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ebonybarbie
04-01-2018, 12:01 AM
i used to LOVE that show until someone pointed out to me that it was just the black female slave experience with white women. funny how its only sad when the face is white



Wow this is an incredible thread. I think people need to go watch Hulu's The Handmaid's Tale based off of Margret Atwood's book. Omg that show is creepy but awesome as fuck! I remember the "mr abusive guy I'm with" stated something like "ooh that show is crap". I thought wait what show? Once I watched it I thought yeah of course you'd think it's crap. It's far too ENLIGHTENING!
Ohh and you'll be pissed off watching it but it's one of those "This has to be watched" shows on Hulu.

Luckyguy09
04-01-2018, 03:37 PM
Examples

There's alot of men that are fine with meeting girls at a bar or on tinder, but talk trash about escorts.

Guys that make prostitute prank call videos on youtube of them pissing off girls, and asking them questions about their morals

Men that think it's stupid to pay cam girls, yet they have a ton of memberships to pornsites

Scamming cam girls on skype

Broke men making profiles on seeking arrangement and purposely standing women up on the date or nickel and dime her. Google 'sugar daddy blacklist' to see all the horror stories.

Why do they target us?

Scamming, harassing and treating sex workers like trash does not exclusively happen to only sex workers. Such behavior can be found all throughout the American workforce because America has an unspoken tier system in relation to what kind of job you have.

In American culture, once a person is over 21 they are judged purely on what kind of job they have and nothing else. In America it's not good enough to work and have a job to be seen as successful. You have to have a prestigious career in a white collar field making tons of money to even be considered as a somebody otherwise you're just a failure or an unimportant person who people will treat you like trash and remind you of your place if you piss them off.

One of the reasons I left my x girlfriend was because she had this American view down to the bone. Despite me being a business owner she had an issue that my work was blue collar labor that she looked down on and she flat out told me she wouldn't marry me because my job wasn't prestigious enough for her. In her eyes and many people like her unless you are a doctor or a lawyer you are just a nobody.

Back on the topic at hand I also want to mention that there is a large segment of women that also look down on sex workers. If you think all women support female sex workers you are mistaken. I have been around women who openly expressed disgust for women who use sex and their sexually to get what they want out of life so it's not just men. These type of women could care less if a prostitute is killed and the bodies are piling up at the city morgue.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-01-2018, 04:17 PM
Back on the topic at hand I also want to mention that there is a large segment of women that also look down on sex workers. If you think all women support female sex workers you are mistaken. I have been around women who openly expressed disgust for women who use sex and their sexually to get what they want out of life so it's not just men. These type of women could care less if a prostitute is killed and the bodies are piling up at the city morgue.

This...so so much. In one sentence, male customers at strip clubs have often assaulted me while drunk.

I'm pretty sure the female customers who assaulted me were all sober.

I think this ugliness in women comes down to the truth that most women will not earn a lot of money in their lifetimes, so seeing a naked girl with money stuffed in her underwear sets them off....basically like a bull in a bullfighting ring running at the red cape.

Back on topic I have met & heard of guys who delight in ripping off/abusing most of the women they meet, not just sex workers.

You really never know what someone is capable of until you get to know them.

Luckyguy09
04-01-2018, 04:24 PM
Which does not explain all the men in their 60s & 70s pulling this shit.

Look who is POTUS........ women are told to accept it as a way of life & not to make a big deal about it. More & more accusations of rape that the police & DAs never went after or even arrested those men, just helped bury it.

How many CEOs in tech being accused of rape & sexual assault?

In Hollywood the agency CAA threw many of actresses to the wolves & then helped cover it up & end those women's careers. Literally, harmed their incomes & careers.

Weinstien with a lawyer who also represented the NYTimes hired ex-Moussad agents to go after the rape victims & the reporters to shut them up. There always have been fixers in Hollywood, politicians & the very rich.

Rick this isn't some oh the younger generation crap with it has always gone on all over the world. It isn't some just Western thing either, because RAPE, SEXUAL ASSAULT & CO-ersion goes ON EVERYWHERE!

Women now have social media & connect with other victims of these predators & a wave of them coming forward makes it harder to ignore & sweep it under the rug. Predators target hundreds if not a thousand women over their lifetimes. LOTS of men knew, lots of men helped cover it up. Many men, cops, DAs, Bosses and owners of companies could have helped but did NOT! Women were fired, demoted, underpaid and way to many men kept quiet.

