View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
trustfundkiller
06-25-2018, 07:13 PM
Remember the guy who asked if he can "see some milk" because he was under the impression that lactation is something that all women can casually do? He is now offering to send me a pic of one of his comic book drawings and told me that I'll "probably squirt everywhere" when I see it. Uh, yeah, the vagina doesn't really work like that.
Can someone give this kid an Anatomy 101 textbook?
trustfundkiller
06-25-2018, 08:06 PM
Don't you love it when guys get mad over the fact that you won't send nudes for a rose? He sent a rose and asks if he could see my tits. I told him I would have to receive something more generous and he says he would "totally" send me a chocolate box if he could afford it, but he's broke. He eventually says, "So, I'm not going to get that pic am I?" I tell him again that I would need more than a rose.
He says it's "shitty of me" not to be "grateful" for any gift I receive. He proceeded to call me a whore, and tell me that I'm "dumb af" which is why I sell nudes. Now, you've revoked your ability to accurately call anyone "dumb af" when the person you're insulting is $0.35 richer with each text you send. He also told me that he makes $72,000/yr (as a 19-yr-old who lives in the middle of nowhere - believable) and could easily afford to send me any gift but he didn't think I was worth it. Interesting, since 5 minutes ago he was broke. ::)
He spends his next $20 with continued insults and trying to convince me that he is rich.
Oh, and the best part? Had he spent that initial amount upfront and given me a chocolate box in the first place, he would have gotten that titty pic he wanted and everyone would have been happy.
Better slow down with all that angry typing, little boy. Wouldn't want you to sprain your left wrist. God knows you need it.
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 01:57 AM
I have been talking to this guy, for the past couple days.
He finds out that we get paid to talk to them.
And now he's completely done talking to me.
He had nooooo problem paying the site, but as soon as he found out that we get a cut, he was offended.I I don't get it, it's fine if some faceless man gets his money, but not the girl he's been begging to call him Big Daddy (I called him scuba Steve instead^-^) for the past two days. *Rolls eyes*
moneyeyes
06-26-2018, 05:02 AM
^ Scuba Steve lol I hope he doesn't even scuba and this is all related to his excessive talk about muff diving
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 05:22 AM
I didn't even catch that lol
Homeboy comes back, how much do you make,do you sleep, blah, a couple hours later.
I played the whole, omg I'm always sleeping,and you know like barely enough to call it gas money. And now he's back.
I don't get these guys
xxxGothBarbie
06-26-2018, 09:42 AM
^ bahahahaha ugh these fuckin clowns I tell ya. It;s weird I'm on the first 3 pages & it's still crickets for me :( I'm bidding & everything too. Is it a bit slow for anyone else last few days or so?
And speaking of these asshats : I had an idiot yesterday agree to video chat then say "it's too expensive" & that he was not a loser & didn't have to pay for women on a site, I'm LOL wanting so bad to say well buddy you kinda are since you're spending 35 cents a text to argue with me.
Chica
06-26-2018, 09:45 AM
^ bahahahaha ugh these fuckin clowns I tell ya. It;s weird I'm on the first 3 pages & it's still crickets for me :( I'm bidding & everything too. Is it a bit slow for anyone else last few days or so?
And speaking of these asshats : I had an idiot yesterday agree to video chat then say "it's too expensive" & that he was not a loser & didn't have to pay for women on a site, I'm LOL wanting so bad to say well buddy you kinda are since you're spending 35 cents a text to argue with me.
I started bidding today and it is definitely super slow...I don’t know whts happening ...wondering if it’s like this for other people...
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 09:51 AM
I started bidding today and it is definitely super slow...I don’t know whts happening ...wondering if it’s like this for other people...
Super slow! I'm on the first few pages too. Im getting stars, but I'm only talking to scuba steve rn:D
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 10:01 AM
^ bahahahaha ugh these fuckin clowns I tell ya. It;s weird I'm on the first 3 pages & it's still crickets for me :( I'm bidding & everything too. Is it a bit slow for anyone else last few days or so?
