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whoknows234
09-16-2018, 09:14 AM
It's been two hours and nothings changed.


Rip.

Update (5 min later)

I made a 17$ bid too be on page ten(feeling guilty as hell)

Get a message. Get moved to page 2, and paid 1.60 for the click.

I will never understand this site.

Come to think of it, I think that's what I had to do the second time that happened to me. Just made a bid, even an outrageous one, and then things went back to normal.

Bridgetxo
09-16-2018, 02:29 PM
The bidding system has been weird for me the past week. I don't change the amount of my bids much and I'm usually on page 4. But the other day, without changing my bid, I somehow ended up on page 100. I don't know if this was a glitch or not. I stayed on page 100 for about 2 days and then it went back to normal and I was on page 4 again.

The site has also been super laggy for me which is really frustrating. When I type something, it takes at least 5 seconds for the text to actually show up. I've been using the app to reply to messages.

whoknows234
09-16-2018, 03:17 PM
The bidding system has been weird for me the past week. I don't change the amount of my bids much and I'm usually on page 4. But the other day, without changing my bid, I somehow ended up on page 100. I don't know if this was a glitch or not. I stayed on page 100 for about 2 days and then it went back to normal and I was on page 4 again.

The site has also been super laggy for me which is really frustrating. When I type something, it takes at least 5 seconds for the text to actually show up. I've been using the app to reply to messages.

It's been extremely lagging for me also. Worse than normal. Need to keep refreshing the page about every 5 minutes so what I'm typing shows up.

Lunanegra
09-16-2018, 08:04 PM
The bidding system has been weird for me the past week. I don't change the amount of my bids much and I'm usually on page 4. But the other day, without changing my bid, I somehow ended up on page 100. I don't know if this was a glitch or not. I stayed on page 100 for about 2 days and then it went back to normal and I was on page 4 again.

The site has also been super laggy for me which is really frustrating. When I type something, it takes at least 5 seconds for the text to actually show up. I've been using the app to reply to messages.




Dude laggy as hell!!! I thought it was just me.
I have to type my message in a blank tab, and copy and paste it.

trustfundkiller
09-17-2018, 02:55 PM
Sigh. I see a profile on the first page that says "no gifts needed to trade pics" ...that's just sad. Sure, if you want to see a pic of my dog, I'll send it over for free!

Bridgetxo
09-17-2018, 04:25 PM
Sigh. I see a profile on the first page that says "no gifts needed to trade pics" ...that's just sad. Sure, if you want to see a pic of my dog, I'll send it over for free!

I had one person send me a message yesterday who has supposedly been on the site since May. He says he trades nude pics and videos with other women for free. I said I only send those types of pics for gifts and he blocked me. I don't know if he was telling the truth or not. Why send for free when you can get paid? That's just crazy to me.

Violethollywood
09-17-2018, 07:05 PM
LOL he's a liar. I haven't heard of any women just sending nudes to these guys . I know when i was getting messages i'd make the guys send me a rose or balloons or something .

Averagemess
09-17-2018, 09:16 PM
Does anyone pay very close attention to their clicks? Does it ever seem like it's off? Mine is either very off tonight, or I've been reading it wrong until now. I'm really starting to worry about the accuracy of all of it. There are so many glitches lately.

FreakyFranky
09-18-2018, 04:49 AM
The site is almost worthless at this point as far as the glitches go. the app NEVER lets me know I have a new message or that anyone starred me like it used to, starring the guys is taking forever, and as for the bidding -- It worked GREAT for like a month but there's no way I'm paying $100 a day to get clicked to death and make .35 fucking cents off of it. This site has truly pissed me off. Idk wtf they're thinking or wtf they're doing but they're costing themselves and us a lot of money. IDK where they're marketing to, but the guys they're getting on the app now aren't the right kind of customers. They refuse to pay & demand to see my naked body for free and it ain't happening. They're literally all like 21 year old douchebags who plan to spend ZERO dollars. I'm just pissed cuz this was going so well for me & then it fell off, with absolutely NO comment or response from phrendly themselves. Like all other cam sites, they don't give a fuck about us. Sigh.

SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 08:54 PM
It’s been almost 2 months now since I had a single convo. Is this app even worth keeping on my phone anymore? Does anyone still make money on it?

SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 09:07 PM
Also I have to say I have NEVER seen the option to bid which is really upsetting. I would have used it (while it was good, apparently) but never had the option. Wtf?? Where is it?! This is my screen.
(The app is updated, I checked that many times) - I’m on an iPhone 6s.

