View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
trustfundkiller
08-14-2018, 02:30 PM
Is anyone else frustrated at the number of guys at work who think they can sign up with no pic (so we could be talking to our neighbour even) and then expect us
to sext for FREE just because we exchanged 6 lines of text with them and fell madly in lust so we will do anything for free including sending sexy photos. Then if we tell them
it's a bar and they need to buy a drink they stop talking as if we are the rude ones??? (i'm not going to start sexting with 2 or 3 free sips left they can buy a drink)
Makes me wonder how many women do this on real dating sites......
Just so tired of the stupidity today...............i'll be fine tomorrow!!! LOL :)
I'll NEVER understand the entitlement. These guys are nothing and yet they expect us to fall at their feet. Why would I send anyone free nudes? I don't even send nudes to guys that I date in real life lol.
trustfundkiller
08-14-2018, 02:33 PM
Just had a guy star me whose profile said "PM nudes and I'll send you a $25 gift automatically." Yeah, right. lol Sounds like the guys on cam show say "Show tits/ass/pussy first and I'll go private."
Lol I roll my eyes so hard when I see that shit. I saw one yesterday that said, "Message me and I'll automatically send you a rose." ::) I get a good amount of, "Oh, send me a pic and then I'll send a gift depending on how good it is." I always tell them, "Ok! And I'm going to go to a Lamborghini dealership, take a car, and write a check depending on how good it is. I wonder how that will go over! :)"
katydiamond123
08-14-2018, 03:11 PM
I just got another star saying I am out of sips add me on Snap.....xxx
I don't have time to report all of these people so I decided to star and unstar him 15 times!! That is free!! LMAO I'm out of patience!!!
katydiamond123
08-14-2018, 03:54 PM
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katydiamond123
08-14-2018, 03:56 PM
deleting post and SW won't let me so have to type in the box- sorry
ravenskyy
08-15-2018, 10:47 AM
Holy hell this site is slow this week. I went from banking every day to barely making payout once in the past few days. Wtf!?! No one wants to buy drinks. Anyone else dying of thirst over here?
katydiamond123
08-15-2018, 11:58 AM
Holy hell this site is slow this week. I went from banking every day to barely making payout once in the past few days. Wtf!?! No one wants to buy drinks. Anyone else dying of thirst over here?
I was wondering that today. I found the last 2 days dead because they were just f'ing around and didn't want to buy any drinks or photos or anything. Today has been really dead for me except a repeat person wanting to chat. And he won't spend anymore either, just f's around . But I'm sure he's spending on someone else too, they all do.
Burt Macklin, FBI
08-15-2018, 04:41 PM
Holy hell this site is slow this week. I went from banking every day to barely making payout once in the past few days. Wtf!?! No one wants to buy drinks. Anyone else dying of thirst over here?
Wake me up. When September ends. ;)
blondhottie
08-15-2018, 08:19 PM
Lately all the new guys who have been messaging me ask where I'm from right off the bat. It's so annoying how they think this is a real life meet up site. And I'm seeing more and more guys with stuff like "I'm outta sips, hit me up on Snapchat." and "I will not send gifts for pics" in their profiles. Cheapskates.
trustfundkiller
08-15-2018, 08:44 PM
Lately all the new guys who have been messaging me ask where I'm from right off the bat. It's so annoying how they think this is a real life meet up site. And I'm seeing more and more guys with stuff like "I'm outta sips, hit me up on Snapchat." and "I will not send gifts for pics" in their profiles. Cheapskates.
I just tell them, "Heaven" when they ask where I'm from. Today I had a guy who maybe 3 texts in says, "I'm horny send pics to get me off". When I ask for a gift he says, "I don't send gifts, it's easy to tell when a chick just wants cash" and he says "I'm looking for something genuine, not someone to rip me off." You aren't entitled to see my naked body for free. Plain and simple. And if you're looking for a "real" connection on a site that is owned by Niteflirt and makes it abundantly clear that women are getting paid to entertain with conversation ...lord help you.
blondhottie
08-16-2018, 06:35 AM
Do you ladies ask for gifts for fully clothed pics? Or just sexy/nude ones? If they've been chatting with me for a long time, I might give them one fully clothed pic (like a t-shirt and jeans) pic for free, but that's it. I usually ask for a rose for a pic of me in a bra and at least balloons for a topless one, but I'm wondering if I should be asking for more, and if I should be asking for gifts for fully clothed t-shirt and jeans type pics as well?
