View Full Version : Would You Marry A Woman Who Worked In Adult Industry????
miss.a.p1600
08-15-2020, 05:30 PM
I think you can grow to love especially if a person actually cares about you.
Say for example a sugar baby who marries her sugar daddy. I guess I’ll start with Anna Nicole. A lot of people say she was a gold digger. And she was. But after hearing her describe how well he took care of her AND her son I do believe she grew to love him.
No I don’t think abusive people love their partners at all. They just love whatever benefits they get out of being with them
Raziel
08-15-2020, 05:44 PM
I don't know about the whole "Grow to love" thing. Maybe. But i think you have to love each other before you even get together. I think that's best. If the Man or Woman actually cares about you, and sometimes they do, she or he will understand that.
Raziel
08-15-2020, 05:59 PM
"Grow to love" seems pretty medieval.
Raziel
08-15-2020, 10:08 PM
I think you can grow to love especially if a person actually cares about you.
Say for example a sugar baby who marries her sugar daddy. I guess I’ll start with Anna Nicole. A lot of people say she was a gold digger. And she was. But after hearing her describe how well he took care of her AND her son I do believe she grew to love him.
No I don’t think abusive people love their partners at all. They just love whatever benefits they get out of being with them
And i don't think Anna Nichole gave a cool shit about that old man she married. She didn't grow to love him, HE'S FUCKING ANCIENT!! She used to tell him she didn't want to sleep beside him because he peed in the bed. So she slept in another room. It wasn't because she loved him. Why was she with a 90 year old man in the first place. It's not like he's going to be able to fuck her or anything, he's 90 fucking years old!
She probably sucked his cock a couple of times, but SHE isn't getting anything out of it. The guy is a 90 year old invalid in a wheelchair. Is a 90 year old man going to even be able to rock her world in bed? She probably had multiple lovers that could.
She was a straight up Gold Digger. No doubt about it. Not that i really have issue with that. We do what we do, and he had enough money... It's not like this guy was a Trucker or anything. He wasn't poor.
Bahuba
08-16-2020, 07:20 AM
^^She didn't get the money in the end, and got taken advantage of, and died young. Moral of the story, if you marry the rich old dude, go straight to a lawyer and make sure the will is air tight.
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 07:44 AM
And i don't think Anna Nichole gave a cool shit about that old man she married. She didn't grow to love him, HE'S FUCKING ANCIENT!! She used to tell him she didn't want to sleep beside him because he peed in the bed. So she slept in another room. It wasn't because she loved him. Why was she with a 90 year old man in the first place. It's not like he's going to be able to fuck her or anything, he's 90 fucking years old!
She probably sucked his cock a couple of times, but SHE isn't getting anything out of it. The guy is a 90 year old invalid in a wheelchair. Is a 90 year old man going to even be able to rock her world in bed? She probably had multiple lovers that could.
She was a straight up Gold Digger. No doubt about it. Not that i really have issue with that. We do what we do, and he had enough money...
It’s not all about sex though. Cause when a mf is invalid, impotent, etc. you still love your spouse regardless of the uncontrollable health conditions they have.
Not everyone needs to fuck everyday. She probably had vibrators n dildos.
That doesn’t mean she had to sleep in a pissy bed or other things as a result of his deteriorating health and subject herself to EVERYTHING - that’s what nurses and caregivers are for. She wasn’t his nurse/caregiver (although she did have to care when they weren’t around) she was his spouse.
Yes she was a gold digger. But if any man comes and changes my entire lifestyle for the better, treated me with respect, and wasn’t uber disgusting, then I’d grow to love them because it’s not often someone cares enough for another person to give A LOT without too many strings attached.
Her downfall was not investing n not securing her place in that will. I think the old guy was too far gone mentally to consent to adding her in a will and so she should have gotten set up with financial advisors to invest (really well) a portion of the money he was throwing at her while he was alive.
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 07:49 AM
And i don't think Anna Nichole gave a cool shit about that old man she married. She didn't grow to love him, HE'S FUCKING ANCIENT!! She used to tell him she didn't want to sleep beside him because he peed in the bed. So she slept in another room. It wasn't because she loved him. Why was she with a 90 year old man in the first place. It's not like he's going to be able to fuck her or anything, he's 90 fucking years old!
