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Cutie101
04-11-2019, 01:40 PM
I plan on opening a few coffee stands after retirement. Running a small businesses is something I've always wanted to do.

Speaking of small business, I have always dreamed to have a bed& breakfast cabin unit at the mountain side. That would be amazing, to retire in a remote area and open something small, with warm food and cozy beds for trekking tourists!

KatyBoleyn
04-11-2019, 02:04 PM
Speaking of small business, I have always dreamed to have a bed& breakfast cabin unit at the mountain side. That would be amazing, to retire in a remote area and open something small, with warm food and cozy beds for trekking tourists!

AirBnB has worked out pretty well for some of our family members. Figure $100/night with a 60% occupancy rate (and they pay the cleaning fee), you're making $20,000+/year per rental. If you provide good food and other amenities (rides somewhere, for example) you can add 50% or so to the room rate. 3 or 4 small properties (or a subdivided one) and you're looking at a fairly comfortable semi-retirement.

EllieGold
04-12-2019, 02:48 PM
I do freelance web development on the side right now, so there' always remote work that you can do after camming. I was in the vanilla career field most of 2018 but after some crap, I'm back to doing what I do best... I've been juggling the vanilla side vs camming these past few months (because I've been doing next to no work to clear my head). I'm so stuck on which route to take because I'm passionate about my field I landed into a couple years ago, but there is so much corporate crap I witnessed in 8 months time that would make your socks fly off. LOL. I am struggling to find vanilla work so I'm reversing and headed back into camming once again. Not that it's a bad thing though. :)

GirlWithAPlan
04-12-2019, 06:08 PM
There are definitely men or women who would not be OK with you being an ex or current adult entertainer. So, don't date them. There are others who are fine with it. Date them. You aren't ruined or trash. And if a person thinks that, they have problems. Want to talk about abuse? That person is likely abusive because THEY have some insecurities. So if you were a little pearl clutcher do good you'd still get some crap from them for something. I can guarantee that.

How do I know? I dated a narcissist once. They never knew about my camming past, because they freaked out when they heard I had posed nude for art and was in an actual gallery. I hadn't cammed in years so I just kept that little secret to myself since I never actually thought I'd return to it. Turned out, the guy had the thinnest skin I have ever seen and tried to abuse me. Tried. But I like to tinker around with peoples heads and figure them out so I'd just do a grey rock method on them. They finally discarded me...yay me. They watch porn too...I hope they find me on a tube site. HAHA. Narcissists think they own you forever. They put you on a dusty shelf in their head and even if they are done for good, they still OWN you, they think they could come back at any moment. So, to see me so "ruined" HAHA....I'd love to be a little fly on a wall and see that tantrum.

Now...maybe a mate might want you to give it up IF they were wanting to marry you. OK, as long as I could find other work OR they want to pay all my bills, I would say OK to that. I can understand long term them not wanting you to cam. Maybe it might affect their career or they just are bothered by it. It's normal to be a little insecure about things, just as long as they still WANT you even after you've done it.

My ex husband bought equipment for me and supported me. Said I was sexy and worth every bit I charged. It's just that I didn't like him in the end and he'd get irritated when I wouldn't put out but I'd talk about camming. Well....you know, I didn't find him attractive any more. He still didn't get in the way of my camming at that point.

The older I've gotten the less I care who knows about my camming. And of the people I've told, not one gave a crap. A school teacher might lose a job, that's about it. I guess if you plan to teach, stop camming and try to erase what you can. You still likely won't get found out. Or politics. Don't run for office. Your opponent would likely use some professional service to dig up as much on you as possible and you'd lose votes to the conservative crowd. I can't think of anything else really I would be worried about. Just keep your camming somewhat classy. Don't make vids putting baseball bats in your bum, some might find that too much IF they found out. I'd also not suggest that due to other reasons.

I have 3 degrees and can't get a job. I dare a person to try to put me down for legally getting on a camera, paying taxes and having sex with myself for money. If you ask me, I'm being resourceful.

miss.a.p1600
04-12-2019, 08:27 PM
There was this one lady who is very successful coaching kids......and it was found out that she did porn at one point in the past.

This did not impact her career - much - because she is very wealthy and successful at what she does now and her fans realized it was something she did for a short time in her past when she was young as a means to boost her economic standing

Just get rich, really rich, cause money deletes 'heauxness'

Glamourmilf
04-13-2019, 06:28 AM
There are definitely men or women who would not be OK with you being an ex or current adult entertainer. So, don't date them. There are others who are fine with it. Date them. You aren't ruined or trash. And if a person thinks that, they have problems. Want to talk about abuse? That person is likely abusive because THEY have some insecurities. So if you were a little pearl clutcher do good you'd still get some crap from them for something. I can guarantee that.