Women in the sex industry are being treated just the same way all women are treated in EVERY industry. Their boss wants a blow job or you don't get the job. The boss grabbed their tits in the office or at a work related party, their boss forced them to watch them jerk off. Doesn't matter if it is a strip club or a big fancy office in a big expensive building, it happens every where all the time.

There is NO degree, no amount of hard work, talent that prevents a single female in this world from being raped, sexually assaulted & extorted for sex on the job. Men own 90% of the world wealth & lord it over all of the women in the world. Money is power & they hold all the power.

STOP telling us there are good guys in the world, apparently not as many as ya'll keep telling us there are.

Sam, the majority of men on the planet don't have any power or wealth. Secondly, men do step up to the plate to try and correct the wrongdoings of other males, but guess what? They are often killed and silenced eternally. Happens often in the police force. A good cop will try to expose a dirty cop or a bunch of dirty cops and the dirty cops know how to set things up to where the good cop gets killed. Other cops see that and take note and chose to keep quiet as they have kids and a wife to support. This is just an example. The point is it's not that easy to just expose people because it can get you or your family killed or at the least loose your livelihood.

Luckyguy09
04-01-2018, 05:01 PM
How are they all trapped?
How does force a man into marriage?
How many men cheat & don't tell their wives? It is a lie, no man is trapped.

A Bad marriage takes two people. Women don't use a bad marriage to sexually assault other people, they don't use a sexless marriage to rape another person. It is men thinking they are OWED sex. IT is that attitude that will turn a wife off to sex with her husband.

How many women in a bad marriage go to male strip clubs & grab men's dicks? Shall we compare the number of male strip clubs to Titty bars?

How many women pay for male or female escorts in a sexless marriage? How many men would be even more mad if the wife spent $100 to $5000 a month on strippers & escorts? Yet, men do it all the time & use the bad marriage excuse. If she bought a new pair of shoes, he is lived, but $300 at the strip club is okay.

Forced into a bad marriage is the propaganda men use to do many bad things & blame the wife, it is all the woman's fault. Shall we compare the domestic violence numbers while we are at it? How many men beat their wives compared to how many women physically abuse their husbands? Which one would be more?

OR shall we go to how many men kill their partner to how many women kill their's?

Who is getting the fucked over more here?

It's not a fair comparison. In all species the female is the gatekeeper of sex and dispenses sex primarly whenever she sees it's to her advantage, or for her own personal pleasure.

For the most part, women don't care about a man's sexual needs (including if its her husband) which is precisely why the commercial sex industry exist in the first place.

Commercial sex exist because there is a need for it as men aren't getting what they need from their wives, or from the women around them as the majority of women don't have sex freely, and if they do have sex, they have too many terms and conditions, they use sex as a weapon, or they use it as a tool to manipulate males into doing things for them like getting free drinks, dinner or getting bills paid.

You are right in that men aren't owed sex, but at the sametime, women aren't owed money and a comfortable lifestyle if we do have access to a higher station in life. We fight because it's a vague barter system.

When men get married they are hopeing to have a reasonable sex life with their wife in exchange for being the breadwinner but often women just stop careing and stop having sex and let their bodies get out of shape which is the equivalent of a man being an unemployed bum. He didn't sign up for that.

That man has every right to be upset but it's not so easy to leave when you have kids to support and you stand to take a big hit in finances through divorce.

Titus23
04-01-2018, 05:06 PM
It's not a fair comparison. In all species the female is the gatekeeper of sex and dispenses sex primarly whenever she sees it's to her advantage, or for her own personal pleasure.

For the most part, women don't care about a man's sexual needs (including if its her husband) which is precisely why the commercial sex industry exist in the first place.

Commercial sex exist because there is a need for it as men aren't getting what they need from their wives, or from the women around them as the majority of women don't have sex freely, and if they do have sex, they have too many terms and conditions, they use sex as a weapon, or a tool to manipulate males into doing things for them.

You are right in that men aren't owed sex, but at the sametime, women aren't owed money and a comfortable lifestyle if we do have access to a higher station in life. We fight because it's a vague barter system.

When men get married they are hopeing to have a reasonable sex life with their wife in exchange for being the breadwinner but often women just stop careing and stop having sex and let their bodies get out of shape which is the equivalent of a man being an unemployed bum. That man has every right to be upset but it's not so easy to leave when you have kids to support and you stand to take a big hit in finances through divorce.

