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xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2017, 06:40 PM
i'm loving this site :)

xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2017, 06:42 PM
I've been called fake and a spammer before too. It's hard to get guys from dating sites to sign up for Phrendly, and on a lot of the apps, they realize you're advertising and just close your acct. So you have to keep signing up over and over again lol I think they did something to my OkCupid because I never get messages on there anymore. When I first signed up, I got loads of messages. I've even tried hopping cities and everything, so it's weird lol As for pics, they'll delete the more provocative ones because they're "inappropriate" so that's kind of annoying too.

some guys are so desparate for any kind of attention they'll come over & sign up right away. I for afew off cupid but I'm still thinking of trying POF coz CL is out lol

Snowy0Star
02-26-2017, 07:06 PM
has anyone tired the sugar daddy platforms like seeking arrangements and millionaire match etc ?

KaterinaKutie
02-26-2017, 08:47 PM
Yes. Being a sugar baby is very similar to being an escort. Is that something you have done or would be comfortable with?

Also- it's pretty saturated but I can tell you what I know been in and out for years now.

DonaDiabla
02-26-2017, 10:27 PM
You can advertise for phrendly on millionaire match but they kick you off after 12 hours. You can get maybe one or two customers off there but it is all. Seeking arrangement guys love reporting anyone who wants to advertise on there :) I would say 12 hours on millionaire match is your best bet.


has anyone tired the sugar daddy platforms like seeking arrangements and millionaire match etc ?

DonaDiabla
02-26-2017, 10:31 PM
Actually, she was referring to advertising on phrendly on sugar baby apps or platforms. These results usually vary from platform to platform. Millionaire match is the only one of merit when it comes to advertising. I used to advertise my phone sex lines on millionaire match :) In addition, I would say that sugaring is more like the sister of escorting. Similar but much different in my experience and it is not saturated if you are doing more freestyling. :)


Yes. Being a sugar baby is very similar to being an escort. Is that something you have done or would be comfortable with?

Also- it's pretty saturated but I can tell you what I know been in and out for years now.

friendzone
02-27-2017, 10:28 AM
I don't know if it's because I use VPNs, but my account is not being accepted for some reason, still. For whatever reason they wouldn't accept my GIF photos and haven't replied to my support e-mails aside from one PM on here today. They accepted an account as a regular member, but not a paid account, even after I entered my banking information and SSN info... I can't begin to tell you how frightening that feels, especially because I only joined after reading this thread multiple times and trust several of the posters here from my main account I normally use on SW.
I'm afraid if I try creating an account using my EIN and from a static IP, they'll reject my GIF again for whatever reason and closing my account just to exercise their power. Really was looking forward to trying this since I stopped camming/PSO!

EDIT: Also, I'm nervous about using a static IP because I don't know how vulnerable their site is to attacks. I have been refusing static IPs since MFC issues (those who know will understand)

Jupiter77
02-27-2017, 01:52 PM
Neptune my PM"s are acting crazy. I havent been ignoring you.
I have my rates at 2 mins per drink for video and 2.5 mins per drink for calls. I get calls. Its the highest you can have.

PrettyPuppet
02-27-2017, 03:14 PM
Has anyone else not been getting any messages at all lately? My account was temporarily closed due to a glitch, support reopened it but I have not had a single message since. It's been over a week. I've had a few guys star me, but not my usual daily amount and I've gotten no messages despite starring men, changing my gif, etc. I made sure my account is public and accepting friends, I even tried turning it private and back on. Nothing.

BeautifulJaleesa
02-27-2017, 06:05 PM
Has anyone else not been getting any messages at all lately? My account was temporarily closed due to a glitch, support reopened it but I have not had a single message since. It's been over a week. I've had a few guys star me, but not my usual daily amount and I've gotten no messages despite starring men, changing my gif, etc. I made sure my account is public and accepting friends, I even tried turning it private and back on. Nothing.

