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blondhottie
08-11-2017, 12:26 PM
I wonder if some guys see my age and don't star me or contact me because they think I'm too old and want someone younger. I'm 38 and I'm thinking that a lot of guys are looking for real connections or someone to meet up with in real life, and they want someone 18-25. Not to sound conceited, but I look really good in my gifs and I'm not making a lot on here. Maybe I should've lied about my age. lol I wonder how much the top girls make.

seashell
08-11-2017, 01:40 PM
I wonder if some guys see my age and don't star me or contact me because they think I'm too old and want someone younger. I'm 38 and I'm thinking that a lot of guys are looking for real connections or someone to meet up with in real life, and they want someone 18-25. Not to sound conceited, but I look really good in my gifs and I'm not making a lot on here. Maybe I should've lied about my age. lol I wonder how much the top girls make.

Sadly, I don't think you can lie about your age on this site. They will only change it if there's a mistake, and you can prove your age with your ID. It was discussed in this thread previously.

blondhottie
08-11-2017, 02:08 PM
Sadly, I don't think you can lie about your age on this site. They will only change it if there's a mistake, and you can prove your age with your ID. It was discussed in this thread previously.

Ahhhh thanks for the info-that sucks that you can't lie about your age! I do on cam sites all the time and say I'm 27-29 because I got sick of being called a MILF and got sick of guys asking me for mother/son roleplay. lol :)

seashell
08-11-2017, 02:25 PM
Ahhhh thanks for the info-that sucks that you can't lie about your age! I do on cam sites all the time and say I'm 27-29 because I got sick of being called a MILF and got sick of guys asking me for mother/son roleplay. lol :)

Me too, haha... I'm 28 and I still get young customers with a MILF fantasy! I usually say that I'm 24, but damn Phrendly is forcing me to accept my age lol

JamaicanAliesha
08-11-2017, 05:23 PM
Some of these guys have horrible communication skills haha, just like really boring. Even when talking about sex!

Usually when they are like this, I just ask question after question lol.

JamaicanAliesha
08-11-2017, 06:36 PM
On a positive note, a lot of the video chats I get from here are from hot guys with nice dicks, for that Phrendly I thank thee.

seashell
08-13-2017, 10:18 AM
Jamma, I have a suggestion! :) I wish that texts left unresponded to were a different color. That would make it a lot easier to make sure I've gotten back to all my customers. If you're texting a lot of guys at once, it can be annoying to have to look closely and check who you've already replied to.

katydiamond123
08-14-2017, 01:28 AM
You hit it on the head with the hammer, precisely. I see a lot of complaining about a lot of things, especially in the NiteFlirt and TalkToMe threads. And some people wonder why no money is being made. Succinctly stated, too much time off task produces little results. lol But people will complain so what can you do?!!! My style is probably like yours. Its an attitude that is deeply rooted in sales and being a good talker. Some people got it and some people don't. You can literally tell what kind of personality people have in these threads and automatically project if they're going to make money or not.

I see a lot of people complain about the men asking their location. Haha, no worries. I ask them their location right after they hit me up. I create an illusion for them and profit very well off that. Some of them are smart to look at my time zone and know whats up but most of them are dumb. Why complicate things when you're sitting from behind your mobile phone or computer. Just doesn't make any sense to me.

Another thing I see is people complaining that men find this to be a dating site. Who the hell cares what they think it is?!!! I'm not about to waste precious brain cells trying to convince a man (probably horny as hell) that he will never meet me. My sales pitch is to string you along for as long as I can to retrieve the optimal amount of money via texts, calls or video. With that being said, most of my blocking comes if they ask "really" stupid questions at the beginning or I'm on my monthly cycle. lol I use to see these kind of ladies in the club (some beautiful) but they never made anything because they complained too much and their attitude was horrible. haha

There's a reason why some people are better at these roles than other people. And its a reason why some people make $20-$100 a weekly and why some makes $200 plus a week. So with that being said, let them complain. It is what it is.


I agree with some of what you said, but not most of it.You can't speak for other girls experiences, only your own. This is how the conversation would go: Hi where are you from? (no other typing) You could ask them where they were from, but they would not answer, they'd leave. The clients I have talked to here are "not dumb". If you told them where you were from they would leave. If you tried to divert them from the subject they would not answer and leave. (I had that happen tonight) Total earned on each of these texts: 35 to 70 cents. And there were a lot of them.