Taking on Sam... That's a bold strategy Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for him.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-01-2018, 05:09 PM
It's not a fair comparison. In all species the female is the gatekeeper of sex and dispenses sex primarly whenever she sees it's to her advantage, or for her own personal pleasure.

For the most part, women don't care about a man's sexual needs (including if its her husband) which is precisely why the commercial sex industry exist in the first place.

Commercial sex exist because there is a need for it as men aren't getting what they need from their wives, or from the women around them as the majority of women don't have sex freely, and if they do have sex, they have too many terms and conditions, they use sex as a weapon, or they use it as a tool to manipulate males into doing things for them like getting free drinks, dinner or getting bills paid.

You are right in that men aren't owed sex, but at the sametime, women aren't owed money and a comfortable lifestyle if we do have access to a higher station in life. We fight because it's a vague barter system.

When men get married they are hopeing to have a reasonable sex life with their wife in exchange for being the breadwinner but often women just stop careing and stop having sex and let their bodies get out of shape which is the equivalent of a man being an unemployed bum. He didn't sign up for that.

That man has every right to be upset but it's not so easy to leave when you have kids to support and you stand to take a big hit in finances through divorce.

Where is the bold portion coming from?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-01-2018, 05:11 PM
Taking on Sam... That's a bold strategy Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for him.

LOL I Love that quote. And for the record he's got more than Sam to reckon with.

Titus23
04-01-2018, 05:16 PM
LOL I Love that quote. And for the record he's got more than Sam to reckon with.

Oh yah, I assumed as much. Don't mind me though, I'll just be sitting here with my popcorn.

kamiliam
04-01-2018, 05:48 PM
lucky it really isn't worth the trouble to blast you point by point. It is obvious you have A LOT of madonna/whore shit going on in your brain. Women like men are individual complete beings. Some like sex and some could take it or leave it. I have always loved sex, I work a job where I orgasm at least 10 times a day, and when I am not working I still masturbate and have 3 fuck buddies. I have girlfriends that masturbate once a month and won't give bjs. But guess what they were always that person just like I have been the same.
I don't use sex to trap a man, but not gonna lie a lot of guys like you pay my bills so keep it up. But in my real life, any man who acts like you is kicked out of my rotation. Not all of us want the traditional life that you make very apparent that you resent. No one forced you to be married but you found that sweet spot 8.5 so how could you resist? I don't need to be married but if I did choose to sexual compatibility would be a top requirement.

Men use women for their looks to show their success, so you are damn right they will be paying for my food/drinks and whatever else. If you only care about what I look like and how that elevates you it damn well will elevate me.

miss.a.p1600
04-01-2018, 06:40 PM
It's not a fair comparison. In all species the female is the gatekeeper of sex and dispenses sex primarly whenever she sees it's to her advantage, or for her own personal pleasure.

For the most part, women don't care about a man's sexual needs (including if its her husband) which is precisely why the commercial sex industry exist in the first place.

Commercial sex exist because there is a need for it as men aren't getting what they need from their wives, or from the women around them as the majority of women don't have sex freely, and if they do have sex, they have too many terms and conditions, they use sex as a weapon, or they use it as a tool to manipulate males into doing things for them like getting free drinks, dinner or getting bills paid.

You are right in that men aren't owed sex, but at the sametime, women aren't owed money and a comfortable lifestyle if we do have access to a higher station in life. We fight because it's a vague barter system.

When men get married they are hopeing to have a reasonable sex life with their wife in exchange for being the breadwinner but often women just stop careing and stop having sex and let their bodies get out of shape which is the equivalent of a man being an unemployed bum. He didn't sign up for that.

That man has every right to be upset but it's not so easy to leave when you have kids to support and you stand to take a big hit in finances through divorce.

?????

So women expressing (or not expressing) their sexuality = "manipulative" to you? *sigh*

Why do misogynists love promoting their sexist views on stripperwebs??

And the reason men harass adult industry workers because they know it's less likely to be reported.

Vyanka
04-02-2018, 12:32 AM
There are some here who post on a SUPPORTIVE stripper site how to scam dancers on different levels, and I don't understand wtf they come here and are not banned yet???!

