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Marina Starr
10-03-2019, 07:15 PM
It's okay to open them once you're in private or exclusive.
Still here after +8 years, trying to date its just too much work, time & stress for me, i need to take care of my health and well being and as my doctor said, men will complicate things, i dont need that.
Marina is right, better to keep my legs closed in order to protect my heart and sanity.
I have enough of these guys on cam!
Holly_xoxo
10-03-2019, 07:36 PM
Still here after +8 years, trying to date its just too much work, time & stress for me, i need to take care of my health and well being and as my doctor said, men will complicate things, i dont need that.
Marina is right, better to keep my legs closed in order to protect my heart and sanity.
I have enough of these guys on cam!
Trying to date is such a headache. I haven't had sex for a bit over a year now and it's not because my sex drive has vanished, it's that I'm not gonna fuck randoms and the idea of having to go out and meet new men....ugh...I have zero interest in being part of the dating scene.
Glamourmilf
10-04-2019, 09:07 AM
Thanks for bumping this thread.
This month marks 2 1/2 years since I've had sex.
It's so freeing not to deal with guys, and their bullshit.
Dealing with them on cam is enough interaction for me, thank you very much.
I just wish my gay husbands would stop telling me to find someone.
For the millionth time.... I'm not INTERESTED!!!:banghead:
Been there. Done him. Have the empty bank account to prove it.:-\
I'm good.
Please just leave me in peace in my old age. Lol!
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MissAliss515xx
10-04-2019, 10:07 AM
Trying to date is such a headache. I haven't had sex for a bit over a year now and it's not because my sex drive has vanished, it's that I'm not gonna fuck randoms and the idea of having to go out and meet new men....ugh...I have zero interest in being part of the dating scene.
Yeah, after a few dates, nobody picked up my interest or made me go crazy about them. I do miss the intimacy but as months go by since my divorce, I'm able to not have sex for more extended periods of time.
Holly_xoxo
10-04-2019, 12:49 PM
Yeah, after a few dates, nobody picked up my interest or made me go crazy about them. I do miss the intimacy but as months go by since my divorce, I'm able to not have sex for more extended periods of time.
For sure the intimacy is something I miss too at times but then when I go out on dates with new men, they're just looking for "fun" and a rotation of FWB. I think they could care less about anything with meaning (at least the one's I've met)
My mom was celibate from the time she turned 55. Her relationships had gotten progressively worse over the years and she decided she'd had enough. I'm sure she was lonely at times and missed the companionship but said her life was less stressful without a man.
Hungry Bunny
10-04-2019, 01:05 PM
I haven't had sex since 2015. There are other ways to be intimate besides partaking in coitus. Talking, holding hands, cuddling, kissing, shared experiences, etc. Lol. But, do I want to deal with them nagging me for sex in the meantime?
I remember a few years before I stopped having sex all together, my boyfriend was nagging me about it. I thought I'd compromise by giving him head. After cumming in my mouth, HE WENT RIGHT BACK TO NAGGING ME TO GIVE HIM SOME PUSSY!!! I told him that I just didn't feel into "that" anymore and asked him why wasn't he satisfied since he'd cum. His response: "If you're craving steak, and someone gives you pizza, you may not be hungry anymore but you still want the steak!"
Bottom line is, these guys will never be satisfied. Put your own happiness and sanity first. I don't even date anymore. I'm an online girlfriend who gets gifts and bills paid with my sparkling personality and teasing ability. "Real sex" not required. Plus, now it seems like guys expect you to drop your panties just because they took you out a couple of times. They should be grateful for the company.
I'm an only child, who's in her 30s now. I'm receiving pressure to provide grandkids. I cannot imagine dealing with a guy just to say I'm not a single mom, and I cannot imagine being pregnant without the father being there either. I'm considering putting my eggs on ice.
Marina Starr
10-04-2019, 01:49 PM
What Clint Eastwood said...
~Carmen~
10-04-2019, 02:51 PM
Thank you all for posting! Camming definitely teaches us a lot about men. The good, bad and ugly.
I still love them and I won't say that I will never date again but my standards are very high.
