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naomi_doll
05-22-2018, 02:08 PM
Someone just sent me a racy photo of "himself." Turned out it was from a site that features gay men. Ah, if only I didn't want to be nice in hopes I can wrangle him into buying nudes of the person he is actually talking to. Imagine the fun I could have with that... Why was he on a gay porn website? Hm???? ;) I got that guy!!! He will absolutely stop talking to you if you tell him the photo is fake (he'll admit it first though lol)
Burt Macklin, FBI
05-22-2018, 02:13 PM
I got that guy!!! He will absolutely stop talking to you if you tell him the photo is fake (he'll admit it first though lol)
Lol I already called him out on it, but in the nicest way I could manage.
trustfundkiller
05-22-2018, 02:58 PM
I've had a lot of guys send me obviously fake pics. Sometimes I call them out, sometimes I play along. Depends on what kind of mood I'm in lol
Chica
05-22-2018, 03:10 PM
I've had a lot of guys send me obviously fake pics. Sometimes I call them out, sometimes I play along. Depends on what kind of mood I'm in lol
Hi ladies, I have just joined Phrendly after reading this thread for quite some time.
Let's see how it goes but so far I am a little discouraged:((( Basically it's been maybe 6 hours since my profile was approved. So I had many guys who starred me and had toooooons of guys who I starred as well. That's what I was doing pretty much all day today lol. But NO MESSAGES so far:(((((( is there anything else I can do to get guys text me?? I understand it depends on the ranking etc which is unpredictable I guess but just wondering if there is something I can do to make some money in it? I just have 1 Gif so far, profile description and everything seems to be filled out. So I am kind of getting discouraged here:(( any tips?... thanks and wishing you all lots of $$$$$:)
katydiamond123
05-23-2018, 04:36 PM
Hi ladies, I have just joined Phrendly after reading this thread for quite some time.
Let's see how it goes but so far I am a little discouraged:((( Basically it's been maybe 6 hours since my profile was approved. So I had many guys who starred me and had toooooons of guys who I starred as well. That's what I was doing pretty much all day today lol. But NO MESSAGES so far:(((((( is there anything else I can do to get guys text me?? I understand it depends on the ranking etc which is unpredictable I guess but just wondering if there is something I can do to make some money in it? I just have 1 Gif so far, profile description and everything seems to be filled out. So I am kind of getting discouraged here:(( any tips?... thanks and wishing you all lots of $$$$$:)
If you read 3551, 3552, 3567 which were in the last two or three pages it should answer your question. All you can really do is wait after you post your profile. (also if you videochat and do kinky fetishes you will earn more it is like a camming site really you don't make a big income just texting and phone calls aren't as common as the other two) Good luck! :)
Chica
05-24-2018, 08:48 AM
If you read 3551, 3552, 3567 which were in the last two or three pages it should answer your question. All you can really do is wait after you post your profile. (also if you videochat and do kinky fetishes you will earn more it is like a camming site really you don't make a big income just texting and phone calls aren't as common as the other two) Good luck! :)
Thank you so much for your help! Yes, I can do video hat and kinky fetishes ( should I squeeze it in about the fetishes into my profile somehow?). Cause about the video chats I put it but I put that video chats are available after we start texting each other.
Also, do you ladies recommend linking the Instagram account to Phrendly? If so do you have a separate Instagram for this kind of stuff? Or do you link your regular Instagram?
katydiamond123
05-24-2018, 10:58 AM
Thank you so much for your help! Yes, I can do video hat and kinky fetishes ( should I squeeze it in about the fetishes into my profile somehow?). Cause about the video chats I put it but I put that video chats are available after we start texting each other.
Also, do you ladies recommend linking the Instagram account to Phrendly? If so do you have a separate Instagram for this kind of stuff? Or do you link your regular Instagram?
You can't link your Instagram account to Phrendly. Only choose photos from it and post the photos on Phrendly as additional photos.
