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melanielive
01-19-2022, 06:27 PM
I cannot even find the app on the app store anymore..
Did they change their name?

WendiStarr
01-19-2022, 06:56 PM
Phrendly appears to be dead, at least for me. I've been stuck at 90 cents away from making payout for almost a year now.

ravenskyy
01-20-2022, 09:34 PM
I've only had 1 consistent customer on here for the past year and he's spending much less now. I'll get a new guy here or there but my income has dropped tremendously on this site. It used to be a good side hustle for gas money, but now it's taking me months to even get that. I might have to delete this app and throw away this egg. Ugh. I miss 2017/2018. I literally paid rent a few times with this site lol

Chica
02-09-2022, 07:42 AM
Hi ladies, have you always gotten paid on phrendly? I have been using the app for a few years and never had a problem with payouts. Then I stopped and had some money left on the app (over $1000) I recently started using it again and decided to request a payout. It has been 3 business days and nothing in my bank account. Have you ever had problems with payouts from them? I start to worry :(

Spemily
02-09-2022, 12:27 PM
Hi ladies, have you always gotten paid on phrendly? I have been using the app for a few years and never had a problem with payouts. Then I stopped and had some money left on the app (over $1000) I recently started using it again and decided to request a payout. It has been 3 business days and nothing in my bank account. Have you ever had problems with payouts from them? I start to worry :(

I have received my checks from the like clockwork since I first signed up. Never late, never lost. Phrendly is the same people as NiteFlirt and if there is one thing they are good at and reliable about, it is payouts. Just like on NiteFlirt, Phrendly bank transfers take up to 10 business days.

https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/218323127-Money-money-money-Getting-paid

So, if you haven't received your money in 10 business days, contact support.

As an aside, even though Phrendly is super reliable, why on earth would you ever leave $1000 of your money in someone else's hands where it isn't available to you quickly, collecting interest or doing anything else for you? As a general rule, unless there are large fees you are trying to avoid paying multiple times, you should take payout as soon as you can, from every site.

Chica
02-10-2022, 07:08 PM
I have received my checks from the like clockwork since I first signed up. Never late, never lost. Phrendly is the same people as NiteFlirt and if there is one thing they are good at and reliable about, it is payouts. Just like on NiteFlirt, Phrendly bank transfers take up to 10 business days.

https://support.phrendly.com/hc/en-us/articles/218323127-Money-money-money-Getting-paid

So, if you haven't received your money in 10 business days, contact support.

As an aside, even though Phrendly is super reliable, why on earth would you ever leave $1000 of your money in someone else's hands where it isn't available to you quickly, collecting interest or doing anything else for you? As a general rule, unless there are large fees you are trying to avoid paying multiple times, you should take payout as soon as you can, from every site.

thank you so much for your reply. Just received money today on the account. I totally agree it was so stupid to leave this amount on the account. I don’t know what on earth I was thinking. Will be taking out even smallest payouts from now on. Thank you again!

Raven88
02-13-2022, 04:32 AM
IS this still a thing? I can't find it in the app store, I was on it a few years ago and did ok for a side hustle.

Spemily
02-14-2022, 01:08 PM
IS this still a thing? I can't find it in the app store, I was on it a few years ago and did ok for a side hustle.

It's still a thing, but it does seem like the app has been kicked out of the app store. I still have it on my phone and it still works. You can also use the site.

trustfundkiller
02-21-2022, 06:32 PM
Phrendly has been kicked out of the App Store for a few years now. I make good money here but I'm very fortunate to have some loyal regulars. Maybe once a month or so I'll get a message from a new guy.

happyganappy777
02-21-2022, 07:29 PM
The site is still active but I don't know if it is in the app store.

I have had my phrendly account for about 2 years and only received 1 check and that check was for 11 bucks. Most of the men on the site appear to be freeloaders who will do anything and everything to not spend money. I am in my phrendly account now and the last message was in december and that communication ended when the dude realized that he had to spend money on the site.