She probably sucked his cock a couple of times, but SHE isn't getting anything out of it. The guy is a 90 year old invalid in a wheelchair. Is a 90 year old man going to even be able to rock her world in bed? She probably had multiple lovers that could.
She was a straight up Gold Digger. No doubt about it. Not that i really have issue with that. We do what we do, and he had enough money...
Im sorry but this is giving me visuals of 90 year old peen
And I’m not sure I want this visual
Unless I’m like 70 or 80
Raziel
08-16-2020, 07:56 AM
LMAO!!!
Raziel
08-16-2020, 07:58 AM
Look, i don't have a problem with Anna Nichole Smith. Never have. But i don't buy that she was in love with that dude for a second. He probably knew it, too. Probably why she wasn't in his will.
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 08:07 AM
^so you think he was mentally sound enough to determine whether or not to include her in a will?
From what i recall about the case was that he verbally agreed to it
Raziel
08-16-2020, 08:20 AM
Verbally. But unless it is set in print, it doesn't mean shit. He was probably mentally sound.
There are Guys that promise all kinds of stuff to get a Blowjob. It's one of our favorite activities. As a Guy, i can tell you that. LOVE them, but i don't lie for them. Other dudes do.
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 08:39 AM
^LOL!!!
I recall something where she tried to get it recorded by putting a tape recorder in her boobs
And here’s a video of her on Larry King saying how she really did love him https://edition.cnn.com/videos/entertainment/2017/02/10/when-anna-nicole-smith-met-her-husband.cnn
Raziel
08-16-2020, 09:13 AM
Yeah, because you can believe her on Larry King.
Sorry, but i don't buy any of that.
The guy was 90 fucking years old with a 30 year old Stripper wife. COME ON!! She didn't love him!
Get the fuck outta here, LMAO!!!
Raziel
08-16-2020, 09:25 AM
I recall something where she tried to get it recorded by putting a tape recorder in her boobs
This means she probably didn't love him. Why would she even need to do that if this was a real relationship?
Again, i don't really have much problem with her. He was dumb enough to do it, and she was smart enough to take advantage. He was blinded by boobs, and she was THRILLED. I don't blame her at all! I'd have done it too if i was her!!
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 10:59 AM
She admitted she wasn’t IN love with him but she says she did love him though
If someone came along and treated you better than you’ve ever been treated and changed your entire economic standing you would probably develop some feelings for them unless you’re a psychopath and I don’t think she was that cold n callous.
Why do that? Cause his family or lawyers probably advised him against revising his will and she knew what you just said above about verbal agreements not counting for much - courts love cold hard proof.
She also was more than just a stripper. She landed a major modeling campaign with Guess plus other mainstream entertainment gigs and became a celebrity in her own right.
If she hadn’t abused drugs she could have been even more successful n wealthy on her own.
The whole thing is quite interesting. I do think you have a point that if he Had his mental faculties and REALLY loved her he would have put something in place so she wouldn’t have to fight in court after he died. At least left her a couple million or something.
However on the other hand he died about 14 months after they married. That’s a really short time frame and if he was sick and frail and trying to recover then maybe the last thing on his mind was sitting in a lawyers office for hours. And this could have been why Anna went down the path of least resistance - get his verbal agreement on record so she’d have proof for court
Idk.
Raziel
08-16-2020, 12:01 PM
Fair enough. I don't buy that she even loved him, though. He was just a moneytank for her, and he should have been smart enough to see it. But he might have just liked her too much. I don't know. OMG, BOOBS!
Raziel
08-16-2020, 12:30 PM
And, BTW, she was Stripping when he met her.
miss.a.p1600
08-16-2020, 06:44 PM
Yeah I guess he was prime example of a dude who would marry a woman who worked in adult industry
Raziel
08-16-2020, 06:48 PM
He was just a dude, 90 or 30, we all fall prey to a nice set of tits. It's just that the 30 year old has a better shot at actually getting her to love him.
This guy was a Billionaire and that's what attracted her to him. He should have been smarter. She was absolutely laser focused cunning with this guy. It was admirable.
Edit to add: Well, maybe not EVERY guy. Some guys are Gay. But most of us are SLAVES to a nice set of Hooters.