Nyla19
04-02-2018, 08:57 AM
They are women haters. And I'm sure have or had issues with their mommie. They are also not the best looking or tops in any category. So they're extremely insecure. And have most likely been dumped and rejected by women most of their life. They get off by abusing women they could never get in real life. And stripclubs and camming are perfect outlets for their abuse. The best way to deal with them is to not react to them. Then they can't dole out any abuse onto you.

RyanXO
04-02-2018, 08:57 AM
Luckyguy must be best friends with Rick Dugan.

RyanXO
04-02-2018, 08:58 AM
There are some here who post on a SUPPORTIVE stripper site how to scam dancers on different levels, and I don't understand wtf they come here and are not banned yet???!

And then they claim its WOMEN who are doing the scamming.

CFMNH44
04-02-2018, 12:21 PM
<snip>... a lot of guys like you pay my bills so keep it up... <snip>

LOL, If I made T-Shirts with that saying, would they sell?!

rickdugan
04-03-2018, 09:16 AM
Luckyguy must be best friends with Rick Dugan.

Huh? I think you've got me confused. :O

Lucky seem to be bitterly angry with women. He believes that classism is preventing him from finding true love and that women, in general, scheme to withhold sex from and/or use sex to gain advantages. I don't believe I've ever posted anything that expresses any bitterness or anger towards women and, indeed, I have none. In fact, I have a wife who is nothing like that, daughters who I love dearly and even sisters who I adore.

This thread went to Crazy Town a long time ago, with Lucky expressing rather disturbing and unflattering views like that about women on one side and Sam on the other side expressing similarly unhinged views about men as a whole. That's why I have no intention of being sucked back into this discussion any further, lol. :duck:

miss.a.p1600
04-03-2018, 10:58 AM
It seems a bit odd, imo, you posting in this specific thread

I believe men can have good relationships with their female family members but regarding the topic "why do so many men seem to enjoy scamming or harassing sex workers"

as far as you know, your family members are not sex workers.

and....because you yourself said, in that now deleted thread, that knowing sex workers are less likely to report to any HR for sexual harassment, police haggling sex workers about the validity of their claims due to their jobs is the reason why some of these men enjoy harassing/scamming sex workers.

rickdugan
04-03-2018, 11:41 AM
Miss, (1) Lucky took it far past sex workers to women in general, which is what I was addressing (as did many others here); (2) I didn't post anything in any thread about sex workers and HR; and (3) I think the reason I posted in this thread was self evident in Post 16, which was on topic.

Again, I'd like to stay out of this thread now as it has long since jumped the rails.

miss.a.p1600
04-03-2018, 12:34 PM
Why do you keep posting in a thread if you'd like to stay out of?!?

Of all the threads to post in this should have been one you should have stayed out of but you wanted to throw your two cents in to make yourself look better than Lucky when you aint no different from him and to get a rise out of women in this thread for your own attention seeking purposes.

1) If Lucky is off topic what is your purpose to come in complain about him/others being off topic while you are posting...off topic?

2) You did post - in that thread where that guy said he sexually assaulted his sexy maid (after she did work for him but before he paid her what she was owed) - and said you "respected" women if they worked in your home or worked with you in corporate but your posts here and on tuscl reflect your disrespect for women in adult industry. The difference? A reporting body called HR and Police who are more likely to believe a civilian woman than a "sex worker"

The thread was deleted but the moderator has record of yours and everyone elses posts there.

3) your post has ZERO to do with the original posters question "Why do soo many men seem to enjoy scamming or harassing sex workers?" Which you have yet to answer because you can't because YOU fall into that category

You have no problem scamming strippers when you sense they are desperate

rickdugan
04-03-2018, 12:55 PM
Why do you keep posting in a thread if you'd like to stay out of?!?

Because for some reason you feel the need to make yet another thread about me, posting nonsense in the process. :shrug:

Are you having trouble following the evolving topic in the thread posts? In post 16, I shared my views about why some guys think that mistreating sex workers is ok. In my most recent post, I objected to being compared to Lucky, who had already taken things well off topic by spouting misogynist nonsense relating to a broad swath of women. Go back up and read again if needed.

And in that deleted post that you are also mis-quoting, I said that what he did with the maid was unconscionable and it was. I am fairly certain that I said nothing about sex workers being believed by HR or whatever else you were implying. If you've got a Mod who would like to pull up my post, please feel free to ask them.