I am sure that everyone's experience is different on phrendly but as a dark skinned AA BBW, Phrendly just does not work for me. #Justsaying #Iamputtinginmy2cents

Rachelj87
02-28-2022, 12:42 PM
Hey everyone, so I made a new account and made my age younger than my real one lol I think that makes a difference! So I made $155 the first 3 days . However then I didn't get any new messages for aa week. I am wondering if you get a new girl promo or something. However I did decided to try the promotion and select $1.75 and omg I think it helped. I'm getting more messags now. One day I made $30 from it and star ing every guy lol. Last thing, anyone know what it means when it says " user name can't be reached right now " Was I blocked ? Lol

xxxGothBarbie
03-02-2022, 08:50 PM
Hey everyone, so I made a new account and made my age younger than my real one lol I think that makes a difference! So I made $155 the first 3 days . However then I didn't get any new messages for aa week. I am wondering if you get a new girl promo or something. However I did decided to try the promotion and select $1.75 and omg I think it helped. I'm getting more messags now. One day I made $30 from it and star ing every guy lol. Last thing, anyone know what it means when it says " user name can't be reached right now " Was I blocked ? Lol

Is this even possible now???? I emailed support awhile back and told them I wanted to do that so it'd increase my revenue and they told me I couldn't. Did you close your old account first?

Rachelj87
03-03-2022, 07:47 AM
So I closed out my old account and just made a new one. Lol damn I just got lucky. At first It didn't work so I emailed them and then said it should work and it did. Maybe they didnt realize ? Weird , just try making one ?

Spemily
03-03-2022, 01:58 PM
Way back in the early days of Phrendly, someone on this thread did exactly that and wound up losing their second account (and the money in it). Obviously, things might be different now, or there might have been more to the story, but I don't think I'd just do it without asking them specifically.

trustfundkiller
03-25-2022, 06:47 PM
I'm guessing "Darn! This person can't be reached." is pretty much always because the customer blocked you? Or could it be something else? It's always interesting to get a customer who goes from professing their love to you to blocking you out of the blue lol. Crazy ass men, I swear.

xxxGothBarbie
03-28-2022, 01:54 PM
Do any of you ever get regulars from way back that resurface to cam or spend $ only to block you hours after if you can't / don't reply back in a few hours? He'll unblock me to try to talk about camming again then if we do I'm blocked again.

trustfundkiller
03-29-2022, 06:48 PM
Do any of you ever get regulars from way back that resurface to cam or spend $ only to block you hours after if you can't / don't reply back in a few hours? He'll unblock me to try to talk about camming again then if we do I'm blocked again.
I thought blocking was permanent on this app. I have a regular from years ago who does this exact thing and then deactivates his account, which is annoying behavior.

Violethollywood
04-09-2022, 04:53 PM
phrendly is the deadest texting site i have. I'll get stars but no bites and every once in awhile i'll make 10 bucks. It's wild how downhill this site went. I used to make upwards of 300-600 a day on it now it's just crickets. Most of the guys also put "text my number xxx-xxx" or "add me on snapchat" because they don't want to pay .

JGB2009
04-27-2022, 01:43 PM
What is the area code from this site that comes to the phone now?

ravenskyy
04-27-2022, 01:49 PM
What is the area code from this site that comes to the phone now?
For me it's 512.

xxxGothBarbie
04-28-2022, 01:39 PM
Ugh this site is soooo dead for me these days despite the few guys I get that actually spend. I just got blocked by a decent spender bc I asked for a bouquet of roses for pics. That's my rate asshole, he had no problem paying it Fri LOL

Percy
04-29-2022, 10:38 AM
Do I have to use my real photos or model content I purchase?

ravenskyy
04-29-2022, 10:40 AM
Do I have to use my real photos or model content I purchase?

They're supposed to be your photos. You make a gif when you set up your profile, so unless the model you choose looks a lot like you or you don't show your face in the photos, this would not work.

xxxGothBarbie
04-30-2022, 09:39 AM
Do we still have to have a social media account in order to upload pics?

Violethollywood
04-30-2022, 10:38 AM
yeah this site has been dead for me for MONTHS. sad . it used to be my top one :( now i might get 10 bucks every few months lol

Raven88
04-30-2022, 10:48 AM
I've thought of going back this now that I finally have some time... I am not a tech person at all and I've upgraded my phone a few times since this site has been kicked out of the app store
Is there someway to get this on my phone again ( the web version was so slow if I remember, in regards to starring/scrolling through profiles)

Or is there something similar someone can recommend? I like chat sites, but never was successful at camming.

ravenskyy
05-13-2022, 09:52 AM
Did they increase their cut? I feel like I'm making less money from video chats.

Spemily
05-13-2022, 11:11 AM
Did they increase their cut? I feel like I'm making less money from video chats.

I went poking around to see what the site says and video calls are still 70% after 20 cent a minute connection fee. I think that when Phrendly first launched, they weren't charging the connection fee, but they added it a couple of years ago. It doesn't look like anything has changed recently though.

One thing I did notice, was a notification saying the following:


Please note: As of December 2021, video calls are not working on Chrome. Please use a different browser for video calls at this time.