Most people make an Instagram account under their Phrendly name then link photos from that to Phrendly. You aren't allowed nudes or certain photos. I had a couple removed recently due to the new law in the US. I don't use FB at all they own Instagram anyway. If you are young you don't really need a lot of extra photos, they will be curious what you look like and pay you with gifts to see you. If you post too much on Insta and post it on Phrendly they won't have a reason to pay for photos. The other way to look at it is that if you have extra photos and they love your photos they may message you. Your choice.
I would put whatever you think you want someone to know in your profile. You can use the feature to only videochat after you text. That way you can get an idea of what they want to do in vchat and won't get a vchat at 4 AM. I'll let someone else answer vchat questions as I don't do it on Phrendly.
katydiamond123
05-24-2018, 11:43 AM
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Nimrok,30
My friends know to message first because I don't like messaging first
Hahahaha!! this guy says he is a "thinker" in his profile! I say he's thinking with the wrong brain!! Try the big brain not the little one!!! :):):)
Chica
05-24-2018, 03:00 PM
You can't link your Instagram account to Phrendly. Only choose photos from it and post the photos on Phrendly as additional photos.
Most people make an Instagram account under their Phrendly name then link photos from that to Phrendly. You aren't allowed nudes or certain photos. I had a couple removed recently due to the new law in the US. I don't use FB at all they own Instagram anyway. If you are young you don't really need a lot of extra photos, they will be curious what you look like and pay you with gifts to see you. If you post too much on Insta and post it on Phrendly they won't have a reason to pay for photos. The other way to look at it is that if you have extra photos and they love your photos they may message you. Your choice.
I would put whatever you think you want someone to know in your profile. You can use the feature to only videochat after you text. That way you can get an idea of what they want to do in vchat and won't get a vchat at 4 AM. I'll let someone else answer vchat questions as I don't do it on Phrendly.
Thank you so much for such a detailed answer! Very helpful!! Chatted with a guy for a long time today, made only $50, which I guess it's not bad at all considering it was only texting... now I have to start convincing them to call or chat...he sent few gifts too...
katydiamond123
05-27-2018, 07:21 PM
[QUOTE=Chica;3062739]made only $50, which I guess it's not bad at all considering it was only texting...
That is very good for only texting! sounds like you are doing well. Good luck! :-)
Why has this site been nothing but crickets lately?
Burt Macklin, FBI
05-28-2018, 02:37 PM
Why has this site been nothing but crickets lately?
It has its ups and downs, as with any site of this nature, I'd assume. It's the end of the month, and a holiday, at that. Things will pick up soon. :)
It has its ups and downs, as with any site of this nature, I'd assume. It's the end of the month, and a holiday, at that. Things will pick up soon. :)
You're so right about that.... Plus a lot of my regs are starting to hit me with the "well I can't keep paying for this app..." or simply messaging me less and less or not responding altogether. It's a little disheartening. I need some fresh meat!!! D:
Burt Macklin, FBI
05-28-2018, 11:38 PM
Fresh meat is always good, yes. Keeps things exciting. You will find in time though that when things are slow on the newbie front, you'll have your regulars and "oldies" pop up out of nowhere, throwing coin your way. :)
trustfundkiller
05-29-2018, 09:59 AM
Curious to know if this story sounds familiar to anyone. I'm talking to this guy, he's nice, normal conversation, whatever. Then he sends me this long text about how he flunked his test to get into medical school by 4 points and they suggested he get an MRI (Why an MRI? That's extreme, isn't it? Wouldn't they suggest a tutor before suggesting you get an MRI?). He tells me that he got an MRI and that something is eating his brain tissue although the doctors don't know what it is. I sympathize, tell him that I hope he feels better and that whatever the cause is it turns out to be something treatable.
We gradually transition out of the subject and I don't want to ask too many questions, because shit, if you have a terminal illness it's probably not something you want to talk about (and at a rate of $0.50 per text, at that). He mentions something about how I should "brighten his day" with a picture of my tits, since he's had such a rough week finding out that his brain tissue is being destroyed. Of course, I asked for a gift anyway and we shall see whether or not I get one, as I just asked now.
Why do I have a feeling this kid made up an elaborate story about having a terminal illness in an effort to guilt naive girls into sending free nudes?
