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pinups4
08-12-2017, 12:13 PM
A stripper or adult entertainment pro is like a tour guide (and should be tipped for a great tour) ...not like a car salesman or hot dog vendor
LongDongSilverBBC
08-12-2017, 12:26 PM
Pink so you are Mad at me for Tipping women Generously, albeit via arrangements... But you are NOT mad at the "Scam Artist Dancer - xxxGothBarbie " Who said I purposly Rip Guys off... She purposly fucks men over because she can. I Tip generously because I can, and Im the bad guy? Why am I the Bad Guy?
Thats the problem with some of you women, if you dont feel that you ripped a guy off then you didnt do your job. If a customer is happy and content and leaves feeling AMAZING!!, then you and xxxGothBarbie are not happy.
WOW. I don't feel like getting involved in picking apart this entire thing, but I just could not believe the cocky attitude you're sporting at the end of your statement, mister "non-judgmental". You should apologize to Dona, seriously. Check yourself. Damn!
LongDongSilverBBC
08-12-2017, 12:27 PM
A stripper or adult entertainment pro is like a tour guide (and should be tipped for a great tour) ...not like a car salesman or hot dog vendor
I agree with you 100% and most men would agree with you. Except xxxGothBarbie & PinkPopcorn... when we tip generously we are the Bad guys.
DonaDiabla
08-12-2017, 12:31 PM
Do not make me laugh,child. :) I have been at this game for a long time and I know hustles that you can not even fathom. I descent from generations of sex workers and I have 14 years of experience professional. But I have been getting money out of men since I was 15. What shall the likes of you teach me about sugaring again? Nothing expect not to use any sugar baby sites if I want a proper sugar daddy. I find sugar daddies on my own. You are splenda daddy who uses naive college girls and train them to expect very little for a lot of work. When they do not want to cater to your std star studded affair for little profit...then you try to guilt them. It is that simple.
Please do not try to convince me that you are some new Casanova and Don Juan. Because you are not! Please they were actually brilliant and had great respect for sex workers. I never had to cater to every depraved fantasy to get money as sugar baby. Maybe someone like yourself must cater to every man's fantasy to gain some money ...but I do not. What you are talking about has nothing to do with anything when it comes to tipping in a strip club. Maybe your lack of true sexual knowledge and hustling can inspired naive schoolgirls but it will never inspired someone like me. Great talk ;)
1st off... Arrangements Are Tipping! Sugardaddy's are Tipping towards a baby's attitude, lifestyle, & emotional support, I've pad for plenty of Daycare.
2nd... I'm a Teacher & Philosopher im here to Impart Knowledge. Many women want to jump into the sugardaddy/sugarbaby game but they dont know how. Im here to be a non-judgemental teacher and spiritual guide on taking a jump to the next level. If YOU dont want to listen and learn from a master like myself, then I don't know what to tell you honey bunch. but please dont be a "DONADOWNER"!!
If you want to be a dancer your whole life then stay there, you are your own BOSS... The world is changing, I don't look at SA as another version of Craigslist or BP, I look at SA as another Version of Tinder or POF, the version in which women are compensated for their Time dating & putting on Makeup getting dressed and making guys feel like champions as opposed to getting free food free or getting smashed for free. If you want to go on Dates and get Free Food, once again thats your Perogative no one is going to stop you. But Once again, the world is changing, Porn sites are 9.95 for unlimited material, Tinder is offering men opportunities to Hookup without spending any money. There are more options.
Also im trying to be truthful... SA is Fantasy, Fetish, Role Play, Dating meetup forum. To be a successful SugarBaby, and get good tips, a woman has to be willing to engage in mens fantasies. Licking the Vag is just fantasy.
You should be thanking me for this knowledge that I am imparting on you.
rickdugan
08-12-2017, 12:35 PM
^ Dona, I suspect he is trolling for reactions just like that one. That seems just too over the top to be genuine.
DonaDiabla
08-12-2017, 12:42 PM
Actually, RickDugan, he is not trolling me per say because he actually believes he is a sex god and he needed to be put in his place :) And I did so :)
^ Dona, I suspect he is trolling for reactions just like that one. That seems just too over the top to be genuine.
rickdugan
08-12-2017, 12:52 PM
But back to the main topic for a moment...
