View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
blondhottie
10-08-2017, 08:19 AM
^^^LOL, sounds a lot like the freeloaders with camming "BB, show tits/ass/pussy first and then I go private!" Bullshit!
One thing I noticed about Phrendly is that some guys are impatient and will move on to another girl if you don't message them back right away. When I first signed up, I didn't have much time to go on Phrendly because I had a vanilla job and cammed on the side. I would often take a day or two to reply to their messages (and after 24 hours, you don't even get paid for replying), and at that point, a lot of them wouldn't message me back. They want you to respond right away. Probably why my placement sucks. lol
dragonflyy
10-08-2017, 11:42 AM
This guy says he'll send me champagne for a picture of my ass and he "swears on his dog's life" (poor dog) but only after I send the picture.
Can't blame the dude for trying, but I hope there are no girls on the app who are actually dense enough to fall for that.
Chris, those types are insufferable. "Babe I promise! You can trust me! Blah blah blah" In what world do you expect to get the product before paying, when there's no way to ensure that you'll pay?
trustfundkiller
10-08-2017, 02:09 PM
^^^LOL, sounds a lot like the freeloaders with camming "BB, show tits/ass/pussy first and then I go private!" Bullshit!
One thing I noticed about Phrendly is that some guys are impatient and will move on to another girl if you don't message them back right away. When I first signed up, I didn't have much time to go on Phrendly because I had a vanilla job and cammed on the side. I would often take a day or two to reply to their messages (and after 24 hours, you don't even get paid for replying), and at that point, a lot of them wouldn't message me back. They want you to respond right away. Probably why my placement sucks. lol
It usually takes me a couple of hours to get back to texts because I don't have time to obsess over Phrendly (it's far from being my best gig, so to speak), but I will say that your response rate is much better if you can reply ASAP. If you wait too long, their dick is soft again and/or they're out of drinks and therefore no response. I'm still having huge waves of new guys messaging me everyday but there's still the issue of them disappearing once their credit is out. I've also noticed that these new guys are unwilling to pay for nudes. Seems like a few months ago, guys were happy to send gifts in exchange for nudes. These new guys? Nope, once you mention the word "gift" poof - they're gone! And good riddance, honestly.
trustfundkiller
10-08-2017, 02:16 PM
Chris, those types are insufferable. "Babe I promise! You can trust me! Blah blah blah" In what world do you expect to get the product before paying, when there's no way to ensure that you'll pay?
They're obnoxious to say the least, and they think they're sooooo cunning and clever.
Spemily
10-09-2017, 09:10 PM
I'm surprised to hear some of you are getting so many new messages. All my regulars have disappeared and I've only made $10 on Phrendly this month. It's very, very quiet for me. Maybe Phrendly is driving new people to a specific landing page that features some of you girls that are getting a ton of newbies.
TheBrownFox
10-09-2017, 09:24 PM
I don't have a lot of respect for these guys in the first place, but this one kid says his favorite rapper is Lil Wayne. He doesn't like Biggie or Tupac. Horrible, truly. That's like saying your favorite rock band is Nickelback.
LMFAO! #Fuckboy
dragonflyy
10-09-2017, 09:32 PM
Oh, yay, things are picking up! The vast majority is still from regulars, but I've had a good dozen new messages and maybe 25-30 stars.
dragonflyy
10-10-2017, 07:51 AM
I wish there were a "star/unstar all" button.
LadyGodga
10-10-2017, 01:06 PM
I wish there were a "star/unstar all" button.
This would help the carpal tunnel I've developed from countless hours of starring people on this damn site
dragonflyy
10-10-2017, 01:32 PM
This would help the carpal tunnel I've developed from countless hours of starring people on this damn site
Ugh, right?
* Five years from now, a class action lawsuit in which we all demand financial compensation for the carpal tunnel we've got due to the repetitive *tap tap tap*ing *
I've genuinely been toying with the idea of building or buying some sort of robot type of thing that'll just tap in the same place at the right interval, forever.
