View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
ep2002
08-05-2019, 04:30 PM
I'd almost forgotten I was on here but I logged in to the website to find a handful of messages guys had sent none of which ever came to my phone.
Damm, that sucks.
Did you report it to them?
I have a bug that I ALWAYS get & of course when I reported it, they said I'm the only one who's ever said this.
I use Chrome (desktop) & every time I'm in the middle of messaging with the guy & he stops, it shows he's about to write something, but never does.
After 20 minutes go by, I refresh & that message telling me he's writing something disappears.
I haven't tried it on Fx yet to see if it also does that, but this has happened to me for over a year now.
Anyone else have this issue?
alleykat217
08-05-2019, 06:03 PM
Damm, that sucks.
Did you report it to them?
I have a bug that I ALWAYS get & of course when I reported it, they said I'm the only one who's ever said this.
I use Chrome (desktop) & every time I'm in the middle of messaging with the guy & he stops, it shows he's about to write something, but never does.
After 20 minutes go by, I refresh & that message telling me he's writing something disappears.
I haven't tried it on Fx yet to see if it also does that, but this has happened to me for over a year now.
Anyone else have this issue?
This has been happening to me for a long time now. They told me to just refresh the page. I shouldn't have to. Shit should work correctly.
ravenskyy
08-05-2019, 06:26 PM
This site is dead. This time last year, I was making $100+ a day. Now, it can take 3 weeks before I make $10 for payout. Lmao.
And I noticed that Jamma's ass never came back. Hmmm...
moneyeyes
08-06-2019, 11:29 AM
This has been happening to me for a long time now. They told me to just refresh the page. I shouldn't have to. Shit should work correctly.
Yeah that's been happening for forever, likewise I think guys experience the same thing so they won't write you back as fast if you say something and just stay in the window, I don't know this for a fact but I quickly click between chat windows after I send a comment so on their end they don't see the "typing" thing when I'm not typing.
alleykat217
08-06-2019, 11:51 AM
Yeah that's been happening for forever, likewise I think guys experience the same thing so they won't write you back as fast if you say something and just stay in the window, I don't know this for a fact but I quickly click between chat windows after I send a comment so on their end they don't see the "typing" thing when I'm not typing.
That DOES make sense. I never thought of them thinking "well, she's writing more so let me not write back just yet".
chloemay
08-13-2019, 05:54 AM
Is there a way to have the notifications only come to my phone when someone has sent a message to me or wants to set up a cam or phone call, but DISABLE when it is just that I've been starred? The phone is already going off all the time and that notification is unneeded (by me anyway). Thanks!
moneyeyes
08-14-2019, 06:45 AM
Is there a way to have the notifications only come to my phone when someone has sent a message to me or wants to set up a cam or phone call, but DISABLE when it is just that I've been starred? The phone is already going off all the time and that notification is unneeded (by me anyway). Thanks!
Do you get phone notifications when you've been starred first? Or only when someone has starred you back? Not a help to you (I don't think there is a way to chose which notifications to receive as the options they give pertains to email - not that my email selections are adhered to by Phrendly but whatever, and sms notifications are either an opt in or opt out thing without any specifics regarding the type of notices you want) but I'm wondering because I kind of want the opposite, I want notifications when someone stars me first (as responding fast to those is useful) and Not when someone stars me back (as this results in nothing and is just annoying to be notified of).
xxxGothBarbie
08-14-2019, 06:31 PM
Im starting to seriously hate this site ugh. Same stupid regular keeps literally blocking me every other week only to come back & not wanna spend $$$. I always see his green light on so I know he's prob talking to other girls on here but still. We were supposed to have a phone call today & he fuckin blocks me before I can ask him if he's ready ugh *eye roll* I firmly believe there are newbies on here not charging for pics & totally undercutting everyone on here. I used to only work this site & bank, not anymore.