That's the kind of thing that needs to be more prominently featured somewhere and not just hidden deep within the help section.

Also, this might help explain why NiteFlirt hasn't rushed to implement the video call functionality from Phrendly.

Percy
05-14-2022, 04:38 AM
So let me get it straight....I take pics of me, and flirt with guys, and send them pics...and I get some money for this? It's flirting without meeting and no cam required?

And the men know this....correct??

Spemily
05-14-2022, 06:35 AM
So let me get it straight....I take pics of me, and flirt with guys, and send them pics...and I get some money for this? It's flirting without meeting and no cam required?

And the men know this....correct??

I mean... that's the marketing schtick, sort of. And it's certainly the way some conversations on the site go. But I wouldn't say it's an accurate description of the site.

Firstly, the only reason it's about "flirting" is because Phrendly wants to keep up the appearance of not being an adult site. However, this has the downside of being confusing to guys (and some women) who just stumble across it randomly and who see that it is set up sort of like a very stripped-down dating app. This gives many, many guys the impression that the women are there, like them, to have fun. If they didn't read through explanation of the site too closely, they often imagine that both parties are paying to be able to send messages. It also leads them to be believe that the women will be open to exchanging real phone numbers or chat IDs because it would save everyone money.

Then, there are guys who have a better grasp on how the site works, but still think the women are there for fun. They are the ones who post in their description to message them first. They want to be the ones making money off random women messaging them, probably so they can then message with women they are more interested in.

Finally, there are guys who fully understand (or come to understand) that it's basically a site like NiteFlirt or TTM. They expect virtual sexual services of various sorts. They rarely just want "flirting". They want explicit sexual chats, explicit pics, explicit phone calls and/or explicit cam calls. Phrendly doesn't make offering any of this mandatory. You are free to not to turn on call availability or not turn on cam availability. You're free not to send photos, or not to send explicit photos. But guys will variously want all these things and will ask for them.

Whoever initiates the chat pays for all chat messages going forward, while the person who received the first chat gets paid for all chats going forward. For phone calls and cam calls, whoever places the call pays for it. There's no built in way to charge for pics, so if you want to be compensated for them, you have to convince the guy to send you a "gift". The different gifts Phrendly offers have different monetary values to you.

So, long story short, just like on any phone sex/sexting site, there are a few guys who will be content with you saying "teehee, you're making me blush" and sending a cute fully clothed pic, most want full virtual sexual services. And due to the confusing marketing, it's tougher to be ethical on this site. Many of the guys who seem content with not getting full sexual services are only behaving that way because they believe that they are talking to a girl who is there to have fun and who could be open to an actual relationship of some sort.

Percy
05-17-2022, 06:50 AM
I mean... that's the marketing schtick, sort of. And it's certainly the way some conversations on the site go. But I wouldn't say it's an accurate description of the site.

Firstly, the only reason it's about "flirting" is because Phrendly wants to keep up the appearance of not being an adult site. However, this has the downside of being confusing to guys (and some women) who just stumble across it randomly and who see that it is set up sort of like a very stripped-down dating app. This gives many, many guys the impression that the women are there, like them, to have fun. If they didn't read through explanation of the site too closely, they often imagine that both parties are paying to be able to send messages. It also leads them to be believe that the women will be open to exchanging real phone numbers or chat IDs because it would save everyone money.

Then, there are guys who have a better grasp on how the site works, but still think the women are there for fun. They are the ones who post in their description to message them first. They want to be the ones making money off random women messaging them, probably so they can then message with women they are more interested in.

Finally, there are guys who fully understand (or come to understand) that it's basically a site like NiteFlirt or TTM. They expect virtual sexual services of various sorts. They rarely just want "flirting". They want explicit sexual chats, explicit pics, explicit phone calls and/or explicit cam calls. Phrendly doesn't make offering any of this mandatory. You are free to not to turn on call availability or not turn on cam availability. You're free not to send photos, or not to send explicit photos. But guys will variously want all these things and will ask for them.

Whoever initiates the chat pays for all chat messages going forward, while the person who received the first chat gets paid for all chats going forward. For phone calls and cam calls, whoever places the call pays for it. There's no built in way to charge for pics, so if you want to be compensated for them, you have to convince the guy to send you a "gift". The different gifts Phrendly offers have different monetary values to you.