Raziel
08-16-2020, 08:58 PM
Yeah I guess he was prime example of a dude who would marry a woman who worked in adult industry
BTW, i would happily Marry a Woman in the Adult Industry, if i loved her, but i'm WAY to smart to fall for that sort of thing.
Raziel
08-17-2020, 02:54 PM
Just thought i'd add something...
I would never marry anyone i didn't love. I'll fuck your brains out, sure. But if i didn't love you, i wouldn't Marry you.
I believe that Marriage is when both people are straight up in love with each other. She's in love with me and i'm in love with her. Then we can start a family and be in love with our kids. Grow old together.
This is hard to find, as so many Marriages are Marriages of convenience. I don't want that.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-19-2020, 07:14 AM
I might regret adding this here but.....
IMO the kind of man who obsesses over a potential partner's past experiences that have no real bearing on his future can't maintain a marriage anyways.
PLENTY of people have "skeletons in the closet" that never get discussed. Secrets more bizarre than "worked in adult industry." & Most of them stay married.
Raziel
08-19-2020, 07:51 AM
Fucking Exactly! That was perfectly said Snuffle!
Raziel
08-21-2020, 06:26 PM
BTW, miss.a.p1600, i think Anna might have LIKED that old dude, but i don't think she loved him.
Bahuba
08-22-2020, 12:59 PM
^^I have to agree. He wasn't even in good health. He just saw that and said, "Gee Whilikers! Jumpin Jehosephat! There steps a fine figure of a woman! I certainly would like to do the Charleston with those angelic globes"
but what it really looked like is this:
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/14/a4/0b/14a40bca8be8a854ffa302c3f9b50eb9.jpg
He was half dead and she was there for the gold.
miss.a.p1600
08-22-2020, 02:59 PM
lol!!! This is reminding me of that thread where we came up with a plethora of names for breasts
Angelic globes!!!
Good one
He wasn’t so dead that he couldn’t get that thang up n Raziel thinks he still had his mental faculties. He was sick though. She did admit he was sickly n frail when she met him. I assume she figured he was close to death and agreeing to marry him would be a good way to get her old (ancient) sugar daddy to pay out even after he was gone
Raziel
08-22-2020, 03:55 PM
I think he probably was Mentally Capable. He didn't SEEM like he was Senile or anything. But i guess i could be wrong.
Bahuba
08-22-2020, 08:59 PM
lol!!! This is reminding me of that thread where we came up with a plethora of names for breasts
Angelic globes!!!
Good one
He wasn’t so dead that he couldn’t get that thang up n Raziel thinks he still had his mental faculties. He was sick though. She did admit he was sickly n frail when she met him. I assume she figured he was close to death and agreeing to marry him would be a good way to get her old (ancient) sugar daddy to pay out even after he was gone
We NEED to find that thread
Raziel
08-22-2020, 11:12 PM
BTW, i'm sorry Anna Nichole Smith died. I thought she was a good heartfelt woman. And that she passed away was a loss. She wasn't very smart, but she seemed like she had a good heart.
Whatever she did with that old man, doesn't change my opinion of her. He wanted her and she came to him, and nobody really has any right to question it. She probably brought a little light to his twilight years. How can that be bad?
miss.a.p1600
08-23-2020, 09:26 AM
We NEED to find that thread
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?212238-Are-They-Tits-or-Boobs&highlight=Breasts
This actually would be a fun thread to revive. Anna Nicole’s “angelic globes” ....
pegasus027
08-24-2020, 02:05 AM
I am an dum dum spammer
Raziel
08-24-2020, 04:04 AM
More Gibberish...
tempest666
08-24-2020, 08:18 AM
The question is does a person in the sex industry want to marry YOU?
Raziel
08-24-2020, 09:04 AM
The question is does a person in the sex industry want to marry YOU?
Sometimes, you never know. They do tend to like Men, so... Maybe.
Not that i'm tripping off it, if i loved a Librarian i'd Marry her. But if i loved a Stripper i'd marry her too! It's not the job that matters, it's the love.
Raziel
08-24-2020, 11:14 AM
Remember, usually a Dancer is a Woman. tempest666 you met a dude, why can't another Stripper? It's possible, after all, it happened to you didn't it?