Charlotteslut
10-04-2019, 04:38 PM
I really believe most women should not be dating men because 99% of them will not treat a woman with the respect we deserve. So they end up draining you and I see amazing women dragged down by useless shit men. If he's not actively improving your life he should be dropped. This means most straight women will have to get cats instead but I'm okay with that. #feminism
MissAliss515xx
10-04-2019, 05:03 PM
For sure the intimacy is something I miss too at times but then when I go out on dates with new men, they're just looking for "fun" and a rotation of FWB. I think they could care less about anything with meaning (at least the one's I've met)
My mom was celibate from the time she turned 55. Her relationships had gotten progressively worse over the years and she decided she'd had enough. I'm sure she was lonely at times and missed the companionship but said her life was less stressful without a man.
Actually, Im the one who cannot let my wall down and when I see that the guy starts to ask or act like he wants something serious, I flee. I've been so much hurted that I dont want to give my heart and soul anymore to anyone; I remember the butterflies I felt after a few dates with my ex and I still hope I will feel that again.
I must say that I also love, love sex and intimacy so I don't feel nagged or irritated when a guy ask for sex. I do miss it daily. Im just going celibate for now because 95% of men ask me to go without condoms, even tho I clearly said that this part was 100% important for me.
miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 08:52 AM
What Clint Eastwood said...
Ironic somewhat because I find men are notorious for letting themselves be fucked to oblivion but then go about it afterwards with no emotional connection
Since I’ve been celibate for a while now I think it was one reason that led to the downfall of the dating relationship between me and that old dude.
He claims he never had been with someone so long without having sex. And wanted to know if I just wanted to be friends.
*le sigh*
I guess if I am honest with myself I just didn’t picture him being a good lover. Maybe I was wrong but maybe my intuition was right.
I’ll be honest with myself again and say that i could have possibly worked through that if I was financially incentivized (not just money - i mean I’ll take some money - but also some resources or something beneficial to me)
2019 and beyond i will only have good sex and with men who make it worth my while (if you know what I’m saying)
Glamourmilf
10-05-2019, 09:14 AM
I would say, get a dog, if you want cuddles and companionship.
However.... I had a Maltese when I started camming, who would sit in the corner, watching my every move.
Then, the moment I logged off, he would walk over to me and start furiously hump my leg.
Lol!
Crazy little horny fucker!
He was fixed, but humped everything! Even my other dog, who was a docile papillon.
One time I had some business over at the Sprint Store. There were lots of pretty ladies working there. Uh,oh.
My dog started humping my leg. Just as I pulled away, he shot a huge load. All over the wood floors of the store!
The girls were horrified!
I no longer have that dog. A friend of mine does.
All this to say. I'm alone.
I'm good.
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miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 09:29 AM
For sure the intimacy is something I miss too at times but then when I go out on dates with new men, they're just looking for "fun" and a rotation of FWB. I think they could care less about anything with meaning (at least the one's I've met)
My mom was celibate from the time she turned 55. Her relationships had gotten progressively worse over the years and she decided she'd had enough. I'm sure she was lonely at times and missed the companionship but said her life was less stressful without a man.
This is right on.
I found that sometimes it’s hard to find out the real person until after you’ve gotten invested.
And just meshing your life with another human being can be a challenge....especially if the dude has issues. A lot like 75% of men are entitled selfish assholes who have been raised in the “pussy grabbing” and “Tinder swipe left” culture
Sometimes it’s just quicker and easier to accomplish your life goals without being bogged down with relationship drama, someone else’s issues, and having to split your time doing what your partner wants to do cause you’re trying to fulfill your relationship “duties”
my aunt said after her husband died I think she was in her thirties at the time that she had been celibate since then. I think she’s in her sixties now. Not sure if she was telling the truth but damn that’s a long time and I could see the benefit if she was just tired of encountering/ dealing with bullshit men.
Holly_xoxo
10-05-2019, 12:19 PM
This is right on.
I found that sometimes it’s hard to find out the real person until after you’ve gotten invested.
And just meshing your life with another human being can be a challenge....especially if the dude has issues. A lot like 75% of men are entitled selfish assholes who have been raised in the “pussy grabbing” and “Tinder swipe left” culture
Sometimes it’s just quicker and easier to accomplish your life goals without being bogged down with relationship drama, someone else’s issues, and having to split your time doing what your partner wants to do cause you’re trying to fulfill your relationship “duties”
my aunt said after her husband died I think she was in her thirties at the time that she had been celibate since then. I think she’s in her sixties now. Not sure if she was telling the truth but damn that’s a long time and I could see the benefit if she was just tired of encountering/ dealing with bullshit men.