THankfully it's changed for the most part since Phrendly changed their marketing and added a Code of Conduct in the message box, but there are still some as a lot of men don't read it.

So this is why the girls were complaining, they were earning 35 to 70 cents and there was no way to change it. I'm sure everyone tried. And I don't disclose what i earn but it's not $20 a week. And there are girls here who complain and vent who earn more than $200- 400 a week I am guessing! They are just here sharing experiences as it helps all of us. I don't see many putting each other down which is why I come here. If it changes to be that way I will no longer be here.

Also I don't string guys along as I don't feel it's ethical and I like to sleep at night. I will try to keep the conversation going as long as possible but I refuse to be nice to someone who is being an ass to me just for money. And
i will not pretend I will meet them just to earn more. That is called lying and I don't feel comfortable doing that over and over. I don't feel that's what this job is about. It's about making men feel good and being that untruthful is not going to make anyone happy!

Jupiter77
08-14-2017, 12:55 PM
48713

Hm. How is this allowed.

JamaicanAliesha
08-15-2017, 06:17 AM
Ha! Just had a dude ask me for my number 3 times (I rejected him each time), then ask me why I won't give it out, then ask me where I worked so he can meet me (guess he thinks im local), and THEN ask me what city I lived in. Some of these men are soo creepy.

SuperPookie
08-15-2017, 06:56 AM
I wonder if some guys see my age and don't star me or contact me because they think I'm too old and want someone younger. I'm 38 and I'm thinking that a lot of guys are looking for real connections or someone to meet up with in real life, and they want someone 18-25. Not to sound conceited, but I look really good in my gifs and I'm not making a lot on here. Maybe I should've lied about my age. lol I wonder how much the top girls make.

I was excited when I finally got approved but after $10 in like a week and a half not so much now lol. I'm 39 though so maybe that's part of the reason. I hadn't thought about that.

seashell
08-15-2017, 07:24 AM
^I agree that the ability to choose what age we present ourselves as would be helpful. Many of us are already going by fake names on Phrendly, and lying about where we live, lol. We're not supposed to meet these guys. Why should our real age be required?

jamma
08-15-2017, 07:59 AM
Hm. How is this allowed.

It's not; she was made to change it.

jamma
08-15-2017, 08:03 AM
Jamma, I have a suggestion! :) I wish that texts left unresponded to were a different color. That would make it a lot easier to make sure I've gotten back to all my customers. If you're texting a lot of guys at once, it can be annoying to have to look closely and check who you've already replied to.

A message will stay bold until read (not necessarily replied to), but there is a way to see whether it's your turn to reply or not: All of the conversations that were last responded to by you are preceded with the word "You:" in the little summary in your Phrends list. If it doesn't have a "You:" before it, it's your turn to reply!

seashell
08-15-2017, 10:21 AM
A message will stay bold until read (not necessarily replied to), but there is a way to see whether it's your turn to reply or not: All of the conversations that were last responded to by you are preceded with the word "You:" in the little summary in your Phrends list. If it doesn't have a "You:" before it, it's your turn to reply!

I know... I'm sure it's probably not possible to change it, but once the bold part goes away, it can take a while to go through all your messages and make sure there's not a "You:" in front of them. I'm mainly bothered by this because I message guys all the time from the bottom of my "contacts" list, and sometimes new replies get lost while I'm doing that. Also, because the placement algorithm is based on us replying to guys as soon as possible.

seashell
08-15-2017, 12:17 PM
Wish me luck guys. Going on vacation today out in the middle of nowhere with slow internet and judgey family members. Gonna try as hard as I can to keep up my hustle and kick ass :)

Good luck! You got this!

It's the perfect site for that situation :)

jamma
08-15-2017, 03:51 PM
Wish me luck guys. Going on vacation today out in the middle of nowhere with slow internet and judgey family members. Gonna try as hard as I can to keep up my hustle and kick ass :)

If it gets too much, you could consider flipping the "New Phrends" slider to Not Accepting, which would remove you from search and allow only existing Phrends to contact you.

Jupiter77
08-15-2017, 07:54 PM
I wonder if I wear my Phrendly shirt on Myfreecams everyday if maybe they will unfuck me in the ass and put me in a more discover able placement on the site.

or I might just burn it on cam stay tuned.