Discodolli
05-29-2018, 10:45 AM
Curious to know if this story sounds familiar to anyone. I'm talking to this guy, he's nice, normal conversation, whatever. Then he sends me this long text about how he flunked his test to get into medical school by 4 points and they suggested he get an MRI (Why an MRI? That's extreme, isn't it? Wouldn't they suggest a tutor before suggesting you get an MRI?). He tells me that he got an MRI and that something is eating his brain tissue although the doctors don't know what it is. I sympathize, tell him that I hope he feels better and that whatever the cause is it turns out to be something treatable.
We gradually transition out of the subject and I don't want to ask too many questions, because shit, if you have a terminal illness it's probably not something you want to talk about (and at a rate of $0.50 per text, at that). He mentions something about how I should "brighten his day" with a picture of my tits, since he's had such a rough week finding out that his brain tissue is being destroyed. Of course, I asked for a gift anyway and we shall see whether or not I get one, as I just asked now.
Why do I have a feeling this kid made up an elaborate story about having a terminal illness in an effort to guilt naive girls into sending free nudes?
Sounds like bullshit to me. As someone who has had numerous MRIs, it's something they only order after many other tests (blood tests, x-rays, etc) and for symptoms other than flunking a test. Turn around time for all this is also lengthly. If his brain tissue were being eaten, he'd probably also have worse issues than flunking a test.
Another thing I've noticed is, usually the guys who really have problems they wanna talk about for emotional support are kind and not self entitled. (And some guys genuinely are willing to pay that much to just have a sympathetic ear.) .
Also... This guy sounds like a total idiot because after sending a bunch of texts back and forth trying to scam you, he'll have paid enough that he could have just given you a present for nudes. Personally, if a guy spends enough chatting with me and he's genuinely enjoyable, I occasionally send a freebie. But never would for someone pressuring me.
katydiamond123
05-29-2018, 02:28 PM
Is his name Andy? I just got a message from a guy wanting to see my tits. When I told him to send me a gift and asked if he was new on the site he said No to both and got rude. He said the site is the type of site where people show their tits for free and insinuated I'm the one with the problem. I do send out photos free sometimes when I'm sexting with a regular but that is well over 20-60 texts, not after three. This guy was rude and spent $1.40, so I blocked him as he was typing. Since i hardly ever block someone it felt good to not take abuse from someone today. Usually I just stop talking but get pissed because I see what they are still typing.
The guy who messaged you has found the way he thinks will work to see breasts: Play the sympathy card!! LOL
Discodolli
05-29-2018, 02:36 PM
Is his name Andy? I just got a message from a guy wanting to see my tits. When I told him to send me a gift and asked if he was new on the site he said No to both and got rude. He said the site is the type of site where people show their tits for free and insinuated I'm the one with the problem. I do send out photos free sometimes when I'm sexting with a regular but that is well over 20-60 texts, not after three. This guy was rude and spent $1.40, so I blocked him as he was typing. Since i hardly ever block someone it felt good to not take abuse from someone today. Usually I just stop talking but get pissed because I see what they are still typing.
The guy who messaged you has found the way to see breasts: Play the sympathy card!! LOL
I thank the good lord that these flaming idiots don't get to give us ratings or reviews. I can understand why you blocked him, but honestly on Phrendly if someone is a dick, I just send super low effort answers and let them keep paying to send me their verbal vomit.
xxxGothBarbie
05-29-2018, 05:21 PM
One of my regs has been coming & going for the last few months but will send me a bouquet of roses when I ask him. He's the nice kind except the other day telling me how he would rather jerk off thinking about being with strippers he's fucked in the past LOL. So gross. He's honestly a waste of my time unless he's video chatting & sending gifts too.
