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anyacolo22
01-09-2017, 11:22 AM
hello all, thanks for all the replies,

as i said i have limited internet time, so i will reply to what i remember reading, im not ignoring other replies on purpose,

no i do not have any credit cards, if i did i would be racking them up, lol

i dont have a car so sleeping in one is not an issue,

i put an ad on a sugar daddy website just because it was free,

i have been talking to a man in atlanta on and off (whenever internet time allows) through email, and the website itself,

i am a very skeptical and cynical person in general, i am not gullible by any means.....i realize a lot of guys on those sites are probably fake, however this guy seems legit.....good job, big house, etc etc.....i have asked him specifically to send me pics of his house, with him in the photos, and in other places around his house, and he has done everything i asked.....if he is not legit he has done an awesome job at faking it, lol

he has offered to provide transportation from miami to atlanta any which way i prefer, bus, train, air.....and offered me $1000 to stay with him for a week.....i realize that might be cheap to you girls but $1000 to me right now is like winning the lottery,

any advice???

eagle2
01-09-2017, 12:59 PM
I haven't read through the entire thread, but have you looked into getting a regular job too? If you could find someone who needs some type of live-in help, you'll not only make money, but have a place to stay. Also, another place where you can get a place to live in addition to pay, is the military. With the military, there is always the possibility that you'll have to do something dangerous. It depends on the service and occupation.

I hope everything turns out okay for you.

eagle2
01-09-2017, 01:22 PM
Just found this ad in BP for a live-in nanny/housekeeper

http://miami.backpage.com/DomesticJobs/seeking-live-in-full-time-nanny-housekeeper-hollywood/45559600

Kb109
01-15-2017, 01:37 PM
hello all, thanks for all the replies,

as i said i have limited internet time, so i will reply to what i remember reading, im not ignoring other replies on purpose,

no i do not have any credit cards, if i did i would be racking them up, lol

i dont have a car so sleeping in one is not an issue,

i put an ad on a sugar daddy website just because it was free,

i have been talking to a man in atlanta on and off (whenever internet time allows) through email, and the website itself,

i am a very skeptical and cynical person in general, i am not gullible by any means.....i realize a lot of guys on those sites are probably fake, however this guy seems legit.....good job, big house, etc etc.....i have asked him specifically to send me pics of his house, with him in the photos, and in other places around his house, and he has done everything i asked.....if he is not legit he has done an awesome job at faking it, lol

he has offered to provide transportation from miami to atlanta any which way i prefer, bus, train, air.....and offered me $1000 to stay with him for a week.....i realize that might be cheap to you girls but $1000 to me right now is like winning the lottery,

any advice???

If you do take him up on the offer, after the week is up you can come stay with me if you'd like. I won't charge you anything and I have super fast internet if you're interested in camming. I can show you how to get started. If interested, please PM me. I want to help you get back on your feet. I live in Atlanta so if you're okay with staying in the area a little longer than just that week, please PM me.

Kb109
01-15-2017, 01:38 PM
Just found this ad in BP for a live-in nanny/housekeeper

http://miami.backpage.com/DomesticJobs/seeking-live-in-full-time-nanny-housekeeper-hollywood/45559600

Damnnnnn it's deleted!

chanzep
01-17-2017, 06:40 PM
I would be careful of the man in Atlanta, I have seen tv shows about guys like this pimping girls. I would just get the Government assistance, accept the stuff that has been kindly offered to you by members and go start dancing and get back on your feet that way. goodluck.

BlkSharpie
01-20-2017, 10:02 AM
My mantra is... Dont ever make any decisions out of desperation! As much as I love me some escorting, I truly do not believe that is something to get involved in until you are in a position where you will not make a decision, because you need the money, that you would not otherwise because the risks are far too high for all that.

My heart breaks, because I have been in that situation myself. Life is crazy in that, I ended up staying with my ex boyfriends ex girlfriend, and ever since then we became the best of friends. My ex also ended up going out of town for a month, so he let me stay there while he was gone. In that month and a half, with no bills or rent to have to pay, I went BALL TO THE WALL on cam and phone and ended up making enough money to get the apartment that I am still in today.

