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RyanXO
10-03-2017, 12:58 PM
Calling me at work, making me take pictures of where I am,
Setting location on my phone, putting him on speaker so
He can hear the music.
This right here is a big enough issue in an of itself! What an abusive creep. Get rid of him before it gets even worse because it won't get better!
MissMoore
10-03-2017, 01:04 PM
OMG.... I had a boyfriend when I was working at a hooters who would fucking call the place!! He would also show up to my parents house unannounced, call at 4 30 am, etc. Obviously this will be no surprise but I ended up having to file a restraining order. This dude is trash.
Take 1300 and not give it back? I'd be wearing his balls as earrings.
RyanXO
10-03-2017, 01:35 PM
Further more you have made you serious allegations one of which is sex trafficking, that is the new legal term for Pimps. Now maybe venting or stretching the truth or not telling the true extent of how bad the situation is... but here is a link to a hotline.
www.humansextraffickinghotline.org
here is one to contact the authorities To assist & identify victims. Those allegations are not a joke & thousands upon thousands of women are being exploited but made to feel their predator loves them Does he ask for your loyalty & emotionally black mail you with tales of abandonment by other women?
https://www.state.gov/j/tip/id/
These links should be stickies.
sweetchey20
10-04-2017, 03:14 AM
Hey guys,
My post wasn't looking for sympathy and I wasn't trying to troll.
Sam, I had two instances of money being taken/spent. Which the first was $1300 and the second was $1000.
I know what needs to happen, but I also need a plan in place.
I appreciate all the advice and links you guys have posted. I don't have anyone to talk to, so it helps a lot to vent.
whirlerz
10-04-2017, 03:30 AM
Thanks, appreciate your honesty,v& best of luck. I think I can speak for everyone, what was said to you was out of concern.
Good luck, take care
Sam38g
10-04-2017, 05:31 AM
There are many resources but at the end if the day, it is all on you. Can you trust the house Mom? or a parent to hold onto some of the money you make on a regular basis?
If you drive a car, hide money under the spare tire in the trunk. Dont brag about how much money you make, start down playing it & having lots of slow nights.
Go on vacation & just don't come back. No need for a good bye or explanation. You don't owe him answers.
slowpoke
10-04-2017, 05:49 AM
Dont brag about how much money you make, start down playing it & having lots of slow nights.
This should be the norm for anyone, regardless of what business he is in.
sweetchey20
10-22-2017, 08:57 PM
I left!
After having to move out of our place to live in a hotel
And everything else I've gone through. I'd had enough.
Let the saving begin and the stress be gone! :)
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-23-2017, 07:19 AM
I left!
After having to move out of our place to live in a hotel
And everything else I've gone through. I'd had enough.
Let the saving begin and the stress be gone! :)
Glad you got away from him.
Gia2608
10-24-2017, 08:55 PM
Hello Ladies,
Let me introduce myself. Hi I'm Stripper Boyfriend...
Peace, I wish you all the best, in your work and home life.
I do not know why I am really entertaining this post but maybe I am bored. First and foremost, while you may claim to be cool with what she does. You aren't. You have shown up there several times by your own admission to spy on her. Second, you... if your post is actually true as I know of very few clubs that allow the waitresses to give dances... you asked the guy who she flashed how much she charged him?? WTF is that about. You TOLD her NOT to do something. This is an adult woman, not a child where you are her father. WhTF gives you the right to tell her what to do with her body??
Lastly, the fact that she is lying to you in the first place leads me to believe you are a domineering, chauvinistic pig and she may be scared of your controlling ways. Not that I think for a second you scour stripperweb to read all of my posts but I post a lot of my personal experiences. Very recently I wrote about the only man I have ever cheated on. I know lying is not cheating but dishonesty is dishonesty. I hated this guy by this point in my relationship. I also dated another guy for 7 years that I have known for 20 years at this point (we talk on the phone at least 3-4x a week) and can not think of one time I have ever lied to him. I never needed to discuss any of my decisions with him or get permission from him to do anything.
IMH(and extensive experienced)O, there is a very, very special breed of person whose character allows them to be in a successful relationship with someone in the sex industry. I do not care if you are gay or straight or a man or a woman or transgendered or polyamorous, you can either be with someone who does this as work and are truly understanding or you are in the relationship because it benefits you. The benefit can be that you are with someone "hotter" than you, or for their money or the status...
I am not going to personally attack you because you do not seem like a piece of shit, just maybe you need to examine your relationship and the way you treat women a little better. TBH, and no offense but if your story is true and this girl is not dancing already she probably will be very soon and you may need to consider if you should stay with someone who you consider so untrustworthy or who feels the need to lie to you.
whirlerz
10-24-2017, 09:13 PM
Jel, you say you're a stripper bf but your ID says female?
& Why did you add on to a thread w/a completely different topic..
Just wondering