And speaking of these asshats : I had an idiot yesterday agree to video chat then say "it's too expensive" & that he was not a loser & didn't have to pay for women on a site, I'm LOL wanting so bad to say well buddy you kinda are since you're spending 35 cents a text to argue with me.
Omg those guys are the worst! If he wasn't a loser, he wouldn't be signing up for, most likely, any and all, Internet dating sites.
Yesterday, this guy and I where chatting, and all of a sudden I get a barrage of messages.
Fuck this, this is fucking stupid.
I didn't know I was going to have pay and we can't trade info.
Now I have to spend the money I put in, sending meaningless messages that aren't going anywhere.
I just told him he should have researched what he signing up for, ESPECIALLY, if you're linking a card.
He apologized and we continued talking until he ran out of money.
But it's just like, sorry you don't know how to use google bud.
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 10:02 AM
Lunch breaks ladies, we should see some action now!
xxxGothBarbie
06-26-2018, 11:29 AM
Still crickets for me now :( Maybe tonight! Are any of you lowering your rates since the slowdown?
Allegra
06-26-2018, 11:33 AM
Super slow! I'm on the first few pages too. Im getting stars, but I'm only talking to scuba steve rn:D
I have also been bidding. I can say that I'm surprised as a young standard hottie without an alternative look or anything bidding for page one for a few days now I have had no qualified clicks AT ALL and only four unqualified clicks. On page ONE! The only good thing about that is that I'm actually not paying anything for my placement when I'm getting no clicks out of it. It's pointless though? I was just bidding for like page ten the first two weeks and it was really busy (at least ten+ qualified clicks per active campaign 3-6 hours) so it seemed to be working at first and I'm still talking to some of the guys I picked up from that. But I don't know what happened since Friday, I've gotten literally only a couple of newbies but they didn't come through the campaign clicks. I know that because the four unqualified clicks I've had don't have usernames next to them, which happens if a chat was started.
At least I'm glad it's not just me and ya'll also having the slowest time.
Allegra
06-26-2018, 11:40 AM
Still crickets for me now :( Maybe tonight! Are any of you lowering your rates since the slowdown?
I wouldn't... you do it once they'll expect it always. Besides I don't have the impression these guys are scanning profiles for rates anyway and once you're talking to someone they don't know it's slow right now so no reason to sell yourself short. Upsell in the normal way.
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-26-2018, 11:41 AM
Still crickets for me now :( Maybe tonight! Are any of you lowering your rates since the slowdown?
Yeah, I dropped my bid about .40 and I'm getting a few more clicks/and a couple newbies. :)
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-26-2018, 11:46 AM
I wouldn't... you do it once they'll expect it always. Besides I don't have the impression these guys are scanning profiles for rates anyway and once you're talking to someone they don't know it's slow right now so no reason to sell yourself short. Upsell in the normal way.
That is so true. Once a guy gets something for cheap or discounted, it's in his mind that's a thing that will happen again. I keep 'em cranked or else I'll forget if a dude comes wanted to call me and I'm in the mood to talk. Had that happen once last year. We talked for 30 minutes and I was thinking of all that money I was making... then I checked my balance after the call. I was livid.
xxxGothBarbie
06-26-2018, 12:59 PM
yep! LOL I lowered them for maybe 30 mins today then my reg came thru after being gone for a month & svheduled a vid chat later so I cranked those babies back up to max lol
AsheKn
06-26-2018, 03:59 PM
I've barely been getting any chats through q-clicks so my ROI keeps going down. Texts are pretty consistent but they are not coming through the promotion page. I think someone mentioned earlier if those could be incorporated into our score also, so that it doesnt go down if we are not getting q-click phrends initiating convos?
Discodolli
06-26-2018, 04:13 PM
Anyone know of a way to change your age on Phrendly? Thanks.
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 11:22 PM
Anyone know of a way to change your age on Phrendly? Thanks.
I was looking through all their options and I couldn't find a thing.
I think you'll have to ask support:/
Lunanegra
06-26-2018, 11:24 PM
I've barely been getting any chats through q-clicks so my ROI keeps going down. Texts are pretty consistent but they are not coming through the promotion page. I think someone mentioned earlier if those could be incorporated into our score also, so that it doesnt go down if we are not getting q-click phrends initiating convos?