The thing about me is I HATE asking for help...hate it. The only reason I even got that help was because my ex called me out of the blue, while I was crying on my livingroom floor because I had to move by the end of the day, had no idea how I was going to get my stuff out and had no where to move to. I was a mess...he called his ex who dropped everything to come help me even though she barely knew me. If I happen to mention the couple months I was homeless, friends and fam have darn near plummeted me for not saying something. My point is...my pride and feeling that I had no one who cared enough to help completely overshadowed my ability to simply ask for help and have some faith that there are people who would.

Anyway, psychology aside... you have gotten a lot of amazing tips and offers for help and job prospects. Take advantage!!! And this is Miami..so many under the table jobs...they all suck. But its a lot more possible here than many other places around the country. Take the bus and clean houses, get an under the table serving job at some local family owned restaurant... just not escorting, not now. Not til you are out of the red. And please, please dont take up any offers to go live with some guy and/or travel to another state. That $1k and the stars it puts in your eyes at the idea of getting it is exactly what guys who are out to do harm are banking on. And SoFla is one of the biggest places for people to kidnap women and forcing them to do sex work without any pay. Not making this up...theres a huge bust for that at least once a year. Please don't consider that an option.

Wish I was in a better position myself here to offer more than just advice, but I am in the area so can at least invite you to lunch or offer you a ride to an interview or whatever if you need it. Just shoot me a pm.

anyacolo22
01-31-2017, 06:21 AM
thanks for the tips and advice,

i did go and see him and stayed a week, he was actually really nice and paid me well, i have not had this much money in years and dont want to end up blowing it all, if there is abetter city to move to to get started in dancing i would be all for that now that i can afford a train or bus or whatever to get there,

what are the best cities to get started in?

chanzep
01-31-2017, 11:12 PM
Are you back in Miami or somewhere else?, go and get your dancer stuff and hit up some clubs, you want a city with no licence, there are threads on here about that. also maybe try a agency club job with accommodations, like thebestdancers.com so you can stay and save up for a few weeks. goodluck

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-31-2017, 11:45 PM
thanks for the tips and advice,

i did go and see him and stayed a week, he was actually really nice and paid me well, i have not had this much money in years and dont want to end up blowing it all, if there is abetter city to move to to get started in dancing i would be all for that now that i can afford a train or bus or whatever to get there,

what are the best cities to get started in?

Have you tried a room share? Like renting a room in someone's house? Most want to know that you're gonna be there for a set period of time. But really just use it for a week or two while you hit up some clubs in Miami. If you're still there. Not sure how much money you got from this guy but please don't be too quick to switch up locations. Get as much money as you can where you are before you move. Work hustle go to the rented room to sleep. Wake up and do it again. I've been there. Years ago I lived in a place on South Beach called Banana Bungalow. It's closed now but only $20 a night. I know that there are still other hostels around.

Nikki_Fox
02-02-2017, 04:45 PM
From what I hear the clubs in Atlanta are good - are you still there?

chanzep
02-02-2017, 09:01 PM
^she would need a license there.

anyacolo22
02-04-2017, 07:57 AM
From what I hear the clubs in Atlanta are good - are you still there?

no i am back in Miami now

SweetJulia
02-11-2017, 04:29 AM
This thread broke my heart, so sorry you're going through this. I feel like a total cunt for whining about my medical problems and six broken vacuums now. That's not a euphanism, cat hair eats them alive. I'm glad Atlanta went ok, won't scare you with the possibilities of what can happen with situations like that. There was one where I live where a supposedly injured dog was used as bait for two men to rape a teenager. PLEASE be safe, don't get into survival sex. Please, I know the escorting is tempting when desperate, but that's when it's the most dangerous. I prayed for you, ending with "you better help her, or you'll have me to answer to."