I had a real asshole today guys! There’s a guy by the name of Bradley who I’ve talked to a few times before and he would usually send me roses for nudes. Well today he got smart and thought he shouldn’t have to do that anymore because “other girls do it for free” . Who the heck is messing up the game by sending this nasties free nudes ?? D: soon we will have more assholes like Bradley if this continues . Pictures attached so others can appreciate the hilarity as he was a little butthurt by me telling him he’s broke and has a small penis. He blocked me after the last message about the small penis, needless to say ::)
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Burt Macklin, FBI
06-01-2018, 02:10 PM
There might be girls who show off things for free, and that's their game and that's fine. However, I would like to encourage those girls, and you, Baii, to kick it up a notch and send out nudes for even more. I have guys sending me chocolates for nudes that are grainy and old, from back when I wasn't in the shape I am now, let's say. And they act like it's a blessing to them still, only once or twice have I ever had a man complain about those, and then I upsell from there.
Do I have guys who balk at my prices and won't even send me a damn rose? You bet. But, I also have guys who send me champagne for nothing. Bradley doesn't have to be the norm, he can be the exception. ;)
JaneBurgess
06-01-2018, 02:46 PM
I had a real asshole today guys! There’s a guy by the name of Bradley who I’ve talked to a few times before and he would usually send me roses for nudes. Well today he got smart and thought he shouldn’t have to do that anymore because “other girls do it for free” . Who the heck is messing up the game by sending this nasties free nudes ?? D: soon we will have more assholes like Bradley if this continues . Pictures attached so others can appreciate the hilarity as he was a little butthurt by me telling him he’s broke and has a small penis. He blocked me after the last message about the small penis, needless to say ::)
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He's probably lying just to see if you will fall for it. They always claim someone is doing something for free and I remind them plenty of men pay, so they need to as well
trustfundkiller
06-01-2018, 02:53 PM
He could very well be lying to convince you that you're the one who's out of order, but I wouldn't be surprised if there were girls who thought, "Meh, $0.35 for a nude pic. More than I'm used to." and send them for free.
Honestly, I think you're shortchanging yourself if you're sending nudes for roses, too. Whatever floats your boat, $4.50 is $4.50 but I would at least ask for balloons. I don't send nudes for anything less and I rarely get complaints. My own system is rose = selfie, balloons = suggestive nude, chocolate = tits, bouquet = full nude pic, champagne = nude photo set consisting of about 5-10 nudes.
Discodolli
06-01-2018, 03:16 PM
He could very well be lying to convince you that you're the one who's out of order, but I wouldn't be surprised if there were girls who thought, "Meh, $0.35 for a nude pic. More than I'm used to." and send them for free.
Honestly, I think you're shortchanging yourself if you're sending nudes for roses, too. Whatever floats your boat, $4.50 is $4.50 but I would at least ask for balloons. I don't send nudes for anything less and I rarely get complaints. My own system is rose = selfie, balloons = suggestive nude, chocolate = tits, bouquet = full nude pic, champagne = nude photo set consisting of above 5-10 nudes.
Wow, that's impressive. It's hard enough for me to get roses for nudes, but I gladly send them when I get roses. Maybe I'm shortchanging myself but I don't know. Are you sending mobile selfies? What's the photo quality?
Personally, I send a few selfies spaced out for free to guys who engage me in interesting conversations before I start asking for gifts. The more a guy engages in interesting extended conversation, the less I ask for, which tends to turn into longer conversations. I am generous to guys who are polite, smart, and interesting to talk to, as opposed to idiots who I will set high prices for everything. When a guy really seems to like me, I often don't specify a price but ask them to gift me "whatever it's worth to you", which is often more than what I would have asked for. I guess it's not really a very consistent system!
Discodolli
06-01-2018, 03:19 PM
I had a real asshole today guys! There’s a guy by the name of Bradley who I’ve talked to a few times before and he would usually send me roses for nudes. Well today he got smart and thought he shouldn’t have to do that anymore because “other girls do it for free” . Who the heck is messing up the game by sending this nasties free nudes ?? D: soon we will have more assholes like Bradley if this continues . Pictures attached so others can appreciate the hilarity as he was a little butthurt by me telling him he’s broke and has a small penis. He blocked me after the last message about the small penis, needless to say ::)
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I hate those guys. Honestly I just ignore them once they refuse to tip. Their loss. But it's hilarious he kept spending money to tell you off. Jokes on him.