I have mixed feelings on this. I live in an area where the LDs are $30 a pop in all of the local clubs. 4 or 5 dances, which is 12 to 15 minutes of her time, already runs $120-150. That is a good chunk of change in the part of the country that I now live in, which no doubt explains why LDs are hard to sell here without extras being laced in. Seriously, OTC with a very attractive girl doesn't cost me much more than that in these parts. I am far from cheap, but it is a rare occurrence for me to pay $150 for 15 minutes in an open LD room in light of the local economics and other options. When I do bite the bullet, such as when I find some girl truly irresistible, I am not prone to serious tipping unless the experience was somehow exceptional.
Conversely, when I am in higher cost areas, like NY or certain other places, and paying $20 per song, I am much more inclined to tip more, especially if the experience was a good one.
Anyway, just my :twocents: fwiw.
LongDongSilverBBC
08-12-2017, 12:54 PM
Actually, RickDugan, he is not trolling me per say because he actually believes he is a sex god and he needed to be put in his place :) And I do so :) He is weak and that is what they do :)
Well you should give up dancing and become a comedian... Because im laughing my Ass off over here. You can definately put a smile on a guys face.
ill respond to you later young lady... right now Its Saturday morning and all of the SugarBabys are ready to get tipped... Gotta run.
DonaDiabla
08-12-2017, 12:58 PM
Yes, I am sure you are a man that is used to women's laughter :)
Well you should give up dancing and become a comedian... Because im laughing my Ass off over here. You can definately put a smile on a guys face.
ill respond to you later young lady... right now Its Saturday morning and all of the SugarBabys are ready to get tipped... Gotta run.
BobbleHead
08-12-2017, 12:58 PM
Well you should give up dancing and become a comedian... Because im laughing my Ass off over here. You can definately put a smile on a guys face.
ill respond to you later young lady... right now Its Saturday morning and all of the SugarBabys are ready to get tipped... Gotta run.
Classic troll. Enjoy your short time here on the site.
1st off... Arrangements Are Tipping! Sugardaddy's are Tipping towards a baby's attitude, lifestyle, & emotional support, I've pad for plenty of Daycare.
2nd... I'm a Teacher & Philosopher im here to Impart Knowledge. Many women want to jump into the sugardaddy/sugarbaby game but they dont know how. Im here to be a non-judgemental teacher and spiritual guide on taking a jump to the next level. If YOU dont want to listen and learn from a master like myself, then I don't know what to tell you honey bunch. but please dont be a "DONADOWNER"!!
If you want to be a dancer your whole life then stay there, you are your own BOSS... The world is changing, I don't look at SA as another version of Craigslist or BP, I look at SA as another Version of Tinder or POF, the version in which women are compensated for their Time dating & putting on Makeup getting dressed and making guys feel like champions as opposed to getting free food free or getting smashed for free. If you want to go on Dates and get Free Food, once again thats your Perogative no one is going to stop you. But Once again, the world is changing, Porn sites are 9.95 for unlimited material, Tinder is offering men opportunities to Hookup without spending any money. There are more options.
Also im trying to be truthful... SA is Fantasy, Fetish, Role Play, Dating meetup forum. To be a successful SugarBaby, and get good tips, a woman has to be willing to engage in mens fantasies. Licking the Vag is just fantasy.
You should be thanking me for this knowledge that I am imparting on you.
Wow, you are an idiot.
LongDongSilverBBC
08-12-2017, 01:06 PM
Classic troll. Enjoy your short time here on the site.
Stop focusing on me and worry about the Topic... I worked at a strip club for over 4yrs... I was even an assistant manager I have more insight and I can impart more knowledge than almost anyone here. I know all the ins and out. Unfortunately im limited to only this message board area because the other area's seem to be locked and only open to dancers and they are not open to former security or Club managers. Ive been lurking these boards for yrs. I just recently signed up because I felt that some of these threads could benefit from insider information & Knowledge!!! Knowledge of the highest degree!!
I find it funny that a girl who Screws Paying Customers Over is welcomed and praised but a guy who Imparts serious knowledge is called a Troll. PSftttt!!!!!!!!!!!!