ChubbyCherub
08-15-2017, 07:54 PM
Okay this plane wifi has me sweating. I might just take you up on that suggestion, Jamma.
guys i hate planes im gonna die someone hold me

Breathe, Burtie baby!!! You'll make it! Xoxo

seashell
08-15-2017, 10:28 PM
If it gets too much, you could consider flipping the "New Phrends" slider to Not Accepting, which would remove you from search and allow only existing Phrends to contact you.

Um... but I'm interested in making more money?

>_>

Also, not sure if this is a glitch or just the way the site works, but I can't access all of my phrends list on the website. I can see *every single one* of my phrends on the iPhone app, but the list takes time to load, and every time you click on someone to message them, the list has to reload from scratch starting at the top. Makes it hard to send messages to people once they're inaccessible from the website.

Not trying to be a nuisance, just pointing out some stuff that might help us reach more guys.

seashell
08-15-2017, 10:39 PM
My fat John Oliver closed his account :(

*wipes away a single tear*

blondhottie
08-16-2017, 04:59 AM
I tried advertising on Backpage in the women seeking men section to try and get more guys on Phrendly, and my ad was community removed. WTF? I didn't post any links to Phrendly in my ad or even hint at it. I just said I was looking for a text buddy.

LivvyT
08-16-2017, 08:12 AM
I tried advertising on Backpage in the women seeking men section to try and get more guys on Phrendly, and my ad was community removed. WTF? I didn't post any links to Phrendly in my ad or even hint at it. I just said I was looking for a text buddy.

Did any of your pics have nudity? They are funny about that.

I'm about to hit up backpage too, my vanilla job sucks right now.

blondhottie
08-16-2017, 02:08 PM
Did any of your pics have nudity? They are funny about that.

I'm about to hit up backpage too, my vanilla job sucks right now.

Nope, no nudity, just 2 regular, clothed pics.

Mal707
08-16-2017, 04:20 PM
Backpage is so annoying. They never post my ads even though they say the ad is posted. Of course, I don't know how to put a million emojis in the title like everyone else does, so maybe that is it.

CallistoMorgan
08-17-2017, 07:29 AM
I'm signed up for Phrendly and have a few questions. If I "star" guys and they message me will I still receive money? Or is that considered initiating contact? Also the default for drinks is 8 Inthink but it can go all the way to 40. What's the average rate? I don't want to price myself too high. Also how does our dating speed affect our pricing or payout conversions? Thanks ladies!

ChubbyCherub
08-17-2017, 10:03 AM
Starring doesn't set payment direction, so, light up your phrendly like the galaxy.
- If you are ever unsure, just look at the heart next to their names. Blue - ya getting paid. Red - DO NOT message them.
Dating speed doesn't affect pricing or payout.
As for drinks for camming/phone, crank that bitch. ;)

Lol. Everything Burt said. (How's your vacation going??)

xxtinamariexx
08-17-2017, 01:23 PM
New feature... pilot program.. PLEASE PLEASE MAKE SURE ITS only opt IN.. I do NOT want to be on facebook....

Girly_Girl
08-17-2017, 01:51 PM
New feature... pilot program.. PLEASE PLEASE MAKE SURE ITS only opt IN.. I do NOT want to be on facebook....

What????:embarrass


Where did u see this?I DO NOT, I REPEAT, I DO NOT want to be advertised all over freaking facebook!!!!!!!!!!!!! I may have to delete my phrendly account if this is true


I agree that this should be by opt in ONLY

seashell
08-17-2017, 02:01 PM
I'm pretty sure it's opt-in only? I just opted in through email, and there was a whole page you had to go to, to input your info.

Also, they said that being a featured Phrend would be a paid option in the future.

It says that there will be a fee, which is to be determined, and that once it becomes a paid service, you can opt out before being charged.

Hmm... interesting...

Girly_Girl
08-17-2017, 02:23 PM
I'm pretty sure it's opt-in only? I just opted in through email, and there was a whole page you had to go to, to input your info.

Also, they said that being a featured Phrend would be a paid option in the future.

It says that there will be a fee, which is to be determined, and that once it becomes a paid service, you can opt out before being charged.

Hmm... interesting...

Where did you see this info?

Mal707
08-17-2017, 02:24 PM
It's going really well!! I didn't make much yesterday but I did okay but today man!! It's so amazing to have a job that I can do literally anywhere, even right in front of my stern prudish aunt and uncle, or while shopping for a blow dryer, or whatever. "Hey babe I need chocolates to get my brows did." While I'm at the breakfast table talking about my niece's baptism. praise the lord. thank you jesus.

