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Mal707
02-19-2017, 08:48 PM
What an ass that guy was. At least you got his $$ Haha Yea, you do have to have thick skin for this kinda work for sure. I've gotten so many "f*ck you's" and other rude comments advertising on dating sites Lol

SamanthaSugar
02-20-2017, 12:52 AM
I'm having problems with my hustle on here and would like to know how some of you ladies make your $. Ive been working the site for 5 days now and have made $95 and thats with zero advertising. It seems like a lot of these guys are clueless to how the site works or they think it's a dating site looking for LTR. Ive been cammimg for 7 years and the cammimg guys pretty much know what the deal is but with a lot of these dudes they think it's a full on dating site and I dont want to mislead anyone. So my question to you is that when guys contact you do you elude to the fact that this is not a dating site but a site to be naughty on or something to that effect?

Jupiter77
02-20-2017, 12:56 AM
It is a dating site in an aspect.
GFE
So I go along with whatever they think
When they ask me what I do for a living, I tell them I am a free lance biologist.
and to be honest its not really a naughty site for me. Only about half of them get nudes and the other half I have normal conversations with
Somebody talked to me on the phone last night while we played a video game on PS4 because I told them I needed help making money on GTA lol.

SamanthaSugar
02-20-2017, 01:38 AM
Thanks for the input. I do like the site and I can see potentially making some good $.
Just one more question - When they ask if you are looking a LTR do you always say yes?

Mal707
02-20-2017, 01:49 AM
To that question, I say I'm just here to have fun flirting, chatting, and sexting online but that I'm not looking for anything serious or to meet in person lol

Snowy0Star
02-20-2017, 02:05 AM
Yeah so many just reply back with their number thinking I'm just going to get them off and show them my pussy for free ugh lol I just send them a little message encouraging them to join Phrendly with my sign up link lol Not sure if anyone else is having this issue but after so many ad's on CL, the site won't let me post more using the same email. I have like 4 or 5 different emails, but eventually, I'll max out the limit of ad's allowed by Craigslist for each email. Not sure if there's any way to get around this besides just continuing to make new email addresses, which kinda sucks.

might help
https://10minutemail.com/10MinuteMail/index.html?dswid=-7618

Snowy0Star
02-20-2017, 02:07 AM
How did the juicy ad thing go ?

msbutton
02-20-2017, 07:18 AM
ookay can anyone help I signed up for phrendly.com and I accidently set it up as woman seeking woman ... how do I change that? I cant find it anywhere on the site

Jupiter77
02-20-2017, 11:50 AM
I literally will tell them anything they wanna hear.
Baby you want a LTR? I'm your girl. Shit we are getting married next year? I cant wait to pick out my dress!

Jupiter77
02-20-2017, 11:53 AM
ookay can anyone help I signed up for phrendly.com and I accidently set it up as woman seeking woman ... how do I change that? I cant find it anywhere on the site

contact support love, :)

SamanthaSugar
02-20-2017, 01:33 PM
Lol Jupiter77! Thanks girl :) You rock

Mal707
02-20-2017, 02:02 PM
How did the juicy ad thing go ?

Havent tried yet but I'm gonna do it today. I was up till 3am last night cuz my dad couldn't sleep and had the tv on lol So late start today

PrettyPuppet
02-20-2017, 03:03 PM
Has anyone had to contact support before? I had to reset my password but each time the page just resets and when I try to login it tells me to contact support. I sent them a message, but it's been days and no response from support or any messages from guys.

Jupiter77
02-20-2017, 05:19 PM
Has anyone had to contact support before? I had to reset my password but each time the page just resets and when I try to login it tells me to contact support. I sent them a message, but it's been days and no response from support or any messages from guys.

I would email them again love. My bestfriend didnt know about the no nudity for GIFS and has been waiting for about a week now for support to email her back

Jupiter77
02-20-2017, 10:29 PM
Can we post nudes in the regular pictures?