WendiStarr
08-15-2019, 10:47 AM
^ I agree. There must be some new girls on there who are giving out free nudes because quite a few guys expect it. I absolutely do not send any nudes without them sending a virtual gift first and any nudes do not contain my face in them. I am paranoid that guys would resell them or post them on some free porn site. It's annoying when there are people giving out freebies because it causes the guys to act like aggravating, cheap assholes.
xxxGothBarbie
08-16-2019, 01:36 AM
^ I agree. There must be some new girls on there who are giving out free nudes because quite a few guys expect it. I absolutely do not send any nudes without them sending a virtual gift first and any nudes do not contain my face in them. I am paranoid that guys would resell them or post them on some free porn site. It's annoying when there are people giving out freebies because it causes the guys to act like aggravating, cheap assholes.
^ Yep, literally ALL the guys except for maybe 1 or 2 asks for free pics upfront within the first few messages. I have proof that girls on there are in fact giving out teaser pics for free & getting pissed off at people like us for actually charging a simple rose for a clothed pic *eye roll* No one's getting ANYTHING for free from me on there, don't care if it does lose business for me. I don't work for free.
Unfortunatley, this site got oversaturated way too quick & it has affected most of us top earners on there from all the girls giving shit away for free. There was a time that the guys on there DID pay & had no questions about paying our prices for pics, clothed or not.
blondhottie
08-16-2019, 03:22 AM
^ Yep, literally ALL the guys except for maybe 1 or 2 asks for free pics upfront within the first few messages. I have proof that girls on there are in fact giving out teaser pics for free & getting pissed off at people like us for actually charging a simple rose for a clothed pic *eye roll* No one's getting ANYTHING for free from me on there, don't care if it does lose business for me. I don't work for free.
Unfortunatley, this site got oversaturated way too quick & it has affected most of us top earners on there from all the girls giving shit away for free. There was a time that the guys on there DID pay & had no questions about paying our prices for pics, clothed or not.
Yup, either that or a lot of guys are asking "Where are you located?" in their very first message, or trying to give out their phone number right away. SMH.
ep2002
09-28-2019, 05:43 AM
Yeah that's been happening for forever, likewise I think guys experience the same thing so they won't write you back as fast if you say something and just stay in the window, I don't know this for a fact but I quickly click between chat windows after I send a comment so on their end they don't see the "typing" thing when I'm not typing.
I have the opposite issue which I've reported twice now.
It looks like the guy is typing, but he never sends anything. I refresh the page & the "he's typing" text disappears.
whoknows234
09-28-2019, 08:27 AM
Has anyone else experienced their responsiveness score drops every Sunday night when they reset the campaign? Usually after just 1 or 2 conversations and it's back up to the upper 90's. This week it just seems to be stuck at 84%.
trustfundkiller
09-28-2019, 08:50 AM
^ Yep, literally ALL the guys except for maybe 1 or 2 asks for free pics upfront within the first few messages. I have proof that girls on there are in fact giving out teaser pics for free & getting pissed off at people like us for actually charging a simple rose for a clothed pic *eye roll* No one's getting ANYTHING for free from me on there, don't care if it does lose business for me. I don't work for free.
Unfortunatley, this site got oversaturated way too quick & it has affected most of us top earners on there from all the girls giving shit away for free. There was a time that the guys on there DID pay & had no questions about paying our prices for pics, clothed or not.
I have no problem getting gifts, but there are absolutely girls giving out free nudes, and I've seen proof of someone sending a pussy pic for free. The site really is oversaturated with girls who don't have a clue what they're doing and are used to sending nudes for free. Whenever I've been challenged, I say, "Well, that's her, not me. There's a reason why Mercedes is more expensive than Honda." Most of the time, I'll get a gift after saying that, because now they're curious to see how amazing these golden titties really are.
Violethollywood
09-28-2019, 01:37 PM
YES ^^^^ in the beginning, it was nothing for me to pull 100 plus a day on phrendly, now im lucky if i make 10 bucks every other day. It's sad how downhill it's gone. So many guys on there are CHEAP. and a lot of them have in their bio's " not paying to talk" or try to sneak in their personal phone number or even snap chat. It's annoying as hell.
xxxGothBarbie
10-04-2019, 03:45 PM
YES ^^^^ in the beginning, it was nothing for me to pull 100 plus a day on phrendly, now im lucky if i make 10 bucks every other day. It's sad how downhill it's gone. So many guys on there are CHEAP. and a lot of them have in their bio's " not paying to talk" or try to sneak in their personal phone number or even snap chat. It's annoying as hell.