How do I know? I dated a narcissist once. They never knew about my camming past, because they freaked out when they heard I had posed nude for art and was in an actual gallery. I hadn't cammed in years so I just kept that little secret to myself since I never actually thought I'd return to it. Turned out, the guy had the thinnest skin I have ever seen and tried to abuse me. Tried. But I like to tinker around with peoples heads and figure them out so I'd just do a grey rock method on them. They finally discarded me...yay me. They watch porn too...I hope they find me on a tube site. HAHA. Narcissists think they own you forever. They put you on a dusty shelf in their head and even if they are done for good, they still OWN you, they think they could come back at any moment. So, to see me so "ruined" HAHA....I'd love to be a little fly on a wall and see that tantrum.

Now...maybe a mate might want you to give it up IF they were wanting to marry you. OK, as long as I could find other work OR they want to pay all my bills, I would say OK to that. I can understand long term them not wanting you to cam. Maybe it might affect their career or they just are bothered by it. It's normal to be a little insecure about things, just as long as they still WANT you even after you've done it.

My ex husband bought equipment for me and supported me. Said I was sexy and worth every bit I charged. It's just that I didn't like him in the end and he'd get irritated when I wouldn't put out but I'd talk about camming. Well....you know, I didn't find him attractive any more. He still didn't get in the way of my camming at that point.

The older I've gotten the less I care who knows about my camming. And of the people I've told, not one gave a crap. A school teacher might lose a job, that's about it. I guess if you plan to teach, stop camming and try to erase what you can. You still likely won't get found out. Or politics. Don't run for office. Your opponent would likely use some professional service to dig up as much on you as possible and you'd lose votes to the conservative crowd. I can't think of anything else really I would be worried about. Just keep your camming somewhat classy. Don't make vids putting baseball bats in your bum, some might find that too much IF they found out. I'd also not suggest that due to other reasons.

I have 3 degrees and can't get a job. I dare a person to try to put me down for legally getting on a camera, paying taxes and having sex with myself for money. If you ask me, I'm being resourceful.

Thank You for this encouraging post.
I'm tired of hiding my camming/ clip making from people.
It's exhausting, frankly.
The few friends I have told have been totally cool about it. Nobody has an issue.
The friends I haven't told need to know. If only for the simple fact that I really don't see myself doing anything else, work wise.
One of my closest friends is 60, and can't even get hired at Trader Joe's.
Where am I going?
Edit to add: I've been in the game for 40 years.
Keeping a secret for that long has definitely messed up my head.
I honestly don't care anymore who knows or doesn't know.

GirlWithAPlan
04-14-2019, 10:37 PM
Thank You for this encouraging post.
I'm tired of hiding my camming/ clip making from people.
It's exhausting, frankly.
The few friends I have told have been totally cool about it. Nobody has an issue.
The friends I haven't told need to know. If only for the simple fact that I really don't see myself doing anything else, work wise.
One of my closest friends is 60, and can't even get hired at Trader Joe's.
Where am I going?
Edit to add: I've been in the game for 40 years.
Keeping a secret for that long has definitely messed up my head.
I honestly don't care anymore who knows or doesn't know.

I'm telling you, unless they are a weird judgemental church lady, they won't care.". And no offense to religions but if they are that much of a jerk do you care if they care?

I have subbed. I was as safe with those kids as any other teacher. I dressed conservatively and taught them science. I once turned in a child for talking about S&M sex, we are talking no 5th grader could make this up, he either found it or is being show it. Turned them into the school for counseling for telling my child they did stuff kids should not know about at that age to women. My kid thought it was dumb. I put porn blocks on my internet. My kid has no clue what I do.

I don't do drugs. I pay taxes. I am paying for my own land for a retirement home. I don't even drink. Not that any of those are bad. So....I get on an ADULT site and masturbate. Oh...my...gawd! I'm not even having sex!

Am I less than the woman having condomless sex with men? Do her thing. But I'm not taking even a chance at pregnancy or an STD. And I'm getting PAID. I'm safe. I'm in my home. I decide my boundaries. I am in control of my room. I am also fair and not a cheat and treat customers like actual customers. Like..a business.

So, while Susie Homemaker is living off her husband and she's repurposing flea market finds (I like flea markets) I'm working to not need a man. To leave my child something. Retirement. And...on the side I do science stuff since that's really my area of education and some of my cam money funds my projects. Yeah, I'm writing a paper. To be peer reviewed.

So...yeah...don't like my job..suuuuck it. �� And you know the same people who killed my industry also vote against adult things. Similar foes. So if I can't ruffle them with regs....I'll just do something else "awful" and smile.