View Full Version : I got played
LoveyDovey
01-11-2017, 12:26 PM
This dancer might have made off with a lot of money, but I have a feeling this is going to come back and bite her in the ass one way or the other.
Jaylenn
01-11-2017, 12:41 PM
Idk if it was this site or tuscl but he said he was giving her $4k weekly which is $16k monthly & on tuscl he said this
"She texted me in the morning telling me she loved me and was excited to see me.... At noon I told her I was not going to pay her that week, at 3 she told me she never wanted to see me again or talk to me again."
Maybe she was getting tired of keeping up the lie or he was becoming more than what she intended the relationship to be ... I'm not going to pretend to know anything about divorces but isn't it common for the money to freeze up & very temporary? Or is it a long process ? Cause missing one week shouldn't be a big deal in my opinion .
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2017, 12:51 PM
He could have been testing her.
Saying "I'm not going to pay you next week" sounds like a dude who could give two fucks and wants to see a reaction. Sometime wealthy men (especially once they know you depend on them financially) will play mind games to see if you're there for them or money.
If he wanted her to stay by his side he could have said "hey babe I'm going through some temporary financial challenges but we can ride this out"
Yeah I think temporarily freezing assets is common to ensure the wealthier party doesn't sell off everything / claim they are broke to try and skirt the law.
If he would have straight up told her he was going through a divorce she might have understood and been more patient.
Jaylenn
01-11-2017, 12:54 PM
I think she had to end it because that little detail about her still being married. Either her husband knew and she shared the money with him or her husband did not know making it even more inevitable her house of cards would come crashing down.
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Oh duh ! She's married, I totally let that slip my mind . She couldn't let things get as far as he wanted to go cause she had a husband & children at home .
rickdugan
01-11-2017, 02:09 PM
The way I read this, he tried to hustle a hustler and he got burned. IMHO that is the only moral of this story, not that I believed it anyway.
DonaDiabla
01-11-2017, 03:43 PM
Here is thing about this girl's hustle and Rick Dugan's hustle. Sure, there is not that much a difference however I will still high-five her for it. Why? Because I am sick of hear about these stupid ass stories where customers fall in love with sex workers. Then create these lackluster and emotional needy threads like children. Also, most of the time these customers do not love and can't love sex workers. They either fall in love with our personas or use their "love" to control us. For example, customers tell me about their "love" only to stiff me on money or to waste my time. This time, this dumbass got played for being weakling and shelling 500,000. Sure, her hustle was mean-spirited particularly adding children to the mix. However, this would never happened if he acted like a real man and thought about his actions. No real man would have given up his whole income behind empty lies and bedroom work. No real man would have busting crying like a child behind this. Real men would have admitted their failures in this matter and moved on. However, the op was not a real man :)
Frankly, I am sick and tried of customers thinking that they should seek romance/love in the sex industry. Many of them believe that we all are hard up enough to want our customers in that way. In the past two years, I had customers try to pull that love crap with me and they got crushed for it. Why? Because their "love" is empty lies, empty promises, lame pillow talk, and involves lackluster sex. As far as Rick's hustle goes, I believe that it works on girls who are not cold hustlers and do not know too much about OTC. Frankly, it will not work on super experience hustlers and icy queens. They would just mind fucked each other until there was nothing left. That is my two cents.
How is what she did not tell female version of rickdugan's "despicable"hustle on the girls who need rent?
She Crossed the line. Knew he wasn't playing the game....that it was real and she used it.
Same with the girls Rick supposedly abused.
Beyond the game is beyond the game.
Omne35
01-15-2017, 12:33 PM
.... At noon I told her I was not going to pay her that week, at 3 she told me she never wanted to see me again or talk to me again."
Sorry but the use of the perm "pay" seems to take this out of the emotional relationship category and puts it back into the business relationship category. To tell you the truth it sounds like he was mad that she dropped him when the money dried up rather than wait around for it to start again. I don't see an emotionally distraught person here.
WendiStarr
01-15-2017, 07:06 PM
They were both married. They both lied. She was good at hustling him out of his money. He got burned and is angry. There weren't any warning signs? Come on now! If you can't meet the person at their house and have to resort to meeting at hotels or motels, that's a bad sign. If you never meet their family, bad sign. I think it's kind of funny when customers want to get seriously romantically involved with strippers and then cry when they do what they do best, which is hustle money. I am not saying what she did was right, but he obviously was no saint himself and was clearly thinking with the wrong head. The power of pussy, lol.
DeathAndTaxes
01-15-2017, 07:20 PM
The power of pussy, lol.
http://s2.quickmeme.com/img/65/65423dbcb521fef89a6d3c4d24d63ff9560f0f7d80a022ee42 8468d4dff14f15.jpg
Thank god for polyamory, hear hear for never being thirsty again...
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2017, 09:56 AM
It was 6 figures....of Monopoly Money!!! OP is that little moneybags dude from that board game. No wonder he was so upset. Must be hard when someone upsets the game. lol
drearea
01-16-2017, 10:00 AM
I salute this woman for identifying a man who walked into the club viewing her as someone who is doing less than desirable work and needs to be saved, and turned him into the psychical embodiment of the fool he truly is.
