View Full Version : Phrendly.com, a new GFE option to consider
AlexxisNichole
09-22-2020, 01:58 PM
Hello my fellow slaying friends.
Does anyone use Phrendly? Has it completely died? I’m talking $20 a day dead.
It’s never been like this for me so I’m curious 🙁
arielbriel
09-22-2020, 03:42 PM
Yes! I haven’t made anything on it in months. I stopped bidding because it’s so expensive and you get nothing out of it. I still heart guys daily but no messages , so weird!
WendiStarr
09-22-2020, 03:57 PM
Yes, more like $10 a month dead.
Spemily
09-22-2020, 04:09 PM
I'd be beyond thrilled if I was making $20 a day on Phrendly.
I've been making about $10 a month since the beginning of 2019 and then in June, July and August I actually got more messages. I made $73 in August which was my best month on the site since 2018.
September, so far, I haven't received a single message and starring guys has been pointless.
arielbriel
09-22-2020, 09:25 PM
I think you only do well on it if you're a complete newb to it. I made 700 my first month on it and now NOTHING for months. They owe me $3.82 right now LMAO.
GoddessLilith
09-30-2020, 08:26 PM
I've made $73, which is an amazing month on Phrendly for me. I usually make $0-$5. Obviously, it's not exactly a lucrative site for me.
I wouldn't ever dream of bidding. Right now, they want me to bid between $54 and $38 to be on the front page, which is absolutely insane. I bid on NiteFlirt because getting eyes on my profile can lead to passive income from PTV or goody purchases. Also, if a guy clicks on a PTV or favorites me, I can market to him. But, on Phrendly you get none of that and the bids are sky high anyway.
Agreed!! All of this. Plus the bidding is NOWHERE near as insane on NF.... it's very reasonable
SuperPookie
10-18-2020, 01:07 PM
I decided to try & login & give this site another go so I tried to update my profile & it just keeps saying profanity or nudity isn't allowed when all I am trying to do is update text & using 0 profanity or even overly suggestive language >:(.
Violethollywood
10-25-2020, 05:48 PM
this site has been dead for months. i made 10 bucks last week though wooo fucking hoo *eyeroll.
AlexxisNichole
10-25-2020, 06:29 PM
this site has been dead for months. i made 10 bucks last week though wooo fucking hoo *eyeroll.
I don’t even have enough recent stars to see people on. Even with me continuing to star everyone.
Violethollywood
10-25-2020, 08:11 PM
I don’t even have enough recent stars to see people on. Even with me continuing to star everyone.
god that's annoying. i get stars but they never message or they send me one message trying to get me to talk to them for free thru actual texting or some social media platform
AlexxisNichole
10-26-2020, 06:19 AM
god that's annoying. i get stars but they never message or they send me one message trying to get me to talk to them for free thru actual texting or some social media platform
Do you think TikTok and Twitch have severely hurt us? I do.
arielbriel
10-26-2020, 12:59 PM
Yes maybe 10 new guys a day which I star but nothing. Actually I made $13 the other day cause one guy Called me asking if I do
Meet ups. I asked him a bunch of questions to keep him on the line but that’s it.
ElenaEclair
12-30-2020, 10:31 PM
I keep getting glitches or something where it says I have a message, but when I check the app, there's nothing there. The first time it happened was almost a year ago and the notification of it never went away. And the last day I've gotten two more, so now every time I open the app it says I have 3 messages I haven't looked at, but there aren't any. It's already driven me crazy for a year and I wish I could get it fixed. I've looked at regular and hidden messages, and from the phone app, phone browser, and desktop browser.
xxxGothBarbie
12-30-2020, 11:15 PM
Does this site have the app on iphone?
TheBrownFox
12-30-2020, 11:49 PM
Does this site have the app on iphone?
Yes, I have the Phrendly app on my iPhone.
ElenaEclair
01-01-2021, 09:52 PM
Does this site have the app on iphone? While you can access the app if you've purchased it years ago before the apple store stopped carrying it, I don't believe anyone new can download it from the app store on iphones. Plus they don't support the app any longer, so while you can still use most of the functions, you can't display video of yourself from your iphone. I always have to switch to my laptop any time someone wants to video chat.
TheBrownFox
01-02-2021, 09:34 PM
I keep getting glitches or something where it says I have a message, but when I check the app, there's nothing there. The first time it happened was almost a year ago and the notification of it never went away. And the last day I've gotten two more, so now every time I open the app it says I have 3 messages I haven't looked at, but there aren't any. It's already driven me crazy for a year and I wish I could get it fixed. I've looked at regular and hidden messages, and from the phone app, phone browser, and desktop browser.
Yup, I'm having this same problem with the app now. It's telling me I have 4 new messages, but when I click on it there's nothing new there. My last conversation with someone was 54 days ago.