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Averagemess
09-18-2018, 09:17 PM
Sometimes it doesn't show up in my app either it's been randomly there and then not at times. If you go to the website you can promote from there. I keep the website ip all the time on my phone so I can change things there if I need to.

AsheKn
09-18-2018, 09:22 PM
The promote option still doesnt show up on the app, you have to go into browser to use it.

I still make money off the site but its about half of what I was making this time last year. I turned my promote feature off for september and probably October as well because I was losing money on it like many others. I might turn it back on eventually.

SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 09:33 PM
Well that explains that. How fucking lame the app doesn’t have full functionality!!
I noticed the Phrendly rep that started this thread is nowhere to be found anymore ... that’s pretty awesome -__-

SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 09:36 PM
Also - wow. It’s already been a year?! I think I’ve made a grand total of about $150 on this shit app. Guess I’ve really been missing out this entire time I didn’t log into the website. Sigh. Some clarification from them about that feature only working on computer would have been really nice.

Lunanegra
09-18-2018, 09:57 PM
So I messaged support regarding my issues.
Their response was the copy paste bullshit explaining how profile scores worked.
Which isn't what I was asking about.
Log onto to phrendly after, and my bio and 4 words bullshit is gone.
And I am"browsing in private, and no one can see me", while my profile is in review.
What the actual fuck.
I feel that this was a petty response to me being upset with Emily.(she responded to my email)
I had nothing in my profile soliciting gifts(hate how they put that btw, seems demeaning)or Sexually explicit.
And I noticed they banned words like kinky and fetish in profiles?
It's like they don't even know what kind of platform their running.
Yes,let's tell all these sex workers not to use words like that, when we profit off of them sexting,sending nudes, doing cam shows, and having phone sex. Makes no sense.

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AsheKn
09-19-2018, 12:35 PM
^ Thats what happened to me, I got flagged for having the words kinky and fetish. I got flagged a second time for having the word Switch in there too which I think is silly.

WendiStarr
09-19-2018, 02:59 PM
Phrendly is pretty dead. I'm seriously considering just deleting the app off of my phone. Why bid so much $ just to earn .35 cents? It's pointless. We're on that app to earn money, not lose it. They also own NiteFlirt. I'm guessing they're focusing their efforts on that egg now.

xxxGothBarbie
09-19-2018, 03:17 PM
I honestly think it's bc of the high complaint volume they're getting from these guys being pissed about feeling "ripped off" so to speak. It clearly states on the site online only & these asshats are getting pissed ugh. I hate men. My bidding campaign is wonky as hell too right now & I wanna just stop bidding bc it's honestly not really paying off for me at this point.

xxxGothBarbie
09-19-2018, 03:30 PM
yep, they have flagged me as well sadly, bc my main GIF I've used for over a year & a half now has a big red "unapproved" slapped across it. Ugh, had to go back & reword my profile too. Guess they're trying to revert everyone back to being a "clean" site with no advertising of nudes, gifts for this or that, etc. Def gonna be harder to bank here.

KLttyKat
09-20-2018, 01:45 AM
Ok, this site was never my main stay, that being said, I made enough every month to pay my house note and then some. I hustled HARD AF on this app. It wasn't my main source of income but when I was making my mortgage each month, consistently,that says I am a hard worker and I keep guys talking. I was invited to be a "featured phrend" bc I have consistently been a top earner on the site. But if you look all the women they chose are 20 something Insta-model types. So, to make this easier, I am going to air my grievances in numbered format

1. When Jamma was on here pimping out this bitch, he was all like "this site is about the GFE experience... EVERY TYPE OF WOMAN" We want women of all colors, shapes, sizes, ages on this site. To make it feel real. Well, honey, if all you showcase is 20 something Insta-Model types, it looks MORE FAKE.
1a. Jamma TOLD us to solicit (or his word he liked "nudge") guys into giving us gifts for pics. Into doing calls. Now we aren't allowed to solicit? Dude, that's how you make money on this site. Is it because phrendly gets a lower commission on gifts than texting that they want us to not solicit for gifts anymore? Also, calls video & phone is how you get these guys going. you text them dirty, get them horny, and then they are so turned on you get them to call you.