You don't respect women, and you throw your money at them to make up for it. You got what you deserve :)
Also, if women like this dancer are the reason why men like you out yourselves early, as your OP implies, I salute her twice.
DeathAndTaxes
01-16-2017, 10:12 AM
I salute this woman for identifying a man who walked into the club viewing her as someone who is doing less than desirable work and needs to be saved, and turned him into the psychical embodiment of the fool he truly is.
Men of all ages want to be Batman or Superman, but you guys want to be Aquaman with the power to control the spending whales :)
BobbleHead
01-16-2017, 12:44 PM
I salute this woman for identifying a man who walked into the club viewing her as someone who is doing less than desirable work and needs to be saved, and turned him into the psychical embodiment of the fool he truly is.
You don't respect women, and you throw your money at them to make up for it. You got what you deserve :)
Also, if women like this dancer are the reason why men like you out yourselves early, as your OP implies, I salute her twice.
And posts like this are why I don't feel sorry for dancers that get "taken advantage of". Grown ass adults on both sides and if either of them are "getting played" they should probably find a new hobby or line of work.
whirlerz
01-16-2017, 01:34 PM
Wow, the male hate on here::):O
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2017, 01:39 PM
I've witnessed real life millionaires "fall in love" with strippers a few times. The usual events follow- he tries to "save" her from the job. She ends things with him for whatever (valid) reason & he loses interest (because yes, she is replaceable.) OR they marry and have a typical marriage like most people.
In regards to "rich men"...the traits that make them successful at business often make them un-successful at dating & marriage. VERY FEW are humble enough to "get on the ground" with lesser people (girlfriends, employees, kids) and learn how to fix broken relationships or do differently "next time."
There's no man hate here. I'm just surprised trolls have so much vigor for this topic. This news is old hat at the local country club golf course.
BobbleHead
01-16-2017, 01:41 PM
Wow, the male hate on here::):O
Not sure if that was pointed at me but there is no hate, just indifference when it comes to adults whining after the fact and not taking responsibility for their actions. As the post I referenced pointed out, there are people out there who will take whatever they can get from you and everyone should be on guard going in.
baer45
01-16-2017, 01:43 PM
I got outplayed.
/thread
DeathAndTaxes
01-16-2017, 01:46 PM
. She ends things with him for whatever (valid) reason & he loses interest (because yes, she is replaceable.) OR they marry and have a typical marriage like most people.
But isn't this normal for every relationship? Not every realtionship works out all the time.
There's no man hate here.
Maybe she meant hatred from men, dunno. I think this might be a sore spot for some. I still don't get why people think this is real,the math does not make sense.
whirlerz
01-16-2017, 01:47 PM
Not sure if that was pointed at me but there is no hate, just indifference when it comes to adults whining after the fact and not taking responsibility for their actions. As the post I referenced pointed out, there are people out there who will take whatever they can get from you and everyone should be on guard going in.
Yes, excellent points for sure.
persianprincess
01-16-2017, 02:33 PM
It was 6 figures....of Monopoly Money!!! OP is that little moneybags dude from that board game. No wonder he was so upset. Must be hard when someone upsets the game. lol
I love this
DreamsInDigital
01-16-2017, 04:17 PM
So, the dude spends some ridiculous amount of $$ buying a strip club, then decides to turn it into a park.
Club = $$$ revenue
Park = .....?
Do the rest of his financial decisions look similar to this? I think I see the problem...
DonaDiabla
01-16-2017, 06:16 PM
Actually, I believe this story was real....just not the amount. However, this event will teach the OP not to be a fool next time. :)
But isn't this normal for every relationship? Not every realtionship works out all the time.
Maybe she meant hatred from men, dunno. I think this might be a sore spot for some. I still don't get why people think this is real,the math does not make sense.
DeathAndTaxes
01-16-2017, 06:36 PM
Actually, I believe this story was real....just not the amount. However, this event will teach the OP not to be a fool next time. :)
Money is what made the story what it was, even the stupid revenge of buying the club pales in comparison, if he is going to make up the biggest lie, then all of it is suspect.
Do I believe he fell hard for a stripper that thought little of him outside his wallet? sure, but that is not what the story is about. It is a story meant to make sw look bad, not elicit pity.
BTW I thanked you on the size queen thread, you are quite a formidable challenger :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-17-2017, 01:46 PM
So, the dude spends some ridiculous amount of $$ buying a strip club, then decides to turn it into a park.
Club = $$$ revenue
Park = .....?
Do the rest of his financial decisions look similar to this? I think I see the problem...
I checked and the club has already closed due to violations. But I get what you're saying. He said that he wants to build a park to give back to the community so that HE can begin to feel better about his bad choices. Personally I love the idea of driving by a park dedicated to a stripper.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-17-2017, 01:48 PM
Really? I had already holstered my ban hammer and now this?
DeathAndTaxes
01-17-2017, 01:49 PM
The probability of anybody here knowing what went on 25 years ago is remote to nil...
If you are serious just let it go man, its not that big of a deal.
If you are trolling too... I don't think they care about your shaming.
loveshooks
01-17-2017, 02:58 PM
Really? I had already holstered my ban hammer and now this?
adore ya chica =)
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