TheBrownFox
01-02-2021, 10:05 PM
Even though the app is being screwy right now (Telling me I have 4 new messages when I really don't...it's doing the same thing when I go onto Phrendly from my laptop), I went to my inbox to try to tell each of these guys "Happy New Year!" With most of them I'm getting a pop-up notice that their account is closed (I guess these guys are leaving Phrendly after using up their free drinks, because they don't wanna spend money).
I chuckled looking at this old message from June (a guy I had starred) that says "If you do not live in San Antonio, Texas, and have no desire to be involved with a 65 year old man, please unstar me. Thanks." Obviously, I unstarred him a long time ago after reading that. Lol. Ain't on here to meet dudes in person, and I'm not about to lie about wanting to meet either. :P
TheBrownFox
01-03-2021, 01:18 AM
Sorry for the triple post. I noticed that the "Forwarding: SMS when not on Phrendly" option had the 'Off' button selected just now, and I know for a fact I've always had that set to ON. SMH. They need to fix these issues.
xxxGothBarbie
01-03-2021, 01:41 PM
Good thing I wont be in a rush to get a new iphone that metro is offering rn then LOL
I'd have to change my number in order to even qualitfy for a $50 iphone blah
This site has been slow AF too. The guys have gotten beyond greedy on here & you really gotta have a way with words to make anything anymore.
TheBrownFox
01-06-2021, 06:24 PM
Wow, now it's telling me I have 8 new messages, and still...nothing there. I'm gonna go ahead and e-mail Support about this. I liked it when jamma used to post in this thread on behalf of Phrendly.
ep2002
01-08-2021, 08:49 AM
On NiteFlirt, you have twice as much time (24 hours) than the 12 hours you have on Phrendly to respond to a message. If you respond within that window, you get paid. If you respond outside of the window, you don't.
Got it. Thanks
I bid for a few days when bidding was first introduced. I never bit very high (bids between $0.30 and $1.00) with a budget of $10-$15. Every time, my budget was spent within an hour or two and never resulted in any worthwhile business as far as I could tell.
Same here. I won't ever bid again.
While you can access the app if you've purchased it years ago before the apple store stopped carrying it, I don't believe anyone new can download it from the app store on iphones. Plus they don't support the app any longer, so while you can still use most of the functions, you can't display video of yourself from your iphone. I always have to switch to my laptop any time someone wants to video chat.
Ahh, so that's why when I went on video I couldn't see the guy & I lost him b/c of that (sigh)
Anyone else have it showing that they have unread messages, and yet they don't seem to appear anywhere? I've looked through my regular and hidden messages and can't find anything I haven't responded to yet, let alone haven't seen, but it's said I have two unread messages for weeks now and it's driving me nuts. I've looked on the app and on my computer and no luck with either.
I keep getting glitches or something where it says I have a message, but when I check the app, there's nothing there. The first time it happened was almost a year ago and the notification of it never went away. And the last day I've gotten two more, so now every time I open the app it says I have 3 messages I haven't looked at, but there aren't any. It's already driven me crazy for a year and I wish I could get it fixed. I've looked at regular and hidden messages, and from the phone app, phone browser, and desktop browser.
Yup, I'm having this same problem with the app now. It's telling me I have 4 new messages, but when I click on it there's nothing new there. My last conversation with someone was 54 days ago.
It's not the app, it's the entire site & I hope you ladies reported it to them b/c I've been waiting around 3 weeks for them to fix this & it's even saying guys are contacting me (it names their names) & I can't talk to them.
I'm PISSED.
TheBrownFox
01-09-2021, 11:56 PM
It's not the app, it's the entire site
I know. That's what I said a few posts up (That it's doing it to me on the Phrendly website too). I e-mailed them last week, and they said they'd get back to me.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2021, 08:19 AM
Good thing I wont be in a rush to get a new iphone that metro is offering rn then LOL
I'd have to change my number in order to even qualitfy for a $50 iphone blah
This site has been slow AF too. The guys have gotten beyond greedy on here & you really gotta have a way with words to make anything anymore.
it seems like at least half of them will quit interacting if you don’t get sexual right off top.
um. No bruh! I’m not enabling your cheap ass perversions for pennies. Gtfooh!!!
This is just me but I like the dudes who accept that The lady will lead and the man will remain open with his wallet.
Oh and DO NOT use Metro their service network is horrid! More calls dropped than a slippery baby. And never could get service in rural areas or areas with fewer cell towers or high cell traffic. I ditched them an never looking back. I have a much better phone service if you want to pm I’ll share the detail
ep2002
01-10-2021, 06:16 PM
I know. That's what I said a few posts up (That it's doing it to me on the Phrendly website too). I e-mailed them last week, and they said they'd get back to me.
Sorry, someone else said app so I was just clarifying.
I'll e-mail them again.
