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baer45
12-04-2018, 11:07 PM
Well this rapidly devolved into a big disappointment. We made plans last Sunday evening to get drinks on Tuesday. Monday afternoon he messages me on the app and asks if we can push it to Thursday. Yeah, sure no problem. Wednesday afternoon he says sorry to ask again but his week exploded and could we push it back to the weekend? I said sure again, but I am not too into bars on Fri/Saturday nights so could we get coffee instead? Then nothing for days. I messaged him Sunday afternoon to ask if he still wanted to meet up or not and he did reply right away to say sorry for the delay, but he's still swamped with work and can't make plans yet. He said he thought he'd be able to make plans yesterday afternoon but now it is Tuesday night and still nothing.
That's horse shit. What an asshole! Block him, right now.
Arialandre
12-05-2018, 02:28 AM
Making progress guys!
My phone dinged and I was hoping it was J the computer guy not the teacher ! It was ! I like that my instinct went that way. ;)
I'm a phase of being highly nervous though. I'll just try to let things flow.
I really liked that last week has asked me to get together twice. I reached out yesterday to let him know I wanted to see him later this week if he was up for it .
I'm in a weird phase though because I like him but I also NEEDED these last three days to myself. I just did. So hopefully it's not off putting .
If a guy finds your needing to have some time to yourself off putting then he's a jackass. You're still your own person and you need to take care of YOU first.
Elektra Luxx
12-05-2018, 06:08 AM
That's horse shit. What an asshole! Block him, right now.
He really might be busy, but you're right. Block him.
baer45
12-05-2018, 08:12 AM
He really might be busy, but you're right. Block him.
When you are busy, then don’t make empty promise at all. Hes not treating her as a proirity. I dated an emergency room doctor before, he’s on call all the time. But he would put his cellphone on the table and tell me, the only reason he leaves me is “when the phone rings. You gonna do what you gonna do. “ But I saw where my place was and didnt feel like being mistreated.
carmen_b
12-05-2018, 09:29 AM
^ Yes, even busy people CARVE time out.
It probably doesn’t matter for your purposes if it’s work or multiple cancellations due to other dates.
If he resurfaced with an amazing dinner reservation fine but don’t wait.
See other guys pronto. By the time he gets done fucking around, you might have something in motion! :)
carmen_b
12-05-2018, 05:31 PM
J the scientist likes to go to these EDM shows. I don't really understand the scene very well so I threw a couple things on Pandora ( DJ's that are preforming next at the place he likes ) and I'm kind of digging it. There were some pretty sexy lyrics in there ( I honestly thought it would be all electronic ).
I sort of regret not attending this how with him last Wed. and giving the time to D instead .
I haven't been to a club for free in forever but I'd make an exception for him. ;)
I'm coming out of my anti social thing. I went on this road trip and then did this work project that just took forever. Now I'm feeling like I'd really like to see him.
I've gone from " i hate everyone " to " hmmmmm horny ..... would like to go out " after 2 hours of EDM music and lounging in bed.
seashell
12-05-2018, 05:33 PM
I just finished hanging out with the local guy. He is really fun and sweet! We went out to a cute little cafe, then he came over to my place, he met my puppy, we had some amazing sex (it was so much better this time, since we were sober, lol), and cuddled while watching Netflix. I really like him. There don't seem to be any signs that he's a jerk or a player, and we get along very well together.
He just texted me that he made it home, and said goodnight. Aww...
I'm usually pretty stoic and unemotional at first when it comes to guys... at least on the outside... but I want to try to lay the foundation for something more serious with him. I haven't met anyone like him in a really long time, that just seems nice and *normal.* He actually has his life together, and he lives in a city where I want to live. I'm excited to see him again.
lynn2009
12-05-2018, 07:06 PM
When you are busy, then don’t make empty promise at all. Hes not treating her as a proirity. I dated an emergency room doctor before, he’s on call all the time. But he would put his cellphone on the table and tell me, the only reason he leaves me is “when the phone rings. You gonna do what you gonna do. “ But I saw where my place was and didnt feel like being mistreated.