TheBrownFox
06-02-2018, 04:30 AM
However, I would like to encourage those girls, and you, Baii, to kick it up a notch and send out nudes for even more. I have guys sending me chocolates for nudes that are grainy and old, from back when I wasn't in the shape I am now, let's say. And they act like it's a blessing to them still, only once or twice have I ever had a man complain about those, and then I upsell from there.
Thank you for sharing this. I had sort of asked a while back in this thread about what virtual gifts I should require per pic(s), and I pretty much got the usual "Charge what you feel it's worth" response...which wasn't very helpful. :P I just wanted to be sure I wasn't being "too cheap."
TheBrownFox
06-02-2018, 04:33 AM
Honestly, I think you're shortchanging yourself if you're sending nudes for roses, too. Whatever floats your boat, $4.50 is $4.50 but I would at least ask for balloons. I don't send nudes for anything less and I rarely get complaints. My own system is rose = selfie, balloons = suggestive nude, chocolate = tits, bouquet = full nude pic, champagne = nude photo set consisting of about 5-10 nudes.
Yes, this is the kind of answer (detailed) I was looking for a while ago when I posted in here with a question (to make sure I wasn't shortchanging myself). Thank you!
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-02-2018, 11:38 AM
Thank you for sharing this. I had sort of asked a while back in this thread about what virtual gifts I should require per pic(s), and I pretty much got the usual "Charge what you feel it's worth" response...which wasn't very helpful. :P I just wanted to be sure I wasn't being "too cheap."
Eh, charge more than you think you're worth. Not that any of us have a price per se, but referring back to those dark grainy nudes of mine taken by a webcam developed by a dinosaur, man, I started off giving those away for free because I thought there was no way any one would EVER send me even a rose for such crap. Now, unless someone comes out the gate with champagne, it is the first thing anyone gets from me, and for chocolates at that. You will find your groove. I'd say that chocolates is the lowest you should accept for anything showing off a key area (ass, tits, pussy - I charge more for tits/pussy though). Any fetish stuff, champagne, at least. Customs? Even more. If we all hold ourselves to higher standards, then we all make more. :)
xxxGothBarbie
06-02-2018, 09:16 PM
I still need to figure out how to make vids & send them to them for expensive gifts from my phone. Soooo not tech savvvy
Adrienne7
06-04-2018, 06:09 AM
Hello, a couple questions! I haven't had time to read through the whole thread so apologies if it's already been asked:
1) how do gifts show up? Some guy swears he sent me a rose but I don't see a notification or an increase in my balance. Does it show up in the messages?
2) if some guy sends you an unsolicited dick pick... ugh... any way to monetize that? I want to be able to charge them for subjecting me to that :D lol... So far the two guys that did this don't spend anything beyond texts.
I wish there was a feature that required them to buy you at least a rose for sending us unwanted pics!
Discodolli
06-04-2018, 09:07 AM
You'll get a notification in your conversation saying "X sent you a rose". And your balance will go up.
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-04-2018, 02:28 PM
I've had guys send me gifts that didn't come through and swear they did it, and of course, if I don't see it in chat or see my balance credited, I call bullshit. Well, one guy sent me proof, and there it was, 4 times he tried to send chocolate and it said it sent on his end every single time. I told him to sign out, clear his cookies, all of that, and he signed back in and the chocolates disappeared in his view and he sent them again and they went right through.
Just make sure if a guy is claiming a gift was sent, ask that he sign out, and if that "doesn't work," then ask for a screenshot and tell him to contact support if he's not lying and he's diligent about trying to get your gifts to you.
TheBrownFox
06-04-2018, 05:36 PM
I wish there was a feature that required them to buy you at least a rose for sending us unwanted pics!
Same here! Especially the guys who...you'll star them, and then their response to you is an unsolicited dick pic (Can't say hi first? Good grief!).
