comes down to it, I kind of wonder why some of you act like bitches to these guys? I guess my style is a bit different.

I typically kill guys with kindness and act totally understanding, I try to make them feel special even if the thought of them makes me vomit. On a GFE type site I would expect to do the same. Unless they are really being a complete ass hole, in that case I will be a bitch to them as I would my "real" bf. I can't really say much about my experiences here yet of course but will update once I do.

I can't speak for other girls, but I am always nice when I'm talking to them. If they cross the line severely, then I block them. Some of the worst guys do eventually turn around and send gifts.

I just come here to vent, haha...

JayzGirl
08-09-2017, 01:51 PM
I just signed up for Phrendly now after watching this thread for a couple months. I have been sexting (and making an average of 300-400 a week on different platforms) for about 10 years now and I totally get why you guys are venting about all your experiences on this site and shit you have to go through (all the power to you) but when it comes down to it, I kind of wonder why some of you act like bitches to these guys? I guess my style is a bit different.

I typically kill guys with kindness and act totally understanding, I try to make them feel special even if the thought of them makes me vomit. On a GFE type site I would expect to do the same. Unless they are really being a complete ass hole, in that case I will be a bitch to them as I would my "real" bf. I can't really say much about my experiences here yet of course but will update once I do.


You hit it on the head with the hammer, precisely. I see a lot of complaining about a lot of things, especially in the NiteFlirt and TalkToMe threads. And some people wonder why no money is being made. Succinctly stated, too much time off task produces little results. lol But people will complain so what can you do?!!! My style is probably like yours. Its an attitude that is deeply rooted in sales and being a good talker. Some people got it and some people don't. You can literally tell what kind of personality people have in these threads and automatically project if they're going to make money or not.

I see a lot of people complain about the men asking their location. Haha, no worries. I ask them their location right after they hit me up. I create an illusion for them and profit very well off that. Some of them are smart to look at my time zone and know whats up but most of them are dumb. Why complicate things when you're sitting from behind your mobile phone or computer. Just doesn't make any sense to me.

Another thing I see is people complaining that men find this to be a dating site. Who the hell cares what they think it is?!!! I'm not about to waste precious brain cells trying to convince a man (probably horny as hell) that he will never meet me. My sales pitch is to string you along for as long as I can to retrieve the optimal amount of money via texts, calls or video. With that being said, most of my blocking comes if they ask "really" stupid questions at the beginning or I'm on my monthly cycle. lol I use to see these kind of ladies in the club (some beautiful) but they never made anything because they complained too much and their attitude was horrible. haha

There's a reason why some people are better at these roles than other people. And its a reason why some people make $20-$100 a weekly and why some makes $200 plus a week. So with that being said, let them complain. It is what it is.

Spemily
08-09-2017, 02:14 PM
Another thing I see is people complaining that men find this to be a dating site. Who the hell cares what they think it is?!!! I'm not about to waste precious brain cells trying to convince a man (probably horny as hell) that he will never meet me. My sales pitch is to string you along for as long as I can to retrieve the optimal amount of money via texts, calls or video. \

Because some of us feel that isn't ethical. There's a difference between selling someone a fantasy who has consented to pay for a fantasy and another thing entirely to lie to someone and get them to spend money based on false pretenses. I make more than $200 a week and I'm nice to the guys and I don't lie to them. I'm not pretending I'm incredibly successful at being an online sex worker, but I make a decent living and I do it without misleading people.

JayzGirl
08-09-2017, 02:51 PM
Because some of us feel that isn't ethical. There's a difference between selling someone a fantasy who has consented to pay for a fantasy and another thing entirely to lie to someone and get them to spend money based on false pretenses. I make more than $200 a week and I'm nice to the guys and I don't lie to them. I'm not pretending I'm incredibly successful at being an online sex worker, but I make a decent living and I do it without misleading people.

Depending on who you ask, online sex worker or a regular one, most will agree that its unethical to some extent. Present that same argument to a panel of regular Americans and they most will say its totally unethical in some shape or form. If you think that you're being "nice" and "ethical" by sending them suggestive texts, pics and video then I rest my case. lol It's all the same to me.

Spemily
08-09-2017, 03:11 PM
If you think that you're being "nice" and "ethical" by sending them suggestive texts, pics and video then I rest my case. lol It's all the same to me.

Are you saying that it's inherently mean (the opposite of "nice") and unethical to be a sex worker?

I am nice to them. I don't bully them, insult them, make them feel stupid or like I'm trying to rob them. And I am ethical. I let them know what services I provide and for what price. When they pay, I provide that service. When a guy comes to me under the impression that Phrendly is a place to meet women to date in real life, I let him know he is mistaken as gently as I can and I don't take advantage of his ignorance to take his money under false pretenses.

I'll make sure to say "lol it's all the same to me" when someone lies to you and takes your money, though.

seashell
08-09-2017, 03:55 PM
Wait, are we really complaining about other girls' complaints on this thread? I thought that's what this forum was for, sharing your ups and downs, trials and tribulations, and strategies?

We have a lot of positivity here on this thread, as well as great sales tactics. I don't know why there's suddenly this image of us being broke and treating customers badly. If we were, I don't think some of us would have been posting here for months on end. Lol

JayzGirl
08-09-2017, 05:02 PM
Are you saying that it's inherently mean (the opposite of "nice") and unethical to be a sex worker?

I am nice to them. I don't bully them, insult them, make them feel stupid or like I'm trying to rob them. And I am ethical. I let them know what services I provide and for what price. When they pay, I provide that service. When a guy comes to me under the impression that Phrendly is a place to meet women to date in real life, I let him know he is mistaken as gently as I can and I don't take advantage of his ignorance to take his money under false pretenses.

I'll make sure to say "lol it's all the same to me" when someone lies to you and takes your money, though.

If that makes you sleep better at night. "tomato, tomayto......"

LadyGodga
08-09-2017, 10:49 PM
I think it's petty to complain about other girls venting their frustrations. As seashell mentioned, there's positivity in this thread and many other threads. This forum is meant for us to come together to speak about our frustrations in this industry and help each other out. It's not always sunshine and roses. No work place is. And the venting helps a lot of people release unhealthy tension.

So I propose we drop that subject and support each other and understand that not everyone has a good day. I really don't think any of the girls here are hurting anyone by venting a bit. I'm a great talker and I make fantastic money but yes, I will be rude and block someone that's trying to fuck with me. I'm not gonna let some asshole walk all over me for 35 cents a message.

gdds
08-10-2017, 08:48 AM
Hey! Any idea how long they take to approve profiles :) It's taking a sweet minute x

Spemily
08-10-2017, 09:16 AM
Hey! Any idea how long they take to approve profiles :) It's taking a sweet minute x

For me it's varied from less than a day to three days.

gdds
08-10-2017, 10:40 AM
For me it's varied from less than a day to three days.

Thanks :) fingers X it's sooner rather than later xx