Mal707
10-10-2017, 01:40 PM
Star/unstar button would be awesome. I don't even star everyone cuz it's too much of a pain. I figure that button might look suspicious to some of the guys tho.
dragonflyy
10-10-2017, 01:50 PM
Star/unstar button would be awesome. I don't even star everyone cuz it's too much of a pain. I figure that button might look suspicious to some of the guys tho.
They could have it for the girls only. There are a few features that I suspect are only on female accounts, tbh.
Burt Macklin, FBI
10-10-2017, 02:34 PM
I could see it having a high potential for abuse. Maybe it could only be used once a month?
WendiStarr
10-10-2017, 02:48 PM
Phrendly is unusually dead for me today.
dragonflyy
10-10-2017, 03:32 PM
I could see it having a high potential for abuse. Maybe it could only be used once a month?
That's true.. maybe that, or fortnightly, or only after changing gifs?
It'd be nice if it also had options to exclude those who weren't "long lost phrends", to avoid the weird situation of repeatedly starring and unstarring guys you're relatively actively chatting with, lol.
seashell
10-11-2017, 02:05 PM
I just tried starring/unstarring guys for the first time tonight... and it paid off! One of the first guys I did it to messaged me back, and sent about $50 worth of gifts.
I starred/unstarred for about 10 pages after that, but nothing else yet. XD
Burt Macklin, FBI
10-11-2017, 10:26 PM
I would KILL for a last word feature. I know it goes against the site and would be totally unfair but ugh if I could just tell someone to enjoy being alone with their hand tonight after blocking me because I wouldn't meet up with them while delicately explaining the benefits of the site....
i am not feeling very "phrendly" rn
blondhottie
10-12-2017, 08:34 AM
I think it's bullshit how guys can include their Snapchat username in their profiles, or sneak their phone numbers like this "I'm a 773fun 555loving 1515guy who loves to have a good time" but women's gifs get rejected if we're showing the slightest hint of cleavage! How is that fair?
trustfundkiller
10-12-2017, 08:59 AM
I would KILL for a last word feature. I know it goes against the site and would be totally unfair but ugh if I could just tell someone to enjoy being alone with their hand tonight after blocking me because I wouldn't meet up with them while delicately explaining the benefits of the site....
i am not feeling very "phrendly" rn
YES!
I got blocked yesterday for hurting someone's precious feel-feels after insinuating that he was cheap, and I felt really salty over the fact that I couldn't properly tell him to fuck off.
LadyGodga
10-12-2017, 09:30 AM
I am livid. Phrendly hasn't been notifying me on my cell of new messages and I can't always be at a computer. Needless to say, I've missed out on multiple opportunities now and of course, my placement will suffer. That's fucked up.
LadyGodga
10-12-2017, 09:43 AM
I'm not gonna lie, I may have sent a really bitchy email to Phrendly support. I still do my best to work my ass off on here. I used to pull in 500-800 a week and all of a sudden one Monday, I got nothing. No stars, no messages, nothing. I thought it was just a bad day but this continued week after week. Thank GOD this isn't my only source of income. I don't receive messages like I used to and now Phrendly wants to royally fuck me in the ass by not telling me when I'm getting messages? No, I'm fucking pissed off. I have made so much money FOR them and I don't think anyone deserves half the shit they put up with on here. And they have the nerve to sit around and tell me that it's my fault when I'm starring so many guys that this alone should be my full time job.
I just don't think we get paid enough for the constant errors, malfunctions, dick pics, unwarranted sexual fanfic. Like what the actual fuck.
trustfundkiller
10-12-2017, 05:56 PM
Yikes, just encountered a user named "Ahmed" who told me he's 17 and "looking for fun". If by "fun" he means looking for a chaperone to take him to Chuck E. Cheese, wonderful! I reported his lil ass to Phrendly since the app is obviously 18+.
trustfundkiller
10-13-2017, 12:29 PM
Why do I even bother asking these fine gentlemen if they have any "exciting" plans for the weekend? We all know sitting at home with Doritos dust on their fingers and fapping to Pornhub is about as "exciting" as it's going to get for them.