PinkPopcorn
08-12-2017, 01:08 PM
Nvm. Lol
pinups4
08-12-2017, 01:18 PM
@longdong.....you have no clue
Well I have no doubt your game works for girls in your area I tend to find it guys who talks so bravely usually aren't is good at delivery has at bull talking
LongDongSilverBBC
08-12-2017, 01:18 PM
Lol....
BobbleHead
08-12-2017, 02:36 PM
Stop focusing on me and worry about the Topic... I worked at a strip club for over 4yrs... I was even an assistant manager I have more insight and I can impart more knowledge than almost anyone here. I know all the ins and out. Unfortunately im limited to only this message board area because the other area's seem to be locked and only open to dancers and they are not open to former security or Club managers. Ive been lurking these boards for yrs. I just recently signed up because I felt that some of these threads could benefit from insider information & Knowledge!!! Knowledge of the highest degree!!
I find it funny that a girl who Screws Paying Customers Over is welcomed and praised but a guy who Imparts serious knowledge is called a Troll. PSftttt!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dude I'm not focused on you. You could have the cure to cancer and the secret to life and you'd still be a troll because the way you are interacting here is just trying to bait people.
When you worked in the clubs and tried to hand out this "serious knowledge" to the girls there Im sure they probably just rolled their eyes behind your back. You won't get the same courtesy from the ones posting here so troll away and like I said, enjoy it while you can.
Nadia_
08-12-2017, 03:05 PM
Yea good point ^
I find the men who work in strip xlubs for a very long time are to self absorbed to realize 99.9% of the time a stripping is interacting with you is to keep her hustle vibe going/ basically practicing on you lol....so you've had your head gassed up by strippers who were actually treating you like a customer and being overly nice/fake/saying what you wanna hear instead of us here where we are able to express freely without reprocussion of getting fired lol...
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-12-2017, 04:23 PM
Stop focusing on me and worry about the Topic... I worked at a strip club for over 4yrs... I was even an assistant manager I have more insight and I can impart more knowledge than almost anyone here. I know all the ins and out. Unfortunately im limited to only this message board area because the other area's seem to be locked and only open to dancers and they are not open to former security or Club managers. Ive been lurking these boards for yrs. I just recently signed up because I felt that some of these threads could benefit from insider information & Knowledge!!! Knowledge of the highest degree!!
I find it funny that a girl who Screws Paying Customers Over is welcomed and praised but a guy who Imparts serious knowledge is called a Troll. PSftttt!!!!!!!!!!!!
Where's this knowledge that you keep referencing? So far I haven't seen it.
LongDongSilverBBC
08-13-2017, 08:15 AM
Well I have no doubt your game works for girls in your area I tend to find
Someone Finally agrees with me here... Thank You Pinup, Thank you for your support. When you come to LA Im Taking care of you.... BIg Time!!!!
LongDongSilverBBC
08-13-2017, 08:45 AM
Yea good point ^
I find the men who work in strip xlubs for a very long time are to self absorbed to realize 99.9% of the time a stripping is interacting with you is to keep her hustle vibe going/ basically practicing on you lol....so you've had your head gassed up by strippers who were actually treating you like a customer and being overly nice/fake/saying what you wanna hear instead of us here where we are able to express freely without reprocussion of getting fired lol...
1st off I see that you are a very intelligent woman. Because I agree with you. I felt that when the women were being nice, they were typically trying to game the system or butter me up. So I was always a little standoffish, I wouldnt say I was mean, but I was standoffish and I kinda stayed to myself. I would typically talk to the New girls and Impart Knowledge on them how to make money in our club. I would also send the newer girls customers when the customers were to weak to ask for a dance. Its funny that the dancers that I met outside the club we are still actually great friends to this day, only 1 that I met in the club are still friends (not counting facebook) and we actually invested in an Airbnb house. But she was one ofthe more business minded dancers.
2nd, to be 100% honest. I never hit on girls at the club. 70% of them looked like crap in their regular clothes. I like to dress women up like dolls, I like to buy them nice clothes and stuff. 70% dressed crappy, I personally believed that it was a type of defensive mechanism. They dress down outside because they dont want to attract unwanted attention.