Has anyone had a problem with payments ???? I was getting every day express pay with no problems. But I haventnt gotta a deposit since the 27th. Starting to wonder if something is wrong . Maybe because of Memorial Day being a bank holiday it set the timing way off or if something else is wrong ? :/ i have BB&T. I kinda need the money I’ve been earning so I’m stressing
ChubbyCherub
06-05-2018, 06:32 AM
Has anyone had a problem with payments ???? I was getting every day express pay with no problems. But I haventnt gotta a deposit since the 27th. Starting to wonder if something is wrong . Maybe because of Memorial Day being a bank holiday it set the timing way off or if something else is wrong ? :/ i have BB&T. I kinda need the money I’ve been earning so I’m stressing
I’d contact support. I’ve been getting my deposits.
katydiamond123
06-05-2018, 06:41 PM
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joshc
Just a warning. I have talked to him a few times and he seemed fine. But today he messaged to write him a dirty story and he'd respond at the end. I didn't do it at first but then he started typing some more stuff and I thought since he's always been ok I'd do it. But of course when i got to the end of my story almost he then said, What about your ass. (I swear all these military guys just fuck each other & that's the only thing making me laugh) So i typed a few more lines then said I can't continue without a gift. There was complete silence! I told him Karma always pops up when you don't expect it to.
So please if anyone on here gets him make him pay!!!!
Maybe I'm too nice for this job. I don't know. I tend to look for the good in people and you can't do that on Phrendly. Which is a shame.
(although I have talked to some really nice people so it wouldn't be fair to categorize them all the same)
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-05-2018, 07:11 PM
Be nicer to him. Play to his ego a bit. That's joshc's "weakness."
Discodolli
06-05-2018, 08:54 PM
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joshc
Just a warning. I have talked to him a few times and he seemed fine. But today he messaged to write him a dirty story and he'd respond at the end. I didn't do it at first but then he started typing some more stuff and I thought since he's always been ok I'd do it. But of course when i got to the end of my story almost he then said, What about your ass. (I swear all these military guys just fuck each other & that's the only thing making me laugh) So i typed a few more lines then said I can't continue without a gift. There was complete silence! I told him Karma always pops up when you don't expect it to.
So please if anyone on here gets him make him pay!!!!
Maybe I'm too nice for this job. I don't know. I tend to look for the good in people and you can't do that on Phrendly. Which is a shame.
(although I have talked to some really nice people so it wouldn't be fair to categorize them all the same)
You didn't wanna continue the story without the gift? Or did you mean sending pics?
I happily write endless erotic stories for folks on Phrendly with no gifts. The only catch is that I'll only write a few sentences at a time before waiting for their response, so I get paid. Then I continue. I'm perfectly happy if a guy just wants to text back and forth endlessly with no gifts, as long as he's not demanding pictures.
katydiamond123
06-06-2018, 04:23 PM
Be nicer to him. Play to his ego a bit. That's joshc's "weakness."
I'll leave that to you, lol, I won't be answering him anymore. I think if he returned 5 times he wasn't unhappy with the services. He just realized that I'm easygoing and a generous person and decided to screw me literally! Because he could! Maybe being too nice to him makes him think you want to do him for free.
I will no longer give people that opportunity even if it means I have to change.
I am already over it! i had some real sweethearts since who restored my faith in men. LOL
I also think different people attract different types of guys on here. So we won't all get treated the same. But Burt you are right, if you don't value yourself and ask for gifts, why should they give you one? And I like the comment from Jane about reminding them that lots of men pay so they should too! (if they want photos or special requests) thanks ;D
katydiamond123
06-06-2018, 04:41 PM
<<<perfectly happy if a guy just wants to text back and forth endlessly with no gifts, as long as he's not demanding pictures.>>>
Yes we all are. He wasn't replying at all that's why I finally stopped and said he'd have to gift to have me continue, I've never earned only 70 cents from him, he was clearly trying to take advantage by saying he'd respond at the end and it worked. He had no intention of doing that. I need to be less generous and easygoing.
Discodolli
06-06-2018, 04:54 PM
<<<perfectly happy if a guy just wants to text back and forth endlessly with no gifts, as long as he's not demanding pictures.>>>
Yes we all are. He wasn't replying at all that's why I finally stopped and said he'd have to gift to have me continue, I've never earned only 70 cents from him, he was clearly trying to take advantage by saying he'd respond at the end and it worked. He had no intention of doing that. I need to be less generous and easygoing.