Unlikely for most, but possible.
Raziel
08-28-2020, 05:49 PM
Oh God, another post. I'm killing myself, here...
It doesn't matter who you meet, you have to see HER rather than ANYTHING else, her family (we all know how fucked up those can be), her job, anything... Just HER. You'll do better with her. Don't pay attention to anything else but HER.
Brazen Blue Eyes
12-13-2020, 10:00 AM
I have often thoiught that I would want to marry one of the hot girls in a club. Not only would she be sexy but would be open minded and streetwise.
Raziel
12-14-2020, 10:22 AM
^You're not marrying a Stripper, Porn Star or Escort. You're marrying a Woman. Because that's what she is. The Stripper is nothing but an illusion, the Woman is real. If you think about her as just a Stripper, that's a problem right there.
What happens when she loses her looks (Or goes on the unending fight to keep them). Do you leave her then? Just a simple question.
Genoveve
12-14-2020, 11:38 AM
Oh lord not again.
Raziel
12-15-2020, 09:36 AM
BTW, that was all said with the utmost respect. I don't want to get banned again. Not trying to fuck with you.
Brazen Blue Eyes
12-17-2020, 07:34 AM
^You're not marrying a Stripper, Porn Star or Escort. You're marrying a Woman. Because that's what she is. The Stripper is nothing but an illusion, the Woman is real. If you think about her as just a Stripper, that's a problem right there.
What happens when she loses her looks (Or goes on the unending fight to keep them). Do you leave her then? Just a simple question.
I would marry her precisely because she was a woman. Strippers or any other women appeal to me because of who they are. I even have spent time with strippers whose looks didn't appeal to me but had something special about them that went beyond looks. Any woman I've ever dated it never nattered to me if they gained pounds, or had a bad hair day.
Raziel
12-17-2020, 08:32 AM
Well, that's good. It's good that you recognize that. A lot of guys do not.
MrDuckie
12-28-2020, 02:30 PM
I would in a minute (I've said that before). But as Miss Tempest said, the lady could probably have her choice of hundreds of dumb clucks just like me, so I'd have to have something better to offer than a certificate... like a better personality (etc) than any of the other suiters.
Raziel
12-30-2020, 03:01 AM
I would in a minute (I've said that before). But as Miss Tempest said, the lady could probably have her choice of hundreds of dumb clucks just like me, so I'd have to have something better to offer than a certificate... like a better personality (etc) than any of the other suiters.
Or better yet, just don't go into the Club looking for that. Just chill with the fantasy, if it's gonna happen, if it's gonna happen, if it's not it's not. It has to be HER that makes the decision (And I wouldn't go waving her phone number around if it does happen, you can get her fired or fined, not a great start). Don't worry about it. I never worry about that shit. What the fuck do I want with a twenty-three year old girl anyway? She's a baby compared to me! I'm not going to fuck some girl who could theoretically be my fucking Daughter!
She needs to be with Guys around her own age!
I want a girl, I'll go to a singles bar.
rickdugan
12-30-2020, 10:33 AM
His story is actually a familiar one. I have seen it play out over before. He thought he married what was actually presented in front of him but in actuality there was hidden baggage.
How is it that before people buy homes, cars, or even to hire an individual all want background checks but with relationships you're expected to go into it blind.
Regardless of gender if you're planning on getting serious with someone and starting a family your partner should be told if sex work was involved in the past and to what extent.
It's easy for you to criticize this guy because you're not in his shoes but how would you like it if the mother of your child and your wife had a secret life she didn't tell you about? It's not even just about sex work it could be 200k in student loans and unpaid credit card bills that was kept hidden how would you like that? Still going to be loyal?
I know I'm responding to something that was posted in my direction 9 months ago but somehow I missed this before.
The comparison of her sex work past vs. hiding massive debt that has real and serious financial ramifications to me as her spouse is ridiculous. I have no right to a forensic analysis of every decision she ever made and action she ever took before we met and the same holds true in reverse. Unless it has a direct bearing on our current relationship then it's her prerogative to leave her past in the past.
And yes, I would still be loyal to the mother of my children if she sprung a financial mess on me. I'd no doubt be pissed for a while, but there is no universe in which I cut her loose just because she made financial mistakes and hid them from me out of embarrassment or shame. I'd do what a grown ass father and husband is supposed to do - cowboy up and start to fix the shit.