2. Promoting Profiles: Problematic for these reasons. You start looking on the app, right below your profile it says "PROMOTE MY PROFILE" you think dudes aren't seeing this shit? They are. I get asked all the time. I have to play it cool too. And low and behold, they click on "promote" or see their profile rank, they go and look at the help page and see we do in fact get paid.
2a. Why the hell promote on a site when about 90% of guys spend their $5 or very little more on top of that. I have guys who are brand new, add me talk to me for about $3 of their bucks see that this is essentially a CATFISHING site get pissed and deactivate immediately.
You can't have it both ways. you can't have it look like a dating site (or GFE experience as Jamma said) and then show dudes we are getting paid to talk to them. You can't be a chatty camsite (us getting paid) but advertise as a dating site then expect us, the women who work on this site to explain.

3. On the recent changes.. Women left and right are telling dudes that they are getting paid, and refer them to camsites. I get dudes all the time asking if I do camming. I have to play dumb. they send me screenshots of other women telling them that we are all paid on the site. So now we have women telling dudes that we get paid, and now dudes can go see we get paid.

4. After **OVER** two years on this site, suddenly my profile was hidden, bc my tagline, 4 words, and gif, not to mention most of my pics were taken down. None showed ANY NUDITY AT ALL. All were on IG when I had an IG account (which I now closed). (BTW now they are back to FB and IG photos only from your account. Most sexowrkers don't have IG a/o FB) and my GIF which shows the EXACT SAME amount of cleavage was suddenly banned. No explanation. no email, nothing. NADA. Did I mention I earn my house note each month here? That means I am earning $1-1.75K a month on this site. I kept putting words up. no explanation on anything. I will attach pics if I can figure out how. from the site and my email exchange.
4a. They have a list of banned words, but they can't show us. That's what their email said.

5. We all know this is a NF site. Same tax structure. Same people answering support emails. Sid and Asher. I even called them on being NF. Then when the featured thing came out, that was just more evidence. same structure. exact. What is NF doing all of a sudden? Why is phrendly/Niteflirt implementing all these changes? Why are they taking a barely good thing and making it worse? Are the about to reduce the measley 35 cents per text even more?

6. Support stinks. I have a thousand issues with it, but those are not helpful to the community at large.

Basically, it boils down to this site, which was becoming difficult to earn on, I was still pimping and working hard. Is it so hard to
1. Email us when there is an issue with our profile?
2. Let us know what the secret list of banned words are?
3. How are we to follow the rules when they are vague and not spelled out? and left up to interpretation
4. Not even an apology for the income this lost me.

SNIFF SNIFF. I SMELL NITEFLIRT HERE.
This site is hitting the skids quickly.
So yeah, *CHEERS MOTHERFUCKERS* (I need sleep)
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Lunanegra
09-21-2018, 12:44 AM
@KlttyKat
I can't believe how vague they are.

I don't understand why they are implementing new rules that will be kept from us?



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My problem basically sorted itself. (With no help from them and my profile being temp disabled yay.)
The bidding was showing the amount for placement without my score being applied.
But no, according to them, my scores where that low and that's why the bids where so high. Rolls eyes.
I didn't even bother with responding back to them.

KLttyKat
09-23-2018, 03:29 AM
:shrugs: IDK anymore. I get so fuckkkkkkkiiiinnnggg annoyed with all these sites & platforms building their success on the backs of sexworkers. Then once they achieve a higher set of notoriety, they want to "clean up?"
I have not even made $200 this past week on this site. Mind you I was making at least $1K-$1.75K a month on this site. I know, I know "diversify" but it still sucks when you see a significant stream of income just dry up like the rio grande. Phrendly allowed me to make a house note every month so everything else I made was savings/other expenses.

Where is Jamma now? 2 years ago he was pimping this bitch, all up in our DM's over anything.. and now? just crickets and typical bland NF responses.

OH AND DUDES ARE NOTICING! I used to sit on the toilet and star these mother fuckkers like crazy. What else ya gonna do? multitasker and all. Brand new dudes. Like dudes that are fresh meat are on to the con. How many have you seen now with taglines: I am not going to message you, I won't pay to message you, Women Cheap AF on here, Women only want to talk to us to get paid... etc..
NF did this bc they have RIGHT BELOW YOUR FREAKING TAGLINE: Promote your Profile. Dudes are on to the con now.

Only thing this has done is make me more motivated.. I am learning how to build phone apps. And I am working on software to integrate into phone apps. Maybe early next year yall.

