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crystalize
07-29-2017, 04:40 PM
Yup. I have known multiple women who acquired creepy customers while working as freaking cashiers. In each incident there would be a creepy customer that would come in and talk to them for a while and then over time they'd get to where they were coming in daily and staying for hours, just to spend time with them. Eventually they would need to be told by management to stop, they wouldn't, and they'd end up getting banned from the store. No one is safe from creeps.

There was an article I read a little while ago about a chick(I think she was even a minor) who worked at one of those drive-up coffee stands and she had a customer there that became sexually obsessed with her. It started with him coming to the stand more and more frequently till it was daily and he'd try to talk to her for forever, he eventually started leaving panties in her tip jar, learned her routine by recognizing her car, he started getting angry when he found out that she would hide her car at work to make it look like she wasn't there..... They got a restraining order and he would violate it, I think the story ended with him going to jail and her moving.

lol i think that was buff bunny?


yes stalkers are not fun but he should be banned from the club and if you get escorted to your car it should be okay.

whirlerz
07-29-2017, 05:58 PM
You know, can't remember if I mentioned, but I had an ex stalk me, was many yrs after we broke up..
Then, 5 yes after that, he did again, then after another 5 yrs??
Ugh TG the cops talked to him& he listened.
I also sent registered letter, he had to sign for, telling him to never contact me, in any way, again

Genoveve
07-29-2017, 06:00 PM
lol i think that was buff bunny?

I don't think it was, I think it was a young random civilian chick, I read the article on the Daily Mail.

LoveyDovey
07-31-2017, 08:32 PM
Yes I agree don't play games with this psycho. I know of more than one person who was stalked by next level crazies and it's really scary how obsessive and delusional some men are. I also don't think this man is married and probably lied about that.
Did the police offer any help to stop this from escalating?

He's married. Did some investigating and can confirm he's married.

I called his place of employment and told them whst was going on. He works for the city and I complained that he was calling me incessantly and if it didn't stop I was going to file a RO as I already contacted police. Well tbey must've said something to him because for the last 3 days my phone has been very quiet haha....still may file, we'll see.

LoveyDovey
08-18-2017, 08:16 PM
Well after having 3 weeks of quiet, the loon calls me today again! The number he was calling from is blocked on my phone, so he can't reach me but I can see that he is calling. Told my manager and 5 minutes later he called the club, asking if I was there! Fucking lunatic! The manager told him that I dont work there anymore. So then he shows up at the club to see if it's really true! I panicked and ran to the DR and texted the manager and told her he was there. She told him to leave. He actually had the nerve to ask why. She said "Because we told you not to contact her and you contacted her! You're harasding her!" And gave him the boot. I left and went home frazzled. I know I shouldn't let him get to me, but I had to get out of there.

Filing a restraining order early this week.

Fuck this shit.

I'm done.

LoveyDovey
08-18-2017, 08:18 PM
Sorry to keep bumping this but I am recording everything/keeping record so I'll have a timeline to show the court.

whirlerz
08-18-2017, 09:07 PM
Aww, I am so sorry, Hun. Hugs to you, I hope he'll leave you alone for good.
Ugh

chanzep
08-18-2017, 09:56 PM
Yeah hopefully he will go away, what a creep!.

vanessa_mtl
08-19-2017, 01:22 AM
So sorry to hear this man is so hell bent on being a crazy stalker! You did nothing to deserve this it is tragically unlucky but remember you're strong and doing everything right.

LoveyDovey
08-19-2017, 01:44 AM
^^Well, the police said we can't label him a "stalker" because there have been no threats of violence. But we can say that he's been harassing me, since he won't stop calling. This guy has issues respecting boundaries and obviously needs to be taught a lesson.

In his mind, we had some sort of special relationship! It's like, no dude. I was a stripper, you were a customer. That's it! There was no otc activity that would've confused him. Everything was kept n the club. Nothing happened with him that doesn't happen with the avg customer. Just convo and dances. The moron is just obsessed and delusional. He probably goes to Disneyland and thinks Minnie mouse is his nanny. He can't accept the fact that I AM NOT INTERESTED AND I THINK HE IS A CREEP AND I DON'T WANT TO DO BUSINESS WITH HIM!

Thanks for the support. I'm just so livid right now. The disrespect from this man is pissing me off. Ladies, a reminder...SIDELINE APP IS YOUR FRIEND and I am kicking myself for not using it.