Me as well. The past maybe... 4 days? Nothing. Definitely not the normal daily flow I have either on the site.

xxxGothBarbie
02-27-2017, 06:30 PM
So how long until I actually get my express pay into my bank account? I just signed up on thurs/fri & made good money for 3 days now. Also, is it ok to send a nude if they gift you? Just trying to stay out of trouble lol

SuperPookie
02-27-2017, 06:50 PM
Is there a separate sign up area for us or do we put in the information at the same spot as the guys? I just lost my vanilla job so need something that I can do while camming pronto.
Also do you use your camming persona?

Jupiter77
02-27-2017, 07:29 PM
So how long until I actually get my express pay into my bank account? I just signed up on thurs/fri & made good money for 3 days now. Also, is it ok to send a nude if they gift you? Just trying to stay out of trouble lol
It can take up to 10 days

SamanthaSugar
02-27-2017, 07:51 PM
I'm getting more and more guys asking if this is a free site. They say they're not entering any CC info.

Does anyone know how they are being charged?

BeautifulJaleesa
02-27-2017, 08:24 PM
When they join they get $10... so they're not being charged unless they purchase more drinks.

Nikki_Fox
02-27-2017, 09:48 PM
[QUOTE=SuperPookie;2970297]Is there a separate sign up area for us or do we put in the information at the same spot as the guys? I just lost my vanilla job so need something that I can do while camming pronto.
Also do you use your camming persona?[/QUO

read up thread - be careful - I initially used my cam persona - a Phrendly advertisement showed up in my FB timeline liked by one of my vanilla clients - I changed it up on Phrendly to be a bit more vanilla - Im getting less hits but a little easier to explain - IDK just something to consider

Jupiter77
02-27-2017, 11:28 PM
Is it absolutely dead right now for anyone else? :(

I will say that besides my regulars, I have had to bring my own customers for days. Luckily for me i've hit round $200 everyday before noon so I dont have to worry about it throughout the day. but I havent woken up to any texts for a while now. I did notice I went from being on the 1st page, to the 14th, now on the 7th. Grr..

Jupiter77
02-27-2017, 11:45 PM
Oh i'm sorry. My "boyfriends" lol

Bridgetxo
02-28-2017, 01:31 AM
Anyone have any idea what to do when someone sends a picture of their number? I have been pretending I don't receive their information but it's kind of hard to act like I didn't get the picture lol.

Snowy0Star
02-28-2017, 02:08 AM
Anyone have any idea what to do when someone sends a picture of their number? I have been pretending I don't receive their information but it's kind of hard to act like I didn't get the picture lol.

maybe say they blurred it because the site has number auto detect filters?

JGB2009
02-28-2017, 03:38 AM
So I have been giving my link out and telling guys to search for my name.....I see where there are 5 other girls with my name. I take it that now I have to hope that the guy remembers what I look like in order for him to start texting me from the site :(

Has anyone else noticed this?

SuperPookie
02-28-2017, 08:28 AM
[QUOTE=SuperPookie;2970297]Is there a separate sign up area for us or do we put in the information at the same spot as the guys? I just lost my vanilla job so need something that I can do while camming pronto.
Also do you use your camming persona?[/QUO

read up thread - be careful - I initially used my cam persona - a Phrendly advertisement showed up in my FB timeline liked by one of my vanilla clients - I changed it up on Phrendly to be a bit more vanilla - Im getting less hits but a little easier to explain - IDK just something to consider

This is going to be a no go then if they advertise on Facebook. In fact I'd rather get exposed for camming than it look like I was messing around on my husband. Crap,this looked hopeful to :(

xxtinamariexx
02-28-2017, 09:39 AM
S. Also, is it ok to send a nude if they gift you? Just trying to stay out of trouble lol I was wondering the same thing, I remember reading it somewhere but now I don't see it, I feel funny asking them to "gift" me for a nude but I know that I am worth it. It's like if I was on a dating site, would I be asking a guy to pay me for a nude photo? I don't know how to go about this the right way.

I get guys saying hi and introducing themselves, I answer and then bam never hear from them again..

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 10:56 AM
ya I'm gonna just do vanilla nudes rather than super dirty until I know otherwise. It's been fuckin awesome for me since friday at sign up. I'm getting gifted left & right with video requests whilst making "boyfriends" lol .They love me & I love taking their money hahaha. fuck I'm evil. I also haven't even cammed since this & I'm making out better surprisingly.

so it takes up to 10 days for each express pay or just once since I'm new?