PS Now, if NF can make a texting app (or at first just rolled messages to our phone) WHY THE MOTHER FUCK can they NOT do that for NITEFLIRT? BTW yall know Phrendly is Niteflirt, right?
Niteflirt needs some real competition yall.

And you are right Lunaegra, this bidding is BULLSHIT. I am NOT bidding on a site where dudes may or may not spend their $5 bucks, trying to get us to go offsite. bc that's what most do. This site is too expensive... BBy you got FB? Snap? BBy here's my phone number...


@KlttyKat
I can't believe how vague they are.

I don't understand why they are implementing new rules that will be kept from us?



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My problem basically sorted itself. (With no help from them and my profile being temp disabled yay.)
The bidding was showing the amount for placement without my score being applied.
But no, according to them, my scores where that low and that's why the bids where so high. Rolls eyes.
I didn't even bother with responding back to them.

Girly_Girl
09-23-2018, 07:13 PM
who do I contact about money missing from a video chat???

trustfundkiller
09-23-2018, 07:46 PM
Yup, this site is definitely dying a slow death but I'll be riding it out until the ship has completely sunk.

trustfundkiller
09-23-2018, 08:42 PM
I've had 3 separate guys within the last week tell me they've met girls from the app in person, and I'm calling bull on all of them. I can't imagine a female jeopardizing a stream of income to meet up with one of these freaks.

Lunanegra
09-23-2018, 11:14 PM
:shrugs: IDK anymore. I get so fuckkkkkkkiiiinnnggg annoyed with all these sites & platforms building their success on the backs of sexworkers. Then once they achieve a higher set of notoriety, they want to "clean up?"
I have not even made $200 this past week on this site. Mind you I was making at least $1K-$1.75K a month on this site. I know, I know "diversify" but it still sucks when you see a significant stream of income just dry up like the rio grande. Phrendly allowed me to make a house note every month so everything else I made was savings/other expenses.

Where is Jamma now? 2 years ago he was pimping this bitch, all up in our DM's over anything.. and now? just crickets and typical bland NF responses.

OH AND DUDES ARE NOTICING! I used to sit on the toilet and star these mother fuckkers like crazy. What else ya gonna do? multitasker and all. Brand new dudes. Like dudes that are fresh meat are on to the con. How many have you seen now with taglines: I am not going to message you, I won't pay to message you, Women Cheap AF on here, Women only want to talk to us to get paid... etc..
NF did this bc they have RIGHT BELOW YOUR FREAKING TAGLINE: Promote your Profile. Dudes are on to the con now.

Only thing this has done is make me more motivated.. I am learning how to build phone apps. And I am working on software to integrate into phone apps. Maybe early next year yall.

PS Now, if NF can make a texting app (or at first just rolled messages to our phone) WHY THE MOTHER FUCK can they NOT do that for NITEFLIRT? BTW yall know Phrendly is Niteflirt, right?
Niteflirt needs some real competition yall.

And you are right Lunaegra, this bidding is BULLSHIT. I am NOT bidding on a site where dudes may or may not spend their $5 bucks, trying to get us to go offsite. bc that's what most do. This site is too expensive... BBy you got FB? Snap? BBy here's my phone number...

Dudes are definitely noticing. I took a day off yesterday, and was on page 100. Got starred by a bunch of dudes who's bios where all saying message me, or send gifts. LOL. If they're going back a hundred pages you know they're trying.


Edit/they do not have the same interface

trustfundkiller
09-23-2018, 11:56 PM
I've noticed a massive increase in resentment from customers as well. It used to be rare that I'd get a "oh, you're only talking to me for the money" type, but it's actually common now. I had one guy accuse me of "milking him" and another who said, "oh, so it's all about the money for you, huh?" when I refused to "trade" nude pics. Phrendly is selling out with the bidding while simultaneously pushing stricter rules and trying to make the user base look more wholesome and clearly this new business model is not working.

whoknows234
09-24-2018, 12:16 AM
My friend who's a guy is on phrendly and he sees nothing about promoting his profile. It's not under his profile, not on the settings, nowhere. The only place he does see information about it is in the help section. So they do have a different interface than us.

Lunanegra
09-24-2018, 12:30 AM
You're right. I checked. I was going off of previous comment I read.