I second this!
I know I'm making money, but seeing the roi get close to negative is upsetting af.
katydiamond123
06-27-2018, 01:59 AM
Anyone know of a way to change your age on Phrendly? Thanks.
Yes I know a few ways to be in your 20s again!! ;D
Lunanegra
06-27-2018, 02:22 PM
I hope everybody gets lots of messages today, I'm sorry if I respond too much:o lmk if I do, I've been doing sexwork for a very long time, and I've never been able to talk about it. :/ if there's a better thread to shit talk please lmk! But I'm rooting for everyone and hope you're getting that money!!!
katydiamond123
06-27-2018, 03:49 PM
I hope everybody gets lots of messages today, I'm sorry if I respond too much:o lmk if I do, I've been doing sexwork for a very long time, and I've never been able to talk about it. :/ if there's a better thread to shit talk please lmk! But I'm rooting for everyone and hope you're getting that money!!!
it's quieter for me on Phrendly anyways today than it was the last 2 days so far.
Chica
06-27-2018, 04:09 PM
I definitely was getting way more messages from different guys today since I started bidding but the only thing is that they send few messages and leave lol... hope it will be better within the next few days...
Chica
06-27-2018, 06:32 PM
How long does it take you guys to have funds in your bank account once money are transferred from Phrendly?
alleykat217
06-27-2018, 07:13 PM
How long does it take you guys to have funds in your bank account once money are transferred from Phrendly?
I get mine 5 days after it comes out.
Chica
06-27-2018, 08:27 PM
Alleykat217 thank you!
Chica
06-27-2018, 08:28 PM
How do you guys deal with flakes? Set up an appointment with this guy to cam, he confirmed begorea session and... nothing!
blondhottie
06-27-2018, 09:13 PM
How do you guys deal with flakes? Set up an appointment with this guy to cam, he confirmed begorea session and... nothing!
The guys who have video chatted with me all wanted to do it immediately and not set an appointment. I would ask him to send you a gift to compensate for wasting your time. If he doesn't, then you know he wasn't serious.
Chica
06-27-2018, 09:37 PM
Thank you blondhottie, well he asked me if I want to chat right away or later... since it wasn’t the best momnet for me to chat right away I suggested later. And confirmed 40 mins before chatting that he will call. He said yes and silence... my other assumption is that he has been on the website like for a few hours and maybe didn’t know if will be so much money to chat... I mean I don’t know. But if he comes back I will definitely ask him to compensate me with a gift.
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-27-2018, 11:34 PM
Okay so who here is getting lucky tonight? ;)
50065
He joined, ranted about "oh I see how this app works now," then pulls this. If you know how it works then, you know no one's going to meet you or believe that you're meeting up. Yeah buddy, this has never worked on me in the past, isn't going to work on me now. Best of luck to you and your hand though. :-*
Lunanegra
06-28-2018, 02:44 AM
it's quieter for me on Phrendly anyways today than it was the last 2 days so far.
Same!
I haven't been active in a long time is this typical?
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-28-2018, 04:22 PM
I want to hide the "cost" part of the overview. I ain't wanna see what I've spent this month anymore lol. Put my hand over screen when I go to see my clicks. :computer:
xxxGothBarbie
06-28-2018, 04:52 PM
ikr?! LoL Luckily I got a ton of clicks but haven't spent that much $$$$ & still did ok.
Chica
06-29-2018, 09:17 AM
Did anyone have issues with the payment? I mean I transferred the balance I had into my bank account but it’s still not reflected on the account...
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-29-2018, 01:28 PM
Did anyone have issues with the payment? I mean I transferred the balance I had into my bank account but it’s still not reflected on the account...
My payout was delayed about 10 minutes later than it usually clears.
WendiStarr
06-29-2018, 01:34 PM
^ ^ Oh geez..I had quite a few guys today who immediately quit chatting with me once they realized that no real life meet up was going to happen. Oh well, on to the next. Today has been rockin'.