As far as my treatment of strippers, scamming implies the use of lies or deceit. Not my gig Miss. I do what I say and pay what I promise. But if you would like to debate my posts on the customer site further, then maybe you should do that with one of your screen names over there dude. ;)

kortneykay
04-03-2018, 01:20 PM
It's one big jizz shot of misogyny, jealousy, self-hate, religious and child indoctrination, envy, fear, and self-pity. To reiterate, weak males have been raised by their weak parents (or lack there of) to believe that the sun rises and sets on their dicks. The good ole boys club fully enforced. It all boils down to power exchange.

Our misogynistic culture especially forces us to be male identified to survive, or else. Though we're smarter, better looking, live longer, and are creators who birth them; they still don't see us as their equals and probably never will.

They're jealous, envious, and hate that we're Women, and not them. Self-hate is real. They assume Women have it easier. They see the attention we get which is an exchange of power. They hate that we can walk into a room and captivate without saying a word while as a whole and this has been the same forever. Also, some of them were raised in families where they saw their own mother's struggle either working like a dog, or being treated like one from their father, lack of a father, or her lovers. "My mom worked 90 hours a week to raise us, why can you simply flash your tits and have your rent paid?!"


Many cultures are seeped in religious indoctrination from birth and sex outside of marriage with anyone is seen as adultery and filth. We have power wrapped in flesh. They want it, they need it- and us charging for it pisses them off even more. In order to get it they have to be cordial to us, and give us the one thing we need and want which is cash money.

Giving up their power (money) in exchange for a Woman who is not their wife (because "God" said) to rid of their sexual compulsive "demons" (which a LOT of ashamed/feel guilty for/of) again, angers them. After all, "God" interestingly a 'male' told them that they are in charge of everything that roams the earth, including their 'helpmate' who crawled out of their ribs instead of them crawling out of our pussies. Hate is a cancer. These are the males who pray for forgiveness for acting on their masturbatory urges, of course the "whore" they're paying is beneath them, right? I mean, why can't they just stay off the sites, etc? They can't because their dicks betray them. The mere thought of our nakedness arouses them so much that like a magnet it pulls them out of reality and into fantasy where they seek us out. Power. Exchange.

I say, beat them at their own game. They want to lead the patriarchy? Let them work themselves to the bone while we continue to bask in our glory as female and use them for their cash. They lie, lie right back. They cheat, have a few sugar dads lined up, always have your own back. They set us Women up to be slaves and how dare we ask for compensation. Most of them wouldn't even show up to work if they had 7 days of cramps like we do, lol. Fuck 'em.

miss.a.p1600
04-03-2018, 01:34 PM
Because for some reason you feel the need to make yet another thread about me, posting nonsense in the process. :shrug:

Are you having trouble following the evolving topic in the thread posts? In post 16, I shared my views about why some guys think that mistreating sex workers is ok. In my most recent post, I objected to being compared to Lucky, who had already taken things well off topic by spouting misogynist nonsense relating to a broad swath of women. Go back up and read again if needed.

Oh, and you mis-quoted what I posted in that deleted thread as well. I said that what he did with the maid was unconscionable and it was - I said nothing about sex workers approaching HR. If you've got a Mod who would like to pull up my post, please feel free to ask them.

As far as my treatment of strippers, scamming implies the use of lies or deceit. Not my gig Miss. I do what I say and pay what I promise. But if you would like to debate my posts on the customer site further, then maybe you should do that with one of your screen names over there dude. ;)

Show me link to the thread I created about you???

That is the point. There is no HR in sex work. There is no level of protection, accountability, and believability in adult industry which is why people like yourself try to get over. Manipulation is on the same level as scamming and harassing.

YOU need to re-read --- The topic the is "Why do soo many men seem to enjoy scamming or harassing sex workers?" and if your answer does not address this plus a solution then not only are you further displaying your hypocrisy, you are off topic.

I'd rather invest my time discussing/debating people who can engage in honest, thoughtful, insightful, respectful, meaningful conversation. Yours and the troll customer posts/threads reflect something opposite.

Anyways this topic should be moved to Ladies Only since too many deviant males are viewing, commenting, and getting their thrills here.

