View Full Version : my whale on token site keeps tipping another model while claiming to love me
JaneBurgess
09-07-2017, 09:51 PM
Problem is cant make other whales. He does something each time. I am worried other potential whales think from start they have no chance to get attention and all I really want is new whale. Am tired of his control. Either new whale or another additional whale but no one stays too long.
Dont let him control you because he clearly enjoys doing that. He has zero right to behave like that to your other customers. Dont be afraid to get rid of him if you have to. He could be chasing off a lot of potential long term clients and costing you a lot of money. I kicked a guy like him to the curb that spent a lot of money three or four times a week. He wanted offline attention and said I should be at his beck and call. You control your room, you work for yourself. Never let your clients get the upper-hand
foxirox
09-08-2017, 07:38 AM
Dorothea - You need a thick skin for this business. I don't believe a single word which comes out of anybodies mouth. By giving this 'whale' all your attention you already know you are potentially alienating other whales. Milk him for all he's worth - but do not show or act like you need him, or that he owns you. That is your downfall right there. Men can smell desperation and some whales think they can own you. They can't. Don't be rude to him, but just treat him like everyone else in the room. He'll soon get the message and if he stops tipping you - then I'm sure other whales will come along and do the same without the BS this other guy is giving you.
kortneykay
09-08-2017, 01:08 PM
Dorothea, have you not learned from your last 'dillusions of grandeur' thread? Really?!! How many of us helped you the last time and yet here you are again? Listen to me carefully.
1. Clients have the right to spend on whomever they please, and they most certainly do!
2. You will never be the only person they tip, spoil, take private, ninja tip, 'love', etc. How is this hard to understand? He found you on a PORN site along side of OTHER models. Helllllo. Anyone there?
3. Stop listening to these fools who claim they love you. THEY DO NOT. Why do you think he's tipping other women, and many who you do not know. He only loves his PENIS. Also, why do you CARE?
Please, get some common sense and just do your damn job. You're not a newb or a spring chicken as you've been on here a few years now. Go and re-read your other thread which is the very same logic that you used the last time. In fact, you ended up going off and denying reason from a lot of us that tried to help you last time. Also, why are you allowing some CLIENT (because that's all he is no matter what) dictate your room? You blocked another spender, and now you're crying that this guy isn't faithful to you? Grow up, or get GOT!
Do yourself a favor and either get another job, or grow the hell up. It's tiring. You can't afford to be this naive in this industry, especially after being on SW almost 3 years. Enough, already. You are the only one allowing yourself to get hurt by not using logic and sense. Who cares if he's a wale because the way you're going you're going to lose him and every whale you come in contact with. So what if he spends on other girls, make sure you're good- that's it. As long as he's paying you, who cares?!
If you're a model with many clients, what gives you the right to believe these clients are only spending money on you? You're sharing with others, and so is he. Men (and some women) cheat. Get over it and find ways to make it work for you. Stop investing so much emotions into these clients. Make your money, and GTFO. Rinse and repeat! :O :-\
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Dorothea
09-08-2017, 03:48 PM
Thank you for advice again but some of the tone is a bit patronizing in this last post. Is true i joined Sw a while ago but did not go fully into camming until much later for many reasons and I was just reading. The first website was on for a short time was different from the token site and did not allow offsite contact so I never had this problems. Shot to success very fast when I fully focused on camming finally. Found self in situations I dont always comprehend so I come here because a lot of women here know the ropes. I want to develop a thicker skin in general. Do I need to do somethung else? Well no. I make so much money and it is great happiness to have it. So I dont advice to find somethung else just because someone is sensitive is a good one. Most problems can ve solved with money I think we all know that.
The guys get to me and I felt hurt seeing him tip another model. It took me a while to get over that. I really hate how they behave and pretend and manipulate. It is not enough for them to just see pussy. Is the part of camming am still getting used to.
JaneBurgess
09-08-2017, 04:03 PM
Thank you for advice again but some of the tone is a bit patronizing in this last post. Is true i joined Sw a while ago but did not go fully into camming until much later for many reasons and I was just reading. The first website was on for a short time was different from the token site and did not allow offsite contact so I never had this problems. Shot to success very fast when I fully focused on camming finally. Found self in situations I dont always comprehend so I come here because a lot of women here know the ropes. I want to develop a thicker skin in general. Do I need to do somethung else? Well no. I make so much money and it is great happiness to have it. So I dont advice to find somethung else just because someone is sensitive is a good one. Most problems can ve solved with money I think we all know that.
The guys get to me and I felt hurt seeing him tip another model. It took me a while to get over that. I really hate how they behave and pretend and manipulate. It is not enough for them to just see pussy. Is the part of camming am still getting used to.
Dont take anything anyone said in a negative way. As you keep camming you will get a thicker skin and realize you dont believe a word any of these men tell you. Their persona is just as fake as ours and it needs to be that way. If you have to block him and move onto other customers.
Dorothea
09-08-2017, 04:04 PM
And my advice to anyone else another camgirl who is sensitive - take the money charge more and just save it. You can always take a vacation. Dont quit even if it gets draining just take vacation and if you have money you can.
Dorothea
09-08-2017, 04:07 PM
Dont take anything anyone said in a negative way. As you keep camming you will get a thicker skin and realize you dont believe a word any of these men tell you. Their persona is just as fake as ours and it needs to be that way. If you have to block him and move onto other customers.
Thank you I think you are right. I already got better and this situation is much milder version of my previous feelings.I dont even recognize my feelings in my previous problem post that was crazy and that guy tipped me nothing compared to this.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-08-2017, 04:29 PM
Dorothea I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to use SW for support, but do keep in mind that the more you post about your struggles with detachment (https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?216520-In-love-with-a-regular-on-camsite-did-it-ever-work-out-for-you-what-should-I-do) the less likely people are to coddle you. Especially after they take the time to respond and offer continuous support. You can become offended that's perfectly fine but remember you are the one who opened yourself up to the criticism. Anyways I'm glad you're feeling better. Thread closed.