The older I get, the less I understand the current generation of young men. When I see posts like these from blues I seriously wonder when we started to lose the basic sense of male pride and emotional fortitude that used to be routinely instilled in boys by their fathers.
rickdugan
01-02-2021, 10:05 AM
Tbh, I never liked this thread from the day it was posted. IMHO the most likely outcomes for dancers reading it are pain and discomfort. Pain from those guys who come on here and say bad things about the prospect. Discomfort from over-eager guys, usually types who these girls would never date anyway, tripping over themselves to post comments about how "enlightened" and "open" they are and how it's no big deal.
As most dancers reading this know, this issue is complicated. Dancing for a living on a long-term basis is a serious choice with real consequences for romantic and other personal relationships. Even today, a certain % of the guys who these girls would actually want are going to struggle with this. I wonder whether a thread that swings between highlighting this reality and making light of it shouldn't have died a long time ago.
I have my own story about a whirlwind romance I had with a dancer when I was much younger and before I was frequenting clubs, which I've shared on a customer site, but I've decided not to share it here. I just don't want to add to the weird vibes already being thrown off by this thread.
tookewl
01-03-2021, 02:43 PM
Tbh, I never liked this thread from the day it was posted. IMHO the most likely outcomes for dancers reading it are pain and discomfort. Pain from those guys who come on here and say bad things about the prospect. Discomfort from over-eager guys, usually types who these girls would never date anyway, tripping over themselves to post comments about how "enlightened" and "open" they are and how it's no big deal.
As most dancers reading this know, this issue is complicated. Dancing for a living on a long-term basis is a serious choice with real consequences for romantic and other personal relationships. Even today, a certain % of the guys who these girls would actually want are going to struggle with this. I wonder whether a thread that swings between highlighting this reality and making light of it shouldn't have died a long time ago.
I have my own story about a whirlwind romance I had with a dancer when I was much younger and before I was frequenting clubs, which I've shared on a customer site, but I've decided not to share it here. I just don't want to add to the weird vibes already being thrown off by this thread.
Let the ladies decide if the thread elicits pain and discomfort. It's not for you nor I to decide for them.
Sure there's many guys that balk at the prospect and many guys who think being open to it make them special. Both offer little value. It's goofy and condescending to think the ladies are so fragile, they can't have a discussion regarding the issues or there can't be a serious conversation regarding hangups on either end.
Raziel
01-05-2021, 10:50 AM
I once knew a girl that was a Dancer (this was a long time ago, I was a kid, well not a Kid Kid, but a Teenager) she was a bit older than me (I don't remember how much). She didn't do anything with Customers, but she liked Nerds. That was her thing. I couldn't figure it out, but she was ALL OVER them. Normally you expect a hot girl to fawn all over some Football player, but she just dropped them all (and sometimes they got pissed about it). Honestly some dude that's gonna peak in College, and then I find him BAGGING MY GROCERIES, he has no place next to a guy that will actually be able to take care of her. She was smart. Nerds are actually better able. They have a future. And understand how lucky they are to have her.
Now, I'm not harshing on Football players (a lot of these dudes are actually pretty cool) but a lot of these people were someone you might want to have a dalliance with, but not a long term relationship. Most of them are not going anywhere. For many of them, this is the top of their life. It's all downhill from there.
305gurl
01-16-2021, 07:09 PM
A guy friend said he dated two dancers and called himself "dumb" and "mistake" for dating the second one alas not learned the first time.
My brothers and male friends had opinions that were similar. Their opinions were usually negative of dating and marrying a woman involved in the adult industry. Most issues they cited was: daddy issues, drug and alcohol abuse, abusive past relationships, "lady of the night" lifestyle, and so on.
GpYmp
01-16-2021, 07:56 PM
Yeah, it would have to be a very unique and special type of Bond. Honest with each other, trustworthy, best friend/ team mate type of relationship. I’ve been in one before, and it wasn’t no problem at all. I never got upset or jealous because in reality, no one owns another person. We made it fun for each other, Real Love is very strong. Knowing someone’s business from the start also helps, would've been much tougher to be together had she not already been doing her thing when we fell for each other.