3rd most of them had boyfriends...
It was a Job... I wasnt trying to get laid.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-13-2017, 09:50 AM
1st off I see that you are a very intelligent woman. Because I agree with you. I felt that when the women were being nice, they were typically trying to game the system or butter me up. So I was always a little standoffish, I wouldnt say I was mean, but I was standoffish and I kinda stayed to myself. I would typically talk to the New girls and Impart Knowledge on them how to make money in our club. I would also send the newer girls customers when the customers were to weak to ask for a dance. Its funny that the dancers that I met outside the club we are still actually great friends to this day, only 1 that I met in the club are still friends (not counting facebook) and we actually invested in an Airbnb house. But she was one ofthe more business minded dancers.
2nd, to be 100% honest. I never hit on girls at the club. 1st off 70% of them looked like crap in their regular clothes. I like to dress women up like dolls, I like to buy them nice clothes and stuff. 70% dressed crappy, I personally believed that i was a type of defensive mechanism. They dress down outside because they dont want to attract unwanted attention.
3rd most of them had boyfriends...
It was a Job... I wasnt trying to get laid.
Alright let me warn you and point something out at the same time, the women that you have so far condecended here on this board are not newbies. Therefore all of this knowledge that you claim to have is most likely not needed around here. So far you have'nt really brought any real value to this board. Stop trolling or find another board.
LOL! Wow, you are a douchebag.
pinups4
08-13-2017, 04:56 PM
Someone Finally agrees with me here... Thank You Pinup, Thank you for your support. When you come to LA Im Taking care of you.... BIg Time!!!!
fuck off. im anything BUT on your side
caligirl81
08-13-2017, 09:15 PM
From a female perspective...I always tip. Same as the service industry. 15% minimum, even if it's mediocre. They put the work in, but if it's not something I'm into, I'll just pass on being a returning client. The ladies put up with a lot of bullsh-t and they earn their money.
I guess average tipping would be 20%. I try new ladies out and see which one I'd like to stick with. This contrasts with what I tipped the gal who was my regular dancer (and also provided me with my first lap dance, ever); at the end, I was consistently tipping her 100%. She's since left, after what I can only assume to be a falling out with that particular club. I think the chemistry was there and the experience was unlike any other, as I've not been able to recreate it with anyone else. I have no qualms about how much I tipped her when she provided a personal lap dance or when she was on-stage...she earned that and deserved to be compensated well. Gosh, I miss her (lol).
LongDongSilverBBC
08-14-2017, 02:09 PM
This contrasts with what I tipped the gal who was my regular dancer (and also provided me with my first lap dance, ever); at the end, I was consistently tipping her 100%. She's since left, after what I can only assume to be a falling out with that particular club. I think the chemistry was there and the experience was unlike any other, as I've not been able to recreate it with anyone else. I have no qualms about how much I tipped her when she provided a personal lap dance or when she was on-stage...she earned that and deserved to be compensated well. Gosh, I miss her (lol).
You were very generous to her, EXTREMELY GENEROUS to her, and you never even got her number!! 100% LMAO! The last girl I tipped $300 I got them digits and we still text occasionally, and we are on Instagram where we still chat... the only problem is she wants to date. She made it very clear to me that she will let me smash it all I want, if we date. That means she is going to fall in Love with me and Ill never smash anything else. Sorry aint going to happen.
Rule 47: After tipping a girl several hundred dollars you have to Get her number or instagram, or something, otherwise you got taken.
Knowledge has been spit!!! Booyah!
pinups4
08-14-2017, 02:17 PM
Opinion =\=knowledge
Knowledge is provable fact. Opinion is personal
And please refrain from spitting I don't want anyone's unborn children all over me
caligirl81
08-14-2017, 02:24 PM
Taken? For what? I didn't give her those tips in exchange for anything else besides the time she provided me. There's nothing to "get." I think that's where I differ, vastly, from a man in the strip club. I don't regret it. I was happy to do it.
Should another girl I have that level of chemistry with find her way into the club, I would do it again, funds provided.