Burt Macklin, FBI
08-16-2018, 11:12 AM
Do you ladies ask for gifts for fully clothed pics? Or just sexy/nude ones? If they've been chatting with me for a long time, I might give them one fully clothed pic (like a t-shirt and jeans) pic for free, but that's it. I usually ask for a rose for a pic of me in a bra and at least balloons for a topless one, but I'm wondering if I should be asking for more, and if I should be asking for gifts for fully clothed t-shirt and jeans type pics as well?
Depends on the person. Nothing is ever black and white, but I generally stick to this. For a "boring" clothed selfie, sometimes I'll charge a rose, sometimes I'll send them to really good spenders/gifters who have been talking with me for a while for free. Sometimes I just really wanna show off my new shoes. Lol.
If it's sexual at all, then I don't show it for free, usually asking balloons/balloons + rose/double balloons/chocolates, depends on the pic itself and sometimes the person I am sending it to. I have set prices for my nudes but with more casual photos, personality does play a part in prices so if you're funny and don't rub me the wrong way, then eh, I'll lower my prices sometimes.
Hope this helps <3
whoknows234
08-16-2018, 05:42 PM
So tired of dealing with these kids. I'm talking to a 20 year old. No dirty talk, he's just trying to get to know me. He eventually sends me a box of chocolate for pics. He's happy with them. The conversation is slowly dying off thanks to his 1 or 2 word responses so I figured what's the best way to get a guy to start getting into the conversation? Dirty talk especially after sending pics. With the first thing I said, his response? "Weird" lol. Asked him whats weird. He say's "I think it's weird you say something like that to a stranger." Oh but it wasn't weird for him to buy pics and tell me he started "enjoying" them. And I said that to him. He said it was weird for me to say what I said because I told him I don't do anything with strangers. Had to explain the basic concept of how sexting and meeting are two different things. This is a fantasy kid. Don't take things literally.
WendiStarr
08-17-2018, 02:03 PM
Holy hell this site is slow this week. I went from banking every day to barely making payout once in the past few days. Wtf!?! No one wants to buy drinks. Anyone else dying of thirst over here?
Lol @ "dying of thirst". Girl, me too! I got nothing for the past 2 days.
Bridgetxo
08-17-2018, 07:22 PM
It's been very dead for me this week. I have been getting a ton of stars but barely any messages. Out of 30 stars, I'll get maybe 3-4 people to actually message me. I miss the days when I got more messages than stars.
trustfundkiller
08-18-2018, 12:31 PM
Blocking someone completely prevents them from viewing your profile right? There was this guy who told me he was jacking off to the pics in my profile. I made fun of him and said, "Why are you jacking off to fully-clothed pics and selfies when you can have nudes?" Long story short, he tells me he can't afford a gift.
I blocked him because I don't want him getting off to the pics in my profile. Fuck that pathetic loser. He's not going to rub one out to ANY of my pics for free. I'm getting paid, or he can have fun looking up "boob pics" on Google.
alleykat217
08-18-2018, 03:06 PM
Blocking someone completely prevents them from viewing your profile right? There was this guy who told me he was jacking off to the pics in my profile. I made fun of him and said, "Why are you jacking off to fully-clothed pics and selfies when you can have nudes?" Long story short, he tells me he can't afford a gift.
I blocked him because I don't want him getting off to the pics in my profile. Fuck that pathetic loser. He's not going to rub one out to ANY of my pics for free. I'm getting paid, or he can have fun looking up "boob pics" on Google.
I think they can still see your profile, they just cant message you. Whenever someone blocks me I could still see their profile.
trustfundkiller
08-18-2018, 03:48 PM
I think they can still see your profile, they just cant message you. Whenever someone blocks me I could still see their profile.
Ugh, that sucks. What a loser. Jacking off to pictures of me in a bikini.
Burt Macklin, FBI
08-18-2018, 06:41 PM
Someone blocked me today and I went to click on his profile and I couldn't. I know in the past, you still could, but I think your phrend might have had to google pictures of boobies this time. ;)
alleykat217
08-19-2018, 12:00 AM
Someone blocked me today and I went to click on his profile and I couldn't. I know in the past, you still could, but I think your phrend might have had to google pictures of boobies this time. ;)
Idk, I know someone has me blocked and I just checked and was able to click on his profile. I just can't message him.