So, long story short, just like on any phone sex/sexting site, there are a few guys who will be content with you saying "teehee, you're making me blush" and sending a cute fully clothed pic, most want full virtual sexual services. And due to the confusing marketing, it's tougher to be ethical on this site. Many of the guys who seem content with not getting full sexual services are only behaving that way because they believe that they are talking to a girl who is there to have fun and who could be open to an actual relationship of some sort.
Yeah, I figured. Same crap I get on my PSO site. Not the TTM but PSO where we have no cam choices. Like, NO, not sending you my pics, no no talking off site..no no no no no lol. I think I'll skip this one, since I'm trying to figure out TTM but the guys seem cheap.

Percy
05-22-2022, 10:16 PM
Why do they want me to take a "live" photo. I have no will to put on make up and pose. Is there no option to just upload a photo, I mean, eventually I would have to do a cam type session and I can't lie. I can't figure out how to do it without a "Live" photo being taken. No time for that right now.

nikki187
05-25-2022, 04:13 AM
Why do they want me to take a "live" photo. I have no will to put on make up and pose. Is there no option to just upload a photo, I mean, eventually I would have to do a cam type session and I can't lie. I can't figure out how to do it without a "Live" photo being taken. No time for that right now.

I wanted to get back on phrendly recently and yes you have to do the live photo. I actually mentioned something to them yesterday about how annoying it is and they haven't approved two of them I have done. For some reason my mouth chooses violence I guess and they told me they will ban me from the site next time. Lol. I don't think what I said was that bad. Anyway I might try another one today if they don't ban me for my reply. They can do it if they want, their site is not that great.

It's a GIF and you have to take 3 photos from the shoulders up, try not to be too sexy as well, they won't approve it.

xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 05:42 PM
The guys on here are cheaper than ever before omfg

ep2002
06-29-2022, 04:59 AM
I wanted to get back on phrendly recently and yes you have to do the live photo. I actually mentioned something to them yesterday about how annoying it is and they haven't approved two of them I have done. For some reason my mouth chooses violence I guess and they told me they will ban me from the site next time. Lol. I don't think what I said was that bad. Anyway I might try another one today if they don't ban me for my reply. They can do it if they want, their site is not that great.

It's a GIF and you have to take 3 photos from the shoulders up, try not to be too sexy as well, they won't approve it.

It's ALL conditioning not just from them, but from everyone who is brainwashed & part of the new age cult which has spread worldwide into all facet of religion & I don't even believe in religion. I'm spiritually conscious.

You aren't allowed to complain, you can only say happy things, you can't say anything negative, you have to pretend you are happy when you aren't & you are attacked when you speak the truth.

Even FB downgrades your group if your members use negative emojis to the posts & comments. They started that about 1-1 1/4 years ago.

Then YT removed us seeing who downvoted videos so you are conditioned to think the video is fine even if it isn't.

This is all part of making people think all is right with the world & if you speak the truth about how it isn't, they imply there is something wrong with you.

Total brainwashing. Again, nothing to do with that one company, this is a worldwide stastemic problem.

I could go on, but I won't.

Just remember, this was all pre-planned & it's not going to end well. You should never control your feelings. That's very unhealthy for you. And no, I'm not saying we should be unhappy & angry every day, that's why we need to release our childhood trauma, but we are in the middle of a war, so to expect people to be happy about it is LUNICY!

I hope they approve you.

mike789100
07-03-2022, 09:45 PM
Not sure if this is the right place to ask but I was wondering if any of you ladies that use phrendly own boxing gloves and/or wouldn't mind chatting about beating me up in boxing(like a roleplay basically) on phrendly? Feel free to message me or just reply to my post :P. The search thing is lame up there so it's kind of hard to find certain interests

SuperPookie
09-12-2022, 03:48 PM
Phrendly is difficult for something like that but you can check cam sites. Some of them have the ability to search by keyword or look up boxing on Clips4Sale and see if any of the single store owners offer say custom videos.

SuperPookie
09-12-2022, 03:58 PM
Models on here- I realizing pricing is a personal matter but would any of you have some suggestions on what is a good mid range price for cam & photos? I'm not getting very many requests for cam at all and when I ask for a flower for a picture most seem to ghost. I'm not sure if I am overcharging, my profile leaves a lot to be desired or the guys are just really cheap.

trustfundkiller
09-12-2022, 04:14 PM
Models on here- I realizing pricing is a personal matter but would any of you have some suggestions on what is a good mid range price for cam & photos? I'm not getting very many requests for cam at all and when I ask for a flower for a picture most seem to ghost. I'm not sure if I am overcharging, my profile leaves a lot to be desired or the guys are just really cheap.
I've always charged the max for phone and video and I get plenty of guys wanting to cam. You can do it and there will be guys who will pay the max. My system when it comes to pics is rose = sexy selfie, balloons = teaser/lingerie pic, chocolate = tits, bouquet = nudes/full frontal/close up kitty depending what they want or what I'm in the mood to share, champagne = collection of sexy pics and nudes or short custom vid. You can upload to file sharing sites where it's completely private and no one can see the vid unless they have the link. This allows you to send a video without exchanging contact info and breaking the rules.