Omg that's hilarious! haha

seashell
08-17-2017, 02:28 PM
Where did you see this info?

In the program requirements, attached to the featured Phrend email:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8oh8MeoNG3vRTg0S3h4bWl3V1k/view

jamma
08-17-2017, 03:43 PM
New feature... pilot program.. PLEASE PLEASE MAKE SURE ITS only opt IN.. I do NOT want to be on facebook....

It is opt-in only, don't worry.

Girly_Girl
08-17-2017, 08:09 PM
In the program requirements, attached to the featured Phrend email:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8oh8MeoNG3vRTg0S3h4bWl3V1k/view

Featured Phrend email? When was the email from? Only emails I ever get are the ones saying that I am being noticed. I never get emails with news or news letters?

seashell
08-18-2017, 01:19 AM
Anyone know what it means when a customer's cam icon is like a faded green, but not grey? There seem to be 3 colors... bright green, faded, and grey. Does it mean they're currently in a cam show or just not using the app/site at the moment?

CallistoMorgan
08-18-2017, 11:48 AM
So My GIF was finally approved. No slight cleavage even allowed, I ended up taking a very plain pic in crew neck tshirt to finally get approved. I've only been on it a few hours and I've made $14 off one guy. No other messages yet though. Also I searched the first 50 pages and could not even find myself, so I know my placement sucks. I'm just starting guys profiles like crazy and waiting for more bites. I'm headed on an 8 day family vacation tomorrow so Im hoping I can do this instead while im away from cam.

katydiamond123
08-18-2017, 03:15 PM
Featured Phrend email? When was the email from? Only emails I ever get are the ones saying that I am being noticed. I never get emails with news or news letters?

I never get an email from Phrendly either even though I signed up for newsletters and whatever they send when you check the box. I never get one saying I am being noticed. What is that?

katydiamond123
08-18-2017, 03:22 PM
In the program requirements, attached to the featured Phrend email:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8oh8MeoNG3vRTg0S3h4bWl3V1k/view

It's only for their "top rated phrends"!!! So the rest of us know where we stand!!!

Now they are giving the top rated phrends the chance to buy placement when they are
already "top rated" but not the rest of us?

JayzGirl
08-18-2017, 06:52 PM
I received the featured Phrend email. Don't know if I will be opting in, though....

ep2002
08-19-2017, 05:09 AM
I wonder if some guys see my age and don't star me or contact me because they think I'm too old and want someone younger. I'm 38 and I'm thinking that a lot of guys are looking for real connections or someone to meet up with in real life, and they want someone 18-25. Not to sound conceited, but I look really good in my gifs and I'm not making a lot on here. Maybe I should've lied about my age. lol I wonder how much the top girls make.

I have to say I do think it's my age & I'm way older than the both of you. :( I don't care about my age, but some sites just want all the young ones LOL, others like us ALL.


Some of these guys have horrible communication skills haha, just like really boring. Even when talking about sex!

Usually when they are like this, I just ask question after question lol.

I'm just shocked they can ever get a gf the way they DON'T talk. It's like pulling teeth.

I do better talking with cam guys than I do on here. I don't get it. If they think we are gf material, then why is it sooo difficult?




I was excited when I finally got approved but after $10 in like a week and a half not so much now lol. I'm 39 though so maybe that's part of the reason. I hadn't thought about that.

I think that's why.


My fat John Oliver closed his account :(

*wipes away a single tear*

How can you tell when they close their accounts?


Featured Phrend email? When was the email from? Only emails I ever get are the ones saying that I am being noticed. I never get emails with news or news letters?

Yeh I don't get any mail other than those notices too. :(


It's only for their "top rated phrends"!!! So the rest of us know where we stand!!!

Now they are giving the top rated phrends the chance to buy placement when they are
already "top rated" but not the rest of us?

Terrible. And I STILL don't know how you know what page you are on. I don't even know how to search for women, all I see are men & no way to change gender. Can someone pls. explain.

Thanks

seashell
08-19-2017, 06:16 AM
When they close their accounts and you try to message them, it just says "____ has closed their account."

To find your placement, put your internet browser into private mode, and go to Phrendly. Leave the settings as "I'm a Man interested in Women". Look through the pages until you find yourself.