^ Yes, even busy people CARVE time out.
It probably doesn’t matter for your purposes if it’s work or multiple cancellations due to other dates.
If he resurfaced with an amazing dinner reservation fine but don’t wait.
See other guys pronto. By the time he gets done fucking around, you might have something in motion! :)
I know, you both are right. :( He should have at least messaged me Monday saying he still doesn't know what the rest of his week looks like and he can't make plans yet. I'm going to still hold out hope he'll message me soon apologizing again and saying he wants to go somewhere nice to make it up to me. But I'm not going to hold my breath and I started taking to some other guys today too. Its confusing though when he hasn't unmatched me and answered right away when I messaged him on Sunday. And I'm not a snob about Ivy League or work, but he really seemed smart but not egotistical, and working for Elizabeth Warren is a weird thing to make up if it's not true, and I have a hard time imagining someone who works for senator Warren is a jerk when dating.
carmen_b
12-06-2018, 01:21 PM
^ let his actions guide you.
Right now he hasn’t made time for you so just don’t give him 100% of your energy.
There may be someone else who is a better fit. Nothing wrong with a date or two v.s. waiting.
carmen_b
12-07-2018, 08:44 PM
J is funny. We have a long text conversation that rolled into an in person conversation. He was sending things like " I don't know if I want a serious relationship " .
A. I didn't ask for a serious relationship.
B. I may leave this city before you do. ;)
^ I told him both and teased him about it over drinks last night .
He wants to be honest about leaving this city in 8-9 months.
I came out and just asked if a more Poly type of situation was what he wanted and he looked sad about it.
I was a *little* bummed he didn't come over ..... but it was a Thursday and people do have to work. Last time we were up until 3:45 a.m.
carmen_b
12-07-2018, 08:54 PM
This is such a tricky phase. Do you guys come out and ask about std status and everything ?
I feel like I wouldn't mind just fooling around with J a little ( I'm not sure if he's seeing anyone else and it seems so early to ask ).
I'd like to just take it to the hands level asap and really wouldn't mind going a further even haha.
Elektra Luxx
12-07-2018, 09:32 PM
This is such a tricky phase. Do you guys come out and ask about std status and everything ?
I feel like I wouldn't mind just fooling around with J a little ( I'm not sure if he's seeing anyone else and it seems so early to ask ).
I'd like to just take it to the hands level asap and really wouldn't mind going a further even haha.
You have to just straight out ask about STDs.
carmen_b
12-07-2018, 09:45 PM
^ Yeah. I think I will. I've got all my paperwork done ( after my ex's mental breakdown I wasn't sure he was monogamous at the end and did the testing ).
I think I want to have sex with J. ;)
I've only known him 12 days. Maybe I'll wait 1-2 weeks to bring it up.
Last night was a bust. We both worked the next day. He missed out ( totally would have messed around ).
The perils of dating a younger man. I want someone to take me to dinner at 6 before it gets too crowded and start the snuggle fest at 8 haha.
I have afternoon coffee when I know I'll see him. He's 32.
I messaged him saying it was my birthday soon and I want a sleepover as a present.
seashell
12-08-2018, 12:51 PM
Made plans to hang out with N tomorrow! He invited me to go to this park and see the "Ice Forest," which I guess has an ice skating rink and Christmas lights... but I'm extremely allergic to the trees there. Even though it's winter. Sigh... that would have been so cute and fun!
Oh well. I'm happy that he's been wanting to hang out, and proactive in making plans.
For some reason, I keep going through a list of my exes in my head, and thinking about how much I settled for awful people. Ugh. Trying to keep my eyes wide open to red flags, these days. I'm so nervous to really open up to this guy, especially telling him about camming.
lynn2009
12-08-2018, 06:31 PM
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carmen_b
12-08-2018, 11:56 PM
^ No Fu%ing doubt !
I'm shocked that I can't seem to get action.
I'm sitting here in full club makeup ( I did it for a party just for fun ) wondering if I'll even go to the bars after.
I'm honestly so horny that I may just straight up go troll the Brewery next to my house.