Burt Macklin, FBI
08-19-2018, 12:38 AM
Hm, wonder why that is. I've tried clicking on this one user quite a few times but nothing comes up.
Bridgetxo
08-19-2018, 02:43 PM
I blocked someone a while ago. When I go to my promote tab, I can see that they clicked on my profile. It says I didn't get charged though because the person is blocked. I have no idea if they can still view my entire profile or not.
AsheKn
08-19-2018, 11:08 PM
Hate when dudes only video for like 3-4 minutes then dissapear, is there a way around this other than mentally blacklisting them if they ask again (and asking for a gift as a deposit)? I won't start doing anything until at least 5 minutes in otherwise its a total waste of time, but some of these cheap younger guys want a quick wank without having to spend much and it's annoying.
WendiStarr
08-20-2018, 04:09 PM
^ Yeah, seriously! Some of these dudes remind me of that SNL skit/song "Jizz in My Pants" lol.
ravenskyy
08-22-2018, 09:36 AM
I got called "colored" yesterday, by some white guy. That was fun. Blocked him, but not before cursing his ignorant ass out.
katydiamond123
08-23-2018, 01:40 PM
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katydiamond123
08-23-2018, 01:42 PM
I got called "colored" yesterday, by some white guy. That was fun. Blocked him, but not before cursing his ignorant ass out.
Yes you are "coloured beautiful" so it doesn't matter what some ass on there says to you. They are just jealous that they aren't going to go home
to someone as fine as you are!!!! So feel sorry for him!!!!
ravenskyy
08-23-2018, 01:53 PM
Yes you are "coloured beautiful" so it doesn't matter what some ass on there says to you. They are just jealous that they aren't going to go home
to someone as fine as you are!!!! So feel sorry for him!!!!
Aww! Thanks luv! :cloud9:
katydiamond123
08-23-2018, 02:02 PM
Do any of you get that guy I swear I have had him before and he gets a new account with a slightly different age at the end. Biggdawg61
He wants to send a dick pic after 2 texts and he won't even sext or anything just wants to spend 70 cents to send me his dick. no thanks!!
i asked if he had bought a drink or was on his free sips he said he never got free sips. I'm sure. He's been here too long!!!! can't remember.
This guy blocks you the minute you ask for a gift to see his dick pic. He is doing it to someone else right now! LOL
katydiamond123
08-23-2018, 10:47 PM
deleted post still get a database error when trying to delete posts and wrote to support but no answer yet
trustfundkiller
08-24-2018, 10:46 PM
The guys on Phrendly have created a whole new meaning of the word "minuteman". Sigh. Wasting my time with a 2 min and 18 sec video chat.
SadistPrincess
08-26-2018, 08:39 PM
Does anyone still make money with this? It’s been a month since I’ve had anyone start a conversation and I still log in and do likes several times a week.
I also can’t find this bidding thing people have mentioned. ??
ravenskyy
08-26-2018, 09:23 PM
Does anyone still make money with this? It’s been a month since I’ve had anyone start a conversation and I still log in and do likes several times a week.
I also can’t find this bidding thing people have mentioned. ??
Girl, barely! You have to go to your settings to find the promotion option. I'll be honest though, promoting was worth it for about a month. Now it feels like a waste of money. I get clicked to death just to have guys ask me for free nudes or to send me their contact info.
ep2002
09-01-2018, 08:06 AM
So this is the first time a guy has asked me if I want to see his sexy body. I just smiled b/c I didn't know what to say.
Then he starts sending me pic after pic & after 2 pics I didn't get ANY money.
What's UP with that???
And what do you do with guys like that? Just block them?
ep2002
09-01-2018, 08:08 AM
Do any of you get that guy I swear I have had him before and he gets a new account with a slightly different age at the end. Biggdawg61
He wants to send a dick pic after 2 texts and he won't even sext or anything just wants to spend 70 cents to send me his dick. no thanks!!
i asked if he had bought a drink or was on his free sips he said he never got free sips. I'm sure. He's been here too long!!!! can't remember.