Totally agree about the Tinder attitude out there. Even if you go out with someone and have a great time, he or she usually goes home after and checks to see if anyone else matched with them or wrote to them. How can you get to know someone when your attention is all over the place with other people? I'm old enough to remember the time before the internet where you met someone and things just naturally evolved in whatever direction they were going to go. I don't remember being "interviewed" and getting a number in a rotation.
I'm not totally writing off men. I'm open to a relationship but not actively looking for one. I won't do online dating so unless I meet someone by fluke and become friends and something evolves from that, then I'm staying single.
Justanotherho
10-05-2019, 04:00 PM
Yes I had been celibate until March this year, then one of my friends (not a SW, but she is “okay” with me being one) told me to humble down, be “normal” and try to have a relationship. Both guys were from RL, one was (as found out later was a tinder addict), so we kept texting (I was away) for a month, he sent me shitload of f.cking selfies (no d pics thanks Lord). The dude is damn 40, one SR for a year %) I knew in the process no f way I would take him seriously. When we met, I just wanted to go through dinner and try sex (be normal lol). This idiot kept talking about 50-50, like these days if they pay for a dinner and they call themselves a bloody sugar daddy. Very little they know. I had been chocking on my “normality” the whole date. To no surprise sex was the worst I have ever had. These losers: 1. Have no experience with women. He called me “hard to cum” because he was just repeating porn and we all know this is not the way how we work. Anyways the idiot was useless, yet I was the one to blame. 2. He was with his seriousness asking me if I like anal, rimming (on him), cum on my face and other shit porn addicts are into. I am not a prude, but I would never f ever do these things not being in SR. I ran faster than he was jerking off, because we had “no connection”.
I felt disgusted and used. I am not a ONS person, though I tried it. Many guys I get on cam are way hotter, younger, smarter than this guy, and they have zero issues with sending me a compliment on a tip note. They value my time. In RL being a “normal” girl means being a bloody doormat. These guys want attention, hit and quit it, pushing you into all the dangerous sexual activities, and on top of this they expect you to split bills. FUCKING SERIOUSLY??? This idiot was so surprised I didn’t want to see him ever again because (hey, don’t you want to have a threesome??!). I hope he is a delusional loser because if “normal” women truly engage with such men I can only scream WHY?
2nd one had been quite generous and no splitting bills bs, sex was amazing but he isn’t a serious relationship material (plus we live in diff countries). He had been coming to see me for 2 months, nice expensive outings but again I couldn’t stop myself from feeling like being used as a discounted escort. The last time he sent me the pics of Loubs, he knows I love shoes, asking if I liked them. I said yes, telling him to buy me those (in a nice way), he said he would think about this on Xmas (making idiotic joke “I already fucked you”). He has money. So I just blocked him. Sorry, not sorry, dicks are dime a dozen. He keeps bugging me through friends, asking why I blocked him. In these 2 years women have reached the bottom of being desperate that I had been celibate?! Why they get surprised when you have standards?!
I tried being normal, I did. I just cannot do this. I do not understand why women go out with fuckboys, fuck them and take pride in sharing bills???!
I have nicer, smarter, prettier crowd of men on cam that spoil me. I cannot be normal to save my life. I am back to being celibate since June:
Marina Starr
10-05-2019, 04:15 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HuIfGyFEUc
Thank you all for posting! Camming definitely teaches us a lot about men. The good, bad and ugly.
I still love them and I won't say that I will never date again but my standards are very high.
Miss_ShaSha
10-05-2019, 04:41 PM
^^Hahahaaaa that skit is hilarious. She said "look at me in my eye" LMAO!!! Very funny.
I just don't get excited about sex anymore. I had a FWB relationship with a super hot guy who did everything I wanted in the bedroom, but he couldn't commit. I need an emotional connection. I need back rubs and foot rubs and hand holding over sex any fuckin day. I dunno. I'm dating and have hope...but fuck, it gets harder every year.
UGH!
miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 05:02 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HuIfGyFEUc
^^^LOL!!!