DonaDiabla
04-03-2018, 01:59 PM
Two things that I must say about this post. Number one is that not all females in every species are gatekeepers of sex. What about the female bedbug? She is an slave to the male bedbug's sexuality. But your post makes seem like women should lay down like a female bedbug and take it. I can't speak for other women but I refuse to be a slave to every male fantasy even if that man is my husband.Number two, I really do not understand why in every thread you must speak about weak men who act all hurt because they married the wrong women? These men that you speak of must be epic crybabies. Frankly, I do not feel sorry for the weak-willed male children who blame others for their own emotional and physical incapabilities. They pick women that feed their own egos yet get surprised when those women do not respect them. Maybe if they choose their mates more carefully than they would not be so bitter. That's all :)


It's not a fair comparison. In all species the female is the gatekeeper of sex and dispenses sex primarly whenever she sees it's to her advantage, or for her own personal pleasure.

For the most part, women don't care about a man's sexual needs (including if its her husband) which is precisely why the commercial sex industry exist in the first place.

Commercial sex exist because there is a need for it as men aren't getting what they need from their wives, or from the women around them as the majority of women don't have sex freely, and if they do have sex, they have too many terms and conditions, they use sex as a weapon, or they use it as a tool to manipulate males into doing things for them like getting free drinks, dinner or getting bills paid.

You are right in that men aren't owed sex, but at the sametime, women aren't owed money and a comfortable lifestyle if we do have access to a higher station in life. We fight because it's a vague barter system.

When men get married they are hopeing to have a reasonable sex life with their wife in exchange for being the breadwinner but often women just stop careing and stop having sex and let their bodies get out of shape which is the equivalent of a man being an unemployed bum. He didn't sign up for that.

That man has every right to be upset but it's not so easy to leave when you have kids to support and you stand to take a big hit in finances through divorce.

Ifyouseekamy
04-18-2018, 04:48 AM
^^^ why I ignore mansplaining. I wouldn’t even dignify them with a response. This is our space.

kirakonstantin
05-12-2018, 05:04 PM
Lucky is spouting off crap straight from the MRA playbook.

Yeah, I don't give out sex to random people as I'm terrified of catching a viral STI. I'm a cancer survivor and, statistically speaking, I'm likely to get cancer again. HIV, HPV or herpes infection means heavy antiretroviral therapy during chemo. I would probably need a liver transplant afterward, but wouldn't make the transplant list with that kind of a viral infection.

I think that's a very good reason to require an STI test and build trust with a partner before having sex. In this day and age, it's just too risky. It's not man hating. It's self preservation. Yet, for some reason, it's a bad thing?

Sex and relationships weren't designed to be transactional, although for some, that's what it's become. I find that to be very sad, but definitely not indicative of people's views. It's just mental gymnastics to justify treating women like shit because of their inability to emotionally connect with another human being.

Men who treat sex workers like shit probably treat all women like shit. Or they want to, but are afraid of the social repercussions for doing it. In the club, as phone prankers or whatever, they're largely anonymous. My club video records their ID, so we know who they are if they do something horrible, but nobody will bother for someone who's just an asshole. If they get banned from one club, there's another down the street that will let them in. They do it, because it inflates their ego temporarily and also simply because they can.

RyanXO
05-15-2018, 11:47 AM
Men lie & rip off as many women as they can. Conning & ripping someone off in the sex biz is taking it to the next level. They are upping their game.

Do you really think they are any better of a person to their wives? Their daughters? They are not. They train their daughters to be "nice" no matter what. They don't warn them about men like them out in the world. They repeatedly tell all women it is their fault for dressing to sexy, what did you do to lead them on. They go to great lengths to protect other sexist & rapist without even knowing the guy.

What we are all realizing is just how pervasive & horrible it is in EVERY JOB, EVERY INDUSTRY.

I'd like to quote this again as this is really important. I just posted over in petty annoyances about my first visit to TUSCL. Blech! The amount of bullshit on that site is sickening. They quote this site a lot and call us cunts and whores. If gives a good example of how men really see us. Someone also said that how a many treats a stripper/sex worker/whatever PC term you want to use is a reflection on how they view women in general. It is very sad actually and that site just reminded me how bad it really is. True, not all men are like that (I have to say that to not upset the men's rights activists that frequent this site of course [sarcasm]) but it doesn't seem the "good ones" want to speak up. It's sad to think how many of these men calling women cunts and whores have little girls at home they raise.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-17-2018, 06:01 AM
I've been reading a lot lately & someone pointed out that a lot of men have "late in life" mental breakdowns because old age (for the average American male) is a loss of power and dominance that they were used to for several decades. NOT excusing the crime of assault or theft but saying that men often get more needy and depressing as they age. Strippers definitely see and hear this in customers.