Not sure, but I wouldnt just in case because once there are nudes it is really hard to get your account public again because the delete button disapeared.
I would make sure before you do it :)

Nikki_Fox
02-20-2017, 11:14 PM
I had really quick responses from customer support

jamma
02-21-2017, 08:58 AM
Can we post nudes in the regular pictures?

If by regular pictures, you mean additional photos, no -- no nudity allowed on the public-facing site.

xxtinamariexx
02-21-2017, 10:31 AM
Okay My question. are you guys signing up as your cam persona or someone new? My persona is married.. so if this was a "dating site" well that really wouldn't work out? wouldn't it be more of just another sexting site? or am I reading into all this wrong

Jupiter77
02-21-2017, 10:42 AM
Okay My question. are you guys signing up as your cam persona or someone new? My persona is married.. so if this was a "dating site" well that really wouldn't work out? wouldn't it be more of just another sexting site? or am I reading into all this wrong
I use the same name, but the people that are on phrendly are not the people you would find on a cam site so I havent had any issues

Mal707
02-21-2017, 03:05 PM
Goddamn they catch you so fast on MeetMe. It's like I get 5 minutes to shoot out my message before they lock me out lmao!

xxtinamariexx
02-21-2017, 05:04 PM
ookay can anyone help I signed up for phrendly.com and I accidently set it up as woman seeking woman ... how do I change that? I cant find it anywhere on the site

I signed up as woman seeking man and it is still telling me my gender doesn't match my gif's :( not sure why I emailed support this afternoon but no one has gotten back to me

Jupiter77
02-21-2017, 06:39 PM
i don't know if i should be ashamed of this or not, but i had one dude who just could not go on with his life until he gave me his number.
He did this:

555
555
5555

and spelled it out. Each time i'd say, "are you messaging me?" "i can't see anything." "????" he got really frustrated and spent a good chunk of actual money (which hardly ever happens for me) trying to think of different ways to give me his contact info and eventually i rewarded him with some sexting and i think that's the most a guy has spent on me on this site haha.

I think i'm gonna employ this tactic in the future if a guy won't back down when i politely decline to share my info. It was kinda funny seeing this guy keep reupping his drinks just to send me the same 10 digits over and over.

i do that too!!

xxtinamariexx
02-21-2017, 09:09 PM
I don't know if I should be ashamed of this or not, but I had one dude who just could not go on with his life until he gave me his number.
He did this:

555
555
5555

And spelled it out. Each time I'd say, "are you messaging me?" "I can't see anything." "????" He got really frustrated and spent a good chunk of actual money (which hardly ever happens for me) trying to think of different ways to give me his contact info and eventually I rewarded him with some sexting and I think that's the most a guy has spent on me on this site haha.

I think I'm gonna employ this tactic in the future if a guy won't back down when I politely decline to share my info. It was kinda funny seeing this guy keep reupping his drinks just to send me the same 10 digits over and over.

When I worked for a bigger named sexting company that was something I am assuming like arousr.. or like a text121.. we HAD to do that, guys would try everything to send in their number, we would just tell them hey hun just got something that said censored with stars **censored** .. what did you try to send me... this seemed to work just fine, if they wanted us to send them "ours" well, we just weren't comfortable. as those sites we weren't allowed to ever meet anyway. non of the personas were us in any way,shape or form! the only number that was ever allowed to go through was us sending the UK suicide prevention hotline to anyone that even mentioned killing themselves.. it was the law... very strict

DonaDiabla
02-21-2017, 09:25 PM
You can use your cam persona name and the guys will never notice :) They are pretty cool ;)


Okay My question. are you guys signing up as your cam persona or someone new? My persona is married.. so if this was a "dating site" well that really wouldn't work out? wouldn't it be more of just another sexting site? or am I reading into all this wrong

Nikki_Fox
02-22-2017, 10:37 PM
Well - my phrendly career just hit the skids - a Phrendly facebook ad hit my timeline and one of my vanilla clients liked it - shit shit shit -

xxtinamariexx
02-23-2017, 09:18 AM
Well - my phrendly career just hit the skids - a Phrendly facebook ad hit my timeline and one of my vanilla clients liked it - shit shit shit -

Nikki did you have the 2 combined? or click the share for facebook or twitter... or anything? was this your personal fb account or your camming one?