You know dating used to really be like that before the online/dating app experience.
People would place ads in newspapers lol!!!!
That lady’s character in that clip is hilarious
miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 05:05 PM
^^Hahahaaaa that skit is hilarious. She said "look at me in my eye" LMAO!!! Very funny.
I just don't get excited about sex anymore. I had a FWB relationship with a super hot guy who did everything I wanted in the bedroom, but he couldn't commit. I need an emotional connection. I need back rubs and foot rubs and hand holding over sex any fuckin day. I dunno. I'm dating and have hope...but fuck, it gets harder every year.
UGH!
My limited experience was similar. Guys would be skilled lovers but suck at committing or they’d be the commitment type that will wife you up but be boring/clingy/bad in bed/working class dudes
cant a lady have it all?
Holly_xoxo
10-05-2019, 05:42 PM
^^Hahahaaaa that skit is hilarious. She said "look at me in my eye" LMAO!!! Very funny.
I just don't get excited about sex anymore. I had a FWB relationship with a super hot guy who did everything I wanted in the bedroom, but he couldn't commit. I need an emotional connection. I need back rubs and foot rubs and hand holding over sex any fuckin day. I dunno. I'm dating and have hope...but fuck, it gets harder every year.
UGH!
A couple of women I know (one is 67 and the other 70) both told me stories about going to senior's socials to meet people. One was divorced for many years, the other a widow and they missed companionship. Anyway, all they had was horny old men trying to get sex. One of them tried POF and met a man at a beach to go for a walk. He parked at the hotel across the street because he was going to try to get her in a room to fuck.
I think I listened to their stories with a shocked look. I mean....it's the same crap in your 60's and 70's?? We can't escape it?? LOL
anonymous camgirl
10-05-2019, 05:43 PM
Yea this was a huge disappointment to me as I got older.. they are disgusting pigs til they die.. I have done cam shows even with 80 yrs old who just want to play with their dick!
A couple of women I know (one is 67 and the other 70) both told me stories about going to senior's socials to meet people. One was divorced for many years, the other a widow and they missed companionship. Anyway, all they had was horny old men trying to get sex. One of them tried POF and met a man at a beach to go for a walk. He parked at the hotel across the street because he was going to try to get her to go in a room with him and fuck.
I think I listened to their stories with a shocked look. I mean....it's the same crap in your 60's and 70's?? We can't escape it?? LOL
Holly_xoxo
10-05-2019, 05:46 PM
Yea this was a huge disappointment to me as I got older.. they are disgusting pigs til they die.. I have done cam shows even with 80 yrs old who just want to play with their dick!
Fuck me! that's a mental picture I didn't need Lol....once they came out with those pills to help them get hard, we were doomed.
Miss_ShaSha
10-05-2019, 06:07 PM
A couple of women I know (one is 67 and the other 70) both told me stories about going to senior's socials to meet people. One was divorced for many years, the other a widow and they missed companionship. Anyway, all they had was horny old men trying to get sex. One of them tried POF and met a man at a beach to go for a walk. He parked at the hotel across the street because he was going to try to get her in a room to fuck.
I think I listened to their stories with a shocked look. I mean....it's the same crap in your 60's and 70's?? We can't escape it?? LOL
OMFG! Horrific!
miss.a.p1600
10-05-2019, 06:49 PM
Yea this was a huge disappointment to me as I got older.. they are disgusting pigs til they die.. I have done cam shows even with 80 yrs old who just want to play with their dick!
A couple of women I know (one is 67 and the other 70) both told me stories about going to senior's socials to meet people. One was divorced for many years, the other a widow and they missed companionship. Anyway, all they had was horny old men trying to get sex. One of them tried POF and met a man at a beach to go for a walk. He parked at the hotel across the street because he was going to try to get her in a room to fuck.
I think I listened to their stories with a shocked look. I mean....it's the same crap in your 60's and 70's?? We can't escape it?? LOL
Fuck me! that's a mental picture I didn't need Lol....once they came out with those pills to help them get hard, we were doomed.
OMFG! Horrific!
Yes ladies!
You think that by getting a sugar daddy who is old will spare you from having to have sex/having lots of sex on demand.......nah bruh! Them old mfs trying to get some frequent sex and just as horny as young dudes....