LoveyDovey
08-19-2017, 01:44 PM
Oh. My. God.

So this morning he decides to call me at 6am. I blocked his number, so it didn't ring and wake me up, but I could see that it was him calling again.

THEN he emails the club manager to whine about being kicked out again. Management told him that he could come back if he didn't contact me. Well, he violated that boundary and contacted me. So he's not allowed back in.

Yesterday, he called me around 1. I didnt answer. Then he called the club and my mrg told him I didn't work there anymore. So he came to the club, got kicked out because he contacted me when he wasn't supposed to. NOW he's emailing the club, whining about getting kicked out because he thought I was gone per the phone conversation he had with the manager, and that even if I was there, he would have avoided me. BULLSHIT!! IF YOU WERE TRYING TO AVOID ME, WHY DID YOU CALL ME HOURS BEFORE COMING IN, AS WELL AS THIS MORNING??? WHY DID HE CALL THE CLUB ASKING IF I WAS THERE! That is hardly avoiding me!!! LIAR!!!

Because in his email, he admitted talking to the manager over the phone, we now have proof he was calling me too, because he called the club and me from the same number. So he just outed the fact that he was calling us both from a Target Superstore. Ass.

I want to see if my manager will come with me to court when we have our hearing so we can present this evidence and totally call this guy out on his nonsense.

Management will still not let him in. Because he was told not to contact me, and he did.

What is with this loser??? GET A LIFE!!!

chanzep
08-19-2017, 01:56 PM
I hope they will go to court with you. This guy is too much, its been going on too long.

LoveyDovey
08-19-2017, 02:59 PM
I hope they will go to court with you. This guy is too much, its been going on too long.

Right? He's had plenty of chances. He took a three week break this month, but now he's back at it and it's time for me to shut this shit down once and for all.

LoveyDovey
09-01-2017, 08:30 PM
So we slapped him with a restraining order but he violated it by calling me. 3 times. Called the cops and they're issuing him a misdemeanor.

This guy completely. Ignores. Boundaries.

LoveyDovey
09-10-2017, 05:57 PM
Have to go to court and deal with this on Tuesday. Not thrilled.

arielbriel
09-10-2017, 07:27 PM
Ugh, good luck!!! That sucks. I wonder what his wife thinks about all this?

LoveyDovey
09-10-2017, 07:55 PM
I don't think she knows, which is probably better. The last thing I need is to have another crazy bitch harass me...all because I WANT TO BE LEFT ALONE...

I'm pretty sure it'll work out in my favor. The guy is an idiot.

LoveyDovey
09-12-2017, 03:43 PM
Judge let him off easy, despite my hard evidence. I am livid right now.

Judge told him to leave him alone and to stay away from me, my home and my work. If he comes back, I'll have to go re-file and he'll get in trouble.

Hate that piece of shit. He lied and got away with it. Karma will come for him. Hopefully soon.

I am just so irate right now.

WendiStarr
09-12-2017, 05:54 PM
Omg, that's crazy! What a creepy piece of work that guy is. I would be pissed off, too. Hopefully he leaves you alone.

~*SwanPrincess*~
09-12-2017, 06:23 PM
Im so sorry you have to go through this!! This guy sounds so out of control!

LoveyDovey
09-12-2017, 08:47 PM
I am just livid that he called me three times and my work one time deliberately after the RO was served and he blatantly LIED and told the judge he "misdialed". Of course he works for the government, so he gets a slap on the wrist, and since I'm a stripper, it's Oh Well, Tough Shit. I am really hope karma serves him up a big fat one...

LoveyDovey
09-12-2017, 08:50 PM
Ladies, thank you. That fucktard better leave me alone. I will not be fucked with.

Here is a video illustrating what a fucking weirdo he is... he's the bald guy.


https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mp-56L9Q7vc&feature=youtu.be

Genoveve
10-06-2017, 09:38 PM
lol i think that was buff bunny?

OMG you were completely right. I don't know when the hell I watched the video but by chance I ended up watching her stalker storytime tonight and I realized that I had already seen it, which is weird because I just started checking out her videos recently and I thought that it was my first exposure to her. I remembered you saying this as soon as the story got going.

LoveyDovey
10-06-2017, 09:40 PM
Well the good news is that so far, he has left me alone. So far. Thank God.