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Marina Starr
11-06-2016, 08:37 AM
They will stop saying 'hi, morning!'. LMAOOOOOOOOOO!
Ohhh! I want one rush delivery!
~Carmen~
11-06-2016, 09:11 AM
Yeah! Give 'em something (more) to talk about :)
anonymous camgirl
11-06-2016, 12:48 PM
I have been dreaming about random men lately, Men that don't even exist!.. they are trying to haunt me out of my celibacy!..lol
heavymetalgirl
11-06-2016, 01:07 PM
I have been dreaming about random men lately, Men that don't even exist!.. they are trying to haunt me out of my celibacy!..lol
Had my internet upgraded yesterday.....to my surprise the cable tech was really hot! But that's a good thing because at least I know there's still a glimmer of desire somewhere inside lol
~Carmen~
11-06-2016, 01:18 PM
Had my internet upgraded yesterday.....to my surprise the cable tech was really hot! But that's a good thing because at least I know there's still a glimmer of desire somewhere inside lol
Cable techs are always hot! Temptations:O. We must not give in.
Marina Starr
11-06-2016, 01:42 PM
Careful because good dick will imprison you!
Had my internet upgraded yesterday.....to my surprise the cable tech was really hot! But that's a good thing because at least I know there's still a glimmer of desire somewhere inside lol
miss.a.p1600
11-06-2016, 02:05 PM
^^^one of my worst fears.
As much as i want to experience orgasmic peen, I'm scared a dude will know he can dickmatize me then I'll be the one chasing after him :/
Why can't this sh*t be easy and simple??? Fuuuuuuuck!
heavymetalgirl
11-06-2016, 02:44 PM
^^Definitely wouldn't compromise my freedom for a hot looking guy. Love the cap idea for Team Celibate by the way!
DIAMONDLOVER
11-06-2016, 09:27 PM
Oh, I forgot to mention a couple of side effects I DO have.
My big boobs got even bigger, and my hair has grown fast
#GoodSideEffects
I get stopped by hair dressers constantly, asking who does my hair extensions! Lol! Bitch, stop hustling me. My ass length hair is ALL mine baby cakes.
Go ahead and pull it if you don't believe me.
Omg that's amazing!!! I'm growing my natural hair out and this will help tremendously. I don't need the boobs though, hell I need to give some away lol!!! I ordered some today, can't wait to start taking it!
DIAMONDLOVER
11-06-2016, 09:31 PM
Careful because good dick will imprison you!
This is true!!! I'm a slave to the good dick that I was getting. I can't even enjoy sex with anyone else. Now it's to the point where I can't even entertain the thought of fucking someone new. I want to but I don't want to... Uggghhhhh
DIAMONDLOVER
11-06-2016, 09:37 PM
^^^one of my worst fears.
As much as i want to experience orgasmic peen, I'm scared a dude will know he can dickmatize me then I'll be the one chasing after him :/
Why can't this sh*t be easy and simple??? Fuuuuuuuck!
Right!!! I wish it was simplier. I'm soooo dickmatized it's crazy. I ended up chasing after him, then I said fuck it. I look way too good to be chasing some dick. Then I said fuck him and stop talking to him. 5 months has passed without sex from him. Now he is chasing me. I'm reluctant to have sex with him because I feel like time has helped me to slowly get over him and remove this spell he has over me. It's not quite gone but it's definitely not as strong.
Marina Starr
11-07-2016, 05:24 AM
DICKMATIZE
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^^^one of my worst fears.
As much as i want to experience orgasmic peen, I'm scared a dude will know he can dickmatize me then I'll be the one chasing after him :/
Why can't this sh*t be easy and simple??? Fuuuuuuuck!
Glamourmilf
11-07-2016, 07:26 AM
Well, I am officially joining this club.
Yesterday was the final straw.
Had a date set up with a really hot guy from one of the the dating sites I'm on.