If they have started recognizing me the staff is great and never says anything.
I'm not saying I'm giving up on J the comp. scientist guy ....... but .......I feel like a smart dude ( regarding last Thurs. when I invited him here ) would have been like " I need to work Friday morning, how about I come over Friday eve. ? "
Dude, I can't lay it on a silver platter more for you. I'm done. If he's not here within 48 hours I'm benching him.
carmen_b
12-09-2018, 11:45 PM
I did end up going to the Brewery. ;)
With a Tinder date. I kind of forgot I was chatting with him until he arrived in town ( other travelers seem drawn to my profile ) .
He was a sweet heart. Bought me a pre-birthday drink. He's B. He lives in a cabin in the woods in New York . He looks like he lives in a cabin in the woods ( thick build and full beard about 1/2 inch long). I think one of my fave things about seeing new people ( at least often lately ) is the stories.
He smelled good and just Stared right at me as we were having our drinks...... I knew it was all good if I wanted some attention .
He asked if I wanted to hang out more as they closed at 1 a.m. and I invited him over.
Delicious. Incredible snuggles and making out. Mostly it was just hands over clothes. Mostly . Ha.
We were up until 5:45 a.m. and I drove him back to his hotel. I woke up today at 3 in the afternoon feeling fabulous.
He is incredibly non-pushy which is such a turn on. ;)
baer45
12-10-2018, 08:33 AM
I did end up going to the Brewery. ;)
With a Tinder date. I kind of forgot I was chatting with him until he arrived in town ( other travelers seem drawn to my profile ) .
He was a sweet heart. Bought me a pre-birthday drink. He's B. He lives in a cabin in the woods in New York . He looks like he lives in a cabin in the woods ( thick build and full beard about 1/2 inch long). I think one of my fave things about seeing new people ( at least often lately ) is the stories.
He smelled good and just Stared right at me as we were having our drinks...... I knew it was all good if I wanted some attention .
He asked if I wanted to hang out more as they closed at 1 a.m. and I invited him over.
Delicious. Incredible snuggles and making out. Mostly it was just hands over clothes. Mostly . Ha.
We were up until 5:45 a.m. and I drove him back to his hotel. I woke up today at 3 in the afternoon feeling fabulous.
He is incredibly non-pushy which is such a turn on. ;)
That actually sounds pretty good.
lynn2009
12-10-2018, 03:01 PM
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carmen_b
12-10-2018, 04:38 PM
^ Just dots ? I was hoping this lawyer took you somewhere amazing and then back home, ha!
( or another prospect and sexy details had come up )
carmen_b
12-11-2018, 05:13 PM
Remember The guy from the other town ( my work town 5 hours away ) from way back in the thread ?
He was in my town last night and had a nice hotel.
He was the one who brought that dozen orange roses to our dinner date when we first met.
Let’s just say we had a very nice adventure. :)
( no quoting please )
carmen_b
12-11-2018, 09:42 PM
^ Actually now it’s not sitting quite right with me.
t feel a little odd today ( I enjoyed it at the time ).
He’s good with his hands ( my thing ) plus I got some nice oral action ( it’s probably been a year - 1.5 years on that for me ).
But the experience / vibe felt off to me today.
I was so into massage/ body rub outcalls for a bit there that hotels feel a little " off " .
I remember when I left I actually thought that I forgot the money ( it's an odd reaction, it's been years since I've worked Outcalls ).
The other thing that sits strangely is that I felt like he wasn't very complimentary . I'm not really sure what I was expecting but he didn't comment much on my body or what was happening. He's attractive but has a few extra pounds. You think he would have been throwing out the compliments left and right.
I feel kind of " meh " today. It made me realize that I am probably going back to my roots ( traditional old fashioned slow dating only ).
He did do a few traditional dates ( that's probably how we ended up there in comfort level ) but I hadn't seen him in a month.
Bodies are weird. Now that I'm not extremely horny, I just KNOW that I will want 4-5 days entirely to myself and I'm trying to come up with good excuses why I can't see anyone this weekend.
charlie61
12-11-2018, 09:56 PM
^ Actually now it’s not sitting quite right with me.