I just don't get why everything has to go through facebook... there is no need...

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 10:13 AM
no they were not combined - I only have a personal fb and I did not use FB pics or instagram for this very reason

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 10:21 AM
nope the ad just showed up in my timeline on my tablet - a tablet that is squeaky clean - I never open ANYTHING adult on it - not even SW has been accessed on it - If I am looking at my emails I will not even open SW email on it - if I get a moderation issue notice in my email while on my tablet - I pick up my phone and go to the email

miss.a.p1600
02-23-2017, 10:37 AM
Could be FB linked you via IP address. Facebook is like the silent stalker. But how the ad just auto posted to your timeline is creepy. You probably need to change your settings. I have mine so all apps post as "only me" who can see it so I can review the data first and decide which audience I want to see that post.

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 11:04 AM
a mutual friend/client "liked" the ad so it showed up in my timeline - I am actually "grateful" this happened or I would not have known - ya know?

After my initial panic I decided I just need to get my cam name off of the account and clean it up a bit - I really dont care that anyone sees the account in a "toned down " version - hell all of the comments under the ad were people tagging other people to do it / sign up - it had 5.3k views

yes I definitely need to look at my setting - stalker bullshit is correct

JGB2009
02-23-2017, 11:29 AM
How many text do they get out of $10.00?

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 12:47 PM
I think it is .50 per text but someone should verify that

Luvlyone
02-23-2017, 01:30 PM
It would be nice if there was a way to know the phrend we are talking to when they call. I send out mass "call me" messages and when they call I have no clue who it is. That is a problem. Guy's love when you show interests and KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

It would also be nice if there was a tab or something that shows our current earnings so we don't have to go to another screen to keep tabs.

Jupiter77
02-23-2017, 01:44 PM
They pay .50, we get .38

jamma
02-23-2017, 01:51 PM
I think it is .50 per text but someone should verify that

@Nikki: Tried to respond to your PM, but your box is full ;(

Snowy0Star
02-23-2017, 01:53 PM
It would be nice if there was a way to know the phrend we are talking to when they call. I send out mass "call me" messages and when they call I have no clue who it is. That is a problem. Guy's love when you show interests and KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

It would also be nice if there was a tab or something that shows our current earnings so we don't have to go to another screen to keep tabs.

maybe im too real and honest to a fault BUT have u considered just letting them know theres no notification system and just ask them who they are ? maybe suggest to them they tell the site to add this feature ? a lot of times if guys recommend things then it happens. i know on SM when multiple guys who request girls to have gold shows they get it a lot faster then trying to fight model support to get it on their own.

jamma
02-23-2017, 02:02 PM
It would be nice if there was a way to know the phrend we are talking to when they call. I send out mass "call me" messages and when they call I have no clue who it is. That is a problem. Guy's love when you show interests and KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

It would also be nice if there was a tab or something that shows our current earnings so we don't have to go to another screen to keep tabs.

It can be helpful to make a contact card on your phone with guys who message you a lot (i.e. the guys likely to call). That way, the card pops up on your phone when he calls. On iOS, we send a contact card with the initial Phrendbot introduction. Clicking that creates a card in your phone's contacts. Sadly, Android doesn't seem to understand the vCard (.vcf) format, so you have to do it manually on Android.

I'll relay the suggestion of an easier way to see your earnings. FWIW, we're working on a few new SMS commands, so something like "/balance" will show you your earnings.

Edited to add: Kinda off topic, but if you're chatting on the web, click the "+Add note to self" under your phrend's picture to keep notes about him. Maybe an SMS command of "/notes" which sends the notes you have on the guy would be handy?

Snowy0Star
02-23-2017, 02:07 PM
Whats a vcard ? i feel old asking that lol- but i am the only person who still calls auto fill t9 because every time i say it no one has any clue what im talking about .