He flaked. No phone call or even text to let me know.
That makes, oh I lost count at 150 guys who flaked out on me at the last minute.
His loss, because I was going to give up my virginity to him.
( And I DONT get dickmatized.) Just the opposite. Once I have sex with someone, no matter how awesome it was, I lose all interest. It's something my brain does to prevent me from getting hurt.
So, I guess it's going to be Hitachi season for a long time to "come '.
Marina Starr
11-08-2016, 09:47 AM
Love a hot man who is #celibate! #teamcelibate #tebow #celibatedicks
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DIAMONDLOVER
11-08-2016, 04:43 PM
Well, I am officially joining this club.
Yesterday was the final straw.
Had a date set up with a really hot guy from one of the the dating sites I'm on.
He flaked. No phone call or even text to let me know.
That makes, oh I lost count at 150 guys who flaked out on me at the last minute.
His loss, because I was going to give up my virginity to him.
( And I DONT get dickmatized.) Just the opposite. Once I have sex with someone, no matter how awesome it was, I lose all interest. It's something my brain does to prevent me from getting hurt.
So, I guess it's going to be Hitachi season for a long time to "come '.
I wish I was like that where I would interest instead of losing all the power. Now I can totally have sex with a sugar daddy or someone from the past and just gone on about my business like nothing has happened. I can even do that with someone new. But if we have hella chemistry and the sex is amazing... omg I will be totally dickmatized. It doesn't happen often but it happens unfortunately... Hitachi is my bestfriend right now. Never lets me down lol
Glamourmilf
11-08-2016, 05:12 PM
I wish I was like that where I would interest instead of losing all the power. Now I can totally have sex with a sugar daddy or someone from the past and just gone on about my business like nothing has happened. I can even do that with someone new. But if we have hella chemistry and the sex is amazing... omg I will be totally dickmatized. It doesn't happen often but it happens unfortunately... Hitachi is my bestfriend right now. Never lets me down lol
I just had a ceremony yesterday , in which I married my Hitachi.
We're a match made in orgasm history.
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Blovely
11-08-2016, 10:44 PM
*Opens the door and takes a seat to join the club.*
I haven't had sex in 1 year and 7 months. I haven't had the most pleasing partners or the most satisfying sex life. I didn't realize how important sexual compatibility was for me until a few years ago. I've settled sexually and in other aspects of my life. I'm over it. I'm tired of being disappointed. I know most people say that sex isn't important or that it isn't that important but for me it is. I don't want to be in a situationship, relationship or marriage where I'm sexually unsatisfied.
So at this point I'm refusing to have sex unless or until I find someone that I'm sexually compatible with, plus I haven't found anyone that I really want to fuck. On top of that I don't want to settle in other areas either. In the past I've settled for guys who didn't fit what I was looking for, it was the worst feeling ever. I'm not trying to barter or bargain with my wants, like just because a dude might able to make me walk side to side(in Ariana's voice) that's not going to compensate for the fact that he's broke and or lives with his mama. I want a dude with good dick, a car, a career...who has; goals, his own place...and is; also attractive, in decent shape(it would be nice to have a gym buddy), smart and somewhat of a gentlemen.
I'm also in a funky space where I just don't feel like dating. After years of settling then trying to find someone who fits my wants and not finding it and on top of that dealing with today's dating culture(can you send a pic?, wanna Netflix and chill?, can you come pick me up?, lets go dutch, etc) I'm pretty much over dating. It so draining. So now when a dude wants to "holla" I'm just not here for it. I don't feel like making time to text or call someone and I don't feel like going through the weeding process. I really just don't want to be bothered, I want to be by myself. I've lost count on how many guys I've told in these last few years that "I'm in a funky space right now. I'm not really looking to date or get to know anyone right now.". They'll be like "I'll give you my number maybe you'll change your mind.". I'm like :stop: "Sorry but I'm really not going to use it". I just don't have the capacity to date right now.