I’m not stressed about it but maybe it was the hotel setting. It felt a little odd ( I enjoyed it at the time ).
He’s good with his hands ( my thing ) plus I got some nice oral action ( it’s probabky been a year on that for me ).
But the experience / vibe felt off to me today.
Did it feel like he was using you?
carmen_b
12-11-2018, 10:14 PM
^ Hmmm. It didn't at the time.
I just kept " going " with what was happening ( which felt amazing at the time ).
Maybe it is the lack of complimenting. No " Wow, I did not expect that " or " That was amazing " .
It could also just be the quick switch that happened. He didn't hold hands or touch me in the hot tub so I started reading it as friendly.
I just made sure to make my legs / feet touch him on the bed to see what would happen. We went from a light snuggle to fooling around in 5-6 minutes or something.
carmen_b
12-12-2018, 01:40 AM
I'm sad about J the comp. science guy. I felt really really comfy with him.
We got talking about clubbing, I told him I had a lot of " bartending and other club jobs".
I said my stories are great but some require some discretion ( I was getting ready to reveal the sex work stuff ).
Edit :^ He just texted.
I may have feelings. I have a reaction to seeing his name on my phone.
He said ( regarding my naughty messages asking for a sleepover Sat. or Sun. which I asked him to ignore 90 minutes later ):
" No clue how to respond and been temped to ignore those entirely but you've got me curious. "
JessaJade
12-12-2018, 06:04 AM
^I think his message is quite rude TBH. "Tempted to ignore"?
It sounds to me like he's not overly interested but wants to take advantage of the horniness on offer. (Maybe that would be cool with you, but maybe not if you have stronger feelings for him).
Disclaimer: I haven't read previous posts yet so I don't know exactly what happened between you before.
carmen_b
12-12-2018, 11:59 AM
We had a long text conversation last night.
This is ALL stuff we can figure out in person !
He mentioned darkness / emotional disconnect / a kink streak . I told him I sensed the kink thing for sure on our first meeting.
He has said multiple times via text ( I counted them .... there are 4 in the last 15 days ) things like " I don't want to hurt you " .
My intuition is telling me to leave it alone.
I thank B and D for their excellent " service " over the weekend.
Look at how clear headed I am now that they helped me out.
It's settled. I'm letting J go into the universe.
If he even asks about it I'll just tell him that he seemed determined to talk me out of seeing him and that he won.
I'm taking a huge step back overall.
If I do resurface anytime soon it'll all be in person.
I think this online thing just makes people behave HORRIBLY .
The psychology changes ...... no one can make a decision or selection (too many options).
seashell
12-13-2018, 10:31 AM
I think your intuition's right, he's being weird.
I'm questioning my current guy, as well. I don't know what he wants. Tonight will be our 4th time ever hanging out together, and we're probably just going out for drinks/going to his place. Maybe we'll walk around the Christmas market a bit, or go to the ice skating thing nearby. He's been pretty responsive when I text him, but ughhh I'm so afraid to like him. Maybe I just shouldn't catch feelings? I don't know if I'm even capable of having them, but my girl brain is telling me "CLAIM HIM" lol.
We got kind of cuddly last time, but no holding hands or anything. I feel nervous! I don't want to be a booty call, but at the same time, I am also kind of okay with that... as long as he keeps paying for me to go out, and giving me a great time in bed.
carmen_b
12-13-2018, 02:09 PM
^ It sounds kind of nice. Maybe you should just roll with it. ;)
If you are starting to like him you can chat about it but I'd give it another couple outings first.
Is it because you know you need to leave this area ( if I'm remembering right ) ?
Maybe you are trying to responsible with his feelings.
seashell
12-14-2018, 12:07 PM
^yeah, I guess I'm mostly hesitant because I'm moving in a month. It is pretty nice! He's sweet and treats me well...