Ya it is sad :( I rarely do great on here anymore. If it weren't for my regs, I wouldn't make shit but here lately they've been ghosting saying they're out of $$ , which could be true who knows. But yes these guys are def cheap AF on here now unfortunatley.
WendiStarr
10-15-2019, 05:25 PM
Anyone else have the pleasure of dealing with the asshat named Bryce Cox on here? He likes to send a message asking for nudes or a dick picture and then hurry up and block you before you can respond. I'm not sending anyone free nudes but I wanted to give a sarcastic response. Then a week or two later, he'll unblock you to ask for nude pictures again or send another dick picture to you, and immediately block you. This has been going on for a month now.
trustfundkiller
10-18-2019, 01:40 AM
Anyone else have the pleasure of dealing with the asshat named Bryce Cox on here? He likes to send a message asking for nudes or a dick picture and then hurry up and block you before you can respond. I'm not sending anyone free nudes but I wanted to give a sarcastic response. Then a week or two later, he'll unblock you to ask for nude pictures again or send another dick picture to you, and immediately block you. This has been going on for a month now.
Can they unblock you now? I thought blocking was permanent. I just got blocked today but this idiot who was upset that I wasn't texting back in nanoseconds.
WendiStarr
10-18-2019, 07:01 AM
^ They must be able to because whenever I try to text him back, I get the carrier pigeons message. Then he sends another message a couple days to a week later and when I send a response, I again get the carrier pigeons message. I need to just block this fucktard because it's worthless to text on that site unless I'm getting paid.
HamNcheese
11-01-2019, 08:25 PM
Soooo is it safe to assume that this app is completely dead? I've been on a week spending at least an hour a day, starring every guy but to no real avail... 🙃
WendiStarr
11-02-2019, 07:49 AM
It can take 2 weeks to even make the minimum $10 payout anymore. It reminds me of the guests and basics on cam, begging for free nudes. It has been pretty dead for a while.
miss.a.p1600
11-02-2019, 09:25 AM
I made a good $50 there ..... just vanilla texting
But do you know how long it took to get that???
There is probably a method to make more with adult type convos n what not but from my experience the dudes are like on Tinder. They have short attention spans.
miss.a.p1600
11-02-2019, 09:33 AM
Soooo is it safe to assume that this app is completely dead? I've been on a week spending at least an hour a day, starring every guy but to no real avail...
This is just me personally n my opinion
But I would not star every guy
Only because you’d never do that in reality. Some of those guys profiles are cringy.
Star enough just to get a few dudes regularly checking out your profile.
SuperPookie
11-02-2019, 10:58 AM
I haven't gotten so much as a text on here in over a year and that's with periodic bursts of starring every profile for like 10 pages.
BustyLark
11-03-2019, 12:40 PM
I think the main issue is it calls itself a "relationship site."
BustyLark
11-03-2019, 12:41 PM
Anyone else find this site really bogs down your computer?
xxxGothBarbie
11-03-2019, 01:10 PM
Also don't forget the fact that you've got competition with the new girls sending nudes for a rose or nothing at all. I get lucky here & there but not like before when the app sadly. They should seriously delete the whole "relationship" crap from the label & just see what happens.
BustyLark
11-12-2019, 12:54 AM
How are we supposed to know when we have be paid out to know when to expect the payment?
I ask because I can't find anywhere on the site that tracks this at all.
Spemily
11-12-2019, 11:09 AM
How are we supposed to know when we have be paid out to know when to expect the payment?
I ask because I can't find anywhere on the site that tracks this at all.
Click on the gear icon in the lower left hand corner (it says "Settings" when you hover over it). Select "Balance". On that page, you will see your balance under "Current Balance". Right next to that, click on "Transaction Details". That will open up your list of transactions with customers which will show as credits and payouts which will show as debits.
BustyLark
11-13-2019, 11:09 PM
Thank you, I did get paid!