This guy blocks you the minute you ask for a gift to see his dick pic. He is doing it to someone else right now! LOL
This guy? Smahon
alleykat217
09-01-2018, 09:08 AM
I take it you WERE responding to each pic right?
ep2002
09-01-2018, 10:39 AM
I take it you WERE responding to each pic right?
No, I didn't respond at all b/c I didn't want to encourage him.
alleykat217
09-01-2018, 11:18 AM
No, I didn't respond at all b/c I didn't want to encourage him.
If you're wondering why you didn't get paid that's because you weren't responding. You get paid for responding. What I do is respond and delete the pic lol.
blondhottie
09-01-2018, 07:26 PM
lol I got Smahon too! He kept sending me pic after pic too and I just put a smiley face or "mmmm" or "Nice" just to get a little money after each pic. Then he asked to see my body and I told him he needed to send a gift, but he didn't send me one.
blondhottie
09-01-2018, 09:07 PM
oh yeah, and Smahon video chatted with me for only 10 seconds! Thanks a lot buddy! lol
ep2002
09-01-2018, 09:44 PM
If you're wondering why you didn't get paid that's because you weren't responding. You get paid for responding. What I do is respond and delete the pic lol.
Ahh, ok, got it now. So you don't charge for guys sending you pics?
lol I got Smahon too! He kept sending me pic after pic too and I just put a smiley face or "mmmm" or "Nice" just to get a little money after each pic. Then he asked to see my body and I told him he needed to send a gift, but he didn't send me one.
Yeh I figured he does this to everyone.
alleykat217
09-01-2018, 10:05 PM
Ahh, ok, got it now. So you don't charge for guys sending you pics?
I personally never have. Only to send to them.
blondhottie
09-01-2018, 11:35 PM
Does anyone know if there's a way to switch cameras on Phrendly? It always automatically uses my built-in webcam when guys video chat me, and I want it to use my Logitech c920 cam. But I can't find the option to do so, if there is one.
ep2002
09-02-2018, 05:29 AM
Does anyone know if there's a way to switch cameras on Phrendly? It always automatically uses my built-in webcam when guys video chat me, and I want it to use my Logitech c920 cam. But I can't find the option to do so, if there is one.
I would e-mail them b/c their site is weird I think. I've only cammed like 2-3 times, & the last time the guy said he couldn't see me & I had no idea what was wrong b/c I know my cam works on other sites.
LMK what you learn from them.
blondhottie
09-02-2018, 08:24 AM
Thanks ep2002! I'll email them and let you know what they say.
AsheKn
09-02-2018, 12:02 PM
Promotion prices surged for me on september 1st. Whats the deal? Top spot went from being $4 to $54. Wtf? My rankings havent changed really.
Burt Macklin, FBI
09-02-2018, 03:37 PM
Promotion prices surged for me on september 1st. Whats the deal? Top spot went from being $4 to $54. Wtf? My rankings havent changed really.
Things rose for me a little, but not that much! I've been really busy lately though in my personal life between near daily hospital visits to my grandpa and other personal life incidents, so I figured the prices went up because my score has dropped a bit.
Bidding seems to be volatile today. I will set my bid at say, spot 10, and then look again minutes later and I'm at spot 18, then 12, then 15, all at the same bid. It's like no one can hold on to a spot right now, we're all getting too many clicks maybe.
katydiamond123
09-04-2018, 02:29 AM
Does anyone know if there's a way to switch cameras on Phrendly? It always automatically uses my built-in webcam when guys video chat me, and I want it to use my Logitech c920 cam. But I can't find the option to do so, if there is one.
You can use your phone too.
I have an Imac and if I plug in the Logitech one it uses it. IF I don't it uses the built in one. Try that first . I looked in SETTINGs and it's controlled by the FLASH player. If you have a windows PC it has to be in your settings somewhere.
If not use Google Chrome Browser and set it up through there. It has it's own settings that are different for this type of browser and you can choose the camera you use.And allow a cam and mic for each site that asks for one. Here is a Help Page:
http://www.macromedia.com/support/documentation/en/flashplayer/help/help04.html#117089
Hope it helps you. It is a bit of reading. Good luck!
blondhottie
09-04-2018, 03:32 PM
Thank you Katy!
blondhottie
09-04-2018, 03:35 PM
Phrendly support told me the same thing when I emailed them-I just heard back today. They said you can change which camera you use by going to chrome://settings/content/camera