Thanks a lot viagra! Thanks a lot :'(
lightningfarron
10-06-2019, 03:38 PM
Discovering a lot about myself lately. I strongly suspect I am poly-ace. I have little to no desire to have sex with other people, I get off by myself sexually just fine. I rarely become jealous and get more upset at the prospect of dishonesty/being lied to rather than the fact someone else finds my SO attractive, and that's bothered a lot of partners in my past relationships LOL. The look on my ex's face when I told him I wouldn't mind if he hired a FSSW as long as he were open and safe about it, ohhhh boy. }:D Truthfully, committed monogamous relationships have also done nothing but make me feel restrained. I don't like feeling "bound" to one person and they are supposed to be my end all, be all. I want companionship, but I highly doubt just one person could make me feel totally fulfilled. And in relationships I want to learn and grow and thrive, not feel held down. And I still want to put MYSELF first without being seen as careless or selfish. Idk. Shit's confusing.
I'm single right now with extremely high standards after my last monogamous relationship left a bad taste in my mouth, and I really want to experiment with polygamy when I'm on my feet again (not an open monogamous relationship where it's a free-for-all and is often extremely toxic, not just carelessly sleeping around).
DonaDiabla
10-14-2019, 07:21 AM
Almost one year later, I am still an member of the celibacy club! :) In fact, I had some of the best financial success since I have posted this. I just feel like all sexual and romantic activities outside of this industry will get in the way of my hustling. I enjoy being celibate :)
Actually, Marina, I have been celibate for many years now. Personally, I feel like my sexuality is best suited towards building wealth instead of wasting time. So, I have decided to give up all sexual activities outside of this industry. No relationships without finance purpose. Yay,celibacy club! :)
Bananabunny
10-15-2019, 01:57 AM
Almost one year later, I am still an member of the celibacy club! :) In fact, I had some of the best financial success since I have posted this. I just feel like all sexual and romantic activities outside of this industry will get in the way of my hustling. I enjoy being celibate :)
I'm almost 3 years in now!! I don't miss it and so many men bothered me around me "why u don't have sex with meeeeeeeee" rofl I don't wanna have sex with a broke ass loser who doesn't knows how to treat a lady right. I'm gonna keep this up until I found THE ONE MAN. And even then I'll make him wait a year until I can have sex with him...If he's gone before that he never loved me and doesn't deserve to have sex with me.
Marina Starr
11-04-2019, 01:07 PM
STILL celibate because no man would want to touch me because I'm Trans. Been crying so much over this. Men don't like Trans.
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Bananabunny
11-04-2019, 02:42 PM
STILL celibate because no man would want to touch me because I'm Trans. Been crying so much over this. Men don't like Trans.
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Noooo thats not true at all!! They surely feel intimidated by you and your beauty!! I can guarante you that!! Don't give up plz :( Stay fab and chin up, you will find the right one, eventually we all do! :-*
Holly_xoxo
11-04-2019, 03:26 PM
STILL celibate because no man would want to touch me because I'm Trans. Been crying so much over this. Men don't like Trans.
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Sorry you're feeling that way. I can't understand what you're going through because I'm not Trans but I know with having a disability and doing this job, I sometimes feel like I come with disclaimers and it makes it really hard to find someone that sees past them. Just have to weed through the assholes and disappointments to find the good one that sees a person for who they are on the inside. I'm convinced some of those type still exist.
DahliaSimone
11-04-2019, 03:50 PM
STILL celibate because no man would want to touch me because I'm Trans. Been crying so much over this. Men don't like Trans.
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well, its quite the opposite....MOST men want to fuck a trans girl. In my experience, at least....its the dating/relationship part that men wont do with a trans girl. THATS the part that bothers me. And why Ive been single for years. And am mildy slutty....mamas got needs.
miss.a.p1600
11-05-2019, 03:57 PM
A lot of men are idiots because even they themselves don’t know what they want.
I ended the dating relationship with that old guy after he had the gall to give me an ultimatum (by text aka what scared bitches do) asking if I just wanted to be friends with him because he’s never dated someone so long and not had sex/wanted to go out and see other people.
I don’t like coming out the gate like “hey bob just so you know I’m celibate” I figured it would naturally come up but it never did. Anytime we talked about more adult natured topics .... idk it just never transitioned into me disclosing that.