In my head I'm like once I find a man who fits my wants I'll "dust off the cobwebs" but realistically I can't do that if I don't even feel like talking to men. I'm thinking that maybe if and when I find the right guy maybe I'll feel like giving him time and it won't feel like I'm being bothered but I don't even know at this point. I do miss, desire and want sex but I'm also pretty content with not having it. I'd rather miss sex then have sex and be disappointed because the guy isn't into, won't or can't do what I desire or isn't what I want overall. When it comes to wanting to have sex now all I think about is if I have sex dude probably won't be able to satisfy me. Like who would've thought that it would be so hard to find a guy who's into passionate kissing, foreplay, biting, hair pulling, ass slapping, dirty talk, slight manhandling/being aggressive who can go a few rounds or at least can fuck me until I tap out. I can find dudes on cam everyday(probably a few per hour even) who are into that but in real life nooooooooooooo. Like FML!! Ugh!!!!.
So yea I prefer to be single and sexless rather than settle in any aspect. Being single isn't over-rated.
^^^ Such a good post, it hit home with me really, ty for writing this xxxxx
Marina Starr
11-10-2016, 08:51 AM
'When you're courting someone, you're always willing to pretend you're something you're not.' ~Seth Meyers
Take your time and let the cream rise to the top, ladies!
~Carmen~
11-10-2016, 03:16 PM
I had a very steamy dream last night and I have been feeling hot and bothered all day. Then I see my hottest customer on cam to cam.
I have always been a "good girl". No sex unless I was in love. I can count my sexual partners on one hand. I have been married for my whole adult life until recently. Sometimes I want to bring out my inner slut who has been suppressed for so long.
When I think about really going for it, I really don't want to. Yes, I definitely want to stay celibate!
LadyCoco
11-10-2016, 05:28 PM
I've become celibate by accident because men aren't worth my pussy, let alone my time.
Marina Starr
11-10-2016, 05:39 PM
LOL, let her out! No judgement from me, you can always rejoin the club!
Sometimes I want to bring out my inner slut who has been suppressed for so long.
PrincessfromHell
11-10-2016, 10:57 PM
I've become celibate by accident because men aren't worth my pussy, let alone my time.
Ikr. I am tired of all these immature modern men who cant take care of their ladies. Grow balls or stop calling urself a man. I wont settle for less. I deserve it. Until I am not willing to spend my time leaving aside sex for free with these so called men. I know I am very retro when it comes to dating and relatonship. I just like chivalry and overall mature grown ass men. I am fed up with this basic bitch treatment. I am used to different.
Like every time one of these makes a move I am like "I can make XXX of $$ during these hours I will have to spend on a date with you...nooo" or just sleep and it will be better. So often their heads are so full of shit so sex isnt worth it no matter how good. Many of these losers should never get pussy for free.
I can stay away from it as long as I want it does not bother me at all. I can have as many orgasms as I want without a man. Lets wait for the right one.
Blovely
11-10-2016, 11:34 PM
I just like chivalry and overall mature grown ass men.
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kendrasum
11-12-2016, 08:57 AM
I typed out a very long winded reply to this post but then deleted it and now I'll just say this:
Before camming: Fairly promiscuous and based my self worth off of what men thought of me. Fell hard and often and was crushed when some one i liked didn't want me.
After camming: My hitachi is better than any penis on our green earth. I do not tolerate any disrespect of any kind in my room and it has crossed over into me not taking any disrespect from men in the real world. I find it ironic that being a cam whore made me much less of an actual whore.
6 months since last instance of dick
Marina Starr
11-12-2016, 09:06 AM
Can I just say how much I LOVE this?! Camming helped me raise the bar for the behavior I'm willing to accept not just from men but everyone.
After camming: My hitachi is better than any penis on our green earth. I do not tolerate any disrespect of any kind in my room and it has crossed over into me not taking any disrespect from men in the real world. I find it ironic that being a cam whore made me much less of an actual whore.