AsheKn
11-20-2019, 05:56 PM
I retired this app for myself. I had a good run on it but it wasnt even worth the phone space anymore. The issue is absolutely with the development of the app and the road they took with it after about a year and a half or so? after launch. Before that it was easy to pull away 1k+ a month from here.
Bridgetxo
12-06-2019, 06:32 AM
This site has been dead for me for a while. The app doesn't even work on my phone anymore. I don't know if it's my phone or the app itself. I can open the app but when I click on a message, the app will crash. Super annoying. I only have a few people I talk to on here anyway so it's not a big loss for me. I remember when I could make 500-1k per month on here easy. Now I make maybe $50 per month. I don't even star new guys anymore. This site was nice while it lasted! It had a good run.
trustfundkiller
12-06-2019, 11:06 AM
I still make about $500-$1k here a month, mostly thanks to my regulars. It hasn't been available to download in the app store for a long time now, so no doubt that will hurt numbers. I wish I knew what was going on behind the scenes, as far as whether they have plans of bringing it back to the app store, revamping it, starting a new advertising campaign, etc. We used to get e-mails about this type of stuff all the time.
WendiStarr
12-14-2019, 11:18 PM
I had a wave of guys star me and send messages out of nowhere. Is this app slowly reviving or just a random rare occurrence? Anyone else?
xxxGothBarbie
12-16-2019, 11:01 AM
Same here wendi
blondhottie
12-17-2019, 12:44 PM
Phrendly has pretty much died for me. I was never a top earner on here, but I could always count on making at least a couple hundred or more per month here-nice spare money. Now I can't even get that. Guys are usually ghosting me right away if I won't go off the app or send free pics.
xxxGothBarbie
12-17-2019, 02:23 PM
Same here LOL , the last 2 guys that messaged me wanted free pics & wanted to go offsite & I said nope. They then got an attitude then blocked me.
WendiStarr
12-17-2019, 04:09 PM
^ Ugh, yes. It seems that when you try to make small talk with them after they've sent a "Hi", "Hey," or "You're hot!", they immediately respond back, asking for nude or topless pictures, and when you ask them a virtual gift for it, crickets or begging. It reminds me of the freeloaders on cam. At least with the freeloading beggers on Phrendly I can get paid to argue with them, as long as they keep responding, begging. Well, I guess so much for hoping for a revival, lol.
MinaLions
12-24-2019, 04:54 PM
I'm on phrendly and I never get any text or calls
Daydreaminxxx
01-01-2020, 06:58 PM
I just joined and I'm really liking this. I made $30 in the couple hrs I was on yesterday and then $60 today. Not huge amounts, but this is great for days I dont feel like camming. I have one question, and I'm sorry if this has been asked before. Can we send the guys links to our website or fancentro, or would that be against the rules?
Spemily
01-02-2020, 11:34 AM
I just joined and I'm really liking this. I made $30 in the couple hrs I was on yesterday and then $60 today. Not huge amounts, but this is great for days I dont feel like camming. I have one question, and I'm sorry if this has been asked before. Can we send the guys links to our website or fancentro, or would that be against the rules?
You're not allowed to share any contact info with them, or link them to any place they can spend money on you.
Daydreaminxxx
01-02-2020, 01:26 PM
You're not allowed to share any contact info with them, or link them to any place they can spend money on you.
Thank you, glad I asked first!
katydiamond123
02-04-2020, 05:12 PM
I still make about $500-$1k here a month, mostly thanks to my regulars. It hasn't been available to download in the app store for a long time now, so no doubt that will hurt numbers. I wish I knew what was going on behind the scenes, as far as whether they have plans of bringing it back to the app store, revamping it, starting a new advertising campaign, etc. We used to get e-mails about this type of stuff all the time.
It is still in the android store and I find guys who buy Android are cheaper than guys who buy Iphones. LOL
Also, there are way less guys joining. There used to be 200 in a day now it's 10 guys a lot of days. Plus they advertise on instagram now and those guys don't want to pay for pics. I know someone trying to work on there indie and guys won't pay her at all. They want nude for free and are really demanding.