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 02:29 PM
@Nikki: Tried to respond to your PM, but your box is full ;(


Sorry love - I cleared some this am and thought it was good - please try again - thanks

Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 02:34 PM
Jamma - I rarely take the SMS on my phone - I am 98% on my laptop - not sure how it is with others - but yes a way to see/or announce who is calling would be awesome

xxxGothBarbie
02-24-2017, 09:28 AM
I just signed up & am still in the pending mode. I have a few questions about this though. Firstly, can I still advertise on CL with the link like I have seen the other posters doing it on here while in pending mode to ensure I'll get a few hits when approved? Secondly, why can't I just drag & drop pics from my laptop into the add photos section? I ask this bc I don't want to have to use my irl FB pics in fear that those could be traced back to my real fb & create stalkers (which it can if they just google them somehow from what I've heard).

My last question regards the phone & video calls. How much do I make if they call and or video chat me? It's not giving me iptions on what to charge for that & I'm curious as to what you guys are charging just starting out on there. Oh yea, how long does it take to get fully approved on there?
Thanks :)

xxxGothBarbie
02-24-2017, 11:50 AM
They pay .50, we get .38

So how much is a call & a video call to us then? What is the avg rate you guys have yours set at? I'm new as of today haha & can't wait to get on crazy train :)

Nikki_Fox
02-25-2017, 04:45 PM
I think I am set at 21 & 27 for 15 minutes - somewhre in that range - i am not getting a lot of calls so I may be to high for the site/my demographics IDK -will be interesting to hear from others

friendzone
02-26-2017, 07:46 AM
i am having the hardest time getting started on this site and i think i panic-spammed their inbox!! really hoping their customer service can help me! this sounds interesting and would like to try!

DonaDiabla
02-26-2017, 07:49 AM
Thanks,Nikki_Fox, this reminded me that I had my prices set super high. I was at 145 for 2 mins :) I set my prices way lower on this site :) lol


I think I am set at 21 & 27 for 15 minutes - somewhre in that range - i am not getting a lot of calls so I may be to high for the site/my demographics IDK -will be interesting to hear from others

xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2017, 02:12 PM
Thanks,Nikki_Fox, this reminded me that I had my prices set super high. I was at 145 for 2 mins :) I set my prices way lower on this site :) lol

Ya Im gonna do that too bc I need to remember this isn't a "cam" site lol. It's pretty dam vanilla & I love it. Also just to confirm it IS ok that I am sending tit shots in exchange for gifts correct and to sext sometimes? I only give them if they ask then I ask for a gift.

xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2017, 02:18 PM
I just realized that mine were at 1.00 a min for talk & video were 1.67 a min.

xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2017, 02:31 PM
As for the question of what to say on POF...Before POF caught me and closed my acct, I had a sexy POF profile going with arousing pics, but not nudes. Then when the hornballs messaged me, I would send out a generic message advertisement for Phrendly and tell them to look me up once they join cuz I'll send "free" nudes and masturbation vid clips haha I add that the first $10 is free, so they, in essence, would get my nudes "free". I also don't have a problem with not asking for bigger gifts for nudes. Just glad to get the texting money

I did this on ok cupid & got a hit fom some guy texting me that I was a fake LoL I got paranoid & deleted the account . It is ok to advertise thru there with tit pics or whatnot to get them over to phrendly right?

Mal707
02-26-2017, 02:51 PM
I've been called fake and a spammer before too. It's hard to get guys from dating sites to sign up for Phrendly, and on a lot of the apps, they realize you're advertising and just close your acct. So you have to keep signing up over and over again lol I think they did something to my OkCupid because I never get messages on there anymore. When I first signed up, I got loads of messages. I've even tried hopping cities and everything, so it's weird lol As for pics, they'll delete the more provocative ones because they're "inappropriate" so that's kind of annoying too.

KaterinaKutie
02-26-2017, 03:52 PM
How long did it take you guys to get approved? I just finished my damn GIF thing(not my type of thing but I understand it. Not a big fan of my gif but I tried. I like taking pictures with my phone not my macbook. And it flipped my pictures :() and I'm anxiously awaiting approval. I hope it goes quick. I've been wanting to get my account set up since yesterday but I didn't do my makeup until today so I waited to do my GIF