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Ifyouseekamy
03-28-2019, 03:59 AM
First of all we need to get rid of this 1-10 bullshit. There’s two types of guys fuckable and unfuckable.
Physically most guys are fuckable. I’m a really spiritual person and a hopeless romantic, so I think being loyal and emotionally healthy is really attractive-most guys that come to the clubs aren’t healthy or loyal; therefore, are unfuckable to me.

lightningfarron
03-28-2019, 09:04 AM
If you have a fat wallet or a credit card ready to max out on me... you're automatically a 10!

Bonus points if you keep up good hygiene the last thing I want to do is be stuck in a small VIP room with someone who smells like pee (which I have done before ughhh)

charlie61
03-28-2019, 06:57 PM
Or we could assign percentages to the final grade:

50%=willingness to spend
40%=hygiene and manners
10%=appearance

whirlerz
03-28-2019, 07:01 PM
If you have a fat wallet or a credit card ready to max out on me... you're automatically a 10!

Bonus points if you keep up good hygiene the last thing I want to do is be stuck in a small VIP room with someone who smells like pee (which I have done before ughhh)

Almost dropped the phone!
I have a very sensitive nose!

AChildOfBoredom
03-28-2019, 07:04 PM
Well, I don't know if 10% on appearance is accurate. I mean, come into the club looking like Meat Loaf, and we'll be running like a bat out of hell to the back to discuss that among ourselves.

Me, I like the shy guys with money to burn. They may not be the best looking, but they often tend to be much more well-mannered, whereas the guy who still revels in how he was prom king and captain of the varsity football team in high school is still apt to thinking that he is entitled to special liberties which others aren't.

Hygiene definitely matters, of course. You smell like rotten cabbage or wherever, I've got enough regulars that I'm going out of my way to sell you dances. I am extremely strict when it comes to hygiene, and I will not tolerate a funkmaster.

charlie61
03-28-2019, 07:34 PM
^i've had horribly disfigured regulars who i found attractive due to their dispositions and willingness to spend, actually. And i certainly didn't run back to the DR to discuss them with fellow dancers. So I'd say my 10% estimate is accurate for me, personally.

AChildOfBoredom
03-28-2019, 08:01 PM
I don't get into those conversations either, but I've witnessed enough of them that I'm going to be skeptical about 10% as a general rule of thumb. All in all, I feel like breaking it down into three things oversimplifies it. You just talked about demeanor, and I think that's really one - a big one - that should be its own category. A good demeanor and fun conversation can certainly outweigh physical attractiveness - we're there to make money, not for the sake of meeting Mr. Right, after all - but all of these things are going to be noticed.

On the grand scale of things, sure, when it comes to customers I'll approach, there are far higher priorities than physical attractiveness. Good hygiene, good conversation, good overall demeanor, willingness to spend. Even if they come in on a night when they don't have much to spend, if they have those things going on, I'll still take a minute to greet them and have a quick chat, and their physical attractiveness doesn't factor into it. But I'm going to remain skeptical to any claims in that it's not something which is noticed and taken into account. There's enough comments made on this very forum to dispute that as being any sort of norm.

And of course actual mileage will vary. We are individuals, after all. What's 10% for you may be 70% for another dancer.... if we were to average it, I feel like that number would be probably closer to... I don't know... I'm thinking somewhere between 40 and 50, largely because there's always fresh faces getting into it who haven't yet worked out a system, and from what I've seen they often prioritize approaching customers the same way they will in a prospective relationship scenario. Dancers who've been at it for any duration, and have established six degrees of separation between being at the club and life outside the club, that'll be a different matter. The fresh-faced 18 year-old will still be going for the young and attractive - but often not-so-spendy college jocks, whereas a veteran dancer looks for specific indicators. It's really hard for me to look at the question as asked and think it possible to give an answer in absolutes when you've got so many variables... different clubs have different clientele and different dancers with different levels of experience both in stripping and in life. What's 'attractive' in a college town strip club and elsewhere aren't going to be one in the same.

Even limiting the question to physical attractiveness - focusing solely on the physical part - a man who appears attractive to dancers in a club where many of the dancers are over 30 may not so much in a club which hires mostly college girls and vice versa, and that goes back to the part of different levels of experience in life, different priorities in life, different ages, etc. The 'touch of grey' in the hair says something different to someone in their mid- or late 30s than it does to someone in their late teens or early 20s.

charlie61
03-28-2019, 08:08 PM
^my original post about breaking it down by percentage was intended to be facetious! :) though it probably holds some truth for me, personally.

The last thing I'm thinking about while working is whether I'm attracted to my customers, honestly.

AChildOfBoredom
03-28-2019, 08:14 PM
And I agree. But we are merely two grains in this great vast shaker of salt. Salt which will put on French fries... and now I'm craving French fries again.

I think it really highlights the 'actual mileage' may vary part. I know you've been doing this for a while, I'm in my fifth year, and of course how we look at it won't be how one of the fresh faces looks at it. And even there are other variables... I don't know if stripping is a full time thing for you or not, but I've seen a lot of differences between those who strip exclusively and dancers who do it in addition to their vanilla job, dancers who do it as simply an aside to their vanilla job, etc. For me, it's simply side work that I'm not going to get terribly vested in... I'm certainly not seeing things through the same lenses that a full timer is.