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 11:01 AM
So I'm looking at my current balance and it's including the free drink with sign up in my balance it appears. Does that mean I can get paid that $10 that's included in my balance or is my balance actually X-$10???

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 11:07 AM
[QUOTE=Nikki_Fox;2970343]

This is going to be a no go then if they advertise on Facebook. In fact I'd rather get exposed for camming than it look like I was messing around on my husband. Crap,this looked hopeful to :(

honestly, just make a separate fb account with a diff name then upload pics for this site onto there then just deactivate it when not using it. LoL thats how I'm gonna go about it. Do not ever link your fb or instahram accts from your phone bc it will also link them that way too. it's tricky but I also upload sexy pics on the site following their rules then just take customs when they ask & then i ask for a gift :) works everytime almost.

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 11:09 AM
So I'm looking at my current balance and it's including the free drink with sign up in my balance it appears. Does that mean I can get paid that $10 that's included in my balance or is my balance actually X-$10???

no deduct 10 from that balance. to chech your actual balance of earnings go to payable balance, thats what you're gonna get. Hope that helps.

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 11:12 AM
no deduct 10 from that balance. to chech your actual balance of earnings go to payable balance, thats what you're gonna get. Hope that helps.

Oh Thank you girl !!! Still decent money considering I was only talking to guys for maybe 20 minutes max in between waking up from my nap. But I'm glad I didn't think I was going to get that $10.

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 11:14 AM
UGH my account has a glitch. I cannot see the pictures of the guys I'm talking to. I can only see like two guys pictures on the main page. Going to email support right now!

Edit: Has anybody else had this glitch?? It's on google chrome on my computer!! But also on safari on my phone :(

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 11:16 AM
Oh Thank you girl !!! Still decent money considering I was only talking to guys for maybe 20 minutes max in between waking up from my nap. But I'm glad I didn't think I was going to get that $10.

ya dude I love it! I went grocery shopping the other night while sexting a few hahaha

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 11:21 AM
Also, is it possible to change our name? How do we get people to find us on the site??? :( I accidentally used my real name which is vanilla and common AF. I should of atleast used my nickname which is a popular name of a former stripper celebrity. Sigh

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 11:30 AM
ya I'm gonna just do vanilla nudes rather than super dirty until I know otherwise. It's been fuckin awesome for me since friday at sign up. I'm getting gifted left & right with video requests whilst making "boyfriends" lol .They love me & I love taking their money hahaha. fuck I'm evil. I also haven't even cammed since this & I'm making out better surprisingly.

so it takes up to 10 days for each express pay or just once since I'm new?

It takes up to 10 days because it depends on the bank. They said that they do fraud checks so that takes a business day or so depending. Then after they send the money its up to your bank!! And I know from getting like refunds and stuff through my banks in the past that it usually takes a few days depending on the bank for stuff to get posted.

Also GothBarbie, do you have any tips that have helped you be successful on this site? It's my second day and I haven't done much so considering that I think I'm doing pretty well, but I want to hustle at Jupiters level. $200 by midday thats where I need to be ! Lol . Im not a camgirl(although I'm considering it, was more into dancing but my BF is more into the camming idea) and I've been unemployed for MONTHS so anything is super helpful. But obviously- the more $$$ the better !!

jamma
02-28-2017, 12:11 PM
Also, is it possible to change our name? How do we get people to find us on the site??? :( I accidentally used my real name which is vanilla and common AF. I should of atleast used my nickname which is a popular name of a former stripper celebrity. Sigh

You can change your name by going to Settings (gear icon)-->Login Info. Thanks for you interest in Phrendly!

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 12:19 PM
You can change your name by going to Settings (gear icon)-->Login Info. Thanks for you interest in Phrendly!

Thank you jamma. I did figure that out. But I sent an email to support because I cannot see any pictures :/ Its on both Chrome on Computer and on my iphone with Safari. Very strange :/

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 12:23 PM
Jamma, how can we add more pictures without using fb or instagram?

Jupiter77
02-28-2017, 12:25 PM
Jamma, how can we add more pictures without using fb or instagram?