~Carmen~
11-12-2016, 09:53 AM
I typed out a very long winded reply to this post but then deleted it and now I'll just say this:
Before camming: Fairly promiscuous and based my self worth off of what men thought of me. Fell hard and often and was crushed when some one i liked didn't want me.
After camming: My hitachi is better than any penis on our green earth. I do not tolerate any disrespect of any kind in my room and it has crossed over into me not taking any disrespect from men in the real world. I find it ironic that being a cam whore made me much less of an actual whore.
6 months since last instance of dick
I love this! Thank you Kendra :)
I would have never have gotten up the nerve to leave my mentally abuse husband if it were not for what camming has taught me...never tolerate disrespect! My self worth is too high.
miss.a.p1600
11-12-2016, 10:10 AM
Guess I'm back to celibate again. It's been about 2 months since I got any.
I'm sad because of the last 4 days and REALLY could use some male comfort. *sigh* But knowing them they will try to turn a hug into a f*ck.
Well going to fill my calendar with worthy activities to keep my mind off that.
Marina Starr
11-12-2016, 10:16 AM
They may want you more if they know you're celibate because men want what they can't have and assuming you're playing hard to get OR
They could shun you, try to make you feel worse because they realize they can't no longer use you for sex.
Good fucking riddance-BYE!
Guess I'm back to celibate again. It's been about 2 months since I got any.
I'm sad because of the last 4 days and REALLY could use some male comfort. *sigh* But knowing them they will try to turn a hug into a f*ck.
Well going to fill my calendar with worthy activities to keep my mind off that.
miss.a.p1600
11-12-2016, 11:42 AM
^^^yes. Most times when I've gone long periods without intimacy and guys asked I'd tell them and they are attracted knowing you've turned down other guys they must be special or you are discriminate in which person gets to be intimate with you.
The narcissist though, tried to make it seem like a bad thing. Like frigid or lesbian. And I guess the guys who shun you right away are the ones looking for quick one night or non commital type sex.
anonymous camgirl
11-12-2016, 02:18 PM
Thank god for being #celibate it's my warm fuzzy security blanket.
anonymous camgirl
11-12-2016, 02:21 PM
I have had the same kind of experience.. I never went a month without getting laid before camming.. and camming taught me respect for myself.. and discipline.. lots of fucking discipline.. if something happens to your kitty your out of work.. so I never abuse the kitty.
I typed out a very long winded reply to this post but then deleted it and now I'll just say this:
Before camming: Fairly promiscuous and based my self worth off of what men thought of me. Fell hard and often and was crushed when some one i liked didn't want me.
After camming: My hitachi is better than any penis on our green earth. I do not tolerate any disrespect of any kind in my room and it has crossed over into me not taking any disrespect from men in the real world. I find it ironic that being a cam whore made me much less of an actual whore.
6 months since last instance of dick
miss.a.p1600
11-13-2016, 08:16 AM
That's so true.
When I started dancing I learned quickly that I naively did for free (in the past) what I should have been given money for. That first night I came home with hundreds I realized I was doing it all wrong before.
Majority of my exes did not give me money they only paid for dates and what not. So to live lavish I had to spend hella time with them first. To get money from men quickly without having to Waste time dating them (only to find out they're stingy or broke), without having to fuck them and maintain celibacy, was like a lightbulb went off in my head.
Spending time with men and entertaining them is time away from career, family, etc. and if I'm not increasing my economic standing or getting something of value then it's a waste.
If I do present the pussy on a silver platter I am much more aware of the mans contribution beforehand than I was in the past. I don't care how horny I am If he's barely put in any effort/money/time, his access will be denied and the pussy will be placed back into the vault on lockdown
LoveyDovey
11-13-2016, 10:39 AM
I've been celibate for 6 months. Right now I want to focus on being independent and heal from my experiences with men. If I get horny, I'll rub one out. No diseases, no drama, no problems.
