View Full Version : New escort frustrations and need for sisterhood of hos
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-06-2017, 03:54 PM
Ugh humiliating confession time- due to an emergency that happened out of nowhere.......I might have to escort once in a while for the next few months.
In the spirit of self-care I'm posting the things I've had to do in a whirlwind of resuming an occupation I was done with.
* looking up old contacts & posting new ads- it took my whole day up today.
* making shopping list for Wal Mart & drug store- (I always keep my hygiene kit stocked & clean.)
* designating two close friends as Safety Contacts- I check in with both or either of them before & after outings.
* going through my work bags & throwing out old items, toys & outfits.
* getting my healthcare needs organized. (Checkups & Primary care doctor.)
persianprincess
02-06-2017, 05:30 PM
Look it's better to go back to what you know and do it carefully than let an emergency put you in a financial bind that can put you months behind financially. I don't see any shame in going back to it just to tide you over.
Hope it all goes positively xo
BlkSharpie
02-06-2017, 05:55 PM
Don't be ashamed! I mean...its all personal feelings and such but...hey, I came back to it after 3 years and was so relieved and grateful that I could pick up and get back to work to make the money I need. When I was with my ex and quit my job, I was stuck finding another vanilla job...it took me 4 months and I completely cleared out every penny I had in savings ..as well as my daughter savings to survive while looking. I had to take money from my kid..that was embarrassing! *tears* lol If I wasnt with the ex though, I would have jumped right back to this instead.
Anyway...yup I did the same thing..I sent an email out to everyone that was in my mailing list..took me about 2 or 3 days to get through them all because I wrote a personal note to every guy I saw about something I missed about them...it worked, cause most of them wrote me back so excited to hear from me. And great timing too as a couple of the guys happened to be in town and wanted to see me right away. Since then, others have come to town to see me (most of the guys I see travel here and dont live here). But..just from those few dates I was able to get caught up and get a huge finiancial weight off my back.
You have a solid plan...and just think, you dont have to start from scratch and struggle, you already have guys to touch bases with to get them all excited you are out of retirement, you have experience and know how..all that fun stuff. It really helps with making the transition that much smoother. Personaly, I plan to stay for awhile...I need to get my savings padded up again, planning to move, have some goals I want to hit...really glad I have the adult industry to fall back on to get me there. Those vanilla women have no such options lol I know youd rather not do it but...do what you have to do, and focus on what your goal / next step is to do somethign you are more comfortable with and in the meantime..make every moment count.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-07-2017, 04:08 PM
My return seems iffy right now because several of the old clients that were happy to hear from me have not gotten back to me yet.
Either way it'll be okay. It's always an option.