Spemily
09-24-2018, 01:15 AM
All the rules are likely because Phrendly is attempting to placate whichever company processes credit card payments for them. They've done similar things on Niteflirt, cracking down on the words that can be used on profiles and on public nudity because the "dirtier" a site is, the more difficult and expensive it is to get a credit card payment processor. My guess is that, with Phrendly, they are attempting to tap into the sex market without paying for a "high risk" credit card processing account.

FreakyFranky
09-24-2018, 06:31 AM
Spemily is probably right... But they're costing themselves and us money because this business model isn't working. Funny my profile was deactivated because of my bio & all I had were kiss emojis? Guess thats not acceptable either?

AsheKn
09-25-2018, 09:34 AM
I'm talking to someone who has the words "dominant" and "kinky" in his profile, but mine had "switch", "kinky", and "fetish", and was taken down. So I guess those rules only apply to us.

Burt Macklin, FBI
09-25-2018, 10:22 AM
I'm talking to someone who has the words "dominant" and "kinky" in his profile, but mine had "switch", "kinky", and "fetish", and was taken down. So I guess those rules only apply to us.

Last year, we had to clean up our acts so that we could be promoted on FB/IG/etc. I think this is like that, and I bet they don't even take guy accounts into consideration for marketing. I'm sorry, I know it's difficult but I do well with The World's Most Boring Tagline, if that's of any comfort. Probably not. :/

trustfundkiller
09-25-2018, 12:12 PM
I can't tell if these motherfuckers are getting cheaper or if my fuse is getting shorter. The quality of guys on here used to be pretty good, and now it's trash.

FaeMayhem
09-25-2018, 01:04 PM
This app is pure garbage.

nickyfox
09-25-2018, 07:30 PM
I can't tell if these motherfuckers are getting cheaper or if my fuse is getting shorter. The quality of guys on here used to be pretty good, and now it's trash.

Nope all the ones willing to spend any $$$ are gone now.

trustfundkiller
09-25-2018, 10:13 PM
I wholeheartedly believe that one of the reasons this app is going to shit is because of CHEAP BITCHES. A year ago I used to think girls who sent pussy pics for a rose were bad, but clearly I was mistaken. I had a guy send me screenshots to prove that there are girls who are more than happy giving away free tit and pussy pics for $0.35 and that's sad. I'm a damn good hustler but it's hard to compete with free. It's like Burt Macklin FBI said, some men will choose to pay for the luxury experience of a Mercedes but if you're only looking for something to get you from Point A to Point B, free is free and it gets the job done.

Lunanegra
09-25-2018, 11:10 PM
I wholeheartedly believe that one of the reasons this app is going to shit is because of CHEAP BITCHES. A year ago I used to think girls who sent pussy pics for a rose were bad, but clearly I was mistaken. I had a guy send me screenshots to prove that there are girls who are more than happy giving away free tit and pussy pics for $0.35 and that's sad. I'm a damn good hustler but it's hard to compete with free. It's like Burt Macklin FBI said, some men will choose to pay for the luxury experience of a Mercedes but if you're only looking for something to get you from Point A to Point B, free is free and it gets the job done.

Couldn't agree more. Extra lunch money went to shit for the same reason.

NYCbb
09-26-2018, 10:34 AM
Hey ladies!! I've been on phrendly for a long time but I just found this forum recently. You guys rock ��. I noticed while reading the comments that a lot of people are sick and tired of the inconsistency. Some days it's like dudes are throwing money at you while other days they won't give you a single fucking rose. I have this happening too but I've found a few things that helped dramatically raise my weekly earnings:

1. I stopped fucking around with broke dudes!!!!! Look I'm not rich myself and I understand people don't want to spend a week's pay to see my tits but I'm OVER the guys who expect something for nothing. I used to try to covert these guys into paying customers but all they do is give you their phone number/insta/fb again and again. If a dude refuses to pay you what youre worth, block and move on! That's my opinion at least.

2. I require a "down payment" before I cam nude with dudes now. It took me an embarassingly long time to realize i needed to do this. I had like 5 guys in a row get on cam for 3-4 minutes then quickly hang up. Dudes realize that it's cheaper to see me naked this way than to buy a picture. It's annoying AF because I've gotten dressed/hair/make up/sex toys out/etc for no reason sooooo many times. So now I explain that it costs chocolates for me to turn my camera button availability on. Then it's really easy to weed out the guys who only had $10 to spend anyway and focus on the dudes with cash!