It's amazing how camming changes us in the relation with men, knowing them for real from when i work it makes me not want them in real life, before camming i was soo naive thinking & believing in 'love', even while camming i still believed in 'love & destiny' LOL but for the last 5 years since my last relationship i understood i am much better on my own w.o giving men attention, time, feelings & care other than on cam, for money.
When i am being paid in a show i am the most loving, caring & amazing woman for them, once the session ended i am the 'back on track' business woman. Took me long years to get rid of the misconceptions & old mentality inherited from my family, my mom used to say "we had nobody in our family who divorced" & i told her back then "well, i am the 1st one then".
Feels soo good not to need a man in my life to satisfy my needs, dont need the cock really, it usually comes with 'baggage' lol, dont need complications, drama, time wasted & to cook, clean & wash after a man, nor do i need to deal with his family & friends and such.
Until i find the right guy for me i am staying celibate, i can please myself if i feel horny no problem.
Camming definitely changed me as a woman, i became much stronger than i was before & i take no shit or allow disrespect from men being either members in my room or guys IRL
~Carmen~
11-13-2016, 01:20 PM
Camming definitely changed me as a woman, i became much stronger than i was before & i take no shit or allow disrespect from men being either members in my room, guys IRL or 'site owners' ;)
I love this so much:). Thank you Kat. I believe that this is true for most, if not all of us who stay in this business for awhile.
Dorami
11-13-2016, 01:24 PM
I havent had sex in almost 5 years and my sex drive is still 0 because of camming.
I love this so much:). Thank you Kat. I believe that this is true for most, if not all of us who stay in this business for awhile.:iloveyou:
Not sure about the submissive women, how they deal with men IRL or cam, i know some women are just ignoring their men or members or simply obey, i could never ignore & let them waffle, not to say about obeying LOL, i am the type who wants everything or nothing u know, i am easy going if the man is good quality but if he is or becomes a jerk then he'll see my 'dark side' haha.
I am very happy for you, u know why ;)
Independence is GOLD!
~Carmen~
11-13-2016, 03:05 PM
Aww thank you Kat! :iloveyou: too!
Marina Starr
11-16-2016, 08:01 AM
"Are you REALLY celibate?!"
No, I'm just doing it for attention because I clearly don't get enough.
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kikiwiki
11-16-2016, 02:15 PM
Are you taking the testosterone to make you feel horny on cam? Did you get tested and found out you have low testosterone levels? I'm curious because I've been wanting to take testosterone but I was afraid it would start making me grow facial hair lol.
I took it for almost a year and my voice started to change deeep, hair rapidly fell out and odd hairs around my face. I stopped and now going back to normal. I was taking a large dose once a month and was told that wasn't the way I should take it. But I dread needles and refused to do needles every week so I just stopped altogether. My energy sexual appetite and drive went back down but made lifestyle habits like physical training and therapy to help combat those drags. To me I rather be at this low level than be artificially excited by T shots with those side effects. I've accepted my new normal and it's ok.
SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
11-17-2016, 10:37 AM
I typed out a very long winded reply to this post but then deleted it and now I'll just say this:
Before camming: Fairly promiscuous and based my self worth off of what men thought of me. Fell hard and often and was crushed when some one i liked didn't want me.
After camming: My hitachi is better than any penis on our green earth. I do not tolerate any disrespect of any kind in my room and it has crossed over into me not taking any disrespect from men in the real world. I find it ironic that being a cam whore made me much less of an actual whore.
6 months since last instance of dick
yes, me too X 10000. This is also part of the reason I get so offended when people talk shit about camming. Its given me a backbone in dealing with even real life.
I am not celibate because I have a boyfriend (for almost 10 yrs now) but if I was single (and I often fantasize about it) I dont think Id ever need/want a weiner again :D just give me a vibe for the once a month i get horny LMAO
Dorami
11-18-2016, 11:15 AM
I've always had a low sex drive, but since I started camming it got even lower. It's literally 0, just to not say negative.