Some guys will ghost when you ask or hint for gifts. Oh well. Plenty more men out there.

SuperPookie
09-12-2022, 05:15 PM
I've always charged the max for phone and video and I get plenty of guys wanting to cam. You can do it and there will be guys who will pay the max. My system when it comes to pics is rose = sexy selfie, balloons = teaser/lingerie pic, chocolate = tits, bouquet = nudes/full frontal/close up kitty depending what they want or what I'm in the mood to share, champagne = collection of sexy pics and nudes or short custom vid. You can upload to file sharing sites where it's completely private and no one can see the vid unless they have the link. This allows you to send a video without exchanging contact info and breaking the rules.

Some guys will ghost when you ask or hint for gifts. Oh well. Plenty more men out there.

Oh thank you so much! I didn't even know about any gifts except for roses & balloons or that we can send video links.
Also I am evidently undercharging by a considerable amount so the issue must be that yes my profile sucks but also guys are cheap :D.

TheBrownFox
09-18-2022, 02:09 AM
I finally got around to updating my GIF on Phrendly (For some reason, it'd been telling me I needed to make a NEW GIF, and I didn't bother with it for a long time), so hopefully they'll approve it so that my profile can go back to being active again.

TheBrownFox
09-19-2022, 08:22 PM
I sent them an e-mail on Saturday letting them know that I made the new GIF like they wanted, and I figured well maybe they'll approve it on Monday (the next business day). My profile is still in "pending" mode, as if I'm a new model waiting to be approved. *Facepalm* I really hate how they do that. It's saying my profile is inactive, but I'm getting texts from guys asking if I want to video chat. Okay, so um...these guys CAN see my profile??? I mean...I'm not trying to be working for free either.

TheBrownFox
09-22-2022, 08:02 AM
Okay, so my profile is back to public now. I did a video call with this guy Baron, and when I did it from the app he said he couldn't see me on video but could hear me fine. I switched over to my laptop, and then he said he COULD see me on video but couldn't hear me. Has anyone else experienced this? He wants to video chat with me again later today when he gets off work, and I don't wanna lose him as a customer over this issue. I've made $21.06 so far this morning just from him.

xxxGothBarbie
09-22-2022, 03:05 PM
Phone & laptop work for me. Last night though I had a guy say in the midst of a cam session that he couldn't see me anymore, he could just hear me. It was from my laptop.

xxxGothBarbie
09-22-2022, 03:06 PM
How do yall sell videos on here? Is it just with Dropbox only?

trustfundkiller
09-22-2022, 03:16 PM
How do yall sell videos on here? Is it just with Dropbox only?
There's no option to send a video directly through the app so you have to upload it to a third party and then send them the link/download.

TheBrownFox
09-22-2022, 03:58 PM
There's no option to send a video directly through the app so you have to upload it to a third party and then send them the link/download.


My question is this…are we allowed to do that? I just got myself fired from the texting site Arousr today (which I’m devastated about), and I want to make sure I don’t accidentally break any rules on any more platforms.

I’ve earned over $20 today just from one guy, and I think he’s gonna video chat some more when I get home. I don’t wanna fuck this up the way I fucked up with Arousr.

xxxGothBarbie
09-22-2022, 04:02 PM
There's no option to send a video directly through the app so you have to upload it to a third party and then send them the link/download.

Which third party ones do you recommend?

trustfundkiller
09-22-2022, 04:05 PM
Which third party ones do you recommend?
I've used file.io. You don't have to create an account. You just upload your content and whoever you give the link to can view the video.

trustfundkiller
09-22-2022, 04:06 PM
My question is this…are we allowed to do that? I just got myself fired from the texting site Arousr today (which I’m devastated about), and I want to make sure I don’t accidentally break any rules on any more platforms.

I’ve earned over $20 today just from one guy, and I think he’s gonna video chat some more when I get home. I don’t wanna fuck this up the way I fucked up with Arousr.
I would think so, as long as you're not exchanging social media or giving them an outside way to contact you. I think Phrendly just wants to be sure that you aren't luring customers off the platform.