Not even sure if that disclosure would have made any difference to be honest cause I feel like a lot of these men are self centered and just looking for some nsa sex
Well I guess he’s out chasing poon poon and maybe busting nuts with his hearts desire.
Oh well
and I meant to say Marina it may help to check out successful relationships like the one you desire so that way you know it’s not just possible but possible for you
STILL celibate because no man would want to touch me because I'm Trans. Been crying so much over this. Men don't like Trans.
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~Carmen~
11-10-2019, 03:38 PM
I think as my gift to myself for staying celibate I’m gonna buy a new toys. I hate being celibate, but I hate dealing with lame guys even more.
Amen to that! Hitachi magic wand is all a girl needs.
DonaDiabla
11-13-2019, 07:49 PM
Actually, I enjoy celibacy at this point of my life. I am not wasting my time when I can be making money and enjoying my singlehood. :)
Marina Starr
11-17-2019, 07:52 AM
Or two fingers and coconut oil IF you're not allergic to coconut oil that is.
Amen to that! Hitachi magic wand is all a girl needs.
Glamourmilf
11-17-2019, 10:07 AM
I've been using the term "Self-Partnered" coined by Emma Watson.
People are digging it.
~Carmen~
11-17-2019, 02:28 PM
Or two fingers and coconut oil IF you're not allergic to coconut oil that is.
I do have coconut allergy but cum lube works great too. Nice and slippery :)
miss.a.p1600
11-18-2019, 06:09 AM
Or two fingers and coconut oil IF you're not allergic to coconut oil that is.
YES!!!
I went on a date with a new guy and so far he’s been such an amazing guy. Which is weird af cause ..... well I have the worst luck sometimes ..... but I already am curious about the type of lover he will be.
Maybe I’m getting ahead of myself, maybe I’m just super horny or something......or maybe my celibacy will come to an end after damn near 2-3 years.
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 05:52 PM
YES!!!
I went on a date with a new guy and so far he’s been such an amazing guy. Which is weird af cause ..... well I have the worst luck sometimes ..... but I already am curious about the type of lover he will be.
Maybe I’m getting ahead of myself, maybe I’m just super horny or something......or maybe my celibacy will come to an end after damn near 2-3 years.
Well I think he may be a good lover since I made out with him and that was good.
I had to slow it down though cause I discovered he just got out of a long term relationship
*le sigh*
He better play his cards right so I can experience pleasure whilst ending my celibacy
Marina Starr
11-23-2019, 06:14 PM
How do y'all stop at making out? Don't guys dick get hard when you kiss them?
Well I think he may be a good lover since I made out with him and that was good.
I had to slow it down though cause I discovered he just got out of a long term relationship
*le sigh*
He better play his cards right so I can experience pleasure whilst ending my celibacy
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 06:32 PM
^^^hehehe yes!!!
Well I wasn’t expecting him to start kissing me n shit. We were laying in his bed and i put my head on his chest and next thing I know this mf is kissing me an what not
And he has reeeealllly nice full lips
Plus he was whispering in my ear, kissing on my neck, and my vagina started throbbing
Omg
But in the back of my head I could not fully let go cause I was unsure we were on the same page
It kind of my fault cause I should have not stayed at his house, got in his bed, then got under the covers
“My mind telling me no.....but my body, my body telling me YES!” Lol
Damn does this make me cock teaser? I probably should not have let him get that far.
Marina Starr
11-23-2019, 06:41 PM
I could see how staying a guy's house would not lead to fucking, LOL.
^^^hehehe yes!!!
Well I wasn’t expecting him to start kissing me n shit. We were laying in his bed and i put my head on his chest and next thing I know this mf is kissing me an what not
And he has reeeealllly nice full lips
Plus he was whispering in my ear, kissing on my neck, and my vagina started throbbing
Omg
But in the back of my head I could not fully let go cause I was unsure we were on the same page
It kind of my fault cause I should have not stayed at his house, got in his bed, then got under the covers
“My mind telling me no.....but my body, my body telling me YES!” Lol
Damn does this make me cock teaser? I probably should not have let him get that far.
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 06:50 PM
^^^gawd! *He* seduced me though...