Does anyone suffer from the same issue? How do you cope with it?
Marina Starr
11-18-2016, 11:21 AM
I don't think you need sex drive for camming. You're an artist playing a role.
I'm not a sexual person but I am a built-in fetish so that sells itself.
Dorami
11-18-2016, 11:51 AM
I don't think you need sex drive for camming. You're an artist playing a role.
I'm not a sexual person but I am a built-in fetish so that sells itself.
I'm talking about cum shows and masturbation etc, not the fetish part of it since I don't do any fetish on mine
Bananabunny
11-18-2016, 03:16 PM
I had my first time randomly while work time with a colleague, later I got kicked out of my job (no the sex wasn't the reason I got kicked out, another reason). Now over 2 years have passed and I don't miss sex one bit. I'm kinda Asexual and I mostly just masturbate by myself. I'm (as racist as it sounds) only attracted to Asian men (Chinese, Japanese etc.) and since we don't have many Asians around where I live, I never fall in love. Who needs men when I can use dildos? LOL jk jk
I'm searching for a sugar daddy currently cuz camming can not pay all of my bills anymore. Of course he needs to be Asian. Maybe my next time will be with a SD?
I will also go studying next year in spring in Japan and I will try to meet up some international friends of mine, also some Jap guys who I know. They are the cutest and I'm willing to give sex another chance! Maybe with one of them I will have better sex, who knows. I'm not planning anything tho. When it happens, then spontaneous. My first time was kind of a mess and painful so I hope my second time with a non-random dude will be better. If I will not have sex, no problem. I'm only 19 after all, I have time. I'm thinking of making money first instead of jumping into a relationship after another. Nope, nothing for me.
Marina Starr
11-18-2016, 03:27 PM
Why would that be racist? You're allow to have preference. I am Asian but I'm not attracted to Asian men.
I had my first time randomly while work time with a colleague, later I got kicked out of my job (no the sex wasn't the reason I got kicked out, another reason). Now over 2 years have passed and I don't miss sex one bit. I'm kinda Asexual and I mostly just masturbate by myself. I'm (as racist as it sounds) only attracted to Asian men (Chinese, Japanese etc.) and since we don't have many Asians around where I live, I never fall in love. Who needs men when I can use dildos? LOL jk jk
I'm searching for a sugar daddy currently cuz camming can not pay all of my bills anymore. Of course he needs to be Asian. Maybe my next time will be with a SD?
I will also go studying next year in spring in Japan and I will try to meet up some international friends of mine, also some Jap guys who I know. They are the cutest and I'm willing to give sex another chance! Maybe with one of them I will have better sex, who knows. I'm not planning anything tho. When it happens, then spontaneous. My first time was kind of a mess and painful so I hope my second time with a non-random dude will be better. If I will not have sex, no problem. I'm only 19 after all, I have time. I'm thinking of making money first instead of jumping into a relationship after another. Nope, nothing for me.
anonymous camgirl
11-19-2016, 10:46 AM
I used to have a high sex drive before camming and it kinda fizzled away within the first week of camming.. .. one of the reasons I don't want to cam anymore.. I want to know what it feels like to be horny organically.. Just because.. not because you are forced to be.
I've always had a low sex drive, but since I started camming it got even lower. It's literally 0, just to not say negative.
Does anyone suffer from the same issue? How do you cope with it?
lilmerry
11-19-2016, 12:27 PM
I love sex, but not outside of relationships. I can't be bothered getting into a relationship just now though so eh! I'm in! I have my cat for cuddles and my vibe for fun! I'm good.
Marina Starr
11-19-2016, 12:43 PM
Then you can play up the 'I need a man to make me masturbate and cum'' card!
I'm talking about cum shows and masturbation etc, not the fetish part of it since I don't do any fetish on mine