Thanks
TheBrownFox
01-11-2021, 06:42 AM
Sorry, someone else said app so I was just clarifying.
I'll e-mail them again.
Thanks
Yeah, that was me who said that too. I said the app was fucked up with those b.s. message alerts, and then (after checking things out on the Phrendly website) I came right back on here to say that the website was fucked up too with those message alerts. I hope they fix it soon, because it's getting on my nerves. Lol.
ElenaEclair
01-14-2021, 01:50 PM
I also emailed support weeks ago about it (the phantom messages) and they said they'd get back to me but I haven't heard a word. I'm up to 20 now. It's so out of hand. I had a customer say he also has a ton.
TheBrownFox
01-14-2021, 11:07 PM
"Hi there!
We got your email and we'll get back to you as soon as we can. In the mean time, you may be able to find your answer at support.phrendly.com.
Cheers,
Phrendly Customer Support"
^I got that message on January 6th, and haven't heard from them since.....
TheBrownFox
01-18-2021, 04:56 PM
Well even though Phrendly is being screwy af right now, and their support team STILL hasn't gotten back to me...I'm happy that a guy from Phrendly read my profile and decided to subscribe to me on OnlyFans. He sent me a tip on OF.
xxxGothBarbie
01-19-2021, 01:16 AM
Well even though Phrendly is being screwy af right now, and their support team STILL hasn't gotten back to me...I'm happy that a guy from Phrendly read my profile and decided to subscribe to me on OnlyFans. He sent me a tip on OF.
How did you manage to get away with having your OF link on your profile on there? That's brilliant
I just poached a couple of clients over from a site I recently quit due to it not being very busy anymore.
TheBrownFox
01-19-2021, 08:14 AM
How did you manage to get away with having your OF link on your profile on there? That's brilliant
I just poached a couple of clients over from a site I recently quit due to it not being very busy anymore.
I didn't post any links. I got tired of having "Virtual gifts get you sexy pics!" (Ain't nobody sending me gifts on this site anymore...lol), so I changed it to say "Twitter/
[email protected]*Insert my username*"
ep2002
01-21-2021, 08:56 AM
I also emailed support weeks ago about it (the phantom messages) and they said they'd get back to me but I haven't heard a word. I'm up to 20 now. It's so out of hand. I had a customer say he also has a ton.
"Hi there!
We got your email and we'll get back to you as soon as we can. In the mean time, you may be able to find your answer at support.phrendly.com.
Cheers,
Phrendly Customer Support"
^I got that message on January 6th, and haven't heard from them since.....
JFC, nothing. I email them all the time & he just keeps saying that he put a note on my account to contact me when it's fixed.
It's been weeks & I keep getting messages that I can't respond to.
I'm not sure they are phantom. They could be real.
I didn't post any links. I got tired of having "Virtual gifts get you sexy pics!" (Ain't nobody sending me gifts on this site anymore...lol), so I changed it to say "Twitter/
[email protected]*Insert my username*"
Where are you able to write text in your profile?
TheBrownFox
01-23-2021, 02:40 PM
JFC, nothing. I email them all the time & he just keeps saying that he put a note on my account to contact me when it's fixed.
It's been weeks & I keep getting messages that I can't respond to.
I'm not sure they are phantom. They could be real.
Where are you able to write text in your profile?
On the app, click that little person icon on the bottom (It's the one in between the star icon and the gear icon). It takes you to your profile. Tap the pencil icon underneath your photo. Where it says "How would your friends describe you?" is an area where you can type in something. Then click 'Done' to save it.
Katthekat
01-26-2021, 02:15 PM
Here's how to fix the phantom message glitch: the notification actually comes from a profile with a verified gif starring you, go to your starred me and click on the most recent ones with an approved gif, type up a few letters, don't send just exit the convo and the notification should disappear. It took me figuring it out when they sent the so and so wants to talk you email with the person's name when you don't respond after 24, and I went to their profile and saw that these were guys that never messaged me.
Sorry, I hope that all makes sense :)
ElenaEclair
02-11-2021, 05:03 PM
Yessss. Thanks Kat. That helped me so much. I just cleared 50+ messages. I only have one left, but I've had that for over a year and it was just a weird one I had way before they started getting common. Not sure if it's due to the same glitch, though I really wish they'd just clear it. It drives me crazy.
ep2002
02-11-2021, 08:03 PM
On the app, click that little person icon on the bottom (It's the one in between the star icon and the gear icon). It takes you to your profile. Tap the pencil icon underneath your photo. Where it says "How would your friends describe you?" is an area where you can type in something. Then click 'Done' to save it.
Thank you. I'll see if that does anything.
Here's how to fix the phantom message glitch: the notification actually comes from a profile with a verified gif starring you, go to your starred me and click on the most recent ones with an approved gif, type up a few letters, don't send just exit the convo and the notification should disappear. It took me figuring it out when they sent the so and so wants to talk you email with the person's name when you don't respond after 24, and I went to their profile and saw that these were guys that never messaged me.