AsheKn
06-29-2018, 01:45 PM
How do you guys deal with flakes? Set up an appointment with this guy to cam, he confirmed begorea session and... nothing!
I set up a time when I know I'll be home and go about business as usual. If he messages and shows up, cool, if not I didn't waste any extra energy on it. And if they ask for cam at some other time I will mention the flakeyness and ask for a gift before the next 'appointment' to show he's serious.
Chica
06-29-2018, 02:37 PM
I set up a time when I know I'll be home and go about business as usual. If he messages and shows up, cool, if not I didn't waste any extra energy on it. And if they ask for cam at some other time I will mention the flakeyness and ask for a gift before the next 'appointment' to show he's serious.
Great advice! Thank you!
Chica
06-29-2018, 02:54 PM
Hmmmm I requested the express payout on the 26th and today is the 29th already and the money is still not on the account.... I kind of worry... but let’s see.
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-29-2018, 03:43 PM
Hmmmm I requested the express payout on the 26th and today is the 29th already and the money is still not on the account.... I kind of worry... but let’s see.
Ohhh, as for that, it usually takes 5-8 days I think?
Chica
06-29-2018, 04:51 PM
Ohhh, as for that, it usually takes 5-8 days I think?
Oh than I will relax:)
Lunanegra
06-29-2018, 07:50 PM
Hmmmm I requested the express payout on the 26th and today is the 29th already and the money is still not on the account.... I kind of worry... but let’s see.
Yes usually 7, but I got my last payout in 5.
Lunanegra
06-29-2018, 09:41 PM
Ok had a call scheduled with someone, now I can't find our messages, wtf?-.-
Edit/ carrier pigeons couldnt deliver, what does that mean?
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-29-2018, 11:10 PM
Ok had a call scheduled with someone, now I can't find our messages, wtf?-.-
Edit/ carrier pigeons couldnt deliver, what does that mean?
You were blocked or the user's account was deleted (or he closed it himself).
Lunanegra
06-30-2018, 12:05 AM
You were blocked or the user's account was deleted (or he closed it himself).
So weird, that one was giving me weird vibes tho:/
Thanks for the info!
Also,is there a tos that explicitly says what we're not allowed to discuss?
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-30-2018, 10:27 AM
I have a question about promoting. In the past, we've been able to hide our profile as to not mess up our rank if we were going to be away for a while. Does going private "pause" our profile score? I don't wanna go on a 20 hour plane ride to see my family overseas and see that my score is in the toilet.
Lunanegra
06-30-2018, 11:02 AM
I have a question about promoting. In the past, we've been able to hide our profile as to not mess up our rank if we were going to be away for a while. Does going private "pause" our profile score? I don't wanna go on a 20 hour plane ride to see my family overseas and see that my score is in the toilet.
my campaign got stopped when I was away for about ten hours.(I hadn't gone over budget or anything like that) I logged on to see my rank as 1000plus
Burt Macklin, FBI
06-30-2018, 11:30 AM
my campaign got stopped when I was away for about ten hours.(I hadn't gone over budget or anything like that) I logged on to see my rank as 1000plus
I don't mind rank dropping, I set mine down purposefully when I am busy cleaning, showering, sleeping, driving, etc, I'm more worried about turning it off for a few days, and coming back and my profile score being low because I wasn't working. Right now I am okay with the prices I pay to be on the first few pages but I don't know about paying, say, $10 a click haha. I'm not sure what others who have median scores are paying and I'm not keen to find out.
Lunanegra
06-30-2018, 01:11 PM
I don't mind rank dropping, I set mine down purposefully when I am busy cleaning, showering, sleeping, driving, etc, I'm more worried about turning it off for a few days, and coming back and my profile score being low because I wasn't working. Right now I am okay with the prices I pay to be on the first few pages but I don't know about paying, say, $10 a click haha. I'm not sure what others who have median scores are paying and I'm not keen to find out.
You wont. When I logged on that day it said first page was 40-45$. I but a 5$ bid, and I was number one. As soon as you bid it drastically changes. You should be fine. It may reduce your score because less clicks, it's pretty dead rn, Im in the 70th percentile of clicks, and yea it's dead. You should be fine.