If conversation slows down, I ask them if they want to see pics. Then, naughtier pics. Then, send a gift for nudes. Tease them with things they can't refuse... if they're not as chatty, they're probably not looking for GFE, they just want sexy talk and nudes. Ask them to send you pics, too.

blondhottie
08-19-2017, 11:15 AM
I tried messaging a guy who I haven't talked to in a while who spent decent money and it said "message not sent" and something about carrier pigeons. This means he blocked me, right? We were having pleasant conversation, but I think he got sick of trying to video chat with me when I wasn't available. I would have gone for it, but he always tried to video chat when I was either out in public, working my regular job, or sleeping! Damn. :(

katydiamond123
08-21-2017, 02:17 AM
Posted by ep2002
<<<<<<Terrible. And I STILL don't know how you know what page you are on. I don't even know how to search for women, all I see are men & no way to change gender. Can someone pls. explain.>>>>>>

I have 2 browsers. I use Google and am logged in with my account there so i can see Women Looking for Men on that one and use it to access Phrendly.

Then I have Firefox and don't log in. I set it to Men Looking for Women. Then you can set any preferences such as age wanted and other things or just leave it on NEWEST FIRST or PHRENDLY FORMULA. Search for yourself among the women. Or use your age listed and search from 20-30 if you in that age range. You will find yourself faster if you narrow the age down in your search because less people come up.

Then keep both browsers and look at both every couple of days. Hope this helps too. I never thought of Private Mode, that's a good idea too. We all do it differently!

seashell
08-21-2017, 08:02 AM
It just occurred to me that Phrendly is a lot like the counseling app I used to use... anyone ever used Talkspace? It was about $100/month, I could text my therapist at any time, and they would respond back to me with thoughts/advice/whatever. Sometimes with voice, or pictures, or just text.

I dunno, I get a lot of Phrends who tell me their life problems... with some dick pics sprinkled in.

katydiamond123
08-21-2017, 08:34 AM
I am wondering about this: If you give a client from camming the link to your Phrendly room that's on your profile and they come to the site to talk to you with your link that's on your profile (the one that goes directly to you) , do they get the usual $5 to spend ( we get $3.50) or do they get $10 to spend? I was under the impression they got $10. Or do they have to sign up and spend a certain amount before THEY get $10? I'd like to know ahead of time if we are getting a longer conversation or shorter one with them because I'd like to know whether they leave after a few lines and go talk to someone else! :-))

jamma
08-21-2017, 05:05 PM
I am wondering about this: If you give a client from camming the link to your Phrendly room that's on your profile and they come to the site to talk to you with your link that's on your profile (the one that goes directly to you) , do they get the usual $5 to spend ( we get $3.50) or do they get $10 to spend? I was under the impression they got $10. Or do they have to sign up and spend a certain amount before THEY get $10? I'd like to know ahead of time if we are getting a longer conversation or shorter one with them because I'd like to know whether they leave after a few lines and go talk to someone else! :-))

If you use your Tell-A-Friend link, they'll get $10 instead of the standard $5.

Girly_Girl
08-22-2017, 08:59 AM
Anyone know why I would still be seeing the message "member has gif that hasnt been approved yet" on members profile? I've been talking to him for over a month now? Is it a glitch or something?

ep2002
08-22-2017, 10:02 AM
When they close their accounts and you try to message them, it just says "____ has closed their account."

To find your placement, put your internet browser into private mode, and go to Phrendly. Leave the settings as "I'm a Man interested in Women". Look through the pages until you find yourself.

If conversation slows down, I ask them if they want to see pics. Then, naughtier pics. Then, send a gift for nudes. Tease them with things they can't refuse... if they're not as chatty, they're probably not looking for GFE, they just want sexy talk and nudes. Ask them to send you pics, too.

Thank you.

What does it say when they block you?

So you send them pics (clothed) without charging them?

seashell
08-22-2017, 10:19 AM
Thank you.

What does it say when they block you?

So you send them pics (clothed) without charging them?

When they block you, it says "Message not sent. Carrier pigeons must be on strike."

I send non-nude teaser pics when I first start chatting with them, to pique their interest and get them ready to send gifts. After that, if they want any pics, they have to pay. I'll tell them what I'm wearing right now, and if they want me to take a pic just for them, they need to send a lil somethin'.