I do not have an MO when walking into a SC. There is no game needed. I value her time and she values mine, but I don't need to text her occasionally and would never put her in a position of wanting more OTC. She gave me a very, very good experience and I paid accordingly. That's all.
I'm not a token male customer, wasting her time chatting her up. Grabbing her butt as she walks by. Doing any of those things I see the majority of men do. And the things she had to do with overweight, balding, paunchy guys or the arrogant rich dudes who thought she loved 'em, she never did with me. And I'm glad she didn't. As a woman, I know that's saying something right there.
Two very different agendas between you and I. And hey, if that works for you, more power to you. But I don't share your perspective.
You were very generous to her, EXTREMELY GENEROUS to her, and you never even got her number!! 100% LMAO! The last girl I tipped $300 I got them digits and we still text occasionally, and we are on Instagram where we still chat... the only problem is she wants to date. She made it very clear to me that she will let me smash it all I want, if we date. That means she is going to fall in Love with me and Ill never smash anything else. Sorry aint going to happen.
Rule 47: After tipping a girl several hundred dollars you have to Get her number or instagram, or something, otherwise you got taken.
Knowledge has been spit!!! Booyah!
Nadia_
08-14-2017, 02:31 PM
I give every single customer who asks my "phone number" (lol my sideline app number) , every single one ...whether he spends $1 or $1,000 cuz that is actually just subscribing the newsletter texts of me saying "I'm working at xyz club tonite I'd really like to see you :)" and guarantees me a few fans in the audience wherever I work lol........I think many strippers use contact numbers as a way to market to her following ....tipping for acquiring the number is greatly appreciated...necessary? depends on the chick lol....
Idk you might be helping some of the blues by suggesting getting the number , but I suggest to all the blues to ALWAYS ask for a stripper that you likes number ALWAYS ....and then respect her boundaries on how and when she can share contact info with you
Helps scheduling :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-14-2017, 02:33 PM
You were very generous to her, EXTREMELY GENEROUS to her, and you never even got her number!! 100% LMAO! The last girl I tipped $300 I got them digits and we still text occasionally, and we are on Instagram where we still chat... the only problem is she wants to date. She made it very clear to me that she will let me smash it all I want, if we date. That means she is going to fall in Love with me and Ill never smash anything else. Sorry aint going to happen.
Rule 47: After tipping a girl several hundred dollars you have to Get her number or instagram, or something, otherwise you got taken.
Knowledge has been spit!!! Booyah!
How old are you? Didn't I tell you to stop trolling. You paid $300 for Instagram? She doesn't like you silly. She see's the potential for future funds so she gave a little more access. That's standard.
A scene from Atlanta where Paperboy spent money on bottles all night long and then when he wanted her phone number homegirl gave him the insta. This is a classic move. Not saying that nothing will ever come of it but if you aren't trying to smash then what's there to brag about. "She gonna fall in love" Boy please.
https://media.giphy.com/media/l0HlCCBZkAEViXO8w/giphy.gif
caligirl81
08-14-2017, 02:36 PM
I see people exchanging numbers in the club all the time, but it just wasn't on my radar. The nearest club apart from the one in my hometown is over two hours away.
I'm not responding to anyone in particular, I'm just saying I didn't see a point because of the distance and that's if she ended up in that club.
Sigh. She was awesome. Lol.
LongDongSilverBBC
08-14-2017, 06:23 PM
You are 1 smart Cookie... Ive always reccomended this to girls trying to build up their Client Base... Maybe 10 Listened. Its just another way to set yourself apart from the competition.
I give every single customer who asks my "phone number" (lol my sideline app number) , every single one ...whether he spends $1 or $1,000 cuz that is actually just subscribing the newsletter texts of me saying "I'm working at xyz club tonite I'd really like to see you :)" and guarantees me a few fans in the audience wherever I work lol........I think many strippers use contact numbers as a way to market to her following ....tipping for acquiring the number is greatly appreciated...necessary? depends on the chick lol....
Idk you might be helping some of the blues by suggesting getting the number , but I suggest to all the blues to ALWAYS ask for a stripper that you likes number ALWAYS ....and then respect her boundaries on how and when she can share contact info with you
Helps scheduling :)
LongDongSilverBBC
08-14-2017, 06:26 PM
Nothing ever pissed me off more than some fucking cheap bastard grabbing a girls ass without asking... That use to infuriate me. But it wasnt my ass, so I could never do shit about it.