You can't lol

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 12:27 PM
You can't lol

well fuck lol :( guess I'll just have to make fake fb accounts & deactivate them when not uploading pics lol

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 12:28 PM
Make a IG and just upload pictures for the site. You could do that with FB but I think IG would b easier. Make it private if you want and have no followers or anything :)

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 12:33 PM
Make a IG and just upload pictures for the site. You could do that with FB but I think IG would b easier. Make it private if you want and have no followers or anything :)

i tried that the other day but it wouldn't let me upload pics from my laptop only from my phone which sux. I ended up deactivating it.

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 12:34 PM
Do people have much luck during the daytime? I'm just starring people, trying to keep the convos that I do have going. I've posted like 5 craigslist ads so far in different regions but I don't know if they're doing much. I just put them in CE with the title sexy college student wnts to play. and then my description says to find me on phrendly to sext with chatting/phone/video chat and all. and then i spell out the phrendly referall link to not tip off the url ban thing. Is there anything more I should do? I haven't gotten any emails or any hits on phrendly yet. I'll keep trying.

Best tips for daytime advertising?

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 12:43 PM
^ nope just sit back & wait coz that''s what I did. Most guys are at work right now remember they might not be able to chat or whatever until they get home .

Jupiter77
02-28-2017, 12:59 PM
Somebody just asked if I wanted to have his babies..
Some of the shit I swear lol

KaterinaKutie
02-28-2017, 01:10 PM
Somebody just asked if I wanted to have his babies..
Some of the shit I swear lol

Hahahaha. Got any more tips or tricks to share for Phrendly? I'm trying my hardest to hustle.

Do you make most of your money off of texts or calls or video? I set my rates to as high as possible as well. I figure you get them hooked then set up a call or video chat and they probably wont even realize or think to see your rates or whatever. But I live with my BF and his parents so at night it would be hard to video chat. But I would figure it out I suppose !

Jupiter77
02-28-2017, 01:16 PM
Shit the only thing I can say is keep working it. It's been a struggle. I make most of my money from texting and calls because Ive been to sick to cam lately.
I have had to bring my own customers to phrendly for about a week now because I cant even be found on the first 8 pages (which fucking sucks)
so everything I make is from my own customers and stuff like that. Phrendly is not very user friendly anymore and I see it turning more and more into a cam site each day which kinda sucks for us who are trying to keep it GFE and more like the sugar life.
If I wanted to cam I would spend more time on MFC, SM, and CMD. But I want Phrendly for what it was portrayed to be at first.

lotus_latte
02-28-2017, 02:28 PM
okay so sometimes on POF they would ask for my name, and one of the guys said they couldn't find me, i tried searching for myself and i saw myself. but just a heads up if they ask you, send them a link to your profile.. it makes it easier and i actually got that guy to text me since he said by searching my name he couldn't find me

Jupiter77
02-28-2017, 02:47 PM
Thats a cool thing about being the only Jupiter, they always find me lol

lotus_latte
02-28-2017, 03:20 PM
anyone else having trouble creating new POF account? no matter what username i do it says "This username has already been taken or contains invalid characters such as @,'& etc. Pick another" and i put like random numbers after the name wtf

Nikki_Fox
02-28-2017, 03:23 PM
@gothbarbie - I did not add any pics to my profile and I will not unless Phrendly changes the way you can add them - I have only the GIF through the Phrendly app - I have NO CONNECTION to anything adult and facebook and never would - not even with a fake account - facebook is way to stalkerish for me - fuck that - I dont even have an Instagram - so this never should have hit my FB timeline - if you havent read my previous post - I never even log into anything adult on my tablet that I use to access FB - not even SW

xxxGothBarbie
02-28-2017, 03:31 PM
^ wow that is really weird :(

JGB2009
02-28-2017, 03:41 PM
okay so sometimes on POF they would ask for my name, and one of the guys said they couldn't find me, i tried searching for myself and i saw myself. but just a heads up if they ask you, send them a link to your profile.. it makes it easier and i actually got that guy to text me since he said by searching my name he couldn't find me

Does ur link send them straight to ur profile? Cause when I copy and paste my link....it just sends me straight to the phrendly website. Just wondering.....