I wound up just inviting him straight to my place, told him to bring wine, and so we just had a quick hook-up. He was pretty shy, I guess he wasn't expecting me to use him as a booty call... oops. Afterward, we attempted to cuddle and watch Netflix, but my puppy was totally insane and jumping all over him, so he ended up leaving sooner than I wanted. I honestly don't know if he is shy, if he's not that into me, or if I made it awkward, lol. I was pretty bummed when he left early, and I guess that was my reality check to give up on making this a serious thing.
I texted him later to say that I liked him, I don't usually sleep with guys this quickly (which is true), and would like to continue getting to know him better, but wanted to know if he was okay with seeing each other casually until I leave the country... He said yes, and said he'd like to continue getting to know me better as well. So I guess this is a polite hook-up situation... hehe. But he's sooo cute, has the most adorable accent, and his cock is amazing...
I always end up having nerdy and very sweet fuck buddies. LOL.
seashell
12-14-2018, 12:13 PM
Also, I've been talking to a few other guys on dating apps, and I have a coffee date on Sunday. He seems cute and nerdy. :)
carmen_b
12-15-2018, 12:02 AM
^^^ We have such a similar type. Haha.
^yeah, I guess I'm mostly hesitant because I'm moving in a month. It is pretty nice! He's sweet and treats me well...
I wound up just inviting him straight to my place, told him to bring wine, and so we just had a quick hook-up. He was pretty shy, I guess he wasn't expecting me to use him as a booty call... oops. Afterward, we attempted to cuddle and watch Netflix, but my puppy was totally insane and jumping all over him, so he ended up leaving sooner than I wanted. I honestly don't know if he is shy, if he's not that into me, or if I made it awkward, lol. I was pretty bummed when he left early, and I guess that was my reality check to give up on making this a serious thing.
I texted him later to say that I liked him, I don't usually sleep with guys this quickly (which is true), and would like to continue getting to know him better, but wanted to know if he was okay with seeing each other casually until I leave the country... He said yes, and said he'd like to continue getting to know me better as well. So I guess this is a polite hook-up situation... hehe. But he's sooo cute, has the most adorable accent, and his cock is amazing...
I always end up having nerdy and very sweet fuck buddies. LOL.
carmen_b
12-15-2018, 12:42 PM
So ...... i had this date yesterday and I'm not sure what to think of it.
It was a person I've chatted with about a month. I gave him a chance because he just KEPT following up which I love.
He was more attractive in person than the pictures .
I tried to introduce him to real ramen ( he ran late and it become annoying/loud in the place and we bailed ) . We moved locations to my secret dive bar haven.
The long and short of it is ...... I just felt TALKED AT .
I realize he was probably nervous and starting to ramble but it's a trait I can't overlook . I really hate it ( my ex was bad with it until we put effort into it ).
I am still cringing about it. My sex work stuff also seems to manifest in the weirdest ways. About 2 hours in I realized I had to escape and started thinking to myself " this should be about $600 " . Haha. An exact calculation for my time and level and annoyance just came flying out of my mind.
I had to interrupt to ask to be taken back to my car. He would not take a breath. I felt very stressed out.
JessaJade
12-15-2018, 04:53 PM
Lets take a vote.
Who thinks I was smart enough to leave J alone ?
^ Updating ... I thought he has sent hints of coming over yesterday and I was getting ready to bite.
Then as he was moving slow ( again ! ) and irritating me I let it go.
I vote for 'leave him alone'.
People always give themselves away...he seems 'off' and it could be any number of things.
carmen_b
12-15-2018, 08:25 PM
^ Yessss.
It is now carrying this weird energy. We have talked SO much that it is NOT casual.
I asked for his sexual assistance and he wasn't here 7 days ago. My reserve players were smart enough to arrive promptly.
I'm not in that horn dog phase I was in. In fact, one showed up that very night and I saw one a couple days later. ;)
The offer is now expired. A smart man would have been here immediately.
Anyone who wants my time and energy without offering anything emotionally better be ready to pay handsomely ( I'm not kidding ).
^ This includes J even though he's absolutely charming and good looking. I can strip trip and find a looker ( I have before ) and spend some time cuddly time with them in the club while being compensated as well.
I'm back to my roots now ( well planned dates only ).