Oh yeah I see, I was confused. Yeah, would definitely not send more than a few sentences at a time for any guy, regular or not!
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-06-2018, 09:31 PM
Pictures are not the only things we should be requiring gifts for, in my opinion. I can and will charge for a n y t h i n g. Again, they don't always pay, but if they don't, then I change the subject pretty drastically (and sometimes poke fun at how lame they are for not giving in to their desires: So, is vanilla your favorite flavor of ice cream?) or try to sell them on pics depending on the situation.
WendiStarr
06-07-2018, 04:55 AM
I've noticed a lot of guys lately whose first message to me is,"Hey, nice tits! Send me a nude." It's annoying. I hate when guys play dumb that they don't know how to send a gift first or use the,"But other girls send me free nudes" line. Most of the time whenever I send pictures anymore I will only send a clothed picture and with my face not in it.
ChubbyCherub
06-07-2018, 06:39 AM
I've noticed a lot of guys lately whose first message to me is,"Hey, nice tits! Send me a nude." It's annoying. I hate when guys play dumb that they don't know how to send a gift first or use the,"But other girls send me free nudes" line. Most of the time whenever I send pictures anymore I will only send a clothed picture and with my face not in it.
Yeah.. I get a lot here where their first message is “pussy” or “nudes!” Like they think I’m here just to send free nudes. Dumbasses.
trustfundkiller
06-07-2018, 01:14 PM
When I've had the "tell me a story" guys I've always asked for a gift. Either I'm getting a gift, or they're going to get a copy-and-paste erotic story sent sentence by sentence until I eventually accumulate as much as the gift would have costed upfront.
In fact I had one of these "tell me a story" guys who had sent me champagne in the past but it was a one time fluke. The guy was cheap, always "broke" and it was apparent he wasn't good for much long term. He wanted to know WHY I wanted a gift for *just* a story. I told him, "You want me to brainstorm this elaborate erotic story that is paragraphs long. If you want me to spoil you by going above and beyond, I expect the same." He then said, "Oh, is it really that big of a deal for you? I'm a professional writer and it would only take me 2 minutes to do that." Hahahahaa. Cheap fuck. You can't win with all of them. I flat out refused and told him "no gift, no story".
trustfundkiller
06-07-2018, 06:08 PM
I am disturbed by the number of men on this app who seem to think all women are capable of lactation, and at all times. No, my "twins" can't "show you some milk" considering that I've never been pregnant nor do I have a newborn baby, nor am I going through any hormonal issues that would cause abnormal lactating.
xxxGothBarbie
06-07-2018, 08:05 PM
How are you girls getting so many fetish type dudes? I actually had fetish friendly in my profile along with other slutty type stuff that was kinda vague, but nothing. Most of my regs have gone .
trustfundkiller
06-08-2018, 11:01 AM
How are you girls getting so many fetish type dudes? I actually had fetish friendly in my profile along with other slutty type stuff that was kinda vague, but nothing. Most of my regs have gone .
I wouldn't say I get "so many" fetish dudes, but that's also not the way I cater my profile. I've had about 4 breastmilk fetish guys and I think I attract them because my tits are massive. I wish I could hand them over to you because they creep me out lol. Suckling/breastmilk is for newborn offspring, not for grown men.
blondhottie
06-08-2018, 07:43 PM
I don't get fetish dudes at all. But I have a very girl next door look-blonde, innocent looking, no tattoos. About half the dudes who message me think Phrendly is a regular dating site and we just talk about normal shit-music, movies, our interests, etc. And the other percent talk dirty and want to sext and exchange dirty pics right away-which I don't mind as long as they are paying me well. lol
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-08-2018, 07:54 PM
^^^ That's why I think I get fetish guys more often. I have an "alternative" look which most guys equate with "devious sexual preferences." Actually I'm boring af but sexually attracted to money, so yes, whatever kink comes my way, I can get down to, for the right price. 8)