View Full Version : Escorting: how to get started / what you wish you knew
kortneykay
09-02-2020, 04:09 AM
Yes, and yes. I don't meet anyone without a deposit. Hypothetically speaking I would charge them a deposit as my personal biller allows me to see their IP address, and screening info. It also helps me win any potential chargebacks because I can prove their identity and location with my biller. Yes on getting a clean, brand-focused incall preferably with some sort of security measure like doormen or doorbell cams/video intercoms. Be sure not to leave anything out with your real identity. Good luck!
Bespoke
12-18-2020, 09:59 AM
As far as being desperate for cash:
I’ve just been there. And I can tell you that it isn’t the time to start your own escorting business.
Alternatives to SW:
Pawn something. Jewelry, gold, sports equipment, etc.
Trade Bitcoin! I got into it as PayPal offers trades for no fees until 12/32. I put $40 in btc and made $10 in a few days. Yesterday, I had $10 in btc and made $5. There’s no greater return on investment that the Bitcoin market right now!!
Start with a small position and Buy Low/ Sell high. You can start with $10 via PayPal or CashApp
Download a btc market app (I like Blockfolio. It’s really user-friendly!)
Set alerts for market changes in Blockfolio. I set mine at 3% under/ over as well as 5% and 10%
Watch your money grow!
I’ve found Bitcoin peaks at night, which is why I love it being a night owl. There’s a great podcast discussing bitcoins market moves with the moon cycle (I’ll go search and post it)
This weekend, going into the whatever spectacular moon event on 12/21, is poised to be great for btc, ltc and I just took a small position in ETH as its way down now but will rise.
Cash in your earnings and leave your original investment. I made $20 off $20 yesterday with btc and ltc. I was able to buy cigs and cat food, lol! As well as a bottle of wine without even leaving my house.
Trading Bitcoin is like a video game. It’s fun, it’s exciting and you don’t have to know much to get started.
Just keep it simple and keep it small until you get the hang of it.
Nameste’
Bespoke
12-18-2020, 10:01 AM
Found it! This is an astrology podcast I like to listen to, and it explains everything you need to know about btc as well as market moves:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-astrology-podcast/id541401108?i=1000501528896
Bespoke
12-18-2020, 10:47 AM
Markets are DOWN atm
Time to get in
And HOLD till tonight!!
indiegirl
01-28-2021, 01:36 PM
With the hobbyists their promise or threat to rate you a certain is a negotiating ploy and early on in my career I'd make the mistake of giving in sometimes. Then I came around to knowing they were going to rate me how they were going to rate me. The good clients know how to get really good treatment and they know it never comes at a discount.
Yep you look at their past reviews and know the rating you will get. But it's the one's who don't advertise they review and are happy to fuck your life up or do an unsafe activity despite posting you don't do that who ruin it.
I get bare is great but not with a stranger!!! Best with a trusted boyfriend or husband. These guys that want it do it to god knows whoever/how many women are desperate to allow them to do so for the money.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-29-2021, 03:38 PM
Not all hobbyists are awful BUT the awful ones WILL prey on new girls. Educate yourself on how to deal with these guys.
Emanuelle
03-06-2021, 01:12 PM
If you don't mind stripping my advice is to find the most high end gentleman's club near you and find clients that way. When I was stripping that's how I started escorting, and it felt easier to find good clients there than on the internet. That was my experience anyway. You can make them spend money on you in a vip room first to prove they're serious and get a feel for their level of creepiness. In my opinion strip clubs are the best place for that and sugar daddies.
Secret Shelly
03-10-2021, 07:51 PM
If you don't mind stripping my advice is to find the most high end gentleman's club near you and find clients that way. When I was stripping that's how I started escorting, and it felt easier to find good clients there than on the internet. That was my experience anyway. You can make them spend money on you in a vip room first to prove they're serious and get a feel for their level of creepiness. In my opinion strip clubs are the best place for that and sugar daddies.
My experience is most dancers really didn't want escorts working out of clubs that way.
crystalize
03-21-2021, 10:12 AM
one advice I would give is charge a lot and don't do discounts. the higher you charge the more respectful the guy will be. I've had very few bad experiences. and I charge 500 per hour. and guess what? I rarely stay that whole hour. sometimes only 10 minutes.
I am quitting now because of my relationship (for obvious reasons) but I am keeping my best customer which gives me a lot more than 500 and I still stay under an hour.
they're out there. it just takes time to find them and they're few and far between. I am willing to bet I make a lot more than girls who charge 200 or whatever and I see very few guys. make your life easier girls and charge your worth. they do pay.
Secret Shelly
03-24-2021, 07:30 AM
one advice I would give is charge a lot and don't do discounts.
Preach!!!
Hobbyist will give you grief for not doing discounts but really I found if you set your fee higher and didn't budge, they went away anyway and you would be left with the customers you want.
Kylie8585
03-25-2021, 07:49 PM
I've only been doing it a few months now. I started dancing & got into private parties and some of the other girls I worked with were escorting. They told more about it and I felt like it was something I'd be down for. Fast forward to today and it's going great.