3. I Keep my availability on and say I'm "online" all the time. I think guys scroll through their old chats looking for a green circle to show up because I get way more messages when it's turned on

4. I promote promote promote on weekends!!! You want to be in the top 25 spots to get the newbies signing up over the weekend. I don't think I'd have made good money doing this if I didn't do the promotion ***I'm also doing this around the first and the fifteenth of every month since that's payday for many workers and there's an increase in traffic during those times

5. I keep my prices high because I believe I'm worth top dollar (and you girls are worth it too!!). I used to negotiate with potential customers about price but fuuuuuck that. You guys are right that cheap bitches are kinda ruining things when they send original nudes for free. But honestly.... I think they guys kinda want a girl who's more "expensive." idk... Personally I'm not lowering my prices just because some girls are giving away free titties. I don't give away G rated pictures that much either. Dudes need to understand that the only way they're going to get my attention and KEEP it is to keep the cash flowing lol. I've found implying this doesn't work because so many dudes are dense AF so I just spell it out for them half the time��


Anyway this is just what works for me *personally* ymmv but I hope it's helpful information in at least some way! Good luck everyone ��

KLttyKat
09-26-2018, 12:36 PM
who do I contact about money missing from a video chat???



[email protected] TBH they *USUALLY* are quick to respond.

I raised HOLY HELL bc about a year ago this dude BIPOLAR MANIC AF talked I shit you not for 4.5 hours straight. ONLY bc I was like dude, I gotta IDK, breathe and you are exhausting me..did the call end. Phrendly did NOT credit me. and I max the fuck outta my rates on this shit. Jamma was all up in this forum then, trying to make sure we were happy and I got my money pretty straight away. I mean I heard all about how he lived in Heber Springs Ar, HS is like Hispanic. Hispanics be taking his job. His doctor wants him to take meds. HS Also, sounds like Hillary. BTW did you know she has a pizza parlor. Like straight up tin foil hat shit. 4.5 hours and I DID NOT get my money. OMFG. I wanted to cry.

I hope you get your money pretty quick girly. I took screenshots like a mother after that shit. And I always check to make sure I get credited bc I sometimes I don't. They are usually quick to respond with in a day or two.

KLttyKat
09-26-2018, 12:39 PM
Hey ladies!! I've been on phrendly for a long time but I just found this forum recently. You guys rock ��. I noticed while reading the comments that a lot of people are sick and tired of the inconsistency. Some days it's like dudes are throwing money at you while other days they won't give you a single fucking rose. I have this happening too but I've found a few things that helped dramatically raise my weekly earnings:

1. I stopped fucking around with broke dudes!!!!! Look I'm not rich myself and I understand people don't want to spend a week's pay to see my tits but I'm OVER the guys who expect something for nothing. I used to try to covert these guys into paying customers but all they do is give you their phone number/insta/fb again and again. If a dude refuses to pay you what youre worth, block and move on! That's my opinion at least.

2. I require a "down payment" before I cam nude with dudes now. It took me an embarassingly long time to realize i needed to do this. I had like 5 guys in a row get on cam for 3-4 minutes then quickly hang up. Dudes realize that it's cheaper to see me naked this way than to buy a picture. It's annoying AF because I've gotten dressed/hair/make up/sex toys out/etc for no reason sooooo many times. So now I explain that it costs chocolates for me to turn my camera button availability on. Then it's really easy to weed out the guys who only had $10 to spend anyway and focus on the dudes with cash!

3. I Keep my availability on and say I'm "online" all the time. I think guys scroll through their old chats looking for a green circle to show up because I get way more messages when it's turned on

4. I promote promote promote on weekends!!! You want to be in the top 25 spots to get the newbies signing up over the weekend. I don't think I'd have made good money doing this if I didn't do the promotion ***I'm also doing this around the first and the fifteenth of every month since that's payday for many workers and there's an increase in traffic during those times

5. I keep my prices high because I believe I'm worth top dollar (and you girls are worth it too!!). I used to negotiate with potential customers about price but fuuuuuck that. You guys are right that cheap bitches are kinda ruining things when they send original nudes for free. But honestly.... I think they guys kinda want a girl who's more "expensive." idk... Personally I'm not lowering my prices just because some girls are giving away free titties. I don't give away G rated pictures that much either. Dudes need to understand that the only way they're going to get my attention and KEEP it is to keep the cash flowing lol. I've found implying this doesn't work because so many dudes are dense AF so I just spell it out for them half the time��


Anyway this is just what works for me *personally* ymmv but I hope it's helpful information in at least some way! Good luck everyone ��

I max out my rates. I ALWAYS only take calls on my phone. I act like Oh, just a girl living alone. and take my time *oh just a shy girl* to show my tits. and point the phone at my tits. I drag that bitch out so fast. And I get dudes wanting to call (at least they USED TO before all the changes) bc i will dirty text them a little, and act all "oh wanna do a call, I've been wanna try it out"

ALWAYS on my phone. Love that we can do that. HAHA. makes it so much harder to IDK show pussy and shit.