I also told him I am really into fingering / panty line teasing ect. and he said something like " that's all ? " or something about middle school dating.
I know what works and I was being really open about what I wanted and works for me. Also, the other two I saw this week had no issue with it. ;)
seashell
12-16-2018, 02:25 PM
^He totally should have been there immediately. And what's with a guy questioning what turns you on? Toss that one out, there are more where he came from. :P
I kinda ghosted the coffee date guy. Just wasn't feeling it.
O is coming to my city tomorrow, and spending the night. I'm excited to see him again.
I wanted to avoid texting N, because I felt like he wasn't that into me... but I caved and texted him today. He responded and joked around a bit. Haven't made any further plans with him.
It's a lame excuse, but I feel like my puppy is cockblocking me. She's really adorable, but she's super badly behaved when I have company over. XD And I don't want to leave her alone just to go on a date... since I could be gone for hours and hours. It's like having a kid! What the heck do you do?
charlie61
12-17-2018, 12:34 PM
I also told him I am really into fingering / panty line teasing ect. and he said something like " that's all ? " or something about middle school dating.
What a dumbass! Teasing can be so hot. I honestly feel so much more sensation when i have clothes on (like underwear) than with direct contact. That dude sounds so emotionally immature! *He's* the one who's still in a middle school mentality if he's not down for sexy foreplay.
carmen_b
12-17-2018, 07:51 PM
I have had the GOOD SENSE to just ignore him.
He leaves for winter break on Wed.
I’ll try to be strong and leave it !
carmen_b
12-18-2018, 03:19 PM
I am still so satisfied from this experience from a couple days ago. It was the happy ending massage in the other thread.
What happened was that I was in touch ( for about 7-8 weeks ) with this LMT from the dating site and he had been wanting to give me a massage and " help me relax "
.
I told him I wasn't dating much in Dec. but may be dating again in Jan.
He has just been really good about touching base and asked about getting together to massage and make me vanilla tea on Sunday.
I invited him over.
So we get to the massage thing after chatting a bit after tea. It's a GOOD massage. He brought over the little lotion bottle to tie around his waist and everything. He was in a tank and underwear. Yeah ........ I got totally INTO it. I love pampering and I can just tell he's one of those rare ones that loves to provide.
So ..... things turn a little and he does my chest ( asking first ) and it turns kind of cuddly for a bit . I'm pretty turned on.
He said we could keep going and that he could give me an orgasm " if I wanted ".
Haha. I feel like this is turning way to TMI but lets just say it was very very satisfying.
He absolutely has " the touch ".
;)
I have always wanted to do this.
charlie61
12-18-2018, 10:57 PM
^no such thing as tmi in this thread! I love it all!!
carmen_b
12-20-2018, 11:53 AM
Ohhhh
Movie Exec. wrote to me.
He’s camped out ( posted a pic of his incredible looking place ) in the resort area near me.
He wrote and wants a dinner date / concert outing.
Into travel .
Um..... yes..... duh.
Gotta give it 1-2 days, don’t want to seem too eager.
Seems to be a whale in view in a sea of carp haha.
:)
seashell
12-22-2018, 03:18 PM
Ugh... my FWB really sucks at being an FWB. Goddammit. He's letting me steer this ship, and it's making me feel so desperate, lol.
I'm trying to slyly invite him over tonight. My dog is actually calmed down for once, and I have wine, and my apartment is in perfect shape.
Meanwhile, I've got the old FWB lined up to hang out for a few days when I visit his country during New Year's. This guy wanted to hang out with me every other day, and texts me constantly. I love it. Why can't all guys just automatically be good at these things. Can we send them to finishing schools?
carmen_b
12-22-2018, 05:24 PM
^ That's how J was ! Ugh. Infuriating haha.
I don't want a guy who is passive. Where is the fire ? Where is the " put something hot on, I NEED to see you in an hour " vibe ? Haha.