Lots of girls are making money on Phrendly but they are all new. Or they are really young. There are more guys 18-25 on there than anything else. The rest bid high on the top 2 pages. I really think Phrendly wants new turnover and drives more traffic to their profiles. Jamma said on here once people who are in the top ten get 90 % of the business.
Also if you take a break from it for 2 months, like I did, you go back and even with my high scores the bids are $15. It is their way of penalizing you for taking time off. That isn't fair, sometimes you have to take time off for health reasons or people who have children might need to.
Because the new girls are the only ones I hear are making $1500+ a month even now in January and February I really think they are being favoritized. They have been getting advice of what to charge so most aren't sending out pics free and they are asking gifts to videochat. one said she made $1500 in January. Another said $60 in one night texting. The people who have been there for a year or two are all saying that they don't make what they used to or nothing. Guys always want new too. Maybe buy a wig and rebrand yourself! trust fund "killer", You are lucky you have lots of regulars but you are so hot you will always make $ on any site. :-)
xxxGothBarbie
02-04-2020, 05:22 PM
It is still in the android store and I find guys who buy Android are cheaper than guys who buy Iphones. LOL
Lots of girls are making money on Phrendly but they are all new. Or they are really young. There are more guys 18-25 on there than anything else. The rest bid high on the top 2 pages. I really think Phrendly wants new turnover and drives more traffic to their profiles. Jamma said on here once people who are in the top ten get 90 % of the business.
Also if you take a break from it for 2 months, like I did, you go back and even with my high scores the bids are $15. It is their way of penalizing you for taking time off. That isn't fair, sometimes you have to take time off for health reasons or people who have children might need to.
Because the new girls are the only ones I hear are making $1500+ a month even now in January and February I really think they are being favoritized. They have been getting advice of what to charge so most aren't sending out pics free and they are asking gifts to videochat. one said she made $1500 in January. Another said $60 in one night texting. The people who have been there for a year or two are all saying that they don't make what they used to or nothing. Guys always want new too. Maybe buy a wig and rebrand yourself! trust fund "killer", You are lucky you have lots of regulars but you are so hot you will always make $ on any site. :-)
How can one rebrand themselves on phrendly? I didn't think we could make new accounts/profiles?
katydiamond123
02-04-2020, 05:31 PM
How can one rebrand themselves on phrendly? I didn't think we could make new accounts/profiles?
You can buy a wig change your name ask them to put your age to a different age so you don't look like the same person. Then unstar and restar every single person. The top bid is showing at $45 for me after 2 months away and I have good scores, 2 are in the high 90s. But, it is the response score that I've noticed really counts on what you have to bid. And that goes down when you are away. Pisses me off!! (Can i say that here? lol)
Some girls have said they change their profile pic every week and their tag line. That might help, it confuses guys. I had a guy I talked to a lot message me when I changed my picture he didn't know who i was. LOL
xxxGothBarbie
02-04-2020, 05:41 PM
That I am def gonna try ;) my regs have all ghosted me unfortunately.
katydiamond123
02-04-2020, 05:47 PM
That I am def gonna try ;) my regs have all ghosted me unfortunately.
You should try it, I'm thinking about it. Wigs are $20 on Amazon and you can use it for camming or photos/vids too. Because I know new people are still earning I want to be new again!!! LOL
Think about it: you wouldn't eat the same dinner for 2 years! These guys want a new experience or hope that each new girl, one will fall in love eventually. LOLOL
xxxGothBarbie
02-04-2020, 08:12 PM
I need to message them & see if its cool to change my age. I swear I thought they've told me before that I couldnt?? I'd love to play around & see if I'd get a boost in business though saying I'm 23 or 25 LOL :P
blondhottie
02-16-2020, 07:26 AM
They allow some people to change their age and deny other people, for no rhyme or reason. Them playing favorites and not keeping the rules consistent for everybody is one of the main reasons I dislike Phrendly.
WendiStarr
02-16-2020, 02:08 PM
^ I agree! I always, always change my age to younger than I really am. People buy it since I look younger. Can't do that on Phrendly unless you're one of the select few.