Burt Macklin, FBI
10-13-2017, 12:35 PM
Why do I even bother asking these fine gentlemen if they have any "exciting" plans for the weekend? We all know sitting at home with Doritos dust on their fingers and fapping to Pornhub is about as "exciting" as it's going to get for them.
They all have exciting plans: Watching their bank accounts empty as they send us gifts.
trustfundkiller
10-13-2017, 12:36 PM
They all have exciting plans: Watching their bank accounts empty as they send us gifts.
That's my exciting plan for the weekend!
StormieKnight
10-14-2017, 04:09 AM
LadyGodga are you signed into the desktop site and on the app at the same time? I'm a noob to this site in particular so idk shit lol. It just came to mind because I see the option in settings to receive sms when not on phrendly. If that's the case they should definitely get that code fixed imo.
katydiamond123
10-14-2017, 03:28 PM
LadyGodga are you signed into the desktop site and on the app at the same time? I'm a noob to this site in particular so idk shit lol. It just came to mind because I see the option in settings to receive sms when not on phrendly. If that's the case they should definitely get that code fixed imo.
I am signed into both and my Imac makes a very loud sound and my iphone makes a noise too. Did you check your NOTIFICATION settings on your cellphone. Sometimes things get changed with other apps. Or check the volume button on your phone. I dropped mine and it turned off the volume button partway and I wondered why I was getting nothing on it. On an Iphone you can go to Notifications and scroll down to an actual Phrendly part where you can set all things for Phrendly. Just in case that's the problem.
When I also turn on my Ipad nothing rings or makes noise anymore. Although everything works I don't hear new people or stars. It must confuse Phrendly when there are 3 things on. So I make sure it's not open or active when I'm using my Ipad too. Hope this helps!
seashell
10-14-2017, 03:55 PM
I had one customer say my video chat icon turned orange when I was camming with another customer... what the heck? Anyone know what orange means? It would be weird if they could see we were "live" with someone else
Burt Macklin, FBI
10-14-2017, 04:27 PM
Orange means you busy. ;) They can only see if it they are in the app, which I guess doesn't help. I'd just pull a Shaggy and deny deny deny.
trustfundkiller
10-15-2017, 03:25 PM
Does anyone know what it means when some random guy shows up in your inbox and it says "_____'s Relationship Speed is normal. Be respectful and nice." but yet they didn't initiate a conversation with you? I've responded before and ended up getting paid, but I'm afraid to respond to those in the event that the app decides that I'm the initiator and charges me. Of course, I'd block immediately in the event of that happening but...
dragonflyy
10-15-2017, 03:47 PM
Lmao, phrendly's system of blocking messages about outside contact/payment backfired on me and I found it amusing - trying to tell a guy that it's far easier to stay on Phrendly than to try to work out payment via venmo or something else, and phrendly tells me that outside payment isn't allowed.. no shit, babe, going for the opposite of that :P
trustfundkiller
10-15-2017, 04:28 PM
Sometimes these kids really get on my nerves, and I'm a bitch by nature so it's not a good combination. This kid refers to me as the "slowest texter ever" and I'm tempted to tell him he's the most boring texter ever. What am I supposed to say to a one word response? I'll eventually think of a creative BS response to keep the conversation going, but I'm not going to wrack my brain thinking of a response I can give in nanoseconds in the name of $0.35.
blondhottie
10-15-2017, 05:27 PM
I ask them what they're up to right now a lot, or ask how are you? Sometimes I'll message back a smiley or winky face just to make a quick 35 cents. lol :)
Sometimes these kids really get on my nerves, and I'm a bitch by nature so it's not a good combination. This kid refers to me as the "slowest texter ever" and I'm tempted to tell him he's the most boring texter ever. What am I supposed to say to a one word response? I'll eventually think of a creative BS response to keep the conversation going, but I'm not going to wrack my brain thinking of a response I can give in nanoseconds in the name of $0.35.