But yeah you have a point I should have left promptly (we shared an Uber which picked up/dropped off at his place). Or maybe I should not have agreed to shared Uber?
I kept all my clothes on if that counts for anything and I left shortly after the makeout session/did not stay the night
Holly_xoxo
11-23-2019, 07:07 PM
Maybe getting in to his bed is being a bit of a cock tease Lol...but it sounds fun! So many people rush in to having sex and they end up missing that build up and anticipation that is so fucking hot!! Then when the day comes that you do have sex, your bodies are practically aching for each other.
I give this guy credit for not turning in to a whiny bitch when the making out didn't lead to sex. Nothing is worse than a whiny, horny man Lol
miss.a.p1600
11-23-2019, 07:23 PM
Maybe getting in to his bed is being a bit of a cock tease Lol...but it sounds fun! So many people rush in to having sex and they end up missing that build up and anticipation that is so fucking hot!! Then when the day comes that you do have sex, your bodies are practically aching for each other.
I give this guy credit for not turning in to a whiny bitch when the making out didn't lead to sex. Nothing is worse than a whiny, horny man Lol
True dat! I saw some quote that it’s never too late to communicate your standards.
He claimed it made him want me more but I don’t know if that was his dick talking through him.
Idk we shall see.
And yeah when guys get whiny and act desperate that is annoying
~Carmen~
11-23-2019, 07:26 PM
^^^hehehe yes!!!
Well I wasn’t expecting him to start kissing me n shit. We were laying in his bed and i put my head on his chest and next thing I know this mf is kissing me an what not
And he has reeeealllly nice full lips
Plus he was whispering in my ear, kissing on my neck, and my vagina started throbbing
Omg
But in the back of my head I could not fully let go cause I was unsure we were on the same page
It kind of my fault cause I should have not stayed at his house, got in his bed, then got under the covers
“My mind telling me no.....but my body, my body telling me YES!” Lol
Damn does this make me cock teaser? I probably should not have let him get that far.
My vagina is twitching a bit just reading this. It's like soft core porn for women. I love the idea of making out and saving the main course for later.
Holly_xoxo
11-23-2019, 07:38 PM
My vagina is twitching a bit just reading this. It's like soft core porn for women. I love the idea of making out and saving the main course for later.
Exactly! when you take some time before getting to the sex, the person is on your mind a lot. You fantasize about what they'd feel like inside you. You want more. Kissing can be one of the hottest things out there (unless the other person sucks at it Lol)
If you fuck right away, it takes away all that delicious mystery.
Phew! might have to go fan myself off for a bit Lol
carmen_b
11-23-2019, 08:44 PM
Temporarily joining this club. There were a few different reasons. I gave dating a lot of my time in 2019 and I feel it just didn't lead to anything substantial ( just luck of the draw ). M withdrew from me sexually in early Oct. and the anger from that just made me think that I wanted off the emotional ride all together ( at least for a bit ). Plus .... more time for myself. That is the gist of it.
Miss P's little run down does make me think though. That does sound so hot hahaha damn .
I've gone " without " nearly two months now ( Oct. was M sort of forcing it on me and lying and November was a conscious choice to not date at all ) making it one of the longest stretches I've ever done in 8 years. Even when my long term partner and I were at our worst our worsts in 2018 we seemed to pull our shit together to at least fuck every 2-3 weeks lol.
I feel like this decision has just made life scheduling a dream. 4 day dancer trip ? No problem !
Relax and have muti nights to myself in a row ? Yes.
Dinner for an hour then lounge and have tea for an hour ? Yes, obviously ! Ha.
Marina Starr
11-27-2019, 07:18 AM
Still celibate but these fuckboys are making it hard when they offered me sex... that made me feel real special and complete.
carmen_b
11-27-2019, 10:07 AM
Time flies. Coming up on 8 weeks here now. 3 weeks of it was M playing his " I'm too busy " games. I probably should have sat on an alternate dick 2 weeks into his games.
BUT .... the reclaim of my time has been amazing. I don't date at all currently so there is no time burned in " get to know you " stuff , arranging dates, texting , ect.
All my time is mine. No plans to make any change at this point.
I feel like coming into the 2020 year totally single ( not having to factor anyone else ) would be good for me. It will really let me focus on the year I want to create.
;)