& I should add this as food for thought- a lot of exotic dancers DO have issues/personality traits that attract predators or parasites to them. Anything from being careless with money, to addiction issues, to being an absentee parent. A LOT of predatory men grow up understanding that they don't have to take "party girls" seriously. The old saying about that topic was "she's a girl you don't bring home to meet your mom." Many men look to bars to find "disposable women."

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2018, 07:03 AM
." Many men look to bars to find "disposable women."

so sad.

Makes sense if a woman was trying to marry or settle down. I mean I know I personally would want a man who has his stuff together and his life in order.

But either way I do think when a person comes on your job they should be respectful. That's probably the problem. They don't want to think of the stripper as 'working' and maybe in their simple minds it's not a job it's a party where you meet a very freaky woman who just happens to get paid.

I think the deviant men do see "party women" or "slutty" women as disposable. They feel like they are paying for the benefit to 'do whatever they want' which includes being the true asshole that is deep inside. They don't have to have emotions or empathy or respect for 'disposable' women who probably won't report them/who they'll probably never see again. These men are most likely your garden variety sociopaths, extreme narcissists, etc.

Some of them are just deviant - have no home training, and/or no respect for women in adult oriented careers


Also I do think a percentage of women in adult industry careers are masochists and derive some positive feelings tolerating men who treat them like shit. Otherwise pimps, etc would not exist and they would not stay in situations that cause them pain.

However I don't get the feeling that the original poster falls into that category.

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2018, 07:18 AM
Sam, the majority of men on the planet don't have any power or wealth.

Then why are the forbes lists majority men???? Why are the political leaders mostly men??? Why are the top tech investors Men??? Why is wall street mostly men????

TheBrownFox
05-17-2018, 09:54 PM
I'm not sure how he's coming up with this shit. Lol.

babb
05-20-2018, 06:16 AM
It's one big jizz shot of misogyny, jealousy, self-hate, religious and child indoctrination, envy, fear, and self-pity. To reiterate, weak males have been raised by their weak parents (or lack there of) to believe that the sun rises and sets on their dicks. The good ole boys club fully enforced. It all boils down to power exchange.

Our misogynistic culture especially forces us to be male identified to survive, or else. Though we're smarter, better looking, live longer, and are creators who birth them; they still don't see us as their equals and probably never will.

They're jealous, envious, and hate that we're Women, and not them. Self-hate is real. They assume Women have it easier. They see the attention we get which is an exchange of power. They hate that we can walk into a room and captivate without saying a word while as a whole and this has been the same forever. Also, some of them were raised in families where they saw their own mother's struggle either working like a dog, or being treated like one from their father, lack of a father, or her lovers. "My mom worked 90 hours a week to raise us, why can you simply flash your tits and have your rent paid?!"


Many cultures are seeped in religious indoctrination from birth and sex outside of marriage with anyone is seen as adultery and filth. We have power wrapped in flesh. They want it, they need it- and us charging for it pisses them off even more. In order to get it they have to be cordial to us, and give us the one thing we need and want which is cash money.

Giving up their power (money) in exchange for a Woman who is not their wife (because "God" said) to rid of their sexual compulsive "demons" (which a LOT of ashamed/feel guilty for/of) again, angers them. After all, "God" interestingly a 'male' told them that they are in charge of everything that roams the earth, including their 'helpmate' who crawled out of their ribs instead of them crawling out of our pussies. Hate is a cancer. These are the males who pray for forgiveness for acting on their masturbatory urges, of course the "whore" they're paying is beneath them, right? I mean, why can't they just stay off the sites, etc? They can't because their dicks betray them. The mere thought of our nakedness arouses them so much that like a magnet it pulls them out of reality and into fantasy where they seek us out. Power. Exchange.

I say, beat them at their own game. They want to lead the patriarchy? Let them work themselves to the bone while we continue to bask in our glory as female and use them for their cash. They lie, lie right back. They cheat, have a few sugar dads lined up, always have your own back. They set us Women up to be slaves and how dare we ask for compensation. Most of them wouldn't even show up to work if they had 7 days of cramps like we do, lol. Fuck 'em.

God damn 👏