Sorry, I hope that all makes sense :)
So I didn't back out of the conversation per say, I just clicked on More & the letters I typed in the box stays in the next guy's conversation thread, so I didn't add more hoping that would help.
I then clicked again on people who starred me & then went to the next guy, but this is taking forever & I don't even know when this first started happening.
I'm all the way back in Dec. & it's getting exhausting.
The red mark still hasn't disappeared.
Thanks
ep2002
02-11-2021, 08:12 PM
IT FINALLY CLEARED. YIPPEEEE
What a FKing PIA.
Grrrr
They changed the whole starr thing. I know that's why they created this bug.
Before I would just open a new tab when I saw the red mark & the starred person would be right there. Now you have to click on the "starred" tab which is an extra step that is unnecessary, & that's when this all started happening.
Thanks
naughtybabe1
02-17-2021, 02:56 PM
I just joined and $20 out of the gate! So far so good. i do so so on all the other pso sites...i hope this is a popping egg for me. i like how its similar to sexpanther that you can do chat/phone/video on the laptop. so easy. i wish niteflirt did that as well. i hope i stay good on this one
xxxGothBarbie
02-17-2021, 09:49 PM
^ Ya this site rocks at times & has def saved my ass at times. Seems like the guys are getting more & more cheap though :( I rarely get gifts for my nudes anymore EVEN after the small chitchat at first. I really hope girls aren't still sending free nudes for convo or bc these guys cop attitudes when being asked for a gift for a nude.
Does anyone have any tips for this site anymore?
naughtybabe1
02-20-2021, 10:45 AM
Yeah...ive only been on for a few days but so far i can make 1/2 my daily goal from this egg only. hope it stays that way. i do a lot of regular pso sext/video chat. i did have to figure out for a "gift' for the naked pics. I wish the site allowed us to sell pics and vids. otherwise so far so good. busier than niteflirt and sextpanther for me so far
TheBrownFox
02-20-2021, 06:41 PM
Yeah...ive only been on for a few days but so far i can make 1/2 my daily goal from this egg only. hope it stays that way. i do a lot of regular pso sext/video chat. i did have to figure out for a "gift' for the naked pics. I wish the site allowed us to sell pics and vids. otherwise so far so good. busier than niteflirt and sextpanther for me so far
That's great! I got a $8.75 payable balance just sitting there, and haven't gotten any action on this site since January 18. Lol.
xxxGothBarbie
02-20-2021, 08:09 PM
That's great! I got a $8.75 payable balance just sitting there, and haven't gotten any action on this site since January 18. Lol.
What I usually do is just message everyone using the long lost friends thing & that usually sparks up a few fish :)
TheBrownFox
02-20-2021, 08:12 PM
What I usually do is just message everyone using the long lost friends thing & that usually sparks up a few fish :)
Yeah, I did that. I spent A LOT of time going through every message thread to wish each guy a happy new year. ONE...maybe two people responded. Lol.
xxxGothBarbie
02-20-2021, 08:17 PM
Yeah, I did that. I spent A LOT of time going through every message thread to wish each guy a happy new year. ONE...maybe two people responded. Lol.
I've been there too haha ugh :/
Hmmm I dunno then... I'm annoying AF so I bother them to death LOL I just keep talking.
arielbriel
02-21-2021, 12:48 AM
Yes but don't they get paid if you message them first?
TheBrownFox
02-21-2021, 02:51 AM
Yes but don't they get paid if you message them first?
That's only if you started the very FIRST message to them. So if, say, he messaged you first back in November of 2020, then he will forever be the one who gets charged for the rest of the time y'all keep that conversation going.
But now I'm curious what if you (the model) were to go into the app and for some reason...delete the conversation thread with that person? If you find him and star him all over again, would you still have to wait for HIM to contact you first (like he did before), so that he gets charged instead of you? I wish jamma still posted on here.
xxxGothBarbie
02-21-2021, 03:12 AM
That's only if you started the very FIRST message to them. So if, say, he messaged you first back in November of 2020, then he will forever be the one who gets charged for the rest of the time y'all keep that conversation going.
But now I'm curious what if you (the model) were to go into the app and for some reason...delete the conversation thread with that person? If you find him and star him all over again, would you still have to wait for HIM to contact you first (like he did before), so that he gets charged instead of you? I wish jamma still posted on here.
From my experience no he will always be charged for messages.
TheBrownFox
02-21-2021, 03:22 AM
From my experience no he will always be charged for messages.
Thanks. I thought so, but wasn't sure.
arielbriel
02-21-2021, 04:36 AM
Awesome, I didn't know!
kaitihaze
03-20-2021, 03:49 PM
Anyone else having an issue with the messages not showing up even though it says I have messages?