trustfundkiller
10-15-2017, 06:34 PM
I ask them what they're up to right now a lot, or ask how are you? Sometimes I'll message back a smiley or winky face just to make a quick 35 cents. lol :)
I've been sending pictures of Grumpy Cat all day - surprisingly versatile. Unsolicited dick pic? Grumpy cat! You're a slow texter? Grumpy cat! What's your Snapchat? Grumpy cat! Can I have your real number? Grumpy cat!
blondhottie
10-15-2017, 08:12 PM
I've been sending pictures of Grumpy Cat all day - surprisingly versatile. Unsolicited dick pic? Grumpy cat! You're a slow texter? Grumpy cat! What's your Snapchat? Grumpy cat! Can I have your real number? Grumpy cat!
LOL that's hilarious! :)
blondhottie
10-15-2017, 08:14 PM
I just searched for myself and I'm on page 87 out of 476 when you search for women ages 20-45. Yikes! No wonder I'm not making much on here.
LadyGodga
10-15-2017, 08:45 PM
LadyGodga are you signed into the desktop site and on the app at the same time? I'm a noob to this site in particular so idk shit lol. It just came to mind because I see the option in settings to receive sms when not on phrendly. If that's the case they should definitely get that code fixed imo.
I always receive sms as long as my laptop is shut even if Phrendly is open in a tab. I also still receive messages on my phone if it's closed. I don't have to be signed out. This is the first time I've had issues with it.
LadyGodga
10-15-2017, 08:47 PM
I am signed into both and my Imac makes a very loud sound and my iphone makes a noise too. Did you check your NOTIFICATION settings on your cellphone. Sometimes things get changed with other apps. Or check the volume button on your phone. I dropped mine and it turned off the volume button partway and I wondered why I was getting nothing on it. On an Iphone you can go to Notifications and scroll down to an actual Phrendly part where you can set all things for Phrendly. Just in case that's the problem.
When I also turn on my Ipad nothing rings or makes noise anymore. Although everything works I don't hear new people or stars. It must confuse Phrendly when there are 3 things on. So I make sure it's not open or active when I'm using my Ipad too. Hope this helps!
Yeah, I checked everything. In fact, I'm receiving messages from a reg rn as we speak. So I know it's working and not my error. It was Phrendly and they kinda just fucked me and still have yet to respond to my email. Since it's the weekend, i'm gonna give them the benefit of the doubt and wait until Wednesday before I reach out to Jamma.
FunkieAngie
10-15-2017, 09:00 PM
Hi! Do you have service for european girls yet? If not, when do you expect to expand? I really love your site :-( is it possible to use/buy an american number for the service? No idea if it is possible... thanks!
TheBrownFox
10-15-2017, 09:15 PM
Lmao, phrendly's system of blocking messages about outside contact/payment backfired on me and I found it amusing - trying to tell a guy that it's far easier to stay on Phrendly than to try to work out payment via venmo or something else, and phrendly tells me that outside payment isn't allowed.. no shit, babe, going for the opposite of that :P
This sort of reminds me of ImLive's customer service people on the ImLive forums. You could tell them about an annoying member trying to take you off-site, and they'll just respond with their stupid copy/paste response of "Hosts are NOT allowed to discuss offsite contact." Um...DUH, idiot. Did you even READ anything I said? Lmao.
blondhottie
10-16-2017, 01:11 AM
I think my age is why I don't make much on here. I'm 38 and when I browse through the women, most of them are younger than me. I look cute in my gif and I'm good about answering messages quickly. (But when I first joined, I was slower about responding to messages-not sure if that permanently fucked me.) I check Phrendly a few times a day and star new guys-I star everybody. So, I'm thinking guys see my age and think "Nah, too old." I can pass for younger-wish we could lie about our age on there!
ChubbyCherub
10-16-2017, 05:55 AM
I think my age is why I don't make much on here. I'm 38 and when I browse through the women, most of them are younger than me. I look cute in my gif and I'm good about answering messages quickly. (But when I first joined, I was slower about responding to messages-not sure if that permanently fucked me.) I check Phrendly a few times a day and star new guys-I star everybody. So, I'm thinking guys see my age and think "Nah, too old." I can pass for younger-wish we could lie about our age on there!