KLttyKat
09-26-2018, 12:45 PM
All the rules are likely because Phrendly is attempting to placate whichever company processes credit card payments for them. They've done similar things on Niteflirt, cracking down on the words that can be used on profiles and on public nudity because the "dirtier" a site is, the more difficult and expensive it is to get a credit card payment processor. My guess is that, with Phrendly, they are attempting to tap into the sex market without paying for a "high risk" credit card processing account.

I think it may also because they are an APP. and Google and Apple cracked way the FUCK down on apps. I lot of apps I use have ads (bc I am too cheap to pay for them) and a LOT are showing "phrendly, talk to cuties now"
Also they are advertising on FB/IG bc they think it will bring more traffic? IDK. but I was promoted several times on their FB. saw more "starts" but not much more traffic. and all dudes wanting to meet IRL. UGH. they are all like super weird creepers. someone up above me quoted me about this app dying and they are riding it out until it hits the skids.

man. I really did star the fuck out of these freaks while I was on the toilet. multitasking and all. now even starring dudes while I take a shit is not a good ROI.

And girls are giving away nudes for 35 cetns WHAT THE HEZELLL? NO bitches. No. charge for that shit. IF IF IF IF they have spent a lot on me, done calls, etc... I will send a nice "oh look I just went to the gym and my tits are so huge and sweaty in this bra" pic. but nothing more. CHARGE FOR EVERYTHING.

MAn, I am seriously working on learning how to create phone apps. And I sure as fuck am not going to have cheap ass 35 cents.

Edit: It took 3 days to hit a $10 payout. I just deleted this app. Noped out. Let me know if it gets good again.

Glamourmilf
09-30-2018, 09:30 AM
I really did star the fuck out of these freaks while I was on the toilet. multitasking and all. now even starring dudes while I take a shit is not a good ROI.
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:rotfl::rotfl: I thought that I was the only one who did that! Omg too funny!
It got so dead for me, that the one and ONLY guy to want a webcam chat, messaged me JUST as I was going into a one on one on my cam site.
Normally I would ask the guy to wait.
But, I figured, screw it.
Ironically, the 2 guys looked very similar. Both rough and tumble Hispanic dudes.
"Oh, yeah, baby. Fuck me with that uncut dick!"
Ha ha!}:D

I've grown to hate this site with a passion!
I think I'm going to delete the app from my phone too.

WendiStarr
09-30-2018, 01:10 PM
The video chat guys on here are a joke. If you're not naked right away, they either leave right away or jack for 2 minutes and disappear. For this reason I like to hurry up and increase my prices as high as they can go right before a guy video chats me. It's so pointless though, spending all that time putting makeup and a sexy bikini, making sure the lighting is right, just for a measly 2 minutes. Waste of time anymore.

xxxGothBarbie
09-30-2018, 06:20 PM
^ I def agree with the video chat fuckery but I'm riding this one out until it's death bc with all it's faults , this app still keeps me afloat & since I can't cam right now, it's been good to me :)

nickyfox
10-01-2018, 08:44 AM
I'm like two texts away from payout. I haven't used the app in forever.

May the sex work Gods shine down upon me this week, I want a back massage and I don't want to pay for it.

blondhottie
10-02-2018, 02:20 PM
Why does my profile now say "pending?" I didn't say anything inappropriate in it and I didn't get any emails from Phrendly about doing anything wrong, so not sure what's going on.

Averagemess
10-02-2018, 03:22 PM
They never emailed me to change my stuff either, just put it back into private. Something probably needs to be changed in your 4 words, bio or pic.

xxxGothBarbie
10-03-2018, 01:47 PM
^ I had to change up my entire tagline wording in order for it to become "phrendly" again LOL They also unapproved my gif which had been on there since I started in 2017 & slapped the other one on which I'm not too crazy about.

I needed to update my gif anyways though so I look at it as a fire under my ass :)