But hey .... it sounds like you've got a great plan to get him over there and a nice scene set. I'm sure it will work out. ;)
carmen_b
12-22-2018, 05:27 PM
Took me a couple days to write to L ( the resort dwelling movie guy ) . ;)
I wanted to wait until I was settled at a computer and not typing things on my phone. Kept it simple. Didn't proof read or change much as I was nervous and I wanted things to just flow.
One of his other ideas was to share a bottle of champagne at a resort in front of a fireplace.
Does he already know me ? Haha.
carmen_b
12-22-2018, 05:29 PM
Man ...... I meant to come back here and report. Dec. has been so incredibly GOOD to me. I know my November posts had a whiny vibe so I'm just reporting that this month has been awesome. Oddly ..... it was the month I " wasn't dating " . Ha.
Arialandre
12-23-2018, 09:36 AM
Oh my god I feel like I've missed so much with you guys.
I kicked Work Away guy to the curb two (3?) weeks ago because he was just soooo flakey. After 2 weeks (3 weeks?) of no contact he came crawling back with apologies and cash in hand ($150) for me to buy some super cute lingerie that I had had my eye on. I prefer a guy that's willing to put his money where his mouth is because talk is cheap. I've made him zero promises, I told him that I DON'T trust him and that his word means jack to me and that he'll have to prove himself.
But damn straight I took the money he sent me, lol. Now I'm just going to sit back and see how far he's willing to crawl for me. CRAWL BITCH! Hahahaha.
*Oh, and I officially have a sugar daddy now, yay! He's great. He's only a few years older than me, cute, only wants to see me 3 times a month for like an hour, hour and a half and no full sex. Mmmmm, cash. Oh and he said he's going to delete his account because he just wants me. Awwwwww. So obviously I lied my ass off and told him that I want him to be my only sugar daddy. Let's be real lades, I want ALL the money. But to be fair, I'm lazy AF when it comes to my hustle so if I only have one, he really is the only one I want... you know, locally.
carmen_b
12-24-2018, 12:05 AM
Well guys. I had a date lined up who said he got kicked by a cow haha ( cancellation 6 days ago ).
He does work on a farm so I figured it might be true haha.
BUT ...... re-booked him into my calendar Wednesday for yesterday ( Sat. ) and total flaking ensued.
Our date plan was awesome ( Brewery next to my house as usual haha ).
;(
Aw. Bummer. I'm fairly sure he's attached as he has very little availability .
He's a great mix if of intellect ( a librarian ) and brawn ( a cowboy , really ). I've really enjoyed texting him. I should have done that screening phone call or video thing though .... maybe could have caught the creeper vibes sooner. UGH. Haha. Gotta let it go though. I don't tolerate disrespect for my schedule.
Arialandre
12-24-2018, 02:10 AM
Well guys. I had a date lined up who said he got kicked by a cow haha ( cancellation 6 days ago ).
He does work on a farm so I figured it might be true haha.
BUT ...... re-booked him into my calendar Wednesday for yesterday ( Sat. ) and total flaking ensued.
Our date plan was awesome ( Brewery next to my house as usual haha ).
;(
Aw. Bummer. I'm fairly sure he's attached as he has very little availability .
He's a great mix if of intellect ( a librarian ) and brawn ( a cowboy , really ). I've really enjoyed texting him. I should have done that screening phone call or video thing though .... maybe could have caught the creeper vibes sooner. UGH. Haha. Gotta let it go though. I don't tolerate disrespect for my schedule.
Oooo, gotta love brains AND brawn, but damn flakey creepers! So bloody exhausting.
Arialandre
12-24-2018, 05:27 AM
Bahahaha! So Work Away guy asked me how he can make up for his past bad behaviour. So he's going to work a 14 hour shift and then go to bed without any breakfast so that he can prove he can do as he's told, because I said no food for him would make me happy. He's also sending me pic updates.
Oh my god, one day I'm going to write a book on how to break boys. Give me your money and then go to bed hungry! Oh god I'm laughing so hard I'm crying a little bit. }:D
carmen_b
12-24-2018, 02:06 PM
^ What ?! No food !
Just have him take you to a spa for a massage and lick your pussy for an hour. Haha.
Let him eat.