I’ve always responded within seconds to minutes, have a cute GIF, etc., but I’m 35, and I’m on page 9,999 now when Inused to be on page 4. I feel your pain girl. :(
xxtinamariexx
10-16-2017, 11:36 AM
I am livid. Phrendly hasn't been notifying me on my cell of new messages and I can't always be at a computer. Needless to say, I've missed out on multiple opportunities now and of course, my placement will suffer. That's fucked up.
This has happened to me too, I have suddenly stopped getting notifications to my phone. I have gotten their "long lost phrends" message ... but NOTHING from guys. So it is not just you. I have done nothing different. I have tried to Stopping the app in my phone settings. checking the permissions. and nothing (In phone settings - apps - application manager - phrendly - Notifications - allow ) mine were set correctly and I didn't know this was there.
xxtinamariexx
10-16-2017, 11:39 AM
I am signed into both and my Imac makes a very loud sound and my iphone makes a noise too. Did you check your NOTIFICATION settings on your cellphone. Sometimes things get changed with other apps. Or check the volume button on your phone. I dropped mine and it turned off the volume button partway and I wondered why I was getting nothing on it. On an Iphone you can go to Notifications and scroll down to an actual Phrendly part where you can set all things for Phrendly. Just in case that's the problem.
When I also turn on my Ipad nothing rings or makes noise anymore. Although everything works I don't hear new people or stars. It must confuse Phrendly when there are 3 things on. So I make sure it's not open or active when I'm using my Ipad too. Hope this helps!
I get no notification sound or Icon.. nothing... but I get them for all other text messages on my phone, just not phrendly
xxtinamariexx
10-16-2017, 11:44 AM
I'm almost 50... and everyone that texts me wants to date :O they are looking for love, that special someone.. I don't have people that just want me to send them nudes... or want to sext all day long... :'(
Mal707
10-16-2017, 12:10 PM
Does anyone know what it means when some random guy shows up in your inbox and it says "_____'s Relationship Speed is normal. Be respectful and nice." but yet they didn't initiate a conversation with you? I've responded before and ended up getting paid, but I'm afraid to respond to those in the event that the app decides that I'm the initiator and charges me. Of course, I'd block immediately in the event of that happening but...
Oh ya, I was nervous responding to those at first too, but every time I have so far, I've been the recipient of the payment if they start talking. So I think it's fine to initiate in that case. I've noticed that many times with those the guy is trying to call me first (without having said anything). Maybe the "relationship speed is.." message shows up when they try to call.
Bridgetxo
10-16-2017, 02:30 PM
I'm almost 50... and everyone that texts me wants to date :O they are looking for love, that special someone.. I don't have people that just want me to send them nudes... or want to sext all day long... :'(
Everyone that texts me wants to date also and I'm 27. I rarely get people that want me to send them nudes or vids. It's so difficult for me to get gifts on here. Most people want to chat and get to know me. Especially this past week, it's been all dudes looking to date. I wish I could find someone to spoil me and send me champagne!
seashell
10-16-2017, 05:51 PM
Is it my imagination, or are today's new dudes hotter than usual?
trustfundkiller
10-16-2017, 06:24 PM
Is it my imagination, or are today's new dudes hotter than usual?
There have been some really good looking guys lately! One is clingy as hell though, so it makes sense as to why he can't find a girl to give him attention in real life free of charge. It's sad. Kinda makes me want to send the kid off with a copy of "The Game" by Neil Strauss so he can learn how to pick up women. But obviously, that's not good for my wallet so that's a lesson he'll have to learn on his own. :D
Selina M
10-17-2017, 03:40 PM
This sounds super intriguing actually. I can't cam for career purposes, but this seems like a decent option. Does Phrendly store the gif for any reason? Like if I delete my account, that's it, no trace swimming around on the web?