I'm not a token male customer, wasting her time chatting her up. Grabbing her butt as she walks by. Doing any of those things I see the majority of men do. And the things she had to do with overweight, balding, paunchy guys or the arrogant rich dudes who thought she loved 'em, she never did with me. And I'm glad she didn't. As a woman, I know that's saying something right there.
Are you Married?
Two very different agendas between you and I. And hey, if that works for you, more power to you. But I don't share your perspective.
LongDongSilverBBC
08-14-2017, 06:32 PM
I agree with you 100%... Right after that she asked me if I would catch up her payments on her repossesed car. I get it...
If I dated her she was going to be a money pit, and she would fall in Love with this Tounge and that allowance she would be receiving... No thanks! I'll stick to SA.
How old are you? Didn't I tell you to stop trolling. You paid $300 for Instagram? She doesn't like you silly. She see's the potential for future funds so she gave a little more access. That's standard.
A scene from Atlanta where Paperboy spent money on bottles all night long and then when he wanted her phone number homegirl gave him the insta. This is a classic move. Not saying that nothing will ever come of it but if you aren't trying to smash then what's there to brag about. "She gonna fall in love" Boy please.
https://media.giphy.com/media/l0HlCCBZkAEViXO8w/giphy.gif
LongDongSilverBBC
08-14-2017, 06:39 PM
Ive known dancers that commute to LA from Riverside, San Diego, Santa Barbara Tulare Ca just because they wanted to stay on the down low. You never know, she could have lived a couple of blocks from you.
I had a Dancer live in my Building in Hollywood and never knew it for 1 yr. After we found out we lived in the same building I started babysitting her cats while she traveled to Vegas. I still baby sit her cats.
You never know.
I see people exchanging numbers in the club all the time, but it just wasn't on my radar. The nearest club apart from the one in my hometown is over two hours away.
I'm not responding to anyone in particular, I'm just saying I didn't see a point because of the distance and that's if she ended up in that club.
Sigh. She was awesome. Lol.
fbsm_girl
08-14-2017, 07:11 PM
Lmao! Babysitting cats? That's some funny shit! :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-14-2017, 08:00 PM
Ive known dancers that commute to LA from Riverside, San Diego, Santa Barbara Tulare Ca just because they wanted to stay on the down low. You never know, she could have lived a couple of blocks from you.
I had a Dancer live in my Building in Hollywood and never knew it for 1 yr. After we found out we lived in the same building I started babysitting her cats while she traveled to Vegas. I still baby sit her cats.
You never know.
Cat sitting huh? Watch out ladies. We got us a playa from the Himalayas coming through!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mr2tXU9Sl_w
BobbleHead
08-14-2017, 10:37 PM
$300 and you got an instagram and a gig cat sitting!? Wtf? Thanks for the knowledge. This seriously sounds more like "what not to be" knowledge. I mean cool if you got a friend that you'd cat sit for but dropping that info here didn't really up your cred any. lol No idea how you went from "dude she'd let me smash that all day, but she'll fall in love with this tongue" to "i cat sit for my dancer neighbor."
And you said "it's not my ass" so there's nothing I could do when you'd get so mad at seeing guys grabbing girls asses. Weren't you assistant to the manager? (I miss the office!) I'm pretttttttyyy sure there was something you could have done.
pinups4
08-15-2017, 04:31 AM
So a neighbor has a cat and you don't babysit her cat until you find out she's a dancer? Wow. Sounds like exactly the type of PL Behavior the girls are always talking about on this board
LongDongSilverBBC
08-17-2017, 02:36 AM
So a neighbor has a cat and you don't babysit her cat until you find out she's a dancer? Wow. Sounds like exactly the type of PL Behavior the girls are always talking about on this board
I dont know what PoDunk town you are from, but the "Luxury" Apartments in LA that we both lived at are 12 stories tall, with 300+ Units, and 5 Levels of parking spaces. The fact that I happened to run into her was just a vey very chance encounter.